The Price of Pleasure: The Many Ways Men Pay for Sex

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Speaker1: This program contains strong sexual content. No one under the age of 18 is permitted to listen to or download this podcast in any manner. The host, guest, and performers are all over the age of 18. Rebroadcasting the podcast in any manner is strictly prohibited without the written consent of the owners of the Hot Wife podcast. The commentary of this program is the sole opinion of its host or guest and does not reflect that of the opinion of Hot Wife podcast owners, agents, or representatives. This podcast is not meant to be taken as professional advice. Spill the tea, baby, say. Oh, that's nice. That's really nice. Yeah, right, bastard. Yeah, I know. It seems like... Don't want to keep me warm. No, I'm sorry. Yeah, it seems like all of our podcasts seem to... Well, it is the hot wife. Oh, yeah, it's not the cold wife. Although the weather is certainly not warm. Certainly. I can't wait for spring. It's just... That's off to those of you who are living in an area that is warm. God bless you. That's nice. That's really nice. I was on one of my platforms I was chatting with one of the guys who joined the site, and he's in South Florida. And he's like, oh, it's like 75 degrees. I'm like, fuck you, motherfuckers. It's like, you know. Look, your dick shrivels. No, just kidding. Just kidding. And I was like, man, it's, I don't know what the temperature was today. Do you know off the top of your head? It was single digits. Yeah, when I went out to the grocery store, it was a whopping 16. 16, so okay. and she took it down to about zero. Oh, yeah, the wind. Jesus, God, that's the worst. I'm sorry, I wore a skirt. It was blowing right up my skirt. I know, yesterday. My mangina just froze right up. That would teach you to dress sexy. I should have at least worn a thong or something. You should have, man, your mangina just. My mangina just dangled in there and froze right up. Are you trying to be a man whore? Is that what you're trying to do? Yeah. Not working so well. Unemployment. Workman's Comp. Hey, disability. Disability, that's what I was thinking. Yeah, sure. Yeah, that's not good, not good. Yeah, the wind is just whipping. Damn, that's, it's bad enough that it's cold, but when you have that wind, it just, it goes right through you. It's brutal. No escaping it. Mm-mm. Yeah. This is. I mean, it takes me a half hour to get to work. And I have a newer vehicle that works. Great. But it's so bitter cold. Like when I actually start my vehicle up, you know, I have that electronic display. Right. Without exaggeration. Normally, under normal conditions, it boots right up, you know, goes through its process. I wouldn't know about that. I have an old piece of shit. Okay. Well, I'm telling you. Thanks. But right now it's so cold. It takes like a minute and a half before it boots up. It's like, wow, that's cold. Yeah. But it could be worse. It takes me, you know, it's a 30 minute drive. It's 13 and a half miles one way. And literally, I can't take my gloves off until I'm about two-thirds of the way there. It's been so cold. Normally, I get about three miles from here, and I'm like, okay, it's cool. It's nice and warm. No, it's been that fucking cold. I can't drive with gloves on, so what I do is I steer with one hand, I sit on the other one, warm it up, then I switch, and I sit on the other one. Where do you put this hand? Under my butt, under my thigh, sometimes between my legs, but usually... That hand? A sewage hole it goes in? You're so not right. You're so not right. I don't want to touch myself. I really don't. My fingertips even now are cold. I know. Sorry, guys. It's just not sexy. But cold just eliminates any kind of... Cold wife podcast. It's a cold wife podcast. Yeah, it's just been kind of miserable. So it is what it is. When it gets above 30 degrees, 40. It's going to feel like a heat wave. Oh, I'm opening up the pool. Yeah, seriously. 45, I'm dreaming. I'm sunbathing out there. But we still have eight inches of snow with an ice crust on top all over our deck in our yard. It's just not going away. All right. Hey, you know, the last show we talked about, talked about some of your hot dates, sharing how they went. Right, exactly. Did you ever really think about this concept? Okay, I don't know. Maybe. Men always pay for sex. In one way or another, yes, they do. Yeah. I mean... They take a woman out to lunch, dinner, whatever. With you, you have these friends, and technically, if they came over, they wouldn't have to take you out, but they want to. Yeah, it's fun. Take you out for a nice meal or whatever. Right. And then, you know, get to have fun. I'm just a pleasure to be around socially. Let me back this recording up. I don't remember saying that. Maybe you don't, but they do. Yeah, they know they're going to get lucky. For them, it's a sure thing. Okay, let's look at the normal vanilla people. Okay. You ask a woman or a girl out, whatever your age group. Right, right. Okay, you got to generally take them out for dinner. Right. Or a movie or both or whatever. Might not even be the first date. You know, you got to spend some money on them. Yeah, a little bit, sure. The man's goal is to... Get in her pants. There you go. Or get her pants off. Right, whatever. He might be trying them on. Unless he thinks they fit them. Unless it's a fashion thing. I'm not judging then, but go buy your own. Yeah, but I mean, I see this in two different ways. Just because you take a woman out for a dinner doesn't guarantee that you're going to get laid. Okay, let's pretend. Unless you're in the lifestyle, then maybe it is. Let's pretend you're not married. We're in the lifestyle. That's so boring. Okay. All right. I'll have to pretend. Once you date somebody long enough, you'll get in the list. Okay. Shut up. So a person, a man, woman, whatever, asks you out. Are you even naive enough to think, well, they think I'm attractive enough that they want to have sex with me, but we're going to spend a little bit of time and money to get to know each other first? I mean, would you say, no, how about we just fuck? and then we'll go out for dinner or something. If the fucking goes well, I'll let you spend money on me. No, I like to get to know my potential. My fucky. My fuck buddy. Okay, well. But you know what? I'm perfectly happy going Dutch the first time. I'll pay for mine. You pay for yours. Let's see where it goes. I thought you went Greek. That's a whole different thing. Oh, okay. You know, let's just see where things go. I don't need you to spend money on me. to find out what you're about. And having a nice meal is a nice way to break the ice. You know? I mean, you get to have a nice conversation. You have a nice meal. You get to kind of get a sense of the person, a sense of, are they a slob? They chew with their mouth open. They talk with their mouth full. Oh, come on. You just ruined the whole romantic party. You know? Yeah, they're spitting food at you while they're talking. It's like, do I really want to have sex with this guy now? Probably not. I guess you're out of time. Guys that don't want to have sex with this guy. their mouth spitting food. It's like, no, we're not having sex. You really put your foot down on that one. Goddamn right. I know. I'll let you suck my dick, but we're not having sex. Well, how can you find out if they're going to be compatible in the bedroom if you don't have some kind of conversation? Something, some kind of dialogue. Okay, but see, that's the beauty, I think, of the swinger world. We're not looking for compatibility outside of the bedroom. Really, to some degree. To some degree, a little bit. Someone you can be social with. But you're not looking to have a relationship. Oh, yeah. I'm not anything more than just a casual friendship. I mean, these are nice people. I really like my playmates. They're fun. I respect them as human beings. They're good guys, you know, and everything else. But do I want to, like, live with them? Would they want to live with me? No. Big no. No. Uh-uh. No. Uh-uh. No. I don't get out of it. No. Did I mention the word? No. But they're fun to have a meal with or hang with, have drinks with, and then fuck, that's fine. That's all good. I'm over to the pool. We go for a swim. You know, a little... Muff dive. A little muff dive in there, in the deep end. Blowing on a snorkel. Something like... What was that? I said you blow on a snorkel. Oh, blow on a snorkel. Yeah, something like that. Make his periscope go up. Make his periscope. Yeah, other than that, it's like, no. And they won't want to have a relationship with me that way anyway, I'm sure. No, I bet you a couple of them would. Yeah. Yeah. The one gentleman that's one of your regular hot dates. Yeah. I bet you if I've somehow disappeared. Yeah, I can. He'd give you a morning period of like, I don't know. A half hour? Two maybe. Maybe the date I take to the funeral. Yeah, he's definitely a little more compatible to most of them. He's easygoing. He's not very demanding. He's definitely low maintenance. So that's kind of nice. Two children he takes care of. Sure. They're his kids, they're not children. They're adults. They're adult children that he cares for, yeah. Because they're disabled, special needs, sure. So he's definitely a remarkable person. Responsible. Yeah, very responsible. That's very attractive. But yeah, I think in the swinger lifestyle, you don't have to go through all these freaking games to, you know. Have sex. To have sex. It's just like, hey, you're hot. I find you hot. You find me hot. Let's go out for some drinks and that, at the parties. At the house parties, you know. Oh, there's very little conversation going on there. Very, very little. I was standing by the bar and that one girl came over and just started to chat about, we're talking about alcohol and stuff. And she goes, can I suck your dick? And you said, sure. No, that's not how it went, actually. I asked her, I said, hey, would you be interested in going downstairs and playing? She goes, yeah, okay. Now, in a bar, you get your fucking face slapped for that shit, you know. Right, but at a swinger party. It's like, hey, can I buy a drink or do you want to suck my dick? There's all these strings attached. It's not like, if I buy you a drink, you suck my dick. It's like, which one would you prefer to do? And if me buying you a drink is that, how many drinks do I have to buy you until you suck my dick? Yeah. There's too many games in the vanilla world. I just don't have the time or the patience. Maybe because I'm at the age that I am. I can't count that high. Well, I'm sorry to say. I only have. I have a hard time counting that high myself, but I just don't have time. I only have 18 digits. 18 digits. 19, actually. I count one. But you're still missing two digits. Well, I normally have 21, but I'm down to 18. He missed a couple. Oh, he's always just going, I don't have any big toes. You'll notice that when I kick in the ass. I will, because there will be that extra pressure. you're missing from your big toe that would be there when you kick my ass. But it's not there. Luckily, it's, you know, getting lower on the back of your leg, so I don't have to kick it. Oh, God, you're such an asshole. But yeah, just because of the whole, with the vanilla, I just don't have time to play these fucking games. No. I just don't have time. I just, you know, do you want to hang with me? But do you think being in the lifestyle automatically gives you potentially fuckable credits? So, like, you go to a bar, like, I'm just picking a bar at random, okay, a bar. And a guy or guys, you know, start mingling with you, you know, versus if you're at a swinger party and those same guys came up to you, let's say, were equivalent thereof. Right, right. Which ones would you be more likely to want to play with if they were all of equal looks? Oh, come on. Swinger guys, come on. Why? Why? Because, first of all, vanilla guys, this is probably a stereotype, and I'm really sorry, because I just feel like vanilla guys are like, oh, we're just going to do this, and then you're going to do this. But, like, swinger guys have had a lot more experiences outside of their realm, whether they're into that or not. How about the aspect, tell me if this is attractive to you or not. Oh, I'd be popping a lot of cherries, wouldn't I, with vanilla guys. No, no, I don't think. Oh, yeah, well, how many of them, like, didn't have anal, wouldn't be into a threesome? You don't know. Yeah, exactly. No, but what I'm saying is, depending, I guess, if you're looking for a relationship or not, I would think the vanilla guys in a bar are looking for someone potentially more to hook up with to be in a relationship with, whereas swinger guys are like, hey, let's just go have some fun. Yeah, yeah, that's true, that's true. Yeah, so it depends on what you're interested in. And yeah, if you're looking for a relationship, yeah, the whole, going through the whole ritual of buying the meal and the courtship and the, I guess it's all part of the forming a relationship. But I just think swinger guys are definitely a little more easy to, easy to get along with. There's a lot more, they're just, there's, there's not, that they're not looking for a relationship. So you can have fun with them. If you're looking for a relationship, then, I mean, I'm not saying swinger, single guys aren't necessarily looking for a relationship. Right. I'm sure some of them would love to have one. Yeah, because they can get to a lot more parties if they have a partner. Oh, then there's that. You know, single guys kind of get bastardized. You know, they get shunned, definitely. Some of them earn it. Some have. I agree. It's the bad apple have, you know, ruined it for everybody but well i've told angelina she's recently joined a swinger site oh and i told her that you're going to come across some really nice guys and you're going to come across some really assholes yep and you know and then she like calls me it's like oh my god this guy's a fucking asshole wow it's like i told you block them that's it that's not her nature her nature is to make a big deal out of it yeah whatever um but then she's It's like, oh my God, this one guy is so cool, blah. It's like, yeah. You're going to find the cool guys, too. I mean, you're going to find that in any realm, whether you're going to a bar or, I don't know, wherever you're going to pick up people. I don't know, a library or something like that, a county fair, a livestock auction, something like that. Get a livestock auction. Don't judge where I meet my first wife. Was she the one being one of the ones? It's being auctioned off. Yeah. Nothing. What? I didn't say anything. Her name was Sue. Anyway. Here, pig. Hey, you married her. I didn't. Do I rub your mistakes in your nose? No, I don't. In your nose? No. Do I rub your nose in your mistakes? That's right. Have another drink, dear. Okay, sure. If you're forcing me. Well, I just think. There we go. Working without tools. I know. I just think like swinger guys are. They don't need the whole facade and the whole shenanigans of trying to get a girl in bed. They can be honest. They can be like, hey, you're hot. This is what I'm into. Are you into the same thing? I think you're hot. I'd like to fuck you or like to. As a swinger guy. Right. You know, you can go to a swinger party. Right. You can be yourself. Sure. Hopefully you're a decent person. Right. And, you know, again, we talked about spending money to get sex. Right. Well, if you're at a swinger party, generally it's a BYOB thing. Yes. You just bring your alcohol. She might have brought her own. Right. Yeah. You sit there and have a drink and talk for a little bit. And inside of a half an hour. Yeah. You sit there and go, hey, would you like to go play? You both came there to get laid. Probably more than likely. You go to a bar. Right. You pick up someone. They're going to want you to buy them some drinks. Right. This is maybe a selling point for a swinger lifestyle. I don't know. I think it's a big one. Yeah. So, you know, that you're dealing with women who are in the game to get laid. At swingers? Yes. Yes. More than likely, yes. You know, so you're going to spend less. A lot less. But, you know, and again. And the strings attached, generally speaking. You're not gonna have somebody, you know, hounding you and, oh, where were you? I thought we had, oh, I love you. The one thing I want to say is, if you get into the swinger lifestyle and you're a single male, don't assume because they're a swinger that they're going to fuck you. That's true. Okay, there is no guarantee. No, no still means no, you can't say no. You're a swinger. You have to fuck me. You fuck everybody. Look, I have the card. It says I'm a swinger. You know, it's still not no is no. Still no is no, absolutely. But mostly women are more open to that. The game is less. Oh, it's a lot less game. Yeah, you're not, you know, it's like, oh, how about we go out next Tuesday night and then, oh, yeah, okay, well, you know, oh, I got to go to work early tomorrow. It's like, you know. Yeah, I won't say there's no games being played. I'll just say there's less games. And the other thing is, inside the swinger lifestyle, you can find a hot woman and she's married and, It doesn't matter. You could sit there and go up to her husband, hey, would you mind if I take your wife in the other room and like, you know, bang the shit out of her? You know, make her a cream-filled donut? Oh, yeah, go have fun. Yes, I mean. But then, gee, that's you have to come back for me. Sometimes. Do unto her as you do unto me. Well, that is fair. No, son. I think the problem with Angelina is that she's. We don't have time for that. No, we don't. But I think she's still thinking like in the vanilla world, The Swinger website is like a dating website. Yeah, I think she still thinks like this is like she's trying to think that they're going to have her commit to a relationship. Right. No, probably not. And not that they're just going to bang you and throw you to the sun. You're going to be a friend with benefits. It's a friend with benefits. I really, I don't like to think that the guys that I fuck, I just fucking like, oh, I'll never see you again. No, they text me like, oh yeah, they were just lousy lays anyway. So what's, no harm, no foul there. I don't need that. But the ones that I have, like the guys that I have on a regular basis, you know, they text me, hey, how are you doing? You know, what's going on? How come you blocked my text? Well, because you're not part of my stable for sex. Apparently. Okay, just checking. I know. Kind of got that hint. I wasn't sure. You weren't sure? The restraining order was slightly. The restraining order, shut up. Protection order. You're so foolish. So foolish. Now, I mean, we have, they're nice guys. I don't have a problem. You know, text me, hey, what's going on, you know, socially or whatever, but again, they don't want to live with me. I don't want to live with them. I don't want falling in love with them. I know. You're stuck with me, babe. Sorry. You're stuck with me. He said help. Shut up. If this isn't videotape, you can't put a sign or blink your eyes so everybody can read what you're, you know. Look for the signal flare. Please send help. Shut up. You're a captive in my dungeon. She just admitted it. Call the authorities. Shut up. Yeah, so I guess to wrap it up kind of, yes, in this vanilla world, you have to go through these rituals and games and whatever. to see if a woman will, A, fuck you or have a relationship with you, whatever your game plan is, where people in the lifestyle are just like more, they're more honest with their raw sexual desires. Sure. They're not playing the game of, oh, I really love you, and all they really want is sex. Yeah, that's one sure way of getting someone to stop fucking you in the lifestyle is say, I love you. I love you. Yeah, they're pretty much gone. But you have friends that you can say, I use air quotes that you say you love. You might have people that you love or you're fond of. It depends in the context in which you say I love you. Right, right. Like Angelina and I, we always say I love you. I love you. You know, and that's it. That's it. It's not like, oh, baby, you know. Yeah, that would definitely be a crazy train right there. Sorry to say. Good Lord, she's a whirlwind. I'd be a basket case. If you were ever like insane enough. I love her as a dear friend. She is definitely a dear friend. She's good on the eyes but oh my god that's a runaway roller coaster man. There's no rails there. It's all over the place. It's a nuclear powered roller coaster. It's just going to go on forever in every direction and you can't stop that fucker. No. Yeah. But there's a lot of guys that are like I want to ride that crazy train. It's like, yeah, no doubt. But man, she'll fuck you. You don't fuck her. She fucks you. Outside looking in, I see that. I get that. I get it. I'm on the inside. You don't know. There's a lot of... It's a rodeo. If you can stay on there for eight seconds, God bless you. Yeah, God bless you. You're going to get bruised and beat up and you might get your skull crushed. That's only a slight exaggeration. I wasn't exaggerating. Yeah, that's true. But I was editing some of the older video she had with a very nice young man, and she's smacking him like, you're a bad boy. You're a bad boy. And then she's like, you know, I mean, it's just all of a sudden she just starts smacking him and scratching him. And I'm like, what is it with you that she has this like passive aggressive lovemaking? I don't get it. MMA sex. That's a good way to MMA sex. Her bed should be a fucking octagon ring. Oh my God. You know, it's just like, you know, in this corner we have. We have Angelina. She will fuck you up. In this corner we have some poor bastard that will never make it out a lot. But he's got a hard dick and he really wants to fuck her. Yeah, I, yeah, it's, it's, yeah, man, she's. He's tapping out in eight seconds. I'm telling you. But she doesn't care. He can tap out all she wants until she's done with you. He's tapping out. Yeah, like I said, he. He's going to destroy the ref too. Yeah, it doesn't matter. There is no tapping. out with her. You are on there for the ride. If you do not strap in, she will definitely bronco you off. And we're not exaggerating. I wish I was. I'm not exaggerating. No, man. She pisses on him. This is the fantasy woman that you think about. Like, oh, man. Oh, he's wild. Who can't stop fucking me. Oh, yeah. No. If you like being beaten, smacked, pissed on. You might wind up in a coma. You might wind up in a coma afterwards. Maybe. the rest of your life. Yeah, maybe. If you come out of it, she's coming back for round two. You know? And that's a threat, not a promise. That really isn't. Yeah, like, I mean, like that one shower scene, she just gets the young man and she pulls close and she just starts pissing on him. Now, it's in the shower. Actually, it was pretty hot, but it was like, so it is. My opinion, pissing on someone is never hot. It looked pretty hot in the shower. No? You don't think so? Not to me. Not to me. That's my opinion. I don't have a problem with it. In the shower, it's okay. You drink a lot of water. You're a piece of shit. I'm going to piss on you. Yeah, I piss on my enemies' graves. Okay? I don't piss on my piece of ass. It's like, oh my God, baby, you're so hot. I just want to take a picture. I'm going to kiss you all over and touch your body and lick that pussy and I'm going to piss all over you. Come on. It's like, wow, that just destroyed it all. But that's how she is. She's so manic with that. I'm going to choke the fuck out of you. Oh, yeah. I'm going to rip your fucking clothes off. I'm going to piss all over you. Then I'm not going to fuck you because you smell like piss. I'm going to degrade you, humiliate you. Tell you, what the fuck? You smell like piss, you dirty son of a bitch. Smack you, bite you. Anyway. So anyway. Yeah. To sum it up, men have to pay for sex. Money sometimes is with a pound of flesh. Sometimes. Yeah. But anyway. All right. Info at HotWavePodcast.com. Let's just get off of this crazy train. Love to hear your comments on this stupid show. But anyway. Love to hear from you. Thank you all for listening. Again, we do appreciate everyone who does listen. We're very humbled by that. Tell your friends if they are bored and want to listen to something that will help them sleep. And 50shadesofpleasure.com. Check out the free magazine. And if you want to see who, what, where, and what Donna is doing. Hot Wife Donna Lynn. And actually on some of my less particular platforms that don't require a lot of, that allow us to get away with more, you can see Angelina in some of her most aggressive sex. Sex. Okay, erotically aggressive. Erotically aggressive. It's still very sexy, but man, it's like, oh. Yeah. Not for the faint of heart. Not for the faint of heart. You're going to have to sign a release to see it. Proof of age. Something like that. You know. I even took the ones that were little. You have to have it signed by your therapist that you're in therapy, so you'll be okay afterwards. Yeah, check her out, man. I even have some teasers up there. I try to get things that are not so aggressive, and it was very difficult to do. Very difficult. We're powered rollercoaster. It's off the tracks. It's not stopping. Nope. Not anytime soon. All right. So with all that said, again, thank you all for listening. Stay safe. Stay healthy. Stay horny. Stay horny.