Is sex important?

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The commentary of this program is the sole opinion of its host or guest and does not reflect that of the opinion of the Hot Wife Podcast's owners, agents, or representatives. This podcast is not meant to be taken as professional advice. Hi, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast, where we discuss all the good, the bad, and the really erotic of the swinger lifestyle. Hello, everybody. This is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. I'm here again with my wonderful husband, Vince. Hello. So wonderful. I think you're wonderful, smart-ass. There we go.

That's what I'm used to. Yeah. Wonderful, smart-ass. That's what you are, a wonderful, smart-ass. I'm wonderful at it. I hate to do it half-assed. That's true.

Nothing worse than a half-assed ass that's a lot of ass i tell you what is it half of an ass oh that's really okay there's some people that half of an ass is still a lot of ass i've seen a few of those at walmart yeah you got behind in the line didn't you and you're like oh god i can't wear those leggings man jesus i'm telling you i'm gonna teach him a lesson i'm gonna get a set of those leggings too and i'm going fucking sans underwear man moose knuckle that's right there it is take an eye for this shit pull that shit right up my fucking ass too how's that look huh bend over and yeah I will get the see-through kind of when you're back oh god squat the squat kind there yeah fuck you oh that's hot hot yeah i think you should wear that i'll be so turned on and i'm not going to shave my pubic hair for like a month so that way i'll poke through i'll be on people walmart yeah you will you'll be on that website for sure oh that's disgusting i wonder how many people are like just happen to stumble upon those kind of like websites and they'll be like that's me do you think that ever happens you know yeah i i think it does i'm sure someone's like hey i saw you on uh you know people at Walmart or some such site.

Yeah, you should have been wearing the tutu. Because they think they look good. They think there's nothing wrong with what they, you know. I'm like, yeah, it's styling, baby. No, you're not. I saw some things on there like, okay, maybe they're going to a party. You know, it was a guy wearing a tutu and he's wearing like these seven high heels I'm like what the fuck is going on here let's pretend it's Halloween I still wouldn't go out to the store dressed like that I might well for you to wear a bustier and a tutu that's one thing but. That's one thing.

But, like, a big hairy guy with hairy legs and fucking, you know, hairy chest wearing a fucking bustier and, I'm actually surprised I remember that word. But, you know, it's just like, you know, I don't know. I just. Well, wait a minute. Whoa, whoa. You were a fucked up fairy. I didn't wear that out to the store. Well, you could have. I couldn't. I wouldn't have. That would have been very funny. I put that on, if you remember right. I got dressed like that in the parking lot. You wore most of it there. Well, yeah, but we went from the house to the car, car to the party. Yeah. That's it.

I didn't go, hey, I'm going grocery shopping. I thought that would have been so funny.

You could have, like, waltzed through through walmart with your i would have fit right the fuck in oh yeah with your now you have i know we told about it on a prior show but you know since we are approaching how we never tell that story again i guess oh yeah what they what my outfit was oh yeah that was that was really good it was mostly done to put to embarrass my daughter oh absolutely yeah it was called a fucked up fairy so he wore a white beater t-shirt with food stains on it yeah and i'm gonna like Thank you.

to embarrass my daughter oh absolutely it was called a fucked up fairy so he wore a white beater t-shirt with food stains on it yeah and i'm gonna like go down i'll save the headdress for later okay and then i i made them this i had a pink tutu i had simpson boxer shorts yeah but i made you a pink tutu yeah because i had i couldn't find one in your size. Go figure. Really, there's not a lot of larger size ballerinas. Well, I happened to find two of them at the surf shop and I just took them apart and I sewed them together so they would fit you.

And then you had like work boots on and like, you know, work socks and work boots. And what else did you have? I know you had a wand. Big butterfly wings. Oh, big butterfly wings butterfly wings oh big butterfly wings yeah that's true i did which were fairy wings oh yes i had a wand and you had a wand and then you had a wand with a star on it oh so wonderful and i had a cigar in the other hand cigar that's right you know i had my beard as usual of course don't leave home without that and then and then i had a you didn't have a T area. It was that... It was a headband that had stars on springs.

Yeah, kind of like, you know... But like I said, these big butterfly wings. That was funny. That was... You were such a fucked up fairy. I fucking took first pride. Yes, you did. My daughters would not walk in with me. Nope. They were like... They did everything they could to get out of the car as quickly as possible. And, Dad, we're not walking in with you. We're so embarrassed. It's a Halloween party. It's Halloween. Yeah, it's Halloween. This is not like July and I'm walking in for the 4th of July or something. This is Halloween party. I think you'd have to wear a red, white, and blue tutu.

Yeah, you know, patriotic wings. Yeah, patriotic wings. I have a sense of fashion. I guess, of course, you do. But I took first prize. Yes, you did. And who had the last laugh then? I did. Of course you did. It's actually on my Facebook page. Oh, is it really? The picture is on my Facebook page. Oh, my God. Like, you do so much with Facebook. I think it's probably the last time I did something with Facebook. Yeah. That was good. That was a good costume. I enjoyed that. I thought that was funny. And the fact that both your daughters were like, no, Dad, we're not. Most of my oldest one.

Oh, yeah. My youngest one is closer to me, so she's like, eh, what the fuck you want to do? Yeah, whatever. Yeah. But the oldest one was like, I can't believe you're wearing that. Oh, my God, Dad. How dare you dress up at Halloween? Yeah. I don't think she'd give a shit now. She's kind of grown up a little. Yeah. They wore things like, you know, the onesies and pretend they were babies or something like that. I was more embarrassed for that. Yeah, really. Because I knew if I walked into a store dressed like I was, no one was going to fuck with me. No. That dude's a crazy son of a bitch.

He's got to balls wear that into a store. Anyway. So. Interesting. We're going to explore something that probably most people don't even think about tonight. Doing your taxes early. No. Oh, wow. Yeah. You know what? I was just thinking about that earlier, too. So erotic.

So er how important is sex oh well i i guess since we're doing this show i guess it's very important show is a sex-based show so it's not important at all okay let's move on get back to doing your taxes no and and by that you know i like i put in the description um you know like when you're younger and you discover sex oh yeah that's all you can think about is sex and drinking or drugs things that make you feel good that's it nothing else matters no not really no i'm laughing because that's so true yeah for me For me, I was very hedonistic. Oh, you're still in that mode?

No, I'm not as hedonistic as I was. You know, nothing mattered. I didn't really care about having a relationship or anything. You still don't? Well, that's with you, hon. With everybody else, I want to have a relationship with. Yeah, okay, okay. Good thing you're not out in the open with that. Otherwise, you could hurt my feelings. I know. But no, when you're a teenager, you just want to have as much sex as humanly possible. Pretty much.

i remember daydreaming when i was in in high school there was a stupid math class i was so boring and he's up there talking about whatever geometry or whatever i'm and in my head i'm i'm fucking my boyfriend and i'm just i'm just thinking about sex and just, yeah, I was like 24-7. Yeah. Almost 24-7. And then you go into your 20s. Right. You know, you want to work, make your money. Yeah. Then you want to go out and try to have sex with the best looking person you can. Yep, great. Like when you're a teenager, you just want to have sex. You don't care who the fuck it is.

You'll fuck the ugliest kid in school, but you won't tell anybody. Right. But you just want to have sex you don't care who the fuck it is not you'll fuck the ugliest kid in school just but you won't tell anybody right but you just want to get fucked yeah pretty much you know but then in your 20s it's like okay man i'm going to the bars the clubs whatever i'm gonna try to hook up with the best thing i can right and if i can't then i'll get the ugliest thing then we're going hogging oh That's awful. That's terrible. Well, you know, people like me need love too.

But anyway, so then let's say by 30s you're married. And, like, I found it really interesting when my brother got married. He was engaged. I was his best man and everything. I told him at the bachelor party, I said, no, listen, I'm going to tell you something. How you know it's time to get married is when you can say to yourself, I've had enough sex in my life. I don't need more. I remember saying that. And he swore to me. He's like, oh, no. I can get a blowjob any time I want. She tells me we have sex two, three times a day. I'm like, sure. Now? First year? Sure. Second year? A little less.

Year five? Not so much. Well. Year 20? I'm fucking other people. Yep. In a very short time, he came to me like within three years. He's like, yeah. The blowjob thing. He says, she won't even go near my penis with her mouth now. It's like, yeah. Told you. Now, this is not true in every case. No, this is not true in every case. But in this one, it really rang true. And again, we've touched on this before with, like, women can use sex. Men can't. It's not a big thing for women. They're like, fuck you. Women will use sex as a reward or punishment. Quite and simple. You know?

You don't mow the lawn on you. Because they know men, we're simple, simple creatures. I mean, so I think, in general, sex sex is important to men but not as much to women in in general there are some women i definitely blow that out of the water but yeah but um in in general i i think that's a i know it's a blanket statement but i i think in general you can make that statement. But, you know, I've always said that sex, I believe sex is important in a relationship because it really is that bond. I agree.

And I think that when you have that lapse lapse of time between having sex or intimacy yeah okay whatever um that you know like if it's been a week or so and the wife says to the husband hey honey can you take the trash out i mean he'll go do it but in his head he's like fuck you you. Take it out of your fucking self. Is that what you said when you brought the trash out? I say it out loud. Oh, okay. Good. But you know what? If he got his dick sucked or he got to fuck you the night before and you say, honey, can you take the trash out? He's already on the way. You think? Yeah.

It's a proven thing. You know, you do, it just, there is something about when a couple has sex. Again, I might be speaking out of turn. It might not be for everyone. So sex gives you energy? Is that what that is? Better than Red Bull. Yeah. No, not gives you energy. Yeah, it does.

It gives you sexual energy that, you know, for the person you're in a relationship with that you feel wanted you feel attractive you know and you know again men i don't we don't get to have in general that same like you know i'll make a joke with you like you know hey if you don't do this i'm not going to give you any sex tonight and you're like two hours of anal fisting that's a running joke with us we said that one already i know um all right i won't give you any sex tonight i'm like oh nice but all right honey i'll do it before we get back into this we actually now have a spunk loop commercial oh an official spunk unofficial official.

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Anyway, so, but yeah, back to the whole thing with, you know, sex as a weapon or as a reward. I just think, you know, and again, I think that's when sex is, I really think most people discover swinging, which is why we're here, right in the 30s, really, because that's when they've sowed their wild oats to say in their 20s or whatever. They've been married now for, you know, let's say 10 years. Or something like that. Close to 10 years. You know, so things are getting mundane. And it's like, okay, I love you. You love me. We're not going anywhere. What can we do to spice it up? Mm-hmm.

You know, what can we do to mix it up? What can we do, you know? Yeah, they've already added the toys and the trapeze and spunk lube. Farm animals. Hey, hey, leave the animals out of it. That's not nice. Oh. Yeah. Yeah, blow up dolls. Yeah, whatever. You know, it's like, okay, we've done all that.

else can we do yeah what else be ironic and well we're or like in our case like one of us had a fantasy that kind of involved that and then you try to introduce it and go well hey what if what if you know and it's it obviously works out well if both parties kind of go yeah that could be fun mm-hmm yeah one that's you know not going to do it then yeah it kind of puts a whole big kibosh on the whole swinging thing yeah and and more recently we had a a friend who uh we met through lifestyle who was in a relation is in a relationship um who wasn't happy. Right, right.

And had tried to work things out with no evidence, no avail. So he decided to go into swinging on his own. He wasn't looking for a relationship. He was just looking to get laid.

And, you know, so he did that for a little bit had some moderate success and uh decided you know he wanted to be fair and honest to his wife and confronted her about it like hey listen we have a and he had said this to her before apparently hey we have a problem but now he's like listen we have a problem and if we don't address this i'm going elsewhere right and she was like oh no so yeah there's a lot of things going on in that relationship and i'm not getting into particulars not important but uh you know we wish them the best and hope that they can work that out you know i was pretty ballsy he was honest with her and said look this is what i've been doing uh you're not gonna be happy about it but that's an example of where sex is important and i do believe sex in a relationship helps keep a bond i i would like to expand that a little bit because as you do get older i mean sometimes sex is just impossible so i'll include intimacy with that and that okay that includes yeah you know touching feeling holding hands intimacy it doesn't have to be like you know getting banged every freaking night but no hands on the throat you know big dick in the ass well it doesn't have cock sandwiches morning or the night yeah it doesn't have to be like but just at that level of boondock saints too of course it is you and your boondock saints references but something to include some intimacy because if you're in your let's say in your 80s and let's just say yeah either partner things just aren't working but you still love the other person you still want to have and desire them but you know things don't work right so you have to find a way to be more intimate well one thing i'm going to throw out there not necessarily you know like big revelation but i told my daughters this i said you know not and i told them i, I know you're going to bang.

Yeah, sex is important. Have a nice sexual relationship with whoever. But it's really more important for people to make sure that they're as close to 100% compatible non-sexual. Because you do. You spend more time with your partner outside the bedroom than you do in the bedroom, not counting sleeping. Oh. I was including that right along with the sex. Well, you sleep during sex to save time. Well, I like to multitask. Wake me up when you're done so I can go de-louse. God, you're terrible. That's why you sleep through it.

But, yeah, so I tell people, you know, if you're listening to this and you're single, my advice to you is before you settle down with someone, make sure that they are as compatible, close to 100% compatible with you without sex. Mm-hmm, like if sex couldn't exist. Yeah sex couldn't exist. Because God forbid something could happen to somebody or you might grow old enough together that all of a sudden sex ain't on the table anymore. It just isn't for whatever reason. Donna said she had 32. She couldn't have sex with me anymore. But with these other guys, she is.

But something about, for instance, 32, I did something about me. But no, so, but then again, okay, so now moving on with that, like we were talking here is, you know, as you get older, you know, sometimes things don't work. Yeah, I can't get my legs around my head anymore. I don't know what happened with that. I'm stretching every night. And that's kind of where I'm going, too. Not just with an ED problem or a menopause problem. You know, you got people with bad backs, bad necks, bad knees, you know, shoulders. It's a car accident.

Guess what, you know you got people with bad backs bad necks bad knees you know shoulders you know it's respiratory problems or whatever you know um and that you shouldn't say goodbye to your relationship just because sex isn't what it was prior you know yeah there has to be some other way of obtaining or prolonging this the intimacy that's why i'm like use that word instead of sex sure because intimacy can be a whole realm of things i mean from hand holding to gently kissing or correct caressing and tea bagging tea bagging okay anal fisting all right she's got to sleep sometimes is that why my head always feels sticky in the morning no no oh that's something else oh you're just wrong i didn't say i know just i don't know what that is i think the dogs come over and give Yeah, I know, with her butts.

She put her butts on her. But, I mean, so you have to come up with other ways to keep your relationship still intimate without, you know, killing yourself trying to have sex. Because let's face it, the physical aspect may not be there until your 80s, 90s and 100. You know, I mean, you may not either live that long or your body's just not going to do it. And, you know, sometimes people, okay, so they will go outside the relationship because the other one can't do whatever.

And so sometimes when they do that, they build up emotions and all of a sudden get feelings for this other person that they're having sex with. That's possible, sure. I'm saying it happens. I'm saying it happens all the time. No, it does happen.

So it's something that you have to take in consideration is, are you really out of love with that person that can't have intimacy with intimacy with you right or are you just upset with them like I'm saying you know when you haven't had sex for a while all of a sudden you become very short very terse you don't care you almost feel like you're not in love anymore you know because sex is still you know not that that no not that masturbation doesn't give you an orgasm it feels good but somehow an orgasm feels and means more when it's given to you by somebody else yeah that you want to give it to you okay i had to throw that in there uh good thing you clarified that yeah i don't trust you i know there's something disgusting in there.

I would never do that to you. You constantly do. No. But anyway, but, you know, so, I mean, I know it's a tough thing to do. If somebody that you're intimate with all of a sudden cannot be intimate anymore. Right. You know, and then, you know, you want to leave or whatever.

It that's a tough decision i mean i thank god i'm not there yet um but donna's working away i absolutely am no i i well i think the first thing again is you have to be honest with each other and communicate so it doesn't come out of the blue like you know you go for months and months and all of a sudden yeah i've been fucking somebody else i'm you know i yeah it's like yeah let's have a have that conversation early on so well and one of the things i think two people have to realize is somebody might sit there and go okay i'm not getting sex from her you know or him who whichever way you want to take the traffic i'm not blaming one side or the other um but you also need to do self self-reflection you know you need to go am i being good to them am i satisfying them that they want to have intimacy with me yeah you know um am i helping around the house enough am i being a partner just be a partner do i tell her how fat her ass is enough constantly she sits on my lap do i yell jenny craig weight watch, loud enough that she can hear me.

I have a new Weight Watchers. Was it Weight Watchers? No, it's a Nutrisystem. It's a partnership. You have to do it with another person. And I thought, oh, that'd be perfect for us. We can do it together, dear. Yeah. That look on your face. I'm just going to end the show now and get on Nutrisystem.com and order me some. Like an astronaut food. No, their food's not that bad, actually. No. I've done it before. I actually worked there for a few weeks. A few weeks. That was a career. You lost the weight, you wanted to lose it, you quit. Got my discount, got my food, get the fuck out.

Get the fuck out. No, it wasn't. I did work there, but it wasn't. It was before diet season. Oh, yeah. And you just didn't make any money, and I'm not a phone guy. So anyway, but yeah, no, I think, you know, people have to consider, I mean, is sex important to you? And, you know, so you got to make sure where's your level of importance for sex, how's it compared to your partners?

Mm- partners like if you're not compatible in that aspect that could really really throw some monkey wrenches into the mix you know if you're a very sexual person and and all of a sudden your partner is not i mean i guess if you can marry somebody who absolutely is not interested in sex from the get-go, that's a red flag right there. But it might be something when you first get together, like we've heard about so many other couples. Everybody's on board with the sex in the beginning of the relationship. Then as a relationship, after the years, one says, hey, I'm still interested.

And the other one's like, nope, I'd rather do gardening or i'd rather do something else and we've talked about this too yes the uh we'll tell you real quick give out the email not that people are listening right now live uh but it is actually live um but if you go to um hotwifepodcast.gmail.com email us your thoughts and stuff on this topic. It would be interesting to hear if you have experience with this stuff or your thoughts on it.

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Well, let's see, your wife works a job, she comes home, takes care of your kids, feeds your kids, feeds you, does the dishes, does your laundry, cleans the house, and you're sitting there watching sports.

Then when you're done watching your sports, you your sports you're like hey honey how about some sex well she's just from when the moment she got up to a minute ago when you asked her she's been working non-stop you know so these are things to think about if if sex is important to you you got to earn it yeah yeah that's a good way to put it yeah if everybody so start pitching in and i'll put out don't i'll i'll start i'll start pitching in i will i promise you know no but i've seen it yeah i brought the guy's attention like well i do stuff what do you do on saturdays i cut the lawn wow okay what about the other six days you know when she's getting the kids homework done and she's cooking all the meals and whatever doing their laundry and packing their lunches or whatever and stuff like that well yeah well maybe she's fucking tired yeah maybe the last thing she wants to do is hop on your little wee wee you know yeah i mean if everybody just just is a partnership it's a partnership all the way around and sex is just one part of the partnership well if it's important to you like anything else you got to work for it you got to work for it you know you don't just walk into a ferrari and go i want a ferrari okay we have to have the money well how do you get the I had to work for it.

Or steal it. Okay. Just saying. We'll become a Biden. Anyway. I got to go in political. But yeah, it's, again, I think you know, but I mean, sex, I think for most of us, it starts out super, super important. And I don't really think it fades too much to really, like, 50. And I think somewhere around 50, it's not that it's not important, but it's just like, you know. I would love to mess around tonight, but my back is killing me. Usually it's physical ailments are getting away. Well, I'm just saying. If it was that important, you go, fuck it, let's do it.

You know, I'll hop up on some fucking painkillers. I'm going to throw some bourbon to fuck. Yeah, we're rocking this motherfucker. But when the pain or something like that, or just you sit there and go, you know what? I already didn't sleep well last night. Fuck it. I'm just getting some sleep.

Truth is, if you already thought wow you know good orgasm how we get better night's sleep tonight sometimes yeah sometimes yeah not always sometimes i i feel like i have a really good orgasm i go to bed i i fall asleep very very quickly and then i'm up at two o'clock i have all this kind of like weird energy like my mind's racing i'm like that's right baby i zap you yeah yeah you do you wipe me out and i and i fall asleep very quickly but i i tend to well yeah sometimes the orgasm it's just that powerful the pages in that book while i'm doing well i have like on your head so you know that's what that bald spots for i guess what the pages just look the back of the book and it sticks to the bald spot in the back of my head Thank you.

Well, I have it on your head. That's what that bald spot's for. I go flip the pages. Just lick the back of the book and it sticks to the bald spot in the back of my head. I have a little Velcro. I have a little sponge back there with water on it so you wet it and then flip the page. Well, you know, again, I'm just multitasking. That's all. I'm just multitasking. I'm, you know, I'm down there picking out the bugs. Jesus, that's sad. You keep telling me it's bed bugs. I'm like, that's where they're headed. Oh, my God. No, I'm just kidding. You're awful. No, I'm not. Oh, stop it.

It's such a disgusting. So, yes, we do pick on each other nonstop. Constantly. Oh, my God. Mostly she picks on me. I'm too busy helping, you know, runaway children and being homeless, building villages and churches. God, you're so full of shit. All she does is give me a hard time. Mm-hmm. What? I'm not buying that even one little bit about that. Okay. Building churches.

what i'm not buying not even one little bit about that okay building churches would you say helping runaway kids it could happen okay okay i'm feeding the hungry that's you though and you okay dogs okay see sometimes a cat sometimes i'm feeding them okay you're feeding them okay every day he has them right majority one dog will run away he's still a kid to me yes yes you're doing something good for society hun okay all right Okay, guys. We've established that. But anyway. You're a saint. All right. Duh. So, yeah.

So, I mean, on a scale of 1 to 10, how important is sex to you at this point in your life? It's a 7. It's a 7 now? Mm-hmm. Okay. Back when you were 22? 11. Wow. Maybe a 12. Okay. Yeah, it was super. Okay. Okay, how about at 40? It was still like a 9. Really? 30 was definitely a 10. Definitely a 10. Just when you get married, do it stop? Yeah, at 43, it just kind of like stopped. Went down to... 2. Negative 2. Negative 2. Oh, there's just... Funny how that happened. What are the chances? Yeah, married just put a damper on the whole sex thing. Like I said, that wedding band puts a pressure.

Oh, a pressure. I don't even wear a ring. I've never worn a ring. Neither have you. Oh, you haven't worn a ring with me. Did you wear a ring with your first mistake? Oh, I had to at the first one. Oh, really, you had to? Rings are just whatever. She wouldn't have it tattooed on me. Oh. Well, talk about it being insecure. I would have that finger cut off. I'm going to tell you, I would too. Anyways, I guess, let's see, how important is sex to me right now? Oh, it's important. I know it is. Yeah, it's important, but not over. I'm probably a six or seven. Oh, good. Well, these are compatible.

You know, again, because I go through a lot of back pain and stuff. It's the physical things that really makes, is a deterrent for sex. Well, if I was into pain, then sex would be like a fucking 72. It's a different kind of pain. I don't know. Pain's pain to me. No, it's not. But I'd have raging heart on all the time. Oh, yeah, you would be like, oh, the back spasms. God, my dick's so hard. I can barely breathe. I mean, so much back pain. Look how hard my cock is. God, she was like this all the time. I can't even imagine. Take a job drilling through fucking mountains if that was the case.

i'm just glad that there's like supplements to help with not just sex but with just well-being pain inflammation so you you can have like a normal life and get back into closer to normal it's still okay yeah it's still i mean yeah let it. Well, that's the other neat thing, too, is that, you know, now with pills like Viagra, Cialis, and whatever else is out there, you know, people that, when they got older, couldn't have sex anymore, all of a sudden, it's like, woo, look at this. Yeah, yeah. You know, it's not a 100% thing, but it definitely helps. So I got to blow my nose up.

Okay, you got to blow your nose. Yeah, so that's really a good point because there are so many other things you can do to help your sex life that wasn't available, say, 20, 30, 40 years ago. And, of course, Viagra is one of them, not to mention all the things for ED and the waves and whatever. I don't even know what they're doing. I don't know what they're doing, the whole penis thing, for erectile dysfunction. I've seen you. You know what you're doing. Yeah, but that's different. That's way different. These guys don't have that problem. Some have had a few. Sometimes I get cameras, right?

Yeah, that's different.

That's not something that happens all the time yeah so i mean but there's all kinds of cool things out there that that help with um dilation and you know so you can get a better erection and you know that's pretty cool there's a lot more stuff for men than there is for women like for i've done some that when i was having like problem with menopause they had we went to a health food place i'm like oh yeah these pills work one of all these pills you know really make you horny blah they really have dilation i think they tasted real peppery and all they did was make me like burn heartburn yeah so it wasn't it wasn't a good experience so i just seems like there's a lot more things for men than for women yeah i don't know if anything that is a aphrodisiac true aphrodisiac for women i don't know if there's a true aphrodisiac no i mean for me rum and cokes yeah we did that worked out pretty if you ask me.

So, yeah, it's, yeah, I think the pills nowadays are helping sex stay important and relevant longer. You know? Yeah. And I do think what you eat does help, and there's other supplements that just help you uh just be more healthy and because you're more healthy you're able to be more sexual you know those those kind of things well i cut back from three double whoppers to two yeah okay good for you hon you're healthy there's lettuce and tomatoes on this uh Let us into me, yeah. You're healthy. There's lettuce and tomatoes on those. Lettuce and tomato. Okay. Hey.

Those potatoes are a vegetable in the french fries. Oh, yes. Of course they are. Or sesame seeds on the bun. That's fiber. See, that's fiber. Yep. That's all healthy right there. Sometimes I get the Whoppers without cheese. You're living on the edge. I'm thinking about starting my own diet with that. Thank you.

healthy right there sometimes i get the whoppers without cheese you're living on the edge i'm i'm thinking about starting my own diet with that when was the last time you actually had a whopper couldn't tell you 20 years oh more than that really more than that yeah i've never had a whopper since we've been together i'm i don't think i've had a whopper since we've been together either the only thing the last thing i had from burger king which was years ago was one of their breakfast sandwiches i had i haven't had any of their chicken sandwiches or dinners or lunches whatever you call it right um the coffee didn't impress me and even mcdonald's i think the last thing i've ever had for mcdonald's was this coffee was this coffee yeah yeah i think so i did have a chick some kind of a chicken sandwich it was eight years ago because my dad was i ran out and got him food i got something for myself and all it was was it shows i mean jesus yeah i know i know i'm so fat i know i'm i'm working still shedding chicken sandwich weight well it was just like a slab of chicken with mayonnaise and i was like there's nothing else with it there wasn't any uh i was so disappointed i'm like never again i think the last fast food i ate was probably um chick-fil-a that shit just crack man by example that shit is crack i i need to be investigated there's some addictive fucking thing in their chicken especially those nuggets you can't fill up on them i could just eat those fucking things and eat those things i mean you know eventually the grease content will kill me oh god yeah absolutely but Thank you.

and eat those things I mean eventually the grease content will kill me but luckily there's not one real close to us so it's not an issue that is good I can't remember the last time I ate it at Chick-fil-A either I cannot remember anyway so that was the topic of is sex important so like i said email us at hotwifepodcast at gmail.com let us know your level of importance to sex i mean i know if you're listening like our friend jay right oh my god we know where she stands with it sex is important very important you said scale one to ten she's up in the 60 Oh, God, yeah.

Well, if you're listening to this, sex is probably important. Chances are. It might be a stupid question, but I'm just curious. I hope it's always important. Or at least the intimacy part is always important. Like you said before, that's what makes a connection. It needs to be important not only to receive, but to give. I agree. And you've got to make sure that when you're giving it, you're giving pleasure, not just giving them sex. Oh, that's a good point. You're not just going through the motion. Yeah, I mean. All right. Oh, I fucked you.

I had my orgasm, but I was fucking you, so that was all you needed. No, they don't like an orgasm. True. You know. Very true. Where, you know, they want you to do something else. I don't know. You know, I'm not there, obviously. The camera I have in your room doesn't have sound. What? You're just so wrong on so many levels. I can just you with like all these little cameras little television monitors like behind you and you're like oh this is the Smith house no sound look how he eats her pussy This is the Obwanowitses over in Chicago. I've been meaning to email them.

But no, seriously, it's a give and take street. You need to do it. You know, and, you know, I mean, I know women that the orgasm isn't important as, you know, but you know what? Wine and dine them. Buy them something nice. Yeah. or whatever they're into sure yeah um but you know just take care of your mate either way however that yeah i was talking to you oh yeah okay i'm writing all this down taking notes as we speak so but seriously, please take care of your significant other. It doesn't mean you're married. It just means you're significant to you.

And, you know, hopefully sex will stay important and viable and fun and rewarding for you. And we'll add that extra spice into your relationship. and keep it exciting yeah we're all here for a very short time but the thing and the thing is that the more you put that effort into your your mate hopefully they'll reciprocate so you'll be getting back you know that kind of positive reinforcement that you're giving let's go upstairs and we'll put some effort into you and you're going to get some positive reinforcement back. Yep. That's what we're going to do. And doesn't that sound romantic?

That's that code for? That's code for we're showering and then going to sleep. All right. So, again, thank everyone for listening. And make sure you listen to the next podcast, which will be out Monday morning. The next one's going to be a hoot. It's going to be a hoot. You're going to hear about the party a little bit. Again, if you're part of Patreon, you're going to hear about the whole party. Stephen, our fan, is going to be here.

And he's going to be telling you about what's going on with him and uh just be a hoot so make sure you listen to the next podcast so i better take my supplements yes you should all right have a great night everybody