A month or so ago we went to a house party and recorded a podcast during the party. It was interesting to say the least. We talked to some of the party goers and Vince ggot to give oral to a woman whhile she held a microphone (both erotic and funny). Not sure if you will get a sense of what it is like to be at a house party but youll sample some of the fun we got to have.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Hi, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast, where we discuss all the good, the bad, and the really erotic of the swinger lifestyle. Hello, everybody. This is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. Of course, I'm with my wonderful husband, Vince, again tonight.
tonight hey and we can hear some of the noise in the background we were at a house party yes we are the one we talk about all the time yeah the one that we brought steve into and i don't know where we talked about this on prior shows the uh the host and hostess actually said hey why don't you bring your podcast to the party and we'll do it. And so we are here doing it. So you're going to hear lots of smacking, some colorful noises, colorful noises.
And hopefully we'll get some colorful people to come over here if they're not either in the other room having sex or grouped up around a table over there. I don't know what they're doing. I'm talking about sex. I don't know. Maybe they're like auctioning people off. I'm not sure. I don't know. But whatever. But there was a young lady on the St. Andrew's Cross. Did you see that? Yes, I did. That was pretty nice. Yeah, somehow a beautiful woman, naked, tied up, having orgasms, gets my attention. I don't know. I'm funny that way. You are funny that way. Normally I walk right past that.
Oh, that's awful. It's just terrible. But, you know, beautiful naked women having orgasms somehow caught my attention. Okay. I can see that. I mean, you know, it's not, you know, like reading a good book or anything, but, you know, it's second best. It's second best. I get that. Yeah. But, yeah, and already had some playtime. Oh, please do tell. I saw you come into the kitchen, and you take the hostess, and you just walk back up. I'm just being a courteous guest. I need to show my appreciation to the hostess for inviting us. Yeah, that's what it is. Okay. Well, what else would it be called?
I guess gratitude is fine. Well, and she actually said to me, she goes, you don't know how bad I needed that. Oh. I'm like, well, do you have my phone number? Stressful. Can I help? Can I help? And then, you know, this other lovely lady that we were talking with. Oh, yes. You know, you were informing her and she had said she had heard of my prowess. Yes, and? I asked her, are you interested in trying? And she said, yes. Well, I'm getting the mace out of my eyes right now, but, you know, it's a new story. But I told her, that's an ephrodisiac. You're trying to turn me on, aren't you?
So, you know, and then she got out the red pepper spread. I said, ooh, now we're getting kinky. Yeah, let's get my sandwich out. So, no, I got to give her a little... Taste? Yes. That's a good word. And I have to tell you, I have licked a couple of pussies in my life, one or two. One or two. And thank God, most of them are shaved smooth.
Uh-huh i have licked a couple pussies in my life one or two one or two and thank god most of them are shaved smooth uh-huh her pussy was not only the smoothest but the softest oh oh it was incredible i i you know i normally say i can go for like an hour and a half i could do four hours four hours oh no it was the skin it was almost criminal i almost felt wrong it was so skin. It was almost criminal. I almost felt wrong. It was so soft. It's like, I don't want to use the verbiage. Whatever it is, I'm going to ask her for you, too. Oh, have to.
I'm going to write it down, get a prescription, whatever we got to do. It might be as simple as waxing, getting it done professionally. You know, is it? We've talked about grooming before. Is it apple scented? Is it vanilla, linen, whatever wax we need? We're going to Walmart and buying that shit. You know? You it apple scented, is it vanilla, linen, whatever wax we need. We're going to Walmart and buying that shit, you know. You're an idiot. No, that pussy was magic. Yeah, pussy. That pussy was magic. He says it's magic. I'm sure that it is.
Yeah, that was, I mean, very, very soft and smooth and responsive. Very responsive. That was good. Oh, there's Jay. Oh, she just gave me a look. But yeah, so we're here at the party. There's, I don't know, about 10 couples. Yeah. The host is missing. Yeah. I think he's in his bedroom. He has gotten somebody up there in his bedroom. Oh, what I'm thinking. You know, he likes to single out one. Right, yeah. Tonight is your night. God bless him. I can't blame him. No, I don't blame him at all either. They're all beautiful women here. Oh, God, yeah. I was having some fun.
And the one thing we'll talk about, we have our number one fan, Stephen, with us. Yeah, he is busy. And Stephen was all nervous coming, like, oh, you know, I'm a new guy here. Nobody's going to want me. Yeah, they're going to, you know, they're just, you know, they'll just kick me in the corner. I said, probably. He did not say that. Okay. He did not say that. So, but he was chatting with one couple that expressed to me that, you know, he's a good looking guy. I said, oh, Stephen's a great guy. And we're out here setting up and there was a woman in the back room screaming loudly. Oh, really?
And someone came out and goes, wow, your friend's really tearing it up. Good. Good. Thank you. Thank you... Oh, really? And someone came out and goes, wow, your friend's really tearing it up. Good. Good. And, uh-oh. Grab a mic. Grab a mic. No. No, we can't. Have a seat. You want to talk? You don't have to use your real name. We have Bob and Jay. No, we don't. We have Bob and Jay. So, this is the first time you've been to a party here? Yeah. Okay. Let's see. Grab that microphone. I've got to turn them up so we can hear. Don't slide them. Just lift them up. Is that good?
up yeah just lift it up okay yes he is this is very phallic it is very phallic i think whatever works yeah you know but uh so this is the first time you've been to a house party here yes oh how long you how long have you guys been in the lifestyle a year two years this is the second year oh i think she's corrected you two years come on you're having so much fun you're not keeping track okay okay see we've been in it so long we stopped counting too right you know it's like 20 years 20 years so we were in the lifestyle before we were married There's Bob I hope it's worthwhile I was kind of in the middle of something Apparently Yes I was Well, welcome, welcome Thank you for having us here To do the.
So we've told all the listeners that we have about the party numerous times. And we talked about, okay, Donna. Can I suck his dick? When have you ever asked me? I feel like we're in a Howard Stern situation way back in the day. Back in the day. I was like probably a teen when he came out. I thought you were like 19 now. I think, but no. Thank you. No, don't say thank you. She's doing a wonderful job, by the way. One of the few times I can't say I trained her. So, yeah, she's busy, so it's her show, and she's out here. So anyway, yes, we're first time. Good.
Have you been to other house parties? Not first time comers, but first time. No, that's good. Have you been to other house parties, or just time comers, but first time. No, that's good. Yeah. So have you been to other house parties or just clubs? Oh, we went to one house party and went to hotel takeover. Oh, yeah. KOP. Okay. We had a good time there. Good. Oh, that's good.
We went to our second one last year we had a good time so okay nice everybody being nice to hear this is a very friendly group we're having a good time so far you know we were kind of like skeptical yeah we are too kind of scared this is like our fifth one this is like our fifth one we're still not sure but yeah i see didn't start just coming to house parties willy-nilly it took us a little while to get into it you know he was a photographer did some pictures for them oh yeah we see your profile well then bob got a hold Vince and said, hey, I want you to take pictures at our party.
And we're like, oh, you know. And I was like, oh, this is kind of interesting. But getting me to jump into the pool took me a while. Yeah? Took me a while. I was like, wow. We've seen your pictures. You have beautiful pictures going on. That's all him. Very exotic, gorgeous pictures. It took me a couple years to figure out which side of the camera. I have a lot of pictures of my eye because I was doing it backwards. Thank you. That's all him. Very exotic. It took me a couple years to figure out which side of the camera. I have a lot of pictures of my eye because I was doing it backwards.
But I worked it out. You worked it out. The older you get. I drink after I shoot now. You got a lot better. Yeah. You got a lot better. You have an eye for it. But, yeah, so are you guys kind of into the BDSM thing? What was that? Are you guys kind of into the BDSM thing? I don't know. I like the outfit. Like I said, we're just starting. Yeah, the outfit just for the party. It's nice. I like it. Well, you know, he's like, I like this. And I'm like, let me go see what I'm doing. Yeah, there you go. I like it. He likes it. You almost wear it well. You try to find what your man likes? Yeah.
I like all the straps going around your breasts and the little rivets. That's nice. I like that a lot. Very nice nipples, by the way. Very nice. Meany nipples. Very nice nipples. And then I was so glad when I got to tell them I'm leaving. But, yeah, you'll see the people here are really nice and really cool you can have a lot of fun um like i'm not into the bbsm thing my abuse comes as marriage all right as much abuse as i take that's that's all right i've done it twice now you can see i'm a glutton for punishment all right just dumb but it's okay, whatever.
Yeah, but it took me a while to jump into that pool because I was like, well, do I really want to just relinquish all the control to somebody else? So we, the host, we did training. And the training was, you learned, like he said at the beginning of the party, you know, the yellow, the green, yellow, and red.
And so I was all trained with that so then the next party was well the birthday party yeah where for my 62nd birthday i was tied up in their living room and they could do whatever they wanted to do so you gradually get there you gradually got there and then they brought me down here and blindfolded and they just did whatever three doms and three subs had their way with her. Dicks, pussy in my face and boobs, and I was like, oh my god, it was awesome. It takes time. Yeah, but I didn't get to that point just right off the bat. No. No, it took a while, you know.
And now she's got her full slut card. I do. My full slut card. Oh my gosh, yes. I have a full slut card? Absolutely. Absolutely. Donna has a full slut card. Oh, there you go. You know, when we first met Bob and Jay, Jane Boat, you know, met them at a meet-and-week in Easton. Yeah. You can actually take the microphone. We just had a conversation. Pick it up. No, we just... We can just take it off. Want to just take it off? Yeah, take it off. That take it off. I want to see how she holds a penis. I already held the mic to send me before. Stop it. Stop it. He's striking that thing.
We just had a conversation with them, and we're like, oh, my God. We saw your profile. We saw some pictures, and we're like, oh, my God. And we're both saying that.
We're my god we saw your profile we saw some pictures and we're like oh my god and we're both saying that we're both saying we saw your profile we saw some pictures yeah pictures of this gorgeous woman like i had you know a little tail and then you know but but we're like wow you know like we're at that age that we're like we want to call shit off our list you know start bucket list like 50 shades of gray hey why not're like, we want to cross shit off our list, you know? Start bucket list, like Fifty Shades of Grey, hey, why not, you know?
Like, we want to do that on our own, but what's going to get us there? Right. If we're with other people, maybe that'll push us to get us there. Maybe when you're with other people, you'll learn what you like and what you don't like. Right, right. You know, what can we tolerate? Generally, I don't like other people. What can we not? Well, that's a problem. What can we tolerate? What can we not? Right. What's acceptable? What's not? Our boundaries. Our boundaries. You know what I mean? Here he comes with a little hook with ball.
There's nothing quite like an email hook to say, hello, I like this. Look at that. And I'm okay with that. You could have just rang the doorbell. You'd have to take the doorknock. You know, we're learning new tools, new instruments that we're just seeing right here. Did you see all the butt plugs that were over there? Yeah, there's butt plugs. There's choke holds.
And there's all kinds of we're being exposed to all kinds of new things so you know it's nice to see you know like what is it that we can tolerate and then you talk about cultural things right you know what i mean yeah right here we have an african-american and we have a puerto regan person right you know what i mean we're the only ones here it's all right you know what i'm saying so it brings a whole different perspective to us because it's like you don't talk about those type of things right right you don't talk about that culturally sure those are things that you don't talk about just like you don't talk about mental health right yeah don't but you know you live your life you raise your kids you're supposed to stay married you're supposed to you know what i mean why'd you go ruin it for you don't talk about what you're supposed to sure be like in a marriage and sex is not one of those things you talk about you know whether you're in a marriage or you're in a relationship, it doesn't matter.
You don't talk about those things. Don't tell my husband I'm cheating on him. You have sex or you don't have sex. Right. But you don't venture in your sexual relationship. Yeah. Right. You know what I mean? Oh, us in our relationship, we do this, we do that. We have friends and we do this.
You know what mean so for us it's completely different hey we go to parties we're friends and we we get to venture off and we're learning different experience we get we get to get to know new people and we get to see what their experiences are like and what they do with these new tools and now we put it into our relationship and we know how to use them and nobody ever taught us those things we don't talk about that just like we don't talk about mental health we don't talk about sexual experiences it either happens or it doesn't happen right so for us it's a different type of experience well that's what being in the lifestyle is so nice about because we can talk about all those things and nobody's going to be judgmental right and it's like and people talk are very frank you know hey you know i have this kind of orgasm this is what i need oh i Oh, I'm having sexual problems, and you can work through them.
And everybody is very giving. You heard that. The house is getting a blowjob just behind you. Yeah. It's interesting. I'm distracted now. I feel like geriatric. I don't know. Fluids are flying. Yeah, fluids are flying. Actually, this young lady, at some point tonight, I'm actually going to get to lick her pussy on air. Oh, that's going to be fun. It's always fun. Oh, yeah. She'll be worshipping me again. The last party, it was her first party. Yeah. And I started licking her pussy. And she was like, I kind of have a, I'm kind of known for that. That's his little thing he likes.
And, like, the woman sucking his dick right now, she heard, she goes, I heard about you. I was like, okay. Oh, yeah, you're right, you're right. Yep. What? So much going on. This is Michelle will tell you. Well, hello. Hello. I was telling her how we're going to do a little experiment on air. Oh, I'm ready. Oh, she's ready. I am going to wait. Well, I can't because they're on the table right now. I'm glad you came over to her. You have to wait because they're on the table right now. So I'll tell you what, I'm going to give you my seat.
You can sit here and use my mic, and you can help Donna narrate the play-by-play. Oh, but I'm going to. I want to start venturing off. Oh, yeah, she wants to go upstairs and do her thing. I want to start venturing off. I'm a first comer. That's right. I'm not a first comer, but I'm the first. You're first here. My first here. I don't say first comer, but I'm the first one. I know. Welcome back. Oh, where am I? You're going go. Come back. Oh, where am I? Okay, I'm going to. I am ready. Oh, our first victim is ready. Oh, there. Yeah, we're going to have the victim hold the microphone.
Oh, my gosh. I want to hear you moan. Let me tell you, you know, I have that little bit of southern accent. I like it. Up or down? They're trying to get situated on the massage table here. This should be interesting. She's all laid out. All right. Give us the blow-by-blow. Oh, fuck. Wait, are we allowed to cuss? I hope so. Don't blow it! There is a video on it. Oh, fuck. Oh, fuck. I think she likes it I'm so sorry this was no I love it did we have a time limit no the show is only an hour yeah I think I took up a minute you got plenty of time oh fuck. Oh, fuck.
He's got her legs cramped around his head. Both thighs are going in there. Oh, yeah. He's in there deep now. Donna, you need to beat the... Vince wore a big mask. Oh, no. now legs are wrapped around somebody coming in and playing with her nipples now. Oh, and giving her a kiss. Oh, that's nice. Oh, that's nice. She's getting from both sides now. Oh, yeah. Got a couple hands playing with nipples. Another girl is making out with her. I love when you're making it worse. Oh, yeah. She's grabbing Vince's hair. There's not going to be anything left. Oh, that looks good.
I wonder what kind of mess she's going to leave behind. Oh, yeah, there he goes. Oh, he's going to stick his fingers in now. Oh, that looks really nice, that. No! No! Oh, shit! Oh, boy. I can't help you on that. Oh, boy. Oh, I feel as though I want to apologize. Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm sorry. Why are you saying you're sorry? You're not going to be sorry. Oh, she's stamping her foot. Can you hear that? Oh, my God. Oh, is there somebody else coming by? This is where I say, oh, my God, what the fuck is my name? Yeah, get that mic in there. I want to hear all the sloshing and kissing. Oh, wait.
awesome oh no no no i know what this is oh there's one you know what this is i love to play the big what are you all doing only what you want Tell us if it's good. You know what No, no, it's all green It's green Oh, there's so many Nipples being socked Pussies being eaten Holy shit Oh, fuck. Oh, wait, I need air. I need fucking air. Wait. Ha ha ha do you need a drink or anything? Breathe in. You hear that? Breathe in, breathe out. What you did. I don't think Tim would appreciate that. You got a mess. Oh, look at you. Is there a wet spot? There's a pool. I didn't know they had a pool here.
I did make a pool. Yes, you did. That was very erotic. There was like five people around you. One, two, three, four, five. All around you all at the same time. You're not you're not rejecting that's good so yeah yes sir well thank you for the experiment yeah this is all done in the name of science oh no thank you for the mic is it on yeah you. You squirted all over the bed. I did. Hold that. Tell us how you squirted all over the massage table. I did. Look, but I have a friend who's doing a cleanup for me. That's so nice.
We've had a few women on the show that have talked about my oral skills, but we never did a live demonstration so you're the first one well you know what i'm i'm gonna think that i indicated that his oral skills are wonderful yes i i remember you thanking me a lot last part yeah the last time was thank you Thank you, thank and i say the same again thank you i enjoyed doing that so that's one one thing you can tell he he enjoys it and he gets into a good groove you know he can just yes he gets into the groove but it's a shame it was only a massage table because it was kind of hurting my back.
Right. I could have held her down and gone longer. No, I could not have survived. My problem is I come too quick with him. Like I want to stretch it out a little bit, and I can't. I get to that point, and it's like, I'm coming. He wouldn't even get a finger in me. It's like, come on, die. No, no, you don't even have to. Yeah. A little bit longer. Yeah, so all we have to do is thank you. It's like premature ejaculation. That's what premature ejaculation is. Oh, is that what that would feel like, you think? Yeah, you just come too quick. Right? Like, it feels so good.
Wait, are you asking me about premature ejaculation? No, I mean, I'm saying, like, the way how quickly I come. Oh. And I try to hold out, and I can't. There's plenty of time. Less than two minutes. Less than two minutes. I could understand why if he's involved over there. Yeah, but I think about baseball. Oh, my gosh. But then she goes, wait, men in tight pants. Men in tight, tight pants on there. Oh, see, baseball tight pants, you're done. That's it. For sure. Or football tight pants. So you've opened up a lot since the last party, not just to me.
I'm saying, but, like, last party, you were still new. I wasn't new. Well, to the party. Okay, I was new to the party, but I was not new to the scene. And I'm actually one of those shy people until I get to know you. Yep. Then all hell breaks loose. Yeah, yeah. What should I say? Not all hell breaks loose. All pussy juice breaks loose pretty much pretty much yeah i'm gonna say yes to that so you are also you are into the bbsm stuff right yes but i'm actually new to that part okay so i've done a little bondage some spanking, a little, I don't know, a little tied up. No, that's okay.
I'm still new myself. What so far do you think is your favorite? I actually like the bondage part of it. Do you? And for me, I found out a lot of people like thumpy, but I like stingy stuff. Mm-hmm. So, you know. Thank you. of it and for me I found out a lot of people like thumpy but I like stingy stuff mm-hmm so you know it's interesting I know I told I was told I was weird no I'm not into any of it so no receiving no dishing just I know pleasure. I was abused heavily as a child, so I don't associate that stuff with fun. Oh, sorry. No, don't be. But, you know, she enjoys it, and that's fine.
I'm good with it. You know, if I'm going to hit somebody, it's going to be. It's going to be me. Okay. The thing that you would enjoy is the bondage. She does. I do like bondage because I'm restrained and there's that little thing in the back of your mind that talks about, you know, it's like, I can't get out of this, but you know that you can. So it's kind of a role play. I can always get out of it. Sure. Yeah. I mean, it's all a safe space.
Yeah, absolutely a safe space So there's technically a role play involved In your bondage I'm going to say You have a fantasy Mentally No I just like the bondage There is nothing It's like I'm tied up And I can't do a fucking thing to stop What is going to happen So it's like Thank you. There is nothing – it's like I'm tied up and I can't do a fucking thing to stop what is going to happen. Okay. So it's like, yeah, whatever you want to do is going to happen. Well, okay. There's no objections. Sure. No, you know you're in a safe space. Right. You have a safe word or something. Yes.
And I found out that it's not more. is not stop wait the other thing is wait i tried oh shit one time but do you know what that is not a safe word nope it is red how about deeper i have I have done that. That's not a safe word. Harder? Harder, no. Not a good safe word. No, not a good safe word? No, no. Just checking. In case I want to get into it. No, the easiest is the green, yellow, and red. Yep. But how about if you run traffic lights? What? I don't know. How about if I'm colorblind? Oh my gosh. Just checking. Okay. Wow. What would you do if you were colorblind?
I don't know what those colors look like. So for me to say, I don't mean anything. It would be light gray, medium gray, and dark gray, I guess. I think you're correct. So what would you do? I'm like, oh, my God, light gray, light gray. Well, how about if you're blind? You don't even see that. So this is a problem. This is a real problem. Yeah. Well, I think it's just words that mean, you know, safe, caution, stop. How about if you're mute? You have to quickly sign red, red'd have to spell it so yeah I was never good at the spelling now just give give me a word, just a sign for a word.
That makes more sense. All right. Yeah. So you got to see the gentleman we brought with us? I saw him. Yeah. I believe he's attracted to blondes. He's just attracted to women. Yeah, I believe. He's attracted to whoever's attracted to him right now So, you know It's something for everybody Yeah, it's nice to have extra friends along Yeah Maybe tomorrow I'll get to play with them Probably Uh oh Spanking bench getting some action Uh oh Somebody else has showed up Uh oh Oh, he, we have a spanking bench getting some action. Uh-oh. Somebody else has showed up. Uh-oh. Oh, he's got the riding crop.
Someone's a... Oh, wait. Oh, he's going to handcuff her to the... Oh, he's handcuffing her, too? Yep, yep. So. And you're off to have some fun? You're going to go have some fun? No, she wants a drink, eh? I don't blame you. Rehydrate. Just so you gonna go have some no she was a drink i don't blame you rehydrate yeah it is a little bit a little bit wet all right so he's kissing her nice yeah i'll bend over tied up i don't i don't i'm wondering we'll hear the smacking oh wait he's getting her warm. Oh, there's one. Oh, what's a thank you for? Did you have fun? Yeah.
He liked the guests we brought. Oh. Yeah. Yeah, here. You want to? Yeah. Tell him what you guys uh that's still on here take this mic now you're saying thank you so your wife your wife got to play with steve yeah she got to play with him and do you like oh she had an amazing time good i'm so glad really helped her out that great. She's been on a lot of stress lately, so. Right, right. This was nice. See, these parties are therapeutic. It's a big stress relief party. It is. They are. Well, I peeked in there, and I saw you, and I saw Steven, and I think I saw a part of your wife.
I wasn't sure what was going on there, but I'm glad you had fun. Could you identify the parts? No, no. It was quick. I was trying. A little origami there? I just wanted to see, like, the host was around, so I was, like, peeking in there. I'm like, oh, nope, he's not in here. But it looks like they're having fun. Yeah, I heard her screaming out here, and someone says, oh, it's Steven in there with, you know. Oh, yeah. Your wife. Or a girlfriend. Or a friend. Whatever.
Yeah, she was definitely enjoying it because you could tell that's great that's what it's all about i hope she's i hope you could tell no problem yeah i haven't seen either of them come back out no i haven't seen one i haven't seen them come out here yet yeah they they went upstairs oh did they finally uh after all that had to rehydrate yeah they had to recuperate a little bit yes sometimes around too yeah well i'd like to grab steve and get him on here and get this is his first party he's ever been to oh wow yeah i want to see his uh his take on it he's visiting us from utah yeah and uh so he's uh yeah you guys were talking about that upstairs yeah so curious to see utah a few times yeah he was he's a little nervous about being at at the party, so it was very, yeah, you guys were talking about that upstairs.
Yeah, I did. So I'm curious to see. Because we've been out to Utah a few times. Yeah, he was a little nervous about being at the party. He's a very personal guy. Yeah, he's super personal. He's talked to, really super friendly. Yep. I thought he was fit in. Yeah, he's a great guy. If he wasn't a great guy, we wouldn't invite him out here to hang out with us. And we're new to your podcast, and we really enjoy it. Oh, good. Yeah. Okay, thank you.
We just talk about all the things that will, for us it started out like just talking over our kitchen table and then we just put the mics in front of us and that's pretty much where it kind of just blossomed and, you know, talk about things that we always talk about and it's like, you know what, this is, it's good.
It's good to talk about things in the lifestyle and you know the the good parts and bad parts you know the things that are really you know the really sexy things that are fun so it's yeah we have yeah we it's grown beyond our expectations yeah it really has you know we were really going to be happy to have like 50 people listen and we have That's what we say. Yeah, grown to be like 52. Yeah, 52. No, we are actually rated in the top 5% of podcasts right now so we are very humbled by the people who listen so we appreciate it and we are trying to always keep it fun, informative have been.
I'll just put the mic a little closer to you. We've been very fortunate. We've had some really good experiences. Right. But we've had our share of experiences that have been kind of trying. Oh. Yeah, it happens. You know, a lot of people say lifestyle is about communication. But I think that if I were to say that communication is emotions communication. Sure. Thank you very much. that the lifestyle is about communication. But I think that if I were to say that communication is emotions communication. Sure. Because a lot of people don't pay attention to their partner's emotions. Oh.
They're good talkers and they have good communication, but we had an experience one time where something happened and it really upset my partner.
And although we talked about it and it was good, I had to really be in tune to the emotion because if it would happen again, I think it would be really traumatic for me and so I think that that's really key to paying attention to how can, not just communicating, but how can we pay attention to those emotions oh wow that's pretty deep it's important that when we meet with somebody that she's going to play with we kind of go over the rules this is my prized possession I'm going to let you play with it if you violate the rules we're going to have a problem you will respect if you break our respect I'm going to let you play with it.
If you violate the rules, we're going to have a problem. Yeah, don't break the toy. If you break our respect, I'm going to break something on you. Yeah. Our situation turned into, you know, we met another couple. Yes. We went into the same room. There just happened to be two beds in the room. Can you get the mic a little closer? I'm having trouble. Well, you know what it is? The music is breaking it up. Okay. Breaking it up. I'm sorry. That's okay. That's fine. That's good. We went into the room, and I'm playing with the guy's wife, and he's playing with my partner.
And I guess his wife started to make some sounds. And the next thing I know, he just stops what he's doing and starts watching what was going on. And that made my partner feel like, what am I? Am I not pretty enough? Am I not good enough? Oh, I see what you mean. Emotion just flooded. Your partner is stunning. Yeah. She got up and left the room, and that really made it awkward for everybody. And he apologized, and we communicated, and we really – but if that were to happen again, so I'm really in tune to her emotion to that. Sure, sure. Right.
Well – We've had experiences like that also, and we've talked about this on air, that there's been everything from like we go out to dinner with a couple to meet them, you know, and everything goes well at dinner. As we walk out to the car, you know, the husband shakes my hand, goes over, goes down a kiss. The wife goes over, gives down a kiss, and then walks away. Doesn't he come up to me and say, even just shakes my hand. Just walks away. It's like, did I say something? Well, I have been two minutes ago. We had another time.
It was a couple that we had met before, never played with them at that point. Went there, and they wanted me to take pictures. So I started taking pictures of Donna and the two of them playing. Everything's going well. I took a bunch of pictures.
It was the pictures so I put my camera down it's like okay I'm gonna jump in boom they stood up like okay we're done okay time to go home so so then all of a sudden like they kind of almost escorted us to the door and then I didn't even get a kiss on the cheek or something so i understand exactly yeah you got well yeah it's one of the reasons we kind of were going same room and we kind of thought well maybe we should do a separate room right that distraction isn't there that was part of that emotion thing that i was watching okay yeah hey people people can be cold and callous and that's in every aspect of life Not just you know.
But, yeah, that's why it's really important to, we always say we like to meet people and build friends first, before. Because, again, you can avoid, you know, I understand I'm not necessarily the best-looking man, but, you know, you don't have to be rude, you know. Yeah.
And, again, that plays with your emotions, and you start to wonder, you know, wonder you know is it me is it right who is that oh that just runs through your head and even though you have this good communication with each other right it doesn't necessarily mean that transfers into the lifestyle so sure but even like here at the party when i've been in the other room with you know you know playing with a woman and donna gets on one of the other beds playing with a guy oh i'll peek over at him at him. It's erotic.
Well, if my head's between their thighs, I can't, I'm not going to stop, get up and turn around and look. No, no. Yeah, because I don't want the woman like, oh, he's not interested. Yeah. You know, so you just sit there and then at the end, you know, we go home. It's like, hey, tell me about it. You know. Well, the thing is, too, it's like I think I find it more erotic if I don't know what he's doing. I can just hear what he's doing. Or I hear the girl squealing and I try not to look because it's more fun listening to is much more erotic than actually.
If I don't see I can, there's a lot more things swirling around in my mind just listening to him give pleasure to somebody. The audio part of sex, the vocal part, actually enhances so much the visual.
If you don't have the audio with the visual it's it's not that it's not great it's just a little lackluster yes like if you ever watch uh we've made mistakes and the audio from when this very hot video he shot of a friend of ours there's no audio it was incredibly hot but it would have been way more hot if we could hear her moaning as she sprayed all over the place she's a squirter as she squirted all over the bed and but the audio got goofed up and so it's like ah it's just not the scene the the audio is what you really need the oohs and ahs and you know you can hear some you know things sloshing and people sighing and gasping.
And that's very erotic. Yeah. And like you said, you do pee, but again, you can't ignore. Right, right. Yeah, you can't ignore your partner. That's for sure. Yeah. Well, thank you again. Oh, no. Thank you guys. Yeah. Yeah. Really appreciate it. Yeah. Yeah, we're happy to be here. You know, Bob invited us to come over here and do the podcast while we were here. So, you know, we told the people, our listeners, about the party and how erotic they are. and we'll see part two. Ooh, that sounds like fun. I'll bring Stephen down and get him. Yeah, get him. Oh,. Sure.
And then we're going to take a break and we'll do part two. Ooh, that sounds like fun. I'll bring Steven down and get him to sit in. Yeah, get him. Oh, my God. He's going to be here. I'll have the whole show right to himself. That's fine. It's good. It's good. All right, then. All right. So check out part two. All right. Have a good night, everybody. Bye. Thank you.
