It can be a confusing and overwhelming experience when you start to develop feelings for someone you have only ever played with. You may find yourself questioning the authenticity of these emotions and wondering if they are genuine or just a result of the intense physical and emotional connection that comes with playing. It is important to consider the implications of acting on these feelings and how it could potentially change the dynamics of your relationship. One must also take into account the potential risks and consequences that may arise from pursuing a romantic relationship with someone they have played with. It is crucial to communicate openly and honestly with the other person about your feelings and intentions, as well as to listen to and respect their perspective. It may also be helpful to take some time to reflect on your own emotions and understand where they are coming from. Are they a fleeting infatuation or do they stem from a deeper connection and understanding of the person beyond the play? Additionally, it is important to consider the boundaries and expectations set within the play dynamic and how they may need to be redefined or adjusted if a romantic relationship is pursued. Ultimately, it is up to the individuals involved to decide what is best for them and their relationship, but clear and open communication, self-reflection, and respect for boundaries are key in navigating this potentially delicate situation.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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well hello everybody how do you like our new opening you didn't know that vince was a songwriter and has a band and neither did he a man of many talents i call my band ai yep well welcome to the show everybody i am donna lynn and i am not and thank god for that that's all i can say anyways i'm definitely here with my wonderful, smart-ass husband, Vince. Hey. Once again. Should I be offended by that? No, you're always a smart-ass, and you know that. Okay, just checking. Yeah, he's just always like that. Yeah, I'm not sure I'd like your disclaimer as much as I liked the last one.
Yeah, I've got to redo it. Yeah. What did you say? You need to drink drink more? Is that? Yeah, I was sober. It's just awful. You need to. I do not contone the use of alcohol. I was in the middle of the day. I was working on a bunch of stuff. I was like, oh, shit, let me quick redo that. And then, yeah, so I wasn't like, I think when I did the first one, I was a little more mellow. So I was like, this podcast is. I have to think of Jay.
and Jay it's it's you like my voice do you have a sexy part those thighs jay you're just so wrong on so many levels oh my god stop that yes now she's into that stuff more now yeah see expanding your horizons that's what this show's all about something like that and we're closing on between something but yeah so we had a surprise uh email today yes from a publicist you know we had a few um great guests uh a month or a couple months ago yeah it was susan and then uh dr lloyd i thought it's elliot yeah that's like i said dr elliot and another publicist reached out to us with a ton of people that are related to kind of our topics that could be of interest.
And so we are going to look like in the near future, if they're willing to risk their reputations in our business, we'll have some guest callers or whatever, and it'll be a good time.
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I had to go there. You had to go there. So check out the magazine. It's free. Available on all digital formats, your computer, your phone, your tablet. You know, share it with a friend. So we're just trying to spread some of the wealth. I'm not sure where I'm going to get the money from it. I don't even know what you're getting at. But, yes, we're just spreading the joys of being swingers. Yeah, all the different topics and this is a little different. This is a little more professional than just Vince and I yakking about them, you know. Yeah.
It has a little more, it's a little more nicer presentation. Yeah, we have some new contributors coming on board. Yes, yes. We have two accomplished psychologists coming on board. They're going to start giving us articles in reference to psychology of swinging and sex and BDSM. Both of them are, well, actually, they're both married to other people. But they are each other's lovers inside the BDSM world, swinging too, obviously. So they're going to get into supposedly some of the psychology of people and thought processes maybe or whatever. It's beyond my grade, pay grade.
So about, you know, so it should be a really interesting read. I think it should be really interesting, sure. Yeah, it should be cool. So with that, tonight's topic is?
Oh, what to do if you think you're falling in love with a playmate i've never experienced this but i'm there are a lot of people who have we hear about it all the time not all the time but frequently i think the first step would be to determine is it love or infatuation sure absolutely there's a big difference oh the huge difference and sometimes they i think when you get into the throes of the excitement and the passion of being with somebody new and somebody who floats your boat and i'm sorry it's my phone i don't know what it's doing but i didn't hear it but it's making some noise here but yeah it's really easy to think that you're in love with them when you're really not yeah i mean i've seen some um videos labeled like you know wife gets her first big cock and leaves husband for him afterwards it's like is that really necessary does that really i mean again there's so much in in the adult movie stuff that is just fabricated titles to sell to sell so but um but i'm sure it but I'm sure it could happen.
Well, I think with something like that, they want to tie in the whole big cock thing and the humiliation and the whole bull thing. And yeah, I could have happened. Sure. It could happen. But again, if you leave your significant other for a better orgasm or a bigger dick, you have more problems with your relationship.
I'll never do that never do that well thank you i feel so much more secure in our relationship i don't want my women to have bigger dicks than me it's a rule of mine and that's a rule we stand by god damn it if they have a smaller dick than me that means they're a woman oh i don't even want to go there it's just i just don't want to go there i just don't want to go there oh but um yeah rule of thumb for me personal belief penis not a woman but that's me you're entitled to believe what you want to believe yep yep you know if it works for you god bless you.
Yeah, but leaving a significant other for somebody else is your relationship. I mean, I would equate it to going out to a restaurant for the first time. You could go there and have your first meal, be incredible. Like, oh my God, that's great. I only want to eat there. Right, right. Try to compare every meal to that meal.
But the next you go there it's like it was okay you know and it could be that way with if you go play with somebody and it's like oh my god that was so fucking erotic well generally not all the time right generally the first time you play with someone is very erotic because it's all new it's all new right right which can actually can be very erotic or it could be very awkward sometimes when i'm playing with a person for the first time it's okay it's usually the second and third time that it gets better it depends yep it depends it absolutely does sometimes all the gears mesh and you can have that erotic situation where sometimes it's like okay we need this two three times like the first time wasn't bad you know we struggled a little bit to get it in the gear but we got there the logistics weren't quite working out but all of a sudden you get to know each other a little bit better in the third time or whatever right all of a sudden it's like yeah now we're rocking yeah now so so with that i mean like i said using the restaurant analogy is it's infatuation more than love oh yeah i i agree yeah because the guy the person could be In the next video, we'll see, using the restaurant analogy is it's infatuation more than love.
Oh, yeah, I agree. Yeah, because the person could be incredibly good looking. The sex might have been incredible. Are you talking about yourself again? Always. Yeah, I'm talking about having sex with myself. Ooh. I know how to eat my hand. My hand is incredible. Gives me everything I want. Yeah, I'm sure it does, honey. Go with that. One hand strokes, the other one smacks my ass. Oh, you're such a bad boy. I didn't see that one coming. Smack my ass a little harder, would you? No. Oh, please.
boy oh i didn't see that one coming smack my ass a little harder would you no beg oh please you almost have to be schizophrenic to have multiple personalities to do that and the problem with that is what oh nothing nothing with nothing is wrong with that at all i didn't know what those pills were for but i guess i do know anyway um yeah so i mean i and again we've talked about this if you leave your significant other whether it be vanilla or swinger right chances are it's because it's more than a sex thing yeah if, first of all, sex is, like I've said before, it's such a small part of a person's being that if you're basing your entire relationship on sex, first of all, it's very shallow, it's one-dimensional.
It's once a month. It's once a month, or whatever it is. People have sex more than once a month. Does this month end in Z? April's. April's. I swear I'm going to get a calendar and print out all the months with Z just to shut you up. Then you're the one who's got to put out. Yeah, well, that's fine too. That's fine too. With me. Oh, shit. Yeah, okay.
There's always that fine line that that fine print that fine print that you bring up well here well here's the thing you've only played with this person you haven't lived with them you have that's what i'm saying you haven't done what you think is like oh my god it's incredible dream world i can't wait to see him again it's an infatuation it's not love so don't go like i'm leaving you for him it's like does he know that well and don't let the door hit you in the ass you know well yeah because until you start living with somebody you're you're paying bills together you're cleaning the house and all the other things i don't do i didn't say that okay yeah i didn't say that but all the things that you have to do well okay but you know what i mean it's like all the the mundane Thank you.
Yeah, I didn't say that. But all the things that you have to do. But you didn't say it either. Well, okay. But you know what I mean? It's like all the mundane things of life, not the exciting sex and, you know, the whole fantasy and, you know, the fire and passion. And once you like do the everyday things, all those other things become, can you hold a relationship with all those other things and maybe have something there? But chances are, if you base it on sex first, all those other things are just going to drag you down. You're going to realize you're not compatible.
Because you didn't build your relationship on a very strong foundation. And that's what it all comes down to. Oh, yeah. And again, just, you know, you might have sex. It might be, you know, he or she may be incredible. Oh, yeah. In bed. I get it. It doesn't mean they're incredible to live with or to be with. You know, and I think there's people who have gotten themselves in trouble with that where. Oh, boy. I'll use women as an example.
Oh, my God, he's such a a great lover and then they find out he's abusive it's like well is that really what you wanted you know smacking your ass is one thing smacking you around is another you know yeah there are um i think too that people when they're in a play situation they might put their best foot forward they might you know what i mean the real them they may put keep it back until somebody knows them a little better you know when you're playing with somebody you're you're on the best behavior i even shower sometimes see what i mean you put your best foot forward well not all the time but then you start seeing this person all of a sudden they let the guard down they start being who they really are and sometimes it's not all it's cracked up to be sure so yeah i would definitely weigh if you're having feelings for somebody else in the swinger lifestyle and and you think you might be in love with somebody really think about it because the grass is not always greener yeah i hate to be cliche about it but it's true and we've seen relationships where she was, this is a while back, a guy was kind of like stalking the one woman a little bit.
He was kind of stalker-ish. And she went for him. And I know she ended up getting divorced from her husband. And I don't know if she went out with this guy or had a relationship with him but either way it all crashed and burned across the board yeah even the relationship okay so it's not the person i'm thinking of okay i was thinking of uh someone close to us no this is a while ago okay this is a while ago and when they found out that first of all he was very was very kind of stalker-ish with it, you know, kind of like. I didn't mean to be. I know. But that was one kind of red flag.
He was like too, I'm using the word stalker, and that's not what it is. He was just very, always wanted to be with her type of thing. Too clingy. Too clingy, yeah. Just too, always wanted to be involved. And she was married, but her husband would go to Europe. And he would buy all kinds of really nice corsets and blah. I have no idea who you're talking about. I'll let you know when I'm done here. But, yeah, their relationship got really rocky, and I think they got divorced. Yeah, I'm curious. All right, we're going to wrap the show up so I can find out. As I can find out, yeah.
I don't know how many other clues I can give you without using their name. I need a whiteboard here and I'll hold her name up. So what would you do if you found yourself having emotions towards one of your playmates? Oh, that is dangerous water.
If that happened, hmm, I'd have to like take a look at why i'm having those emotions what in what is missing from my life that i feel like this person is giving me that i'm not getting in my relationship they're not vince you people are dear what kind of podcast podcast voice does he have i'm sure he could do a better intro would he be verbally abusive to me the way i make fun of me the way that i love i'd have to take a real close look at what's missing pillows oh a few people still pills like you do well you know i'd do it again you know i can i can honestly say i don't think i could ever have feelings for somebody else and i'm laughing because it's like we have such a weird relationship it's like oh nobody could steal a pillow like you honey nobody would under fucking understand our freaking relationship so that's you know that's the whole thing right there we do yeah i mean we have definitely a weird give and take here but i think i'd have to start thinking like okay why why am i attracted to this person what do i feel like is missing in my relationship and it's not i can't put the blame on you it'd have to be something that i feel is missing okay i feel would you would you confront me with that i might say you know hey um what i might do is say i don't want to be i don't want to let's not play with this person quite so much well that would be the hint that i would get yeah you're like hey um so-and-so's coming over today okay hey um he's coming over tomorrow too yeah see i would be the exact opposite and then like uh saturday he's coming yeah and what sunday's going to be over for dinner too i think hey he's going to start moving into the you know the spare bedroom i mean you're going to be moving into the spare bedroom he's he's moving into the first question i would start to look at is is it him inviting himself because he wants like he's attached right right or i'd have to look and see, like in conversations with you, is it like when you talk about him or if he becomes the center of your conversation all the time.
Right, right. Is there like a gleam in your eye? Like you're like, oh my God. You know. Little stars in my eyes. Yeah, the little puddles dripping underneath you while you talk about it. But because I know people that have become infatuated people outside the lifestyle, though, and they make the mistake, I'll put it that way, of talking about this person incessantly. And, like, my brother had cheated on his wife, and apparently he brought this woman who he worked with up all the time. Now, you and I didn't cheat on our significant others.
Mine was a spouse who was a significant other until I had left my wife. Yes.
But the difference is i talked about you all the time because the company was you and i your business it wasn't like i was like well bob down in accounting was saying this it was like well donna and i were talking about this today no donna did this today oh donna brought this indeed see where your ex-wife would have thought something was going on oh sure she's big fat ugly cunt um and i remember with my my ex there was a lady that he worked with her name also was donna and i remember you brought to my attention he was talking about her all the time and you said we were in the office and and you said he talks about her a lot something's going on there something is going on there and i still't know to this day if there was or not, but I would not be a bit surprised if he wasn't fooling her.
I think one of the signs, if someone has emotions for somebody else, that that person is the center where there's some level of attraction. Right, right. If you're smart, you just shut up. Don't talk about that person. But if you're infatuated with this person, the problem is they're in your thoughts all the time. Right, right. You know? Yeah. I mean, we've been together so long, I've forgotten what it's like to be in love. So someday we'll revisit that.
I hope we both can find someone that makes us each happy makes each other happy is that what you mean makes each other yeah well if i leave you you'd be happy and if you leave me i'd be happy shut up he would not be happy and i would not be happy right shut up are you not saying a word you're such an asshole. Oh, this is such abuse. I'm going to cry myself to sleep tonight. Yeah, right. Yeah. You're a fucking mercury switch, man. You go horizontal. I do not. I do not fall asleep that fast. Sometimes. Sometimes. Tonight you will because you're tired from last night. I'm exhausted. Yeah.
This extra work thing sucks. But on a more happy note.
In all fairness, if you're the person you think you're infatuated or have feelings or whatever you want to word as for somebody else you really should be honest with your significant other i was just gonna say that do you think that it would be a good thing to talk about your significant other or do you think that it would actually hinder the process well i mean honesty is the best policy but yikes there are some times where honesty is not such a good idea okay yeah i mean i hate to say that pros and cons to both i get right um but if you have this discussion with yourself okay the discussion needs to be okay uh i'm infatuated with whoever this person might be right and it's like, why?
Why, exactly. What are they, what is so intriguing about them? Yeah. And what, I always. If you sat there and said, okay, what's intriguing about them? Well, they're nice. They're sweet. They're good looking. They're Vince. Yeah, sweet and good luck no but i'm saying it's like okay sure but okay what do what are they presenting that potentially my significant other isn't presenting well does the where am i missing right what am i missing and again you know like one of the things i was taught early on in life was pros and cons list. Mm-hmm. Yep. Make the pros and cons list.
I want to buy a new car. Well, let's make a pros and cons list and be honest about it. Right. Okay, pro, it's a new car. It's got a warranty. It smells good. Yeah, well. Does new car smell? Come on. But you sit there and go, okay, con, I got payments. You got payments. Con, you know, I'm going to have payments. You know. My insurance is going to go to worry about someone scratching it or stealing it or stealing it or you know um so the same thing with a relationship it's like okay make a pros and cons list for each one of those people you know it's like okay my husband pro damn good pro.
Damn, good looking. Pro. Fucking incredible. Pro. Body like nobody's. Well, that's a good thing. I didn't describe the body. Like nobody's. You're supposed to argue with me on that one. Oh, I'm sorry. You know, cons. See? No cons here, no cons.
No, i can't come up with it no that's why i'm here but yeah your list about me is only cons no pros that's not true i can't even think of a con the pros it's awesome when he's not home it's awesome when he's not home oh shut up uh i guess for us is the this we have a very synergistic relationship and i got shots for mine that cleared up well i haven't got my shots yeah it's not when you pee doesn't it sure does thanks that damn synergy but i mean i don't know that many couples that can, that have this kind of relationship. There's very, it's very few.
Like we, we work together, we live together. It usually winds up in a murder-suicide pact. Usually, but I mean with us, it's, you know, we've gotten to that club. We have the guns right there. We winged each other a few times, but never really fatal shot. No fatal shots. I graze burn, you know, walk it off. Yeah, pistol whip once in a while. Yeah, see, I like that. That's the whole BDSM thing. A little foreplay. Foreplay, yeah, there we go. When I come to, it's like, yeah, baby. All right, what am I pistol whipping you with tonight? The revolver, the 10 mil, the 9 mil?
What are we going with tonight? What do you want to be smacked in the head with? I love the romance, I just love it. But, I mean, we can talk about each other with our shortcomings. And maybe if you feel like you're, maybe I'm paying too much attention to a playmate, you'll bring it to my attention. You know, I can't remember if I've ever done that. There might have been, there might have been like one of the early days that I was a little gaga over. And then I realized that he was a real person. And, you know.
Oh, there's people that, and rightfully so so that you've had a lot of fun with yeah a lot of fun and that like the one gentleman the other week we played you played with um you played with him a bunch of times but like the other week just something hit hit the right buttons and you were all fired up yeah i was all fired up not for him per se like oh yeah i took it out on you it's like really weird and then we i was with him again it just wasn't quite the same i think we had an All right.
buttons and you were all fired up yeah i was all fired up not for him per se oh yeah i took it out on you it's like really weird and then we i was with him again it just wasn't quite the same i think we had an off day i had an off day you know and that happens we're human we're not always at the same level of sexual intensity day in day out okay you are yeah right but i mean let me adjust your microphone shut up i didn't touch it oh see automatic accused me yes go ahead finish your sentence and now i forget i was gonna say because you just fucked it up you were talking about how great i am i was not saying that not even a little bit not even a little bit now um but shut up but when in this case like what we were both like not at 100 so it wasn't the same experience.
But, yeah, the time before. Oh, it's okay when he's not at 100%. But with you, yeah. Oh. Oh, okay. I see. I think, too, you can't be, like, comparing your significant other with your playmates. It has to be very separate. It can't be, like, oh, his dick's bigger than yours, honey.
But, but again it's like we've talked about in the past there's love and there's sex are you having sex with these other people are you making love to these people i'm not making love to them see like i'm having sex with them the gentleman that was here today they got the host of the party sure that i was shooting his business videos for him today, he uses the term his lovers. Yeah, I don't use that term. No, I don't like that term. He can. Yeah, I mean, well, he's been playing with some of these people. For years. People he deems his lovers.
He's been playing with them for years and frequent times. You know, okay. They have a relationship. There might be some emotion tied to it to some degree. But the term we use is what? Playmate. There we go.
Fuck fuck buddy friends with benefits and i think in his case he's he could be borderline polyamorous i mean i see a lot of there's there's couples that they play with their their friends the couples over there multiple times you know they're they do things together they go on vacation together so it is more than it's more of a family unit i won't use the word polyamorous but i will use the word no i agree with you he could be polyamorous i honestly believe that yeah yeah they and they they are me the couples do a lot of things together they go skiing together they go scuba diving but i mean they do a a lot of social things together spend weekends together and not always sexual so they're also semi-retired so right so they get they have that time yeah that's poor working slobs still have to work which is fine i don't mind it but you know so that's a whole different realm but i would never use the word lover yeah it has the l word in it i'd like to yeah that's different Again, but I would never use the word lover.
Yeah. It has the L word in it. I'd like to, that's different. Well, again, that's why we use the term playmate. Playmate. Because someone you're playing with. Right. It doesn't involve emotions. It also doesn't, it just involves just, you know, the excitement and the whole sexual aspect. It doesn't involve like, okay, we're going to go hang out now. We're going to, not that we don't, but we usually don't hang out a lot with our playmates. Generally, we don't leave the house a whole lot. We don't. It wasn't being a joke. We, honestly, we don't, because... We go on the deck and stuff.
I mean, we're not in the house. I mean, I don't mean outside of the property. Oh, okay. Outside of our... In all honesty, we don't. No, my God. We work a lot. We have this paradise here. Why would we want to leave? Uh-oh, crickets, crickets. Okay. We have everything. Paradise is one word. It is one word. It's getting back to the season for paradise. It will be.
I want you to get some leaves on on the trees and the pool and it warms up and the pool's open uh yeah then it's a different paradise it is a different paradise so but um we'll be twisting by the pool and by twisting i mean having sex and stuff by the pool and swimming and having sex in the pool or not i'll be having bourbon and a cigar oh you'll be you'll be eating some woman's pussy on the side of the pool i know you will come on i know you will depends who's here we get more male visitors yeah so that's why i'm in the pool having a cigar and a bourbon and and using your camera and for those who care tonight i am drinking penelope's architect oh how very fitting very nice it's good i think it's 105 proof nice very nice yeah you always like those penelopes yeah they're delicious yeah except the white label you don't like the white label no sorry to hear that and i'm doing my cranberry and vodka there you go refreshing and borderline healthy so anyway that was our topic for tonight i don't want to beat it to death um you know before if you if you're in the lifestyle and you find yourself being drawn emotions i mean and you're in a relationship right or if you're not in a relationship with the person you're having feelings for is oh yeah that could be dangerous too you know yeah you have to really evaluate 8.
emotions i mean and you're in a relationship right or if you're not in a relationship with the person you're having feelings for is oh yeah that could be dangerous too you know yeah you have to really evaluate whether it's love or just infatuation right yeah you don't want to cause more problems because if you assume the wrong thing you could jeopardize that whole thing oh yeah absolutely yeah you get a lot of people yeah uncomfortable and pissed off at you or well we've had guys that you had played with that i had intercepted the emails because i get them right not like i'm spying on you no but we're like oh you know and it's like no no no and again if we had guys who've expressed emotions we cut them off yeah it just gets too uncomfortable it becomes over the top and Thank you.
You're just so selfless. Oh, you don't want to be with her. She's a demon. She's awful. No, actually, I said, please take her. Please take her. No returns. You buy something off the scratch and dent rack, you're stuck with it. You're stuck with it. It's an as-is policy. Thanks. I feel so special now. Scratch and dent.
But, yeah, I mean, we haven't had one of those emails in a very long time, but yes i remember it was like oh what if what if you weren't with vince and blah and i'm like yeah but what if i wasn't with vince well i wouldn't be with you i wouldn't be with you chances are people that do that i find i i find needy guys very uh it's not an attractive thing for me i i like i'm a man that's more fat small penis that's exactly what i was gonna say that gray beard wrinkly constant back pain drinks too much bourbon sometimes these are the things i find hot in a man no i i want somebody who's self-reliant who's confidence and guys that are like that are too too needy too clingy it just i i god i just want to shake them off it's like a old wet rag you just want to get it off you it's like so yeah that's my feelings when i can't i can't do that i it's just not my cup of tea yeah all right i think we beat this to death oh we'll close so anyway thanks for listening um again, stay tuned.
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