In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince explore various aspects of relationships and intimacy, focusing on sexual compatibility, audience engagement, and the dynamics of desire. They discuss the importance of communication in relationships, the role of foreplay and toys, and share personal anecdotes that highlight their experiences and insights into maintaining a healthy sexual relationship. In this engaging conversation, the speakers delve into various aspects of sexuality, including preferences for erotica, the exploration of sexual orientation, and the dynamics of kink and BDSM. They discuss the importance of communication in maintaining intimacy and the balance between quality and frequency in sexual relationships. The conversation highlights the significance of connection beyond sexual activity, emphasizing that intimacy can exist in many forms, even when physical intimacy is not possible.TakeawaysThe podcast emphasizes that the views expressed are personal opinions.Engaging with the audience is a key aspect of the show.Sexual compatibility is crucial for a satisfying relationship.Communication about desires and preferences is essential.Different partners may have varying levels of sexual desire.Physical compatibility can affect sexual experiences.Foreplay plays a significant role in enhancing intimacy.Using sex toys can enhance pleasure but are not always necessary.Personal anecdotes can provide insight into relationship dynamics.The hosts encourage open discussions about adult topics. Exploring erotica can enhance sexual experiences.Sexual orientation is often clear, but can involve soul searching.Kink and BDSM can be intriguing and exciting.Quality of sex is prioritized over frequency in relationships.Communication is key to maintaining intimacy.Intimacy can exist outside of sexual activity.Trying new things can be beneficial in a relationship.Understanding each other's preferences enhances sexual satisfaction.Sex is a binding element in relationships, but not the only one.Maintaining connection is crucial, especially during physical limitations.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up.
hello everybody this is donnalyn and welcome to my hot white podcast of course i'm here with the the ever-creative Vince, my wonderful husband. Oh, ever-creative. Oh, yeah. I always say it was the ever-pain-in-my-ass, but okay, I'm creative. Oh, nonsense. You were very, you were always coming up with good and creative things. I try. I mean, cooking, you know. Yeah, then you yell at me because you're gaining weight. No, well, I need to move around more. Okay. You do cook good though, honey. I'm giving you some moves. Yeah, I don't know if that'll make me lose weight, but you never know. Wow.
Yeah. Never know. It can't hurt. No, it can't hurt. So, first things first. Yeah. Again, like we start out every show, feel free to reach out to us. We appreciate the ones who have and, And, you know, So, first things first, again, like we start out every show, feel free to reach out to us. We appreciate the ones who have, and we count you all as our friends, so feel free to contact us, info at hotwifepodcast.com. We get messages now and then from various listeners, questions, comments, what have you, so it's always fun and interesting to hear what people want to know or.
Asking advice from us. I know we said this before, what are you thinking? Don't you have like people who know something? Like knowledgeable people? I mean, we're here flying by the seat of our pants. We just talk about what things that we would talk about normally so here you go i mean that's so but some of it seems like very um not professional it's because it's not hey so we're going to dinner tomorrow or by the time he was tonight um with a a very um sexy couple yeah he keeps saying yeah, I mean. She's got some nice body and tattoos. She's kind of got that Anna Nicole look going.
Okay, that's. With tattoos. Yeah. And he's a good looking guy in great shape and everything else. And they want to talk to us about maybe, once you're up and running, doing some content together. Oh, collaboration. That's always fun. Pardon me, I had to clear my throat. I use that too. I go through it all the time. So we'll see how that goes. Yeah, that would be interesting to see how it plays out. They'll hopefully be on the podcast with us one or two or 20 times. That'd be nice.
You know, we had we went out to help, we talked last show about how we helped Jennifer Ray shoot and went to dinner with her and her husband and we'll be hearing from her hopefully soon. Yeah, get that ball rolling. That would be fun. I know, I know her husband. He loves this. He's like me. He enjoys watching his wife be naughty. You know. I get it. He reaps the benefits, same as I do, you know. Yeah. So it just, you know, it's a double, you know, winner, winner, chicken dinner thing, you know. I get aroused by watching you have fun.
Then we come home, we have fun together, and kind of in a way relive that. Yeah. That's where he's at. I know. It's weird. I always thought that was very weird, but the more I meet people, there are a lot of men that are really into that, watching their wives. You know, some like to participate, but some just like, just want to hang back and just watch and then, you know, take the wife and like reclaim her or whatever. Oh, some of us aren't performers. That's true. You know, so to get up there in front of other people and not our forte. That's a big word for me. That's forte.
I'm not sure what it means, but I used it in a sense, teacher. Whatever it is, it's not. You don't have one. Did I even use it right? I'm not sure. It's not your thing. But anyway, so. That, segwaying right into tonight's show, we're going to do like a little quiz. Well, I was thinking today, I saw something about compatibility tests. So I took it, well, this show's about sex, so I looked up sexual compatibility tests. So this isn't out of Vogue or cosmopolitan. I don't know where it's from, I don't remember. It wasn't cosmopolitan. No, it wasn't anything, no.
You know, are you, you know, compatible with your mood? I don't know where it was you know are you you know compatible with i don't remember where it was what kind of a lover are you i love all those dopey questions yes that's that's an opinion question yeah a lot of that stuff is very you know based on opinion so i had downloaded this without reading it or whatever right you kind of handed it to me. Yeah, I printed out one for each of us to fill out. I didn't know it was going to be 20 pages long. It's eight. But big font. So, but the questions don't make sense.
They want you to give it a zero for not at all. For never. A one for possibly. Sometimes. And a two for definitely. For always. But then they ask these questions like, do you or your mate do this? It's like, that's not a, do you or her? Do you or do you not do this? It's like, well, how do I answer? How do you rate that? That's a four. I don't know. Yeah, I was having trouble with that. We're going to read the questions, and then we'll answer them honestly. Bye. How do you rate that? That's a four, you know? I don't know. Yeah, I was having trouble with that.
So we're going to read the questions, and then we'll answer them honestly. Okay. Do you want me to do a quick meaning of what they're talking about? Yeah, go through the beginning. Compatibility means, according to this. I'm going to do a bourbon test. You're going to do a bourbon test. I think you're going to have more fun. Okay. What is sexual compatibility? In short, it means you and your partner on the same page when it comes to your physical intimacy.
That's kind of a no-brainer um you both uh feel a level of comfort harmony and satisfaction in the bedroom okay that makes sense you know uh you agree on things like frequency of sex uh you agree about the type of foreplay. And you're both open to foreplay and the types of foreplay. Striving to meet each other's needs and desires of the other. Agreeing about sexual preferences. Well, how do you agree about sexual preferences? Well, you can agree to disagree. Let's say, well, you know, okay, I'm bi. You're not. We can agree to disagree because you don't need to be bi. You don't need to be bi.
That's fine. Exactly. That's what I mean as sexual preferences. That's why I took it. Does that make sense? Yeah. You know, because I can be bi. I don't have to approve of it. Well, I guess that's part of the conversation. You're agreeing. You just say, yeah, you can be, you can be bi I got the idea you were bi When you were munching on this girl's pussy While her husband fucked you Yeah, you were bi Move on Yeah, okay, having similar turn-on and turn-offs Okay, I get it Within reason, sure sure. And being able to communicate about sex. Here we go, communication. I want to get laid. Yeah.
My balls need licking. Aw. So that's in a nutshell. There's a bunch of other stuff. Yeah, we won't have to go through all that bullshit. We won't go through all that, but that's like the crux that we're trying to, you know, explore in this segment. I hope it's not too boring. We'll find out. Yeah, we will. Wouldn't be our first boring show. No. Well, here's when they explain this zero for no. One means sometimes, and two is always. But some of these questions, yeah, let's just bag that.
We'll ask the question, and then you and I will give our own answers okay okay all right number one all right do you want sex more or less frequent than your partner i said that was a a one because it's sometimes so yeah sometimes you want it more you're more likely to want it more frequently i I put a two down. So, yeah, I want it more frequently than you do. Yeah. But that's very common. That's really common with men who have a higher sex drive. It just stands to reason. Yeah. Women, typically, I go through my phases.
I've gone through phases, but they don't make up for like the amount of years. Men in general. again i'm part of this dynamic right um that you know if you know every night you said to me hey do you want to fuck or hey can i suck your dick very rarely i mean unless i'm in like a lot of back pain very rarely you know like five minutes before that yeah dick is sore. It would always be, yeah. It's always like, yeah, I think I could do it one more time. Yeah, let me see if I can squeeze one out. Yeah, so in general, yeah, for me, yes. Yeah. I know I have a higher sex drive than you. Right.
But, you know. Okay. Number two. Does it ever feel like a puzzle piece down there that doesn't quite fit? Like your dick is square, my pussy's round. Here's the little thing here. Pussy's square, your dick is round. I wondered that myself. It's like, yeah. Not all men or women are built the same down there. Some are larger, smaller, or angled differently by, differently, inside out. If you, and if you pair a larger piece with a smaller opening, pain is the usual result. That's just science. So in other words, do you feel we're compatible with our pieces?
Yeah, the only problem is I'm so short that things don't line up with certain positions. Like, we said 69. I mean, I'm licking your belly button for God. But if I'm sucking your dick, you're licking my kneecap or something. It just doesn't line up. Yeah, if we're 69ing and you're on top of it. If I'm on top, you're just suffocating for area. Shut up. I'm like, Jenny, Greg. Weight watchers. Weight watchers. I haven't done that in a long time. No, I mean, there's nothing, you know, I'm average at best, so there's nothing unique that, like. No, that's everything.
You've had guys that are so big they don't fit. I mean, we tried. It did not work. But he wasn't doing enough to really rile me up. Well, we did a show about that. Yeah, we did. These guys with the big dicks think that they don't have to eat pussy or foreplay. They just want to, I just want to put my dick in. Yeah.
And they don't realize that sometimes you sometimes you gotta you know grease the hallway yeah yeah you have the grease of playing field i'm just thinking back when i was um the first time i was with big mike yeah he's a yeah not a not a big guy he's like all dick he was the closest thing to a tripod i think yeah he was he They hung nine inches soft.
It was had to i had to practice with that i had to buy a dildo so i could practice before i before i was with him and then i measured him with my arm he was as thick around my wrist he was bigger than my wrist bigger than the dildo and oh yeah he was bigger than dildo but he was like thicker thicker than my wrist and as long as from my knuckles to my elbow. Literally. I mean, I measured them as, I was amazed. How did we make you fuck him? I had to eat your pussy. That's what I was going to get. You had to really lube me up. That's what I was getting to.
And then it was great that once I got his dick inside of me and I was riding him, I came, like, 10 times. Yeah. You know, I remember that. I was like, but if you don't lube it right or get things. If you don't warm the car up, don't take it for a ride. Don't take it for a ride. I like that analogy. Oh, okay. Well, it ties into the next question. Is sex with this person painful for you? No. No. Emotionally, yes. Physically, no. Well, you put a bag over my head, that helps. The wind blows it off. Oh, that's terrible. The lights go on. It's like, oh.
Remember, I was going through menopause, though. Sex was painful. Yeah, but that wasn't due to me. No, that was just me. It was like that whole. This is saying, like, again, if you were married to someone who had this, you know, beer can dick or something like that, it's like, you know. That's fun every once in a while. But I don't know if I want that as my mainstay. You know what I'm saying? It's like, oh, dear. This is an interesting one.
And this one depends on how frequent we've had sex or what erotic has happened yes okay so does it take you longer or less time than your partner to reach orgasm this is one of the ones how do you fucking answer that with never sometimes or all the time because it's asking you does it take you longer or less time yeah they're giving you it's not a then type of a thing yeah so it zero it's i'm always faster than you two minutes that's why i'm like don't make me come first i'm like the weirdest lady in the world you know weird weirdest woman it says don't make make me don't make me come first my most women are like i want to come first no don't because the orgasm is way too powerful sometimes.
And it's like, then I don't have the energy to reciprocate. So I'd rather wait, because it only takes me two minutes to come. Once I get into my game. Well, let's rephrase this, too. What's that? I'm not trying to stroke my own tail fingers. You're talking about me doing you orally. Orally, yes. Okay. When you have sex with other guys, you come, but not that quick. Not that quick. No, I'm talking with you. I don't care about anybody else. You know, but this is only between two. But I just want to clarify that like. I'm like the weirdest person too that I get.
I've always had a much stronger orgasm from oral stimulation than from penetration.
But penetration is great, but I, and a lot of women will disagree that they need to be pounded that's not what gets me makes me come not you yeah not me i'm just i'm weird okay i'm just weird so anyways married you didn't i exactly but like jennifer ray the other day when i threw her up on the kitchen counter in less than five minutes she came twice it's again it's at it's I think she was gearing up because she was going to be with a playmate and you definitely helped and you she actually told me she goes yeah she likes your time I was hoping you were going to yeah please I had to help oh you are the fluffer you know you're so selfless A beautiful woman with a tits i can do that okay sure okay five are you more or less interested in foreplay or cuddling than your partner i i it's not one you can answer with a number so just answer yeah i don't know i think we know.
I think we're both about the same. I think you're sometimes a little more cuddly than me. Well, if you look at in general, I'm probably more cuddly than you are. Yeah. In bed, during sex, and everything like that. Now, is this before? Okay, interested in foreplay or cuddling? I think you and I both enjoy foreplay. Yeah, absolutely. Yeah, but cuddling, yeah, we both, like, after we're done and stuff, we'll lay there. Yeah, but we can't, like, if we're in bed and cuddling, that's fine. But we can't, like, do any kind of cuddling in the presence of the dogs. I can't touch you. You can't touch me.
There's no, oh, no no you can't even do that no hugging oh my god they get they get very upset they're jealous i guess i don't know i'm not still not clear whether they're they want who's who they're jealous of of you or of me i'm not sure maybe they're jealous of us touching each Because remember, when I was like hugging you and kind of like rubbing your back a little bit and I was like behind you, Louie, the big dumb coon hound, came like right up between me and the chair and like pushed me out of the way. Pushed me out of the way. He didn't. So I.
But again, is it stopping you or stopping me? Maybe he wants attention. I don't know. It's a given. I don't know. Okay. So the next one. Move on. The next one we have to add some caveats to. Okay. Are you more or less inclined to use sex toys than your partner? That's a no brainer. Definitely more.
Am I willing to use sex toys on her yes on myself no not that you haven't experienced that but once a long time ago never again so i was wrong you were drunk oh there's so many stories that start out with that you know that I think I have a problem I think we both do so you enjoyed Oh, there's so many stories that start out with that. You know that, right? Most all of them. Think I have a problem? I think we both do. So you enjoy toys. They're not necessary for you. No, but yeah, I wouldn't be like, well, if I don't have a toy, I can't even pleasure myself. But yeah, there's other things.
I can use a finger. I could use your face. There you go. That's a toy. Yeah, that's a toy. I don't need a toy, but sometimes it's really nice just to get you to the next level. You know what I'm saying? Maybe you don't know what I'm saying. No. Well, the vibration just gets on my click. I know what you mean. So nice. Okay. Okay, so the next question. Okay, I'm reading these. The next question doesn't apply to us. Not even a little bit. Because we're over the hill and fading fast. Do one or both of you use birth control? Well, that's why we do anal. Duh. Sometimes even on her. No.
We can't afford to get anybody pregnant here. It'd be a fucking miracle. We'd make money. All right. Okay. Number eight. Okay. Are you more or less interested in using erotica or erotic films together what do you think well here's the answer the answer for us okay yeah well but these are erotic movies we shoot right that's so we'll shoot donna with a stunt dick right and then we go and have sex And we talk about the video we shot. We're not watching it, per se. I have watched them. Yeah, as you're editing them.
But what I'm saying is we don't have them on the TV in the bedroom watching them while we have sex. That's a little bit too, I don't know, full of myself. I feel like I'd be like, oh. Yeah, you already screamed your own name out. Exactly. Oh, me. No, I don't. And watching porn, there's only a few pieces of porn that I thought was very erotic. And most of the commercial stuff I find so fake that I just, it's good for a giggle. But as of being erotic and getting me there, not really. Because I know it's fake. I know that, you know. Okay. I get it.
Have your sexual difficulties ever made you question your orientation? No, I always knew my orientation. I'm always facing east. I was going to say something like that. What do you mean? No, I... What kind of sexual difficulties do I have that would make me question orientation? Is that not able to get hard because I'm with a woman or whatever? There might be aspects of that. That you're fantasizing about the same sex as you or something like that? Baseball players in tight pants. Oh, don't do that, don't do that. You're gone. That's it. It's all over. You hit the long ball.
You guys make everything sexual. Yeah, I know. You're terrible. No, I've never questioned my sexuality. I mean, if I had other inclinations, I would explore them. Yeah. I'm no Indiana Jones. No inklings to explore? No. You're going to bring out your whip? Very comfortable. Oh, okay. I'm a lazy boy. I'm comfortable. You're comfortable. I know when I was still thinking and not knowing where I was, you know, whether I was bi or not, it was, it was a lot of, I guess, kind of like soul searching, you know, like why should I feel that way? Do I want to feel that?
I find her attractive, you know, attractive enough that I would, you know, have some kind of a sexual interlude with her. And so when I was with my very first woman ever, I felt like I was a totally different person when I walked the shame of walk home the next morning. The walk of shame? Yeah, the walk of shame. Couldn't tell anybody who I was with. Well, there was this guy. Nowadays, you hang a flag in your front fucking yard. Yeah, yeah, that's true. Yeah, there was a guy, and I was with his girlfriend, and, well, there you go. Again, now, we're just answering these questions for us.
Yeah, of course. You know, how, I encourage people to go out there and find one of these tests, pardon me, online, and take it, see, have fun with it. Yeah, have fun with it. Don't take it too serious. Or maybe learn something from it. Okay, we still have 11 questions to go. Oh, my God, that many? There's 20. I believe there's 20 questions. Well, we get to do boring. Are you more or less interested in kinky or rough sex than your partner? I am less interested in kinky or love sex. I am likely more interested, not necessarily rough. We'll use the word intrigued. Intrigued, yes. I am intrigued.
I do like certain aspects of the BDS world. I find it very titillating and exciting.
The thought of being restrained, not now with my arms above my head, that would be painful, but just not being able to move move but it would be able to move a little bit i find that very titillating and it's it's you know you can move but you can't move so you want it more so you're trying to like arch your body to get it into you know a position where you can move and and do what you need to do but you're being inhibited i find that exciting i find the i don't know why aspect of being blindfolded and having sex with a woman in my case and not knowing who it is i find it very erotic that's very erotic i don't know if that's kinky no it's definitely not rough no definitely not rough well she's No.
And I've only been into, like, the rough play when we were with Bob and Jay, and he was doing me anally, and he grabbed my hair. Oh, my God. I went into the zone. That was probably the roughest. It wasn't that rough. It was rough enough, because I kept telling them to fuck me hard. It was vigorous. It was vigorous. Yeah, I'm not a rough person. It wasn't rough, yeah. No, no. He was pulling my hair, but it was just the right, right amount of pulling. You know, he got down real close to the roots. Does anybody else like that? I love that. I think that is great.
I'd prefer a woman to not pull my hair because the way it's falling out. You made it with bald spots? I already have bald spots. I don't want more. I can't see them. I'm down too low. No, you don't have to bend over. I can't see it. You're up high. I can't see. Just wear a hat. So actually, there's only 15 questions. Okay, all right. Number 11. Are you more or less interested in talking about sex than your partner? We talk about it. We talk about it all the time. Obviously, we talk about it openly. Yeah. No, there's nothing. There's no, what do they call that? Discretion.
No, there's no golden cap. There's nothing like we would not talk about. There's nothing that's happening. Nothing sacred. Nothing sacred. That's, yep, that's it. Nothing. Is nothing sacred? Well, that's true. Not sexually, but. Okay, number 12. Are you more or less interested in trying new things? Oh, I'm definitely into trying new things, as long as it won't, you know, no trapeze, like swinging around craziness, but a new toy, a new partner, a different culture.
Yeah, like I i said dabbling in the bdsm world you know with restraints and uh yeah i'm i'm open for it if i'm in a safe environment obviously i'm pretty much game for anything a lot new that i would want to try that i haven't tried um i'm trying i'm sure there's things that i i think i would try if it i mean i want to try elizabeth hurley that'd be no oh um you know what i would try that myself you know i'd give that a try yeah oh yeah so i might even try it a few more times but i just just got to get her to agree. No more restraining orders. It's not restraining orders.
It's an autograph collection. An autograph collection. Just on pink paper. With a court. It's a court certified autograph. Does your partner ever try to guilt you into doing things you don't want to do? Yeah, the dishes. I guilted you into helping me clean the house today. That's sexy. No, you didn't guilt me. You didn't help me? Yeah, I said I would. Yeah, you did. You didn't guilt me. No, I have down here, never.
I mean, I know there's times like, I think you kind of felt guilty and like, come on, you know, I'm going to give you a blowjob or something because it's been a while or whatever it might be. And I'm like, no, I don't, I don't want a mercy. Oh no, I didn't mean like that though. Sorry. No. But it's, again, it's not, um, I don't want a mercy. Oh, no, I didn't mean it like that, though. Sorry. No, no, but it's, again, it's not, I don't want anyone to feel guilty and feel like they have to give me something. Right, I get it. It's more like, no, I want you to want to do it. Right.
And want it to be at the right time, because otherwise, my mental game mental game as you know goes a lot deeper into my sex play of you know I can't like I can't have a bad back day if my back is killing me forget it I can't I'm in so much fucking pain yeah there's no distraction if something has happened in my life like I'm in a real pissy fucking mood forget it blowjob's not even gonna help that's a shame or if I know you're in pain you know like more recently with your shoulders Thank you. in my life that I'm in a real pissy fucking mood, that's not going to happen.
A blowjob's not even going to help. That's a shame. Or if I know you're in pain. More recently with your shoulders and stuff like that, I know you were in pain, and it just ruins it for me. I know. Just ignore my... I try to just ignore you in general. What's the problem? If you can just ignore me. Yeah, no. But, yeah, no, it's, so, no, I've never done anything, never given you sex because I felt guilty. No. And I don't let you give me sex because you feel guilty. Right. So, I mean, I pay you for it. You don't need to feel guilty. There you go. I'm a paid employee.
I want better damn, like, right. So, I mean, I pay you for it. You don't need to feel guilty. There you go. I'm a paid employee. I want better damn, like, insurance. Okay. I'm going to... Whatever. Yeah, whatever. Go out and... I'm going to go talk to the union. Go pick it in front of the house. Unfair. You wouldn't get very far, huh? Oh, well. Okay. Unreasonable demands. That's it, my lawyer. You're going to hear from my lawyer. He demands I gargle before I kiss him after I've sucked his dick. Or someone else's dick. That definitely demands that. Go brush your teeth.
Is one of you more or, interested in frequency than in quality? No, we're both quality freaks. No, no, quality, definitely, rather than frequency. I think we're both about quality, not quantity. I, yeah. I want a quantity of quality. Well, that would be the best of both worlds, but I'd rather have good sex than shitty sex frequently. It's like, why? Why would I want to, you know? Yeah. You know, so you go through the motions. Okay, what does it get you? Well, somebody might be enjoying that, but, you know, it wouldn't be me. Okay, so here's a hypothetical question. Oh, it's a hypothetical?
So if we met a guy that you played with, and he was good, not phenomenal, but good in bed. Right. But he's not really that much fun to be around. I must say he's an asshole.
He's just not overly entertaining like it's okay to hang out with him but it's not like something like but you know he kind of tripped your trigger a little for him to trip my trigger we have to have a social okay yeah you know what i mean it's not like oh he's fun to be in bed but i can't talk to him no i haven't gotten to that point yet i he has to be someone that we get along you and me get along with him he has we got to have a relationship outside exactly and then that becomes more intriguing because then and this is us not anyone else right exactly well here's the thing it's like the more i know about him uh socially the more like i know his likes and dislikes the more satisfied both of us are going to be when we do get to play but if he we can't have a conversation aha communication conversation and i can't talk to this guy it may not even get to the bedroom sure you know what i'm saying i'd have to have somebody i can have a little bit of a nobody nobody can have the banter that you and I have, but something, that kind of chemistry, that back and forth, whatever that is.
And then it makes the bedroom even more fun because you've been talking about things. Maybe they're a little flirty. That's kind of fun. But, you know, there's no communication. It's not even going to make it to the bedroom. That's just me. All right, last but least. Last but least. Are you thinking you and your partner could get along better without sex? Better without sex? Hmm, sex is great. Sex is the exciting cherry on the top of the wonderful life. It is a binding unit. It is a binding unit. I can't say better or worse.
But we've said on the show too right that you know in your relationship you're going to spend more time unfortunately outside the bedroom sad to say you do in the bedroom with yeah so you know you got to be able to sit across from him at a table you know to talk at like a dinner or whatever or go or whatever, you know, you can't have sex 24-7. Oh. to talk at dinner or whatever, or go out or whatever. You can't have sex 24-7. Oh, I agree. I mean, there's a lot of people like, no, I want to have sex. So it is really crucial that you have that.
And at some point in your life, sex could wind up off the table. Sure. You know. I mean, as you age, I mean, what happens if, let's say, you know, an accident happens and you're paralyzed, God forbid, paralyzed from the waist down or. Or men get ED. Exactly. You know, some women, they get vaginal dryness. Or whatever goes on with women. Whatever, I mean, things could happen. You know, again, someone develops back problems. I don't know how that happens. Yeah, I do. That never happens. The x-rays. Or they've had surgery, like heart surgery, like serious surgery. Yeah.
And after that, it's like they get out of breath. Yeah. So, I mean, these. And then it's, you have to be with a partner that you have good communication and you can express these difficulties and, you know, you find either alternatives or if you have a good relationship, you're already doing things outside the bedroom that are very satisfying, that are very fulfilling, and just, you know, the things that happen inside the bedroom are a little extra boost and bonding, but sometimes that is just not going to happen just because of physical limitations.
I mean, to be completely honest, I mean, Donna with her shoulder replacement and everything else. It has been numerous months since we have had any sexual contact together. Right. So, you know, we're not killing each other yet. No, not at all. But there's still time for, like, unless the dogs don't let us. We can, you know, there's a lot of hugging and kissing and tenderness and intimacy. We're a romance, but there isn't even wet spots in the sheets. No. I'm sorry to say. That's why the pens leak. That's not good. But intimacy is not necessarily sex, as we said before. Intimacy. Sex is great.
Sex is wonderful. But, you know, that doesn't always, as life happens, you know, you could be, you know, something could happen to one of you, God forbid, in your 20s, in your 30s, 40s, whatever, that, you know, and, you know, it's going to be measured by how much do you love your partner right you know that are you going to be willing to put sex on hold or give sex up well that's or whatever and again that's a topic for another show it is but just real quick and that's the beauty of being in a relationship and having swinging as part of our lifestyle. I just say part of our lifestyle.
Well, yes. Because it's like, remember when Jay came over, I'm like, hey, just because I can't have fun, you guys have fun. I don't care. I'm great. I'm fine with that. Yeah, no. You'll get me down the road, you know? Make it up. So it's not a problem a problem but again you have to also be careful that if you start to overuse that something like that situation you could make the person that is not able to play feel insignificant yes I agree it was just that one time anyway so it wasn't like hey I want to goso's house. Jay had her way. Oh, she'd be down here more often. Again.
And I appreciate that. Jay's a lot of fun. Yeah. She's a sexy woman. Yeah, very sexy. I enjoy playing with Jay. I had fun with her too. Yeah. But, you know, I enjoy you the most. Oh, you don't have to say that just because it's being recorded and everybody knows. And now I can go back and for legal ramifications. Well, I'm trying to make it look like I wouldn't kill you. Oh, you don't have to say that just because it's being recorded and everybody knows, and now I can go back for legal ramifications. Well, I'm trying to make it look like that I wouldn't kill you. You wouldn't?
Okay, so if they listen to this after I die. The wood chipper accident was an accident. Right. She fell into it twice head first. See, you have your alibi already out there. So anyway. All right, so we bored you for 36 minutes oh no so um again reach out to us um info at hotwifepodcast.com all right and uh until next time stay horny have a great night everybody We'll see you next time.
