"It's the safety first thing"

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. Hello, everybody. This is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot White Podcast. And of course, I'm here with my ever-loving husband, Vince. As I move my mic and make noise. Oh, that's okay. I mean, we're human. Yeah, something like that's not flawless. No, we're not. I am, but somebody else is. Yeah, okay, let's go with that. Okay. So, again, kind of exciting being back. Yeah. It feels fresh and new. It does. I mean, I think, what was it? Maybe we were off for two months? Something like that. And it was, yeah, I mean, just life just got in the way. I hate to put it that way. Oh, life always gets in the way. Yeah, it really does. But, you know, now it's like I'm getting all kinds of text messages from playmates like, hey, Donna, how you doing this week? You know, my birthday's right around the same time yours is. Oh, yeah, by the way, not that I didn't say it right, but I'm saying it on the show, happy birthday. Yes, yes, you did it first thing. It was like a couple minutes after midnight. I said it three minutes after midnight last night. I'm like, really? You have to rub it in. Right. Well, but I know you said you were tired and get that away from you, so I didn't rub it in. You rubbed one out instead. Well, in, out, whatever, you know. Whatever. A play on words. Yep, so I have another playmate. His birthday's a little bit before mine. I'm not sure which one you're talking about. Whatever. I'll tell you. Yeah, it doesn't matter. Yeah, it doesn't matter. Are you going to give him a birthday gift? Yeah, probably. Maybe I'll surprise you when he pops over some Saturday you're at work and I'll have him come over and we'll have some fun and then I'll tell you about it after he leaves. There you go. Wow. It seems like a little thing that we're delving into. I'm definitely being more of a, always been a hot wife, but this is playing a lot more by myself. And these are guys I'm very secure with. Yeah, and that helps. I wouldn't do it if I weren't. No, we're just going to pick some stranger off the street. Oh, that'd be so hot. You know? I trust you won't go murder my wife. Yeah, there you go. Just beat her up, fuck her, I don't care. Whatever you want to do. Make sure we can find the body. Yeah, there we go. There's no evidence that I did it. Exactly. Oh, I don't want to be blamed this time. All the other wives, okay. You and Henry VIII, right? You trying to say I'm fat? I didn't say that. Well, that's kind of what you're implying. No, he murdered a lot of wives, too. And he was fat. And he was fat. Okay. So there you go. Well, you know. I close it as I seize it, you know. Wow. I'm kidding. We get old, we get nasty. Yeah, we do. Ooh. Thanks. I feel so special. Yeah, well, you know. The paratransit bus is here for you. And I'm good with that. I'm comfortable with that. So no, I mean, that was kind of, you know, would be a great topic to talk about is how we have evolved. Right, exactly. It's something that not every couple can do. Right. You know, the whole hot wifing thing element is a different level of sway. Oh, yeah, I remember I was talking to one lady, and no, I saw her profile on, maybe it was SLS, who knows, and she was like, I am definitely not a hot wife. And I'm like, oh, wow, that's a little, I mean, she was like, it was all in capital letters, and I was like, okay, what, okay, so you're still a swinger, but you're just not a hot wife. He doesn't play on the own. You can be a hot wife, but you can't be a hot wife and not a swinger. True. That's very true. And for us, we trust each other. You trust me. We have a trust. If I play with somebody when you're at work, you know about it. It's always been that way. There's been a few times you're like, oh, I had so-and-so. Yeah, but I tell you about it eventually. It's not like I don't tell you about it. Yeah. There has to be a trust, a level of trust. Oh, sure. Well, first of all, I'm aware you're not, again, just going to go to the local grocery store. Oh, yeah. Excuse me, sir. I need you to come home. Fuck me. Yeah. I mean, you know. I've tried that with women, wound up in jail. It's a horrible thing. That was awful. Terrible. Just terrible. Well, the first part is when they laugh at me. Well, then it gets me. Then they put me in jail because they think I'm crazy because I'm just sitting there in a fetal position crying in the middle of a grocery store. Well, you know, you do have your emotional issues, so we'll get help for you. Thank you. But, no. One, I know if you play with somebody when I'm not around, it's going to be a few things. One, someone you have played with. Exactly. Two, someone we both trust. Exactly. And three, you're horny. Exactly. Yeah. Covers the main topics. Three main things. Yeah, it's the safety first thing, of course. And these are guys I've been with on hot dates or some kind of dates or some kind of social event. You know what they can do, what they can't do. They, you know. Now they're well behaved. Like the one gentleman who I think you're talking about for his birthday. This is the guy that comes like. He has to jerk off and he shoots it a mile. Takes planes out of the sky. Yeah, that's him. Yeah. We're on the same page. Yeah, I mean, you haven't hot dated him yet at all. No, he's. But he's so such a great guy. We have such great conversations with him. and everything else. Yeah, he's been reaching out. The fact you haven't gone on a hot date with him is kind of more amazing. Well, it's just been timing and all that, you know, trying to scheduling has just been an issue. But, I mean, that's just life again. So, yeah, I mean, we'll definitely get around to going out to have dinner, then come back here and having some fun. So that's always fun. Yeah, I don't think he has his own place. No. Yeah, see, that's something you haven't done but one or two times. He's actually going on a hot date and then go back to their place. Go back to their place, yeah. A lot of times. The one guy you did that with, his mom had passed. Right. And his dad's older. Right, so he moved back. He moved back to help take care of his dad. Yep, so that kind of ruined that. Yep, that kind of ruined that. It's like, yeah. And even with the second gentleman, he's living with his parents because they, again, are older, and he's kind of taking care of them in a way, too. Mr. Jerkoff shoots his plane. I didn't think his dad was around. I think it's just his mom. Yeah, I mean, I don't remember if he had it. Yeah, I don't remember the situation, but yeah, I think his mom lives with him. Right. And, yeah. He's kind of taking care of her because she is up there in years. Yeah, she's our age. And he's a younger gentleman. Yeah, he's younger. I mean, I would say, well, he's early, mid-30s? Something like that, yeah. Yeah. I think so. They think his mom's like, all right, she's got to be older than that, right? I don't know. I don't know the situation. Not important. It's like, come on. Not important. He's fucking someone. So do you find the aspect of playing without me be there, running a camera, anything a little more titillating? Yes, I know. I kind of like that you're there because I know I'm teasing you and I like that. Well, you tease me if I'm not there. I know, but I don't see the visual. I don't see, you know. You look at me anyway when you're playing And I'm not a person who sits there and jerks off while you're doing it No, no, but I know if you're there that I know that you are Aroused Aroused, yeah Sure Yeah And of course we send you videos when you're at work Sometimes, sometimes you haven't I've been trying to be very good about that I'm trying to turn on movies I don't need videos, even if you just send me a still Oh, videos are a lot more fun It was just 10 seconds, you know Yeah, I'm not arguing that. Yeah, it's kind of hot. I'm just saying. But yeah, no, it's, no, it is, I find it very erotic knowing you're having fun. Oh, yeah. And again, because I've seen it, like when you play with someone without the cameras, it's a little different. Yeah, I don't have to worry about, oh, is this my good side? Well, yeah, you're not worried about camera angles. You're not worried about getting your ass in the right place to see a good cream pie. That's what I like to see. I want to see that. Yeah, I get that. I find that erotic. I do like to watch myself again having sex. Okay. So you're both a voyeur and an exhibition. Sort of. What's a word I'm looking for? People think they're great. Narcissistic. There you go. Yeah, I could be that too. Thanks. A little bit of narcissism. Oh my God, look at my ass. Look at my ass. that it's like um we were going through many vids and we're just seeing like you know all the different videos and there's one i did with that one black guy and i'm kind of in reverse cowgirl on his he's on his side no god his dick was so huge oh my god yes that was you know uh that was like the yeah milf loves anal or what a cougar loves anal whatever that was called oh my god yeah no thank god this guy's dick wasn't so long That guy kept hitting bottom. But I'm like on kind of reverse cowgirl. And his dick is thicker, not as long. And there's such a contrast between his dark skin and my white skin. So it was very erotic. I do like watching those videos. If I'm riding on a cowgirl, I've seen that big black cock going in and out of me. It's very, very titillating. It's kind of exciting. It's titillating. I can honestly say I've only ever seen myself in one video. It wasn't with you. It was my first mistake. And I told her after I watched it, it's like, you're a lying bitch. There's no way you find me sexy. No way. After seeing what I look like having sex naked, there's no way you find me sexy. You're a lying bitch. That's why we have blindfolds. Yeah, it's always funny how you insist on wearing them. Well, you know, I mean, it's like, wait, you play with these other guys. You don't wear a blindfold, but with me, you tell me not to talk. And the lights are out. Curtains are drawn. You said you wouldn't have a room built onto the house with no windows and no lights. Trying to give me a hint. Yeah. Well, I like being blindfolded, and I find that very erotic. I mean, blindfolded is cool, because then you use your, like, More tactile. You can use your fingers to, you know, find things. Let your fingers do the walking? Sort of, kind of, yeah. Yeah. Okay. You don't have that visual cue, so you're not exactly sure where you're going with things because you have to, like, you know, fill your way in the dark, you know, where are things. Okay. I mean, you know, once you start kissing, you're kind of like, no, okay, here's his torso, and we're going down, and we're going down, and then you find something, boink, oh, that must be his dick. Hello. If you can't tell, just cock at this point, your problems. Really? But it's so cool because you can't, I mean, usually you can see it first, but if you don't, you feel it first. Or sometimes you can like feel like, especially if a guy that oozes a lot of pre-cum, it's like, it's like rubbing against your belly. So you can feel it and it's like, oh, that's wet. It's like, oh, somebody's excited. But you don't see that. You can just feel that. that you can, you know, you can touch that. So there's a new gentleman we're talking to that we're going to meet for the first time at a public restaurant on Sunday. Nice guy. Really nice guy. We've got to have him on the podcast. You've seen what he looks like, yeah. Oh, he's got a great podcast voice. Oh, he certainly does. And so when the first time you guys meet sexually, do you think you want to be blindfolded for that? So you... What your fingers do exploring what he's got? You haven't seen a picture of his things yet, have you? No. I don't know what he's packing or not packing. We have hints. We have hints. Because we know somebody else he played with who insisted on a certain criteria. Right. As far as girth and length goes. General size, we'll put it that way. Yeah, he might be a little challenging for me. That's the same. Do you think the blindfold will help add to your excitement if you're blindfolded. Oh, that might be interesting. Help you get your motor running? Maybe. Get your head out on the highway? Maybe that might not be a bad idea, actually. You know? Yeah. I mean, something certainly different. I haven't done a blindfold in a long time since. Yeah, I mean, I talked to him, you know, 10 minutes before the show. Right, right. I talked to him for over 10 minutes, but, you know, he has a bunch of questions. He's wanting to feel out like what you like, what you don't like, and everything else. He has his questions for you. Oh, okay. Well. So he's interested in pleasing you. Okay. Well, you know, maybe tell him I like vanilla ice cream and, you know. Smothered in apple pie, blueberry pie. Oh, my God. Hold on. Now you're right to. After you serve me a lobster dinner. Ooh. Baked potato with butter. You have to have a steak. If you're going to have baked potato. Oh, you have a serve on turf? You have a serve on turf? Yeah, I guess. You know, I wasn't hungry until you started talking about that. I was like, hmm, that would be. Now, you have had other gentlemen that we can only assume. I have not seen, nor have I asked this gentleman to show me what he's bringing to the table. Right. But you've had other gentlemen that you could not. I couldn't put him in my pussy? Is that what you're trying to say? Yeah, okay. Yes, that is very true. I'm not a large person. But I don't think those guys in the past put the time in to get you revved up enough. We've had experience. We've talked about this before. Sometimes these guys with the big dicks. They just want to plunge it in. They just think like, I got a big dick. You should be fired up and I, you know, plunge it in. I'm going to make you like a popsicle, you know. I'm like those toys you pull, you know. This guy used to be an exotic dancer. Yeah, so that might be kind of fun. Do you think him doing a dirty couch dance for you might be fun? That would help? That actually would be a lot of fun. Do you think that would help? Oh, yeah. Were you doing one for him? Or a reciprocal? A reciprocal, sure. That might be kind of fun, too. Yeah. And he wants to shoot video, so we could actually make video of this. Oh, my God. His biceps are huge. Yeah, he's huge. He's a large man. He works out. He's 6'4", 6'3". Oh, God. Really? I had no idea. I was like, yeah, some people look kind of, oh, Jesus, Lord. Here I am, 4'10". 4'10 and a half. 4'10 and a half. Oh, my God. Yeah, I mean, in the pictures, he looked big, but I thought, oh, yeah, sometimes like stockier guys. He was a male stripper for a lot of years. Yeah, so I didn't think he was that tall. That's crazy tall. Close to our age group, I'm going to say. Yeah, he's more mature. You can put it that way, for sure. He's in our age area. I'll put it that way. Yeah. I don't know his exact age. No, I don't. I don't need to. I don't care. So, you know, but he, you know, maintains his shape. Holy crap from the pictures he sent. Now these pictures are current, which he said they are. Yeah. He's got nice abs. He's very, very meaty, which might be kind of fun. You haven't seen the meat yet. No, I just meant like his arms, chest, torso. Yeah, he works out and stuff. Yeah, he's a fine specimen of a man. Well, you're going to. Well, I'll find out how fine. You're going to take a specimen out of him. I think I will. So yeah, we're going to meet him, just hang out and have a face-to-face chat Sunday. Right, that sounds nice. We could talk about that on Monday's show. Yeah, that'd be great, sure. Yeah. because he definitely has a lot of experiences he can pull from with the dancing and stuff. We're going to get him on the podcast. The stories he's been telling us, he has a very interesting past, background, sure, with the dancing. And then he knows a lot of the people that were in the porn industry that we knew, or at least one in particular. Well, I'm sure it's probably more if we dove into it. I don't need to dive into it. That was the Mike era. Yeah, I get that. That was not a good era for us. He ended up being a scumbag, but that's another story. Different podcast. Yeah, but the cool thing is, I mean, you had a lot of really big names on the podcast. Well, big names back then. Well, I ran. Right. Back then, it was called the Porn Star Network. No, I thought it was All Pleasure Network. That's it. Yeah, Triple X, All Porn Star Network. Yeah, which I did not come up with a name on. But yeah, we had all the big porn stars on there. For that time, yeah. I co-hosted a few shows. Right. Yeah. I shot some of them. Yeah. Yeah. So, yeah, I think it'll be really interesting. It'll be a lot of fun. And I think he could bring a lot of excitement and some new experiences to the table. Oh, yeah. You know, just because he just has a different background and the whole, you know, dancer thing and that whole, I think that'll be fun. I just think that'll be a hoot. Yeah. You know. Well, and again, having you both compare your experiences as dancers could be kind of interesting. Yeah, his is much different. I'm hearing from the male end versus the female end, yeah. It's much different being in that industry, if you can call it that, as a male dancer as opposed to a female dancer. Sure. You know, I mean, he traveled a lot. And I can put my experience as a gigolo in there. Of course you can. I'm glad. I didn't have any, but. But you could. If I had been a successful gigolo and had one customer, I could add to it. You could have added to it. You could have joined in the conversation. But I'll just run the board. Oh, that'd be fine. Yeah, it's fine. Someone's got to. It's all good, huh? I guess you're going to just hate the both of you. And you do that so well. Constantly. Constantly. It's my profession. Oh, my God. Yeah, I think he'll be a lot of fun because he's very easy to talk to. He's very forthcoming with his... Yeah, great voice, very forthcoming with his experiences. So yeah, it should be a lot of fun. We'll see what happens with it. I'm hoping good thoughts here. I'm hoping that it works its way out and we can schedule things. Yeah, it's going to happen. So for now, don't forget to check out hotwifedonnalyn.com. Yep, and I'm posting things again, so I'm getting... Some fresh stuff. Yeah, I'm getting back into things. It's going to take a little bit. Things are getting back into her. Yeah. But I'm bumped. Yeah, I have a funny feeling that the stuff I shoot with him is going to be a little bit over the top, but I think it'll be fun. Well, it's, you know, over the top, over the top. On the bottom, top, you know, in, out, whatever. And just so you guys will get to see what I see. We bought a camera system more recently that's all wireless and remote that actually, So when I'm not around, if Donna's with a play date, she can actually record it. Oh, that'd be, nope. You know that. Yeah, I know that. You have to set that up for me. I don't know what the hell I'm doing. I'm saying so they'll be seeing what I see for the first time. Right. Potentially, too. Potentially, sure. Yeah, I am not the camera person. Sorry, guys. I am just not that person. Just set them up. Let me tell me. And I'm not a person taking the ass, and she is. And I am. You see, you know, our yang and yang here. Yeah, we're synergistic. Very synergistic. No, I'm half Italian, half Irish. Yeah, shut up. I don't know where synergy and artistic is. But yeah, I mean, I do like the newer cameras. Yeah, nice quality and sound. No wires to trip over. That's worth the price of admission right there. Yeah, it is. We had like all these cameras like mounted in our bedroom. If anybody came in, they'd be like, what the fuck? You guys are shooting porn for sure. It's like, yeah, we are. But there's wires everywhere. Don't you subscribe? Well, these are like, you know, playmates. They're like, yeah, they see all the wires. Like, yeah. Yeah. No doubting that. No doubting. There's lights and all kinds. All right. So with that said, like I said, hotwifedonnalyn.com. Don't forget to check out 50shadesofpleasure.com. Free magazine with some swing of articles. Tell your friends about it. It's free. So, you know. Anything hot you can tell us about? Oh, there's some great articles. Next month will be a little more bondage driven. I thought like this month. This month was a little more swinger driven. Okay, okay. So next month will be a little more bondage driven. There's some bondage stuff in this one. Yeah, I thought there was because I was looking at it. I was like, oh, you know. Goddamn good looking magazine, isn't it? Yeah, goddamn good looking. Goddamn right. All right. Hey, everyone, stay horny. Have a good night, everybody.