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In this episode of the Hot Wife Podcast, hosts Donna Lynn and Vince explore the intersection of clothing and intimacy. They discuss the eroticism of clothing during sexual encounters, the differences between fantasy and reality, and personal preferences regarding what to wear (or not wear) during intimate moments. The conversation delves into how clothing can enhance or detract from sexual experiences, and the hosts share their thoughts on what they find appealing in both men's and women's attire. Ultimately, they emphasize the importance of comfort and confidence in clothing choices when it comes to intimacy.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now, let's heat things up. Hello everybody, this is Donna Lynn. Sorry, I have a little frog in my throat, I think. Sorry about that. Welcome to My Hot Wife Podcast. Of course, I'm here with the ever-loving Vince.
Speaker2: Hey, hello.
Speaker1: So, how are you doing tonight, honey?
Speaker3: I'm glad the day's over.
Speaker1: I know that feeling. I know that feeling.
Speaker3: It's a great day at work.
Speaker2: Anyway.
Speaker1: Well, we had fun yesterday, though.
Speaker2: Yesterday. When Jay was here. Oh, yeah. That was yesterday, right? What's today? Sunday? No, that was Friday. Friday, okay. Oh, that's right. I had to work in the middle there. Well, you had fun on Friday, so there you go. Which was documented in the previous podcast. Yes, it was. It was a good time. And again, in case you're listening for the first time or just a listener anyway, we are now, like this show is actually being videotaped. This will be our second good quality one. Well, we'll see. Well, better quality. Now, we've had shows, we have a YouTube channel, but like the Podbean, who we brought, was one of our outlets for our show, actually puts the podcast up. It's just audio with a still screen. This is actually, you get to see the lovely Donna Lynn. You can actually see me rolling my eyes when you say that. And I'm seeing all your eyes by not seeing me. So again, go to our YouTube channel, which is just Hot Wife Podcast. And there's a link on our website, hotwifepodcast.com. And you can get to our channel. We ask you to subscribe, like.
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Speaker3: So I picked a bad AI voice. I had a stutter problem. And a lisp.
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Speaker1: Spunk Lube. Spunk Lube. Isunk clothes. Oh, this is the drunk AI. Awesome. Oh, shit. I have so many things I could say that are just politically incorrect. But anyway, so what topic do you have for us today? There's been a couple of playmates not that long ago. They kept asking me to fuck with my clothes on. And I was wondering, like, the parties that we go to, some people just walk around totally naked. So what's more erotic to you? Yeah, what would be more erotic, keeping some clothes on while you're fucking or totally nude?
Speaker2: I think it depends on the situation.
Speaker4: I think it does, too.
Speaker2: You know, I mean, I've talked about it on prior podcasts. Like, the one woman I worked with, her and I were fooling around. We would work a lot of overtime.
Speaker3: We actually worked, but we had some playtime.
Speaker2: You know, so you can't go strip naked in case someone walks in. You know. That's when little skirts are great. You can just lift them right up. That was it. She wore a skirt, made it a lot easier. Oh, yeah. And if you're smart. Well, if I wore a skirt, it made it really easy. So easy. No one had any clues. It's like, oh, he's gay. They can't be for one or not. Can't be. And there's nothing wrong with being gay. Well, the cool thing is with wearing the skirt, though, I mean, if you're smart, you can just tuck your panties in a pocket or in your purse or something, and then you're. Well, where people are being dressed is just pulling the panties aside. I personally hate that. I'm okay with hiking a skirt up and pulling your pants down to your knees. You can you can't open your legs. It's hard. She's kind of loose. Yeah, if she's kind of loose, it tightens things up. You're terrible. Oh, no, no. But, yeah, there was one guy who was playing with me. He kept saying, yeah, keep your thong on. I just want to be able to pull it to the side. And it's like, I feel like I was getting, like, chafed, like, every time he was fucking me. At first of all, I had to think about pulling it. And if the thong, if the thong's a little on the large side, then it's fine, because then I don't have, it's not grinding against me. You know what I'm saying?
Speaker3: Yeah.
Speaker2: Or it's not. Let me get my mic.
Speaker3: Yeah. Or it's not grinding against him and chafing him. But every time, there's two times he was over here and both times he asked me to keep the thong on. And I just felt like it was just, visually it's not as appealing because you can't see as much because my hands are his hands are there. Well, it depends. We, you, we tend to look at things because we do document the stuff for content creation. Exactly. Okay. And I'm a visual person. If there's no video camera wherever you're playing, does that make a difference? So, again, let's pretend you're single. I still don't like to pay anything. It chafes me. Okay. I mean, it might look cool, but it... I'm just saying. But, again, if it was like a really erotic moment... Right. It's to say you're out someplace, you meet this guy, and the sparks are there that you're like, yeah, I got to fuck him. Okay? And it might not be a swinger-type party. Right, exactly. So it might be one of those things like, hey, I'm going to sneak out on the deck out here real quick. around the corner. Yeah, then I guess pull it to the side, like doggy or something. I'm just going to, you know, you're wearing a skirt. You can just pull your panties, thong, whatever it might be, to the side and let them give it to you. Right, exactly. Does that make it more erotic? Would it make a difference? I mean, I know you. You'd just take the panties off. Ities off it'll be easier but you know but it would be very erotic because you don't have time to get uh undressed you don't have time to plan anything the spontaneity is there i can see being very erotic it's just again it's that the fantasy is very alluring to me the reality that i have experienced not so much it's just you know you know what i'm saying it fantasy versus reality. Reality is, we had a show about that. Yes, we did. One time reality and fantasy is far hotter generally than reality. Only because in my fantasy, you can grab that pan, you can really pull it, and it gives, and it doesn't rip, it doesn't tear my skin.
Speaker1: And lacy things, it's like wearing barbed wire sometimes, because the way it chafes you.
Speaker3: I only wear my 80-grit thong.
Speaker1: Oh, it's like, I love lace, but man, it's like, it will grind on my clit.
Speaker3: Maybe you need to buy and spend more money on the lace and get softer lace.
Speaker1: I don't know. I don't know. You know, stuff goes to the dollar store and get your lace panties. Well, the ones I have now, they come up higher, so there's no lace. There are stores other than, you know, Dollar Tree and Dollar General, you know. You can get clothing at other stores. I think there's something called, like, Victoria Speaks or Victoria Tells All. All right, all right. You know know just say you know possibilities i order them from those online places dollar general has an online store no no i mean the taboo oh oh yeah yeah that's great some of them are really nice but in general like those those don't get them wet they get them wet, they dissolve. No, the leopard skin ones I have, they pull to the side. Those I think would actually work. It's just the ones that I had done and pulled to the side, not so much. So it's something to think about, but I do love the idea. Here's the part of clothing on that is not sexy. What's next? When men leave their socks. I knew you were going to go there, because we were talking about that on Friday. You know, that doesn't bother me one way or the other. I'm a sock person. If I put socks on. I guess. Unless you're doing something with the feet, what do I care? I don't care. It just looks like you're getting ready to go. Their feet are cold. Oh, Jesus. I've seen guys fucking wearing socks in the middle of summer. Come on. No, come on. You have dignity. If you could pull your pants and your underwear off, you could take another half second and rip your socks off. Maybe they're very, very shy and conscious about their feet. Small penis, they're not. Right, exactly. But their feet. Oh, yeah. Yeah, okay. I'm going to come in three seconds and I have a a small penis, but don't look at my feet. No, come on. You know lots of people that have, they see either thing. I'm missing two toes. Exactly. I take my socks off. You're an odd bird. No, but some people are really, really hung up about their feet. I guess. You know, because I remember I was one of our playmates. I was getting ready to play with him. I was like, hey, won't you take this socks off? Well, that's your playmate. That's not ours. Okay, you're shooting it, but okay. That's still not my playmate. You always correct me on that. Okay, my playmate. And I said, hey, I asked him to take his socks off. He goes, well, my toenails are just really gross. My feet are really ugly. Did you explain, I'm not going to be sucking your toes. I'm going to be sucking something a little higher. But he did, and I was like, they're fine. But, you know, some people are just really sensitive about what their feet look like. I don't know. Mine aren't gorgeous, but I don't, I don't care. I don't, you know, I'm not offended by them. I've seen videos where, I guess, women who aren't necessarily happy with their breasts,
Speaker3: they'll strip down to everything, but they still leave their bras on. Like, they might have pancake-y or whatever.
Speaker2: I've done that. Yeah.
Speaker1: Just because it's on.
Speaker3: I'm just saying, where they just leave just the bra on, and I think sometimes that's because they're not necessarily happy with what they have upstairs, or don't have upstairs, let's say.
Speaker1: Well, with me having a bra... I'm going to keep my underwear on and my junk covered so we could have intercourse That'd be great. It'll be awesome You're gonna need a lot of spunk lube for that It's kind of like safe sex nothing's gonna be penetrating yourating you. Oh, my God. No, it's true. No. You're saying. No, well, sometimes I kind of like something on. I think it's really sexy to leave like a corset on, just like a waist cincher. I'd rather you wear it. Okay, me. All right. I look good in it. Oh, you look great in it. Come on. But then I stretch it out for you. out for you just a little I thought you were going to say I stretched it out for you you do have bigger tits than I do I want a waist cincher something underneath my breast I don't want to go down to it just my waist have that laced in. So it's not a full corset. It's a waist insure. Well, lingerie
Speaker3: is a different thing. Okay.
Speaker2: Lingerie.
Speaker1: Like bra and garters? Depending what the lingerie
Speaker3: is. Yeah. Garters, yeah. I see leaving that on. That's different. Yep. I think our topic generally is about, like, street clothes.
Speaker1: Yeah. But, I mean, there are some sexy clothes that look good to have sex in. Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Do I kind of find sexy? And, I mean, there are some sexy clothes that look good to have sex in. Oh, yeah.
Speaker2: Absolutely.
Speaker3: Do I kind of find sexy? I mean, it doesn't work this way in real life. But when you see, let's say a woman's wearing leggings, and they rip it open.
Speaker2: Right.
Speaker3: So now the whole crotch area is exposed, and fuck her with that on? That's kind of hot. It's kind of like that heat of the moment thing.
Speaker5: I did that with pantyhose. Yeah, okay. It works like the same thing, just to basically see through leggings. Exactly. And I support that. Of course you do. That was pretty hot. Yeah, that works. That was his fetish. He had his stocking fetish, and he liked to rip them off. Just not the panties with the panels in it, though. That's not sexy. Not so much. To me. Yeah. I know somebody who, that's what he likes. Everybody has their buttons, man. I'm telling you. And some of them are like, whoa. I'm not judging. Okay. That you know of. I don't find pantyhose all that terribly sexy, unless they're totally sheer. Because if you can see right through it, you can see that seam, it's kind of split in the pussy lips. That's kind of hot. Okay, just the panel part. And the panel part is like, mm. It doesn't work for me. Those who it works for, great. Yeah, I don't understand that one. Yeah, I don't know. I mean, yeah, lingerie works. But the tearing them off, yeah. And you know, I really love body stockings. I think they're really erotic. I know, and I'm too short and dumpy to wear one. I have that lace one. I wore it a few times. I look like I'm three. Crotchless body stocking. Yeah, it was crotchless, and it came down kind of low. It did have sleeves, as far as I can remember. But it was like lace. Whatever. It could have sleeves. I did not look good in it. I looked dumpy. You think so, but I thought you were good in it. Yeah. Terrible. Whatever. Just off. That's you. That's not a face or video. Sorry. It was not pretty. It was just not a pretty sight. I can tell. I'm being honest. Grandma Donna Lynn on camera. Fuck you. You're an ass. Hot grandma.
Speaker3: Well, I guess I am, really. You're old enough.
Speaker2: You're not.
Speaker1: I'm not a grandmother, but I certainly am in that age group for sure. You know, 64, and it's like, yeah. I don't act it, that's for sure.
Speaker3: Definitely 75.
Speaker2: There you go. I was going to say that, you know. And some days it feels that way. Some days I feel 175. But, yeah, I mean, the clothing thing in general. Right. I mean, unless it's like a cold night or something like that, I'd rather not have anybody have clothes clothes on it's just um yeah i i think you're right because you can get the things easier but if it's if there's a chill in the air maybe um you know if a woman is wearing just like a sweater so you can hike up you just get your hands under there it's not really blocking anything but just you know it's just there yeah i've seen videos where guys, like, pull their dick through their underwear. I don't know how you do that, doesn't it? Well, I sit there and think about, okay. Unless they changed into that clothes. Right. Okay. We're all human. Right. This is kind of nasty, but I'll say. But, you know, women use toilet paper to dab up after they pee, right. Well, men, we just put it away. So your underwear kind of dabs up. So now you're pulling your thing out through your underwear, and all of a sudden she's down there where there's like a pissy smell possibly. It's the reality versus fantasy again. I'm just saying. It's just like what in those things. Reality just dashed that, anything of that being erotic at all. Well, okay, it's clean, and you just came from, took a shower. In fantasy, yeah. In fantasy world. But wouldn't it be a lot to try to? There might be people that really, that's part, that the smells drive them on. There are people that smell. Oh, yeah, the smell is a big thing. Okay, yeah. I don't know. Hey, God bless you with that. Yeah, we all have our thing. But I'm getting back to the underwear.
Speaker3: It's like, do you have to weave your dick through? Well, if they're wearing boxers, it's just got that.
Speaker1: Okay, just a little, okay.
Speaker3: The tighty-whities, there's a flat thing you've got to separate.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker3: I'm not sure why it has all those other ones in there. I don't know what that does. It's like in there. I don't know what that does. It's like a puzzle.
Speaker1: I don't know what it does either. I have no idea. Yeah, I guess the boxers, you could just slip it to the side.
Speaker3: Is there men's lingerie that you find erotic?
Speaker2: No.
Speaker3: See, I kind of find the men's underwear. Kind of make it, okay, if you have a dick big enough to put on the elephant underwear. Okay, there's a fun one. All right, it's different. I don't know. I want my thing to be a toy for you, but not to be a pet. No, I think in general, like the things you would get like those uh like they're like bikinis but they're kind of sheer that men wear if you're a straight man i don't think it goes over real real well if you're a gay man i think yeah then you can pull that off you know i'm not one so i don't know but it's i just think it's kind I mean, I've seen some of your playmates wear things like that. Right. There was one, I'll use the term loosely, gentleman. Okay. It was wearing, remember, a loincloth. Loincloth. I was like, not sexy. Not sexy. Well, on him it wasn't. He was, at one time he was in great shape. Well, he let himself go and he still thinks in his mind he looks like Tarzan. He looks closer to Chia or whatever the hell it was. What was that monkey's name? Chim Chim? No, that's Speed Racer. No, that's Speed Racer. Yeah, but anyway, yeah.
Speaker2: But yeah, it's like, no,
Speaker1: you know, I mean... Yeah, and you have to have a certain body type to pull up those kind of things. You know, I thought...
Speaker3: Or keep them on, whichever one.
Speaker1: Yeah, well, exactly. There is some men's underwear I found very understated, but I think very sexy.
Speaker3: The one with the flap in the back?
Speaker1: The flap? No, not the. The one with the flap in the back? The flap? No. The red? Red is the flap? No. These almost look like they're more of a spandexy material. And they kind of like they look like short running
Speaker2: shorts. And
Speaker1: at the party where our quote number one fan came to the party and was entertaining all the ladies, what he wore that night I thought was very sexy. If I had his body? Well, yeah, he didn't like to just wear anything and be very sexy. But, I mean, even a style like that on somebody who's not. Let me rephrase that. What is that? If my body looked like his body. I don't want to say if I had his body. If my body
Speaker3: looked like his body.
Speaker1: Oh, you can say if you
Speaker3: had his body. If I had his body with something else. He'd be the number one fan. I'd be his number one fan.
Speaker1: Yeah, he could really pull that off.
Speaker3: And he did a few times. He did.
Speaker1: But those kind of... They're understated. They're just like little shorts. I don't know what the... They're really nothing really sexy. He's had a few times. He did. But those kind of, they're understated. They're just like little shorts. I don't know what the, you know, they're really nothing really sexy.
Speaker3: You've had a few pliers with them.
Speaker2: Yeah. Yeah.
Speaker1: And I thought they were very nice. They're kind of sexy.
Speaker3: Again, you have to have the right build.
Speaker2: Mm-hmm. You know?
Speaker1: I think they're a little more forgiving than other, you know, really future things.
Speaker3: A pinstripe on a sports car and a pinstripe on a tow truck are two different things. You can put it that way, yeah. Yeah, it's, you know, when you've got to lift the hood to see the engine. Oh, God, he's doing this a little bit. I was like, yeah, you wouldn't. Oh, man, that's just, you're just not right. I'm just saying, you know, there there's the people we've met people again go back to the show about magic dicks there's a show where some guys think they got something that is magical and it's just like they're not the ones wearing clothes they're not Doug Henning I'm sorry there's no wow factor but yeah getting back to the topic, clothes on, clothes off. Well, we're still on clothes. We're still on clothes. We can get off topic. I don't know. Well, I think clothes express, potentially, I mean, more like the lingerie clothes express how you feel about yourself, potentially. Yeah, there's definitely more expression. Yeah. More expression. You can definitely express yourself more. What you're comfortable with. I don't think you would wear lingerie you're not comfortable with. Probably not. I know I have a couple up there I've never put on because they're just not... You're not comfortable with it. I'm not comfortable with them. They're yucky style or yucky color. Yucky style. Is that a whole brand?
Speaker1: Yeah, it's pretty not flattering. Let's put it that way.
Speaker3: Victoria's Secret, and then there's yucky style.
Speaker1: That's what I got.
Speaker3: Oh, my God.
Speaker1: Even the color was ugly. I was like, oh, my God. Oh, well. Yeah, it was not the most flattering. It looked good online, but I got it.
Speaker2: I've seen you put things on, and you're like, no, I don't like this. It's like, no, online, but I got my crew on.
Speaker3: I've seen you put things on, and you're like, no, I don't like this. It's like, no, it looks great. No, I don't like this.
Speaker1: No, no, this was not. It was a baby doll thing. Not my style.
Speaker2: Okay.
Speaker1: I thought it was, but it's not. Live and learn, right?
Speaker3: You get stuff, and you're like, oh, man, I just. So what's the ideal outfit for a guy to wear that would turn you on, clothes-wise? Oh, God, it's really, really easy. I'm really low-key. I just like it if, like, old jeans, work boots. I touch it so easy. Yeah, yeah, I know it turns you on. You know, I know. Right. Because when I wear that, you're like, oh, baby, go bring firewood up. Oh, can you go finish fixing the fence? Oh. It's true. Can you put some more deck boards down? Yeah, it's hot. That is hot. Somebody else comes, you're like, come into the bedroom. I just think a guy that just is, is you know just beat up jeans he's comfortable in
Speaker1: and you know like work boots or worn boots or like the whole like suit and tie thing doesn't do it for me no rough and tumble rough and tumble yeah talking t-shirts flannels i mean sometimes a nice, like, blazer and something could look really sexy, but, like, really, um... flannels i mean sometimes a nice like blazer and something could look really sexy but like really um it's really tight suits or really sharply pressed suits very starched not it just i feel very um i just feel like i'm very confined and i just i would not want to wear something like that oh Oh, suits suck. Yeah, I agree. They suck. Women's suits, not so much. Women's suits are actually pretty nice. Well, I'll stick wear men's suits, thanks. Well, they're made of different fabric. I guess. I have one that kind of cinches me in. It's kind of sexy. It comes all the way down. You could wear it without a shirt, and you could get away with it, maybe. Depends on the environment you're in. Right, exactly. It's kind of sexy, and it's not uncomfortable to wear. It's got a cute little skirt. So it's, yeah, there are certain sexy outfits that are, I think what makes that sexy is that you could wear that into an office situation and it still has that sexual connotation to it, that sexual kind of fashion, but understated.
Speaker3: We'll wrap this up here in a second.
Speaker2: Sure.
Speaker3: So your dithers are someone, some guy or whatever, you're more likely to want to rip all his clothes off than have him keep, like, would you just pull his pants down, his underwear down to his knees, throw him on a bed and jump on him? No, no. I'm just asking. You need, I need more. And you prefer if he took your panties off, ripped them off, ate them off, whatever. Yeah, exactly. Yeah, yeah. Because then I'm not restrained. I don't always want to be restrained. Restraint is whole different show. Yeah, I know. I was going to say, that's a whole, that's another can of worms. But in this situation, I don't want to be restrained, so. Okay. I know it looks cool. I know it has an allure. But it depends on the situation, too. Yeah, exactly. If you're going into a bedroom where you have privacy, I can see where you don't want it. Right. But it's, again, like... Exactly, the situation. You know, if you're ditching behind the corner at someone's house outside and... Yeah, then it works. Yeah, it's just a quick, you know, wham-bam thing. Not that I've ever done that. Today. Oh, come on. Certainly not. Oh, you did it today? Shush! I did not do it today. I'm just happy. You made it so you did. I would have told you. I know, I'm just saying.
Speaker2: Jeez.
Speaker5: Okay.
Speaker2: All right, well, I think that kind of wraps it up. And so I want to thank everyone. Yes, thanks everyone. Have a great night.