One of you wants to Stop Swinging?

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Hi, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife podcast. Well, hello, everybody. Welcome to another episode of my Hot Wife podcast.

And podcast and once again i'm here with my wonderful husband vince and here we go again it's the same stuff every time i say if i was ever meant if i ever felt like i believed it that'd be one thing and he goes through this every time so it is what it is oh there was one show i said yeah hey thank you yeah and you were like what you accepted it oh yeah exactly so there's always he always throws a curve ball in there once in a while put it out there the way i felt okay okay i do want to point Now, he did make me a wonderful little tumbler I guess it'd be called with my little hot wife on it so thank you dear that was very nice so hey so tonight we're going to talk tonight today whatever today is actually happy 4th of July yes and I this is about as 4th of July as I can get that's okay your fireworks are popping I don't know.

tonight today whatever today is actually happy fourth of july yes and i this is about as fourth of july as i can get that's okay your fireworks are popping there hold on a second here get them out there they're kind of behind the mesh yeah behind the mesh there we go now they're out so happy fourth of july to everyone and again i see it also as a another opportunity to thank those who have served oh absolutely i mean we wouldn't be able to do this without our freedoms and yeah thank you and appreciate it yeah uh so today today's show this show whatever you call it is about what happens if you're if you and your partner and this can go in whatever uh direction combination of partners you want to look at it all of a sudden decides that they do not want to be in if you were in the lifestyle but now all of a sudden they determine they don't want to be in the lifestyle so they don't want to swing anymore yeah we have uh yeah that has kind of had a taste of that for a while yeah i kind of got like this disinterested in it like maybe disenchanted with it you were having some physical issues physical issues that didn't make uh playing fun well yeah it wasn't that much fun and we had also probably had some like not so great experiences which is definitely a turnoff so kind of like i was like why are we doing this i'm really not having fun if i'm not having fun i don't want to do it sure so yeah but then we started having fun so now i'm back into well you're my physical issues have subsided for the most part yeah yeah so i got a control on that my libido is up up up which is running up and running and humming and very good so that's fun so swinging is definitely of uh an interest now again but but now we've taken it which some people have a hard time understanding when when these people contact us that uh we say well if you want to play you know we need you to sign a release like what for and we're like well we know, we post it online.

Oh, sure. You know, we've been able to have fun and- Share our fun. And buy groceries. And buy groceries. It's not, you know, doing much more than that, but it's buying groceries. Oh, sure. Not all four weeks of the month, but it's buying groceries. It's buying groceries. I'm happy with that, you know. It pays for, you know, a little bit of the electricity and to do this. With today's things, yes, very little.

Very little, but you know, what the heck the electricity then to do this with today's things yes very little very little but you know what the heck i'm gonna get political um but as much as i want to um so yeah i mean when when you basically had said okay i'm done you know with this um i understood it but it's still a hard pill to swallow yes it's a disappointment for you because it it's erotic for you you enjoy it you enjoy watching me play with others and there's no harm in you playing with others so yeah but it still would kind of be uh i think i think it's kind of a slap in the face to the partner who doesn't want to play for whatever reason right right and it's a hard like i said it's a hard post why you sit there and it's like okay well okay you don't want to do that and at that time from what we were going through right you didn't even really want to enjoy playing with me yeah everything was just on yeah menopause took a hit that's what we're talking wasn't anything you know that she had to go to a clinic for or anything.

No, no.

It was menopause took a hit that's what we're talking was anything you know that she had to go to a clinic for or anything no no it was menopause messed up yeah the way it felt yeah and it didn't feel good for her for a while even orgasms were painful which was weird they burned i don't know how to explain it other than that but that's all kind of change so fingers crossed it keeps going that way yeah so but so you know when your mate uh tells you they don't want to do it anymore one it's interesting to explore why yeah you know and again you have to keep i think you have to keep a an open mind to it right understand yeah was it a bad experience yeah exactly you don't know what's going on was it i mean it was it the point that maybe were you playing with someone in particular that you played more with and all of a sudden maybe they realized they were starting to get feelings yeah maybe that could happen yeah i've heard of that happening yeah um it didn't end well though i mean don't go down that route we heard of it a few times yeah it wasn't good i heard of a few times for people um and uh but then you know again was it a bad experience and then you have to explore well it's that bad experience something's happened numerous times or is it something that was due to a particular person right well we knew of couples that the female in this particular case was just taking one for the team and it's like that's got if you're doing that time after time it gets very like okay sure you're not special yeah uh you're you're getting you get to go and play with who you want and i'm stuck with you know somebody i'm not exactly attracted to or really not into or what are you trying to tell me i think i pretty much told you i think it's pretty evident yeah and you've spray painted on the bedroom wall i'm not attracted to you i'm not into you don't satisfy me i seek the company of others i'm not sure what the message is i i don't know it's only on the walls it's literally painted on the walls it's a wallpaper i do you have the i'm not attracted to you wallpaper not the flowers but the one that says i'm not attracted to you the fact that you make me hold pictures of other guys faces over mine just put a bag over your head don't talk and just wear this i get the hint i think yeah you're into masks that's what it is it's the mask thing you're into masks it's that fetish okay but um yeah and you know we even met a couple some years back that he tried to set up play dates three four times a day every day of the week now he didn't succeed but still the fact of if i don't know if you're trying to play that much more i would think that the other person and the other person didn't really play much no she played she played maybe once a month or so, from what we were told.

But he's trying to get like three for a week? No, he's trying to get three or four a day. Oh. Oh, a week. Yeah, I thought I was, wait a minute. Because he was a salesman. Doing more fucking than selling. Well, I don't know about that. You don't know how many he's really. As we talked before, I'm thoroughly convinced he was trying to convince himself he wasn't gay. That seems to be a lot of overkill. Yeah, that must have made her feel terrible. Yeah, because she pretty much was. You know, it must make her feel pretty terrible. Yeah, I don't know where that went.

You know, we lost touch with them and don't really miss them. Yeah, no place good. If one person doesn't want to play and the other person does there is some real problems going on there well i think if you're going to be in the lifestyle you obviously should make your significant other feel significant that's the term really i'm giving you hints okay the headphones are too tight to Listen to what I'm saying. You should make your significant other feel significant. I'm not feeling this, hon. I don't understand what you're saying. Please be more concise.

I'm feeling like maybe he's not feeling significant.

Remember your significant other's name, so when you're having sex with him, you can use the proper i have no cards my name is not benjamin okay my name is not phil phil and phil and my benjamin i'm gonna go there yeah that's the problem anyway so ass that's one area we could fill in oh the bend over yeah but um yeah there's it's when yeah i think you have to respect that and again i think sometimes people burn out the lifestyle oh yeah i can see that you know we've heard of no plenty of people that every weekend they have to oh good lord go to a club or a party and it's like it's almost like a it's like being an alcoholic or yeah the guy get their fix once a week you know we're more yeah so people like friday night saturday night it's.

It's literally just like them putting notches on their bedposts. Well, if that works for you, that's fine. But yeah, I mean, like for us, well, in all honesty, you've been doing a lot lately. But I like to think it's more quality than quantity. Sure, sure.

I may not play with a whole lot of people but the ones i do play with i are generally nice people i enjoy being with me even if we're not playing just hanging and having a social atmosphere is fine yeah i'm having a you know we sit around i'll smoke a cigar have a bourbon you have a cock that's yes you're smoking when you like to smoke i'm smoking when i like to smoke This is not equal. Okay. Do you want... You're smoking when you like to smoke. I'm smoking when I like to smoke. This is not equal. Okay. Would you rather smoke the cock than I smoke the cigar? No. Well, there you go.

I could smoke either and be just as happy. Yeah, no, I think you'd be happier with one. I'd be happier with the cock, I think. I'm pretty sure from what I've seen. It depends on the cigar. No, I think you'd still prefer a cock. Well, I don't really smoke that many cigars anymore you smoke a lot of cock true i was gonna say well you got me there well it's the truth uh anyway but yeah i think um couples you know i mean how how do you like what i went through and you were like, okay, I can't, okay, we're not selling. We don't have to say fucking price is right. I like this old Tumblr.

That's great. Got my little hot wife necklace on. It's tough when you're used to having variety.

Yeah maybe that's it yeah and not that your significant other shouldn't be enough for you supposedly but um you know you have to ask yourself am am i doing enough to you know or yeah you know i don't know it's like a weird thing you sit there like when you were going through it and it's like it it wouldn't have affected me if you said hey we're not playing anymore you know and that was fine but the problem was at the time because what you were going through physically you weren't even touching me so it was like like all the fun out of life is gone sorry about that i apologize yeah no it's fine i'm trying to make up for it now you are um someone someone to everyone else um but you got your dick sucked last night that's last night what about all the other nights you want to be doing that right now not on camera see see there's always the stipulation with him i'm willing did i not say i would suck your cock right now and you're like no no no not on camera no one wants to see my day no one wants to even see my face oh okay all right all right whatever you're comfortable with there i'll just well i'm trying to save the audience i don't want to take our our viewership down to nothing okay except for one strange guy in iowa lives in the trailers like yeah i won't see that bring on back the fat boy you got pretty pretty mouth boy get rid of that woman that there that sexy body get the fuck out of here let's see the fat guy with the little wee wee i don't know how they talk in i hope that's what a voice i'm using that sounds like tennessee or whatever i don't care i'm not gonna we could be whatever i don't know where this guy came from originally he's in iowa now but anyway this person doesn't even exist don't even worry yeah so you know i think if your partner says you know it's like yeah i don't want to do this anymore or whatever i i personally think it's wrong we've run into these people right that uh like well i'm just going to keep doing it that's a problem yeah that is a problem we know of several like well i'm going to go play on my own and we even met and the wife doesn't know either a the wife doesn't know or we met one guy who said my wife has given me a blessing to it as long as i don't i'm thinking as long as i don't get numerous times as long as i don't get like emotionally attached it's okay i'm like well oh how about we call her up and make sure oh no yeah but we had people and we've said this before that i was at work in my corporate america and you were playing with somebody and you gave her my phone number to my office desk and she called me to see if it was okay yeah if you were to play alone and i said yes have fun have a good time so you know we're on the up and up we're yeah we're good we're good i mean but i mean it doesn't necessarily work for everybody no and then i think these people that okay one person that isn't into it anymore okay let's find out what the issues they were into it at one time what has changed maybe we need to let's just examine that was it a bad experience is it physical change is there just some kind of disinterest what's going on does she feel maybe you're putting too much into other people and not giving her or him right attention so also they feel like they're not i mean like i said yeah there are plenty of uh avenues to explore sure let's find out what's going on with it first and then especially if at one time it was of interest what okay what has changed okay so maybe all these avenues we just discussed might be in effect or maybe the playmates that you keep selling up with aren't quite to her well well or their well you're you're using our reference there yeah like you're setting up but the couples they meet are they couples are they individuals individuals or again are they you know like i think we've touched on it the couple dynamic in swing couples and couples is tough much more difficult um and we've run into this also where a couple wants to meet us and i am not the attractive one to the other female has it not happened yes okay and they get rude yeah they get really rude but you know they won't Oh, they want to play with me.

Both of you want to play with you, but they, you know. It's like, nope. We're a package here. But the thing know, they all... Oh, they want to play with me. Both of you want to play with you, but they, you know... It's like, nope, we're a package here. But the thing is, but how many times again, we talked about, you know, the wife or husband has to take one for the team. Maybe she doesn't want to. Exactly. And again, she's doing it because she thinks swinging maybe saves her marriage. I'm not saying it's right. We don't know the answers. Yes.

And again, she's doing it because she thinks swinging maybe saves her marriage. I'm not saying it's right. We don't know the answers. No, we're just throwing out there. We're having a conversation, and hopefully, and again, I want to quick stop. Our buddy Stephen isn't on the show today. It's the 4th of July.

We had to quick record the show early because we have a play date for you coming this afternoon you're gonna get fucked down by the pool again yay it'll be fun that was so much fun yesterday yeah um but uh so uh our apologies to steven for not joining well we'll get him on the show he has a lot of input well this was something uh with this whole one once he needs to get help he needs to get help he does i mean he and i were talking the other day and he has a lot in common with me we are we're kind of like soul brothers and i he's still young enough to be saved you think so i think he could be saved but if he keeps down this path of kim and i having like minds he's in deep shit oh yeah he really needs to get out the road to the bultry i don't even know if an exorcism will help him but we should get it started now to make sure i mean he and i have so many like thoughts so much in common that is frightening there can't be two vences no i can only hope he has a penis i don't know i don't even want to go down there that's my problem none of my business but um you're talking about mine or steven's either or okay so i'm Hedging my bets here i'm playing it so the um again i i mean if this situation occurs to you where your mate is like i don't want to do this anymore correct you need to have a conversation conversation and find out why and and in all honesty you have to be truthful and you might be the one saying it to your mate like um this hasn't been the case Thank you.

and find out why and and you know honestly you have to be truthful and you might be the one saying it to your mate like um this hasn't been the case right but let's pretend in our situation because 99 percent time you're playing with a single male and and there's no female for me or whatever you tried i'm trying no no it's not an issue because you know i i'm more interested in shooting the video and stuff anyway yeah it's kind of um but you know so but if i felt again you were always wanting to shoot with one guy too much and all of a sudden like he's coming over during the week yeah multiple times in a week i'm gonna i'm gonna sit there and like is there something i need to know about?

Yep. You know, and again, the cheating aspect in my mind, again, we don't claim to be professionals or anything else. We're just talking, sharing our opinions. And experiences, sure.

If your mate is going to cheat on you, there's bigger issues there than sex yes that's very true and we've talked about that before yeah so you need to look at it are you not making your mate happy in the bedroom outside the bedroom right where you know somewhere something is wrong yeah something's off so and you know we can't answer that we don't know your relationship we don't know our relationship yeah that's a good thing i have no idea what's going on here i don't know i just pair my bill every month and she hangs around me but anyway what bill is oh my god stop it so but uh yeah you know so you need to find out why you know is it a physical thing is it an emotional thing is it yeah because um swinging and playing is it's it's the best of both people are having fun and enjoying themselves and then you come back to your own and you relive and you re-experience that with each other.

And that, yeah, that makes it even better. So it just adds spice to the relationship. Well, that's how we found it. I think, again, we've talked about this, that playing with other people actually has spiced up our relationship. Oh, yeah. It works for us. It works for us. I'm not saying this is what you need to save a marriage. I would never say that. No, I would not. If you don't have a strong relationship, swinging is not where you want to be. No. It's like the people are like, oh, if we had kids, it would save our marriage. Hell no. Hell no. Hell to the no. And swinging is the same way.

If I smoke this stick of TNT, it'll save my bad breath. Yeah, it will. You won't have a head, but you won't have bad breath anymore. It's a bad decision.

But yeah, I see swinging is the spice that you put on top of the meal it's not but the meal has to be good the meal has to stand on its own yep absolutely if it doesn't stand on its own that's a good analogy it has to stand on its own otherwise you don't i mean you could have a steak just cook a steak on the grill it stands on its own now you put some garlic on that maybe a little butter on that or whatever makes it that much better yeah but you don't have to have it you have to have a good steak first yeah If you don't have a good steak, you're done. Yeah.

So, but yeah yeah if you don't have a good steak you're done yeah so um but yeah if you're for some reason one of you isn't comfortable doing the lifestyle anymore and and so your mate tells you they don't want to do it doesn't mean even if they tell you they say well i don't want to do it but you can keep doing it that's not a good idea yeah that's let's get to the problem well it doesn't give up it wouldn't if you said if i came to you and said hey i don't want to swing anymore and but if you want to you can and all of a sudden you're banging all these other guys and everything else and going on dates or whatever i'm going to kind of feel like shit yeah i would people got to take that in mind just because they tell you you can do it doesn't necessarily mean it's a good idea yeah it doesn't and i think communication is paramount in this situation you have to know what's really at the root of this problem is it physical did they just lose interest you know maybe it's just they're just bored with it now i i don't know i don't know what the answer that might be their first step and try to tell you that i'm just your relationship is not going in a good direction exactly initially yeah they might have been doing swinging to try to save like we said save the relationship so you need to um yeah i don't know if that's going to save it fall back and and regroup it might be something you couldn't visit later no yeah you can always add swinging back into your life the application to become a swinger is not real hard to fill out no no it's not not really but uh yeah it's uh so yeah that's you know it's been a and again again, people who use swinging as a example to cheat or try to use it like, you know, we had a gentleman more recently approach us like, well, my wife doesn't want to swing, but I'm just doing it behind her back.

Well, that's not swinging. That's just cheating. That's just cheating.

You're using a swinger website to cheat yep just because it's easier than ashley madison you know and cheaper and probably cheaper yeah i forgot it's been a long time so i looked at that site that was but it wasn't cheap no and you can go to a swinger website well then they had to worry what some years ago they got hacked and we're releasing everybody's names and names and stuff mine never came out but um yeah like i would care yeah that's true you're like well i just get to the swimmer website yeah i guess we didn't pay the electric bill on that one but um yeah it's supposed to go on with everything but uh motion detection yeah Thank you.

that one but um it's supposed to go on with everything but uh motion detection yeah uh but uh yeah it's uh these people that do that that just cracks me up you know and then we found out the guy was trying to not the reason his wife doesn't swing when he probably never asked her but two he's using it because he's looking for something that his wife doesn't know he wants uh i know and that's another yeah okay we're now kind of changing topics semi-related but you know when you're in a relationship and you have different desires all of a sudden than you maybe used to have and these desires may or may not be something your spouse would be comfortable with comfortable with should you just say what they are well this one guy in particular we're not going to use his name even though he told you his first name we don't know his last name um you know this guy all of a sudden determined he would like to be more submissive.

Right, wants to wear a cock cage, which I don't have a problem with. I don't care. I find that kind of erotic, whatever. But then he wants to be pegged. It's like his wife probably would not be comfortable with that. Again, you put yourself in a cock cage where all of a sudden you become submissive. Yeah. And his wife might not be into that stuff. She might not know how to open it up.

how do you get out of this oh it's my dick i don't know i can't i can't call the locksmith can you imagine no i guess so my wife put me in this now i can't get it out no you let your wife put you in it okay whatever makes you feel better about that well this was you're four foot eleven i'm six foot you know i'm 245 pounds you're 105 pounds so i don't see you muscling me into a cock cage we don't know what his wife looks like Val point you're going in a cock cage yes dear I told you I'm going to put you in a cock cage whatever you want yes dear I'll get started well you know what if that were the case she would probably be in the I mean, like adult bookstores.

We've met a few people who worked at them. And they said, you'd be surprised at the amount of married men who come in and go into the gay movie booths to put off the gay video. Really? Yeah. Now they're wrong with that. Well, no. But be true to yourself. If that's what they want to do,'s fine yeah you know i don't have to understand it i don't um but if all of a sudden you find yourself and i've said all along you got to own your um your sexuality you got to be true to yourself and life's short you know and if it's and as long as everyone's consenting and of age, you know, that's fine.

How about it? If all of a sudden one day you realize that, let's pretend you are bisexual, but you're a male, I'm saying. Right. You know, how would your wife take you saying, honey, I think I want to share a dick with you?

And just for record, I am not saying that he's speaking as uh another character yeah okay i'm just saying is somebody i i mean does a woman take that as a failure i think well you wouldn't i mean my boobs are going the wrong way here okay there we go okay they're kind of getting pulled funny sorry okay i looked down i was like they got caught in the net yeah they sure did but you know or i mean you know i've heard of men taking it wrong when a woman says hey i want to be with another woman oh i had a boyfriend who did that i got crucified i mean he like lashed out at me and oh i'm all i all i had was like a bisexual fantasy being with another woman and i told him i said hey i had this this desire this and you'd already had numerous bisexual no i i don't think i had it okay i'm thinking it was your last boyfriend no no no this is like this is like my very, I was like 15 or something.

And he lashed out at me. Oh, I don't want to be part of your gay fantasy, blah. You know, it really made me feel bad. And I was like, oh, maybe I'm barking up the wrong tree here. Maybe this is not good.

But I'd say five years later, three years later, guess who's in a threesome with me and another woman mr douchebag who criticized me i was like yeah it just pissed me off because all of a sudden he was into it it's like really he gave me so much shit well because in your dream he wasn't part of it it's different there's two girls going in his mind it's different if you're with another person it's a different thing when you're with another woman and him yeah maybe that was the difference i'm not saying it's right either way yeah i'm just saying you know that he could have been it was a fantasy it could have been he could i could have easily just included how many how many guys have you run into or heard of that are are threatened by vibrators oh my god unbelievable you know if my wife girlfriend gets a vibration won't want me anymore it's like well how bad at sex are you well it's not even that is that vibrator paid the bills does that vibrator kind of take the kids to soccer you know it's like a on sex yeah if you're let's just say we base it on sex how bad can you be you must be that bad that a vibrator is going to outdo you and i mean i've said this to numerous guys did you ever learn how to use a vibrator not on yourself that is, I'm just saying hypothetically, I was walking down the hall with a vibrator and I kind of slipped and fell.

Slipped and fell and fell up my ass. Five times. It could happen. It did, I swear. Three times a day. We need more AA batteries, by the way. Put that on the shopping list. Yeahable. Just saying. That's why the electric bill gets paid early every month. True. That's very true.

How much do we have for have for groceries none i had to pay the electric bill uh we just paid that last week i'm making sure we have electric um but uh these generators just don't create renewable orgasms hell with energy uh but anyway so but uh yeah i mean i've told guys man if you use a vibrator as part of your fun oh my god i mean you know like fucking you know to take a vibrator and put it on your clit while i'm fucking you or you know or in your ass or put my dick in your ass and put the vibrator in your pussy or still on your clit or whatever it's just like rodeo sex hold the on man put your one arm in the air and like oh yeah yeah oh yeah there's so much you can do with it depending on the vibrator don't use the hard plastic ones one you know while you have your mouth yeah you can chip your teeth use the rubbery ones just just saying does that teeth look okay i don't know i got lipstick all over oh got lipstick all over.

Oh, do I really? Yeah, there you go. Okay, whatever. It always happens. Sorry about that. No, you're not. So, but yeah, it's, you know, all of it. I mean, you know, across the board, like, again, if you have to cheat, I mean, I understand And you might have a great sex drive, your wife's sex drive, or husbands, whichever. Predominantly, I think it's more the men cheating on women. But for a man to cheat, they have to cheat with a woman. So theoretically, it's an even keel.

but yeah there's you really need to find out why if you feel you need to cheat either separate right divorce whatever or see if you talk them into swinging hey listen you're not giving me enough we need more and she might sit there go yeah your little wee wee ain't satisfying me well but you know oh man that's well in all honesty um there are people that women that are size queens yes and the husband might not have been gifted with the size that satisfies her not that he gets to pick i'm not belittling a man for that or anything else but you know or there's a time it's the spice of life sometimes that spices you know let's look at an interracial scenario sure they're always fun okay so you know it could be the kind of thing where um you know the wife's like Thank you.

they're always fun okay so you know it could be the kind of thing where um you know the wife's like well i've always kind of had this fantasy to be with a black man oh yeah you know now the white the husband there's a good chance could either a like i'd like to see that b no i'm out when you have something that's gonna you'll enjoy way enjoy way too much. You know, is going to, potentially. And again, there are plenty of white guys that are huge, too. Yeah, don't even tell me I haven't been there. And if you take a racist stance towards any of it, we disagree with you completely.

Yeah, forget that. We have plenty of black friends that are phenomenal people. Sure. And not all all of them have big dicks i was able to do two of them anally and i thought the dicks were not at the same time but we we're thinking not i'm double penetration not anal but won't be anal won't be we've talked about doing that well you made it sound you had two two dicks in your hands at the same time. Not this week. How much money we'd save on toilet paper. Your fucking turds would just fall out. Look at that. Oh, hello. Hello. How are you? No panties today, huh?

Well, I couldn't find anything to match the outfit. So I said, I just won't wear any. I don't think we're complaining.

so um but yeah so i mean something that or maybe you know all sudden you find out your wife is like yeah i'd like to try another woman and yeah you know to share her with you that was fun i i really had fun sucking uh your dick with another woman yeah i had fun with it too i figured i'd be fine um but like you know my close friend you know he would love his wife to swing and he has talked to her about it she has no interest and she has only ever been with just him like you can't you can't compare you can't say well it's probably better she that's why she doesn't have to compare but i i mean you know he would kill to see her with another man or another woman um apparently they got close one time like she made that with another woman a little bit and kind of enjoyed it but didn't go other than some kissing and stuff because she was inebriated but the use the alcohol involved.

Yeah, it always helps. But, you know, there are just some people that aren't going to break that plane, you know? I don't know. You can't force anybody to do anything. No, no. I don't think you should. I'm not saying that. I'm just saying is, but at least have that dialogue.

Yeah, at least have that dialogue yeah at least have that dialogue you know and and some people will be able to have a honest dialogue with it and having a normal conversation and some people like get irate fuck you no way you know yeah really so you know it's it can be a tough thing to broach and again like the the gentleman i use the term loosely we started talk about you about, you know, if he's not, we don't know his wife, don't want to. It's no reflection on her, just have no need to meet them.

Sat there and said, you know, if she's that straight laced, you know, it's like, honey, could you put my junk in a little cage and then buy a strap on and fuck me from behind fuck me up the ass i mean sure i don't go in the meantime you know he's he might be getting maybe once a month from her so he sits there of course she might go now we're fucking finally talking yippee fucking kai yay that's not yeah you don't know which way that would go yeah i always knew you wanted a dick in the ass why didn't why didn't we go through this before much as you piss me off i've been wanting to dry hump your fucking ass.

Oh, that's brutal. Angry sex. You don't take the fucking trash out from now on, motherfucker. That's what it comes down to, too. It might be. Angry sex. I don't know. Angry sex. Oh, my God. I told you to cut the fucking lawn. I only did that once.

Good thing it wasn't me good thing but yeah um yeah usually with those kind of things there's always an underlying very mundane uh stimulus that creates these things like there is like you know i'm pissed at you i'm not gonna give you sex because you didn't take out the trash because you didn't cut the lawn it's like there was a early on our relationship you had said like why do these women just let themselves go they get fat they cut their hair short you know and everything i still don't understand that well you do but you just don't realize it sometimes is how many of these women okay they have kids right okay so now they're going on.

And they're working a full-time job. Sure. They come home, they got to do laundry, they got to clean the house, they got to cook, and the husbands come home and do nothing. We don't know that? No, not in every case, by any stretch. We don't know that, we don't know.

But I'm thinking of one case that I know of, sort of like the one we we just mentioned right you know he makes a lot of money but she works a job makes indeed some money you're both working doesn't matter how much who makes and they have kids that got to run to sporting events and stuff like that and you know he he you know has a drive mower for his yard right christian're lazy shit but it's a pretty big yard yeah but still behind but for the average woman yeah you know it's like okay i gotta get home from work i gotta take the kids here there i gotta feed them beforehand right so all of a sudden now making a good healthy meal becomes difficult sure so they do a lot of pre-packaged shit or eat out right and they're running around you know come home gotta do laundry gotta help the kids with their homework gotta get them to fucking bed and at this point now you're like i'm too tired for sex oh yeah i'm just i'm wiped you know and and all of a sudden all of a sudden now they want to reward themselves and break out the ice cream before they go to bed.

It's like, okay, I had a long day. I'm going to have a fucking bowl of ice cream, and I'm going to bed. Well, that's not a recipe for good health. No, no. And they don't feel sometimes that they have been appreciated. I'm just thinking that.

So they seek the comfort of food you know i'll do alcohol before food yeah it's still empty calories oh sure but at least i feel better yeah i do feel a lot better yeah it's it's rough i know i i had to give up the gym membership and that always made me feel good but i have a whole of well the gym made you feel good the gym made me the gym made you feel good not giving it up not giving it up it wasn't the guy whose name is jim no it was the guy whose name is jim made me feel good no but it's just we have a lot of physical activity to do here and i'm working what 65 to 72 hours a week yeah but at the current time at the current time but when i'm at my second job i have the luxury of being able to work out while i'm watching my great aunt so i'm trying to make social media and answer my social media do my crunches so it's not i'm not quite giving it up and like well it is doing crunches at your great aunt is not the same as going to the gym no no but i would be like me doing crunches at the gym is that all you went to the gym for if so we wasted a lot of fucking money no i didn't work cardio but i can do cardio other other places yeah bench press your great aunt oh i don't know if i like press your great aunt she doesn't want you that much i could easily leg press her but you're not so it's not the same it's not the same yeah true that's true you got a good point there but i mean you work with what you have i guess is what i'm going at that's what i've been doing my whole life is that why you married me i gotta work now you're working with what i got and it's work let me tell you it's work it's only a part-time job stop it it's it's full-time don't even go there it's a full-time fucking job community service what i do wrong i gotta do this again it's been three months um but anyway um i'll never get paroled never you know um it's been almost 20 years i don't so so again i guess getting back to i mean actually this part of the topic kind of relates back to the first topic to some degree okay but it's all about making sure your significant other feels special they need to be the one that just yeah sure is your primary everything and if know, you'll get rewarded if they feel rewarded and appreciated.

And appreciation, like we were just saying, also goes across the gamut of outside of the bedroom, too. There's an outside of the bedroom? Yes, come on. Deepest.

But, yeah, I mean, like, just when you do something, little nice things for me i it's it's nice it's just nice just little things just a little like you know just a little this is really sweet i really think this is a great i i really love this i love this little tumbler you know why'd you like it dear you know we bought the tumbler real cheap at a local store and he engraved it with a little hot wipe thing and i just thought that was really sweet i really like it so it's a little things that do make a difference that's what i've been saying what are you talking about your little thing again that's just what your interpreter is is that what you're trying to say no but it is the it's the little things yeah so is that what you're trying to say no but it is the it's the little things yeah so so anyway to wrap this show up okay we killed almost 45 minutes we bored people if they stayed this long yes again we miss steven oh yeah he always i'm sure we have a ton of input for this one so yeah he but uh you know it's fourth of july he's spending time with his family hopefully if he's not his job has him sometimes on call so he might he could be busy with work but again we kind of pulled the show together because you have to get laid somewhere around two o'clock today so have your needs my needs i have to have my needs met get your need filled my need filled so anyway but uh um so yeah so the you know try to handle your relationship whether it be you know trying to someone doesn't want to swing anymore or we even talked about trying to get somebody to get into swing yeah we did hey honey yeah try swinging that was a whole other show that was a whole other show so this is like the other part of it the opposite of that yep it's like somebody wants to back out so it's that's a rough one yeah um i don't know what the topic is for next show yet we just we have them written down i just don't have in front of me that's okay we keep it a surprise oh yeah so hopefully steve will be a part of that one because that'll be fun yeah definitely so um again i want to thank everyone make sure you check out hotwife donnalyn.com to find links everywhere see what i'm doing we just posted the uh new video of uh one of the videos we shot yesterday we shot a bunch oh my god i had so much fun the pool oh my god we fucked in the pool by the pool under for some underwater footage oh my god touchy feeling and fucking in the water i did not think that was gonna work i did not think that was gonna work you did it yeah we did actually fucked underwater how about that banged up on the deck and which you can't see because the neighbors couldn't see it but the the neighbors are actually going up their staircase but they were uh donna and the other gentleman were below the fence line so right so they couldn't see that donna was there banging some other guy while i'm running the camera in the pool so and you'll see our pool is only about 25 feet off the road you can hear the you can You can hear traffic, people going by.

Oh, yeah. Luckily, we have a private fence, so you can't see. And the pool is about eight feet above the street, too. So between that and the four-foot fence and trees, they can't see in. But you can hear the cars.

And there's going to be more videos coming out that were shot down there at the pool that uh you hear cars so oh yeah you can really hear the cars which i found kind of annoying but well what are you gonna do yeah but yeah it was fun i had i had such a great time yesterday i think i don't think i've had that much fun in quite a while yeah that was fun all right well again i want to thank you all for listening and uh for your continued listening and i will talk to you next time yeah and this is donna lynn saying good night and we'll see you next time