Power Positions in Sex

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now, let's heat things up. Hello everybody, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. And, of course, I am accompanied by my wonderful husband, Vince. Ha-ha, gotcha. Hello. I just sneak it right in there. Yeah, you're so sneaky. I am very sneaky. I am stealthy. That's me. All stealth. Like that? Don't mind that clamping around. Yeah, don't be in the bedroom when she wakes up in the morning slamming bedroom drawers and closing the bathroom door hard. Dropping shoes on the floor. Stealth. That's me. All the way. Sounds like a fucking train wreck. I know. I know. Did I wake you? Did I wake you, dear? I was trying to be quiet. Was I loud again? I just don't realize it when it's that hour of the morning. Anyway, so do you still have any of those factoids? I think I dropped that list. Sorry about that. I don't have the factoids. You don't have the factoids. Let me go get it. Hold on. Talk amongst yourselves. Okay, I definitely will talk amongst ourselves. So how about that sports team you like? What's that? No sports team I like. There are no sports teams you like? No, I don't like. Oh, come on. You enjoy watching them from time to time. What's in a blue moon? sports team of yours. Yeah. Whichever one's on is free. I know. Okay. Was this factoid? That's a history one. Okay. Let me find a factoid one. Oh, we're just so not prepared. No, we're not. We're not even close. Do you think we just stop and start over? No, it's spontaneous. It is definitely. There's a lot of aneuses in there. It's spontaneous one of them. Whatever. All right. Well, how was it? So Halloween's next week. I know already. Usually it's my favorite time of year. Well, what do you like about it? I like being able to become somebody else. You know, the costumes that I can take on and, you know, you can be somebody else for another. Can't you kind of do that anyway? Yeah, that's why I said, yeah, yeah, exactly. I can do it anytime I want, but it's, you know, it's, I think Halloween has a very, uh, kind of mystical, sexy, like, The time of year I find very almost sexy. Can I say that about a season? There's something very primitive about it, something very magical about it. Okay. That's interesting. Yeah, don't you think this time of year there's something very, there's a nip in the air, there's something. I like it. Again, I'm more romantic than you. That's why I think this time of year is very sexy. Yeah, and romantic, and you're the one saying, no, I don't think so. All right. No, I like it from the aspect of starting to wear sweaters and flannels and just being all cuddled up kind of thing. Right, right. Yeah, I can see that. Sleeping under the covers again. Right. You know. Oh, that get all snuggled up. The way your teeth chatter when you're sucking my dick. Yeah. We love that. Yes. And then sometimes, you know, you put them back in your mouth. Yeah, we're going to go there, are we? Are we going to go there? Sure, we just went there. Anyway. I came back. All right, so. Yes. What's the topic? Oh, the topic for today is dominant positions and their meanings. I know. Sound sexy to you? I mean, there's a lot of positions that you can look at them and you can say one partner or the other is definitely dominant. You know, there's definitely the start, just generally speaking. And we have friends who are big into the power. Power exchange. Power exchange. And essentially. Power Rangers exchange. Sex is always a power exchange. Yes. Yes, it is. Who is doing the fucking and who is the. Who's the fucker and who's the fucky. Different show. But anyway. Yeah, so, okay, we'll go over the first one. We'll get to it. Okay. That sounded hot. I know. Jesus Christ. I know. Welcome to the senior swinging hot wine show. Well, I remember when. Okay, this starts out with my. In the 20s, I remember, you know. Don't turn this podcast right around, mister. Turn it right around. Okay, the one. We thought it was erotic having a single light bulb when they first came out with electric. I was in my, oh, 50s. You're such an ass. All right. This one starts off with a missionary position, man on top. Okay. Probably my least favorite positions to be in. Now, that's a position, it changes names if you change people. Mm-hmm. Yeah, okay, so. Yeah, this is from what we found. Yeah, well, we've talked about how boring, Missionary is. A man on top, yes. Very boring. Well, he's kind of all protecting whoever's underneath. Yeah, I don't think he's protecting. I think he's trying to make sure she doesn't get away. Yeah, maybe. Maybe that's it. I just find it's like pinning you down like, just lay here and take my load. I am just going to pump you until I'm done. Roll over and go to sleep. Yeah, I don't see, and I've been wrong about a lot of things. This could be another one. I don't see a lot of pleasure in missionary for a woman. Not for me. I mean, I guess some guys, that's the only way they can finish. Is that a power thing for them? I have no idea. I mean, like we've said before on the show, I call that turtle sex. Turtle sex. Because they look like a goddamn turtle shell on top of a woman. Turtle, yeah, he sees a shell, and yeah, that's just. Yeah, I don't find it. Sometimes, I don't mind it in brief increments, but to do the whole thing is turtle sex. No, thank you. It's boring. It's boring. Is it boring? It's boring. It's really boring. Yeah, and even to watch it. Yeah, it's nothing. You can't see anything. Yeah, you can't see the woman's face or tits usually. No, you can't see the penetration. All you're seeing is some hairy man's ass going up and down. Ooh, I know you like that. I know you do. Yeah, okay, sure. Bringing that back Yeah, I know Yeah, so the woman underneath, of course, is a submissive, you know Yeah, and that's like almost totally submissive Oh, totally, yeah, I know Not my favorite position in any aspect I mean, the only way I think the woman gains some edge back is if she takes her legs and like wraps around I was just thinking that, you know, takes her legs and wraps her around his butt or something like that. Yeah. And then, like, I like it better when if you're going to do this position that the man, like, sits back a little bit more. Yeah, sits up. So it opens up so I can see what's going on. Sure. So then I don't mind it. Well, you know, when I do missionary, that's what I tend to do. I tend to sit up like that. Yeah, sit up, right, yeah. Because one, you can, you know, for those of us that aren't overly endowed, it actually allows us to get more penetration. Right, exactly. You know, you can do more, too. Now you're bringing her into the game. Again, licking her toes, rubbing her feet. Now you can massage your breasts a little bit, play with her nipples. You okay over there? Yeah, I'm fine. We said feet, massaging my feet. I was like, you started flinching around over there. I do love that. Should I put a pad down on that chair? You might have to. Just checking. Yeah, you're right. I find missionary boring. Very boring. It's obvious, very obvious, that the man is just power-hungry. Again, it's the same as in that position or some of the other ones, the choking thing. Oh, yeah. You know, they tend to do it a lot in the missionary, I think. How could they? Because you're supporting yourself with your hands. Well, one hand on her throat and one hand holding herself up. I guess. Yeah, maybe you're right. I've seen it a lot in missionary more than doggy, I think. What movies have you been watching that you saw this? Where did you get this information? It was gay Catholic boys in leather. It was... It's like, where are you getting this information? This nun's gone bad. This nun's gone bad. You know? It's Johnny's into Bobby. Oh, people are going to look this up. Bobby's really Susan. Okay, for the next position, it's actually my favorite, and that's cowgirl. Oh, I thought I was sleeping by yourself. Maybe tonight I'll try that, the wise guy. Maybe I'll try that tonight. No, no. You're welcome to sleep in the living room. I don't know. Oh, no. I'm sleeping in the bed. You're sleeping in the living room. I'll tell you what. Six foot, 240 pounds. Uh-huh. Four foot, four foot ten. Shut up. 630 pounds. Oh, fuck you, asshole. He's just an asshole. Oh, my God. If I'm going to sleep alone, I'm going to have a reason. True. Okay. This one, I think, because of all the reasons that the other one is, except the woman on top. So I like it because, of course, you know, in cowgirl position, I have all the control. I can predict, I can, you know, I can have control over how deep he goes into me or how much I'm taking him into my Pussy, that kind of a thing. I can... Control which hole it's in. Control what hole it's in. Control the depth, the speed. All these things are right up my alley. Whichever you want to call your alley. Yeah, that's what I call it. It's the alley. The other part I find very erotic about Cowgirl is you can really see how much the woman is into fucking that guy. Yeah. You know? And missionary, she came to see her. I don't have... I mean, obviously, A guy should be aroused to want to fuck a woman. I get that. But for me, being heterosexual is seeing a woman, how much she's into this guy that she's on top of. Watching how she's riding. I've seen where women like to squat above it and let the guy fuck him that way. They've got to have good leg muscles and good knees. Good balance. All these things. But no, and again, with the woman on top, again, the man is now open to grabbing her ass and then holding her ass and helping her ride up and down. When he goes to cum, he can grab her ass and pull it down so he can try to feel like he's pumping it into her lungs. He can pull her down and kiss her. Yes, I like that. He can, again, play with her breasts. But again, seeing the woman fucking the man, not so much, It technically is a power play, but it's actually more erotic to me to see how much that woman is into fucking that guy. Yeah. Oh, yeah. I think the visual, too, if you're watching them and her ass is on top and you can see her pussy clamped around, you know, that big, thick, stiff dick, you know, going up and down and up and down. It's like, that's hot. I think it's probably one of my favorite visuals. As far as far as... Sometimes women cream up. Yeah, they cream up and you see it dripping down the shaft. Yep. Yeah, I think that's definitely my... Visually, it's my favorite position. Yeah, and again, if she gets a cream pie, when she gets off of it, she can just hover and see it drip down even back onto him. Yeah, that's so hot. Yeah, what I would do when a guy would come in me, I would just lean forward and his dick would kind of slide out. Behind it was this big gush of And it would like, you know, you can feel it. You can feel it like, um, uh, like this warm, wet gush, like out of your pussy. You can feel it like going down his shaft and like you can feel on your thighs and you can, yeah, you can feel the whole thing. It's like, oh, that's hot. That's really hot. I do like that. Yeah. That's my all time favorite right there. I understand that. But, uh, yeah. What's the next position? Oh, well, the ones, it's very obvious. Doggy. You know, definitely male-dominant. Whoever's in the back, whoever's doing the fucking. You know what I'm saying? Yeah, and again, I'm not into the sub-dom kind of thing. No. But one of the things I've always found, it's erotic and just interesting to watch. Okay, if you watch wild animals, which they kind of always just do doggy, they don't have any other position generally. Yeah, I wouldn't think. But there's some animals like, no, you're not. You know, it's like, cut the fuck out. You're not getting on me. Oh, yeah, yeah. And so when a woman, like you see, you know, that might be kissing and touching and everything else. Right. Generally, one of the first moves, or even with missionary, but especially with doggies, like when they roll over and they put their ass in the air, it's just like, yeah, I want you to fuck me. Right, exactly. I mean, it's sexy that she has, like, chosen you. Mm-hmm. You know, if it's not your situation. There's something very primal about doggy. There's, you know, hence the name. The reason why I like that position is because I can get my hair pulled at that time, which is really good. Okay. You could kind of get your hair pulled a little bit in cowgirl. No, it's the wrong position for me. Well, it's not the utmost ideal one, but it could. Yeah, you could, but it's, it's the sensation that I want from getting my hair pulled is almost exclusively dog from donkey. Because I want that, I want somebody when they grab my ponytail, let's say I put my hair on a ponytail, I want it really, really close to the scalp. As close as you can go and firm and hold it. And then, you know, then, you know, oh gosh. Then plow away. Okay, here's the drop cloth. Yeah, I know. I think that was, I had a really, really good one. I was anal that way. And it was just, you know, the orgasm was amazing. So. Okay. And it was the hair pulling. That was, that's what took me. It's just a little extra trigger. A little extra. Yep. A little something extra. Yep. It puts the X. An extraordinary. It was extraordinary. But yeah, that's, and I know I was, I was with the Dom. And so that was just a whole thing. I know he likes being dominant. I'm, you know, I just wanted to be submissive. So, it just really worked out. So, it was the hair pulling and the, yeah, the whole dominance of it. It was very, very erotic. Okay. And also, it's also visually, for me, it's visually stimulating, too, that position. Because you can, in certain circumstances, you can see the penetration. Mm-hmm. Okay. Especially if somebody has, like, a video or a camera from underneath, they can really see it. Hopefully. Yeah, hopefully. I mean, you know, okay, a couple times off the lens cap on, sorry. Well, that does happen from time to time, dear. But at least I have it pointing in the right direction. So, all right. Well, what's the next position? I don't see if you've got another one on here. There should be a couple of different ones. Yeah, but you know what they did? They kind of like, oh, here we go. Spanking or impact play. I've never heard it called impact play. I know you're like, oh, have you? I've never heard that. No. I know you're not into the spanking thing. Nope, not at all. It has to be, for me, spanking has to be done a certain way, open hand. It has to create a certain amount of pain, but not too much. There's that level where it feels really good. And then people that know how to spank will do a quick flick like spank with an open hand a real quick snap on your ass, which is really good. And then they'll come by and they'll rub it. And they kind of give you a little bit of pain. I shouldn't be punching you anymore? Well, if you're going to punch me, then you have to rub it afterwards. You have to rub. I do. I rub my knuckles like, ow, that hurt. Yeah, that's what you're rubbing. That's a whole different, yeah, you have to, at least for me, smack it real quick, just a real nice open hand type of smack. And then you rub it So you have that pain and then the pleasure So that's kind of nice And who's doing the smacking, of course, is the dominant one, you know, trying to be dominant And the one being smacked, of course, is submissive Hopefully I would imagine I mean, that would be me I like being a little more submissive Dominant's not really my thing Again, it doesn't work for me No A little bit. Doesn't have to. Nope. Those who enjoy it, God bless you. Be safe. Well, this one you're not going to like either. You know, restraints and bondage. You're like, nope. Oh, really? Are you doing the tying or the tiee? I always told you back in the day that, you know, I would like to have you blindfold me and then tie my hands up and bring in another woman and don't tell me who it is. Oh. or get out of a certain situation or wiggle myself into, you know, either just another position, you know, but you can't. So I find that very, that's kind of exciting for me. It's like that carrot and the, you know, the carrot on the string type of thing. It's like that sensation is right there, but I can't get to because I'm tied up. So I don't want to be tied up where I can't move. I want some. So like for your birthday party a couple of years. That was perfect. That was like the perfect amount of restraining. And you knew you were in safe company. Well, that goes without saying, of course. But yeah, that was, yeah, I was blindfolded. I was restrained. So I, I, I couldn't really move, but I, but I was able to wiggle around a little bit. And that's the exciting part for me. Okay. You just have that little bit of wiggle room. You can't get to where you want to go, but you can still have some maneuverability. I do like that. I'm okay with that. See, now they're going back and they're doing all the positions from this article, but they're doing like women on bottom. Women on bottom what? I don't know. Missionary? Yeah. Okay, what's it saying? How is it different than? It's really not. It's really not. It just says the woman is in a position of vulnerability, trusting her partner to be gentle and considerate. representing represents the mission and surrender. Well, obviously. Yeah. Didn't we say that the last time? Yeah, we kind of did. Exactly. Yeah, they took it from two different views, and it's like, what? I don't think you need to do that. Yeah. Yeah, I mean, interestingly enough, it's a matter of, it is a power exchange, plain and simple. Oh, sure. Because a woman, in most of those cases, has to be willing to relinquish the power. to the man, let's say, in missionary. You know, like, yeah, I'm going to allow you to enter me. Yep. Yeah. Using, like, very mundane terminology. Yeah, really. I'm going to allow you to stick your big cock in me. My sloppy wet pussy. I'm going to let you put Bert into Bertha. Yeah. And that's the interesting part for me. I wouldn't say it's erotic. I find it very interesting watching when we've been to house parties and stuff. And you see it develop where people are starting to play, kissing and touching. And then you see the disrobing and then just how they release the power to the other person. Just allow them to, it's like, okay. Or even, I mean, do you want to look at, the aspect of a woman giving a man a blowjob to help him get hard is trying to appease him, to get him ready. She's literally on, well, in some circumstances, she's literally on her knees in front of him. So it's definitely a subservient type of and submissive action. You're kneeling in front of somebody else and sucking on his appendage, as it were. You're definitely submissive. If you sit down and put his dick in your mouth, you go a lot further. Yeah, exactly. Okay. I don't know why she's got my leg in her mouth. I don't know. I wish she'd suck my dick and get my gun to her. Well, maybe. He likes the leg. He might. Yeah, I'm not judging. Yeah, no. But, you know, somebody's got to be the submissive and somebody has to be the dominant one in these relationships. It is interesting, though, in a party or house party, kind of atmosphere that it's... It's not even something that's really spoken. It's not like, oh, are you going to be the dom tonight? Well, I don't think most people think of it that way. No, I don't think they do either. And if you really want to think about it, so, okay, let's look at one of your play sessions, okay? You might start blowing them, and then all of a sudden he might want to do doggy with you to start out. Right, right. You know, so he's got the dominant role, but then all of a sudden you flip him over, and you can... So you take control. So... It's a back and forth of power and submission. It absolutely is. There's a lot of give and take there. And it's funny how a lot of this, it just goes with the flow. It's like I never have to actually verbally say anything to my playmates. It just kind of happens, right? I mean, in certain circumstances, there will be some guys that want to do things I'm just not into. Like I had that one playmate, You may not even remember. It doesn't matter his name. Yeah, it doesn't. He kept trying to stick his ass in my face like he wanted me to do something with it. I'm like, ah, dude, I'm, no. Now you did do that later. Much later. Not to him though, to somebody else. No, to somebody else. But I think it was because maybe there was more communication with that and I knew what I was getting into, not just somebody sticking their, here, let me just stick my ass in your face. Have at it or do what you will. And I was like, I don't know. Seems a little presumptuous, I think. Yeah. In that circumstance. But yeah, it's usually it's just kind of like a it's kind of like a weird dance. You know, you're trying to figure out like what this person wants and you're trying to read them. They're trying to read you. Yeah. And, you know, bouncing around in bed. Yeah. All right. All right. I think we killed us. one? I think so. As much as we can. We'd love to hear your thoughts on it. Info at hotwifepodcast.com. Share your thoughts, not only on what we just talked about, but on any topic. 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