In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince delve into the intricacies of relationships and intimacy, focusing on the allure of pre-cum and the dynamics of bodily fluids during sexual encounters. They explore the eroticism associated with pre-cum, contrasting it with the experience of orgasm, and share personal anecdotes that highlight the nuances of pleasure and connection in their lifestyle. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into the intricacies of intimacy, pleasure, and the dynamics of open relationships. They explore the importance of communication during intimate moments, the allure of swinging versus a vanilla lifestyle, and the challenges of navigating desires such as pegging. The discussion emphasizes the significance of openness and acceptance in relationships, highlighting how these elements contribute to a fulfilling sexual experience. Ultimately, the speakers reflect on their own relationship and the complexities of dating outside their lifestyle.TakeawaysThe podcast emphasizes adult themes and personal opinions.Pre-cum is viewed as a sign of arousal and intimacy.Bodily fluids can enhance erotic experiences for some individuals.The hosts share personal stories to illustrate their points.There is a distinction between the physical sensations of pre-cum and orgasm.The conversation highlights the importance of communication in sexual relationships.Listeners are encouraged to share their experiences and questions.The hosts find humor in their discussions about bodily fluids.The erotic nature of pre-cum is linked to the excitement of anticipation.The podcast fosters an open dialogue about sexuality and relationships. Women often experience intense pleasure that can be overwhelming.Communication about desires enhances intimacy and pleasure.The act of pegging requires comfort and consent from both partners.Swinging offers a buffet of sexual experiences compared to vanilla relationships.The possibility of exploration is vital in maintaining excitement in relationships.Open-mindedness is crucial for discussing and exploring fantasies.Navigating desires can be challenging in a non-swinging relationship.The speakers value the freedom to express their sexual preferences.Insecurity can hinder a partner's acceptance of an open relationship.The speakers acknowledge the complexities of dating outside their lifestyle.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot ride podcast i'm here of course with my wonderful husband Of course. Absolutely, honey. Sure. I can't do this with anybody else. Your boyfriend is busy tonight, so. Yeah, he's been reaching out to me. One of my boyfriends, anyway. Yeah, one of many. One of a couple. He's like, hey, how about, you know, I just come over socially. That's all you can do. That's all I can do right now. I'm not running on all cylinders here. But, you know, I mean, I still have fun. I mean, that's the i can do right now i'm not running on all cylinders here but you know i mean i still have i mean that's the nice thing about being in the lifestyle that people don't get offended by you don't have to play every time it's one way you can sort out who the assholes are oh that's true oh absolutely and i actually had one guy we've never played with him or even met him and um he uh reached out to me the other day and was like oh yeah how's donna doing i said good good you know and i said yeah her arm still you know her newly operated one is doing better but her other arm is going to hell oh so she can't play no asshole that's like i mean really that's all you care about fuck you fuck you yeah well here's thing, and I don't want to, you know, get off on a bad tangent. You don't realize how. I will. I'm not afraid. I know, you're not. But I mean, like, you don't realize how much you use your stupid arms for. I didn't think I would be down this long. I still haven't driven yet. I mean, this one. We'll call it since November 1. Yeah. You haven't driven since November 1. Nope, nope. You've driven me crazy, but you haven't driven a car. Oh, yeah, well, that oh yeah well to be expected yeah you don't you don't strive for it i live for that tear i live for that the entire reason you excel i know like you wouldn't think that it would be such a big deal that you you could go on with your life but it takes me like 20 minutes to get dressed like from a shower it takes i mean it's it's a chore yeah because you don't realize you don't have to get dressed but oh yeah it's too fucking cold hey if it was june or july i'd be like i'd be all about it okay i'm gonna hold you to it oh okay i'm just getting too lazy to put clothes on now it's just too much of a hassle so come summertime i've never seen you wearing so many loose fitting clothes oh yeah it's ridiculous i can't the tighter they are the harder it is to put on yeah so it and it really puts a lot of stress on my stupid shoulders both of them so yay happy day getting older so much fun info at hot wife podcast reach out to us again we love to hear we still hear from people and all time which is great we respond as best we can uh we still hear from the one gentleman um who uh is a cuckold and he's happy to be a cuckold and he keeps writing to us uh his adventures he thought he was not going to be able to that like the world was over and all of a sudden little little did he know, boom, it opened up. Well, that's the cool thing. If you put a profile up on a Swinger website and, you know, Swing Lifestyle is just one. We've been on for 20 years, so that's one we're comfortable with. We've been on other ones too. But you put exactly what you want there, people will find you. Well, he's actually dealing with his ex-girlfriends and uh he actually had just mentioned he got another ex-girlfriend involved in this and he's oh wow giving oral sex to the ex-girlfriend uh his friend or her old ex or whatever and he's i don't know He's got it going in every direction and he's loving life.
Speaker2:
God bless him, man. And he even says that he loves us talking about him on the show. And that to you.
Speaker1:
Yes, he pleasured himself. That's pretty hot. I didn't think that this was really the platform for any kind of masturbation fantasies, but hey, that's great. So, I mean, that gets you off. That's fantastic. It is flattering. Aww. Because he's like, yeah, I jerk off to listen to the podcast. I'm like, hmm. Somebody else told us that too. We had an email from somebody once that told us that they i don't know if they listen to particular ones i would imagine it have to be because usually it's pretty i can't you know so if you want to write to us about your stuff or what you want or advice or show ideas write to us at uh info at hot wife podcast and you can get into the topic okay i thought it sounds really good i would love that i mean uh and that brings us to tonight's topic and since we're talking about masturbation and all this other stuff it's like what is the allure pre-com like we nothing to me nothing for you well hey wait a minute women have a of, I'll put air quotes here, a type of pre-cum. I guess when a woman starts getting wet, we call that pre-cum. Sure. They generally are a lot further from cumming than a man is when pre-cums are. It depends on the woman. It depends on a lot of things. Should we call it pre-cum or pre-lube? Pre-lube, pre-whatever, pre-pre-that. Well, supposedly. Uh-huh. Sometimes men's, um, pre-cum or pre-lube pre-lube pre-whatever pre pre that well that supposedly uh-huh sometimes men's um pre-cum actually can have things to get you pregnant in it oh oh oh yeah yeah it's it's supposed to be pretty rare because the the pre-cum the reason i like pre-cum i find it very erotic when i know a guy's really turned on and it's like oozing out the head of his dick. And we've been with I've been with playmates where it was like so sticky. It was like a long web, like where he's like when I was playing with him or he was playing with himself or it was a long web of pre-come. It was really erotic. The thing that I find very erotic, besides the fact that I know that my partner is incredibly turned on because you can't fake that right you can't fake the pre-cum well i'm i i don't i don't think you can unless you know something i don't but it to me it's the taste i'll take your word for it i'm sure you will it's very sweet it's very sweet and there's a reason for that it's it's the taste. I'll take your word for it. I'm sure you will. It's very sweet. It's very sweet. And there's a reason for that. It's to feed the sperm as it goes through the tubing as we're now and before it gets ejaculated. What's it for? It feeds the sperm on their journey from the pestis to the urethra and into the vagina. See, everything is based on sweet. It is. It is. So there's more glucose in it. It's slipperier, so the sperm can, you know, maneuver easier. See, if I get my dick sucked more, maybe my diabetes would go. Oh, yeah. All that glucose in my body. That's exactly what would happen here. It might be an unknown cure. It's probably in the journal somewhere. We just haven't found it yet.
Speaker2:
And you weren't looking.
Speaker1:
I didn't say that. I didn't say I wasn't looking. I just said, I don't know if it would be there. But for me, I find, see, I'm not, I don't have a problem with bodily fluids like some people do.
Speaker3:
Yeah.
Speaker1:
So I don't mind guys coming on my face. Where the hell was it oh okay there was just we had talked to someone the other day and they were like well this person hates bodily fluids yeah well that tells me she doesn't yeah yeah that was a family member of mine and i'll leave it go with that so well obviously your mom's dead so is he a family member of mine, and I'll leave it go with that. Well, obviously, your mom's dead, so is he a family member?
Speaker2:
Does it narrows it down to your sister?
Speaker1:
Thanks, Vince. Yeah, I know.
Speaker2:
You kind of spelled it out. I'm just making a blatantly obvious.
Speaker1:
Well, I am not that sister.
Speaker2:
Well, it's a family member. We mentioned my mom died 30 years ago.
Speaker3:
And, you know, my dad, he's dead, so that takes him out. I don't know anything about my brother. It could be a distant cousin. It could be. But, yes, she noticed that she does not like bodily fluids, but I'm not surprised. There are certain ones I can agree with.
Speaker1:
There are certain ones I can agree with as well, but having cum splattered all over my face is definitely one I enjoy.
Speaker2:
Tell me a place you don't want cum. In my breakfast cereal.
Speaker1:
Well, yeah, that could probably put a damper on things. Yeah, I probably wouldn't want it in my eye, but I'm not opposed to it being splattered all over my face. You know, I've never had it, like, burn my eyes or anything that I can remember. Me either. Yeah, how do you like that? It's funny. I used to love, you know, re-watching the videos of what the one plane made who's, his cum is like, you know, he shoots it like a rocket. He goes, like, a lot of distance. Sure. Actually, that's the one that's been talking with me. So when he splattered it all over my face, that was really cool. You could see it like dripping off. That was fun. You've had a few guys, man. They just come in buckets like a KFC. Oh, I'm telling you, I look like a glazed donut. I couldn't be more proud. That was really awesome. One time you and Gina did a bukkake. Oh, that's true. Yeah. Yeah. You had a bunch. A bunch. Yeah. That wasn't as erotic because it's, it was, there's a lot more like choreographing with that sort of, I always, I felt like we were in the center. It was, Was it a bukkake we did Or was it a blow bang A blow bang, kind of. It is, yeah, I don't know the technical, you know, differences between them, so don't, you know. And we were in the middle and the guys kind of like jerked off onto us. I mean, we were sucking, we were fondling, we were trying to get them to do that, but in, but when they came, they usually, they would jerk off that last little bit and get some, you know, real distance with it.
Speaker2:
Well, the trick was to coat your face, yeah.
Speaker1:
Yeah, coat, coat her face. That was the, that was the goal and it was achieved and we, we did it. We got our thing.
Speaker2:
Took one for the team, did you?
Speaker1:
Yes, yes, we, we took the whole team, honey. We took the whole team. And then there's that. Yeah, that was, that of fun, a lot of fun. I mean, it was just seeing that, feeling that hot calm. Was that the day you weren't going to shoot? Yeah, that was the day I said, I'm not shooting, blah. No, I think that was actually the next one. It was the next time because we went up there several times, but yeah, I was, um, that was certainly a lot of fun and you know, there's nothing wrong with feeling that hot, salty mess splatter your face. I mean, that's for me. I mean, to me, I know dear, you're not into that, but getting back to the pre-cum, the pre-cum is like the precursor to the orgasm. You know he's really turned on. Yeah, you know they're in the game. They're in the game, boy. That's so erotic. When I'm looking pussy. Exactly. And all of a sudden it gets sweet and it gets super slippery. Yeah, it's just like, okay. That's like a woman's pre-cum you know i that's i find that very erotic very erotic i think um well first of all it like we said before you you know he's he's into the game he's he's right there he's really enjoying himself and you know bodies don't lie so you know seeing that that well you've even noticed when guys are still dressed everything like I can, you start to undress them. They've already got a little wet spot from pre-cum. Oh yeah. Yeah. Sometimes that does happen. Yeah, that's true. That is true. And you know, too, you know what I really love to do to tease myself is when that he's oozing that pre-cum. I love taking that, his dick and like rubbing it on my clit I find that like so so exciting so erotic so I'm sure he hates it I'm sure he hates it too but it's a real turn on for me and because that pre-cum is so slippery it's almost as slippery as spunk loop is that a segue yeah I think so no I mean it it definitely if and if you don't have pre-com like not all guys use pre-com you know there's some guys that do there's some guys that don't no none of the guys i've been with many guys god stop it so i mean you might use you know a little bit of pre a little bit of spunk lube and you get the same sensation because that too is very, very slippery. Well, I think there's times, I can only speak for myself, but there's times when early on the pre-cum comes out and then there's times where it takes a little bit of time. Sure. You know, there's times like the pre-cum comes out like just being aroused right and then there's times like the pre-cum starts coming out a little bit before the cum oh okay yeah it depends on i know it depends on the guy but there are guys i know that were oozing pre-cum for a good i don't know half hour 45 minutes or an hour before they actually came. So if you had your choice, cum or pre-cum, which one? Oh, God, I'd have to make a choice. No, just ask a question. Obviously, they both are available. They both, they both. I think cum just slightly over pre-cum. Go ahead.
Speaker3:
Why?
Speaker1:
Because there's the ejaculation and my partner reaching a really nice, strong orgasm, I find a little more erotic than that buildup. Well, pre-cum comes out without any feelings attached to it. Oh, sure. Absolutely. Whereas cum, you know, you can have verbal, you can have physical, you know, and everything else. Oh, those kind of feelings. I thought you meant like love-type feelings.
Speaker2:
No.
Speaker1:
I'm like, no.
Speaker2:
I mean, like, you know, the electric, I don't know what else to call it, electric shocks or whatever you call it, the convulsions that you, you know, that are pleasurable.
Speaker1:
Oh, there's more physical.
Speaker2:
Oh, just more your body goes through more with the orgasm than it does with pre-cum. Pre-cum, it just happens.
Speaker1:
It just happens.
Speaker2:
You know, you're caught up in everything else. There's no, you know, no extra stimulation that your body goes through.
Speaker3:
Right.
Speaker2:
Within its own versus, you know, when you have an orgasm, then it's just like, you know, you don't know whether to shit or spit sometimes.
Speaker3:
Oh, my God. goes through right without within its own versus you know when you have an orgasm then it's just like you know you don't know whether to shit or spit sometimes oh that's so nice i do like those kind of orgasms yeah the shit part's not so good okay all right well well that was shit with you know the air quotes yeah but yeah i i like the uh i like the orgasms where your eyes roll in the back of your head so to me that's where i could see the um the orgasm is far more um arousing because you can see your partner going through oh yeah all the went up the hill and the roller coaster now is going screaming straight down at 600 miles an hour yeah yeah you can see all the convulsions and uh the pre-cum face that they make yeah the pre-cum for a woman that's how i can i can speak to it right is erotic because you you know like for me right you know you see their pussy starting to swell yeah yeah all those physical things. You know, and at that point, generally, that's when they start, like, grabbing your hair and, you know. Right, right. Or my hair, whatever. Right, exactly. Maybe that's why I don't have much hair left. I don't know. That's probably it. Maybe. But, you know, which is erotic in itself. Oh, yeah, my God. But, you know, and I guess that's the one thing being a man and, like, pleasuring a woman is, you know, like, you could suck a guy. And occasionally you make it a guy who can go twice. Once in a great while. Yeah. There are few and far between. But, you know, women. Oh, my women oh my god you know i mean just keep going and going and just you know when i get to spend time with a woman and and do it multiple times right with her and you know she's like i haven't come that much and they can't walk to me that's just like fuck yeah i have been there i have been a week in the knees yeah i have i have definitely been there i come so hard it i actually feel like i want to say you could shit or spit well that's that's one expression it's almost painful having that many orgasms yeah it's almost painful you know because your body like when i have an orgasm my whole body uh you know um clenches you know becomes very rigid and that's what i'm saying is when your partner's having orgasms you see oh you see that pre-cum it may be erotic because you know you know they're on they're on the path yes yeah exactly but when they have the orgasm and you get to give them oh my god and you know that is all really due to what you're doing yeah exactly that exactly it's it's really cool it's really cool you know it and you know seeing them go through like how their orgasms are you know some guys are really loud some guys are a little more quiet you know you know again i've when we were shooting and uh and even watching you play with other guys in general it's amazing some of these guys don't even want to sit there and say i'm gonna come they just like boop okay like tell me let me know give me a heads up give me a heads up how about giving me something to enjoy yeah you know i mean i mean you giving you something i know exactly i know exactly i just those who are listening this is very clear about that well here's the thing it's like i'm i think we both are pretty good reading our partner's body language but having a guy you know tell me he is going to come is so much more erotic than if he doesn't i love i love the fact oh i'm gonna come right now and then you know there it is and i get a big load on my face or my mouth or my pussy and my butthole, wherever, you know, wherever that is. And so many guys are there. That's true too. But I mean, that's, that's giving a heads up. I think that helps. That kind of communication, I think. It can only benefit them. Oh yeah. Because now all of a sudden, you know, it's like, okay, hey, I'm going to speed it up or I'm going to slow it down or I'm going to put another finger in his ass or whatever it is you might be doing. I've never done that. I've licked ass. I didn't stick a finger up. I have fingernails now. Oh, boy. Look at these. Okay. And your shoulder hurts, you really can't do it. can't i really can't yeah so yeah i can't do that that now i would never i don't want to stick my finger in some anybody's but my my tongue is fine but it's clean come on you kiss your husband with that mouth i slip him him the tongue, too. Oh, my goodness. Oh, come on. When I tell you an alcoholic drink, it's rubbing alcohol. Yeah, I would not feel comfortable doing that. That's the only thing I feel really uncomfortable doing. You got plenty of guys who don't mind putting their finger in your ass. My butt's used to it. Your fingers are small. I know. Now, we're not talking about my ass. Right. We're talking about these other people. Yeah. Yes. Yeah, I don't know. I'd have to make sure that I know that, number one, this is something they want. I don't want to be, like, having a good time. If you just got done rimming a guy, I don't really think a finger in his ass is going to be offensive. These guys who ask you to peg them,
Speaker1:
I don't really think your little fingers are going to offend them.
Speaker3:
That's another thing I'm just not comfortable with yet.
Speaker1:
Yet.
Speaker3:
If ever, I don't know. There's been a couple of guys.
Speaker1:
Don't look at me.
Speaker3:
Oh, you can practice with me. You can practice with me. I'm like, Oh my God.
Speaker1:
I don't, I don't know. I'm just afraid. I'm just not comfortable with that. At least I can be honest, right? I don't find it offensive. I just find it like I just don't think I'd be very skilled at it. Oh, it's not you're offended. It's your more. Skill. My skill level isn't there. You're more afraid of hurting somebody. Yeah, I'm afraid of hurting somebody. Think about that one. Like, oh, I had to go to the hospital every weekend. Why? Well, I was getting pegged, and she ruptured my colon. What? Yeah. This girl was pegging me. What? And the freaking dildo is so big. I can't come into work on Monday, boss. My colon was ruptured. Oh, my God. Were you? No, I was getting pegged. I was getting pegged. Oh, my God, yeah. I told her to only use the 8-inch one, not the 12-inch. Oh, yeah, I don't... Okay, moving on. Moving on. So, yeah, I mean, God bless you. You know, maybe I just need to be with someone who's really comfortable with being pegged and they can walk me through it.
Speaker2:
No one in this room.
Speaker1:
No, I know, but that's what I would need because I just would not feel...
Speaker2:
You've had guys that...
Speaker1:
And they moved away to Florida or wherever the fuck they went.
Speaker2:
Wherever, yeah. They talk a good game.
Speaker1:
Yeah, and I even got that really fancy schmancy strapless strap-on they was they told me to get and i was like yeah it'd be fun and it's funny how he just disappeared disappeared i was like oh come on i because he was like yeah i'll show you how to do it i'm used to it i love it blah i'm like oh okay cool maybe i can just disappear with it and he didn't say bye sometimes that just You know, I mean, he might be in a different place in his life. Yeah, that could be it. It happened overnight. And she wasn't in swinging, apparently, according to him. So maybe he became part of the vanilla world? I don't know. That's fine. That happens. Yeah, that does happen. Nothing wrong with that. No find it. I can imagine it's kind of tough when you're used to One Direction. That's what I was... I think it's easier going from straight to swinging than just from swinging to vanilla. To vanilla. Oh, yeah, absolutely. You know, when all of a sudden you're like, I can play with anybody and everybody and do all sorts of weird shit. No one cares. No one cares. So all of a sudden it's like, I can only like i can only have grilled cheese i can't go i can't go to the buffet you can't go to the buffet grilled cheese grilled cheese yeah i'm like if i had to find another mate they'd have to be a swinger they wouldn't have to be like you know crazy going to like you know parties and clubs every weekend or whatever but they'd have to be open to that that lifestyle for sure because i you know sometimes you want to get your freak on and this just the door is always open the door is always open yeah you know it's like hey doors doors uh doors uh multiple doors it's tough Like I said, we know a few people that have gave up the lifestyle, go back to vanilla, and then somehow they always work. Come back. Like the marriage falls apart or whatever. Right, right. They're all of a sudden, they're back. They're back on the dark side of town. Yeah. When you get to go to the buffet and sample a lot of different food, man. I'm all about it and then you can go home and talk you know you and your mate can go home and say wow you know the salad bar was great and they also had sushi and they you know had fried chicken and they had you know sausage and steak clams clams like it's sexual. They had clams.
Speaker3:
Clams.
Speaker2:
Oh, they had big overcooked sausage.
Speaker1:
Overcooked sausage. Blackened sausage.
Speaker3:
Yummy. Mm. I guess.
Speaker1:
But, yeah, I don't think I could go the other way. I just don't. I would just be.
Speaker2:
It'd be tough.
Speaker1:
I couldn't do it. I don't think I could do it yeah no no no no even if here's the thing it's not it's not the act of playing that i find so um intriguing and and that i want to embrace it it's the fact that you can do it and the opportunity is there. I don't want to, I don't want to close that door necessarily. Okay. You know what I'm saying? I want that opportunity to always be there. And if you're in a vanilla relationship, well, it may not be there. If you're with somebody who's swinging, you may not participate in a lifestyle for whatever reason, but the possibility is always there. And I'd like so let's pretend you met mr right like i haven't met mr right yet we met right now right right now yeah mr right now but he says i can't share you with anyone uh that i can't now that would end it no matter how great he was and well here's the thing he's got to be insecure then if he's i can't share you i love you too much it means he's insecure and he he needs to grow up or he needs to come to terms with his own feelings and work through that because there's definitely some insecurity there if he's too jealous he's insecure and when we got together you were really insecure about it i was strange. But yep, yep. You know, sometimes. Would you date him to see if you could convert him? Oh, sure. If everything else is falling in the line, sure. Absolutely. That's an asking question. But for the long term, it's like, ah, I don't know. I mean, it's not, it's really not about the sex. It's really not. It's the fact that those, the people that are in the lifestyle are so much more open to other things and they're more accepting of other sexual preferences. Like if I, you know, I mean, we always go back to me wanting to dabble in BDSM and you not. And I like being flogged and I like having my feet flogged and I like being restrained and I like being blindfolded and I like being taken advantage of in those ways. You let me experience that. I don't know of a normal, I don't want to say normal. That's not the word I wanted to use.
Speaker3:
Stereotypical.
Speaker1:
Well, or somebody in the vanilla world would be accepting of that. Stereotypical world. Yeah. Like, I don't, I don't know. And that those are aspects of my life that I just can't deny. I just can't say one day, well, I'm, I'm never going to do that again. I can't say that, that those are really exciting times for me. And I would like to experience them again. Sure. i i would like the ability to be with a partner that is going to let me be me and experience those things on my own terms as the same thing with you i like i would like for you or another partner to be able to experience things that they would want to experience even if i'm not a part of it let's say i was with a forbid, it wouldn't be you, who wants to be pegged. Maybe I'm not into that. Or maybe he likes to do things that I'm just like, I'm not really comfortable with. Sure. Maybe he's more into water sports than I would want. See, I may not be into it, but I can at least respect people that this is just a trauma. Well, we've talked about that in the past, too we've we talked about that's one of the benefits of yeah being in the lifestyle is yeah you have the whole uh smorgasbord the whole buffet open to you right it's like hey today i want to try this tomorrow i'm gonna try that and you can yeah as long as it's within the confines and like we talked about before the couple's guidelines yep so it's i don't think i could ever date someone who was not in the lifestyle i'd have to either if he doesn't want to convert then it would definitely be over because i would feel i would feel very we're talking there's a lot of listeners i know we have right a few of them have reached out to us yeah that are single men right we're married men but they're significant other is it so all this is doing is aggravating yeah i know i'm sorry i didn't mean to yeah but i would be very frustrated yeah i would you know i it might cause enough of a riff in a relationship to end the relationship i don't't know. I mean, it's, I get it. Like I said, it's not really the sex is just the possibility that I can be who I am. Like I don't have to necessarily fulfill everything that I think is erotic and fun and all that. I don't have to fulfill all of it. Sometimes the fantasy, like we've said before is, is all I need, but I want to, I want a partner that's going to be comfortable with me talking about my fantasies, living them, fantasizing about my fantasies and not feel intimidated by them. And you're not, you've always, you know, been very, very, uh, what's, what's the word I'm looking for? Supportive in that aspect, you know, it was something like open-minded. Yep, very open-minded, very supportive, and we can talk about our deepest desires that might be considered taboo or be seen in a negative light in the vanilla world.
Speaker3:
Yeah.
Speaker1:
I mean, this depends on where you are with your relationship. So we really did get off topic this time, didn't we? Kind of meandered off. Yeah yeah kind of yeah it's all right yeah it's our show we can do what you fucking want i know when you asked me like if i could date someone who wasn't in the lifestyle i'm like ah oh no no that's a bit now that was certainly technically two topics yeah one show two topics in one show how do you like that there you go what a just gave all the listeners. I know. They paid for one topic. And we gave two. And they gave two. Two. I know. Pretty amazing. We just, just giving. So wait a minute. You never answered. If you could be in a relationship with somebody who's not. No, I couldn't. Oh, there you go. Okay. I was waiting. I wasn't sure. I told you if something happens that we're not a couple anymore, I'm done.'m just oh come on i'm just gonna wander off into the woods find a cabin and dip stop it i'm starting to hate people oh honey i don't have the time and the effort to train a new woman oh like you can train me i have uh you You think so? I tell myself that. I mean, I would, that would be very nice. I feel very pleased if you were able to train me. I think I'm a little bit untrainable. I'm a little incorrigible. I'm a little, you know, wander off the path a little bit here and there. You know, it's a little path. So yeah, well, that's yeah uh pity the next people that if we weren't like we weren't a couple the next people we would be with i i really do feel sorry for them we have to stay together just so we're not hurting other people yeah we don't want to give each other to somebody else yeah that'd be terrible that would just be awful oh i hate you so much i hope you wind up with donna oh fuck you man dude you hate me that much why don't you shoot me in the head that would hurt anyway all right man hope you hope you enjoyed the show hope you enjoyed the topics
Speaker2:
uh again two for one so yeah hey man stay warm have a great night everybody
