Welcome to our swinger podcast where we fearlessly delve into the intriguing topic of Insecurities. Join us as we navigate the uncharted territories of consensual non-monogamy, exploring the depths of human vulnerability within the swinging lifestyle. In this candid and lighthearted show, we unpack the insecurities that often accompany intimate connections, offering genuine insights and practical advice for couples navigating the world of alternative relationships.Through open and humorous discussions, we address common fears, uncertainties, and self-doubts that can arise in the swinging community. Our aim is to create a safe space for listeners to confront and conquer their insecurities, fostering a more confident and enjoyable journey in the realm of adult relationships. From body image concerns to emotional vulnerabilities, our podcast fearlessly confronts the real issues, bringing laughter and enlightenment to your intimate adventures. Tune in for an empowering exploration of insecurities and discover the keys to unlocking a more fulfilling and harmonious swinger lifestyle.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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this program contains strong sexual content no one under the age of 18 is permitted to listen to or download the podcast in any manner the host guest and performers are all over the age of 18 rebroadcasting this podcast in any manner is strictly prohibited without the written consent of the owners of the hot wife podcast the commentary of this program is the sole opinion of its host or guest and does not reflect that of the opinion of the hot wife podcast owners agents or representatives this podcast is not meant to be taken as professional advice hi this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast where we discuss all the good the bad and the really erotic of the swinger lifestyle hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast i'm here once again with my wonderful husband v Vince.
Hello. So wonderful. Oh, just beyond fucking wonderful. I think so. I couldn't do this without you. So, happy new year. Well, happy new year to you, too. And starting our third season. You've got to be kidding me. You told me that earlier, and I was like, what? Yeah. Three seasons? Wow, that's crazy. So, yeah, we want to thank everyone. Starting our third year. Hopefully, we'll make it through. I'm talking about the podcast and not our relationship. Oh, I wasn't sure where you're going with that. Oh, that's got questions, too. Hey, you never know what tomorrow brings, right? That's right.
You could kill me in my sleep. There you go. I've threatened you many times. You keep practicing. I keep telling you, I'll kill you in your sleep. But you keep practicing. I keep getting that pillow just not quite right. Just push it off. I know. Anyway, we have broken the 150,000 downloads. Wow. And we are now, this is like our 174th or 175th episode. Yeah, I'm still, I don't know. I don't keep track of all this stuff, so I don't know. I just think these people need to get a life. Oh, no, that's fine. Keep listening. It's nice. It's fun. Did you hear that too?
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So yeah, check me out. You can find collectively what we're doing. And again, I can't thank you all enough for the start of our third season. Wow, amazing. Yeah. So the topic for tonight. Yeah, I think everybody has this kind of, can relate to this topic and insecurities yeah and we all have them so we actually um ran into a problem not a problem we didn't have it somebody we met it and a single gentleman today didn't play with him no no we just it was just meet and greet very nice very very good looking very shape, good looking guy. Yeah, really good looking. Had some insecurities. Yeah.
He's worried that, you know, it's, that, you know, he'd be too turned on and it'll pop too quick. Oh, geez, let that be the problem. Now, I mean, some people do think that premature ejaculationulation is a problem if you want to call that an insecurity that's certainly one but like we talked about on other podcasts i i take it as kind of like this is gonna sound really strange like as a compliment because you're that turned on and you know what what's wrong you can't do round two you know no maybe not maybe but yeah. Yeah, I mean. But sometimes people get caught up in their insecurities.
Right. And are embarrassed so they can't get a round two. Well, that's true. Well, first off, right off the bat, people we meet and people we shoot with and whatever, it's a no-judgment zone for us. It's definitely, no, it's, you know. Everybody's different. Everybody has their, you know, their strengths and maybe their shortcomings. Sure. And, you know, you can work within their comfort zone. It's not really an issue, at least with, you know, this particular thing is not an issue at all. Yeah. I mean.
Yeah, I mean mean we all have some level of insecurities i mean um early on the podcast there were some two individuals made comments about the show in reference to me that you know all i do is pick on myself and it's like oh he needs to get over it's like okay well i'd rather have you pick on yourself i have to be able to pick on myself before i can make jokes about somebody else that's true plain and simple if you can't laugh at yourself you shouldn't laugh at anyone else exactly and two i have my insecurities sure i deal with them you know i don't sit in the fetal position in the corner and cry too often not too often too often i've gotten over it um so for those of you who didn't like that, I mean, I've tried to curb that a lot, but whatever.
We all have some level of insecurity. You might not think so, but everybody has some level. Well, if you're, just by the fact that you. Might not be sexually, but you have a level. Oh, with something. Sure, we're human. There's going to be our shortcomings that, you know, you're just, you feel like you're not quite, you're substandard. You're not quite up to par. You're not quite, you know. I mean, I'd love to be, God, I'd love to be over five foot. If I was 5'2", just think of the things I could do. I could reach things on the top shelf. I wouldn't need a chair. Yeah, I know.
It'd be even easier be easier. You could do five, too, but your arms could be shorter. Oh, jeez. I didn't think about that. That'd be worse. You don't know. Yeah, you don't know. You know what? Be happy with what you have. That's it. It could be worse. You know, I want to be taller and God says, oh, you know what? I'm going to make you taller, but only on one side.
One leg is going to be taller and you know god says oh you know what i'm gonna make you taller but only on one side one leg is going to be longer well you want to be taller so you reach things but your arms are shorter so that you can't reach things anyway so that's terrible there was a one gentleman i knew from the cigar shop he had shorter shorter arms and there's a name for it but whatever yeah i don't know the medical terms for that you know just deal with what you're given yeah sometimes you just have to but life gives you lemons you make lemonade right i mean that's yeah all you can do um but like one of the most common insecurities i think for men is penis size right yes okay and in quite honesty we have met numerous guys who are endowed, but they have either, A, some performance issues, like they can't get fully hard, or B, they don't know what to do with it.
We've talked about that before, too. Some do know what to do with it. Sure, but that's all they can do. A lot of them can't eat pussy or know foreplay skills. No foreplay skills. Some of them, you know i mean they're just not all of them not all of them just you know not naming any particular but you know who you are now now you're right i'd rather have somebody who's maybe not quite as endowed but can do a lot of other things as better with oral. Maybe it's a good conversationalist. You can fix the deck. You can fix the deck. You know, you can cut the lawn occasionally.
The pool needs some skimming. I think I'm getting wet right now, just one of those things. I'm sopping wet. Oh, you just talked about, yeah, building the back walk, you know. I did that already. No, you said deck. That's different than the back walk. I built the back walk. Ah, but we had a friend of ours help us. You paid him back numerous times. Yes, I did. And he also paid me back too. But yeah, I mean, there's so many. You have to, and you've told me this with other things like with software. You have to look at things like as all your tools.
And what do you have in your toolbox and what things are you good at and what things are you're not quite so good at sure so either you you enhance the things that you're really good at and really focus on them or you take the things you're not so good at and maybe try to work on them as well and bring them up a little bit and another avenue to look at is okay um if a particular person i'm going to try to keep it generic whether you're a man or female put yourself in whatever position if somebody you played with tells you or lets you feel that you're not good at a certain aspect right that could just be what they think right that's true too and everything's very personal you know i mean i'm not a big fan of peas so i can sit there and go i don't really care for that that meal you made got peas in it but i guess i don't care for it where someone like you'd be like oh my god that was fucking incredible because you like peas i love peas so but so it's all subjective very subjective i agree so if you get into a situation where you're self-conscious about whatever you know somebody says you you're not good at oral right okay well find out you know try with other people if you can find out and maybe even ask someone tell me what you want me to do tell me what i'm missing see again communication is a huge part of that and helping helping you grow and maybe blossom and try to explore new things to help enhance what you feel are possibly your shortcomings but you can say that about life in general you know with anything not just you know sex but there was a young lady um that i photographed her numerous times and we hung out with her and she was made to feel very uncomfortable by a boyfriend early on in her years that she had very meaty pussy lips they were wonderful come on oh yeah i know you know um but she was made to feel bad about that and and i was like no you don't understand that's his opinion yeah i love big meaty pussy exactly you know especially you get the woman aroused you really know it you know it i mean those things were kissing me back at french i think they were french kissing i wouldn't be a bit surprised well there's things that you can modify enhance change build on but but there's things like you you're just stuck with i will never be five foot i will never be five hung up ones well that's like one of my things that i i know i'll never change but it's not a it's not something to be insecure about well no look at the general was here earlier he's like oh my god you're fun fun size oh no that wasn't derogatory no no i'm not saying i'm not saying it that way i'm just saying it could be just something that could be interpreted interpreted as a as a shortcoming as as it were no pun intended or something like that but there are things that are your physical attributes that you can't change and penis size is one of them breast size height you know a woman who build a woman who's a very loose pussy a loose pussy yeah she's had kids or whatever it's yeah it's it is what it is now can you tighten that up is that really a bad thing or do you just get bigger yeah i i i don't know i mean they always talk about kegel exercises and stuff i'm sure there's a certain degree but yeah but i mean you've passed you know a small basketball team through there i'm not saying had like you had one in there i'm saying passed one through it oh i see that's different yes i mean i i guess you can do things to you know work on them a little bit and and enhance them so you don't feel so insecure with them i i i don't think that's a bad thing making things a little better but there are just things that you may not be able to change and so you just have to be you just have to you know embrace it you know like me i'll use shortness just as an example i don't really find it you know it's it's a pain in the neck but i i'm not i don't really i actually think it gets you more positive attention than you realize yeah it's it's not but i mean living in the normal world everything is made slightly bigger than well if you're trying to go to walmart and get some off the top shelf it's tough but buying a car without a booster seat is almost impossible every car i have i have to put a little booster seat in it cushion a little cushion yeah i feel like a little kid and my feet are like never touching the bottom but i mean it's just something you have to live with and accept and love yourself for what it is because that's how you were made.
Sometimes you just have to, you know what? I can't change that. You can put me on the rack all you want as much as I love that. And being tied to that rack, stretch me. Oh, God. I mean... The last time I did that to you, you were like, don't drive through the car wash again. Oh, you're not talking to the roof rack. No, the roof rack, that's different. That was not nice. Thank you.
i mean last time i did that to you you were like don't drive through the car wash again oh you're not talking to the roof rack that's different that was not nice i was drowned with all these these brushes and that wasn't nice vince that was not nice yeah you were never cleaner no i was not a cleaner you didn't have to go get a Brazilian I got you the hot waxer hot wax you did not you were spot free I was I didn't streak but yeah I mean they're just things you just can't change it maybe that just shouldn't be something you should feel bad about because you just you can't and and I think we've mentioned this before too.
I find it very refreshing when you go to that house party that we've talked about a couple of times. A million times, yeah. And that there are people there that are not, most of the people there are not picture perfect. No. They're real people. They all have some level of fluff. Sure.
of them right you know there are a couple people that are in good shape and that's fine and um we don't hold that against them and not much yeah but yeah but they're comfortable in their skin that's the point they're still walking around naked and yeah you know it's And it's really refreshing yeah and having that that self-confidence instead of being you know down on yourself and feeling insecure that self-confidence is very sexy yeah i'll agree with that and even if the you're they're not perfect body types that exude so much sexual confidence that it's very alluring and it's very attractive sure yeah and like one of the reasons i've never been a fan of the clubs and stuff that you know we've been to some meet and greets and clubs um that they are a very i found it to be i'm not saying it's true for everyone.
My discovery has been that the people there tend to be very judgmental. Before you even do anything, they automatically size you up whether they don't know anything about your personality generally. They're just like, oh, he or she is not good-looking enough that I want to talk with them or be seen with them. Right, right. I mean, that's... Or they'll come over to you and talk, and as soon as I come in the picture, it's like, where'd they go? Yeah. The U.S. track team? They're gone. You know. Yeah.
So we try to surround ourselves with people that have positive body image or body, not just body image.
Self- yeah that's it's not be secure with yourself i mean i think body's one part of it but yes being in the in the lifestyle i think you have to um not only be secure with yourself but be secure if you're in a relationship be secure with what your partner looks like sure absolutely as as I i teach you to be that way we'll be on the right track i'm telling you it's just getting me to that point here it's gonna it's gonna take enough alcohol will do it um yeah okay you know and again that's where those parties i find very refreshing and you know um because everyone is there and judges everyone on their personality and everyone gets along everyone's great oh yeah everyone's very friendly so yeah we've been really lucky with that aspect yeah when you're eight to ten couples you know and everyone gets along and mingles to some level sure you know um some people are endowed some people aren't some people have, some people aren't.
Some people have hair, some people don't. And that goes wherever you want to put it. Wherever you want to put it. Head hair, not head hair, butt hair, I don't know. I didn't go that far. I can't look there. You scratch your head. That's of no real interest to me. Oh, you love long ass hair. Thank you.
oh you love long ass hair come on i tell you that every night when i tuck you in bed at night oh thank you i'm gonna get it you know i thought you're wearing i thought you're wearing a thong it's like no it's just her ass hair put little beads in it were they dingleberry oh yeah i went Yeah, went there anyway um but yeah no i think you know again if you're a premature jacket or if you have problems staying or getting hard or whatever there's ways around all of it you know and again in a very accepting group of other swingers right Thank you.
or whatever there's ways around all of it you know and again in a very accepting group of other swingers right they don't care no it's all about having fun yeah it's about the excitement of being with the person because they're a cool or good person or whatever exactly exactly i guess the thing is the bottom line is if just surrounding yourself with a a group of open-minded positive people is going to help with any kind of insecurities you might have about yourself because they're definitely going to deflect that you know they're definitely not going to that's not going to be a problem for them there's a you know the workaround they're not it's not going to be offensive to them you're not going to be browbeat by them or pushed off to the side or segregated or whatever word you want to use or put down so surrounding yourself with these positive people i think is going to make your experience in life better hopefully you know i'm just you know i'm not even talking sexual and i'm just talking in life in general we try to um surround ourselves people who are positive if a negative person comes in we tolerate them for a while then when it becomes when it creates drags us down yeah start to drag us down into a negative realm we're like that's it we cut them off we're like no that person's negative we don't need them in our life yeah yeah it's um yeah and again if you're looking for one of those kinds of atmospheres my suggestion to you is and whatever swinger site you may belong to try to discover who some of the members are and see if you can meet them prior to a party And get a feel from them what the group is like what the parties are like yes you don't step into and you're also not going to a party where you know nobody oh that's true too you know meet for go get drinks or dinner whatever and you know establish that that's actually a good idea i mean we've been fortunate with this party that we knew people but we have been to other meet and greets and stuff were whether meet and greet so you probably don't know anybody and it's been very awkward and kind of uncomfortable meeting and weren't very greeting yeah it was it was just wasn't a good experience for us and i think a few we've been to were not good yeah but that's our that's our experience yeah that's true We're not saying you're going to have that experience?
No, I think because it was not a good experience, it kind of taints, if I can use that word without you snickering, it taints every other meet and greet that way. I'm really hurt. You're more mature than that? You'd think that I would make fun of taint. Because you would. Because you... You know, you have me right in the middle here. Right, right. You know, you have me between two important things. Yes. You know? Yes.
If I turn the wrong way i'm an asshole you turn the other way you're a pussy so but you are what you eat well i've heard that many times but uh no try to meet someone from the group if you can that does make sense don sense. And again, don't feel, you know, one, you go to a party, you're not forced to stay. That's true. You can have a drink and say hello and be like, oh, look at the time. My dog is having his appendix out tomorrow. I got to go. Or whatever your excuse might be. And again, generally the groups that we're aware of, there's a write-up on what's expected in the group.
You know, you don't go to a party that's a BDSM party if you're not really into BDSM. If it's a foot fetish party and you're not into feet, you might not like it. You might be a redneck. Well, how would a person find out? The different groups. Whoever the moderator of the group is will sit there. like ours is called Fifty Shades of Pleasure just like the magazine and in the write up it tells you it's a BDSM type group you know that it's very respectful and it's very light on the BDSM yeah some days it days it is. Yeah, yeah. But the parties seem to be more ebb and flow. People use the...
Our parties anymore seem to be more social gatherings. You know, again, as we're all getting older and these parties happen later at night, we're all like, when's a paratransit bus here?
Oh, come on, it's not that bad but yeah i think because in this circumstance this is just a little aside here that everybody knows each other so much the excitement of sex i mean they see each other on other excursions they go scuba diving together so sex happens whenever so at the parties for them for this is the inner sanctum of the group for them it's a social event they're there to moderate the party to be more host hostess and and play and dabble you know but they're not it's it's not hardcore sex for them in my observation so that's an that's a just a different dynamic which is fine you you know, but it's just different in their, this point of view.
Yeah. So, and, and again, you know, I think we've touched probably more on male insecurities. Yeah. But like, what about female insecurities? That's what I'm saying. Women have, you know, again, I think women get more jealous over another woman with a better body than they have. Oh, okay.
I can no you know it's um personality goes a lot further i think personality goes a long way or um because you know i've met plenty of beautiful women some of them you know are nice and everything else but half of them don't want to give you time of day you know they're looking for a certain what yeah certain something right you know the the average woman is generally a better um what's the word i don't want to say conquest um is a better um playmate no not even necessarily i mean i mean i i've had countless long conversations with women and stuff at these parties um that it's just joy right far more enjoyable across the board that's i guess what i want to say whether it goes to the play or stays, you know, in the lounge and you sit there and talk.
Right. You know. Right. You know, and we have women that have perfect breasts. We have women that have. More naturally. Yeah. Have the natural slope. Natural slope. I don't want to be derogatory. Yeah. You know, they're natural breasts. Right. You know, small, big, in between, whatever. Right, right. You know, some women have great butts. Some people have average butts. Right. You know, whatever. But it's the person. That does make a difference. There's one thing I thought about. It doesn't really pertain to me per se.
Do you think women would be more insecure with seeing another woman that could handle a bigger cock or suck dick all the way down to the root without gagging? I can't do that. I'm gagging all over the place. You do pretty well. You can get a lot of dick in your mouth. Really? I always feel like even tonight I had a play made over, and even though I was sucking him, I was like, God, I kept hitting that gag reflex. My eyes are watering. Maybe your body goes, okay, we're going to let you have it in the ass now, but you're not going to get as much in your mouth. I don't know.
One of the holes had to give up. Is that how that worked? I'm guessing. I don't know.
I don don't know he must have been very excited because he came in my mouth which is fine i enjoyed that very much quickly yeah you know some some days you're you're all geared up and other days you're it takes a little bit so he must have been primed and ready to go which is fine by me i was i had i had fun a lot of fun sure i guess getting back to the insecurity i wonder if that could be an insecurity i mean i would love to be able to handle bigger cocks you handle some pretty big things here oh for someone you're bitching about your height you almost deal with dicks as big as you.
Sometimes, but sometimes I have to like stretch and practice. But sometimes, sometimes it's a matter of how fired up you are. Oh, that's huge. There's times you're more into it. Right. And then there's times like, I really don't want to, you know, I'm not in the mood to play, but we set up the date. Yeah, sometimes your energy level's in there. I'm always like. You know, honestly, we do it with the podcast. Yes, I do.
There's times like, oh man, I really don't want to do the podcast i'm not just not don't have the energy i'm just not in that gear right other days you're like i'm stuck in reverse you know we all have days like that and uh yeah we all do for everything you know you wake up and it's like i don't want to go to work you know but i don't want to wake up can i just lay in bed yeah but But, so it's you know the whole and again this young guy who's here good looking guy appears to be in good shape everything else he was all you know insecure he was gonna like barely get a zipper down and be popping that's not a big deal well not for this girl it, now, in all fairness, this guy just came out of a multi-year relationship.
He's been alone for six months, just trying to get his head back on straight and just joined the swinging site. We're the first people he contacted. Wow. Well, no, he contacted others, but none with good results. Oh, I see. We're the first ones that corresponded back to him and the first ones he met. Right. So, you know, he's a little, it's like, oh my God, this is going to happen or it could happen, you know? If he would have stayed longer, it would have happened. Yeah. Gave me the opportunity. Yep, we did. Hey, he would have stayed. But that's okay. I'm not going to.
I don't want somebody to feel like they're being pressured into anything. Sure. I mean, like you do with me. Oh, I pressure you into so many things. You will have sex with me tonight. Not that again. Didn't we do this last month? Has it been a quarter of a year already? It's not your birthday not i'm sorry i'll try not to be so so aggressive demanding with you i promise but uh no i mean a large portion i think of people people in the lifestyle don't have too many of those hang-ups. No, I don't think so.
But people in the lifestyle, again, we've talked about instances we've had, can make you have that. Yes. You know, like we're touching on. I mean, we've talked about the couple we went to dinner with and everything was going well. There was no intention of any playing going on. And we walked out to the parking lot. Everything was fine. He came over, shook my hand, gave Donna a hug and a kiss. She went over, gave Donna a hug and a kiss, and then walked away. Yep, just dissed you totally. It's like, good night, bye, see ya, hasta luego, whatever. It's like, really? Be polite.
I don't expect you to kiss me or give me a reach around. Yeah, exactly. Just shake my hand. Be polite. You don't want to hug me or kiss me. Fine. I'm cool with that. You know, shake my hand. But not. She didn't even talk to me. Nope. Turned and walked. That was total disrespect. That's one thing that really burns me up. You know, have respect.
You not this may a person may not be somebody that you would want to play with but have respect yep yeah that's that's the i that should be your motto throughout life be respectful you don't have to agree with everybody on every single topic every single time but be respectful yeah you know if you don't respect or if you don't like what they're saying or like what they do or like how they look say nothing just walk away i just but you don't need to have that interaction doesn't need to be negative if someone comes up to you at a party and they ask if you want to go play or whatever um and you don't right don't just go fuck no oh no i mean like you do to me i do all the time um no i mean Peace.
whatever um and you don't right don't just go fuck no oh no i mean like you do to me i do all the time um no i mean you know be respectful be like oh i'm sorry like you know i was talking with someone's over there and we're supposed to go play right come on something be nice don't yeah don't shatter whoever it is his dream male or female right right i've you know never been in that situation so i don't know why how i would react that's why i don't like being in that situation i don't like being put on the spot like i don't want to be mean to somebody i don't want to well if we're at a house party you would say and somebody is arrogant like it's the first time there now they're not doing anything wrong that they get kicked out of right there's But there's someone that doesn't click with you.
Right. You sit there and go, like, oh, no, not really. But he comes over to you and is like, you know, hey, how about you and I go play? You're like, uh.
You know, if you take a ticket, I'm open at, like, 2 tonight, and I'm leaving at 1.30 yeah that's still putting him on the spot I don't know what I would do just sit there and go listen I would love to you know I've had a couple other people who asked me before you and I have to I have to spend my time with them and then I'll see where I stand and maybe we can get together something like that yeah you know don't be don't ruin someone else's fucking ego that makes sense no hell didn't freeze over yet we know some people like that they just kind of mace doesn't work it's not good you know no it's an aphrodisiac for me, but...
We've been over that. Yes, we have. I'm getting cut. But anyway, so that, I mean, that's, I think we killed that topic. You know, just try not to have your insecurities. Right. Easier said than done. Easier said than done, for sure. Again, don't put yourself in an environment that you're going to be uncomfortable.
Yeah, that your insecurities might really make the situation worse yeah surround yourself with positive people with positive influences and that are that are there to lift you up not tear you down and that's again easier said than done in any um part of your life, you're going to be good people and there's going to be assholes. So unfortunately, you have to sort through the assholes to get to the good people. So that's what I would tell you to do. And when you find them, then have fun. Yeah. Life's short. Have an orgasm. That should be on a t-shirt. I can make that. I know you could.
Be on one of those etsy yeah life is short have an orgasm have orgasms oh my god so but anyway so again i want to thank everyone for the start of our third season wow that is amazing yeah and uh so we we will talk to you later this week alright everybody have a good night
