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Hi, this is Donna Lynn and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast, where we discuss all the good, good the bad and the really erotic of the swinger lifestyle hello everybody that's the old opening i forgot to upload it okay he screwed up about the wonderful husband today no no i was like i'm listening to him like what happened to the other opening so nice i didn't put it in the board i still have it in the computer so i will fix that later that leaves things open for so many things later i told you later yeah three years later you know can't nail me down yeah that way it keeps it very ambiguous and i can't say you said you were going to yeah you said later you can see how much later well you know a year from now this is later it is later too much later oh well that's fine that's fine i don't matter to you you're just finding out thanks I feel so special I am sending a future playmate videos of me is that what I sent him video okay I'm just sending him the podcast like so okay cool very nice to it so again you had another little play session today yes I did it was a lot of fun process of setting up one for tomorrow oh uh tomorrow wednesday is it wednesday okay yeah wednesday not tomorrow that's right it's wednesday okay yeah see that's later yep okay that's later good check your calendar i mean yeah that's what i mean okay no today's play date was actually a lot of fun.
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We were in the studio with his old twin bed, his storage, and we were just like, oh, let's just fuck on his old twin bed it's kind of bouncy i've forgotten how bouncy it is it's firm no no it's it's firm it'll bounce yeah it doesn't give in okay i guess you can put your tits they don't bounce they bounce a little bit more than i would like but okay whatever yeah but it was kind of funky trying to fuck on this little bed but it was fine but the part i can announce oh what part is that is the email you can still email us at the old email but the new email is info at hotwifepodcast.com okay gotta make a new one can't be happy with the old one well i had a client tell me that some of his clients bitched that he was using a Gmail account.
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The gentleman we were just talking with that we'll meet on Wednesday, he's like, he says, now I'm stroking it because when I'm high i'm horny i hear that so much that's well i have to write that down and that should be for a podcast what things maybe you did talk about it what kind of things make you horny you know a lot of guys smoking pot makes them really horny all right yeah does alcohol make you horny you don't smoke pot yeah yeah to some degree you know um pot kind of uh mellows me out i don't say it makes me horny it just makes me more compliant you know so i i just the only thing is if it's a certain kind of pot i get really bad cotton mouth then it just sucks because really okay maybe it doesn't suck because like you're trying to suck somebody's dick or whatever your mouth is all cotton never had that problem yeah or eat somebody's pussy and your mouth is all got cotton mouth is like yeah that's my only like downfall with certain kinds of medical marijuana so but it's all good it's all good so today's topic should i introduce that sure i'll give it a shot um it's how porn or sex has driven the uh technology technology yes the invention of technology how it pushed them forward There's even other things though before we get into the actual the technical that's easy for me to say technological side of it and there's it seems like everything that was invented if you were a horny person you ended up using it for sex and the one i'm thinking of is cars simple cars you know where they're you know you're driving to go from point a to point b and all of a sudden you know horny couples like hey you know we can fuck in the back of this so it's just like so many things that have come out and invented the mattress we can fuck on this we can fuck on this they invented condoms we can fuck i can put this on my dick no i meant things that weren't intended for sex birth control pill you could take this and not get pregnant, we can fuck with this.
I can put this on my dick. No, I meant things that weren't intended for sex. Birth control pill? You could take this and not get pregnant. We can fuck now. Yeah. No. Okay. I was just thinking about the car, I'm sure. Sure. Some of these inventions, they're like, oh, they had a more pristine view of how they're going to be used. And of course, horny people are like, nope, we're going to use it for fucking. Well, you know. Someone invented the carrot after they got done eating. It's like, hey. Hey. You know where this can go? No. I bought a big ring bologna, like a half of one.
It's curved, and it's real big. I was gooping with my niece with it. I'm like, oh, I really miss mying with my niece with it i'm like oh i really miss my old boyfriend you could have said your husband i don't wait she knows no no no no my niece knows who you are that would be very inappropriate but it's not like she's seen me naked no me right under the fucking family bust didn't you at the family bust jesus christ i'm only joking it doesn't remind me anything of my ex-boyfriend shut up it was a really big ring baloney too it had just a nice curve it was it was too.
You're enjoying that, right? It was actually way too big. Okay. If you put it in one end, it's not. You don't go sideways. Yeah, okay. Thank you. Anyway, so the technology has really... Porn has really pushed technology forward. The sex industry, put it that way. Sex industry, sure. I mean, it's not all just porn, but just people's need for sex. Porn has been obviously a big, big part of it. Yeah, a huge part of it. Absolutely. Like one of the first ones that came about really was, you know, I actually heard originally was the LaserDisc.
Because, I mean, they only were around for as long as they were apparently because porn embraced them. Right. Because at the time, you either had to have 8-millimeter film, which is really kind of hard to set that up with a goddamn screen in your living room or your bedroom.
you can't be very covert you know and um it was hard to fast forward to the part you wanted to get to you had to watch a whole fucking thing um you know from experience yeah um but um yeah so the laser just came about and then you know that was around for not a long time but then vhs and beta came out and the reason i was told i cannot verify nor deny i don't see that in my research so okay well then you can tell us what you have but vhs won out over beta because porn embraced vhs not beta oh i knew there was some kind of a reason for the whole beta vhs yeah we always had a vhs for i never had a beta player so no never had i don't know if it was better or worse i know they were smaller i couldn't even tell you i don't even know okay so what does your homework tell you my homework tells me that's kind of interesting um let's see here oh cable television there was uh there was regular cable but there was a show i don't know this show at all so forgive me i don't know this one it was called the ugly george hour of truth sex and violence nope never heard of it and uh yeah the pornography helped establish cable as a consumer medium uh You know, they said 13 episodes later, subscriptions went from 100,000 to over 300,000 because it was all sex-based.
I mean, how many people, you know, want to watch movies and wait for the little warning that says smoking, violence, nudity. Yep, we're watching. We're right there. It's like book covers. Oh, yeah. The more sexuality in a book cover, the more, you know. I have more books with Fabio in the cover. Of course you do. God, he's so ripped. I stalled. He's so gorgeous.
Long flowing hair just blowing in the breeze those pecs those muscles do you need a minute alone i'm done you're done because i don't have a big ring baloney i'm just saying i know i know what you're saying i don't have a big ring baloney i don't even want a ring baloney but it was it was fun to goof with my knees she's old enough that i can goof with her that's fine it's cool uh a cool one that definitely makes sense we're going back to all the vhs and stuff the vcr definitely was propelled into it was really tough to play vhs tapes if you didn't have a vhs yeah vcr um it you could have all the porn you wanted here you have all the porn you wanted if you couldn't play just tapes yep didn't have vcr yep you have a lot of tapes i have a lot of tapes but they said it never would have gotten off the ground if it wasn't for the adult industry pushing it forward you know like like you said i mean yeah again i think what you're getting at without saying it was also the whole vhs versus beta right oh that could be too i didn't i never heard that one yeah i know but i i never um i never knew that porn liked one than the other i've never well they did both but there was far more availability on uh vhs than there was in beta yeah i never i never knew that yeah interesting huh see yeah learn something new every day there you go you know you're done for the day i'm done okay that's it i'm done I'm out of here.
Porn also pushed the explosion of the internet. Oh, sure. They have the dates here, like, really early, like, late 70s. I wasn't even computers. Well, what they're- In early 80s? I think what they're probably counting as the early internet was the old BBS, the bulletin board systems. Ah. You know, where it wasn't a graphic interface like you see today right it was again i was on that in the 80s yeah late 80s um and you know it was very dos driven again show my age yeah for sure and um yeah so it was very so you didn't know it would would have a text description, and you couldn't get video.
It was only stills. You downloaded stills. Like you would go to a site, and you'd buy credits, and you'd see a description, you know, hot blonde masturbating. You go, okay, so you spend a credit or whatever to buy that picture.
It would take six years to six years to download oh my god and then you find out that she's not really masturbating well you don't know the hot blonde was 375 pounds and and you know and had more hair on her crotch than you know larry the three stooges again showing your age oh my god yeah that would that would be awful so with the invent of the whole graphic interface i mean porn just probably that's exploded with that because it's all visual based well you know you start having videos and pictures and you know audio again, it's sort of like you're experiencing now with all you sex toys.
You know, now you don't have to go to an adult bookstore. Yeah, you can just. You know, and that goes where there's a sex toy or a video or whatever. Whatever. You know, you don't have to go out and have the neighbor see you leaving the, you know, the sex store with a big fist dildo, you know. Oh, come on. I only did that once. It was a present. It wasn't for me. It was a present. Yeah. That's why I had it monogrammed with your initials. Well, okay. Thanks. I feel so better now. I feel much better. You know, now the internet has provided so much.
I mean, as far as you can find easier what you want. I mean, swingers. Back before the internet, swingers used to connect through publications. There was a lot of questions.
it so much i mean as far as you can find easier what you want i mean swingers back before the internet well swingers used to connect through publications it was like a newsprint magazine you had to put an ad in there and you would have a box number and what would happen is you would respond to that box you didn't get the address these people right exactly you'd see that oh so-and-so lives in a town near you okay i'd see okay they live in the next town over and you go okay i want to so you have to respond to that you know snail mail it in snail mail it in and then hopefully they would get you know they would respond to your box number to you and you know you may or may not meet it must have taken months for people to get together i mean it took some work yeah you send a oh do you send a picture i guess you send a picture along with your it depends i mean i you know your letter it's like being having a sexy pen pal you know i wasn't a swinger at that time but i remember i remember seeing them in the back i remember finding some you know uh like when i was doing land surveying a hundred years you know you know like little kids always find you know dirty magazines out in the woods well we were in a we were surveying a property and there was a thing full of magazines and one of them was one of these swinger magazines and i took it and i was like looking through it right and it's like how the fuck's this work um i had no idea yeah that, but now, you know, you can check out people's pictures.
You can respond to them right away. You can block them. You can, can you unblock me, by the way? Well, yeah, maybe, maybe. Well, to make this go one step further, and I know I'm probably doing this a little out of order according to my research, but that's okay because it's kind of like on a roll here. Now I can have like virtual sex with people. Like I have people that do webcams with me. The whole webcam industry just jumped, you know. I don't have to leave my house. I believe that is on your list. It is, but it's later. The live streaming and the thing. But it's bottom, it's below this.
So, yeah, I mean, it just makes sense that you go from the visual from type and and bulletin boards to and pictures to pictures and videos and now it's interactive even back up a little bit more where it went from chat rooms you go into a chat room yeah and you just sit there and type to now it's virtual i mean it's you know it's a cam camming with each other yeah you know so they can see you you can see them if you want to if you want to sometimes you don't want to i mean i think that was originally set out for business purposes the whole like zoom more of a business but again porn just says hey you know what i could be jerking off to watch this young lady play with herself or watch two people have sex or whatever as much as people want to put down the sex industry porn or whatever you want to call it sure it has done more for technology i think than you know not that zoom is an example i'm not saying them in particular but just using them as an example exactly you know not that that couldn't have been successful but that technology is what i'm looking at i'm going to sneeze here i was going to sneeze and the sex industry just made it take off because okay all done um yeah they embrace that technology right exactly and people have just blossomed with it oh yeah i just think there's a whole lot of horny people they're very motivated i think everybody i'd like to think everybody gets horny uh to some degree to some degree that would be nice to that would be nice to think about you know i mean it's it's kind of titillating to be horny you know that kind of makes you.
Makes you feel alive. Yeah. You get that tingly, ooh, I just. It's like I've said before, I enjoy bad dreams. I don't like bad dreams. I do. I wake up and I feel alive. I feel very frightened. Yeah, but you feel alive. I just feel skittish. It's like I'm looking around doors like, oh, my God, is he going to jump out and knife me? When you realize it's a dream. Yeah, but somehow, and this is off topic, sorry, but sometimes those bad dreams just kind of sit in your crawl. It kind of flavors the whole rest of the day for me, kind of. Well, you really read too much into it.
Oh, no, because sometimes dreams, I wish my sexy dreams were this good, but usually those horror dreams are more potent like you wake up and you think you're still in it and you you're looking behind doors you're checking you know no i'm uh i kind of carry it into my waking hours which kind of sucks um you might need to get help some people think so and you're one of them all right i'm, I'm just going to go see. I'm the president of the group. I'm not just a member of Donna Needs Help. I founded it. You founded it. I'm the president of Donna Needs Help. Okay, sorry. Well, I have the proof.
You married me. Yeah, that's quite true. Anyway, so, and in that genre, high-speed internet that's one high speed internet that's one i mean dial-up just wasn't fast enough do you mean you better be able to edge for a long time back in the days of dial-up do you remember in the early days we were back at the the first very very first office we were in we were doing some kind of a webcam thing you were typing for me and it was like it was dial-up it's like and then it would disconnect it was awful I don't miss those days. No, I don't miss that at all.
Of course, I miss the days of no cell phones.
You know, they have been a, again, the sex industry or the, yeah yeah the sex industry has embraced them too you can well anything is mobile you know it's like hey i want to check out a video or i want to chat with somebody or i want to about the 900 numbers oh the 900 numbers yeah see the old phone things now you don't need that well they still i i'm guessing they still have mean i haven't seen an adult magazine in 100 years no i mean so um but i'm guessing there's gotta be still some i mean that's gotta be some people's fetish still is over the phone um yeah maybe because some people do like that the audio version they like the voice but you get that with video i mean you get both so sometimes but everyone has a fetish dear yeah everybody does have a fetish and we haven't seen a lot i mean yeah you know they want to see or maybe they don't maybe just want to hear the voice that have their own imagination of what you look like that's true that's true i know that makes sense i mean like jay says i have a sexy voice oh you do she saw what i looked like she'd be throwing up oh stop it she would not she might run away she's a stronger stomach than that oh my god she'd be happy she was far away stop it stop just stop just stop okay you're you're being very silly now let's move on with don't make me tell the vince story oh go i think you've already said the vince story just stop it along with all this other stuff with um that the sex industry has helped to embrace and push forward is the online payment systems uh god i'm trying to remember like what they were like back in the day you know now there's uh of course there's venmo and there's all these other ones paypal and you know whatever to make payments and then all these websites that you can download videos or or do webcams with they have their own system of of payment so yeah they just push that forward and all the encrypting and i mean they they had to really um embrace all the security aspects because there's a lot of money changing hands in the back in the day when we were trying to build adult websites and stuff you know the nightmare we went through getting credit card processing oh that.
And again, the security on the sites. There was probably more people trying to hack adult sites than the bank. Oh yeah, than anything else. I don't know why people would do that, but they do. Yeah, so this just helped. They embraced it. They used it. They refined it. They made it more secure.
Yeah, and all the other industries have kind of like fallen into suit you know after the sex industry said hey this is going to work for us we're going to we're going to polish it we're going to really make it work yeah because it's something that's going to make us more money so everybody else kind of like follows suit right after that um yeah it talks about here again with the streaming content like hulu and stuff and live video chats and stuff faster broadband like you said before the internet speeds are much faster and this is all due to the sex industry that's crazy not just the sex industry i think helped oh i think it was a cat drive it more yeah you know it's it's a it's a known fact that yeah the porn industry sex industry whatever you want to call it um once it embraces something it generally flourishes yeah there's a lot of people that are interested in it and there's a lot of i i think people this might sound really stupid i think horny people are really very motivated people they're motivated to spend money because they're horny.
They want their fix. They want to, you know, see their fetish or whatever that is. Yep. So backing up a bit, we have all this internet stuff. The sex industry also pushed forward just digital cameras, you know, back in the day. Yeah, it was Polaroid. Oh, before, long before that. I have an old magazine upstairs.
It's, I think, for the back of the day this yeah it was polaroid oh before long before that i have an old magazine upstairs it's i think for the back of the day and it was it was written back in the 20s 1920s it would be considered porn and there's like naked pictures of women but they're not they're not provocative i'll show it to you and go upstairs but i'm sure all those cameras back in the 1920s were certainly not digital cameras we have today and no they had you know you had to develop you had to do your own film that's right but what i'm saying is i mean polaroids probably existed was probably another great invention for the it's instantaneous the sex industry but it's just porn yeah um i you know i mean when i said professional porn always used photographers with their own developing exactly but, you know, and then once the digital cameras came out, I mean, look now.
I mean, we have such a problem with cell phones with kids taking pictures and sending them to each other. Yeah, exactly. You know, so obviously, I mean, the cell phone cameras is obviously one of the greatest innovations more recently. more recently, um, that, uh, you know, people were sending pictures to each other, to people that cheat on, whatever, you know, and, um, you know, so. Yeah. Cause it's a, I know when you and I were starting our first, uh, website, we were, we had pictures and they weren't, they were provocative.
I, I, they weren't,'s some hardcore stuff there was some dildo insertion and stuff yeah i don't really call it yeah that's hardcore if it's penetration it's hardcore okay but we there's only certain um developers that would develop our film remember that not not all of them would because of the content and that was one thing you had to think about it's like oh i've got to go these pictures now if i don't develop them by myself i gotta take them to some place and they might be offended or you know or whatever so we only had a certain plate uh certain places well the ironic part is people that i used to take my videos my film to right be developed right they are devout baptists oh really, really?
But part of their belief is, we want your money. So they developed it. Yeah, they developed it. Just don't look at it. Don't look at it. Yeah, obviously, if there was something that was illegal, which there wasn't, then they would have probably flagged it and not been arrested, but nothing was illegal. No, no. But that's, I remember back in those days, the hoops we had to jump through, you know, just being, just trying to do our thing.
So, yeah, it's amazing how things have, in history, have evolved from, you know, I'm sure once they made moving pictures, you know, that probably the second movie shot was a porn maybe you know maybe or something sexy i mean yeah have to figure for the day i i do remember seeing some old oh this is before talkies i mean guys still wearing their black socks and they they would try to put like a black box over your eyes so people would know who you were or some nonsense like that. We should just make up sunglasses with a black piece of black crap paper over it.
It's, like, easier than me editing the video. Yeah, a whole lot easier. Or just get a piece of, like, wax paper and put it on a headband over the face. It really blurs it out.
Yeah out but i think you have to cut out a hole so you can still you know i can still suck somebody's dick or they can use their mouth on me that would be hysterical if they have a mask just wax paper wax paper blur mask that's funny yeah i hear something interesting that um the sex industry kind of pushed into the forefront um it was um there was a system that asked for payment and then lets viewers only see a certain amount of it so they paid more which just like the people like yeah like the peep moves except more digital yep yeah that's oh. I didn't know they did that digitally, but.
Maybe it might. I've never, on all the sites that I'm on, I don't see that. We have previews. I'm not aware of that one at all. No, I was just reading. I'm like, that's pretty interesting. I don't know that. Yeah, that's all I have for my stuff. Any other ones? We've done 31 minutes already. Oh my gosh, yeah. It's interesting how an industry that is, in some circles, very frowned upon has actually done more to embrace and rocket the tech industry into the next century. Well, let's not be shy about it. It's all driven by money. Sure.
And, you know, the adult industry is like, okay, how can we, you know, as one technology is dying, one system is dying, we need to pick something else up. What's cutting edge?
Any good business is like, okay, we need to stay stay on the forefront what can we do to beat our competition yeah you know and the sex industry isn't just one company right it's like so they're all trying to you know beat the other ones out that's crazy you know they probably even had some kind of um uh even back in i'm talking like before turn of the century 16th century and back then they were like painting painting porn there's probably porn that was on like you know the cave the caveman well there's um um in egypt some of the hieroglyphics are have people having intercourse and stuff yeah see.
See, it's been around forever. Let's just put it this way, you know. Let's not try to admit people don't like fucking. People do. I do. I think it's fun. Obviously. It doesn't hurt too bad. No, it doesn't hurt too bad. Well, sometimes I'm a little so afterwards, but that's a whole other story. That's with this big ring baloney. The ring baloney. All right. Thanks.
Well, our next show, I'll be a year well our next show i'll be a year older oh you'll be a year older oh oh is it i know it's this wednesday this wednesday coming up so quick march 27th ah can't wait to see what you got me the camera i know asshole that's what i'm saying i can't wait to see it when it gets here. Yeah, a new camera. I can't wait because we'll be able to do some really fun things with it, I think. I'm hoping. I'm hoping. Yeah, I think it's going to be a good time. It's a smaller one. I think it's going to have a better. A built-in gimbal.
Yeah, see, I think it's going to be great. It won't kill your back. Hopefully. Yeah, I think it's going to be fun. So with fun so with that yeah thank everyone for listening and uh you know again tell your friends all right have a great day have a great night everybody I'll see you next time.