Sexual Dynamics

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now, let's heat things up. Hello, everybody. This is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Fight Podcast. Of course, I'm here with my wonderful husband, Vince. I see him over there. He's like... Of course. I thought you'd be like snickering or something. No, not me. Oh, no, not at all. Would I do that? No. You're always serious and very, like, you know, job-oriented and, you know, task-oriented. Sure, sure. We'll go with that. Focused and no fun in your life. You're not a jokester. We know that. Not at all. Not even a little bit. So. You got that out of the way, right? Yeah. Okay. That bullshit's out of the way. Hey, I'm wearing my work boots so I can spread as much shit as I want. I'm protected. I spread a lot of shit. Yeah. So, we had an interesting day. Yeah, we did. We sure did. We got to meet with Mickey and her boyfriend. Right. Yeah. And had some coffee with them. Yeah, that was, you know, again, named from the past. If you know Mickey or whatever. A little wild minx. Well, she was. I think she's calmed down. I think she's calmed down. Yeah, she was. I think a boyfriend would like her to be a little more wild. Yeah, maybe. That's my guess. We didn't have that conversation. The kids were around, her kids. Yeah, so we couldn't. We had to keep everything very vanilla. That's frustrating. Your old classmate. We met with him and his new girlfriend. New girlfriend. Wow. Not that I don't find you stunning, because I do. Oh, whatever. She's so hot. She is just like. I'm not a premature ejaculator, but I could be with her. Yeah, I could. Yeah. She tells me I could eat her pussy or fuck her or whatever. I'm done. Oh, you're done. Yeah. Thank you for just acknowledging. I really, really wish we could have gotten on the podcast. It's coming. Yeah, I know. I can't say when. We're not going to. No. That's the thing where we talk about it beforehand. But it's coming. She wants to be. Yeah. They just had previous engagements. They couldn't stay here that long. Then we just met them. So we wanted to spend. Or her. We know him. Yeah, her. Yeah. You sucked his dick on air a few times. She doesn't know that yet. I don't know. Well, we'll find out. I don't know. She will eventually. But. I guess. Thing is, she is a mature woman. Yes. Incredibly sexy. Very sexy. Exciting story. Just to give you some highlights of where we're going with this. Hang on, I've got to adjust my mic. Okay, there it is. Look that up. She is a woman who was married twice. Very super vanilla. Yeah. Very, according to her, high sex drive. Right. But husbands that suppressed it. Husbands that weren't interested and they slept in separate rooms. They didn't even want her to give them blowjobs. Yeah, she was saying, yeah. Which is going to lead into tonight's topic. Yes, it will. Yeah, when he said like her, was it her second husband? Oh, it doesn't matter. For a second, whatever. It doesn't matter. Any man that turns her down from wanting them to suck her dick, the dick is like mental. When she told us that story about her husband saying, no, you don't need to do that. She goes, well, tonight you're just not in the mood. He goes, no, you don't need to do that ever again. She did it once. Her second husband, she gave him a blowjob once, and he's like, you don't ever have to do that again. That's nuts. What man would say that? Not me. I'd like, well, I expect that twice a night. Yeah. She is gorgeous, has a great body. Great body, a lot of fun. She's in her 50s and has a body better than some women in their 20s. Yeah, she's got some, she's tight, man. She's tight. And a dynamite personality. Oh, she was a hoot. Oh, she's great. When she breaks loose, I don't know. It's going to be like Mickey all over again. Well, yeah, yeah. You know, she went like crazy, like, ah, I want to fuck all the time. We're going to document her growth. Yeah. She's not necessarily into the swinger lifestyle yet. Right. Is interested. Right. Hasn't dabbled. Right. She's gone from completely vanilla into going to nudist beaches. It's a star. Baby steps. So you might luck out there. I might luck out. Yeah. And even express interest in potential. She wants me to do some photographs of her. Oh, you know how that's going to end. Well, we expressed about video. Uh-huh. And she has a position in her life where she can't show her face. Right. Not that her face isn't more than stunning. Yeah, exactly. But her body matches it. So I said, yeah, in the video world, you don't have to show your face. Nope. And, uh, I mean, yeah. So she's like, Oh, I'm interested. So it's going to be a dynamic thing coming in the future. Hopefully that, uh, they're going to, these two are going to come on air with us and, uh, share their exploits to this point and hopefully in the future. Well, that's, that'll be pretty hot because we sat there and talked for quite a while. I'm like, and they wanted to do more, but she had a commitment. She had to get, um, and, uh, so they, had to leave earlier than any of us wanted to. And he even texted me since they left. It's like, oh, my God, she's so fired up. You know, he took advantage of her. No, no, he had to get her. I just get her home. Oh, that sucks. But he's probably got blue balls and she's probably got. Is there such a thing as blue pussy? I got blue balls, too. Yeah, I got blue balls, too. I don't know what women go through. I don't know. Well, women don't have the aspect, the problem that men have. Women get horny and need to get laid. They can get laid. Oh, I see what you're saying. Yes. It isn't as easy. Well, yeah, but I'm saying if it doesn't, you get this buildup and then you don't have it, men have a physical problem. Okay. You know, the blue balls. It's a real thing. Oh, it is. Oh, I know. I'm sure you do. And like, oh my god, I get fucked. She just makes a couple phone calls. Yeah, you can call someone you're just friends with. Like, hey, listen, I need you to come over and fuck me. I need to get fucked. And the guy will be like, oh, I'll be right there. A man gets all horned up and he calls a woman that he's just friends with. Like, hey, I did get fucked. Well, sorry to hear that. Sorry to hear that. Shame on you. Must suck for you. Get some tissues and jerk off. I don't want to tell you. And jerking off is just not the same. No, but it gets the job done. Let me ask you that. Okay, this is not the topic. Okay, yeah. Let me ask you this. So if you get all horned up, you're like all sorts of fired up. Does masturbating with a vibrator, dildo, finger, whatever, satisfy you as much as getting it from a human? I'm waiting for you to finish. No. However, I will say, that I can, like in the shower, we don't have the water pressure here, but in our old place, we had really good water pressure. I could come in the shower anytime I wanted to. But the thing is, it's not as satisfying. That's where I'm getting at. It's not as satisfying. I'll come in like three seconds or a minute. Jerking off will take the edge off. It'll take the edge off. It's a temporary satisfaction. It's very temporary. It's not bad. I'm not saying it's not, doesn't have its place, but yeah, it doesn't have the long and satisfaction that I get from being with a human. Some kind of human. Subhuman. Penetration, more satisfaction than oral satisfaction. The next step. It depends on the person. In my younger days, I would have said penetration was more than oral. Since I'm more mature now. Yeah, let's go with that. Since I'm an old lady now, I'll say oral gives me a better satisfaction. Move my walker and go down. Oh, wait a minute. Yeah, I mean, I have to take that back. I have to take that back. Not me. Don't count me. No. It's like the oral is super strong, but sometimes when you have penetration after that, it's more satisfying than just oral alone. Okay. Although oral does do the trick, man. Again, this is not the topic for tonight. Yeah, I know. We're off on a tangent now. Sorry. No, but it's still relevant. Sure, okay. So can you, to the best of your ability, describe the different levels of satisfaction between oral and penetration? Because as a man, it's going to be obviously different. Yes. There is great orgasms with oral, depending on the skill of your partner, of course. But there is like the next level, which is just oral. And then some form of penetration, not necessarily penis. It can be fingers. It can be toys. It can be a lot of other things that brings you to the next level. Especially like the penis cannot hit my G spot. I'm sorry. Penis is not even in the game. Like, you know where my G-spot is. You know exactly. And I will have the most incredible orgasm that way. But if I have a playmate that doesn't know where that is or isn't experiencing that, it'll be good. It'll be like, you know, the next level. Okay. But, okay, so. Does that answer your question at all? No. It does, but it doesn't. Okay. No. So, does a good oral sex, G-spot stimulation satisfy you as much as a penetration? Because we know, like Mickey. Mickey, she wants to be penetrated. Right, right. In my younger days, I was more like that. Am I more of a... I'm speaking as a male, obviously. Right, you just have one. It's just... Penetration or... No, I personally, I prefer oral. Yeah, yeah. I prefer oral. Not that I don't enjoy penetration, but... It's so much more sensual. So much more concentrated for me because, again, my whole life I've dealt with a lot of bodily injuries. So it's like, oh, my knees, oh, my back. Oh, okay, regular sex is just too physical for you. There's a lot of other pain that offsets. There's logistics involved. But it helped me not be premature. Right, right, oh, right. So, but it's like, yeah, the orgasm is great, but with the body spasms that happen, Yeah, it's also in my mood of the day, too. I might say, well, oral is always good as a good, you know, get the motor running type of a thing. And then you add your fingers in it. If they hit the G-spot, that's the gold mine. And you know what? No, I'm sorry. I don't know. I don't know of any dick that has ever hit my G-spot ever in however many years I've been having sex. Okay. Never. Because your dick can't- Two years? Two years. I'm still a virgin. I've only had a couple of- You're new to it. Yeah, very new. Well, where my G-spot is, from what you- You tell me because I don't know. It's like if you put your finger into my pussy, you say you curl it, curl it up. I don't know a dick that can do that. Well, depends on what happens to that dick. No dick can curl up like my finger. I have to bend at my second knuckle and reach back with my first knuckle. Can your dick do that? Can any dick do that? My dick can barely get in that deep. All right, let's not go there. But what I'm saying is that's my... I think you just did. Yeah, that's my turn on. And I think a dick is just going to go right over that. Okay. And it's going to hit the back wall, which is sometimes that's fine. But if I want that G-spot stimulation, there's only one way to get it, and that is with a finger. See, as a man... I'm just saying for me. The way I said I checked, as a man... Right. Or we don't have a G-spot. What? What if I've been sticking my hand in then? Your hand in what? Oh, you always say put your hand back there, baby, deeper, deeper. No, that's your other boyfriend, not me. Can you stick your finger up, Matukas? No, he never said that. Words that Vince has never said. Yeah, that's in the book of Vince has never said, yeah. I know, dear. I am busting your balls, as usual. Oh, stop it. You need to go to your safe place. But, yeah, explain the difference. Okay, can I? We're going to not even cover our topic. Oh, that's fine, whatever. That's fine, whatever. So explain the difference in the orgasms between a penetration one and a G-spot. Because as a man, we have no concept of a G-spot orgasm experiencing. Because, I mean, now there are guys who do the prostate thing, which I have never done. Oh, yeah. That would probably be as close to the G-spot stimulation. I would guess. I don't know. I don't need to know. Yeah. I don't. You know what? Having something in my ass is really not. Oh, makes me wish I had a prostate. If it's as good as the G-spot orgasm, holy moly. I would guess that's the equivalent of a man's G-spot or a woman's. I would guess. Yeah, I think it would be very, maybe very similar. I'll tell you what. my G-spot experiences. First of all, doing the oral first, like you have always said, my pussy starts to really open up. It gets swollen. There's a lot more blood in there. And it opens up. You're quit and you're having swell up. It swells up. It's real full, which is great. Yeah, it is great. It's like a pussy kissing me back. Yeah, it is very much. I can feel it open. I can almost feel like my pussy could reach out and grab your face and pull it in, as gross as that might sound. Like this Portuguese man of war kind of thing. Give me your face. I don't want to say jellyfish. You want to go Portuguese. Portuguese is a lot bigger. Yeah, okay. Jellyfish type of thing. Whatever. Clam. Clam. I don't want to make it sound like you have a huge pushy. Yeah, I don't have that big a lips, but you know. I've only gotten up to my shoulders. I've gone up to my knees. You're pulling me down like a hat over your head. Not for nothing. I weigh on my weight. That gets like everything. I can feel like my insides start to swell and like almost I fantasize that my pussy is almost reaching out to kiss you back. It feels like it. It feels like it to me too. And then when you, and you just seem to know, like there's a couple of times I was just about ready to say, give me one of your fingers and just, you know, put, slide that finger in there. And then you do. And I'm like, oh my, I just open up my legs and you just slide your finger in there. And like you, you like tease around a little bit, but when you hit the G spot, this is going to sound really weird. This might even, this doesn't even sound sexual. you massage it or whatever you're doing. I feel like it gives me the sensation that I kind of have to pee, which is really weird. And I can't understand how that could even be remotely sexual. Okay. It's like, I have to pee, but it really makes me feel like I have to come. It's like, how does that even relate? But it does. There's a brief second, like when you're sucking my dick. You're going to pee in my mouth? Oh, that'd be hard. No, it's so unsexual to me. Oh, hon, it's your pee. I'm all good with it. No, you're not. You can just peel my face. It'll be fine. You're going to wash it off. Oh, it's your pee. I understand that, but no. No, there's a brief second. It's almost like you have to make a conscious effort. Like, am I going to pee? Am I going to fart? No, fart's a different subject. Wow, that ruined it. No! How about those baseball teams? Wow. Let's just make it a sports show. Wait a minute. When I'm relaxed and I'm like, I almost, I kind of like bear down to feel like, you know, to kind of get, what's the word I want to, I almost want to like eject my pussy out, you know, and so I'm bearing down. Sometimes I'll fart. Yeah. Because I'm, I'm constantly bearing down. It puts pressure on whatever, and I fart. I don't want to get. But it's not a stinky fart. Oh, I don't know what kind of fart it is. It's like when I'm like, oh, sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry. You released air. I'll put it that way. It was a fart. It's a fart. Whatever. But it hasn't been like, oh, my God. You're a gag. No more Taco Bell for you. Yeah, thank God. No. That'd be terrible. Yeah, it would be. I've done it. You know I farted in your mouth. And you gobble it up. There's been times, whether you're aware of it, or not, there's been like little bubbles that like pop out while you're sucking my dick. I'm like, oh. No, I'm not aware. You can fart. I don't mind. That's not something I want to do. No, your body's relaxed. That's it. Yeah, let's be honest about this. Yeah. Your body relaxes and sometimes you put. Well, tell me it doesn't depend on how much you're into that person, whether it matters or not. Oh, true. If it's someone you really don't want to be with and all of a sudden they. Oh, you're like, oh, that's disgusting. I'm done. I'm done. I gotta go. Look at the time. Wow. I'm out of here. You just. That's my mom calling. Yeah, I'm instantly turned off. I'm out here. No, I treasure your farts, dear. I don't even remember where we were going with this. The little farts and the oral and how you relax. Because what's going on, there's been times where you feel like, oh my God, I almost have to pee, but then all of a sudden, nope, I'm going to cum. Yeah, that's exactly. You almost have to, you're hoping your body hits, the right channel. It's like, no, go to the cum channel, not the piss channel. Yeah. How everyone is, yes, yes. Yeah, when you're like at your finger, like all my G-spot where I don't know where the hell is. I can't find it. I have no idea. I couldn't, you know, whatever. You know where it is. It's not your job. It's my job. Well, if that's a job, I'm glad you have it. I'm glad I have it too. Yeah, it gives you that slight sensation that I feel like, oh, I feel like I have to pee. and, oh, no, I'm going to come. It's just that. The first, like, oh, I'm going to, I feel like I have to kind of pee. And then you come. It's like, whoa. I didn't have to pee before we got here, but now it's like, oh, my God. But it's not. It's not. It just has that sensation for some reason. I don't know why, but maybe some doctor out there can, you know, explain it. Yeah, info on hotwaypodcast.com. Yeah, if you know why you feel like you have to pee when somebody is stimulating your G-spot, I have no idea why. I don't care, but you know. You're down there manipulating all the different nerve endings and stuff like that. Now, some people who are into the pee thing, like, oh, pee on me. Now, okay, whatever gets you there, that's great, as long as everyone's consenting and an adult. So, yeah, I mean, really, there's different levels of orgasm. There's the penetrated or penetrated, Right, right. There's the masturbation. Right. And then there's the oral. Right. How would you rate them in a way of favorite to least favorite? Masturbation is probably my least favorite. Really? Yeah. Yeah, I get that. I'm just asking. It's not a good, it's not, it's like, it's, okay, I can get myself off in a matter of minutes, but it's, it's hollow. It doesn't have the intimacy. It's like, I'm hungry. Okay, this pack of crackers. Yeah, it'll fill me up, but it's crackers. It cures my hunger at the moment. Yeah. Yeah, I said fill me up, but yeah, you're right. I'm still going to be wanting more, but it takes the edge off. It takes the edge off. That's a good way to put it. You know what? It has to be in the mood for, depending on where I am, like I do, I love the oral and the finger type stimulation. I have my most powerful orgasms that way. However, if I'm in like an a threesome situation, and I'm just reminiscing back to the threesome we did with Bob and Jay, and he's pounding my ass. That was a really strong orgasm, but that was, I think it was just everything else. You and Jay and Bob, and Bob was like pulling my hair and being like dominant. And I think that whole scenario when he's like pounding my ass, and I kept saying, fuck me harder, fuck my ass harder. That was like, I was in the moment, and I was like, was I rubbing my pussy? Was I rubbing my clit? Usually I need to have some kind of clitoral stimulation in that scenario. So my next question, if you really have your preference, vaginal or anal? Oh, God. It depends on so many things. Like sometimes- We'll narrow it down. Oh, probably- Okay, here's the scenario. Okay. Oh, that's a hard one. That's a hard one. It's a hard one. An average size penis. Okay. Okay. A average size, average scenario. Okay. You're not in any place dangerous or whatever. You're, you know, in a bedroom. Okay. Someplace really safe and tame. Very mundane. Okay. Okay. And a guy, like I said, is an average lover. Right. Okay, let me paint this scenario. Okay. You go on a hot date with a guy. No cameras. Okay. You go out and have a nice dinner or whatever. You go back to some location and he's an average length. He's shaved. All the good stuff, right? He's average lover. Nothing spectacular. Okay. Does it boil down to your mood or what you think will feel better? And which hole? Geez, if I'm on top, if I'm in girl, like cowgirl position, I think either hole is about right. Sometimes I like anal a little bit better because I'm not sure why. There's a sensation back there I find very, God, I don't know how to, I don't even know how to describe it. Actually, things, this is going to sound so weird. Actually, more dicks in my ass feel better than them in my pussy. There's no wrong answer. No, I don't know what's going on with me. I must be going through something. I'm going to talk about the couple today. When you're done. Go ahead. Okay. There is a sensation I found really super intriguing, exciting. It's like having my assholes stretched just feels so good. Not stretched like Mr. Beer Can. Is it a taboo thing? No, maybe, maybe. It's like, even Mr. Beer Can, his dick fit better in my ass than it did in my pussy. Okay, let's not go with that. I like that feeling of my asshole being stretched out to a certain degree. I find that very stimulating. More than my pussy, which I don't understand. Does the tabooness of it? Maybe a little, but it is kind of like, ooh, I'm being a dirty girl. That kind of thing. It's so dirty. Like a couple we met today. She's not, she has not experienced swinging yet. Oh, wait till that door. But she came from two relationships where it was ultra vanilla. Yeah, more vanilla than. But she's tried a butt plug and had anal sex the other day for her first time and loved it. Okay. Oh, yeah. And so is there a difference? I mean, I know you've had anal orgasms. Oh, yeah, absolutely. Is there a difference between anal and vaginal? Yeah, there is a difference. There's a lot of other external stimuli that might influence it. There's so many more nerve endings in your butt, for me, than in my vagina. I just feel like it's so much more stimulating in my ass than in my pussy. I do like having vaginal sex. But I seem to be like, I don't know, maybe I just get bored with it. I'm like, oh, just stick it in my ass. Or just like, whoa, I got to be in your ass. Oh, my God. My butt's a little tighter. Like if you're a doggy. Oh, my ass is just right there. Anal is a better height for the average person. Yeah, there's logistics involved. Yeah, it just seems to line up. I'm like, oh, your dick's in my ass again. It's like, oh, I'm sorry. I'm like, well, that's fine. I mean, really, the only downside of anal is you have to make sure you've cleaned before. Clean before ahead of time. There's a little more prep involved. Yeah, that's always good to do that. Just in case. Well, you don't want to put a guy's dick out and suck it and suck your dirty stuff. Yeah, that would be a little graphic. Do you think if you had to pick vaginal or anal from here on out, what would you pick? I don't know. I don't know. There's some days I like... There's no wrong answer. If you had to say... One or the other, I don't know. I'm just asking. Probably anal. Probably anal. Sometimes it's just easier. Like I've said before, guys with longer dicks actually fit better in my butt than they do in my pussy. They just seem to hit bottom so much faster in my vagina. You have a smaller cervix. I'm shorter. They keep hitting cervix. That really hurts, but I have a lot more in the room in the back door. As men, we don't understand that. Yeah. That's what I'm asking. Yeah, they say you could probably feel it. You feel like you're hitting something, I'm sure. We don't have a whole lot of feeling in our dick, so. Oh, maybe that's it. No, we just want to pound. You just want to pound. And actually, I think as a man, there's something more erotic about fucking a woman's ass because it's quote unquote taboo. Taboo. You know. Yeah. Yeah. And. I even think when you're playing with another man's wife, it's even more erotic fucking her ass. Oh yeah, because it's even more taboo. It's like that's somebody else. I'm fucking your wife's ass. Yeah, it was taboo for a regular husband to fuck his wife's ass, but now you got another man doing that. I've even heard where men, like, either the wife saves the ass just for the man, or saves the ass just for the playmates. Right. Yes. Either or. Okay. Yeah, I'd say definitely anal. All right. But then I have those times. It depends on my mood, but yeah, I'd say in general, it's just easier to do anal. It's a little more freaky. Once you're clean. Yeah, once I'm clean. Let's preface that. I'm always clean, okay? I've always done my clean. Before you play. Before I play, I always clean up. Yeah. All right. You know, wash everything out first. Give the old-fashioned. Sweep the halls. Sweep the halls there, just to make sure. Yeah, just to make sure. Well, there's something really ironic about, you know, a guy that comes in my ass. Like, I was one playmate down there by the pool, and he did me anal, and it was a big load. For him, it was a huge load, huge load. And he, like, gets up and kind of, like, straddles over me, and this big, giant, first bubble popped out of my ass from his And all of a sudden, this giant cum load just gushes out at me. Because his cum was a little bit more on the watery side. Some guys' cums are thick and kind of goopy, depending on how much they've been drinking or how hydrated they are, what all those factors come into play. But his was pretty big. And I opened up my ass cheeks, and it's like, bubble comes out and kind of like pops. And then all of a sudden this big gush of gum comes out and like runs down my butthole all the way down. I have another question for you. Kind of off topic. Okay. Okay. Like you obviously have a few playmates. Yeah. Like you have that one young guy who's local. Right. Right. And, you know, he always likes to, he texts both of us. Yeah, I know. Like six o'clock in the morning. Hey, happy Monday. He starts work at like five. Whatever. Um, And he always likes to let us know he's horny. Yeah, I know. Both of us. Hey, Vince, I'm really horny. It's like, fine. Don't tell me. That's great. I can't help you. Text my wife, please. Yeah, I can't help you. He's so cute. Do you... Is there a level of... Okay. I don't know what you want to say. Me either, apparently. It's like... I don't know how to put this. So are you on board with kind of like, let me get, he's what, 24? I think he's older than that, but he's in his 20s. Not by much, 25, 26. Yeah, whatever. Yeah, he's pretty young. I mean, are you on board with just like satisfying him? Yeah. Okay. that was pretty inexperienced when we first. Yeah. No, he's the one that first time he's 69. Yeah, he never 69. He never did anal. He was like, not that experienced though. You ate his ass. Oh, yeah, yeah. Are you going to gag? No, no. You're over it now? I'm not visualizing it. Yes, it was the first time he ever ate my ass. First time you ate his ass. First time I ever ate. Yeah, I've never eaten a man's ass. Most men do not have their asses eaten. No, no. He's like, I really think I want to have my ass eaten. I'm like, look, you know, I think we can, we might be able to experience that. There's a we there. We as in he and I. Not you. It's not all about you, Vince. It's not all about you. Well, I'm quiet in this case. No, it was, I thought, it was actually kind of fun. It was, he was, oh my God, he was like reaching back and playing with his balls and jerking off. He goes, oh my God, that felt so good. It felt good to him though. You have to be true to yourself. You have to say, this is what is really, you know, turning me on. This is what's floating my boat. You know, and it might be weird. You only go around once. I agree. And if you're not true to yourself and you don't experience these things, the only person you're hurting and shortchanging in life is you. So, you know, be honest with yourself. It's like, I think I'd really like to have a big old dick in my ass or I want to have my ass eaten or whatever you think might be exciting. You know what I mean? No, no problem. Yeah, that's okay. You don't mind? I don't have a problem. I'm just saying, you know, because I know like last week he reached out like, oh my God, I'm so horny. I know. I say, dude, don't talk to me. I can't help you. It was just a bad weekend. It was just too much crap going on, you know? So it's like, you know. Sorry, dude. One of those things if you want to reach out to him and like, hey, you want to come over? It's up to you. Oh, I have. I have in the past. I probably will again. It's just, you know, I need to, I still have life to deal with here. Can't be all fun and games and sex. I'm sorry. I wish it could be, but. Can't be? Well, in a perfect world, it can be, but we're in the reality here. Sorry. No, no. I was just, I guess I'm trying to feel like, how much do you feel, I use this terminology in a loose way. Do you have any obligation to, like, to certain guys, because you have a few, to keep them satisfied. No, I don't feel any obligation at all. Okay. No. All right. Just asking. No, unless they, unless it was like one of those, there have been guys that come over and for whatever reason weren't able to come or, but it just, it didn't end well for them. Then yes, I do feel a slight, I do feel a sense of obligation. Hey, next time we'll make it up. You know, there have been times that guys come here, like, they're just like, it's just not working, Don. I was, you know, I was all geared up, but it was just, it's. Okay, like, this one individual, this younger gentleman, like, you know. He never has a problem with that. He comes, like, four times. Yeah, but. You know, seriously. I'm just saying, do you feel like, like, okay, I can give him one day, like, an hour a week? Sure. I'm just asking. I don't know. He does. He just goes like four times. You know what I'm saying? You get an hour. You get an hour. Whatever you can get in an hour is fine by me. I'm good. Yeah. I'm good. Okay. Yeah, he's fun. He's fun. I mean, he hasn't learned like how to like really satisfy a woman yet. I still think he's like just. It's all about him. Yeah. It's all about him. He doesn't know how to. He knows how to enjoy sex, but for himself, he doesn't really know how to pleasure a woman. Yeah, like, the one thing with him is, like I noticed, like, he doesn't, he's never asked you on a hot date. Yeah. He's never said, hey, let me take you out for dinner. Yeah, I don't think he, he, since I'm significantly older than him, I think he's like, like, do I really want to be, I mean, I don't, I don't want to sound, I don't, I don't want to sound like this, make this sound the wrong way. I think, not that he'd be embarrassed to have me, with him in public, but I think it might cause some questions if people recognize him. If you go out on a date with him, on a hot date, and you just, say, went to a restaurant and didn't do any touching, people would assume, like, okay, it's his mom. Yeah, that's what they would think. Yeah, it's his mom. And that's fine. There's a level of eroticism with that. Right, right. You know, and again, it's one of those things, in my opinion, like, okay, go out, go have a nice day. She's treating you well. Treat her to a dinner. You know? I don't think he's mature enough for that yet. That's my point. I think he'll get there. I just don't think it's clicked in. But how much would that help him when he goes on dates with women close to his age? That would be, yes, that would be very significant. Yeah. Especially if he, I don't. Learn how to have conversation. He's, he's, I don't think he's good with like taking the reins. and being confident and being out there and being the alpha. Oh, he's definitely not an alpha. Yeah, he's definitely not an alpha. I don't mean alpha in a bad way. I just mean he's a little more dominant. When a guy takes me out to dinner, he says, Donna, I'm going to pick you up at 8 o'clock. I have a place planned out. They've already done all that stuff. And that's fine. I don't mind them taking the lead on that. I find that more attractive to me than a guy saying, I don't know where we're going to go. Donna, you're going to have to pick me up. You're going to have to figure this out. I'm like, ah. Yeah, I've never suffered from that. If I take a woman out, I pick the place, I pick the time. Yeah. And it's like, no, I don't pick the meal, but I pick the meal. Right, yeah. You find out what that other person likes, and then, yeah, you pick the restaurant or whatever accordingly. Sure, sure. You're not going to take her to a Spanish restaurant if she likes Chinese, that kind of a thing. So you know. Yeah. We're going to eat this tonight. It's not dictatorship, but it's like, oh, you know, I'm taking the lead. I'm going to just, I'm going to orchestrate the evening for you type of thing, which is kind of nice. I don't have a problem with that. And if I do have a problem, you know, if they say, hey, we're going to go here, I might be like, oh, you know, I don't really want their food tonight. I feel like this. But usually there's no argument for me. I don't, I don't mind if you want to take the lead and, you know, we're going to go here and you, you know, just kind of lead me through. You and our people, we can find something on any menu. Most menus, yeah, I agree. Unless it's something really bizarre, and I'm just like, I... All right. Well, we didn't cover the topic. Not even close. We didn't even talk about the topic we wanted. Nope, not even close, which was a very sexy topic if you would have gotten into it. Men and women and sex drive. So we'll do it next time. Next show. Promise. Hey, again, I want to thank everyone for listening. We heard from... I got to reach out. We have to reach out to our friend out in the in the western part of the United States. Okay. She reached out to us. Oh. And I'm not going to talk about names. Okay. I'll show you her email. Okay. I didn't know. I had. I just got it in before we did the show. Oh. Yeah. So again. You can forward it to me. Check out our free magazine. There's another one coming. 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