More Options, More Chemistry: The Freedom of Variety in the Lifestyle

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Speaker1: This program contains strong sexual content. No one under the age of 18 is permitted to listen to or download this podcast in any manner. The host, guest, and performers are all over the age of 18. Rebroadcasting the podcast in any manner is strictly prohibited without the written consent of the owners of the Hot Wife podcast. The commentary of this program is the sole opinion of its host or guest and does not reflect that of the opinion of Hot Wife podcast owners, agents, or representatives. This podcast is not meant to be taken as professional advice. Spill the tea Hello everybody, this is Donna Lynn and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. Of course, I'm here with my silly husband, Vince. What are you doing? I just lit a candle. Oh, okay. A little ambiance? A little ambiance, yeah. I'm going to go with it. Ambiance is a good word. Can't spell it, but I couldn't even tell you what it begins with. Is it O or is it A? Like I said, I couldn't tell you. You're asking me, and I just fucking told you I couldn't tell you what it starts with. Yeah, that is a really strange word. I'm a sight speller, so I have to picture it in my mind, and it's like one of those words that's like, yeah, what is that? Is it O? Or is it A? Could be an E, or U, or K, or 7? 7. Whatever. Yeah, off the top of my head, I do that. However that word wants to identify. Okay, let's go with that. Yeah, you're being really silly. in our kitchen, once again, not that we actually have heat in the studio, but they're calling for a blizzard-ish condition. Is that a word? It is now. Blizzard-like conditions. So we're just, instead of moving everything back out of the house down to the studio, I just said, fuck it, keep it here. Just keep it here. And yeah, it's going to be 10 inches of snow today and tomorrow, and then 50 in a few days. Like, what the fuck? It just seems like winter just won't let us go out of its grip. You know what I'm saying? Wow, your teeth are pretty quenched together. You're pretty upset, aren't you? Yeah, I'm done with this. Get rid of the tension so I'm going to put my dick in your mouth later. Yeah, seriously, I'm going to chop it off. God damn, my dick, please, my dick. My dick didn't do it to you. I would never do that. So, I hope not. No, I wouldn't. Stop between your teeth. Oh, stop it. Oh, God, here we go. That's more bullshit. Anyway. Hot Wife Podcast. I'm sorry. Info at hotwifepodcast.com. Sorry. I've been drinking bourbon because someone said, oh, I've got some things we need to do. Destroyed my back very first thing this morning. I'm not pointing fingers, but if you look at Donna, that'd be the one. That'd be the one. So anyway. Okay. So. So again, I want to start out. Yeah, please. Info at hotwifepodcast.com. PodcastPodcast.com. Have anything you want to say? Things you want to share? Love to hear from you. And again, thank everyone who listens. Our numbers keep growing. Am I reading this right? I don't know what to tell you. Does that look like two listeners? Maybe three? Okay. We're aiming for three. Okay. I mean, my mom stopped listening. Yeah, we got a little too racy for your mom. Is that what it is? She didn't want to think of her son having sex. No, I think she's actually pretty comfortable with that. After all, she's a grandmother. After having, yeah, grandkids, I think she might be. Yeah, and yeah, grandkids. And now a great-grandmother. And now a great-grandmother. But anyway, back to something that is actually more exciting. Which would be what, the topic of today? Yeah, what is the topic? Yeah, it's kind of a meandering topic, but this is kind of like what we came up with. Meandering. Meandering. Yeah, it's kind of a little, it's kind of a long one. Your lifestyle broadens your horizons to different styles of playmates that vanilla people may or may not want to experience. Okay, so if we put this in, you have to get a little closer to your mic. Okay, I'm right there. Is that a little better? Yeah, move it closer to the edge. Yeah, I'm not going to, you might want to mute me a little bit. Okay. So in other words, the concept is, let me get correct if I'm wrong. So like if you're a vanilla person and you go to a club, Right. You could be approached as a woman by multiple men. Right. And if at some point you said, I'm going to fornicate with one of these people tonight, you're going to be really picky about, you know, it's like, oh, they're going to have a certain look or whatever, smell or whatever, you know, right? Okay. But in the lifestyle, you can go, say, to a house party. And sample everyone. And like, well, that would normally be my wheelhouse, but, you know, I saw him down there. He's got some moves. Right, right. Yeah. So what are you trying to say that people in the lifestyle are just less picky and will just fuck anything? No. You know it's already a myth, but it sounds like you're saying. No, not that you fuck anything, but you're not hunting with a rifle with one bullet. You're using a shotgun. You're like, hey. You know, because you're not looking for a permanent mate. You're looking for someone just to have fun with. True. I'm not looking for somebody to spend the whole rest of my life with. I'm looking for someone who just strikes my fancy at the moment. Somebody who looks like to be kind of fun. Maybe or maybe not be in my typical wheelhouse, but because of the circumstances, it tripped my trigger. Maybe I'm in a... What happens if they're not fun? It's really like, oh, well. It's like, well, he was okay, but I just probably won't play with him again. Yeah. You try to bring your best game forward. You know what I'm saying? Well, someone could sell you a great game. I mean, look at me. No, you talk to other people that have been with them. Word travels in a party situation. So you find out what their skill level is. And something that might be very appealing to one person may not be appealing to another. I mean, look at women just kind of would have passed you by, but all of a sudden this word got around. of like, you know, what you brought to the table and that opened a lot of doors. And I think it's... All the doors. All the doors. So, you know what I'm saying? It's... Women talk amongst themselves, oh, he's a good kisser. Oh, I like that big dick or ba-ba-da-ba-da or, you know, I'm not really into that size or whatever they're, you know, whatever it is. I prefer someone with over an inch. Yeah, okay. You know. I prefer an Audi, not a ninny. Yeah. Right. I mean, We brought Stephen with us at one time. Oh, my God. I mean, it was just the women. They were raping him with their eyes. They were lustful. And then they did it physically. And then they did it physically. I think he went around. He didn't hate it. No. Too much. No. Yeah, I think he said he fucked like six women. Probably. At least. At least. Yeah. Here's the weird. Well, we were doing a podcast that night. Right. We were playing ourselves. Right. As opposed to playing someone else. Well, I mean, we were individually, we were all trying to have some fun. Yeah, we jumped in every once in a while, sure. That was the night I got to try that older woman who had skin that was so soft. So soft. Yeah, I know exactly where you're going. And her pussy was so soft. Isn't that nice? That's heavenly. As a peach you could eat for hours. No, hell yeah. Days. Days. You're both dehydrated. Your cheeks are all sunken. Oh, don't stop. Come so many times, she turns inside out. But I mean that in a good way. Yeah. I guess the concept is, so there's guys that you might not normally give a, or women. Right. You're like, oh no, okay, yeah. Yeah, but in that circumstance, they become very, well, there's a sexual tension there anyway, just because of the environment in somebody. Like, the girl with the big butt. I mean, I think facially she's really cute, and from the waist up, she's totally cute. She's got a great personality. She's got a great personality, but boy, that butt is like, oh my God. That's definitely, it's just not in my wheelhouse. I've never, not that I wouldn't play with her, but it's like, it's just not in my wheelhouse. I've never had that. That one gentleman's wife, who I told you, like when you were doing your birthday party, she was being kind of ignored. Oh, yes, I know you mean. And I've always had this little fascination with her. Right. She's a... She's a curvy girl. She'd be considered a BBW. Sure, in a curvy, nice way. But not overly BB. Right. You know? And she is just... You know, again, most guys would just pass by Well, she's very quiet, and being in that BDS lifestyle, she is so subservient, so demure, so quiet and reserved. You know, she doesn't talk. She's not very outgoing. I don't know what she's, she's like in the bedroom. When you're in a conversational area, she's very, what's the word I want to use, engaging. But, you know, when there's a lot of sexual activity going on, she's very, again, submissive. Submissive. Very just quiet. Yeah, that's the word I was looking for. I just think I used every other word but that one. But, you know, and again, I'm not into that whole BDSM thing, so it was just me, for all intents and purposes, I guess I was submissive to her. Would you classify that? No, you answered her. Well, I asked her, but basically, I was, I was like, okay, was I dominant? I don't know. I'm asking. In that circumstance, because you, well, you didn't say, come on, you're going to come with me and play, but would you like to come with me and play? Well, I went up and first I asked her, would you mind if I kiss you? Yeah, then this went on from there. And then when I started kissing her, it's like, I'd really like to lick your pussy. And she was like, I would like you to lick my pussy. Okay, there you go. Well, that's a, that's a win-win right there. Yeah. So, and, you know, but, you know, she's a beautiful, a beautiful woman. She's a beautiful woman. She's a beautiful person. But under normal circumstances, like in a vanilla world, would people pay attention to her or me? I don't know. Maybe, maybe not, because I just feel like people in the vanilla world are looking for a mate, ultimately, whether they really believe that or they're I think in a vanilla world, you want to have, I'm going to use this terminology, and you may be wrong, you want to have a conquest you can brag about. You know, it's like the moped thing. You might ride a moped, but you don't want to tell your friends you rode a moped. Yeah, exactly. They're fun, they're ride, but you don't want to tell your friends. You know, yeah. But in the swinger world, there's so many, it doesn't matter. There's no, everybody, there is no conquest really. because everybody's kind of sharing. So you're not conquering anybody. And matches in the bedpost don't happen in the swing world. In vanilla world, they tend to. It's like, oh, yeah. I have to disagree with that. We have known couples that are in the swing world that are, that they have to play every weekend. Nothing else matters but having some kind of a sexual orgy or whatever. My concept, whatever counts, if at all, of the notches in the bedpost are more the aspect of bragging like, oh, I fucked that person and I fucked that person. Oh, maybe. You know, sitting there like, okay, well, these are, you know, it's like, oh, I fucked Pam Anderson. Is this in the swimmer world or is this a vanilla world? Yes. Okay. Yeah. If you're putting notches in your bedpost, you're trying to brag more about who you fucked. Right, right. Then, I don't want to say what. That would be wrong. Yeah. But, you know, I mean, you've been with guys that have been anywhere from 22 to fucking 72. Mm-hmm. Yep. You know. And, you know. And they've all been fun in some maybe different ways, but they've all been fun in their own way. Okay. Let's change topics a little bit. Okay. with the older guys, is it satisfying to you? I don't want to word this. I almost lost my train of thought. Don't do that. No. For like, for like, wow. Yeah. Okay. So no, like being able to do something with someone that they've always wanted to do or something they haven't. Well, yeah. Something they've always wanted to do. Oh, yeah, that's huge in the swinger world. I don't know if that would exist. I'm sure it does exist. Like, you had that with the younger guy, like, oh, I want a 69. I've wanted to do anal, I want my ass-eating, or whatever. Yeah, whatever. Just having all those three things. But you've even had that with, like, a couple older gentlemen. You know, you've given them things they'd never had before. No, that's true. Well, the one black guy, because of his age, he's never with a white woman. So we definitely remedied that, you know, because He was like my age-ish, maybe a little bit younger, maybe a little bit older. I don't remember which way it was. But growing up, it was, you know, kind of taboo to be with a white woman. I get it. I mean, that's just the way things were. But now it's time to, you know, like a rebirth. It's a different world. I can be with somebody of color or not, or I could, you know, whatever floats my boat that day. And I think that's what the swinger world definitely opens its doors and embraces everybody's uniqueness in that way. kind of celebrated. It's like, oh, you know, I'm a freak. I really like, you know, do all crazy things anal. You're going to have somebody up there going, I can help you out with that. That's right up my alley. Or, you know, some people in the BDSM world are like, I love being on a St. Andrews cross and, you know, being flogged or whatever. In the vanilla world, you'd be like, what? In the swinger world, you'd be like, yeah, me too. I'm right there with you. Or I'm, geez, that's not really my thing, but I'd like to be, I'd like to experience that with you. with you in some form or fashion, which is kind of cool. People will definitely, what I have found or what I have done myself is they'll kind of put their own awkwardness aside just to accommodate somebody else. Like I've never ate somebody's ass before. That would not be my thing. But I, this young man wanted to- That's proof she's never eaten my ass. She just said that. There you go. That's, you probably wouldn't let me anyway. No, I would not. Well, see, there you go. I don't, but that's, something he really wanted, and I made that happen for him. Yeah. But I don't think a vanilla woman would do that. Is that something? Again, change your subject. Okay, okay. Is that something that you would actually ask a guy to do? That I could eat his ass? Yeah. Probably not. Because in my conversations with Angelina, she just met an Asian guy, and she's like, I love to eat Asian guys' ass. Asian ass. And she goes, oh, that's a peach. I could eat that peach all day. And I'm like, eat that. Okay. That's not a peach I've ever eaten. Well, she says because in her experience, that kind of. My peaches don't taste like shit. I hope not. Well, in her experience, their ass is very soft. Their skin is soft. The hair. The hair is very fine. If any. Yeah, if any. This guy's hair was too, and she loves that. Yeah. Whatever. You might as well eat a girl's ass. You know what I'm saying? I'm talking to you, though. Forget Andrea. Okay. So is that something. She's a wild one. Right. And let's pretend he has a great ass. Like mine. Oh, yeah, exactly like yours. Chiseled. Pardon me? Go ahead. Continue. Is that something you think you would actually sit there and go, hey, I'd like to eat your... I'd like to... If I could get to the dry heaving... If I could get to the dry heaving, maybe... It's not my go-to. I have to... Was that enjoyable for you? Yeah, it was fun. I don't find it a... I mean, I'm seeing more and more of it in the porn industry. Especially black guys, they want their asses eaten. I don't know what to tell you. Especially that girl, the girl's blowing them. I go down, lick his ass, and I go up and do that, and I go back down to his ass. Just stay on my dick. I'm good. My balls. But that's as far south as you need to go. But that's me. I guess if it was shaved up and everything, it wouldn't be bad. But if you have like, you know, Oh, yeah, but it's a hairy ass. Yeah, I'm not even going to go there. No, no. Tying knots or cherry stems or something. No, thank you. No, that would not be a turn on for me, but I guess if you really wanted it. No, I'm asking, is there something you would initiate? No. Do you think you would ever find yourself that? No, I don't think so today. Can I eat your ass? I don't think you're going to find me. I don't think you'll find me asking that, but if somebody requests it of me, I probably would. Okay. I'm not going to do it. What if I get into that and all of a sudden he smacks my face away from his ass? What the hell are you doing back there, woman? You know what I'm saying? He gets really offended. I could be wrong. But like, I've been in plenty of women's crotches and like, I'll go down and start looking at their ass and generally they don't complain. They're like, oh. Yeah. Get your fist out of there. Are you wearing a watch? I think men would be a little more like, like, could you ask me first? What are you doing with your tongue up my ass? I think I'd have to have that conversation first and see when we're doing the whole what are you into type of conversation. I like baseball. I'm a big fan of steak. I like steak and baked potatoes. It's one of my favorite meals. Long walks in the park. I really like CSI and all that shit on TV. It's one of my favorite shows. I like my ass reamed. Is that part of the profile? I like hanging out with my kids. Getting my ass licked now. You know, I'm like three fingers deep in my ass. Nothing wrong with that, but own it. Okay, so back to the original. So do you find it more, the original topic, do you find it more, that the spectrum in which you can play in is larger, the arena is larger? Oh, absolutely. There's one thing I was thinking about in the vanilla world. Let's say you had a partner, male or female, that is interested in some kind of a fetish or a kink that the other one is either A, not into, or B, doesn't even know about it. I'm not even looking in the fetish world. Well, let's just say something a little freaky. Let's just say it's something as innocent as getting your asshole fingered while you're being fucked. I mean, I know a lot of vanilla people that, mm-mm, you don't stick anything back there at all. Okay. I'm a member of that club. I'm sure you are. But let's just say this woman is into it and secretly it really turns her on. Or maybe she has fantasies that, you know, of being with other women. If the person asks you to do that, you know, I mean, if I'm going down on a woman and she's like, oh, can you slide a finger? in my ass. I'm like, sure. Do you have a preference with your finger? Well, all of them. I couldn't pronounce that word. Hand? Fist? Well, but still, I mean, that could damage a relationship in the vanilla world. You know, especially, I'm just going, I'm reflecting back to when I was first, first found out I was bi. And I remember with my old boyfriend, I was talking about, I said, that I had a dream or a fantasy about being with another woman. Well, he just about, you know, hey, he's a fucking lesbian. I mean, he almost broke up over it. And this is the same douchebag that 10 years later, I was in a threesome with him, with another woman, mind you. So I guess he, oh, this isn't so bad. Wait a minute. Yeah, really, there's two girls who want to suck my dick and fuck me. I thought this was bad. How stoned was I? Pretty stoned. I was so stoned that I thought, I was having two hot women. Yeah, I know. Well, this is going back in the 70s. I was very young. I might have been 16 or 17, and he was however old he was. Okay, wait, first. Okay, I'm not going to address that. No, never mind. Go ahead, move on. I'm not going to address him with a minor. No, no, well. I'm not going to address it. Move on. It was a long time ago. It was okay back then. Move on. No, it was never okay, but move on. I knew what I was doing. I wasn't as stupid, but. My point was... You were willing. I was very willing. Come on. I initiated. Let's get over that. I knew exactly what I was doing. I was not being bribed or anything else. Anyway, he's passed, so get over it, people. But here's my point. My point is... He's got a 72 virgins now? I hope for his sake he's having fun wherever he is. That's all I hope for. Well, here's the thing. He got all bent out of shape over a fantasy, a mere fantasy that I had that didn't, you know, didn't... didn't calculate with him in this vanilla world. And we almost, our relationship suffered because of it. And how many other people where the one partner or the other is really into something a little bit off, a little kinky? Maybe they want to try a threesome or, you know, some kind of a gangbang or something that is like kind of untraditional. Crips or bloods? Crips or bloods what? Groups, gangs. Not that kind of gangbang. You're saying the Crips and the Bloods aren't fun? I don't know. I'm sure they are. I'm sure they're lovely people. But here's the thing. It's like that could ruin a relationship in a vanilla world. But I would think I could be wrong. But in a swinger world, it might be something that gets embraced. I mean, you're not into the same things I'm in. I'm into. I'm into women. Okay, so you are into the same thing. Some things. Some things You have a That penis thing Yeah, you like that penis That's disgusting I do like that penis That's disgusting That cum on the Oh, come on That's good That's all good stuff Look at my complexion Well, I'll get wrinkles If I get cum on my face I don't want them Shut up You suck You're awful But not my point I look old and decrepit No, I don't want cum on my face If that's what it does If it does that That's side effect Fuck that No, my point is that I'm doing the different stuff than you were in, but in this environment, I can experience it. And we've talked about that numerous times. Yeah, numerous times. But I just don't see that happening in the vanilla world. And I could be wrong. I could be totally wrong. No, honestly. No, you're nailing it. In the vanilla world, we'll pick my buddy. Okay, yeah. His wife is gorgeous, right? Well, she's pretty. Yeah, she's not gorgeous. She's a very pretty woman. Oh, she's real pretty. Okay. But, you know, she doesn't waver too much outside of her lane. She's bent a little bit for him, a little bit. You know, did a little anal play stuff. She's the one that got drunk and had a little spilling with another girl for like 15 minutes. And felt guilty about it and said, oh, that was wrong. I'll never do that again, even though she enjoyed it. Yeah. Are you kidding me? That'd be like, woo-hoo, let's go. So next weekend, we're meeting who? Yeah, exactly. I'd be like, let's see this more often. Whatever works for them. But, I mean, that's the thing with being in the lifestyle is, and we've talked about this before, is it's like going to a buffet. What do you want to eat today? Or who? Or whatever. What do you want and what do I want? It's like, hey, I'm going to the Chinese section. You're going to the Mexican section or whatever. Whatever. Yeah, exactly. And you can have what you want. And you go, hey, this is a Mexican. I'm going to go get some meatloaf. It's like, all right, I'm going to go get some Mexican now. You know, or whatever. Or whatever. And it's... It is like a buffet. And then we meet in the middle, you know, or like tag team. Like, hey, how was your night? Oh, good, good. Yeah. I enjoyed watching that burrito. I enjoyed eating that salami. That sausage. Yeah. Now, go wash your mouth out before you come home. Of course, I'll brush my teeth, I'm fine. But no, that's, again, as we've talked about countless times about the lifestyle, and again, that's kind of the, it's a little slightly off topic, but kind of the same, is you get the sample, you know, there might be somebody who is a really nice person, you meet at a swinger event, whether it be a house party or a club or whatever, but normally, is this someone that, you would play with in normal? Like, no, not really. I don't want my friends seeing me ride that moped. But in the swing world, it's like, no one cares. Go have fun. And you know what? You find out that that moped's got 600 horsepower. You're going to go tell everybody. It's like, see that moped over there? Fucking thing hauled ass. That was a fun ride. Oh, damn. It had me screaming the Lord's name in so many ways. Yeah, I mean, seriously, it just opens the doors to so many different experiences that I never could have had in a vanilla world. Never. One and two, I guess that's why I was never, I could never really stay in my lane. I kept veering to the left, veering to the right. I could never just stay in my lane and be with one person. So you're cheating on me? Oh yeah, I'm cheating on you. Okay. I mean, I tried, but it just wasn't me. I just couldn't do it. Something was wrong with me, I thought. Swinging is like eating at a buffet. It is. It's very much like eating at a buffet. You get to have what you want. When you want it. If you want it. When you want it. Yeah, pretty much. As much as you want. To some degree, yes. As long as your partner is on board with it. Yeah, as long as everybody's consenting, blah. out of our usual stipulations. But yeah, I mean, there could be times where it's like, you know, I really want to be with, you know, a black guy or, you know, somebody like a larger white guy or maybe it'll be with a woman or him and her and younger guy, an older guy or maybe a husband and wife team. That's always fun. Never her husband. And maybe my husband. Well, this is at a party. Oh, yeah. Okay. So you. Are you like the woman with the... Did you ever do me at a party? No. See, you didn't even pick me at a party. Oh, that's... At a party. Did you ever come to me and say, hey, I'd like to be with you. Yeah, okay. No. It's like, I know you. Fuck you. I want to have fun. Fuck you. Oh, that sounds so terrible. That's what you tell me, though. That's not what I tell you at all. You say, fuck off. Get away. Spray me with Fair Spray. If we're going to be with each other, we might as well just stay home. The whole reason is to see other things. Yeah, but then you're in your recliner, I'm on the couch, you're ignoring me. It's like time to go to bed and put my hair up in a coat, you know, rollers. Rollers. Whatever. Oh, my God. No? That's not how you see it? No, not quite. That's not how I see it. I don't put my hair up in curlers. You should. Okay, maybe I will. Still there. You have. I have. Anyway, all right. Well, that was a lot of fun. I don't know if we actually answered any questions. No, there's no question asked. So we're just trying to have fun and bring up the light of one of the things, one of the perks of being in the lifestyle. It's kind of like being at a buffet. Okay, maybe that's what we should have called it. I think that's what we're going to title the show. Swinging is like eating at a buffet. You get to have what you want, as much as you want, and you can sample other stuff. And maybe go back for seconds. And you take home a take-home bag. Anyway, hey, Fifty Shades of Pleasure, the new issue will be coming out the 1st of March, hopefully. So go to 50shadesofpleasure.com. It's free. I like to think they're good articles. At least it's decent looking. It doesn't cost you anything. It's free. Info at Hot Wife Podcast. Reach out to us. Love to hear from you. I guess that's me with hotwifedonnalyn.com or the platforms that I'm constantly posting to. It's been fun. It's reviving some little older things. I have a little thing on Thursdays called Throwback Thursdays and the guys are really liking it because we have like thousands and thousands of pictures from 20 years ago that I get to put up again. And again, we want to thank everyone who listens. We really do appreciate it. We're humbled by the amount of followers we have and downloads and stuff. So we can't thank you all enough. So with that, I'm going to say stay horny. Have a good night.