Naked Desire: Exploring Arousal in Nudist Communities

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now, let's heat things up. Well, happy new year, everybody. And welcome to 2026. Amazing. You know. Seems like it was just yesterday. It was 2025. It's amazing. It's amazing. Okay, I'm old. I graduated in 1984. High school, that is. You know, and if someone had said, like, you know, 2026, I'm like, man, that's so far in the future. Oh, yeah, I know. I'm like, oh, I'm going to be so old by then. The time that went between 84 and now, it's like, where the fuck my life go? I know. I think about that all the time. So yeah, Happy New Year. And welcome to the first show of our our fifth season. Amazing. I don't have sound effects, so. I'm glad you don't. You just abuse them anyway. Yeah, just like you do me. I do abuse you. Yeah, I know. It's a new year for new abuse. I sit in the corner and sit in a fetal position and cry. Oh, you're so foolish. I go to the hospital and tell them, I don't feel sick. Oh, yeah. You're going to get me in trouble. That 4'11 woman beats the six-foot guy. Beats the hell out of you. Jesus. Yeah. Okay. What are your hopes for the new year? Besides getting a new shoulder? Oh, yeah. I'm rubbing it right now. It's like, oh. That's what made me say that. Yeah, I know. Thanks. I feel so much. Huh. Hmm. Besides the new shoulder, which is not going to be pleasant. Let's sum that up with great health. Great health would be really nice. Yeah. Really, really nice. And a summer we can get in our fucking pool. You know, I ask for so little, but yeah. And get even less. This past summer is pretty abysmal. It is. I am going to get a very sexy wet and I'm going to be swimming an extra month or two longer. Sexy wetsuit. I know. It's a conundrum. There's no such thing as a sexy wetsuit. There might be. Oh, I don't know. I don't think so. I don't get the nipples cut out. Oh, it can be freezing. Well, it kind of defeats the wetsuit part. Exactly. So I want to get in a little sooner. So I think because of water. Stay in later. Both. Oh, yeah. Because of the water is like, you know, if it gets to be like 70 something, I'll hop in. Okay. I'll definitely get in. I'll entertain that. It won't be a long swim, but I'll get in the water. Yeah. Everything perks up. It tightens up and perks up. Oh, yeah. I go into super turtle mode. Like a dick pokes out my asshole. That's terrible. I have never seen that, so I think you're fibbing. I think you're exaggerating. I don't want to prove it. Yeah, I don't want you to. It might be painful. It's not fun. But yeah, those are like the little things. You know, prosperity would be nice, but I'd be happy with just good health and a pool that opens earlier in this warmer summer so we can swim. Yeah. No, I wish. Have sex down there by the pool. Okay. Prosperity for everyone and health, especially health. Especially health. Hopefully that conveys to everyone and helps and works for everyone. So anyway, so now let's start the season. I got a question that came up with. Oh, yeah? Okay. So, you're aware there's a nudist camp, I'm going to say two hours from here. Oh, yeah, sure. I don't know if it's a camp. It's a resort. It's a resort. But people live there year-round. I know. Yeah, there are some housing and stuff, yeah. Okay. One of our old friends, Mike. Oh, yeah, yeah. Okay, he and his wife moved there. I knew that they moved up there. a house or mobile home or whatever it is. I've never been there, don't know. So anyway. So if you lived in a nudist resort development, whatever it might be, community, call it community. Okay. Okay. And you practiced the nudist lifestyle. Do you think you'd be more active sexually? Probably there's a difference between being a nudist and being a swinger. Sure, sure. So it might not impact it at all. What I'm saying, but do you think your sex drive would be up like you're at the, again, I've never been to any of these? I'm at the grocery store and I'm looking at the eggplant. Well, no, but you're at the grocery store. Or grocery store that they might have on this. Baby carrots. Yeah, whatever. Okay, whatever. your preferences, but no, you sit there and you're going to see attractive women walk around naked. You're going to see attractive men potentially walking around naked. That could be very stimulating. Do you think it would deaden your senses? Oh, it could go either way. It could heighten them, but then, of course, over time, you become desensitized to that, even that kind of stimuli. So that's why nudists are just... And again, I'm not saying nudists are swingers. No, they're absolutely not. That's two different things. I'm just saying that all I'm saying is, do you think it would affect your sex drive? It might at first. And then, you know, if it's something new, you know, you have that height like, oh, whoa, this is something new and different and exciting. And then after a while, you become desensitized to it. It just becomes like the everyday thing. Until the new guy moves in. Yeah. He's the one carrying the donuts and two cups of coffee. Yeah, I think they'll be very stimulating at first, but over time, you get used to it. Well, yeah, and people that we know that are in the nudist community, I guess I'll call it that. Sure. You know, it is. It's very, there are times I've heard that they get, you know, sexually aroused. Right. But in general, it's very, I wouldn't use a term mundane. That might be wrong. I know what you're saying, though. It's like just every day there's not that excitement level. Yeah. People like hang out. They have their cookouts, although I don't think I'd want to be on the grill nude. Well, you can, just don't have pubic hair. That wasn't a wiener. That was my wiener. Talk about a brush fire. Yeah, that wouldn't be good at all. Yeah, I... No. Clothes are there for a reason. It's for protection. Yeah, for sure. Sunburn, yeah. But yeah, I mean, so. Yeah, there's certain things I would not want to do nude. I don't want to do them with shorts on, you know? Weed whacking, don't want to do that nude. Yeah. Like lawn mowing, mowing the lawn nude. Well, if you're a drive mower, it might not be bad. A drive mower probably wouldn't be bad. Yeah. But like weed whacking, oh, no. That's just. Not good at all. Do you think you'd rather be in a nudist community that was more a swinger? Do you think that would make more of a difference to you or your sex drive? Sure. Absolutely. Yeah. Because the nudist communities, it's very family oriented. So that's... Well, from what we've been told. We don't know. Yeah. From what we've been told. In today's world, I don't know if I'd want my kids... Being exposed to that? Being exposed. You know, I just don't... I mean, I get the mentality, and in theory, I agree with it. I just don't know. But you can't vet every person that's looking at your child. Yeah, you don't know. Unfortunately, you don't know. You can't go there and say that you think everyone there is only... First of all, in a nudist environment, it's not supposed to be about sex. No, that's true. That's very, very true. But you know there is going to be a certain element there that is there. Yeah, you're going to have a large portion, I guess, of the people walking around. I'll speak to the men that aren't walking around erect. Right. But you're going to have some that they are there to just. To stimulated. However, rocks off. Yeah, they're there to. Yeah, get that. And I'd like to think that there's not, but there might be some that are there to see if there is any younger individuals. I'm going to put it that way. It's very possible. Yeah. It's very, very possible. So yeah, I think like the whole nudist thing, they should be, I know it's supposed to be family oriented. I just feel a lot more comfortable if everybody is over the age of 18. Makes me feel much more comfortable. Sure. I agree with you. You know, that way you don't have to worry about, you don't have to, Worry that any misappropriations could be going on or something that's just not cool. Not cool when it comes to kids. Okay, so we'll take it to another step. Okay. Where are you going with this? No, I'm not going anywhere. Do you think that some of these swinger parties should just be nude parties? No, half the fun is the clothing. Clothing is fun. Okay. Here it is. This is why, because, I mean, eventually the clothing comes off, but it's always fun to have. In some cases, like the house parties we're talking about in this case, there are some, you know, people that get naked and just hang out in the people. Oh, yeah, just hang out totally naked. There's some people who are clothed, they wind up going and playing and come back naked or wearing lingerie. There's some people who change into lingerie. Yeah, or they'll wear like just a certain part of whatever outfit they were wearing, you know. So, you know, maybe just the bottoms, you know, whatever. I'm not saying there is an exact answer. It's just a general question for discussion. No, clothes are fun. Clothing can be very creative and sexy, and half the fun is having and wearing that. Once you take all the clothing off, it's blah. It's skin. It's sexy. Don't get me wrong, but somehow I think clothing can make you feel sexier. I agree with that, but I also disagree with that. Oh, boy. You're wishy-washy, aren't you? Okay, tell me I'm wrong with this, okay? You have seen men and women, very attractive. Right. Okay, you've seen them make it and go, okay, wow. But then you go to play with them and it's like, wow, that sucked. Not in a good way. Okay, so how does clothes fit into this? It's like womp. Yeah, well, yeah, we have- So the clothes don't actually, the clothes, I get this. Oh, they disguise things? Is that what you're trying to say? Well, you don't know, okay? I don't know what package you're getting to open it up. With Christmas just passed, you might open up a great gift. Good package. Package, yeah. I've got this package. No, you might open up this great gift of, let's say, a game. I don't know. And then you actually go to play the game and the game stinks. It's like, that was a waste of my fucking time. Or someone gives you a movie. Back in the day, the DVD is like, oh, wow, this movie. Put it in and it's like, wow, I want that two hours of my life back. It's a night back, yeah. So you might see a gorgeous woman or They're a great-looking guy, great bodies, everything else. They're like, oh, this is going to be fun. And, okay, example. The one guy who came with that couple, we're down at the pool, and he just sat there with his arms out, thought he was God's gift to everybody. He didn't do anything. He was so arrogant. Well, that's what I'm saying. He looks good. Great body. Great body. Big schwanz. Big schwanz. Wasn't worth the time. Was not worth my time. Yeah, exactly. That's what I'm saying is, you know, clothes, don't get me wrong, clothes do add to the illusion. and the sexiness and everything else. But once you get down to Brea's tax. If you test drive the car, you don't know if it's any good. You're right. That had to be the most. No, no, it wasn't. It wasn't the most. The younger kid, the most recent younger kid was worse. Yeah, okay. And I don't mean kid. He was like 22. Yeah, 23, whatever he was. It was in his 20s. Yeah. But the one that was arrogant was 21. Okay. And you know what, I don't. He didn't need pussy either. Thank you. Wow. He did not even fucking touch me. Yeah. Literally did not touch me. Or the other woman. Or the other woman. Oh, he plowed the shit out of her, so I guess he had to. Well, he fucked you. A little bit. It wasn't long. No, because I was like, yeah, it wasn't fun. I wasn't excited. I'm sorry. There was no interaction. There was nothing there. You know what? You know what? That was like, it was, okay, this is what that was akin to. It was like fucking. Sex with your husband. No. It was like. That was more fun than he was. That fucking piece of rubber was more fun than he was. He was the worst lay ever. Well, if he would have ever gotten close to orgasm, he would have probably yelled his own name. Probably. Yeah. I can't say he was. He might not have been the worst, but he was really close. He's battling for first. He's battling for first. Only because he's arrogant. He literally leaned back into the love seat and stretched his arms out like, yes, service me. It's all about me. I'm here for your pleasure. Suck my dick, yes. You just love sucking my dick. I guess I shouldn't say that anymore. This dick is for you. I'm not going to do anything. Just service me. And I was like, oh, this is such a turnoff. It really was. Sorry, dude. No interaction, no nothing. I'd rather fuck my rubber torso with the penis. The penis that makes clicking noises. So that was terrible. That was awful. But then the second guy wasn't much better. At least he had a little more personality. He wasn't arrogant, but he just, I don't eat pussy. It's like, oh. He was, I just think, a naive individual. Yeah, I think he just didn't have the experience level. But we've had this experience Numerous times with numerous gentlemen who have big schwanzas, and they don't eat pussy, or they do. They do a horrible job at it. They just want to put their dick in and pump. That's all they're generally good for. I might say it in every case. Don't anyone email me? No, no. It's just our experiences have been that in general. In general. More than the better. Yeah. Yeah. more interaction. I went, again, back to Keith. He's not, I mean, I can't say he's a BBC. That was a different podcast you're talking about Keith. Yeah. But he was a black guy, but he was very, very passionate. Involved. Very involved. Very attentive. Yeah. And, you know, I guess he had a nice cock on him, you know. He might be considered a BBC or, you know, somewhere around in there, but he wasn't a bull. He was definitely not that. He was so much more enjoyable. He's a very passionate person. Yeah, I think he's just, yeah. And there's a lot of men, when you start getting that passion, just engulf yourself into the woman. When they're begging to be fucked, that's what you want. You're eating them, you're teasing them to the point where it's like, fuck me, please fuck me. Then you know. That's when you know. And when you stick your dick in there. That should be the key to any good lover. Correct me if I'm wrong. is that you want to build your partners up to the point as much as your own. Right. Okay, we got to do something more. We got to go to the next step. Right. And when a woman is begging to be fucked, you know, that's it. That's what you got her, you know, you built her up and got her to that excitement level that she's like, oh, please fuck me. Please, I got to have your dick inside. Or if she pushes you back and jumps on top of you or whatever. Yeah, whatever. Yeah, if she takes control of you. In my case, sprays me with mace. Well, you know that's an aphrodisiac. You know that is happy. For me. Yes, that's what I mean. You know, you like peppers and stuff. Pepper spray is like, hmm, what's this? I actually got in a sandwich. We could put some of that on. It tastes good. Yeah, no, it's, yeah, but I mean, the original question was about. Yeah, sorry. No, I mean, it's, I mean, like, okay, we've been on a few nude beaches. Right. And, you know, when you've been on them, now, okay, we're not regulars, obviously. Oh, no. But did you, like, looking at, you know, the average person, I mean, okay, newsflash. People on nude beaches are not the fantasy you tend to have. They're not all, like, tens walking around. They're not all me. They're not all, like, tens. Just dragging behind them in the sand. Oh, God. Yeah, okay. Like me. Like you. What, are you on your belly? And you're jumping on my ass. Yeah. But no, so, but, you know, is there a certain stimuli for you? Like when you're seeing other people naked? Hmm. You know, it might also depend on the environment. Are they supposed to be naked? Oh, like a beach. Like a nude beach. Like a nude beach, you know? If you see a guy laying there or a woman laying there and they have a decent, I'm not going to say, not my body, but the average person's body. Right, right. Do you sit there and you're like, oh. If it's attractive, you get that kind of like, oh, I can admire that. I can help this periscope go up. I don't go right to lust, Vince. I mean, come on. No, I didn't say lust, but do you get those like. You get tweaked. Yeah, get a little bit like, oh, that's kind of nice to look at. Yeah, there you go. Yeah. Nothing wrong with that. But that's not a, but they're not swingers. That's a nudist again. It's like. No, I'm just, I'm looking at stimuli. I'm not looking about like, do they carry a, they don't carry a swingers member's card. I'm just saying, you know, you can look at other people and be sexually attractive. Attractive. Right. Without, you know, thinking like, oh, I got to fuck them. Right. Without acting on it. Yeah. Yeah. You know, but you can have the lustful thoughts. Yeah. Well, I, Because that environment isn't supposed to be a sexually stimulated environment, I tend to be like, all right, all right, let's just push that back here. Everybody's like normal. And you're right, you're seeing a lot of like everyday people with average bodies at best. They're not like, you know, it's not like, you know, these women that are stunningly beautiful and men that are chiseled and, you know, well hung. It's not that. It's not that. They're more average. However you want to categorize people, but they're more average people who are just hanging out and hanging out. It doesn't mean they're hanging out while they're hanging out. And hanging out. It doesn't mean you can't, you know. Oh, you can appreciate them as I can be, sure. You know, appreciate their attractiveness without being lustful. You can just appreciate that they look nice. Yeah, I get that. You know, then if it, you know, down the road or whatever, or you go to the hotel room and things change. That's a whole different story. But in that environment, because it is a nudist, it's not a swinger party where you go there and it's like, oh yeah, this is, most people are here to play. Okay. Let's get back to the nude aspect. Okay. So you're now at a house party. Okay. And let's pretend everyone is nude inside the house party. Okay. Would you use what they look like physically to gauge, you may not want to play with by seeing them naked first, as your first, like, okay, who are you going to go talk to to see if you want to play with them? How's that? Would you use that as your gauge? Like, okay, he's got a half-decent package. I'm going to talk to him. He's got a nice body. Yeah, I guess I would. I don't have any other gauge to go by until I start talking to him. Yeah, well, but I'm saying, okay, so someone who is a little heavier than the next guy? Right. Yeah, I hate to pass. Seems to have an average package versus somebody who's in a little better shape with an average package. Everyone's got an average package. Everyone has an average package. Well, I'm not, yeah. You know what? I'd hate to. But I'm saying, no, I'm not saying like, you, let's go fuck. Right. I'm saying, would you use that to gauge to who I'm going to go talk to to see if they are a decent person? Yeah, I might. That's understandable. I think the average person would. Yeah, it's kind of wrong because I've had some of the most fun with people that were less than perfect. Sure. I agree. You know what I'm saying? They were like, they were a surprise. They were a surprise. I've played with women that generally the average person would sit there and go, no. They were like past the mode. And they were probably some of the most fun I've ever had. Oh, yeah. That's how it is a lot of times. So yeah, just a little heads up. You know what? That's why I think clothing actually is helpful because maybe I would talk to them based on who they are, not what they are. I wouldn't be going to that physical attribute. I think sometimes clothes and or being naked could be discouraging either way, depending on what they're wearing. If they're wearing clothing, it doesn't flatter them. That's true, too. Same as I talked about many podcasts ago, how it seems like, especially with men. Well, men especially, that are into the BDSM thing. They all have the same. They have a uniform. I'm not putting Harley Riders down, but Harley Riders. They all got the same fucking wardrobe. Leather chaps. They have a Harley Davidson shirt from some fucking Harley Davidson store. They wear the Harley Davidson belt buckle. They have boots on. They have a leather vest, maybe. But the BDSM guys. They have basically the same wardrobe. Yeah, they have some kind of vest or mesh. or, you know, and it's just like... You know, chaps. Yeah, whatever. It's just like, okay, do you have to wear the uniform? For them, it's like lingerie. It's fun. But sometimes it isn't flattering. Someone needs to go, dude, you kind of look like a gay cowboy. Nothing wrong with gay cowboys, but I'm just letting you know. Oh, my God. Mr. Fashion Patrol. I'm just saying that. What did I used to call you? Mr. Blackwell? Yeah. Well, he died, luckily. Not luckily, but I mean, so you can't compare me. I can't compare, yeah. He doesn't come out with his list anymore. I feel bad the gentleman died, but whatever. Yeah, he was like a fashion guru, whatever. Who determines fashion, by the way? Is this a fucking law? Oh, this is in style. You can't wear that. Yeah, for sure. That's just not so nice. Oh, boy, here we go. That was so last year. You can't wear that. Like no white after Labor Day. Oh, my gosh. The major faux pas. I can't even be seen with you. Get away. Anyway, so, um, but, uh, all right, just, you know, just trying to see, you know, how superficial I am and shallow. I can see, okay. Well, again, it started out with the whole nudity thing with, you know, being aroused and stuff. Just picking some questions that, uh, didn't know answers to. Oh. I had my suspicions and I was right. I'm, I'm a shallow. What? Shallow. Shallow. I'm only looking at people, you know. Pyramids are deeper. Pyramids could be deeper. No, they're not. They go up. Well, that's still a depth. No, depth goes down. Really? Does a skyscraper have depth? What would you call when it goes up? Elevation. Okay. All right. All right. Never mind. I'm always right. You're always right. I think I have, yeah. Just ask me, I'll tell you. And he does, frequently. All the time. All the time. But yeah, okay, I see what you're saying. Okay, well, I still think clothing is definitely fun, though. I get that. Definitely fun. It could give you an ego boost. Oh, yeah. Nudity's fun, too, but that's a different story. Well, see, the nudity, it's like when I'm with a guy that I'm playing with for the first time. If he arrives nude, there's no fun in me opening up the package. Half the fun is peeling his pants off slowly. Depends. He's not wearing Depends. He's young. Well, younger. Of legal age, of course. And then, of course, you pull his whatever kind of underclothing he's wearing. You can play with a guy and he's wearing Depends. Is that a deal breaker? Oh, God. If it's clean. They're clean. They're clean Depends. I might say he's coming to you asking you to change him. Oh, dear God. Do I have to answer this question? I don't want to answer this question. I don't want to answer it. I don't want to answer it. I'm not answering it. I'm guessing by your answer, it kills the mood. It does kill the mood. Yeah. You wouldn't say to him, oh, you wear this brand? Well, I wear this brand. Oh, shut up. All right. I'm not doing a whole adult diaper role play. or whatever that's just although that is a fetish that might sell it might sell I don't I don't know it's just not my cup of tea but again everyone happy new year we wish you all the best we want to thank you for listening to this point he's cutting me off yeah well I think we kind of killed this topic we're going downhill we're going downhill that's why I'm stopping it's your fault you don't have to bring up the depends like oh Well, Vincent, that's just not right. Oh, my God. Jesus Christ. It's just nasty. Who thought they'd go to depends? Jesus Christ. It's just a shitty topic. Anyway, so have a great New Year, everyone. We appreciate you listening. Hope you continue to listen. The shows will get better, I promise. Yeah, we're going downhill fast. Yeah, we've been drinking. You've been drinking. I'm still working on my first beer. What else were you drinking before that? This is it. HotWipePodcast.com. Feel free to reach out to us. 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