In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince explore the nuances of sexual labels, the dynamics of their weekend content creation, and the evolving perceptions of sexuality. They delve into the differences between being 'slutty' and 'whorish', discuss the nature of orgasms, and reflect on the societal changes surrounding sexual empowerment and expression. In this conversation, the speakers delve into the complexities of sexual pleasure, focusing on the factors that influence orgasms, the importance of technique, and the mental aspects of sexual experiences. They discuss the significance of verbal communication during intimate moments and explore societal double standards regarding sexual freedom and the labels of 'slut' and 'whore'. The conversation highlights the evolving perceptions of sexuality and the need for open dialogue about pleasure and intimacy. In this engaging conversation, the speakers explore themes of aging, confidence, and the societal perceptions of beauty and sexuality. They humorously discuss the changes that come with age, the allure of confidence in women, and the complexities of labels like 'slut' and 'freak.' The dialogue is filled with candid reflections on personal experiences, societal norms, and the importance of self-acceptance, all while maintaining a light-hearted tone.takeawaysThe terms 'slut' and 'whore' have different connotations and societal perceptions.Content creation in the adult industry can be seen as entrepreneurial.Enjoying sexual experiences is a natural part of life.The stigma around sexual labels is evolving with societal changes.Orgasms can be more intense when shared with others compared to self-induced ones.The hosts emphasize the importance of sexual empowerment and freedom.There is a humorous and candid approach to discussing intimate topics.The podcast highlights the fun aspects of sexual exploration.The conversation reflects on personal experiences and societal norms.The hosts encourage listeners to embrace their sexuality without shame. Everything plays into the type of orgasm experienced.There is no single 'bad' way to experience pleasure.Technique is crucial in achieving satisfaction during oral sex.Mental state and connection with the partner affect pleasure.Verbal communication enhances sexual experiences significantly.Double standards exist in societal perceptions of sexual behavior.Men and women are judged differently for their sexual histories.Aging and appearance are viewed differently for men and women.Women can embrace their gray hair and still be attractive.Open discussions about sexuality can challenge societal norms. Aging can bring a sense of confidence and self-acceptance.Confidence is often more attractive than physical appearance.Humor can be a great way to discuss sensitive topics like aging and beauty.Labels like 'slut' and 'freak' can be reclaimed in a positive way.Self-acceptance is key to feeling attractive at any age.The conversation around beauty standards is evolving.Confidence can come in many forms, regardless of body shape.Aging gracefully involves embracing changes with humor.The thrill of secrets can add excitement to relationships.Empowerment comes from understanding and owning one's identity.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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you do this again okay here we go hi this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast well hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast and this is the wonderful husband oh you just took it right from me you bastard already uh now i was gonna say this is my asshole now that i would believe that also no no it's like also there is truth no i was, ass douche husband. Oh, okay. There's a long story behind that one. That's why I wrote it on your cup upstairs that you brush your teeth with. Yeah, I know. I put little wheezy wheezy. I guess you're wrong.
I put, like, you know, just our names on them. She tries to be funny. Yeah, so I wrote ass douche on his. Which, there was a young lady who was one of the models i worked with that she has a kind of tough personality sometimes she's very sarcastic sometimes she's a good woman gotta turn a speaker of um but uh she's a good woman i'm trying to talk her into starting to shoot because she needs money, and I think she'd be doing okay. She's got a nice little banging body on her. Sure she does. But, yeah, she somehow coined the phrase ass douche for me.
You know, that's just, it's a term of affection for you, I think. Okay, we'll go with that. That's what it is so it's been a remotely busy weekend yeah and we had a couple um no shows or not no shows but well i don't know yeah we had a couple stand well a no show and a stand-up apparently yeah well he well the one just said he didn't realize he couldn't make it so it was was, you know, whatever. No, we're still waiting on another one. Yeah, it's 40 minutes late. Yeah, I think he's a no-show. The thing is, he never really... He's not responsive with his text messages.
No, you know, I'm not great with text bonus. Something I need to convey, information, I'm on it. I'm on it. Colorful. So, yeah, that's one of the things. Yeah, we were supposed to, well, hopefully you were supposed to get a DP for the first time on film. Sadly, it didn't happen. Or video last night. That didn't happen. The one John was not able to make it. But we'll make it happen. Oh, yeah. But we got a really erotic video. Yes, we did. That went out today. Yes, we did.
That went up on your on your only fans today if you go to hotwife.com it would be only fans it would be many of it what is wrong with you i am i'm today i am in a lot of pain what's the excuse any other day i'm married to you so i'm in a lot of pain so um and also for the record we are not recording this show with video so you don't get to see my lovely wife sitting here with her tits hanging out and no underwear well i i thought we were gonna be shooting so i dressed yeah i know that's fine just saying just it's been a kind of a very busy weekend but it could it could have been even worse but i've been i've been suffering with a lot of back pain today i've been day drinking it's now the 20 of seven at night and um i've been day drinking to deal with my pain and it is not necessarily helping excessively but i am getting buzzed and you are kind of we're both kind of tired oh yeah i've just last night It was a very exuberant shoot with the young man.
Well, talk about last night's shoot. Oh, yeah. I've just, last night was a very exuberant shoot with the young man. Well, talk about last night's shoot before we get into the topic. Oh, yeah. It was really hot. See, I've been. It's available on your many vids. Many vids. Yeah. Not only fans because he's not a weird fight, blah. She tells me all the time. But I've been wanting to do something with a fire pit for a while. So she threw the guy into the fire pit and sacrificed. No, not even a little bit. I thought that's what you did.
No, I just wanted to do like a night scene with being lit by the fire. And of course you have to add some fill lights otherwise you wouldn't be able to see anything. And so we mixed one of my favorite videos we massaged, I get massaged outside on our deck next to the fire pit. And it was a little chilly last night. So, I'm just glad we had the fire pit because I would just, it's like, oh, it's just a little bit chilly. So, you just, you know, nudge over to the fire pit and, you know, warm up a little bit. And he was also a black gentleman. Black gentleman. So, I had the mission. Great guy.
Oh, awesome guy. Great guy. Like you said, is one of my favorites. Oh, yes. I have many favorites, though. But he's very attentive. Very attentive. You know. Yeah, he's. He was on the show some time ago. Yes, about the polyamorous. Yeah, he's in a. The show lasted 10 minutes. He's a polyamorous gentleman. Yes. He's in a relationship with like three or four women. I thought it was more than that, but whatever. No, between like three women's houses, like one week here, one week there, one week there. But he also has multiple friends with benefits. I mean, God bless him. Jesus Christ.
He's a busy guy. He has more fucking pussy than the SPCA. Oh, yeah. Yes, I agree with that. So that was fun. So the whole thing is we got it all together. We got the erotic massage video with the slow fuck scene, which I love with lots of ooey gooey lotion and he's dark and I'm light. And there's white cream. The white cream of the lotion. We're talking about the lotion, not the other kind of cream. Not the other kind of cream. That happens later. That was internal. No, it came on my back. Did it? I don't know. It was dark out. Yeah, I think it's going to be hard to see that.
But there was anal involved. There was anal involved. There was. It was very erotic because of the lighting and the shining. Yeah. It was very erotic. Very erotic. And I think being lit by the fire pit and that. And the three midgets. My God, that made me just a lot. Oh, so hot. Yeah, it was such a idiot. I was surprised when they popped in. I didn't know. Yeah, well. I don't even know where they came from. Were you hiding them? Never. I was hiding them at my skirt. You weren't wearing a skirt. Well, they were hidden someplace else then. I don't know where. I'll pretend.
Yeah, no, that was very erotic. So that is actually up on your many vids. Sounds like many ends with vids, yes. I don't know why. Go to hotwifedonnalyn.com and you will find all that. All the links to all the platforms. So tonight, the topic. You haven't even told me the topic. No, I haven't told the topic. Let's drop this bomb already. Jesus Christ. So, you know, back when I was in high school, which was a few years after you, which isn't that big a difference, but I try to make it a big, big difference. I think it's a big difference as it is. There is. There was a little, but anyway.
Back then, yes. What is the differences in today's world between someone being slutty and someone being a whore? Whores get paid. Okay. So, okay, let me ask you this. Because you're shooting videos to make money with it, does that make you a whore or does that make you a slut? And are they bad? These are the topics that, you know, we should talk amongst yourselves. Here's the topic. Whores and sluts. What's for fun and what makes money? Well, first of all, I'm an entrepreneur. Okay. I like to think of it that way. I'm not paying these gentlemen for sex. Nor should you.
And they're not paying you. And they're not paying me. So there's no money exchange. It's almost like when you used to shoot those models on those modeling websites and it was time for prints, they donated their time, you donated, and I'm using this as an air quote, prints as in your time to take pictures of them. Back when people printed pictures. Yeah, but that's what, it was called time for prints, so nobody paid anybody. TFD, time for discs, you were giving a CD. CD, yeah. It was TFCD, I guess it was, but was. Whatever. See, all you're donating is your time. It's a trade of services.
It's a trade of services. And these guys are just someone who wants to dump a load. Yeah, sure. And you're like, okay, I'll take that load. I'll take that load all day long. Yeah. Literally all day long, if I could. But okay, so obviously you're shooting things to generate content. Sure. Okay. And sell them and make money. Ultimately. Okay. And have fun. Sure. I'll see you next time.
obviously you're shooting things to generate content sure okay and sell them and make money ultimately okay and have fun sure i want to have a fun aspect in there it's a job you kind of like oh yeah i do i do you were kind of disappointed when the other black gentleman could show up you were going to do a double deep your first not only your first dp on video really because you did one yeah but it was half-assed it was half-assed and no pun intended um but this was gonna be the first one that was gonna be done seriously seriously yeah and was also gonna be interracial yeah they'll be my first and not to mention these guys are a lot uh i don't i don't know how to say this in a delicate way they're bigger packages the guys the black guys have they were yeah they were and the white guys above average yeah and the white guys were slightly below average so they were a lot yeah the two gentlemen that were my first the first dp you did were smaller they were average white guy yeah yeah they were the average white guy nothing wrong with that gentlemen would have been not necessarily i don't know what you call me that's a whole nother topic Thank you.
Yeah, they were the average white guy. Nothing wrong with that. And these two gentlemen would have been not necessarily, I don't know what you'd call them. That's a whole other topic. The average penis. What is it? I don't know. For black guys, for white guys. But both these gentlemen, if they would have showed up yesterday, they're both seven inches? Minimum, yeah. With decent girth to them?
Yeah not they're not small by any stretch but they're not gigantic you thank god i wouldn't be able to do it no no but they're both comparable in size so and i can do both of them anally so i well but you've only done that individually exactly hey i think you get worked up with both these guys yeah i. So I think both these guys kissing you and touching you and stuff like that, I kind of think that all the viewers would have meshed. It would have happened big time last night. Yeah, I think we would have definitely hit a new high for you. Yeah, I was really disappointed. I cried.
Okay, let's get back to the title. Well, almost. It's going to happen. Just a matter of time.
So again, there used to be a nomenclature where a girl was slutty or whorey and it was like horrible you know like when i was in high school back in 80s early 80s you know there were girls that went to the parties and they fucked a bunch of different guys there and they were oh they're a whore right slut whatever whatever and that was bad i don't know if that's a bad thing anymore not so much not so much we were swinging being so much more prevalent now oh yeah now it's like you know there's there's all kinds of uh attire that says you know come slut on it and you know or you know he's my daddy or you know there's all kinds of spank me daddy yeah yeah there's all kinds of t-shirts or cum dumpster yeah yeah necklaces and jewelry and t-shirts i was yeah it's definitely become more mainstream i think yeah so i mean to the average vanilla person someone who's not into swinging oh they're like like the aspect of letting one first of all letting your wife fuck any other man oh yeah that definitely or suck any other man it's just unthinkable maybe i don't know but like today like one of the videos we shot um i wasn't even there for both of it you shot two videos today yep yeah and i wasn't there for either one i was down here at the studio right you were up on the the one deck exactly shooting with him yeah yeah and it didn't need to be a two-camera shoot that's why i was just you know i didn't need to be there period i mean but one the one phone one video i actually partaked as a phone call yes so you couldn't be there But the other one is like, his second gentleman, his big kink is, and you know, he wants to massage me.
He wants to do that tantric massage. He came twice today. No, he came once today. Okay. He came once, a really good one at the end. Okay. He is a older gentleman. He's 75. He's 75. And it still works. Oh, yeah fine decent size to it yeah it's not you know it's it's okay i can i can take it anally too and it's still but so fills me up so okay you have been sexually active your entire life my entire um yeah since early teens yes within your sexual realm life how's sure yes okay so would you consider yourself pick an answer a sexually active b slutty b whorish or d all we put one more on there?
Go ahead. I had guys from work call me a freak. Okay. I had two guys. The one gentleman was my manager. Yeah, who you did fuck. Who I did fuck. And then there was another one who found me. A co-worker. A co-worker who found me on OnlyFans and reached out to me. And I was like, okay, who is this?
And this and i'd love you to him oh i know i just can't seem to get it worked well he talks great but you know yeah when it comes down to it it's like nope he's in the swinging lifestyle i guess what he's told you from from what i understand but it's i don't know i i just he's not using even reached out to you and said his girlfriend was away someplace and gave him the free pass to have fun. You're like, hey, let's get together. Let's get together. And he fucking balked at it. Yep. Yep. Yeah, so. Okay, I said, well, you can come up here.
You know, if it was too far a drive, he should have said so. He just basically just nothing. If he said, look, can we make something halfway? I don't want to drive all the way up to you. We could have gotten a hotel. We could have, you know what I'm saying? We could have worked it out, but it was basically like silence. No, he just dropped it. Yeah, he just dropped it. It was crickets. So I don't know. Okay, so is being whorish or slutty or freak a bad thing nowadays? Not like it used to be, no. I still think the, you were talking about the connotation and denotation of those words.
Oh, denotation. Yeah. Well, connotation. Use dirty words. Well, the connotation is what people, the meaning people give the word. Denotation is the actual, you know, definition in the Webster Dictionary. So, what people give to the word, I still think slut still has kind of a negative connotation to it. I don't know what just seems worse, slutty or whorey.
Well, like I said, whores make money i can actually respect that why would you just you know what i'm saying i can but i respect slutty if you're fucking to have fun fun it's like saying well okay you replace the uh the word slut with baseball player this guy the guy's playing the game because he likes the fun right you know i mean do you get the same exhilaration hitting a home run or whatever that you get from an orgasm i don't know when i played i played softball slow pitch softball okay as close as i can get so um it was great you know you hit a home run or something there was a there is a high but getting my dick sucked is far better oh okay i okay.
I thought they'd be, you know, I think that'd be pretty exciting getting a, you know, home run. But if you're getting paid to do it. Well, if I was getting paid to do a home run, that would be different. See? See what I'm saying? No, but what I'm saying is, I don't know. Why is, why is, why have we made it okay to be, how do I put this? I don't know. Thank you. have we made it okay to be how do I put this I don't know you can go enjoy yourself in a sport right it's like okay you can go and have all the fun you want in a sport and you can play But don't go have fun having orgasms.
I still think people still think sex has a dirty aspect to it I think people tie in the aspect of sex of like you're supposed to have it with one person that could be too and it's like well do you only play baseball with one person you play football with one person basketball one person with one person? No, you play with a bunch of... Oh, I scored a goal on you! Yay! Oh, wait. Yeah. I mean, what is one of the best things you can feel for free? An orgasm. Pretty much. You know, what is wrong? Whether it's self-inflicted or given to you by one or many. Right. You know what I mean?
Does it matter? Tell me if you've never, I mean, I don't think anyone listening to this podcast that's never had an orgasm. If so, you need to learn how to give yourself one. Give yourself an orgasm. That's important. Yeah. That's important.
now i have been blessed okay with giving orgasms to a couple women who didn't have there was the one with my ex-wife was her close close friend right who had only had orgasms self-inflicted self-inflicted that sounds terrible that sounds like a gunshot can you can we use another word besides inflicted Self Oh you reflected That's fine Self What's the word Are we Self-inflicted? That sounds terrible. It sounds like a gunshot. Can we use another word besides inflicted? Self- Oh, you're inflicted. That's fine. What's the word? Self-applied? I don't know. I guess inflicted.
Well, her husband at the time, when I played with her, she was divorced. But she'd only had them through masturbation. She'd never had an orgasm given to her by another man. She'd only ever been with her husband. Wow. Well, she was a good Catholic girl. Yeah, okay. And I'm sorry to say, this woman has passed from cancer. Passed, yes, I know that. She was a phenomenal woman.
But my ex-wife and I had gotten into swinging, and my ex-wife was not keen on me playing with anyone else, she allowed me to play with her girlfriend and she watched me turn her girlfriend inside out and wasn't happy about it but but here you know giving this woman a an orgasm that she never had somebody else yeah and jerk like masturbation orgasm is good. It's good. But when you get an orgasm from somebody else, is it not better? Is your orgasm stronger self from yourself or from when someone else gives it to you? The orgasms are definitely stronger from you. Thank you. Here's 20 bucks.
Thank you. Now, but orgasm I get from other people, they're not as strong as myself, dare I say, inflicted ones. Because I have a certain toy, and that toy's very, very strong. Sure, sure. But it could vary. Like you said before, is there any such thing as a bad orgasm? No, some are just stronger than others. Some are better than others, yeah. And sometimes you're in the mindset, sometimes you're not. So that's going to do, you know, everything's going to play into what kind of orgasm you have. And that's my point is, you know, there's no bad orgasm. No. Okay. Just some are better than others.
Yeah. Yeah. Again, you could get five different guys lick your pussy and lick you to orgasm. You're going to have five different orgasms. Yes, that's pretty much true. Now, okay, so here's a different question, kind of off topic, but similar. Is it technique? Is it the person? What are some of the factors if someone is giving you oral? For you to have an orgasm or making it different levels of, what's what I want to say, enjoyment, I guess I'll use it. Pleasure, enjoyment, ecstasy. So is it more on the guy's technique?
Can it be more of the aspect of, let's say one guy is real fucking ripped, muscular, good-looking guy, and one guy might be more like me versus... Oh, yeah, I'm dry. Dry as a bone, then. You know, thinking like beige. I've got to paint the ceiling beige. Yeah, that's what I'm thinking. What aspects in getting an orgasm from somebody that is giving orally? It's probably all those things. Is it more technique than anything? Because you don't have your eyes closed and you're doing your mental game, right? Yeah, I'm doing my mental game. But yeah, technique has a lot to do with it.
Is a person fun to be with? Is he kind of somewhere I'm just like well he's nice but you know or is it something i'm really into or where's my mind that day am i you know stressed out with you know my day job work bullshit or am i like really in the game so all these things are going to play into it so technique is a big one because usually once i once that certain techniques that's my saving grace yeah are applied to me thanks for the yeah well yeah i mean yeah i was in my thought the shashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashashash go away.
But in the interim, yes, they're affecting me. Okay, we'll get back to the original topic. Okay.
Let's go on this variant Okay This deviation Oh boy Deviation Okay so as Let's pretend We'll go with Me licking your pussy Okay Okay So I actually think I probably have more time Licking your pussy Than anybody else You've ever been with Yes Because we've been together Going on 19 years Oh dear God And there are times You lick your pussy hour and a half oh jesus christ you can leave anytime you want jesus mary jesse there's a door it's even open and just look there's a door anyway um so the process for you so i'm doing whatever it is i do right do you sit there originally and just focus on how good it feels do you sit there and like go into your mental game and then try to piece how it feels into your little fantasy do you go into your fantasy and then pull the feeling into it what's the process for Donna to to go towards that strong nirvana foot twitching orgasm foot twitching for Donna, to go towards that strong...
Nirvana. Foot-twitching orgasm. Foot-twitching orgasm. You know, that's all very... That does make sense. All those things do come into play with it. Yeah, but what's the... It might be different. Like sometimes when you start talking to me while you're doing it and I'm in my mental game and the two don't mesh, it's kind of distracting.
so it's like when you're like like when you um start talking to me while you're doing it and i'm in my mental game and the two don't mesh it's kind of distracting so it's like because you're on your you're describing your own fantasy and mental game while my mind is on well i'm doing you i'm sort of like when you do me okay i generally have to provide the audio picture. Right. And I kind of need that. Right. You need that. I don't. I can just keep it in my head. Yeah. I'm fine. In fact, it'd be distracting for me to verbalize it, I think. I'm afraid. While you're receiving oil? Yeah.
It might be distracting for me. Yeah. I've noticed that. I've asked you. And you tend to be like, yes. And you leave it. It's like, Donna, would you like? Yes. Okay, here goes both fists at your ass. No! One at a time, please. Well, see, for me, again, here's a little too much information for people. I am so jaded because I've shot so much porn. You keep saying that. I've seen so much. Is that it? Do you really think that's it? I've been in the sex industry since I was 19 years old. Well, it's a combination of that. In some form or fashion.
I have been led to believe through various other partners. I'm not real secure with myself sexually. You have a hell of a great personality. Yeah, bitch. Wow. Yeah. She got lost hiking. I don't know. No, you have great tongue technique. Yeah. You have great oral skills. I mean, incredible oral skills. I'm saying why, thank you. When I'm receiving oral, I kind of, I almost need feedback from, or some audio stimulation from whoever is giving it to me. Like what? Like, oh, your dick is so big. No, then I know they're fucking lying, and that ain't going to help.
No, like, as an example, like when we've played and stuff like that, like after a busy day of shooting. Right. When you sit there like, oh, my God, when so-and-so was doing this, and, oh, my God, it felt so good. That turns me on. Yeah, I know. Okay? Because, like, when I'm shooting the stuff, I'm not really thinking about all that stuff. So now I see the visual. Right.
But it's like when I'm shooting the video end of things i hear you and everything else and there is some it's not pull punches there is some stuff that is uh added in and there's some stuff that is genuine yeah sometimes you have to enhance sure that's a word that's a good one yeah you have to if i'm feeling this is really good but i have to verbalize it i have to let people know hey i'm really enjoying this not to mention it might be a bit of enhancement to begin with but it's genuine i'm just sure i'm just letting people know there's a lot of people we've met we've met other women and men who they don't say a fucking word it's like am i fucking a mannequin here how?
Are you dead? You didn't used to be very verbal. Being verbal is a learned technique, art, whatever it is. Yes, it is learned. And actually, I think for people who might be listening to the show, the verbal part of your sexual encounter is actually more important than you believe. Oh, I think so. I think your partner would like to hear, oh, my God, feels so good. Oh, do this. Oh my God, that feels so good. Yeah. Oh yeah, baby. It's confirmation that you're going to get right. Yeah, like, I'm not shy about this. I like my balls licked. Oh, and you I hear all this.
And I'm like, please, look at my balls. Look at my balls. Yeah. You know. Yep. And there's times when you get to a certain point where I'm licking and you're like, can you put a finger in? Can you put another finger in? Can you put the whole fist in? Can you put the other fist in? Can you clap? No? Tight, huh? That's not even a good joke. That's not even a good one. When you start saying, can you put your foot in? Can you climb out? No? Tight, huh?
No, i'll drive out we're gonna find my keys um give me send me some repelling gear i gotta get the fuck out of here um drop a board to your ass it still fell in um but anyway send me down a fucking pack of matches I need to light a torch I thought you were going to go there That's the problem. But no, it's the oral aspect, I think, oral, the verbal aspect of sex is highly undersold. Yeah, I think it's underrated as well. I mean, we've encountered numerous people, male and female, that one of the more recent gentlemen you're playing with, he's like, oh, yeah, okay, that was great.
It's like, you came? It's like, no, like, hey, I'm going to come. I'm not, but... That was great. I think that is just a learned ability.
it's something you have to learn to do i don't know i think i've always like oh my god baby i'm gonna come because i've had girls i've had girls that want to come and i've had girls who don't want to come right if it's someone who doesn't want to come you're like okay okay move your fucking face keep doing something but don't put your face there because you're going to get splattered but then it's like okay make sure my dick is where you want it because it's coming it's coming you know it's the same for a woman if a woman's coming you know what if a woman just lays there and just like shivers while a guy's looking at her pussy he's like did she sneeze you know is she epileptic what the fuck's going on no for a woman but if you sit oh my god yeah i'm gonna fucking come yeah you know yeah i'm pretty and like you know you grab the guy's hair or something like that fucking fucking gyrate in his face like fucking rub his nose your snatch.
I mean, that's the shit right there. Yeah, that's the shit all right. Well, if you go up too high, then it's the shit. Yeah, you keep it out there. And again, if you want a guy to lick your ass, you tell. You gotta tell. Go ahead and lick my ass. Oh, put a finger in my ass. Oh my God. Yeah, whatever. Yeah, yeah. There are some guys like, oh. Put one fist in my ass, one fist in my pussy. Oh, yeah, baby. Tight. You know? Camera like a bowling ball. I just love it. You know? But it's, again, I think getting back to the original topic of whore versus slut versus whatever.
I think at one point we were at a point where enjoying sex was wrong for women yes oh my god i could fuck a hundred women he was a hero oh yeah a woman fucks two guys she's a slut yeah it's like no why is that double standard just a double standard's changing. I think it's changed drastically. Oh, I don't know about that. The same is marrying a woman who's only been with one guy. And again, we've referenced my best friend. Oh, my goodness, yes. Who his wife, beautiful woman. Beautiful woman. Great little body on her. Yeah. You know? Banging little body, yeah.
After three kids, I'd give her 15 seconds, I wouldn't forget. Oh, you would disappoint her so well. Oh, I'd leave her wanting more so much. Man, oh man, she'd go lesbian when I'm done. You're that good, huh? Okay, yeah, that's it, yeah. That's your end game. She's so satisfied, she never came back.
For more, that's right end game she's so satisfied she never came back for more that's right but but you know it's like saying I've only over only owned one car in my entire life I've only driven this 1962 Studebaker and I'm gonna put parts into it till I die until the wheels fall off yeah wait a minute i have a subaru i'm doing that too well it's a different story it's only 20 years old please it's still young buy her videos so we can get her a new car please somebody she doesn't one window doesn't go down the air conditioning doesn't work the air conditioning does work i never use it it still Who has a CD player?
It doesn't work. From 2016. That CD has been stuck in there since 2016. I don't work. The air conditioning does work. I never use it. It still has a CD player. It doesn't work. From 2016. That CD has been stuck in there since 2016. I just don't care. We went to Ireland and bought one of the CDs. It can't come out. I can't get it out. There we go. The back hatch doesn't open anymore. It leaks wiper fluid out the back hatch. Oh, I have to refill that. Don't let me forget. Okay. I don't have any in there right now.
Talk sexy, fill me with your wiper fluid yeah fill it top it off baby oh my check engine light oh yeah came back on again i saw that when i moved the car yeah it was off for like a day and then it came back on again such a life we have So, back to the topic of sweaty whoriness. Do you see, what would you consider yourself? I'm an entrepreneur. I create content. I told you that's what we tell our tax agent. We go, where's all this 1099s from? I'm a content creator. She knows better than ask what kind of content. What kind of content do you create? Content. She's smart enough.
She has not asked that question. Well, in all fairness, she knows me. Yes, she knows. She thinks you're the fucking angel. I come in there And I make her almost piss herself Yep I am I'm definitely I think she'd want to fuck me In the worst way Oh yeah She'd tear you up You think so? You think so? Yeah I think so I think she's all You know Yeah I think you're The little wild side to her That she doesn't I think she fucking Gets her ledger all And her uproar over me. Ledger all in her uproar. I'm going to give him some deductions, baby. But anyways, she's a sweet one. That would be nice.
She's a lot of fun. A lot of fun. But, yeah, I don't think the nomenclature today. No, that would be a connotation. Nomenclature is the name, but probably connotation is the word you want. This is why I beat you. You understand? This is why I beat you hard. Go ahead with your nomenclature. I don't know what I'm going to say. It's actually connotation. Did you say it was? There's denotation and connotation. Yeah, okay, whatever. Slut and whore is where we're going, right? Right. And it's the words that we give them, the meanings that we as society give them. All right.
Okay, you just killed all sexual. There's a difference. I'm turned off now. Let me see your crotch. Let me see your crotch. Okay, thank you. You're turning back on now? No, I just wanted to see your crotch. Anyways. Do you want to see me rub it? Or my face?
It's a little my face it's a little bit moist down there what are you having showers and so that's not true i showered yes the last i'm down here doing what i do whatever that is yes because first of all i was covered with oil bourbon break okay take your bourbon break i was head to toe slippery with oil from the last shoot not to mention he came all over my back and just rubbed in his cum all over my back which is fine i don't care but i'm gonna take a shower of course well i'm showered now i went i washed my hair because i had oil in my hair i had it all over that is his little fetish that That is a fact.
He comes over and it's like. He's got a fucking. Rub it with oil, doesn't he? Yep. I had oil in my hair. I had it all over me. That is his little fetish, isn't it? That is a fetish. He comes over and it's like... He's got a fucking... Rub you with oil, doesn't he? Yep. Oh, yeah. Nice guy. Great guy. Oh, I have fun with the whole thing. It's very erotic. His massages are becoming... I think you need to do a hot date with him. He would love that. Oh, I'm sure he would love that. If he had to take you to dinner and just... But you know what? He's still... He's got the M word there.
He has another person at home. Does he really want to be out with me and have somebody see? Well, it doesn't have to be like a main restaurant. What are you going to take me to? You'd think he's a playboy at a McDonald's or something. You never know. They might find somebody there too. Who knows? He would do it. I bet you would do it. Well, whatever. I mean, yeah. He deserves it. Well, absolutely. Absolutely. But yeah, he had that. I brought out that C-shaped vibrator thing again that goes into my Thank you.
whatever i mean he deserves it well absolutely absolutely but yeah he had that i brought out that that c-shaped vibrator thing again that goes into my pussy and then it goes into my pussy then the other part comes up and sits on my clit yeah and then like he'll fuck me with it in so it's super tight and then the vibration he gets a vibration on his dick from that too so that's pretty that's always's always cool. Sure. But it's a little snug in that closet once you put those things in. You only put so many pairs of shoes in there. Yeah, you can't put that many. Not too much luggage in there.
But it was fun. But yes, I did take a shower to answer your question all right so do you think it's bad to be a slut or a whore nowadays no i just i i find some of the terms a little bit personally distasteful okay i think i i think i find whore less distasteful than slut and i don't find it like that you know i don't care i don't think i mean how come there's no term for men Thank you. I think I find whore less distasteful than slut. And I don't find it like that, you know, I don't care. Yeah, I don't think, I mean, how come there's no term for men?
If a man is up with 100 women, is there a term? Yeah, stud, which has a positive connotation. Okay, why is there not? A positive connotation for women. I don't know. That's been the double standard. Oh, here's another one. Let's look at just simple as simple as graying hair. A man becomes gray. What is it? He's... Distinguished. Distinguished. A woman's hair becomes gray. What is she? Haggard. It's like, wait a minute. Now, you see, I... See? I know that... I agree with you that people say that. I don't think it's like that anymore.
There are plenty of women that I've seen with, now it has to be attractive women. Sure. I mean, it doesn't matter. If you're an ugly woman with all brown hair, you're still an ugly woman with brown hair. But I've seen women with all gray hair. And are stunning. And they are like, yeah, fuck yeah. That wouldn't be me. If I let my hair go gray, it'd be ugly and gross. It wouldn't be a pretty color. I'd have to do a Photoshop thing. Ugh, no. I don't look good with, like, white hair. Well, like your sister. Well, first of all, she's not necessarily attractive. In all kinds of ways.
He just doesn't like my sister. But that's okay. But you don't like me, so that's an even thing. It's even. It's equal. Whatever, that's fine, whatever. But, you know. Yeah, I just don't like the color. If it was a pretty color, I would be like, yeah. There are some women, I don't necessarily say it's a pretty color, but almost, I almost look at a woman with, if they look good, with a whole head of gray, silver, whatever you want to call it, hair. Almost very, I want to use a term distinguished. You can't use that term because you're using a male term, so you have to use a female term. Okay.
I don't know what you'd use. Okay, well, that's fine. I'm fair with that. But, like, there is something about, again, I'm 56, so there's something about the fact that you have earned that. Yes, I agree. I don't know what that word would be. If you know that I have made it this fucking far, go fuck yourself sideways. Yeah, there's definitely. My beard is completely gray. We'll be right back. I agree. I don't know what that word would be. If you know that I have made it this fucking far, go fuck yourself sideways. Yeah, there's definitely... My beard is completely gray.
It is not completely gray. Oh, two hairs over here that aren't... Well, see, that's still not a hundred... Well, and actually above your lip, it's still not completely gray. No, it's for the most part, yeah. You think so? Yeah. I mean, you think it's like 60, 40? I just chewed my beard yesterday. It was getting too long. I was chewing on my whiskers. Oh. But no, and I'm seeing more and more hair come into my, above my head. Oh, I thought you were just turning blonde. Yeah, I wish. No, that's the skin coming through where the hair is thinning out. And I'm fine with that.
You know, I'm not a vain person, actually. You know that. I don't see the top of your head anyway, so I don't know. No, it's fine. I never see the top of your head. I don't see the bottom of my balls either, but it's a restaurant. I see't see the top of your head anyway, so I don't know. That's fine. I never see the top of your head. I don't see the bottom of my balls either, but they're restored. I see them where they top of your head. That's true. Valid point. I prefer you see that. It's a better view, and it'll cross the board. Well, it's a better view for you, but it feels good for me.
Well, that's why it matters. No, there is something, again, I've said this on other shows. What's that? A mature woman that is together. She exudes confidence. I'm going to say together. Okay. I won't necessarily say in great shape. I'm going to say together. Right. Together is a whole different description than great shape. Yes. I don't mind a cur a curvy woman. No. But they have to look like they're together. I think... Does that make sense? Yeah, absolutely. Well, I think the word or term or phrase I would use would they exude confidence. There's a confidence about them. Sure.
Whether they're in great shape or just they look good, but they may not be perfect. They're comfortable in their own skin. That's it. Yeah. I mean, that's something that... That's very attractive. And again, I've talked about that. I mean, I am far from the most eye-appealing person. What? You tell me that all the time. You're a Greek Adonis. Yeah, okay. You usually say geek Adonis. Oh, yeah. Sorry. Thank you. You tell me that all the time. You're a Greek Adonis. Yeah, okay. You usually say geek Adonis. Oh, yeah, sorry, that's nuts.
But no, someone who is confident in themselves, they understand what they've been through. Sexiness is what you exude. We've always said that. Yes, I agree. A hundred and a hundred percent. And a woman, and I guess a man, I don't know, I don't look at men, but a woman who exudes confidence and they can have curves to them, they can have a real role to them, I don't care. They exude a certain level of confidence. Yeah. Yeah. Very sexy. They have completely gray hair. Yep. Yeah. You know? I'm not a big fan of short hair on women. But there's some women can pull it off.
But there's some women can pull it off. Pull it off. But again, how do you do it? Yeah, it's like when you start looking like your husband, then it's a problem. The women who go to just a barber, hairstylist, whatever, and just like cut my hair short. It's like, no. But when they get it styled and it's short and they look good. Yeah, they can't get the same haircut that their husband gets. Or shorter. We've seen that and it's like, well, wait a minute here. What's wrong with this person?
I saw a woman today, i was at some store walmart maybe whatever it was and this woman had like a page boy haircut which i thought went way out if you don't know what a page boy haircut is well it has the bangs i'm saying if you don't know what it is go look it up and then it comes down straight and curls under yeah okay what's wrong with that but when you're like when you're like 80. So? And it's all snow white, it looked like shit. Really? I think that would be hot. I think it looked very attractive. No, no. Paige, come on. Paige boy haircuts went out in the fucking 1600s.
A lot of things went out in the 1600s. Actually, Paige boys were very popular back in the 60s. No, this is not, no. Straight and like curls under. No, it looked like shit. Really? It looked like shit, yeah. Hmm. So, you know what? If she had had... You think she needed like layers or something? Was it just too straight? I'm not gay. I'm not going to get into hairstyling in that way. But you know what? If she had a little more length to it, it looked more feminine. Well, how short was it? Was it up to her, her chin? Yeah, that's about it.
A page boy haircut kind of can go either way, boy or woman. Well, only little boys have page boys. Well, there we go. Yeah, only little, little. And when you're 80-some years old, walking with a cane, it looks like shit. Oh, I'm disappointed. I don't think that would be terrible. No, it didn't. You know, I mean. So you think she needed a little more length? If she had long hair and maybe had to pull back to a ponytail, it would have been attractive. Interesting. But whatever. At least it was style. It's not like my aunt's hair where she gets a butcher cut from my sister. Weed whacker.
It almost looks like somebody took a weed whacker on one side. It's like, there you go, haircut. It's like, Jesus Christ. But she's 103. Where is she going? Exactly. What is she trying to do, pick up 105-year-old guys? She might. You don't know. She's going to need a haircut someplace else. That shit's been going for like fucking 60 years. I have to bathe her. I can tell you, As you get older, you don't have any hair. Oh, okay. I did hear that before. Yes. No hair on her legs. No hair. On her arms. How is it fair that men lose it on our heads And women lose it other places. It's not fair.
But it's nice that you don't have to shave. But no one's going there to find out. I know. It is unfair. It's like her skin is so smooth on her legs. It's like a 20-year-old skin on her legs. Wow. I mean, it's that smooth. First of all, you're going to start grossing me. But, yeah, she doesn't have any hair growing. Lucky her. Yeah. Anyway, different subject. Yeah, let's turn this bus around. Back to the slut whore thing. So. Okay. So you basically said, okay, if you're a whore, you do it for money. Yeah, I can almost, it almost has an entrepreneurial area to it.
So what's the difference between whore and prostitute? Nothing. Nothing. It's just a term. So would you technically, because you're making money with the videos, be a prostitute? I am not charging these people directly. That's what I'm asking. So, yeah, I'm a sex worker, I guess, of sorts.
Yeah, sure sure if you want to call it that in a way you know but i like to look at it like we would be videotaping all of our fun basically anyway we just happen to say hey why don't we just you know make it look a little more entertaining and put it up there we're gonna mean you have recorded almost all my play time from day one almost almost yeah there have been a couple months or maybe we didn't record stuff a couple I don so insulted. I've lost count, dear. You remember more than I do. You're like, yeah, you remember when you played with that one guy? I'm like, I don't know.
Same as I remember the bachelor parties, I bounced away. Oh, I have no idea. They're all like a blur to me. Yeah. And I was not drinking, did not get stoned. I was like, you could buy a house. I was like, yeah, we did a bachelor party. There was a lot of parties. Yeah, there was a lot of parties. Yeah, but I wasn't. I was always sober, but I just. No, I'm saying, I was sober, too. Oh, yeah. I had to be good. If something went down, I had to be able to fight. Oh, yeah. Fortunately, it never really happened. No. Mm-mm. A couple times I had to fight my feathers. That's it. Yep, that was about it.
You know, like I said, 45 minutes into every one-hour party. Yep. Inevitable. It was inevitable. Well, number you. You're right. We can have our way with her. Yeah. Maybe. And open my jacket, and they see what's in my shoulder holster. It's like, oh, shit. Go enjoy the party, asshole. Yeah, just have fun. Come on. Thank you. Yeah. Maybe. And open my jacket, and they see what's in my shoulder holster. It's like, oh, shit. Go enjoy the party. Yeah, just have fun. Come on. Yeah, we got 15 minutes left. Don't make me fuck you up. Don't need this. It doesn't need to end this way.
We're just here to have fun. Come on. Yeah. But anyway. Yeah, so that was my topic for tonight. It's like, okay. I mean, so you consider yourself more of a slut or a whore oh well that's well i just don't like both of them i don't i think can i just be a freak okay we'll go with freak i like freak better than the slut because it's more like if you're a freak you're doing it's more creative you have a lot more i don't know there's a lot more but you're not yet a nympho. No, I'm working toward that. That is, I'm taking it. Well, a nympho, you have to have sex. You want to have sex all the time.
Yeah, I'm definitely not a nympho. No. So you're more of a freak. I know, sad to say. I know, you're over there like. You enjoy, not at all. You're like drying your eyes. Oh, she's not a nympho. No, not at all. I think that would be very disruptive. Like anything like anything you have to do anything you're addicted to just disrupts your life in any way shape or form so i just rather i'd just be like getting my freak on from time to time doing my little bds something having my my feet smacked and all that nonsense also implies a little bit of the dirty secret it is a little bit of a dirty.
Which I find very titillating. Like, oh, okay, I just did three guys this weekend. What'd you do? Yep, yep. I cut my lawn. Oh, yeah. That's freaky. Yeah, that's freaky. Wow, woman. I don't know. I don't know. Well, when the one manager... I made a chicken casserole without broccoli. Oh. Well, the one manager, we were talking, and I said, well, you know, I said, I'm not really a freak. He's like, Donna, it's me you're talking to. He goes, you're a freak. I'm like, really? Do you really think so? And he's like, yes. I was like... Again, even the three terms, the slut, whore, freak. I'm a freak.
It depends on who you're talking to. Yeah. It whore, freak, it depends on who you're talking to. Yeah. It's like, well, you know. If you're a super vanilla person, they're all bad. No, they're all, yeah, they all have a negative aspect to them, sure. If you're a swinger, I don't know if any of them are bad. No, there probably won't, probably some will be more descriptive to what, where they are.
Well, again, if you look at, okay, let let's look at let's present somebody in the in the lifestyle sure they can sit there and go yeah you're my little slut sure they go oh fuck yeah you're my little whore yep you're still not offended yeah yeah you're a little freak you're still not offended no no yeah it depends on you know what maybe it's not the words maybe it's how it's delivered it's who it's who's saying it and how it's delivered it's who's receiving it yeah and who's who's delivering it is it's like somebody you're playing with and he calls you his little whore you know okay respect i use i use the term more slut right with you yeah and i'll sit there and go, I can't wait for you to be a little slut.
Yeah, yeah. A little slut. And I don't take offense to that. No. Just in general. If I did, and I don't. It's not a very pretty word. Maybe that's it. If I said, you're going to be a little whore this weekend, would you be offended? No. Now, if I say a little freak, I know you're not going to be offended. I'm not offended at all. Okay. I do like freak. Do you like freak? Freak better? Yeah, I do like freak better.
Freak died coming from you encompasses a lot more it does it also has that little kinky aspect that i freak leaves it wide open mm-hmm slut and whore just like okay i'm just fucking yeah yeah freak you could do so much more i like that i like that there's a lot more with i think freak is the term we need to go with. I agree. I agree. It's also more colorful. Hot freak Donna Lynn. Okay, I'm a hot freak. I think so. Well, I'm glad you think that's all it matters. Okay. So I'm not a hot wife anymore. I'm a hot freak. No, you're still a hot wife freak. I'm just adding so many words to this.
Hot week freak. Blah. Yeah, I know. Fucking be the URL that goes on for six hours. Get tired of typing before you want to see anything. Yeah, that would be good. All right. Well, we killed over 50 minutes. Well, that's enough for me. I'm sorry to say there's no video. No, there's not a whole lot to see here. I'm just wearing the mother's zipper dress. No, it still looks good. No undies. No, no. Teddy's coming out. Hang on. Oh, my zipper's stuck. Don't get caught on the boobies. Hey, stop that. There you go. Now the boobs are out. They are pretty teddies, I gotta tell you. Oh, thank you, dear.
Oh, thank me. Thank you. You're welcome. Mm. Well, you know, they're pretty smooth, too. I think all that lotion and oil and everything. Yes, they are. So smooth. It's not bad. I just set that up. Stop it. You're annoying people. Stop it. You're annoying me. No problem. So, all right. Well, I want to thank everyone for listening. I am, too. Should we put a plug in for, you know, hotwifedonnalyn.com? You just did. Did I? Wait, is there an underscore under that one? Nope. Okay. The one that has an underscore is... If you go to hotwifedonnalyn.com, you will find links to all the outlets. Okay.
We also want to tell you, if you've listened this far, go to Habit Magazine. Yes, I have my story I need to upload to her. I don't know if she's back in the country. Well, we have to find out and hopefully get her on air with us one night. Yes, I agree. And it's a great magazine. Yeah, very classy. It's erotic. It's a magazine by a woman for women. And it's no spread shots or no penetration shots. It's very, again, my photography used to be what's left to the imagination is far more erotic than what you could show. Sure, I agree with that. And she kind of follows that. Yeah, I like that. And.
Because you can see spread shots, you know, anywhere. Yeah, yeah. Type in abc.com you'll find that but anyway so but yeah so I want to thank everyone for listening and our numbers keep growing I appreciate that so thank you so much sorry for not videotaping tonight's show we've just been through a lot today wanted to quick record another video and our friend Stephen haven't heard from Stephen in a while You're welcome. Sorry for not videotaping tonight's show. We've just been through a lot today and just wanted to quick record another video. Oh, no, a podcast.
We haven't heard from Stephen in a while. We also have Chris. Oh, Chris is a... He's a local guy. We're trying to get Chris. He's apparently a young, hot stud. Wanted to maybe have him come in and do a cock review. Oh, yes. Yeah, you can tell me about that. Yeah, I'm not sure he's going to want his face, but you'll be able to... Well, we'll see his cock anyway. What else do you want to see? I mean, that's it. I'd rather just see his face. That's you. It's not a face review. It's a cock review. Can't review his cock, but I just see his face. Sorry. I'll look the other way. Okay, you do that.
That's okay. I'm doing the review. You don't have to worry about it. All right, good. I would not do a review. Good. I'll do the bourbon review. Oh, well. You know what? We have to start maybe next show. Oh, boy. Do the, we're going to start doing a beer review. Oh, that'd be good. I like beer. It's, we did one a year ago. It's now fall, so the pumpkin beers are out. Oh, that was a fun review. So we'll have to start doing that. And again, you're a big stout, like me, stout and porter fan. This is the time of year. This is the time of year.
So maybe next show we'll have to do some kind of a beer review. I'd like that. Yeah. Oh, absolutely. If you cover them up, then I have to guess which one it is. I'll just pour them in a cup for you. That'll work. Okay. All right, folks. All right then I have to guess which one it is. I'll just pour them in a cup for you. That'll work. Okay. All right, folks. All right. I want to thank you for listening. Again, hotwife.linn.com. If you want to email us about the show, we'd appreciate that. Good, bad, or indifferent, you can email us at hotwifepodcast at gmail.com.
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