Should you validate married person that claim they have permission

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As well well as this podcast so um okay so got the dirty stuff out of the way yeah let's get to the hot stuff well we'll see how hot it is um i'm not burning all cylinders today so um not that that's important but um so tonight's topic is should you validate when you meet a playmate who says that they're allowed to play alone they have permission to play they have permission i think this would be easier more concise way to say that but there it is i mean it's we we've run into several mostly men mostly men okay i actually think if they get a couple gets a woman that says oh my husband is not into sex first of all right now you know she's online uh or she's not married um but how many men mostly men are like oh um my wife's lost all sex drive and she's giving me permission to play we've heard all different variations on that one is she knows i'm playing she's in medical conditions she's lost her sex drive right she says it's okay she just doesn't want to know about it yeah of course we also had the one that his wife sent him out sent him yeah so that was a whole different thing so that's uh you know we didn't and well again i got email from his wife through the swinger site can't say it was his wife i don't know yeah we don't know do you so the question is do you think it's necessary to do that to validate it to to reach out and talk to whoever the significant other is and say hey listen you know we use a man a man scenario right right for you to reach out and go i'm about to bang the snot out of your head. He says it's okay. He says it's okay. If he's legit, then he'll say, yeah, here's my wife on the phone, like you did to me. You had that lady and you guys were playing. It was the models I was shooting, yeah. And I got a call at work, and she was like, Vince said I could call you. I'm like oh well he says it's okay for the play oh go for it so do him dirty yeah but the thing is it's i bet you 99 i'm like uh no you don't need to validate it just take my word for it but you'd like my husband's where says he. What's your address? Exactly. Can you keep him there for 10 minutes? I'm going to be right over the beat of crap out of him. Before you even hang up, you're... Yeah, I mean, I bet you dollars for donuts, and I'm being very pessimistic about the human nature. I bet you all of them are just cheating. They're just coming up with a nice way to put it. Oh, I'm sure there's a better percentage that they are.
Speaker2: Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah.
Speaker1: Now, there have been some that are still cheating, but their wife legitimately was not wanting sex. We've had guys that are like, yeah, my wife can't. No, I'm doing this.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: Yeah, we've had that.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: You know, we don't condone cheating. No. No. If you're not happy in the relationship, get out. It's easier said than done. I know. I get it. There's a lot of ties and stuff. Maybe they are happy. They just want extracurricular activities. Oh. You know. See, that's the ideal scenario for swinging. My wife allows me to eat chocolate at home, but sometimes I like to have more chocolate than we have at home. More like to sample different chocolates. Chocolates. Okay. You know, I mean, seriously. That's what it's like. I mean, that's my excuse. I mean, no. Excuse? You don't need any excuse. Sometimes I have to sample other things other than chocolate. There's other sweets that I crave.
Speaker2: Some things I just aren't on the menu normally,
Speaker1: so I have to seek, let's say, unique restaurants where I get to eat creamy-filled setters. Oh, I was wondering how far you were going to go with that. I only did that because Wayne made a comment earlier about the gay Vince voice. Oh, did he? Oh, my God. I have got, I probably got more comments about the gay Vince voice than I have. It's frightening. It's like, do you really, like, think about this? No, I don i don't that's the really scary part you can honestly say you've done me 20 plus years now i don't think about much so if something comes out of my mouth generally proves i'm not thinking okay good if i'm sitting there your mouth is going if i'm not thinking if i'm sitting there quiet quiet, I'm thinking. Oh, I see. If my mouth is moving, no thought is happening. No, no. And if there's alcohol in my hand, no thinking is going on at all. Not even a little bit. Yeah. So anyway, do you think it's fair that you would question a man more than you would a woman? No, but it seems to be our... We'd'd be more grateful for a woman because then both of us can partake yeah exactly you know yeah but that would be nice but i think um men are jeez i don't want to sound sexist but they cheat more than women oh no it's just you know i'm could we totally all face with that but i know lots of women that cheat but i i just you do it's can i have their names numbers yeah okay all fair i'll go to you thanks now there's um most of the men that we've met have been cheaters like it's it's our our experiences have colored it now if we had met more women that were cheaters then we'd be like oh okay i'll be a whole different podcast a whole different podcast right exactly i'd be a lot thinner my tongue be more swollen yep you'd be you'd have jaw muscles out to here you know yeah i'd look like fabio's jaw people say do you have jaw implants nope i just eat a lot of pussy there you go um i had another question i was going to ask you what you were just saying um oh okay so Bye.
Speaker3: Bye-bye.
Speaker1: Bye-bye. i just eat a lot of pussy there you go um i had another question i was going to ask you what you were just saying um oh okay so the part that cracks me up is how many of these guys too that are cheating uh-huh and we know a few oh yeah we do that um that if their wife was doing the same thing to them they'd be bent out of shape yes it's okay for them to play but not their wives there is still a double standard i don't want to get into anything like real sexist or whatever but there is still a double standard that some of these guys uh you know oh it's okay for me to you know think about having sex with somebody else or or you know cheat on my wife but if she does it oh my god yeah there's definitely still a double standard well i actually went through that my first marriage oh yes but she wanted to play but i wasn't allowed you weren't allowed to what yeah it's good for the goose whichever way um but yeah it's and i guess that works the other way too the wife is cheating, she might not want to think of her husband out poking something. Yeah, but it's still, yeah, you may not want to think that, but you have to think about, like, okay, what are you doing? Why is it okay for them to cheat for their spouse? Oh, I'm not condoning it. I'm just making a statement, you know. Yeah, we have seen it on both sides, but. I mean, hell, more recently, my daughter my daughter you know she is separated from her husband divorce proceedings are in the process but she wanted him to sit home and wait in case this new relationship she and she's in doesn't work she wants to have a you know a safety blanket yep and it's just like no it doesn't work that way if i could find a woman you know a decent woman that to go boff him i'd hook my son-in-law up to get him laid yeah yeah i mean it's not fair to ask somebody to hold their put their life on hold while you go out and experience things yeah unless you have that agreement i mean if you have that agreement i'm sure there are couples out there that say hey you i would think that's a very minor amount oh i would think yeah i think it's pretty minor too if a woman is going through like when you were going through your menopause okay very tough time for you know because you had no sex drive and you know i still had some yeah and that's why i called it men on pause yeah it's like i was like okay yeah um you know it was you know maybe once every it got as far as three months yeah it was and um uh the hormones aren't there you are what your hormones are unfortunately i did the best i could you know it's terrible i would close my dick in the desk drawer to make the go away. Oh, no. I'm pretty affectionate with that desk drawer now. Fortunately, things can come back, which is kind of nice. Yeah, but what I'm saying is, okay, where I was going with it. Yeah, it's like, yeah, give yourself permission to. If something happens to a woman, or a man, okay? If your partner, I word it that way, somehow happens that their sex drive just isn't there right and now you have to ask yourself in all fairness is the sex drive not there for medical reasons is it there because of you you know is it something maybe they're not so turned on by you anymore. Maybe stop staring at me.
Speaker2: Shut up.
Speaker3: I'm allowed to stare at you.
Speaker1: Yeah, maybe they're the one.
Speaker2: Yeah, you're right, Vince. You know, it's not, you know, people don't ask or research. They're just like, well, fuck it. I'm not getting it.
Speaker3: I'm going elsewhere.
Speaker1: You know, now, again, if you're a swinger and that's something you guys have agreed upon, then do what you want. But if you're, I think if you're a swinger and that's something you guys have agreed upon, then do what you want. But I think if your relationship sucks and you're not happy, or your partner's not happy, I mean, first of all, you should be having communication. I was just thinking that. Like, communication would really help right around now. You know, if the wife just says, listen, go do what you want. I'm really not happy. We're just going to coexist. I can't afford to live on my own. You can't afford to pay me alimony or whatever. You know, or vice versa, whichever it might be. So we'll just coexist, you know. We'll get separate beds, separate bedrooms, whatever. You know, do what you want. I don't need to know about it, you know. Maybe one of the rules might be, I don't know, it would be like you can't spend overnight someplace you know i think that would hurt probably more than thinking he's out fucking somebody where she is um if they're out overnight when they shouldn't be it's not like they you know if you say like hey i have to go to chicago for a business meeting it's like you're self-employed you own a grocery store you know or something like that it's like why would you travel but but you know if you go as you're in chicago for would you rather have them like actually doing it in their bedroom no what i'm saying is they say under the same roof if you want to go no no no what i'm saying is you know if that was going to happen i would think you'd sit there like again it's different for us because you know yeah we're swingers and you know the hot wife thing i guess i've heard something about the hot wife thing i'm not sure what that's about explain this non-hot wife thing is this is alien to me yeah so there's two people and they don't want to have sex with each other but they're living in the same house and they're just saying okay you do what you want to do and you do what you want to do there's still gonna be some kind of feeling so let's pretend they're going to coexist okay and i'm sure they still have some feelings for each other right okay i'm not saying it's a raging love or anything else but yeah you know and and people might say listen i i don't want to know right that you're out banging somebody else right i'm trying to keep it generic so it could be male right exactly okay so but however if so all of a sudden something that has never happened in the history of your relationship they say well i won't be home tonight it's like well why you know i mean it's just you have separate lives it's actually i think it'd be less hurtful if they went away and had the sex someplace else then i guess i don't know where else are gonna have it i don't know well go to a hotel and well that's still you know well see my theory is if you started to spend the nights away now you could say hey i'm too drunk i'm getting a hotel maybe that's what they're doing they just get a hotel i'm just saying i think at that point now if you're starting to spend overnights with somebody now emotions are getting involved so now at that point you need to go okay you know what you got to get your own place right and who knows you know how long that's going to take i still don't think the overnight thing is uh to be qualified as having feelings necessarily i i would if i was in that situation i would want my significant other to take his business off the property i don't care where i don't need to know about it but your your thing is is the overnight that's what you know for you if they're out at night they're going hey i'm going out with bob you know like me let's pretend i have a friend named bob i don't say i'm going to go out with bob and we have a relationship where you know we're co-existing right like now right yeah right now yeah like exactly that's what i meant like now and all of a sudden i'm out with drinks with bob and all of a sudden you know being respectful i'm like hey man i'm not gonna be home tonight you know no you could either like fine whatever i don't give a fuck right or in the back of your mind you could actually be like all right well now i know he's fucking somebody maybe he's fucking bob i don't know you don't know no but where if he comes home late you go okay he's out drinking it's it lessens the potential pain he could have been out fucking and came home late yeah but but you can go with the scenario he was out drinking he's out of bob's house hanging out that's what i'm saying yeah i guess you could again i'm just throwing shit out there it don't mean anything i don't like we've said in the in the warning of the show we have no professional none not even we're just talking if you take anything we say is overly serious then shame on you because we are officially nobodies so that's true that's very true yeah yeah i'm hmm yeah this is a very sticky situation coming we do we do encounter it being on swinger websites and stuff the guys that are you know posing as quote swinging alone and stuff and it's kind of delicate because i don't i don't like you said before i don't condone the cheating aspect necessarily i mean i get it we're all human whatever but it's i'm only because i know in the back of my mind that he has somebody else at home that doesn't know what he's doing you know at that particular moment that's kind of shitty you know that's that is kind of again they could tell you we're just coexisting you don't know yeah we don't know there could be a whole series of lies oh that's the whole thing with liars once they start laying you know what i'm like whatever but you, whatever. You know, it's not my, it's not our relationship we have to worry about. No, no. They're not going to hurt ours. Yeah, I'm not worried if a jealous wife or boyfriend comes up and it's like, dude, you really picked the wrong spot to show up like that. Yeah. Say hello to my little friend. We've never had that happen, thankfully. No, but I'm just saying there are people that, you know, I guess if two people are cheating, you know, if we were not in the swinger type thing, and all of a sudden a irate wife shows up here saying, you've been fucking her husband, then I just, you know, I mean, I'd be livid if she didn't have sex with me. know see we gotta get even with these bastards these cheating bastards you know what i'm gonna fuck you in the ass and wipe my dirty dick on donna's pillow that'll teach her yeah that'll teach me yeah then donna would smell the pill and go i'm in the mood I'm an ass eater so a little song came up with the other day you have to hum to the theme of man eater from home of course the substitute man eater for ass eater there you go oh here she comes she's an ass eater i don't sing so thank you that's why you got out yeah the rest would be horrible. Every time it comes on the radio. We would lose all listeners when we sang. I was driving. It came on the radio earlier this week. And, of course, I'm singing, you know, ass eater to it all the thing. I was like, yes, this is my song.
Speaker2: I eat my ass and I'm an ass eater. Really? Really? Well, I've eaten plenty of ass, but it's all but women.
Speaker3: I just don't enjoy the concept of eating a man's ass or having my ass eaten.
Speaker1: That's all. Don't get me wrong. Well, see, I can pick or choose. I can have a woman's ass to eat or a man's. I guess I would use the terminology loosely. God bless you for that. I'm happy only eating women's ass. There you go.
Speaker2: You know?
Speaker1: See, I'm the whole smorgasbord. See, the bonus of eating a woman's ass over eating a man's ass is they're so close to each other.
Speaker2: Oh, yeah.
Speaker1: That's true. You got the pussy ass.
Speaker4: Pussy ass.
Speaker1: Like I said, one thing visually, I mean, there's a lot more to it than visual for me because i'm not into men is you know a guy up in all fours with his hair and his shit hanging down it just it looks like an elephant going the wrong way i don't know yeah um he got this big giant truck okay the guys that i wear them big giant trucks what are you trying to say i don't have one no i didn't say that but you pointed at me i didn't point i was rubbing my head i was not pointing you're gonna cry i'm not too upset i understand the visual i understand the visual woman's ass in the air is nice and round it could be a woman doesn't have to be in the air now if a guy is laying on his back and you're blowing him he's got to put his knees behind his fucking ears for you to get to it or you're going to grab his scrotum and pull it so fucking hard it goes up to his knee so you can get to his rectum and then if you slip out your hands if it slips out your hands those nuts are going to smack you in the forehead then Then you have like a big dot on your forehead. So do you want me to continue licking your testicles or your asshole? I will do whatever you want me to do. Are you just feeling so good? Look, I cannot see anymore. My eyes are swollen because your balls smacked me in my eyes. I've never eaten a guy's ass in that. I know what position you're talking about. I don't know if I could even get into that position anymore. With shoulder right now you can't but no god no that would be just very painful yes maybe you have to have the guy you know tell him to grab his nuts and pull pull it up like he's lifting the garage door do you mind getting your nuts out of your asshole so i can lick it oh my god yeah i don't think that'd be a very good position i i don't know for me having my playmate on all fours was a better position for me you say i was like oh no it's not a good visual i don't really like looking at men's junk anyway now i get to see the junk in the trunk no it's just like it's you know it's not it wasn't like like oh let me check that off my bucket list no that wasn't there it was like you know not no not even not even not on the next page next book another there was still a lot of ink left in my pen so i can't say i was out of ink so it didn't make it it. It was fine. No, it was just never a thought, a concept. You know, again, penis allergy. I understand. I just love busting on you.
Speaker2: I know.
Speaker1: I'm going to go down the shore, you know, down the boardwalk and get a custom baseball hat made for you. Number one ass eater. I would wear it. Never met an ass i wouldn't eat well i won't go that far but it was clean no ass too tough for me oh my god should i should i wear that cap when i wear my trophy wife shirt oh just make sure I'm not standing near you. Trophy wife and number one. Trophy wife ass eater? Now you're mixing the two. Either I'm a trophy wife or I'm a number one ass eater. I don't know if I could be both. That's whole other thing trophy wife ass eater stop it just keep it down already swallow that's what i say to you that's true oh shit yeah anyway so back to the uh verifying so yes you should but most most men won't they they lie so i'm just go with it okay i mean i i personally don't care like like we've told people it's like dude it's your marriage yep it's not gonna even be hurting us if you know if you have a wife that you want to cheat on that's your business you have kids you want to fuck up their life ah yikes yeah because you don't know they could not they could tell you oh i don't have any kids okay you know but you know again once people lie they start lying they keep lying yeah and truthfully there's no way you can really know unless you seriously vet all these people to find out their background and it's like at that point it's yeah i don't need to invade somebody's privacy application so we're gonna have you take one of these indeed tests and you have it's a time test pick which is best for you a you want your ass eaten b you're cheating on your wife which one best fits you a you like when one sticks three knuckles in your ass while she blows you b she sticks four knuckles in your ass blows you i've never done that there's no wrong answer oh yeah i was gonna say i've never done that this week no i like we talked about last time i there's guys that are like begging me to peg them i'm just like i ah again there's that line in the sand i just i'm just not comfortable with that but you put your fucking tongue up there but i can feel my tongue i can tell that's even where you taste it you taste it my finger has no fucking taste unless i put my finger in some place and taste my finger which i don't do no it's no you'll put the fucking thing it's got like heavy senses and tastes in some place it's not meant to have that done it was fine shut up now pegging i like we said before, I can't tell how far the dodo goes in. Again, I talked about you with that before about that. It's like, wait, you get these guys with these monster cocks that they try jamming, you know, fucking 12 inches in a fucking four-inch hole. And you're like, you're banging my cervix. You're banging my cervix. So they don't know how far they're going so fuck them you teach them a fucking lesson bring out the fucking you know 18 inch fucking strap on and go to town on them you're banging my heart you're banging my heart too fucking bad motherfucker how's it feel i sure thought about that when you're fucking me banging the shit out of my cervix explain to your friends why your rectum's bleeding you fuck sick fuck when we pegged just Just kidding. Nostro and Joy. God bless you. I just, like I said, just not there yet. No, that's fine. I'm just saying. You don't know how to do it until you practice, so you need to find yourself a boy toy that wasn't, and you have a bunch of them. Yeah, I do. It's think it's a great get even for you yeah but these aren't the guys that have been banging the snot out of me well let them go bang the snot out of the guys who bang the snot out of you okay that's a deal if you want a dick in your ass then you probably want to put your dick in someone else's ass. And you probably want to use Spunk Lube. You should use Spunk Lube. Just saying. Unless you're really being cruel.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: Spit won't cover. Spit doesn't always... Spunk Lube helps a lot. You might get a second date with that. Yeah, probably. Remember to use the word hot wife in the discount code area and check out and get 10 off shameless plug hey i also want to give a quick shout out and thanks to everyone who's now uh subscribing and listening to us on podbean and by subscribe i mean just like just following just following there's no pay for subscription so i want to because that number of listeners is growing pretty rapidly nice that's sweet And by subscribe, I mean just like following that. There's no pay for subscription. So that number of listeners is growing pretty rapidly. Nice. That's sweet. Appreciate it. Appreciate everyone who listens to us. Thank you, guys. Appreciate it. So we'll call it fucker's discretion if you want to check if someone's cheating or not cheating. A fucker's discretion. Okay. All right? Yeah. All right. So we're going to wrap this up and go swimming? Let's wrap it up and go swimming. All right, we're going to do some night swimming. Yep. I may or may not wear a bathing suit. I don't care if you're mayor or not. Well, I'll start out with one, but then when the lights go down, I'm going to take it off. It's funny. The lights go down, and you tell me to put more on. Well, that's you, dear, because clothes look so sexy on you. I'm like, put more clothes on, babe. Oh, no. Put the blanket over your head.
Speaker5: Oh, my God, you're hot.
Speaker1: Oh, God, it's so hot. Oh, my God. Now, can you put that plastic bag over your head and go into the bottom of the pool for like 10 minutes? I'll be so ready for you.
Speaker2: Oh, my God.
Speaker1: That's terrible all right let's wrap this bad boy up i want to get swimming all right so i want to thank everyone for listening um we were going to try to videotape the show but the heat today and did a lot of work around the house i don't i don't think i'm dressed appropriately well for youtube you're not but well i i'm you know that'd be fine for you too oh yeah we find for you too just a bathing suit top and my my jean shorts yeah you'd be
Speaker2: covered sure so all right folks talk to you later on all right have a great night everybody Thank you, everybody.