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Being a swinger has a lot of advantages in a relationship. Wanting to explore your wilder/kinker side makes it even easier. We explore the reasons for this and why vanilla couples may consider coming to the Swinger Side if they have interest in some fetishes.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Hi, this is Donna Lynn and welcome to my Hot W hot wife podcast where we discuss all the good the bad and the really erotic of the swinger lifestyle hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast again i'm now the pothead podcast oh do i have to go right into that right off the bat i'm gonna take full advantage Thank you. Wife podcast. It should be now the pothead podcast. Oh, do I have to go right into that right off the bat? I'm going to take full advantage of it. Oh, my God. All right. I'm under the influence of a little bit of cannabis. More than I'm used to.
And alcohol. And alcohol. So I apologize for anything right up front. We're going to fuck with her. See, I was afraid of that. Don't do that. That's sweet. That's just not even nice. Yeah, it is. Okay. We'll advantage. I apologize all the time. My daughter more recently has moved in with us, and she is a cannabis user. And Donna lightly indulges, but not the smoking kind. She does the tinctures. Tinctures, yeah, and they work well. The oils, and it's for her pain, and it works fine. She doesn't get stoned, per se.
But my daughter just was here and was leaving and gave Donna a big hit off of one of her little vape pipe pens or whatever the fuck they are. Cartridges, yeah. And it's a little stronger than what Donna's used to. So she's, you know, if you hear Inigata Davida playing playing in the background, it's for Donna. I'm feeling good. Feeling good. So anyway, you want to reach out to us, hotwifepodcasts at gmail.com. If you want to see where Donna is and who she's doing. You can find me at hotwifedonnalyn.com. That was funny. I'm just hoping I can even remember. Hotwifedonnalyn.com.
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I mean, I have more reads, but actually, like like when it tracks the ip of like how many people read it so i have 111 readers so i guess that keep uh yeah it's good doing i mean it's something we're doing for fun and uh we're not making money with it again it's just something to complete the circle of you know trying to promote uh the swinger so hopefully you enjoy that it's free so anyway what did you choose? I have a list of like five or six topics that I gave you oh yeah okay you know the one I'm going to pick ass eating is not on that it. Kinks, okay.
All the different kinks that people are really into, and I'm indulging now and then, dabbling in some things. You have been... I'm getting outside my comfort zone. You are expanding your... Horizons? Well, that too. Yeah, you've moved from basically to say your normal type of sexual type of woman to you cover a lot of kinks. Yeah. And you enjoy. I'm not saying like you, we have shot plenty of videos for kinks. Some of which obviously we don't enjoy or partake in. Not coming down on them, but like balloon popping, not one of our things. Yeah, that I don't understand.
We're not really foot fetish people. No, I understand and appreciate the allure of them, but I don't think I could come to feet. Yeah. I think feet can be sexy. Everyone's got their thing, I mean. And, you know, but inside, that's one of the great things of inside the swinger community is you can have the fetish and you're not looked that weird. No, no.
You know, if you're with your vanilla friends and you're like, oh, man, I worship my wife's feet, your friends are going to be like, yeah, okay, you're fucked up and but if you're with swinger people you go man i love feet they're gonna go like somebody that's cool yeah or somebody chime in yeah i get that yeah i get that yeah you know i think i think swingers we take more of a risk more accepting i don't think it's a risk i think it's more accepting were easier people like when um mickey had first we first met her and she told us that she asked us if we were swingers i said well how did you come to that conclusion and she said well you guys are just so easygoing and just you know having fun and kid around she said it's what i pictured swingers to do now i've met a bunch of swingers that are you know what a more uh rigid I don't know.
fun and kid around it's what i pictured swingers to do now i've met a bunch of swingers that are you know a little more uh rigid you know yeah we have but um we tend to be a little more free flowing but um but yeah no but sexually i mean sexually there's you know i think people were like now i'm not gonna say all swingers you know some people like nope we only do this that's it you know um but majority of them are like okay that's cool you like that that's awesome that's great you know oh we tried that once wasn't for us but that's cool you know um but i but i think people if they want to experience something they can they can take that leap without criticism like you just said or having a group that's more accepting Thank you.
He or she could go, fuck you. You're fuck you know but in the swinging world they could sit there and go you know bob and betty are really they're into that bdsm and like getting fogged and i i'd kind of like to try that and the mate could go well you know what it doesn't do it for me but you know what talk to them they'll do it to you I'd love to, you know, watch you see if you have fun with it, you know, it doesn't do it for me, but you know what, talk to them. They'll do it to you. I'd love to, you know, watch you see if you have fun with it.
You know, so you can achieve your fantasies, your fetish, whatever you want to call it, what easier in the swinging world than you can in the vanilla world. I agree. I mean, yeah, just because people just have a whole different view of sex.
First of all, if you're going to be swinging, you're having sex with somebody who's not your partner and that's you know that's a sometimes yeah yeah well yeah but a lot of times so if you know if you can step outside of that and not see that as cheating or whatever then you can experience so many so many different avenues because you're already in a relationship that allows you to experience that. Well, I think to become a swinger or to be a swinger, you have to have a more open mind. Absolutely. I express my opinion about different things I don't like.
But like I said 100 million times, just because I don't like it doesn't mean anything. I'm only concerned is if everyone is consenting and of age. Other than that,'t have to like it yeah you know like you've discovered eating a man's ass not something i want done to me or do i i really want to watch i really enjoyed eating his ass i i i was really uh i enjoyed it a lot more than what you would think and you've been teasing me but i the fact that he got past one lick. Oh. I was like, I enjoyed it a lot more than what you would think. And you've been teasing me, but I had.
The fact that you got past one lick. Oh. I was like. But that's me. That's me. I find it very arousing. A very, a woman in general, any shape, a woman's ass looks like it belongs in the air. Man's ass does not. We have said that before. My opinion. Okay.
We can move don't want to i don't want to beat the ass eating to death i thought it was uh it was very enjoyable from my point of view yeah so and that's all that matters and and i'm fine with that i'm glad that you know you're chasing horizons and are open up to things and um you know like years ago you They't really i mean every once in a blue moon you could play i could play with your ass a little bit but now recently you know i almost prefer it yeah i mean and our friend jay wrote us an email i don't know if you got to see it today oh i didn't sorry and I forwarded it to you.
And, you know, she talked about how she's gotten into the anal world. And they both come faster and enjoy it. And she likes the aspect of cum dripping out of her ass, like you said. That is so hot. Yes, you did tell me about that this morning. So, yeah. And it's an evolution. It doesn't just say, you know, you just say, oh, I'm going to start anal today. No, it's more like you have to get somebody who can play with you and tease your asshole. You know, maybe finger it. It'll get you ready. And then when that dick goes into your ass. Oh, now you're doing it. I'm sorry. But that, I find.
Shut up. You're talking about my ass. You're talking about yours. My ass. Oh, catch. Okay, I've. Talk about my ass for a minute. It's like, whoa. We've talked about this before. If a dick goes in too deep, it'll hit a nerve in my left leg and it'll be numb. So I'm fucking this guy and I'm like, my whole left, my left leg is numb because where their dick hits like in my ass. It must hit a nerve on my left. Yeah.
And I'm like, oh's in deep my whole leg is numb i can't feel anything like this is the most fucked up sensation ever i know it's like do i tell him or do i not it's like all of a sudden your eye starts twitching your tongue comes out it's almost like his dick goes in that deep it's it's hitting something man it's like boom oh there it, there goes the leg. And you get Tourette's. I think you get Tourette's. I noticed that in the video we shot the other day. You're like, call me a dirty whore. Call me a dirty whore. Where the hell did that go from? Jesus Christ. It must be Tourette's.
Dick hits a spot there. Tourette's kicks in. Yeah, that's what it was. Tourette's all right. Sexual Tourette's. Is that a thing? I don't know. Let's look into that. Mild-mannered woman, you know, housewife or whatever during the week. But, man, she gets dick in her. She's like, I'm a dirty slut. Call me a dirty slut. Fill my pussy, come. I'd say, I don't know. Would that be sexual Tourette's? I think you're onto something there. I think so. I think you're onto something. I don't know if there's a medical condition yet, but I think we should do some research.
I might try to go to a government grant. A couple of like $10 billion government grant to study sexual Tourette's. Tourette's, yeah. I don't know. You did have some play time with a woman with Tourette's. Oh, yeah. I did not see that visually, but I know the similar story. I talked to her, I'm going to say six months ago. Right. She was going to come over, and I was going to do her on air. But she was recovering from a broken ankle, and she can't climb the steps to the house. Oh, that's true. Oh, my God, that'd be terrible. I have to reach out to her again, get her in here.
She said she'd love to do that. And that was an experience. You said you were in this studio, and she was so loud, you said. Oh, my God. I thought the cops were going to come. Yeah. I could have sworn the neighbors were going to. I can't even imagine. Stuff she was saying. We'll have to put a special warning out before that show. But anyway. Oh, my God. Okay, so more recently you've dabbled a little heavier, I'll say, than previous years into the BDSM world. Yeah, we've been over that quite a bit. Yeah, we've been over it. The bondage and the teasing and restraints.
I think we get new listeners all the time, so. Yeah, that's, you know, the flogging, I think, I found very, so erotic, especially when I had an orgasm, when our friends up there at the party flogged, he flogged the bones of my feet. And that was just, I've never felt that kind of an orgasm before. So it was, I felt like... How would you describe that kind of an orgasm? It was primal, It was so much more primal than when, like, when you ate my pussy and you make me cum. That's more sensual. There's a lot more. I could feel my body response differently.
It's kind of like, I can feel my juices flow more with you and your tongue, like, plays around my clit. And I can feel, like, my juices start to, like, ebb, like, into your mouth. But when, see, that's more sensual, what's going on there. Okay. So the other one's, like, much more. Describe the primal. Primal. Got me. He sparked my interest with that. It's more forceful because you're being flogged, like the bottoms of the feet. So my vagina and my clit and all that isn't really involved as much. And there's not the lubrication because the sensation is coming from my feet.
Is it more like a sudden, all of a sudden orgasm versus a build? It's a build. It's definitely a build. Oh, there's a build to it too? Yeah, I've never had an orgasm like that before. I don't know if we could duplicate that. It would have to be him because you have to be very skilled with the flogging to achieve that level.
Oh, oh wow that would be really fantastic that is the most unusual orgasm because there was no i don't how much actual sex was going on that wasn't like the first thing that went on either no no no so you had a build-up yeah okay but the flogging of that the feet but there's nothing else going on there's not a dick in me there's not a dick in my mouth it's him and just doing my feet and that's it that it's almost like he almost like masturbation with my feet instead of my pussy okay you know because it's just him and my feet and that's it like he was my vibrator so let me ask you this would that be considered type of a foot fetish oh hell oh hell yeah oh absolutely okay yeah maybe i do have a bit of a foot fetish?
Oh, hell, oh, hell yeah. Oh, absolutely. Okay. Yeah, maybe I do have a bit of a foot fetish I didn't really think about. Not in a visual way, but no, that's sensation. Not in a stereotypical way of, like, someone worshiping feet or when your feet licked. No. I do like having my feet licked. Do you? My toes suck. I know you like your foot rubbed. Oh, yeah, that works too. I do that when I can, like when I'm eating your pussy.
Yeah, I i love that when you rub it it's like oh god that's so good i have to pace myself with you because i make you come too quick and then i'm like oh i don't rebound like i used to you know what i'm saying i just don't rebound according to you the orgasms i give you are stronger than the average orgasm. I'm like, so wait, Dad, why do you do that to me? Stop. Even the women at the party say that. Oh, yeah, I can't even freaking move. Whatever. Yeah.
But, yeah, so fetish is the one thing, again, being in the lifestyle, I think if you have desires to experience other things other than the norm of normal intercourse, I think swinging is where you want to be. Oh, God, yeah, because just because you can experience, first of all, so many different people, so many different techniques, so many different backgrounds, and they bring that all to the table and fetishes. If one or both of the people in the relationship come to the realization that one or both are bisexual, you can't be bisexual and be in a monogamous relationship.
You can, but you're not going to be bisexual, you know? I mean, I guess the closest you could get would be your wife could put a strap on and have sex with you, but she's still not getting the bisexual treatment because you don not, you don't have a pussy. That's true. But I, Hey, I'm just saying, no, I'm just, you know, stating what I think is the obvious, you know? So it, so if you want to, you know, so if you both come to the realization that you're both bisexual or even one of you, you're going to have to play with others. Yeah.
Because he's going to want to, yeah, just bring whatever the other person is interested in now. Well, that would, that may not necessarily be in a threesome kind of organization.
I mean, then one might just go off with their perspective they're either a going to cheat oh yeah or b you have to be swingers yeah you know and just because you're on a swinger site without your mate doesn't make you swing it makes you a cheater uh yeah i agree yeah i agree and you know once you have a signed note from your partner saying you're allowed to do it you're a cheater quite simple and that's that's your world yeah we don't we've had people approach us and like well i'm really married my wife you know the old oh i'm in a loveless marriage whatever it's like dude or we haven't had a lady yet but dude it's like, you're not going to hurt our relationship, you know?
Nope, nope. You're just fucking up your life. Yeah. I mean, we don't try to play with married men that play single, but it has happened. It has happened. And it's just like, you know, we're comfortable in our relationship, you know? And people don't realize that it's like your wife finds out and she comes here and it's like, you, it's like, yeah, he came here. We didn't go to him. You know, it's, you know, it doesn't affect us. So yeah, I just, I just feel bad, you know? Oh, it shouldn't happen. No. Don't get me wrong. Um, but you know, again, someone could tell you they're single.
You don't know. Mm-mm. We've, you don't really, sometimes, you know, you meet them and they seem really nice and then they don't divulge that until, like, later. 90% of the time we don't ask. Yeah, it's really none of my business, but, you know, it's. It's not our world. No.
No, I mean, it'd be nice if they were honest, but I understand why they want to keep it you know down low i guess so okay so now that you're stoned and lightly buzzed okay what are any other fetishes you want to maybe explore because you've done some role playing yeah you have to be in a certain mindset to do that and really really been to to the role to make it sexy to really get to immerse yourself more into it, into a role play. And sometimes it's fun. Sometimes it's utter crisp.
I think somebody would like and some you have to just indulge them more so you can really enjoy like what they're trying to achieve so but yeah i'm not a good actor no i i try not to like act it but i all those emotions are always usually there it's just a matter of bringing them to the surface yeah but i mean yeah you have to I think i think to be a good role player and i can be wrong um you have to have whatever role you're trying to play you kind of have to have that fantasy yep i agree so if you have that fantasy i can see we can get into that role unless you're a good actor you know but again you're not going to necessarily achieve an orgasm or erection or whatever.
If you can't get into that role. Yeah. I mean, again, talking just for people into role playing. That's what I would imagine the more you're into that, that role and you immerse yourself into that, that whole, whatever that is that you're trying, you know, whatever that characters you're trying to be. So it might, what am I trying to say here? I'm not sure. I'm not sure either now. I'm so sorry. At what point, though, does the role play become fake? And I guess I don't role play to that point, so I don't know, I don't really immerse myself that much into any role that somebody might want.
I think it depends on how much you're into that fantasy. Okay. I mean, a young guy who has a fantasy would say to fuck his stepmom. Okay. If that's really a fantasy, you know, let's paint the perfect scenario. Let's pretend he had a stepmom who was hot. Mm-hmm. And, you know, he never tried it. We met somebody who actually wanted to fuck their mom or had written to us one time. Oh, yes. Yes. And anyway, I'm not going to mention names or whatever. Doesn't matter. Yeah, he's had this huge true mommy fetish.
So, I mean, if you're into it, I think it might be easier for you to accomplish what you want but you know like yeah that kind of stuff doesn't do it for me you know i mean i wouldn't have any success than you know trying to pretend i mean you and i you know six years, you know, six years apart, you know, so for me to pretend just because you're older than me, that you're my mom or stepmom, just isn't going to work. No, it's a little too, too close. Yeah. So, yeah.
But, you know, you've played with plenty of young guys, you know, that one guy who's, you know, here, seemed like he's usually here every Monday, he's 24, he's 27? I thought he was 27. Is he 27? Okay. I knew he was in his 20s. Yeah. I'll do was 27. Is he 27? Okay. I knew he was in his 20s. Yeah. Okay, so, well, there's a fantasy in itself, being the cougar. Yeah, that was, he's, he had asked me to fulfill, like, a bucket list for him.
He said, yeah, I've never done, you know, I never had a 69, so I definitely gave him that experience, and that was that experience that was fun and you know exciting and he loved that so there's so many things that he just like could actually like mark off his list you know never 69 oh i want to do anal and so i gave him that experience and it was it was really cool that i could just fulfill that it's almost like i could be like a mentor so it kind of, like, in a weird way, mother-ish. Is that, like, too creepy? Like, I'm getting guidance. I'm giving them the guidance.
We use a stepmother term, I was like. Okay, stepmother-ish. But, you know, it's almost like you told the story about when you were 17 and you broke that guy's cherry at your karate class. Yep.
You know, it's kind of the same thing exactly the same thing that's a little more age difference between them but well the second time yeah a lot more age difference he's less than half my age yeah but but there's still that uh that like i was i remember when i was with that young younger kid when i was there when i was 17 that um it was a learning moment it really was you know and he was oh man i'm sorry my mouth is really dry give me one second here okay yeah have a sip sorry sorry guys no no i understand now see that's a fetish i understand if i was a young guy because i i've always been attracted to uh more mature women right right i've always found it older women hotter to me than the women that are my age group now that i'm in the older grab now i find women my age group fine but like when i was my 20s women in the 30s 40s or whatever i found a lot hotter not all of them the ones that kept themselves well no there's nothing sexier than a more mature in shape you know older woman you know one who really takes i mean when i was 20 it was a lot easier i mean come on i'm 20 i should look like i'm 20 but at 63 it's like all right you got it you know you have to work out a little bit more you might have to you know eat a little better and you know you want to keep yourself healthy so you can enjoy all these you know crazy sexual activities you know what i'm saying don't have a heart attack don't have to stretch and all that beforehand no probably should there are times i'm like oh god i gotta stretch before i'm with this this youngster yeah sometimes not just your mouth.
You have to stretch everything. I have to stretch everything. Holy cow. Yeah, I mean, so you've explored BDSM. You've explored bisexuality. Yes, absolutely. You enjoy that. You don't get to do that as much as you would like. No, not nearly as much. So you've done a cougar thing? Yeah, for the guys, definitely. And you've even done older guys. Yes. I think there's like one gentleman who's 10 years older than me. Or so. Or so, yeah. Still in good shape, still can do it, still can get it up. Yeah, so God bless them. Even a little fantasy of someone you went to school with that had a crush on you.
Yes, but that wasn't just a fantasy. As I said, but you fulfilled that fantasy. I fulfilled that, yes. He actually hasn't fucked you, has he? No, no, you were really, really drunk that night. I blacked out again. Oh, he got to stop doing that.
I know, I'm telling you missed it he i he i had him standing here and i was yeah i sucked i sucked him off it was great i was like you know i want to see i don't want to see facebook but it was a nice vigorous you know got his dick really in my mouth really nice and you know i i thought you're watching the whole thing i'm thinking i'm vincent vincent going to be loving this. And then he didn't remember. I was like, damn it. Both of us were like, you missed it. It was facial. It was all over me. And I was like, you missed that? Yeah, I blacked out again. I want to smack you.
I have to really limit my drinking. You really do. Yeah. which I have been. Jeez. Yeah. I gave you a great show and I don't remember. Well, he and I get along so well. So I was drinking with him beforehand. Well, I was so proud. That is one I wish I had on video because it was the gigantic load i'm so pissed that that's the problem with him because of his um occupation or occupations right he can't do that so that's only one you get to do for fun not for that's fine i can just talk about it and how much i loved it there you So what other ones have you done? Any other?
talk about it and how much i loved it there you go so um so what others see what other ones have you done and any other like that would check off people's boxes um you've done ass eating we've talked okay that's a little strange fetish you know you know of course the the usual feet and we've been over. So I don't think there's that many boxes I could check off. Unless I could be wrong, maybe somebody could say, hey, wait a minute, have you ever tried X? I'm like, wait a minute. You really haven't done, I want you to DP. I haven't done DP.
I would like to, like I said, I'd like to try that again. Well, now that you're really into anal, you'll appreciate DP more. I think so. Yeah. Back then when that one happened, both those guys weren't overly gifted. But it did happen, but it just didn't happen in a... Yeah, it wasn't the way... It should be, yeah. You've never done a gangbang, per se? No, I was only with those three guys with the same name. Yeah. Is that a gangbang?
But even then, that was not they were it was like one at a time it was well no you were sitting on one guy and blowing i don't know i just looked at the video recently that there was uh i was man i was agile this is those videos are um gosh eight years old minimum yeah eight or ten i was looking at the vid i'm like holy shit yeah so i was a lot younger damn it i'm running to that again you weren't into anal then you could have been dp you could have been hermetically sealed out damn it yeah and those are three guys you could have done it with and i could have yeah yeah i was looking at the video i got down on my knees and i was able to jerk off one and then switch around and like blow the other one and then i'm thinking you can get up oh my god i don't i don't know if i could do that now i don't know if i could do that you could do that you say that beforehand but like once things get moving you're like come on motherfuckers let's go you know god oh you haven't done two black it yet no i haven't since i'm missing out on things god damn it i've missed so much oh i can't even begin to list my show my stuff anyway well we'll have to see we can do about that yeah i'm i'm okay with it i've done plenty of other things that i sit back and go i don't want to do that again so anyway um yeah so you know the premise of the show was about the nice thing about the swinging world is you can explore fetishes a lot easier yes absolutely if you're in the lifestyle and if you're not in the lifestyle and you have these fetishes you can explore them better i mean not that you can't try to explore them with your significant other it's just going to make it more difficult if you know if your fantasy is to do a threesome whether you're the man want to do it with two women, your wife and another woman, or you want to do it with another man and you banging your wife or whatever the...
Basically, at that point, you're stepping into the swinging world anyway. Yeah, absolutely. I mean... You might say it's a one-time thing, but you know what? Two months road you're like honey i really want to do that again so you know what it's like if you're not going to go into it my suggestion is don't do it yeah um then like you said before that it's not if you're doing it on the side then it's's cheating. I get it. Yeah, and I'd be curious to hear how many people did that. Like, well, my wife wanted to do two guys. So I got my friend, and he and I banged her.
And then, like, a month later, she's like, I really want to do that again. But not him. I want to do a different guy. And how many people got into swinging that way? I would say quite a few. You know, you started with a close friend. If that's your story, if that's a story you're offering, I mean, not you, but listeners, please write us. I'd love to hear about it. We won't use your name. Email us at hotwifepodcast at gmail.com. Love to hear your story. We'll share your story, but not your name.
That's fair that's fair enough not your email not anything not your social security number where you work or whatever but um so i just think it'd be interesting to hear people's stories i mean um and and honestly that's how we got into swinging is i expressed my fetish of wanting to see you with somebody else. Yeah. You actually, we've said this before, I guess, you were, you were already in, had been a swinger with your, with your ex and, and then you kind of, yeah, this is what I want. I want to see you do that. And it was weird at first though.
I have to admit, I thought that was really strange. For like the first three years, all you did, this is really weird. This is really weird. Now you're like, hey, I'm inviting so-and-so over. Yeah. Do you mind? I'm like, no, go ahead. You're like, all right. I just felt it, just because you allowed me to, like, you could look at a guy and be like, man, I really want to fuck him. In any other relationship, I would be like, what the fuck am I thinking?
But with you, I'm like, you know, I can i can tell you how many that guy over there i really really want to fuck him and you you'll be all over it make it work yeah in fact if i didn't do that you'd be like what why yeah why i encourage you more than you encourage yourself he goes oh you always tell me that god i wish you were really slutty. I wish you'd be more slutty. I'm like, I'm really slutty. Well, like, you know, yesterday you played with a gentleman. Yeah. You haven't seen him in a while. He's a great guy. We have fun hanging out. A lot of fun. And everything else.
But you had a great time. Mm-hmm. You know, and I think one of the things that added yesterday's video, I just put the camera on a tripod and walked away. Yeah, so it was like. So when it's all of a sudden, I think everyone better when they're don't feel the pressure being watched exactly yeah yeah so but uh and you were fired up all day after that i know i was wasn't i you know what the cool thing was is i knew you were down the deck i knew that you didn't know exactly what was going on but But the fact that you said you could hear us, I thought was so erotic. I was like, oh, my God.
I was wondering, like, what you heard and, like, what we would have been doing up there when you heard that. I only heard muffled, like, oh, oh. You know, I couldn't hear. I didn't hear you, like, you know, get your foot out of my ass. I didn't hear that. Oh, you didn't hear that. Okay, that's probably a good thing. Yeah. Like, I haven't seen the video yet, so I'll be curious to critique and see. Yeah, the video explains. It was as erotic when I was actually going through it and revisiting all those emotions. Yeah.
Whenever you watch it, sometimes it's almost like you get to experience it again in a weird way. I'm like, you get all the volume of porn? Is that, like, really disgusting or what? That's a fetish, too, being videotaped, as we know. Voyeurism, exhibitionism, again, things you have done to, you know, when you were a dancer, you were an exhibitionist then. Oh, absolutely, yeah. Obviously, you can't be a dancer, not be an exhibitionist.
oh absolutely yeah obviously you can't be a dancer not be an exhibitionist um and sure and um you know like you say you enjoy even watching me make these other women come oh my god that's pretty freaking hot i'm like inside i'm almost like oh i'm I'm so proud. That's my husband. He's so wonderful. Please enjoy him. You sit there waiting for them to tell you thank you. I'll tell you how lucky you are. It's such a rush. It's such a rush. I'll tell you. Yeah, I mean, there's so many. Again, and there's no reason to be jealous. No, no, uh-uh. Are you kidding me? I mean, you haven't ever seen me.
No, this is me, not other men. We've seen other men that you know that a woman could be jealous of. Like the guy who tries to make three playdates every day. Oh, that's ridiculous. Yes, yes. It's like, really? You know, stop trying to overcompensate for whatever. You don't want to admit you're gay um my opinion um but um yeah it's um it's a lot of fun and it adds to you know we've told more people that being in the lifestyle adds to our relationship and they they're like, what? I was really feeling that last night. Yeah, I was so fired up after being with my playmate.
And then like all last night, we were grinding. And I'm like, I made me cum so hard. And again, and I hate you. And stop doing that. And then this morning, we wake up. And we wake up. up i was like i was all cuddly with you i'm making coffee and you're like i'm coming back in the bedroom right now make coffee first i gotta wake up makes the dogs crazy yeah i was i just just i felt like more drawn to you i just just want to like kiss you and yeah it's like i saw your like arm or whatever we're gonna go up there i'll get my pussy eaten again and have some like orgasm.
Or two or three or four or five. My brain's out. I think we should end this podcast. I'm going to take you upstairs, you silly man. Anyway. Actually, yeah, we bored these people enough. It's almost 40 minutes. But anyway, yeah we just want to explore the different fetishes and how being in the lifestyle makes it easier to explore what you may or may not like i think we've been over that yes yeah and you have a lot more people that will help you with it if you want to get into bdsm it's easier access to find people that can like like you went through, teach you, you know, and do it right.
Not just someone like, well, I went to. Smack you around. I went to Home Depot and I bought some rope and I'm going to tie you up. And like, you know, there's a trick to it all to make sure. Everybody has to be safe.
Just make sure everyone you deal with, especially in BDSM world, is trained and is safe and is someone you can trust so anyway okay i think that's enough you're still stoned you're half i want to take you upstairs okay you don't have to tell me twice all right let's all right so thank you all again check out all our links uh check out the magazine 50 shades of pleasure emails if you want to reach out to us with ideas, statements, or whatever at hotwifepodcasts at gmail.com. See who Donna is doing at hotwifedonnalyn.com. Thank you. I don't know if I can get that out. My mouth is so dry.
It's like. Okay. So anyway, let's go upstairs and make your mouth wet. Oh, okay. That sounds good. Thanks, everyone. Good night, okay. That sounds good. Thanks, everyone. Good night, everybody.