The Art of Polite Rejection

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now, let's heat things up. Hello everybody, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wipe Podcast. Of course, I'm here with my ever-wonderful husband, Vince. Ever-wonderful. Ever-wonderful. Always wonderful. Somewhat wonderful. Not so wonderful. So full of bullshit wife. Well, that could be true. No, you are very wonderful, dear. Okay, as long as you think so. I do. I do. I appreciate that. Thank you. Oh, you're welcome. Yes. What happened to summer? I don't know. It's cold. I was thinking when we got in here, I was like, oh, why should I really pull in some warmer clothing? I guess shorts aren't cutting it. That's not where we need to be with the show. You've got more clothing. Yeah, I know. Less clothing. It's too gosh darn cold. I'm looking at the thermometer you have here, and it's like 69 in here, which should be nice, but it's what, 65 outside? Well, it's going to drop down in the 40s tonight. I know. This is August. This is August, yeah. This should be the dog days of summer. I mean, I don't want like giant heat waves, but I want to be able to swim in the pool. The water was 76 today. Yeah. 76. Balls go back up into your body cavity. I'll get in when it's 78, but the air's got to be really warm. Yeah. Something like that. But, oh well. So. Yes. I came up with today's topic from the aspect of, you know, we get a lot of people on the Swinger site we're on, SOS, swinglifestyle.com. Right. That, you know, we get people reach out to us want to meet and play and everything else. And there's people that, you know, I respond like, oh, yeah, it'd be great. I'd love to meet you, you know, whatever. And there's people that wouldn't necessarily be bad to meet, but they're too far away. Okay, they're too far away. All right. They might be, like, had someone reach out to us from Virginia. And it's just like, come on, we're not really going to, you know, we're not in a situation where we can drive, you know, halfway or whatever, just to meet someone that you don't know if you're going to like. Exactly. You can see all these pictures could be faking and get there and get ghosted. That would really piss me off. Another aspect was the... They're not who they say they are. Well, the pictures they had weren't, like, appealing. I'll put it that way. Oh, okay. And by no means do I think, no, I do think I'm pretty goddamn hot. Okay. Of course you do, dear. I mean. I don't think so. No one else will. But anyway, there's a select few, but they're drunk. But, you know, so there's people that like, okay, it's like, really, you know, you're too far away. You're not going to want to drive all that all the way to us because we don't want to drive anywhere. You know, we don't want to. Yeah. Plain and simple. Today's world, I don't want to drive more than I have to. Exactly. Not to mention, if you want to have them on the podcast and have fun with it, I don't want to pack up all the equipment. We can have people call in. That's not an issue. Oh, that's true too. Okay. To meet people and then all of a sudden, again, one of the instances we've had when we meet people is all of a sudden it's like, whether it be us or them, it's like, uh, you know, Yeah, like that one incidence where the husband kissed you and was like, oh, that's great. Can't wait. The wife came over and gave you a hug and a kiss. He shook my hand and she just walked away. Yeah, that was pretty rude. That was... I'm not driving 100 miles. Or more, right. Or whatever. I'm just going to say 100 for lack of a better term. Right. To be treated like that or whatever. To be rejected. Whatever. Nor do I want to do that, drive that far to reject them. Right, exactly. Okay. And then there's people People, obviously, like some single males, that they don't approach contacting us in the most mature manner. Right. Hey, man, I'll fuck your wife. It's like, wow, that's not what my profile said at all. Thanks for reading. It wasn't, you know, help wanted. Need someone to fuck my wife. Dick does not work. I need someone to... You know what I'm saying? No, it's not that at all. It's not that at all. I don't understand that response that doesn't make any sense to me because it is very rude and I think you're right for rejecting them outright don't be delicate about it in all fairness when I reach out to another couple generally it's just something very polite usually I comment people if I say anything generally I don't I can't write anything to anybody, but if I notice a couple's profile and they have really nice photographs, I comment like, hey, your photos are very well done. You know, stunning subjects and photos. Something like that. Very complimentary. You know, and there's been times I've heard back like, oh, thank you. You know, your photos are gorgeous too or whatever. Then there's times I hear nothing back. So the topic is, with all that said, is what's the best way to Reject? I want to use that word. How about handling rejection, whether you're giving it or getting it? I can handle it. I'm used to it my whole life. Well, they'll be both sides. How do you handle rejecting someone, and how do you handle being rejected? Okay, being rejected or rejector. Yeah, okay, you can put it that way, absolutely. What do you think are the best methods? So, I'll tell you my way. Okay. Of the first one, okay? So, especially single men, if they're Someone that is less than appealing. Right. Someone that is kind of rude. Yeah, okay. All right, the rude there. Or someone that doesn't have pictures open. Oh, okay. And they're like, oh, we need to meet and fuck. Well, first we're getting blocked for that. Yeah, you get an incident block, sorry. And then if you don't have any pictures open or don't have any pictures in your profile at all, either way, with no pictures or no pictures open, you automatically get blocked. There's no conversation to be had. No. We're not playing this game. No. No, I don't blame you. Absolutely. Do you feel that's a good way to handle that? Sure. Yeah, absolutely. I mean, they don't know necessarily that I blocked them. They just know. Just all of a sudden, we're not visible to them. Yeah, whatever happened to that couple? You know, you could just say, open up your pictures or put some pictures up. It's in our profile. That's true. Our profile says, we will not respond to you without photos in your profile and hopefully having some open. We don't need to see the private ones, but you've got to have pictures. Yeah, just nice. If you're adult enough to play in this game, we've said this before. Right. Then you're adult enough to have pictures. Right. If you want to keep your public pictures with, you know, the stupid smiley face covering your identity, fine. Fine. But, you know, open up your personal picture, your private picture. Right. Or personal, whichever. There's private and there's personal. I don't know which is which. Whichever. Whichever one is. Put some face pictures. A lot of couples do that. They have a thing in the personal, I think it is, that are just face pictures that, you know, you can lock, but you have to get permission from people to see it. Right. That's fine. Do that. But, you know, it's like, okay, this is about, you know, we have to make sure that part of the aspect, since we're not trying to, you know, date you and get married, is that there is a physical attraction to some degree. Yeah, I get it. You know. And the thing is, it's like if these, the guys, I think the guys are, the single guys are definitely more apt to do something. They're not reading our profile. If they're just like, hey, baby, let's meet and fuck, they're not reading the profile, especially if they don't have pictures. You don't, if you don't read our profile, then everything's off because what we have in our profile is what we expect when people reach out to us. This, this is what we want out of this relationship. However you want to define the relationship, this is what we want. If you just get on, hey, let's meet and fuck, well, and you have no pictures, guess what? It's null and void right from the get-go, so you're going to get blocked. Why would we waste our time? You know, I mean. Well, and this goes for everybody. Yeah. I mean, you know, if someone contacts you, I mean, I'd be interested in hearing, you can email us at info at hotwifepodcast.com. Let us know if you have a better way or how you handle rejecting or being rejected. We'll get into that. But yeah, it's... Sometimes I even... Like, there was a gentleman who reached out to us today. And relatively local. I would say in our age group. Okay. Not overly appealing. And again, by that, I might have to... I don't have to get turned on by... The individual. But it has to be some dynamic that like, oh, I think I'd like to see Donna play with him. Yeah, that's the dynamic you're looking for. So he seemed nice enough. I mean, his introduction was really nice and everything else. But again, I said to him, and he wants to take us out for a drink or coffee or whatever. And he says, oh, it's going to be my treat. Well, that's very nice. Unlike someone else we met more recently. Took them out. Not only do we have to pay for lunch, but then we had to drive him home. Right. We didn't even get a thank you out of it. No. I was like, hmm. It's okay. He didn't get anything else. But anyway, so I told him, I said, listen, you know, with the holiday, with Labor Day coming up and everything, let's get through Labor Day and then we'll see about coordinating, meeting for a drink sometime. He goes, oh, that'd be great. Keep me posted. So that was kind of one way. I don't reject, but put them off. Put them on a shelf for like, we'll decide later. Right, right. Yeah, there's a couple ways of doing that whole, like a soft rejection. Like, you know, our schedules are really busy right now. You know, the work schedule is kind of crazy. You know, can we get back to you? And then, you know, you just kind of put them off, which is kind of, that's kind of a, you know, lame thing to do. too. But if you don't click with them, you don't click with them. Why would I want to have sex with somebody I'm not clicking with? Well, see, again, like this gentleman wasn't somebody that I would be opposed to seeing you with. Right. But it'd be like, okay, how do you feel about it? You know? Right. Exactly. I'd have to see that. And if you sit there and go, if you sit there and tell me, no, he's, you know, he looks great. You know, then that's okay. Because again, part of my arousal is my arousal. Exactly. Well, here's the thing. Sometimes there are guys that don't necessarily have the greatest physique. Stop staring at me. Sorry, I'll look away. But their personalities definitely make up for it. Sure. Yeah. And there might be like, there have been a couple guys that, you know, visually they just weren't quite clicking. They weren't bad. But it was their personalities that really won me over. Sure. So I have to go by that. I have to like, you know, meet somebody. If somebody has a lot of sexual energy and they're a lot of fun, then, you know, whether they're, you know, maybe a little bit too heavy, maybe to this, maybe whatever. Again, looking at me. I'm looking away. I'm looking away. You know, their personality makes up for it. Yeah. I mean, and to boot for it, you know, more recently, we've had a couple of gentlemen recently. You had a few gentlemen. Oh, you didn't have any? Yeah, I've had none. He makes that abundantly clear every time. But, you know, they were visually attractive. Right. Have decent personality, but man, that was. I mean, like recently, recently. Yeah. But there was no real. No real dynamic in. Sparks at all. Nothing. Nothing sexually dynamic. And we got to shoot video with him. You got to shoot video with him. And it's just like. Wow. I thought I was fucking. I could watch this and go to sleep. Yeah, it was really, it was not the greatest. And I'm trying to like, you know, like, you know, talk it up and, you know. Yeah. And it just wasn't, and we got to the point where like the one gentleman I know exactly who you're talking about, he didn't even, well, there's a lot of things he didn't do. Yeah. He didn't give oral to women. That was a big. We talked about him on another show. Yeah, on another show. I was like, wow, maybe I should have just said, oh, I don't get blowjobs, sorry. Well, you had already sucked his dick. Yeah, I know. I was like, really? Oh, I don't do that. I was like, what are you in third grade? If you're going to shoot video, you might want to bring that out beforehand. Right. I'm just saying. We do. You know, if you sit there and say, listen, I have a, you know, beforehand, if you say, well, I suffer from a chronic gas, you might tell that before the video. So maybe you go, maybe I don't want to do this. Maybe I shouldn't have my face in your ass. You know, shoot video, you know. Although that could be a fetish. Farting is a fetish. Farting is a fetish. Well, you know what? We do ask, like, what are you into? And we never get, like, a lot of times, I say 99% of the time, we don't get, like, actual, hey, I really like to suck on feet. I'm really into this. They're just like, oh, no, the usual. I just like to, you know, suck and fuck. And it's like, oh, okay. They're never really forthcoming with their... An application. Pick things you like and select things you don't like. It's almost like a. Here's a word problem. If Donna is riding your dick, do you keep your hands A, by your side, B, on her hips, C, with your fingers in your ear, or D, holding your nose? Wait a minute. I'm just, yeah. Hypothetical. Of course, yeah, of course. That's what you, yeah, that was, he was definitely more stoic. I'll use the word stoic. And he's a young guy. You would be thinking, he'd be trying everything under the sun, man. Like, hey, I want to swing from the chandeliers. Oh, yeah. And I want to put a party horn in my ass when I come. I'll, you know, toot the horn. Yeah, like when he came, he was like, I'm going to come. I was like, Be verbal. I want to know. I want to hear. I know he does nothing orally. Oh. Yeah, he's not a bad-looking guy. He's got a nice, you know. He had a big schwanz. Yeah, it was nice. It was very, you know. It was long. It wasn't girthy. It wasn't, yeah. But it was still very comfortable, you know. So he had that going for him. That was visually alluring. But the fact that he just laid there with this fucking, you know. a big worm on his fucking crotch. His big worm, that almost went up to his nipples. Yeah, when he's laying on his back, it's above his belly button. I'm like, damn, give me a dick that big, and I'll show you how to fucking use it. I mean, let God give me a dick. It's a good thing you explained that. Here's that penis for you. Let's see what you can do with it. Work your magic, mister. I don't know. Yeah, there's, I was editing the video after you gave it to me and I was just, you know, looking at him. But you're right, his hands were like down by his side as I'm straddling him. He didn't. Yeah, he didn't want to touch anything. It was just, just get your pussy on my dick and I'll go in and out and. Then I'm going to have to scrub my penis very well because it touched that thing you pee out of. I don't pee out of my vagina. It's the general region. Okay, it is the general region. I'll give you that. But that would be like me saying, well, I'm not going to touch your dick because you literally pee out of the same shaft that your cum comes out of. I'll put my dick in your ass, but I'm not going to eat your pussy because you pee out of that. Two plus two is 17. Okay, I got you. It's like, what would you rather having your mouth a little bit of pee or poop. I don't know. I'm afraid to ask that question. I should. Depends on my mood. Yeah, but, you know, as far as being rejected, I mean, the great pleasure I've had is being rejected in person. Yeah, I know. Because, again, we don't really, I'll use the term solicit, and that's wrong, approach other couples via, you know, But generally, unless a couple reaches out to us and is like, hey, we're Bob and Sue. We'd love to meet you guys. And it's like, oh, okay. And then it never happens, but whatever. Because then they finally read the profile and they get to the part like, oh, they're content creators and they want to videotape. Oh, no. Somebody might recognize the mole I have above my left nipple. My boss might recognize a tattoo on the inside of my vagina that gets the ace of spades. Your boss Okay, that's an interesting, how would your boss know that? Yeah, so if your boss knows you have that tattoo by your snatch, I don't think he's going to be really surprised that you shoot porn. Yeah. Whatever. Yeah, probably. I've been wrong about other things. Yeah, that's true. I've been wrong about more. But no, I think, I also think that, quietly blocking people because you kind of just disappear. Right. It's better than going, listen, I'm sorry, you're not our type, you know, whatever. Because then people, I mean, I think that hurts your feelings more. Yeah. Then all of a sudden, if you just disappear, where'd they go? Yeah, they might think, oh, they took their sight down or whoever. Yeah, that's probably the easiest way. Just avoid them at all costs. Yeah, I mean, we don't want to hurt people. feelings, but I mean, you go to a restaurant, you're not necessarily going to like everything on the menu. True, true. And we try to be open-minded. We try to, you know, not go by, not be superficial and just judge people in the physical. I mean. Yeah, no, we're not trying to do that, but. I want somebody to be fun to have sex with. And if they're like not. Into anything. It's a personal thing. Yeah, it is. You want to find someone that you. find attractive and, you know, has some level of allure. Yeah, and I want somebody who's not going to just lay there like a zombie. I'm sorry, okay, I'm tired, it was a long day. Long day. Keep bringing it up. I want somebody that's going to be... Not your husband? No, not at all. Oh my God, no, absolutely not. It's actually... I shouldn't tell you this because then you'll get a big head. It's actually more enjoyable when we get together afterwards. It's like, ah, now that's how you eat a pussy. That's how I like it done. I've been trying to... You don't have to tell me that. I know that. Yeah, you do. I know. But I think... You hear me. I even try to instruct him. Now take your tongue and you do this and flick it on my head. No, no, don't do that. Don't do that. No, that's not really enjoyable. That was... I was like... I don't remember. That was him. That was the young guy. No, it wasn't him. It was the other young guy. He was moving his face back and forth. He was saying, no, no. It's like, no, you should be going, yes, yes. Yeah, he was eating my pussy, but he's got his tongue in there. Some people might like this, but he was taking his head and vigorously shaking it back and forth. My pussy goes up and down, not back and forth. And if you have facial hair or any kind of nubs, it's like a freaking sandpaper, Brillo pad. I'm like, no, go the other way. Leave your face still, just use your tongue. Don't even move your face. Don't even just use the tongue. Or if you're going to use your tongue or use your face, go up and down, go up and down. Not side to side, but he kept going side to side. He's like, no, you're going to rub off my pussy. I move my tongue that way sometimes, but I don't move my head. You don't move your head. That's fine if you use your tongue. You also have a, you need, this is getting off the topic, you need a lot of saliva, but not too much saliva. Like you told me that the old girlfriend you had, she married a guy who could not eat pussy and all he did was slobber all over the place. That's what she tells me. That's not what I want either, but you need that lubricant. And if you don't have enough saliva, like I don't, I don't think I eat pussy that great because I don't have a lot of saliva. You have to bring more girls over and I'll teach you. Oh, okay. That's a deal. That could work. I can go ahead and teach you. I'm sure you could. I also don't have the endurance, but that's something that you just do. Well, you don't have the endurance I have. I don't have the endurance you have. But few people do, apparently. Apparently. Like, I'm good for, you know, I don't know, maybe 15 minutes. You're like an hour and a half, two hours later, and 75 orgasms. Well, last time Jay was here, it was two and a half hours. It was, because you guys were in the bedroom, and I did landscaping. I mowed the lawn. Hey, you guys having fun? Celebrated your birthday. Yeah, I'm going to go and do food shopping. You kids have fun. I'll be back in a couple hours. Yeah, then she couldn't walk straight. No, no, I should have drive home. That was terrible. Yeah. Well, not, it's terrible in a good way. Terrible. Yeah. But yeah, I mean, as far as the rejection goes, I mean, there's got to be like a nice way to just, just. I honestly think it's just. Just blocking. The block. If you're, if, if the site you're on has, the availability to block. I think that's the best way. Yeah, I'm, I'm, I think you're right. I mean, there's a lot of websites that kind of give you like, um, examples of what to do and all that goes back to like, you know, be honest, but kind. And it's like, you can, but I don't want to have a debate like why I share sex with them. Before I really started blocking people, I used to say blocking just for the real assholes. I would sit there and, you know, just keep putting people off, putting people off, until eventually they kind of got the hint. Yeah, it seems like. It's like, oh, well, next month we're free. You know what, this month filled up. You had called me yesterday. Uh-huh. Yeah, there's one gentleman I had shot with, and he just is another one. put this. He's not a bad-looking guy, but he doesn't have that sexual energy that I'm looking for. He's very droll. He says he's a comedian, but he's not. Oh, that gentleman. Yeah. And he reached out. He actually bought him. He's the most unfunny comedian I've ever heard. Yeah, I would say. Yeah, that's pretty much rounds it up pretty good. But he actually bought a membership to my OnlyFans. I had to answer him because otherwise I'd be kind of a jerk. And I was like, oh, you know, my work schedule's been crazy. I said I had surgery and, you know, I'm actually putting up materials that we did before this surgery because, you know, I can't shoot. It's really kind of true. It is kind of true, but it's like, oh, he goes, oh, I'd like to come over. I had so much fun. I'm like, dude, when you were here. Thanks for one of us. Well, God, I don't want to be a jerk about it, but he wasn't that much fun. I didn't think he was having fun. I really didn't think he was having fun, so why? It was very robotic. Very stiff. Well, that helps. Yeah, that's not what I meant. The ones that you enjoy the most are ones, one, that can perform properly, two, that kind of get into it. Yeah. And three, are really interested in you. Yeah. And rightfully so. I'm not saying like, well, geez, your demands are, you know. Well, I'm not going to have sex with somebody I'm not interested in that I'm not, you know. But we're married, so. Shut up. I'm talking about you. I have to be interested in you. Oh. That makes me feel so much better. So much better. No, you're not in, if I'm not into them, it just makes the whole experience less desirable. And if you're not into them, they don't get to get into you. That's a good way to put it. That's a t-shirt. But, yeah. Yeah, how do you politely say, politely say, no thank you? Yeah. You know? Don't know. Yeah, it's a tough one. I mean, I think the best way is just to quietly block them and then they just don't know. Just avoid it at all costs. Run away. Wanted at all possible. Yeah, because they're going to be like, well, why don't you like me? You know, I mean, I don't want to have to go through that and be like, well, you're just not my cup of tea. Well, the first important part is, first of all, I'm not married to you. Right, right. You're just a play thing. Yeah. And I get to pick my toys. I get to pick my toys. Yeah, and they get to pick their toys, and I might not be a part of it, which is fine. If they're looking for a tall, you know, dark-haired beauty, that's not going to be me. You know, with the Mediterranean, you know, Not even close. Not even close. You know? Yeah, so I mean, again, be respectful. Be polite. You know, most of all, don't think you're the end-all, be-all. Right, but still, you shouldn't feel bad for wanting somebody that really trips your trigger, that you're going to have a connection with. No, and some people, men and women, are going to think that they are all that. Right. You know, and I'm not saying that's right, but that's kind of what they do. We have met people like that. And then they don't understand that, you know, it's like, well, I think I'm sexy. Why don't you think I'm sexy? It puts a lotion in the basket, you know. I'm too sexy for my cat. Leave that to who. I said Fred. I don't know. I said Fred, right. But yeah, Yeah, it's just be respectful, be nice. I mean, rejection for everybody is tough. Yeah, it sucks. It's like going to that job interview and I'm saying, and they give you like all these compliments, you know, and then at the end they're like, but you didn't get the job. But we're moving forward in our search for the perfect applicant. And that's what it's kind of like. It is kind of like doing a, you know, it's kind of like a resume. Sure, it's auditions. Yeah, it is kind of like an audition. Sure. And what you put up on the Swinger website is like your- Oh, that's the idea of whether you're shooting content or not. Right, exactly. Yeah, your ideal situation generally is to find a, you know, you might like to play with a lot of variety, but you want to find the core team. Right. You want to find some regulars that, you know, trip your trigger and everything else. Right, right. buttons you need pushed. Right, right. No, you're absolutely right. Instead of having so many that you're trying to get used to them, I never, I like having like a half a dozen guys that I, I know what their, their hot buttons are. I wanted to say I'm swallowing my bourbon and I wanted to say at once at that time that I could. I'm like, I know, I know. Well, the gentleman that reached out to me today was like, oh, I'd like to, he goes, I, I, I had some more experiences with, you know, group sex and, you know, male, female, male. I'd like to get you with another black guy and blah. I'm like, well, who is going to be this other black guy? You know, I can't just like, hey, you know, call somebody up and have them come over. Yeah, we've experienced how many guys don't want to be part of it. Don't want to be part of it. And not that they have to sword fight or touch the other guy. No. They just don't want, you know. They don't want to be in the same, maybe it bothers their. I'm not really comfortable with that either. Oh, you don't, like, walk around with your dick swinging in the breeze, you know? You don't do that? No. Come on. You know, a poet once said this, no. No. Yeah, that was it. That was it? I don't know what poet that was, but okay. I'm sure every poet said no once in their lifetime. Once in their lifetime, that's for sure. I didn't say he wrote a poem called No. No, he just said no once in his life. Yeah, so, yeah. Yeah, so I have to go through this whole rejection thing with this guy, and I'm just not sure how to approach it exactly. Like I said, he joined my OnlyFans, so it's going to be hard to block him. He paid for a membership. We'll talk about it off air. Yeah, I know. Oh, my goodness. All right. Well, if you want to see who and what Donna is doing. Oh, hotwifedonnalyn.com, all the platforms I am on. And I spend most of the day posting stuff. So I've got new stuff going up every day. Yeah. On Monday, Labor Day, the new issue, the September issue of Fifty Shades of Pleasure, we come out. So go to 50pleasures.com. Enjoy the free publication. Some good articles, hopefully. You know, it's free. Free is good. If anybody wants to contribute stories, articles, let us know. Or ideas for topics. That would be fun. Whatever. Again, you want to reach out to us. Info at Hot Wife Podcast. We want to thank all of you. Since we've come back, our numbers are rapidly increasing again. So I want to thank you all for that. Again, new listeners, old listeners. Info at Hot Wife Podcast. Love to hear from you. We will return your email. We're pretty good about that. My favorite cookie has been writing to us. I haven't told me anything about his antics. Back into the cuckold world, man. He's got his... Maybe next show. We've got to have him. He doesn't want to come on. Next show, we'll talk about... He just posted a question about he wants to get into the lifestyle so he can expand his cuckolding. He asked us a question there, so we'll talk about that next show. Oh. Yeah, you know, if you put out that in your profile and you put that out there and people are interested in that, you will definitely be able to experience You might be better off. Oh, FetLife. FetLife, yeah. Something like that. FetLife is definitely more geared toward people that do have the... Fetishes. The fetishes. Yeah, the more obscure fetishes. You better spend money. Yeah, I think so. And is there anything else? No, just again, I want to thank everyone. We really appreciate your listening. And, you know, happy Labor Day and stay horny. Have a great night, everybody.