Partner vs Playmate

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hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast of course i'm here with my well ever wonderful husband i can see you struggling every time to come up with something that's a fucking lie yeah that's true i'm here with my um husband asshole stick with husband that's not a lie so so asshole husband would not. Whatever. Husband, asshole husband. Husband's fine. I want some kind of a descriptive term in there. I want something. I don't know what to tell you. Okay. That's why I want an asshole. My adjectives and your adjectives are completely different. I'm sure they are.

Oh, man. You know, it's hard to believe. Yeah. We've been doing this for over three years. No, we have not. Yeah, no. We're in our third season. Really? Yes, we are. Get the fuck out of here. Come January. Right. January 10th, we'll start our fourth year. No. Yeah.

I didn't think we had that much to talk about wasted so much of our lives and everybody else's too i feel so sorry guys poor people that think like that they should listen to our show because we have some pearls of wisdom man you guys are gonna one day come to some realization and go they owe me my life back So we appreciate everyone who listens. It's just us, you guys are going to one day come to some realization and go, they owe me my life back. We appreciate everyone who listens. It's just us talking about things. Hopefully we've enlightened you to some degree. Yeah, exactly.

Hopefully we've entertained you to some degree. Hopefully.

I like to think we've made ourselves laugh, so I'd like to think we've made some other people laugh too, as well as titill oh there's a word oh yeah good thing i'm sitting down good thing well here's the thing it's like these are things that you and i talk about all the time and we just basically just put the you know uh like we said before the microphones in front of us and it's basically same conversation you and i have had down there by the pool or you know in bed or wherever some people get our show in a sense of um our relationship is exactly what you hear yes we pick on each other all the time in a kidding way uh we tend not to take too much of life overly serious.

No. We're always making jokes about ourselves and each other. Yeah, absolutely. Mostly her. Yeah, I'm an easy target, that's why. Because you're short. But, oh, there's flesh in her bikini box. I have my little thong on from the pool. I didn't have it. Are my bathing suits still a little bit wet?

I don't care'll make it wetter oh i'm sure you will i'll try that's all i can promise oh you don't have to promise anything you know but uh so those i mean we've had uh i've had a couple guys or people comment about uh like how i pick on myself right and it's well you don't do that as much anymore and they they're pretty quiet about it i still do and i'm fine with that because if you can't pick on yourself you can't pick on other people and it's all done in jest it's not uh done because like i have issues i mean i do oh you do have issues come on you have issues that's my other podcast is that the bourbon therapy one well i'm you know i still kick that one around oh the bourbon therapy i'm actually starting to jot down some notes oh yeah like okay what would be my topics oh my god we have a list of them they're oh i i know you know starting out as a list it'll be a bible um but um, I mean, seriously.

Yeah, but again, people who listen to this show, we appreciate it. We're very humbled, the fact that we have as many listeners as we do. Beginning of August, we've talked about it in the past, but the beginning of August, we are going to launch, we have an existing YouTube channel, which is just the podcast with no real graphics. Right. We're actually going to launch a video podcast. Yeah. You'll be seeing the same show. Now, it's only going to be Donna. No one needs to see me. Donna doesn't want to see me. No, I have a blindfold on right now.

I'm going to be doing running the cameras, the sound, and everything else. So there's no sense in seeing me. There's nothing titillating about that. Oh, I don't know about that. But yeah, we want to get the studio more fixed up. And that means I actually have to care about how I look. She's going to have to put some makeup on. And I can't just schlep around in my little, well, I can definitely wear this bikini.

Oh, you can wear that bikini yeah you know for youtube unfortunately you have to wear something absolutely absolutely but it is a thong so i don't think i'll be i don't know if you're standing with your ass facing the camera we might be we might be talking about things asses and ass eating i had to throw that one in preemptive sorry guys it's all good that he still bust on me for that that's something i'll never ever live down hey if you want to reach out to us info at hotwavepodcast.com we'd love hearing from everybody we just got a very interesting email from our friend jay yeah yeah we, we did.

It's a very in-depth, and I'm still trying to ingest the segments of it. Yeah, I got to the part where she's talking about her friend and how much fun she's having. You should respond to her. I think I will. I have to read the whole thing. It's a long email. That's fine. We have no problem with that. Yeah, lots of pictures and diagrams. Oh, my word. But we haven't heard from our friend Stephen in a while. No. I know he has a very difficult job. We hear from all time from our number one fan, Wayne. Yeah, we do. And we love Wayne.

We push the dad joke button every every morning almost every morning almost yeah here he sent us a dad joke button you know sort of like that staples button yeah and you push it and it tells us a dad 50 or 500 i don't remember what it was just that many dad jokes inside this button and uh so every morning we hit one and we think of wayne um we haven't heard from our buddy um in south africa and oh my god no i haven't mr biel yep did i get that right i think it was biel i think so it's been a long time i was like oh my if i'm wrong mr biel email us let us know you could be wrong it's they just popped into our heads like oh my god but uh but hopefully we'll be getting a whole new channel of listeners and viewers.

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Just kidding. Actually, you could. There's nothing. Probably. Yeah. Why not? I mean, I've. You can eat any of it and you're not going to be in trouble. Yeah, you're not going to be in trouble. Sounds good. You put on somebody's dick and you're sucking it all off, but, you know. I don't know. Well, sometimes it's like, you know, you use spunk glue for whatever, then you end up, you know, putting your mouth on whatever part of the body it is, and there you go. I have not had that experience. Oh, you're missing out. No, no. I can tell you.

I can get my play partners wet enough that I don't need that. Oh, oh. But I would keep it handy in case. This bunk lube is always good to have. It is good to have. Anyway, so I came up while we were having a snack. We had early, late lunch, early dinner. We just had a little snack before we recorded this. Big, thick piece of ring bologna. It was so thick and long. Bologna. I'm just interested how you said that. I always say bologna. So do I. Bologna.

I said bologna said baloney this time it is baloney it's what you want to do to it i want to blow yeah um okay so i came up with the topic just sitting there like what do you look for differently in a playmate than you look for in a mate interesting yeah when you said that i was like oh that's interesting yeah i come up with them once in a while you come up with all the ones not once in a while come on like i just sit there saying what are we going to talk about tonight you're just like oh how about this i'm oh yeah okay let's talk about that yeah you sit there oh i got a topic what's the difference between pull top caps and ones you have to use a can opener for no i'm no mine is like what's the difference between pull-top caps and ones you have to use a can opener for?

No, mine is like, what's the difference between ass-eating and eating an ass? What is the one that you do to a male, which is the one you do to a female? Is there a difference? Yeah, there's so much more. Okay, we're going to quick change topics. Here we go again. This is a subtopic.

Sub again subtopic subtopic okay okay when you're eating a pussy sure the ass is right there well you're sucking it it's not a big no no no let me finish let me finish oh he did the no no okay if you're if i'm eating a pussy yours or somebody else's okay going from the pussy hole down to the asshole it's like yeah it's like half an inch difference it's like right there it's like right around the corner you're sucking dick you gotta grab shit moving the fuck out of the fucking way true and just and to get to it and if you're not careful you let go it's like oh hit me in the forehead you know it's just like no or okay a woman gets up on all fours right okay those two holes are staring at you they're winking they're going come hither okay you sit there and see a guy up on all fours it's like do i milk him or do i eat his ass it's there's a lot of things hanging down not even remotely attractive women Men generally have a really nice round ass.

Men, not so much a flat ass. It's just not attractive. Depends on the ass. Men's asses are not attractive. I kiss agree. You kiss agree? I kiss agree. Kiss agree. I kiss agree. Whatever agree is, you kiss the shit out of it. Some guys have nice round asses. Very few. I've even seen guys in great shape. When they walk by or whenever you see them, men don't have the ass that women have. There might be a reason for that. Now, some women have an ass for like four women. Right, that's true. That's a bit much fair.

No, men's asses are not meant to be eaten this conversation let's just agree to disagree oh i do and as soon as you agree to what i agree to it'll be that much oh my god i don't i okay all right anyway back to the topic okay so what do you not counting me oh not counting you no what what do you Thank you. No, what do you, okay, what would you look for in a mate? Oh, a mate? Well, in general. What are things that are important to you for a mate? For a mate, I want somebody that's going to, these are like very, very more, what's the word I'm looking for? It's more sustainable.

I want want somebody's going to be there as a partner i want somebody has a sense of humor somebody i can talk to somebody's going to be um take it's going to be there for me that we're going to do things together where there's a team there's a you haven't named one thing about me no i have to eat you know eat pussy but now i'm like non-sexual i try like no i mean i don't mean i don't mean sexual i mean no i'm saying in general in general i want somebody i can actually live with and share okay but there are okay so okay but let's look at the sexual aspect oh that's totally different aspects sexually do you look at with a mate oh with a mate what are the components of a mate someone you want to have sex with on a you know once a month basis once once every or maybe twice a month twice a month it was a wild relationship relationship um they they have to be you know skilled with certain things or it'll be really use a circular saw oh can they see those drill or fence yeah can they screw fence pickets up sexual this is not sexual that's what i'm talking about i know you get wet with that i do i do we're building a pool fence and that's very exciting for me okay so again we're gonna kick this fucker all over the neighborhood oh my god okay how is sex with a mate different than with a playmate well with with a mate there's more than just the sex because there's what you're gonna do before before and after the sex.

There's like living together and doing the food shopping, all the mundane crap that you have to do. I'm taking notes. Okay, you're taking notes. You can talk a little slower. I can't write that down. Sex is great, but sex is just a small component of that relationship. There's still things like, you know. But as a playmate, that's all it's about.

That's all that's all it's about okay i don't care i don't care if they don't pay their bills on time i don't care that they're you know that they're not using my credit card that's little fuckers but yeah i don't i don't care that you know they they fucked other women right that they fucked other women i don't care about that or i don't care how they treat their mom i don't care if they see their kids don't see their it that doesn't they have kids they have kids that's not for me to decide i don't have a relationship like that with them sure but usually we try to pick playmates are also that are our friends that can become our friends i'm not saying we i'm talking about you well but yeah but they still have to have your permission they still have no let's take me out of the equation yeah i know it's a fantasy now you're getting hot yeah i am i'm totally right now no that but that wait a minute when i do get a playmate it's somebody that you sure have to be okay with me being with either from a safety point of view or an interest point of view okay let's pretend i'm out of the equation let's pretend you're single oh then i'm just how do you differentiate that's the word that's what i'm looking for between someone you'd want as a playmate versus someone you'd want as potential partner again you have to have somebody that's more compatible as a mate across the board i'm talking socially i'm talking romantically i'm talking spiritually i'm all those things as a mate for a mate a playmate sexually you know if i if i have a playmate and all they want to do is rough sex and like beat the shit i mean that's not gonna work sure i don't care if all the other things line up but sexually they're like hey i just want to like tie you up and then pound the crap out of you it's like you know that doesn't really do it for me tonight let me check my schedule it's full it's full so that i'm busy for the next 16 years at least if i live that long that is 16 years one day you're in i'm in i'm there i'm i'm all you're in i got your penciled in pal let me know there you go so uh so i have 20 72 now for just a playmate it's just the sex and and socially let's put in socially like if they're a good conversationalist is good a sense sense of humor is always a plus for me.

I've got to get one of those. Shut up. And somebody that is flexible in... I'm stretching. Richard Simmons just died. He was very flexible. I'm sure.

But you need somebody that is open to a lot of sexual uh invent be a little more adventurous sexually you know although they might be uh come to the table with hey let's do this or now would someone with a broader spectrum be more attractive to you broader spectrum as in so no someone um who one time might want to do the power exchange slash bdsm or one time might want to be a little more passionate or one time more adventurous like you know a little public type public or something or using or would you rather find someone like some people and i have no one in mind i'm just talking in general um like someone's like no i'm really owning into the bdsm thing i just no no i want something across the board i get i get bored with anyone i'm trying to find you someone so when i take my own life so we're gonna take your own life did i say that yeah you did what do you what do you mean by that i'm married oh you poor thing to an ass eater to an ass eater hey there what songs about me yeah all notes.

To an ass eater. To an ass eater. Hey, there were songs about me. Yeah. All notes. She's an ass eater. But, no, I'm going to stick around and make you miserable. Yeah, good. I just can't get any more miserable. Maybe you can work on it. Oh, give me a chance. Oh, yeah. I got shit. I haven't let go yet. Oh. Yeah, I'm just kidding. Nice. I'm going to become more miserable. I'm just trying to invoke conversation here. Well, what about you? If you were to look for a playmate as opposed to a partner or a mate, what are your qualifications? They are so drastically different from me.

Drastically different.

I mean, you can attest to this as a person i'm a very unique person oh yeah that's the one way of putting it okay so it's harder for me to find someone to be a mate right than it is to be a playmate sure yeah i i agree with that a hundred percent okay i'm not exactly that un unique is just that's what you have a broader spectrum of things you enjoy well yeah a woman says me smack my ass i'll do it but i'm not really wanting to right right i'm i i am a um how do um i can do it again but i'm used to yeah our dogs are on the deck um of course again we've talked about this in the past i'm not into that right exactly you know the hair pulling the whole hair point i don't have quite the problem with the smacking you do i have to be in the moment causing physical it's hard to explain pain yeah i make like when i get into the mode where i'm going to go in and flick pain i see i don't see your hair pulling as pain no because you can grab someone's hair and they'll say a little tighter a little tighter a little tight you can gauge that better than like once you smack someone they go wow that hurt it's like okay yeah there's a one guy there's a hard gauge there so um and again i'm uh due to my background in so many ways that it doesn't work for you i'm yeah associate that if i go into the point where i'm hitting someone um it's a different mindset and it's not enjoyable for me so um for me i enjoy like for playmates and even a mate right um i just enjoy i'm a big big believer and you can attest to this in giving pleasure it's more about for me my partner's pleasure than it is my own right okay you've always said that and i can attest to that yeah um and uh i'm far more the romantic than i am the erotic, I guess.

You know, like I talk about my relationship with that woman I worked with. Right, right. You know, how we were just like spontaneous. I'm big, big into the spontaneous. I love the spontaneous. Oh, yeah. You know, just... Drop everything, go down. Well, not even going somewhere.

Just the whole aspect of like you'd be sitting there and all sudden they come over and they like spin your chair around and kneel down and start sucking your dick it's like whoa wasn't expecting that right that's erotic to me that is pretty erotic you know versus like you know something is like you know like do you want to tie me up no not really you know um it's just my it's not my thing no it's not your thing it's but you know again someone like you you have so many avenues and it's not a bad thing um yeah i can't say i'm jealous of it i'm very comfortable in you know in the parking spot i sit in right but um Thank you.

I can't say I'm jealous of it. I'm very comfortable in, you know, in the parking spot I sit in. Right. But, you know, and again, now my age, my requirements are far less. Fimo just needs to be breathing. All right, check mark. No. Got a winner here. We got we got a live one you know like when we went to the house parties i i didn't need to play with anybody yeah we went to a few in the very beginning where we didn't do anything and i'm fine with that no yeah sometimes it's just nice just to just hang out with people that are like-minded yeah Yeah, sort of like we do on the podcast.

Kind of like. And... It's nice just to... To just hang out with people that are like-minded. Yeah. Sort of like we do on the podcast. Kind of like. And, yeah, I... Yeah, I mean, and that's kind of like where you and I have clicked as partners is we share so much.

And, again, you have things, like we just talked about, outside of my wheelhouse, and i'm okay with that it's like go have fun as long as i know you're being safe i'm fine right and my arousal is seeing you having fun being aroused giving arousal i don't need to um i mean in all honesty in the last however many years you've had far more erotic adventures than i have yes yes i have okay and i'm good with that it's not like well you had one i need to have one right we know people that are like that we do know people that are like that at the pool party um and you know some people and i'm not saying that's wrong it's just wrong for me Right doesn't just yeah it doesn't fit in your wheelhouse i got it i don't need tit for tat no people do people do that's great whatever i can't i'm not condemning anybody no no we you know it's nice to have a little more evened out but i know what you mean it's like then you get to play whenever you want it's just i seem to have well it's easier you might play with somebody right you know while we're shooting or whatever let's say you get four orgasms okay then you and i play afterwards you have another orgasm and i get one i'm not like well you owe me three or four whatever whatever it is i don't feel oh so that chalkboard above with the little x's and a little you're supposed to ignore that little little hashtags there little hatch i think i'm winning i have a whole lot you're on the next chalkboard am i really yeah yeah but yeah no um so you know i think for people i guess the purpose of this topic for me was you know we we know some people they're very specific about what they want for a playmate yes okay very specific i'm not saying you can't do that you might sit there and like well i i don't want to mess with someone that um i don't want to use the word unattracted to i don't think you should just have sex with anybody exactly but i think you might have to redefine or maybe you should or maybe not whatever it's your call what you define as attractive okay like for me right I'm sorry to interrupt you no go ahead it's like someone's weight it's not a determining factor whether i will or not will not play with them exactly where we know people that oh that's that's huge yeah you know like we talked about off air the pretty people terminology and doing a whole show on the pretty people and we and we still should there are people that like well if you don't fit into a persona of like a damn near perfect body and just you know if you're not a head turner let me put it that way head turner you're not a head turner i don't want to mess with you because i see myself as a head turner right that's That's these people, not Vince.

Oh, I'm a head turner in the sense of like, get the torches and the pitchforks, Frankenstein's out. But anyway, it's a different story. But, you know, because I think you're passing over a lot of good people. I agree. You know? I agree. But that's my opinion. No, no.

Well, um the people i play with i might be a little bit more particular in uh body types until i get to know them sometimes that they may not have the perfect body type but you start talking to them all of a sudden their personality comes through and you're like oh my god they would be a blast that there's a sense of humor There's a sense of spontaneity.

They come up with ideas and they have like, you know, they're, they're, like oh my god they would be a blast that there's a sense of humor there's a sense of uh spontaneity they come up with ideas and they have like well again we're looking for you we're looking at it more in a sense of okay we're shooting content we're shooting content we consider what do people potentially want to see so okay you know i have no problem once your shoulder gets fixed yeah and we might potentially play without a camera right you know that's different that's different well it'd be a little different because for me it's just kind of like well i just it's like double dipping it's like we're gonna play anyway we just set up a camera and record it and if it if it's good and these people are okay with it and get the reason you know all the documentation blah put it up who cares and if not then it goes into a but you know what if we don't shoot video we talk about it on we talk about on air so that's fine too it doesn't matter to me but i don't give names addresses no no emails at info at hot i think i might be a little more particular about uh physical attributes of a playmate than a mate because the playmate is like you said if they're just there for the afternoon that's it they're my eye candy they're my i think toy for the day okay correct me if i'm wrong you're going to be more forgiving physically for a mate than you will a playmate.

I think so, yes. Because a playmate's more of a fantasy. Yeah, and they're just there for the afternoon. Or hour. Or whatever. They're just there for a certain period. Depends how fast they come. Yeah, and arrive. And arrive, too. But yeah, they're only there for that certain period of time. A mate is there for the long haul. Whatever that is. Sure. Whether it's two weeks. Now you can't get rid of me. No, that's fine. 20 years? Twenty-four years.

and period of time a mate is there for the long haul whatever that is sure whether it's now you can't get rid of me no no that's fine 20 21 years 21 years so a mate you want somebody that's going to be your partner there's a lot more to it than just a pretty face that can you know that's a nice a nice dick or great abs and a tight ass and thank you an ass that that's willing to be eaten. Not me. I know it. Lost me there. I know I would do that. I'm sorry. I'll never live that down. I eat one ass and I'm an ass eater forever. Is this where this is going?

You keep telling me you can't get the taste out of your mouth. That's why I keep kissing you. I'm waiting to see you actually try to lick another playmate's ass. It has to be somebody who's into it. The first guy was like... Oh, he asked you to do it. Yes, he asked me. He was like, he ate my ass first. That was the first thing. He goes, I always wanted to eat a girl's ass. I'm like, oh, you can eat my ass. Oh, okay, great. That sounds like funny.

And he goes, first thing is i always wanted to eat a girl's ass i'm like oh you can eat my ass oh yeah okay great that sounds like fine he goes well i've always wanted to have my ass eat and i'm like oh sucks to be you oh i can do that and that's you know but it was his attitude yeah but it was it was his attitude it wasn't like his anything about his ass he you know now he doesn't to shoot, doesn't want to have sex with us on camera. He just wants to just play. He doesn't want to be on camera. It's like, well. You're not bringing anything to the table.

You're not bringing a woman for me to play with. Yeah, exactly. So if you want to come and utilize my wife, these are our rules. It's that simple. Yeah, we do have. Those are probably. Yeah, it's only fair. It's only fair, right?

I fair right i agree i agree it's like you know whatever whatever let's get back to the topic so but yes i'm much more i tend to be maybe a little more particular with the superficial things with a playmate than with a mate yeah you know and not always but but no that would make perfect sense sure the playmate tends to be more the fantasy exactly where the mate tends to be more reality yeah there you go yeah so yeah exactly you know and you know i i guess the you don't there's no way unless you start really spending a lot of time with somebody to know if a playmate could be a potential mate well if you're looking for a mate if you're looking for a mate that's if you're content with a mate you're not looking well i'm just saying that if if i was single let's put it that way if i was single and i have a playmate and he's a good looking guy blah okay what lucky for you you have it all in one package i do oh and what a package you have can't argue with that so i i might i might um things might bleed into what makes a good playmate as in a good mate over time like you can figure out it depends yeah it does if you're, it does depend.

If you're playing as a couple. Right. Or you're playing as an intimate. Well, I'm just saying if I'm doing it by myself and I meet a playmate. Sure. You know, is there potential that that playmate could become a mate? And it's possible, but you have to start doing more digging, doing more research. Is this person, you know, going to be somebody I can live with?

i guess it depends on how unsatisfied you are with your mate no i'm just saying if i'm single okay that's what i just said i prefaced it several times by saying i'm single it almost sounded like you were saying well i'm no no i have a mate no i'm just saying like if i was a single woman there is no mate sure and i have a playmate well then you obviously have to proceed in the dating world with this person sure you've already had sex so you've you know kind of eliminated the whole potentially potentially you know there is no it could grow into relationship but um again like with us we have found out the best way to have a long-standing relationship without all the bullshit is to have a friendship first and that's what you and i had there was not the sex no for over two years yeah oh yeah we were just best friends best friends we're just friends believe me there was nothing going on they're not here remotely not even like there's no concept of you i mean i had a foot in reality that yeah you know i was heavier than i was well that's true i didn't cheat on my wife exactly you had a wife this story um but i mean it could happen but there's so much more uh so we were elements that go into finding a mate as opposed to play mate and we know that a play like you like you said it's just the fantasy it's just good sex raw sex spawn today maybe a nice dinner you know you have that romantic side and that's it there is no you know okay now we have three d's dinner dessert and dick that there you go i like the three d like the three Ds.

But with a mate, there's so many more things. There's so many more layers to that cake that you have to dig through. Besides the sex, the sex is just a small little part of it. Oh, how do you get the small part? Well, if you have kids, there's going to be kids together, and then you have a house and all the bills, all the fun stuff. All the fun stuff that make up a relationship. Sure. You know, if you have kids, there's going to be kids together. And then you have a house and all the bills. All the fun stuff. All the fun stuff. They make up a relationship. Sure.

You know, all the work schedules. But with a playmate, they come over when they fuck you. And they. So sum it up. Okay, let's sum it up. You have to be more. A little more picky. Picky for a mate than you do. No, no. How do I say it? You have to be a little more... Well, for a mate, you want to be picky because it's someone you're hopefully going to spend a lot of time with. Okay, with certain aspects, you're going to be more picky. But with a playmate, you get to be picky because this is just a fantasy thing. It can be very superficial. What do you mean, picky about as race?

You can say, hey, I only want to do guys that are latino looking exactly tattoos yeah and ride harleys there you go you could do that you could sit there but you might not have success with that but you can do that you can do that with a mate you got to go i just need to find someone i'm compatible with exactly everything else is superficial okay you keep looking, hon. Keep looking. I've seen your little ads there on, you know, our time. All women send ads to info at hotwifepodcast.com. Oh, stop it. Address it, Vince. I think we're compatible. Vince's eyes only. Vince, we're compatible.

So anyway. All right. Does that make sense? Yeah.

Well i think i i wanted i wanted this topic to like all our topics you know we're authorities on nothing oh my god yeah i wanted to invoke people to think you know what's different between your mate and your playmates you know we know people like the husband might have a huge dick so most of most of these women want guys with huge dicks nothing wrong with that it's like okay you know you're used to riding you know the fence well you know you need to ride the fence you're not gonna be happy with you know you know chopstick right it's simple i get it right you know and that's very superficial i don't want to base a relationship on that but you're allowed to that's what makes it so nice and you can be superficial you can be shallow you can be that way and and be very um what's the word i'm looking for um uh you can feed your id well it's like i can be sort of like okay i cook at home i make call it americana food i make hamburgers i make meatloaf i make hot dogs i make you know chicken or whatever right but you know what sometimes i want to go out for mexican right sometimes i want to go for italian sometimes you want a little italian on this side but sometimes we'll go for thai it's like use that as a comparison it's like okay i can cook at home and i'm content with that right okay but sometimes i need i want to spice it up spice a little more spice and that's what the fantasy is a little more spice do i want to live there probably not yeah yeah i don't necessarily want to eat you know indian food every day no no but you know might be every couple months I went to the runs.

Yeah. Yeah, it does. That's all it is, is to spice things up. Do I really want to have a relationship with that playmate? Probably not. So, all right. But. We beat this to death. Yeah, I think we did too. All right. Hey, thanks everyone. And again, we're going to announce the start of the YouTube channel. Oh, the YouTube. Oh, boy. So, we're getting it all set up of the youtube channel oh boy so we um we're getting it all set up at the moment and oh yeah we will uh share it with you soon so thanks a lot all right everybody have a great night