Dr. Elliot and the Firm Tech's Ring Device

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Hello, everybody. This is Donnalyn, and welcome again to my Hot Wife Podcast. I'm here again with my wonderful husband, Vince, once again. Yeah, yeah. I can only believe you feel that way. I do, I do. Okay, that's good. But we have another special guest with us today, and I'm going to read a little blurb about him. He's actually a medical doctor. How do you like that? We're really, we're climbing the ranks here. Okay, his name is Dr. Elliot Justin. He's an MD.

He is also, I don't know this acronym is but it's it is uh f-a-c-e-p maybe you'll describe that for us later tell me what that is he's also the ceo founder of firm tech which is the first sex tech company dedicated to improving men's erectile fitness now as i know there's a whole bunch of stuff that's going around with that and he's going to explain that all to us and uh well i'm going to turn the show over to him because i don't know that much about this and he does so doctor welcome i've messed up men's sexual fitness oh yeah uh it's be expected dear welcome doctor yeah welcome it's good to be here so facp means the fellow of the american college of emergency medicine oh neat okay so that's my background I don't know.

Welcome, doctor. Yeah, welcome. It's good to be here. So FACP means the Fellow of the American College of Emergency Medicine. Oh, neat. Okay. So that's my background. And so, you know, I got involved in medical technology in 2015. All of us really been interested in sexual medical technology and aphrodisiacians. But I can assure you that having worked in an emergency department, short of a heart attack or a stroke. There's no emergency that concerns a man like a limp dick.

So, uh, that's, you know, we're all, uh, all men are on this or actual men and women on this path from erectile fitness to erectile dysfunction. So our goal of firm tech is better sex for everyone, men and women.

I can talk later on about what we're doing for women as well what we're doing for women as well too uh and we all would like to as we're on that path we'd like to stop where we are and say gee i like where i am right now i want to stay here i don't want things to deteriorate or maybe even improve things or if we have a problem i want we want to be able to to address before before it gets worse so that's what firm tech is about we're about providing people our goal is better sex for everyone and we're about providing men and women with objective data about their sexual health so they can then necessarily take an action uh in order to sustain it or improve it that sounds wonderful everybody wants better sex and better orgasms better orgasms i mean i know when i was going through menopause that was a real a real hassle you know and i did i got over that and things started to feel better and i'm back on track again for the most part but yeah it's a real deal breaker because your head's your head is still saying i'm horny but my body's going no man this is not feeling good.

Nothing's connecting, you know? And men, I'm sure, go through the same thing. Yeah, well, 50% of men by age 50 have erectile dysfunction. I mean, the numbers are really alarming. I'm 70 years old. By my age, 70 plus percent of men have erectile dysfunction. So, and even age 30 right now, it's about 20, 25% of men have erectile dysfunction.

uh and even age 30 right now it's about 20 25 percent of men have erectile dysfunction yeah and the numbers are even worse for women why i mean women want to blame men overall probably kind of joking way for that problem uh joking what joke but the problem the issue for women um is really and it's i really think it's it's an issue of pharmacology and and diet so so women have have hormonal protection against some degree of hormonal protection against atherosclerosis that men don't have so women women under the age of 45 50 have less of a lower incidence of hypertension diabetes atherosclerosis uh and sexual functions to a larger really about flow.

And those things all interfere with blood flow. But younger women, premenopausal women, take hormones, 20%, 25% of the adult population of the United States, and they take SSRI antidepressants, about 20% of the adult population. And both of those things are clitoris killers. And then you add in, after menopause, you add in women start taking the same medications that men do for blood pressure control and for depression.

And you end up with, you know, on the cock killers, with our research, the blood pressure medications and the SSRI antidepressants are really significant killers of sexual arousal. So right now, we're fortunate to live in this really extraordinary age of healthcare wearables, smart watches, smart rings, my zones, bands, even clothing that can tell us information about our health and our vital signs, but there's this gap, which is sex. So that's where FirmTech comes in.

We want to provide people with, I call it the sixth vital sign, with the vital signs of their sexual health, because their sexual health is not just about sex, it's also about the overall cardiovascular health and their overall health. So we are about providing people with data. And this really came to me in a very peculiar way. I've always been interested in sex, as you probably have as well, too. So the first day I was in medical school, I said, gee, I'm going to go to the medical library and read about aphrodisiacs. And by the way, I felt I was alone there.

It wasn't as if I was kind of really sure you're an outlier really on if you're interested in sex because it wasn't as if there were 100 other medical students, first-year medical students, also looking for information about aphrodisiacs. Not in the work, by the way. Exactly.

It's still the the same stuff is still being talked about pushed i'm talking about horny goat weed the funk one the you know dhea nitric oxide you know himbe all these things we talk even even i'm 70 years old these things were in the medical literature in the pharmacology literature in the 1970s uh as had been possible but probably not not valuable and that still is the case today and one of the great things about having uh an objective device that makes this objective is that we can actually test these things so for men and women right now i'd like to say that where there are hopes there are dopes when people have a sexual problem they'll and they're interested in sex they'll walk on broken glass to get a solution sure and they'll try anything and most things don't work so there's a lot of reasons why people don't trust orthodox let's just call them the allopaths conventional doctors today and the covid debacles made things even worse for them and also uh doctors overall are are thick-headed about sex.

mean i've never had i've never had a doctor warn me about the sexual side effects of medication my wife is 70 as well too has never had a doctor say hey this might have an impact it's like like sex doesn't doesn't even exist in the minds of doctors we're lucky to ask those questions uh someone just gave me a really popular book i'll call uh oh i gotta show you a whole lot okay show us the book i'm taking notes i hope you better be taking notes taking notes drawing pictures diagrams charts whatever i can here you know without sex in your life it's kind of you know sex is the glue holds it all together yeah oh there it is so this outlive this is an enormously popular book okay about how you know how to how to live better how to live longer sex is not even the index are you kidding me no so this is a bestseller new york times bestseller um you know andrew hubman has endorsed it and it's been you know it they talk about everything else in your life to help you live longer but sex i guess they figured if you're already feeling good sex is just going to be a natural byproduct you know if you're already feeling good sex is just you know just rolls along with it well it doesn't i would have thought it just been about sex you live longer have more sex yeah i mean that that is funny.

A book, I mean, a notable bestseller, and it doesn't even, doesn't even broach the subject of sex. That's how this, how this business come to me, this, this thing comes to me. I was, um, I, about back in two years ago, I was, I live in Montana, I ride horses. I rode a horse into a tree that had been cut down. And I broke six ribs and six vertebrae. Now, if you break your back, you're concerned about your function.

So there's something called the cock-up sign, which I'll pass on to your listeners, which is that if you ever think you have a back injury, if you can cock up your big toe, you'll be able to defecate, urinate, fornicate, the big three. So I was okay, but that got me interested in what's gone on since I was in medical school back in the late 70s with helping men or women who've had spinal cord injuries or spinal cord diseases recover their sexual function. And there were several claims made by renowned urologists.

The most promising one was to plant an electrode by your cavernous nerve, everyone's favorite nerve that no one's heard about, the nerve that supposedly evolved in having orgasms from men and women. So I had a urology friend of mine implant a electrode on my cavernous nerve. Nothing. I felt I had no response whatsoever. I called this project O for obvious reasons and I don't think we actually know how orgasms are produced in men and women.

Now, if I'd raised $25 million and would have tested this on, you know, 25 men down in Brazil or Colombia or someplace, I suspect that if it didn't work on me, it probably wasn't going to work on them as well, too. So a urology professor at the University of Utah heard about this since about three years ago. And he said, gee, I want to come up with a way of counting the number of nocturnal reactions in a man. And I thought, what the fuck? Why do you want to do that? Who cares? So we all know about morning wood. We poke our partners and laugh about it, but why do we care?

He explained to me, which I think most doctors are still unaware of this, that it's not just about mourning wood, that the number of nocturnal erections you have, a man has, is a leading indicator of a man's cardiovascular health. Now, by leading indicator, that's different than an association. So, high blood pressure is associated with heart attack and stroke, but leading indicator means it's predictive.

So, the majority of men who have a heart attack or a stroke will have a decline number of nocturnal erections the year before they have a heart attack or stroke and they you know we think that men have three to five nocturnal erections per night if they're healthy uh and i would we have from today now more data about what's normal actually than anywhere else because we have the device that can measure so he says so he talked to hotel. Hotel, I just don't want to count off internal erections. But like most men, like most straight men, like most urologists, he had no experience with cock rings.

Well, I happen to, you know, my wife and I happen to really enjoy sex toys, as you guys probably do as well too. So we have never found a cock ring that we liked. I mean, my wife or I would buy one or two a year and play it with them once or twice in the rhythm. Why? Because they suck. Because they made it for 150 years, cochranes have been made out of hard silicone, which is durable. It is durable. I mean, you can throw it onto a railroad track and run a train over and it's playing on a survive. But it's made out of hard silicone, so it's uncomfortable, it pinches.

You have to have an erection at first in order for it to be effective, because it's made of hard silicone, so it's uncomfortable, it pinches, you have to have an erection first in order for it to be effective, because essentially, it's like lynching your dick. It's a noose around your penis, so the blood has to get in first, and then you put the ring on, and it helps to sustain the erection. And then after you have an orgasm, you want to sleep off as quickly as possible, because It's uncomfortable. And you can't wear it for about 20, 25 minutes comfortably.

So I don't know about you guys, but I think a lot of people like, I like to have sex with 20, 25 minutes. And I like to have sex with something that's comfortable. I like to have sex with something that's gonna make my orgasm better. Excuse me, I just turned off my phone. That's okay. I apologize.

um i'd like to have sex so that's gonna make my so this got me so in order to come up with a cochrane that could be worn overnight i had to change the material so instead of our i'll show you our tech rank instead of being made of hard silicone this is made out of soft elastomer I'll see you next time. And so instead of being made of hard silicone, this is made out of soft elastomer. Oh. So it's the fat and it's special. So the fact that making it out of elastomer is it's comfortable. Right. And it allows the arterial blood to go in so you can put it on your flaccid.

You can put this on hours before you have sex. You can also wear it for hours. So we solve the issues of comfort. Then there's the issue of safety. Well, there it is. It opens and closes with a hook. So, you know, I mean, women understand the problems of silicone more than men because women wear bras so uh i mean donna if you put on a bra that was three sizes too small for you you'd want the fucking thing off right i wanted i did that last night the bra was way too small i said it said it was my size and it wasn't it was painful it was me i want it off so that's what cock ring is.

We want it off. Now, a man with an erection will put up, or wants to have sex, put up with, you can probably stab a guy in the back while he's having sex. He'll probably ignore it until he actually had an orgasm. But I was scratching, you know, like a lot of heterosexual sex in the world. It starts when a man is scratching his wife's back at night when she takes off a bra because she's had the damn thing on all day. And silicone in the back panel of the bra is silicone.

It is irritating to the skin because silicone makes the skin adapt to it elastomers have a unique property they adapt to the skin so they're comfortable so i saw on the ground my wife's bra i thought oh duh let's women don't put on bras over their head they put on bras with a hook this is what's wrong they put on hook and the uh let's make a cock ring with a hook so that's uh that's the origin of the form of this and then uh later on it occurred to us me about six or seven months ago i think okay how can i make a cock ring that's going to make a man's orgasm more powerful because men have shit you know women have vibrators uh and the vibrator's been around since a long time I mean my mother's vibrator was in the bottom dresser drawer with a supply closet which is so you know we never find it um you know I don't know I don't know how many of my wife owns or has gone through the cause of my marriage.

You know, but she probably actively uses three or four, you know, as part of, you know, for different parts of pleasure, for, you know, for different, different moments, different moods, et cetera. You know, my daughter takes them on dates. They've been mainstreamed. Cock rings have not been mainstreamed for men. Right.

And one of our, one of our our goals this company is to mainstream them so uh one of the jokes we have at medical shows is how do you tell the difference between a straight doctor and a gay doctor you ask one question do you use a cock ring straight doctor gives an answer just like ben vince did earlier before before you got on the show i don't need that you know it's like it's like superman kryptonite whoa cock ring I know, you show. I don't need that. It's like Superman and Kryptonite. Whoa, cock ring. I don't need that. Gay doctor. Last night, you got a better one?

Because the gay men are very aware. They want to enhance their pleasure. But they're also very aware that the cock rings are not particularly well designed. They're not designed to enhance a man's pleasure. They're just designed to keep a guy hard for 20, 25 minutes. So we came out with a product recently called the Max PR. It doesn't have any technology in it. I'll get to the technology at the top of the tech ring at a moment. It's really important. But it's basically, you know, my goal was to increase the ejaculatory phase by 50% in a range of men from 27 to 70.

So, but you don't want to choke off the ejaculation because that acts medically dangerous. It's called retro ejaculation and leads to infections. So, and I saw, so we, we are a group of academic urology flies. We said, well, 50% should be safe. So then that meant coming up with an elastomer that had the right degree of squeezing, but comfort, so it would hit 50%. So my jacutory phase is between 3.5 to 4.25 seconds. With our max performance range, it goes to 6.75 to 7.25 seconds. Well, that's... is between 3.5 to 4.25 seconds. With our max performance range, it goes to 6.75 to 7.25 seconds.

Well, that's a more powerful orgasm. And the guys who are, I mean, we've sold about the house, the reports from our customers are extremely positive. And my wife is here in the room right now. And she jokes about how, gee, if I look like the kids are out of the house, because you're really loud now when you come. So for me personally, the maximum performance ring is almost pillow-chewing experience that I've never experienced before.

And I've been having an orgasm a day pretty much like you guys since i was you know i don't know 11 12 years old exactly so it's one it's really satisfying to come up with a cock ring that's you know doc designed specifically to enhance a man's pleasure not just hold blood the penis right with a chokehold but uh but to comfortably hold but to comfortably allow a man to have sex for 30 minutes, an hour, an hour and a half, two hours, and have a better role of gas as a consequence. I have one quick question. You keep talking about the traditional cock rings holding blood.

It acts as a tourniquet, right, in a way.

Well, tourniquets over a point in time to any other appendage, it's going to have a real detrimental problem for that appendage because the blood isn't allowed to flow freely now is that a problem with normal cock rings in general or is it it is a problem that's why that's why the recommendation is not to wear them for 30 minutes and it gets even worse for men who have diabetes or hypertension or atherosclerosis because their blood flow is already compromised so you have um you have a part yeah i'm fortunate i'm i'm in good health but uh after a 50 pretty much half the adult population and a little bit more adult female population have problems with circulation right so uh vibrators for women don't affect this don't affect the circulation but cochran's do and that's one of the reasons why why they haven't caught on because they're uncomfortable poorly designed right can't be one for protracted sessions uh and i know that's so so you know at firm tech the original goal was not we weren't setting out to make a better cochran but occurred to, but in order to come up with something that could be worn overnight and can't get the data that we want, we had to change the form and material of the cock ring.

So, but we also came up with a cock ring that can only be worn overnight, we came up with a cock ring that could be worn during sex. So what do men care more about? How do they perform this overnight or what's going on when they're trying to have sex so right now if a man goes to a urologist or a really a good sexologist uh they take a subjective score called the shim test or the atom test or the iiet and it's and men rank themselves to you know what they're about to their performance. This is a subjective questionnaire. It's not objective.

And what we've discovered is that there are men who think they have ED, don't have it, objectively. And there are men who have ED but don't think they have it because the subjective scoring systems are not reliable, and they also focus on penetrative sets.

And a lot of people just simply don't relate to that you know the if if the if you get scored more for doing for penetrative sex but that's not part of the sexual repertoire you might think end up thinking heavy d when you when you don't have ed and the doctors don't ask people about what's going on in bed so what doctors don't get is but for most people over the age of 40 who are committed relationships pantry of sex is not the major way in which a man or climaxes it's oral or manual sex uh much more prevalent now intercourse is my part of it but it's just part of the play it's actually it's not the main play or it's not the final place you know so to speak the doctors don't get it matter the doctors don't get as well is that most men's problems with ed is not they can't get up it's if they lose it most common problem with men with men with their age or even younger men who are dating is they lose their erection and that could be due to anxiety alcohol drugs recreational drugs, medications, or it could be due to a more serious problem so what if you can get data you could then start to suss out well what really is your problem you know so i'll take it at both extremes let's look let's think about psychogenic ed which is probably the most common cause of rectal dysfunction meaning it's in their head essentially so if a man if a man is having four nocturnal erections per night you can prove it with our device you can't get it with a partner there's something going on in the relationship that's most likely more likely than not that's the cause of the problem at the other extreme if a man has just one or two weak nocturnal well someone some partner's getting your wrist fatigue or jaw fatigue for nothing because it ain't happening that person needs to see a doctor in order to get the problem the promise you know problem assessed so a lot of the medical research right now is flawed because it groups together two different populations of men there are the men who can't attain an orgasm and then there are men who can't sustain an orgasm.

And our device helps people suss it out. So what we've done here, there's a pressure sensor in there. There's a strain gauge there. The ring goes on differently. Most rings get slid down the shaft of the penis. This ring, you drop your balls into it And it wraps around.

Yeah, we saw on the website it was uh demonstrated on a dildo so we saw how that worked i was like oh that's really cool so it's easy on easy off uh you know i'm relatively i can look down i can see my penis most men can't most men over the age of 35 40 are they have a belly and they can't they can't see themselves so putting on a putting on a ring can be a challenge to them especially if they if they're anxious and around medication might they'll get an erection. So because of the nature of the way it goes on, it's easy on, piece off.

I also, I wanted to put a little bit of light pressure at the top of the testicles because the testicles are a secondary erogenous zone. So by retaining more blood in the testicles, it makes them more sensitive.

And after all, what does you know or a man's partner want with balls during sex squeeze them grasp them caress them they want to be there what happens to balls without a ring they're up they're down they're there what the fuck are they they disappear so that you know i put it by my wife my wife calls her brothel balls but putting a little bit of light pressure on the top of testicles we put them in a consistent as well a little bit and the other ring goes around the base the shaft the penis uh it doesn't block that zero flow in so you can put on when you're flaccid it only holds the blood in as the blood accumulates you know during erection uh it doesn't it doesn't choke off the venous return it's like it's like slowly leaking fauc if you will, so that it's not dangerous.

So with our ring, my girth increased by three to four millimeters. So no one's going to walk by and say, oh, my God, born star, like how big a stick is. But that three to four millimeters is, ah, where's my phone not off? Popular man very popular every man in the country should be calling him like I want better orgasms absolutely now it's off so that's the maximum that extra few millimeters means that my penis is now retaining more blood than it could to any other type of stimulation. So addressing Vince again here, beyond rock hard, there's cock ring hard.

Nothing can get a man harder than a cock ring. No amount of oral, manual, anal stimulation is going to get teasing. It's going to get a man harder because on top of that, you just put a ring on it and you'll still get even a little bit harder.

The more harder we are, the more blood retained a little bit harder the more harder the harder we are the more blood retain the penis the more sensitive we are the better the orgasm uh and the other great thing we've discovered with the ring which is which is really disruptive is the ring is more effective for most men than the pill so doctors think about we think about pills uh and when we think about surgery you know interventions uh we so we've done a study and it's going to be public well the abstract will be presented the american neurologist association show in uh in the spring uh and it'll be the largest study presented this this fall but i was became interested in something They call it detumescence..

So two mesence is the time it takes to get an erection. D2 mesence is the time it takes an erection to go down. So the more time it takes to go down, the more blood that's been in the penis, the harder the erection has been. So without, then we studied a group of men without ed um and it was and the study just evolved masturbation because we wanted to control for variables uh and we looked at the time it took for erections to go down with nothing was about time off time i had like 30 35 seconds with tadalafil cialis it went a little bit over two minutes with a ring, our ring, of course.

With our ring, it went to over four minutes. And with Tadalafil and the ring, it went to a little bit over five minutes. So what's that telling a man? Man, you want to have a better orgasm. You want to last longer. Put a ring on it. Just the way it vibrates in the mainstream, cock rings in the mainstream. And, of course, if you want to have a better experience, get a little more edge, you can take a pill as well. So go ahead.

If a guy is wearing your ring and he's having sex with a woman or whoever and achieves an orgasm but he still has the stamina to go for a second round, does he need to take it off for a brief second? Oh, you're late. he's having sex with a woman or whoever and achieves an orgasm, but he still has the stamina to go for a second round. Does he need to take it off for a brief second? You leave it off. Just keep going? Okay. Yeah, keep going. So another thing, value to the ring is, I'm not going to turn my phone back on again, so I want to show you what the data looks like.

Another value to the premature ejaculation is, hey, you're going to stay hard for four or five minutes afterwards comfortably. Right. Then that's more time for your partner. Now, for my wife and I, and maybe this applies to you guys as well too, the impact is very different. The impact of the rate upon our marriage has been substantial in terms of lots of factors.

One factor is one of them one of the complaints that had men have about women along certain things does not have this complaint about donna but even when they're really turned on during sex don't just stop talking about something else a fight they had with their mother something they want to work or you know like i mean my wife just a couple weeks ago was like somebody came up with a great idea to redesign our uh the bookshelves in a bedroom, or my wife's bedroom, or my wife know like i mean my wife just a couple weeks ago was like somebody came up with a great idea to redesign our uh the bookshelves in a bedroom or you take the trash out that's there you have that so it was two it was two and a half years ago february right two years ago february you can't when it first came up a prototype for the ring uh with montana in the middle of the next my wife uh snow it out and i think i left the garage door open so i had being married that time by now i was married 35 years that's not being married 33 years my response to that um since i'm certain you have better control through the camper than i do my response to that would have been what the fuck you can't hold that thought to yourself for just like 10 more minutes now you expect me to get into bed check on the garage it would have been game over we're not having sex tonight that's it now i have the ring on i go downstairs uh and i close the garage door uh there are actually two doors that are open uh and i'm coming back upstairs and andy says to me uh oh you know that that mezcal I really like?

Did you get me something nice? Now, again, ordinarily, my marriage, because I'm just a typical guy, after 33, 34 years of marriage, my memory actually went, what the fuck? You can't remember bringing up the tequila before you could have told me before. Blah. It would have been, again, double game over. We're not having sex time. I'm really irritated. Well, it's like the old joke of you're having sex with the woman, and she's like, beige, beige. You're like, what's that, babe? We should paint the ceiling beige. But instead, I've got the ring on.

So I come upstairs with a mezcal, and I'm still three-quarter hard, and we both laugh because a guy with an erection thinks very differently than a guy who's irritated because he's lost his erection. So there are also positions that we make love in that we stop making love in because I'm 70 years old. At that time, I was 68. But I'm older, and I don't get the right amount of friction from them, the things that she still enjoys, but I don't enjoy it. I mean, she kind of knows it by this point. I'll just get irritated.

Well, that for like two minutes but then i'm gonna lose my erection but with the ring on i'm hard so i might not want to come at my age in the missionary position or i might want i don't want to come at my age um having sex you know rear entry but if i'm hard i'm still i'm getting turned on and I love my wife. So if you want that, sure. I'm going to have to do that. So we have sex more positions for a longer period of time than we did. And that's, I really, that's what, even if you don't want the data, and the data, by the way, is really important. I'm going to get the data right after this.

I'm getting ready to give you my credit card number right now. Honey, we can use the trapeze again. Your dick will stay hard while we're putting it on. Well, you took down the safety net and it just scares me so yes the data is you know really but is the other thing that really just distinguishes this so men should want to know their data because you're the your man's firmness a man's duration the number of nocturnal infections a man has. These are indicators of man's cardiovascular health. And also men take a lot of medications.

And with this data, you can now measure the impact of your blood pressure medicine. You can measure the impact of, if you're on testosterone therapy, you can say, what is the right dose? I don't really know what's working, but what is the right dose? I want it.

You can then measure the impact impact of a necessary antidepressant so we have men who would titrate down their depressants that could still have get hard um but still gets hopefully gets the benefit from the medication as well too i personally have changed my my my antihypertensive medication and my dose because if i'm if i'm losing 15 of hardness but i might not i'm i'm unaware of it because i you know it's quite so there's an 85 100 but why would i but it'd be like ignoring hey my blood pressure's gone from say normal 120 over you know 80.

my blood pressure's gone to 150 i'm not aware of it unless i follow it and i'm not a physically i'm not aware of it yet because i haven't had the obvious damage my heart my kidneys or my brain but it's something that you want to catch before it does become a problem so we now allow people to monitor not just the sexual health but their reaction to medications and their heart health through their dick i love it put so succinctly i can manage my health through my dick men have been right for years we thought that was the most important organ they think with their dick so this is perfect thinking so we give people um i don't know whether you guys you guys use any smart watches or smart rings yes absolutely got mine.

Got mine on. So here we are. We're in the, actually that's my daughter, but we're in the Apple and Google stores. Yeah. I'll show what it looks like on my data. So you even say this increases the intensity of your orgasm. Yeah.

wow i don't know if i could handle that see i there's a name cross you have to bear well doctor you could tell me um i no longer ejaculate but i have intense my orgasms are twice as strong as they used to be but i don't have any ejaculation apparently it from what i was told by my doctor it goes into my bladder so you're retro ejaculating so that's not normal actually how old are you i'm 57.

retro ejaculation at age 57 is not normal okay i talked to my doctor i says there's something we need to do about this he goes oh no he says it it just goes into your bladder i i said my orgasms are ground shake i mean my orgasms are twice as strong now as they were uh before before and i mean but you know it's like no at least there's no mess now well uh what you know you it's like you had a vasectomy did you have vasectomy no no no uh i Well, you know, it's like you have a vasectomy. Do you have a vasectomy? No. No.

I, you know, decreasing ejaculate is common in men in their 60s and 70s as they get older because of decreasing blood flow to the testicles, to the organs that are producing the sperm. So that, i i don't want like i i would i would get a second opinion about that it's dangerous by i'm not saying it's dangerous because if you if you retroejaculate into your bladder you then you then piss it out but you but that's something that could actually that's just surprising i don't want to get your health on the show.

I really want to learn more about medication you're taking or supplements you're taking or other things you're taking that could be impacting. Initially, well, let's talk about your product, my medical condition. This is metal product. We'll be here like all day. Yeah, we could just be a wreck of a show then. That's like an overnight recording. Oh, wow. So you can see on this side here, that's my wife and I having sex. Right. And then I'm having two nocturnal erections at night, which is normal. Because if you have sex before you go to bed, you have less nocturnals.

And I don't know what I was dreaming about there, but it must have been a really great dream. Yeah, because that spike is like up above all the other ones. You had to get another phone to put that one on it. We have to go to an iPad. That was pretty big. Pretty big spike there. So you better clarify that. Yeah, pretty big spike. People don't know what we're seeing on the screen. Yeah, it was a spike. Doc could get in trouble with his wife. Yeah. Well, hello, doctor. What were you showing then? It's a spike. Doc would get in trouble with his work. Well, hello, doctor.

What were you showing then? It's so big. It had to go into two phones? We have had people. I know from my customers that there have been two people, two guys who have gotten into trouble because their partners have picked up their phones on Thursday. It's like, what were you doing at 2 o'clock in the afternoon yesterday? I thought you were at work. Thank you.

into trouble because uh their partners have picked up their phones off the day it's like what were you doing two o'clock in the afternoon yesterday i thought you were at work so you do want to have it you have things passed you know it is password protected but i'll put a lot but if you like a lot of apps if you leave the app open somewhere else you know can get into it and i want to say about cyber security, there's only one person in the company has access to everyone's data. And that's our chief technology officer. And he signed a HIPAA privacy agreement.

I don't have access to anyone's data unless they give me permission. And I do offer one free consultation. People get the tech rank to help people look at the data. And we're able to do that. We've sold about 10,000 units. So we're able to offer that right now because this thing is still relatively small. I think obviously we've got a lot bigger. We probably would move to a consultative service and have a teleurologist available.

But right now it's been really interesting to me because I want want to know, I like helping people, some doctor, and I also want to know what are people getting from the data that's valuable? It's been really interesting. People regulating their medications. When I got involved in this, I was thinking about the the value for men with prostate disease. But men who have prostate surgery, the rate of impotence afterwards is 40% to 80%. I mean, it's just an asset for people. And a lot of guys just give up on the therapy because you don't see any results for a long time.

And you've got to use a vacuum to buy your penis you got to take medications you got to do kegel exercises it's a long haul and even then nothing might not work it's not like you do hey if you do all this 100 six months you're gonna be better it's like you know if you do all this in nine months 18 months uh 60 to 70 percent of you will recover but you'll still need help that's really dismay so but we have men after prostate surgery who are used utilizing our device um support their erection they are they can they need a vacuum pump less there's also a condition a horrible condition i've never heard of called climacteria which is men after prostate surgery who do recover the ability to climax but they urinate when they climax oh so it's one thing vince to retro-ejaculate uh to urinate uh so our device by putting some by putting pressure over the urethra has helped at least we we know at least 28 men wow uh to continue to control the problem have resumed in all sexual relations with their wives.

Okay. Hey, before we continue talking about this, which we're going to, give out your website address for this because as people listen to the podcast, if they want to go check it out while, you know, look at the web while they're listening to this podcast, they could do that. So your website where they can buy and look at this stuff?

It's myfirm-y-f-i-r-m-t-c-h my firm tech dot com and you can reach me personally at elliot at my firm tech dot com so while we're talking about this you want to check it out go to the site look at the product he's even got some pretty cool hats to make America firm again i thought that was cool that was cool america needs to be firm yeah um and uh you know if it's something you think you want to try which sounds like initially our conversation before we started the show i said i don't really think i need one uh one of these rings and uh more that i talked to doctor here i'm thinking we need to order one so or two well two yeah i think i think the value for all i'll put it this way uh and i say this not because i want from my product but i said this was because to me this is a legacy project project i've been you know i've started six business i've had four exits why do i like this one the best well it's the interface of sex health it's a lot of fun like you i like to talk about sex all the time and i also like improve my own performance and pleasure that's for others but also because what we're doing is going to change the practices of urology sexology gynecology i'll get to what we've been with women just a moment because right now uh if i were to go to a urologist or a sexologist probably more like urologist say gee i'm 70 years old i like the fact that i have a great orgasm every day and i want to keep going this way till i die like you know i want to what what can you tell me that the most they could do objectively is wave an ultrasound over my dick in their office i don't know about you vince but i'm not gonna get a hard on when someone puts cold gel in my penis in an office puts it and then puts a metal probe on me this is I guess that probably works with some small niche guys but they work with me cold gels don't help they're not flattering cold gels and cold metal yeah I want to know what's going on when I'm trying to have sex and the nurse laughing doesn't help the nurse laughing doesn't help giggling so anyway so anyway that's i want so they they don't have that that ability to to to tell us what's going on while we're trying while men trying to have sex at home uh and or privacy wherever they want okay wait you You could take it, I mean mean you can use the spice outside too if you want you might get the troubles so oh there's nudist colonies and stuff so i i assume it's it's water uh waterproof and splash proof yeah but i'm so anyway it gives me the ability to actually to get a handle on what – the joke's just everywhere.

I've got to get a grip on this one. I don't have a rim shot on here. And what's been interesting is we've sold devices to women because women are concerned about their men. And men are often stupid about their health issues. As in, I don't or i don't want to do that or i don't want to deal with it i don't want to you know so guilty yes he is i admit it well at least you admit it we want to think we're all indestructible so so women women have you know women i i don don't like to actually, women do have clitoral erections, but it's kind of confusing.

It's really more about clitoral arousal, clitoral fullness, if you will. And, you know, most of the clitoris isn't even objectively visible. You know, and Madison Johnson were the last people who really looked at a large group of women to see what was going on with women at night.

Do women have nocturnal erections or nocturnal arousal the way men do and we know that they do because they get wet so uh and mess johnson you know took a group of uh women and they woke them up every hour and then they would just like look grossly so to speak you know well let's take a look and they would measure with a peanut withers, and they would grade the color, you know, is the labia pale, are they pink, so it'd be really, really valuable to women to have a device like we have for men, because our thesis is that women's nocturnal arousal is just as significant as men's.

And also, if women could measure their arousal objectively during sex, the way men can with our device, women could then do the following. Hold on a second. Guys, excuse me. We have that same dog problem. I thought it was our dog barking. No, his dogs so we're not the only one that have dogs that bark that's all right anyway that's being taken care of that's all we put ours in the basement just well we have an outbuilding it's our studio we're in the process of revamping it and uh because eventually we do want to start videotaping these shows um but right now it's just a podcast.

So we're in the house while that's being renovated, and the dogs like to bark right during the show. Right during the show. Quiet the rest of the day, but bark during the show. Annoying. Anyway. Yeah. Anyway, so we've tested this virus on 38 women. There have been two abstracts presented about it already, and we're able to measure clear arousal as reflected in pulse amplitude, pulse and tissue oxygenation. And we're going to actually be adding some other sensors. It's not ready for commercialization. I'm looking to raise right now.

If anyone out there, a few of your listeners, wants to invest $3.5 million in the company, they can get about 10% of the company, and they can also help us get to this. Because this a this, you know, I'll do this regardless if I can't raise the money, I'll do it with my own money because this is a legacy project. But if women could have this kind of device, younger women could then measure the impact of hormones and antidepressants upon their sexual life.

And older women could then measure the impact of diabetes hypertension um medications supplements etc and so what we're doing beneficial and also really disruptive because they're you know you can go online right now it's a multi-billion dollar naturopathical industry there's so many people pushing supplements for men and women that will help you right have this youthful sexuality most of it is taking advantage from my mind.

I think some of these people believe, but most of it from my mind is actually people taking advantage of people's hopes that, hey, if I just take a pill, I can restore things. So, placebo effect has helped for years. The placebo effect is powerful too. Sure, sure. Yep.

Again, if we could get to the we we actually had an experience or donna had experience with a gentleman um that she was playing with who is on antidepressants and he was able to stay hard for hours but could not achieve an orgasm took about eight hours that's more aggravating than not getting harder on i bet yeah that's actually not healthy that's too long That's too long. Oh, yeah. Well, it wasn't hard the whole eight hours. It would get hard because you'd mess around. And, of course, you know, you have to take a little break. So you take little breaks.

And it was like an eight-hour play session. You have to wonder with this guy, what's his dose? What if he cut the dose in half? Or what if if he cut if eliminated a third you know you're utilizing our technology to then start to play to play around with it i would think if you're having sex with a beautiful woman you have no reason to be depressed that's my opinion yeah that's just your opinion dear yeah i i i'm with you vince i don't get it also if you depressed, not being able to ejaculate.

And when you have depressed, people report the other, which is they report premature ejaculation as well, too. If you're depressed and you're going to interfere with your sexual performance, you're actually adding another factor, major factor, especially, well, I'm not going to say for men, for women as well, too. Major, something else that really has a profound impact upon their self-esteem. I agree. I agree. You're already depressed and now you can't get it up or you can't come or whatever. You're right. It just, it's another impact.

It's just like, geez, I thought I had something that would make me feel good. And now that's been dashed. Yeah, that makes sense. That makes sense. So you have a product in development for women, though. We do. And it just question this point of funding. Okay. So now you have the ring. You have one that has a sensor and one that's just a ring, right? Yeah. So the one that has a sensor is actually a really great cock ring, too, because it's adjustable. So, you know, actually, I'm showing you.

But you can the loop you can put it you can put a twist in it you know to make it tighter so you can achieve the same effect that you can with our right now our top salon product which is the max performance ring which does not have sensors but it was designed to increase the ejaculatory phase by six percent you can achieve the same effect you know with the tech ring you just have to um play with it a little bit in order to you know we're all different we have different degrees of tolerate you know i mean i've got got we have i have men with customers with big dicks who like it really tight i've got customers actually with small dicks kind of like it like it loose so it's really when it comes to cock rings there is you know some degree of personal preference comes to.

And the great thing about having a device that has a hook and a loop is that it can be adjusted. But on the other hand, customers often just want things to be just right the first time. And the maximum performance ring was designed for like 95% of men, except men are really big, to be just right the first time. Okay, so it's one size fits all then. Correct.

Well, put it this way if you're bigger than this yeah you're bigger than you need a hole no one's gonna want to sleep with you you gotta you got a problem yeah that's it they might want to look at you but i don't want to sleep with me well i don't know some of the things i've seen on the internet there's some women that want something bigger than that but anyways it's another show so but uh no so that would increase that's interesting that it also measures the ring is holding more blood in the penis increases the girth doesn't have much impact on the length increases the girth uh and it also puts a little bit older pressure over the urethra to draw the ej ejaculation.

But the data is really interesting. The data is really valuable. The data, frankly, I was trying to get this before, the data is going to become a six vital sign. So it might not be our company that makes a big money with this. But it's like advancing blood pressure. What was blood pressure before there was a machine that likes to get your blood pressure? It was a doctor putting a finger on your pulse and saying, hey, the pulse is weak, the pulse is strong. Maybe I'll have your blood pressure up.

And so now imagine if you went to a doctor with high blood pressure and you didn't check your blood pressure. He just said, hey, try these pills. Well, that's what the urologists, the sexologists are doing with ED. He's like, hey, you got ED? Take these pills. Tell us how they work. Imagine treating a heart cardiac arrhythmia, a regular pulse, without an electrocardiogram. It's like, hey, Donna, your pulse is irregular. Take these pills. But that's what we're doing with sexual dysfunction and sexual issues. Men are women. Well, that sounds like Russian roulette.

Take these pills and let's hope for the best. If if they're doing something they already have high blood pressure they increase the blood pressure even more you're really going to be in a pickle you know so yeah it's like it's like playing russian i can just see that now because you know i have a libre sensor for my diabetes so they see my my blood sugars you know so going well here's my blood sugar and here's my here's my penis my my penis stats no i'd be you know well i i think every man with diabetic I'll see you next time.

going well here's my blood sugar and here's my here's my penis my my penis stats no i'd be you know well i i think every man with diabetic should be following their erectile fitness yeah oh absolutely because i'm supportive of it you know um you know i have my good days my bad days so this is something that uh definitely want to look into and uh yeah definitely uh you know we talked about uh you know doing a sample or something like that that'd be uh definitely just send me your address and we'll get we'll get to sample but if i were to close with a message it would be if you want to have for a man you want to have better sex know your data put a ring on it yep put a ring on it women's been saying that for years this valentine's day put a ring on it put a ring on it I like it that sounds like a t-shirt and the information should be valuable year round as opposed to a box of chocolates which.

You know, there's no calories in that. See, that sounds like a shirt you need to make up. Have the product on there, have the ring on there and have a shirt. Put a ring on it. There's another product for your store. Merch. More merch. If people want to reach out to you, you said it was Elliot or Dr. Elliot? L-L-I-O-T, Elliot at myfirmtech.com. Okay. So if you reach out and then again, don't forget to go to myfirmtech.com to see the product, to order yours, and you should order yours. If you like having sex, order it. If you don't like having sex, they shouldn't be listening to this podcast.

Don, let me say something else. I think women need to take the lead. If men are going to use cock rings, I'm going to ask, what does a woman want with a partner? Or frankly, a male partner want. I want my partner to be harder, Thank you. Thank you. Bye-bye.

to leave if men are gonna if men are gonna use cock rings i'm gonna say what does a woman want with a partner or frankly a male partner want i want the i want my partner to to be harder last longer i want that person to have more pleasure as well women need to put a ring on it yeah yeah they're they're step ahead but that would only help with the erection too if a woman is putting it on you i can only see that adding oh yeah that's a whole erotic point right there sure you know at that point just know like well i gave you signs well yeah you did you're putting the ring on my dick well nothing signals a woman's interest more than in my marriage and the ring being dropped in front of my face on my laptop hey it's time to stop work that's funny i'd buy her a set of earrings where they just hang there so she's ready to just you know ready to go at any moment's notice yeah okay let's go take them off my ears i'm ready i'll be like the star at our little swinger parties that we go to have with those hanging on on me.

You'd have to get your nipples pierced. I don't see, you know, as far as swinger parties goes, I mean, they're often a place that men fantasize about them, but they're a place of anxiety for men. Oh, yeah. I can see that. And having a ring is, you know, it helps to address that issue. Yeah, actually, at the parties, I've noticed a lot of the men are wearing rings because they're hoping to have more than one interlude at the party. Right. At the party.

So to, and we've also noticed, we've talked about this on the show, that it seems like a lot of times the men will go and play with other people, mostly women, hopefully. Whatever. Whatever helps. But they don't achieve orgasm because they want to maintain the ability to have fun with others. Right. So it's like, okay, I'll give it five minutes and then I'm done. Tag me out. I sampled the goods and I'm off to the next one. That's why we're the inferior sex. I don't think so. Five minutes, hand me a wet wipe and on to the next one. It's fine. That's what parties are for.

The next goal would be to figure out how to decrease the male refractory period. The what? Well, the goal would be, another goal of this company is to figure out how to decrease the male refractory period, the time between climaxes, not erections not time between climaxes oops so people who claim it because they're taking time for a night Brian Johnson is the most probably most notorious one if that's the penis of an 18 year old no you don't. Any man I have three to five natural directions for a night and I'm 70.

I don't have the penis of an 18 year old an 18 year old can come three or four times in an hour I don't, I'm not an 18 year old and that's, so that would be, of course if we're able to accomplish that for men men the world probably and because men would just stop having to stop working just keep having sex yeah yeah they can come three or four times uh in in an hour or several hours yeah they're nothing would get done nothing would get the garbage is not getting i'm just thinking that i was like god damn i gotta take the trash out again tonight because he's too busy jerking off god damn it well you know gotta have a hobby gotta have a hobby i've got to wrap this up though yeah i know i also want to post you real quick um i started an online magazine for the swinger community um and i'd love to put an ad in there like a full page eight and a half by 11 ad for you for the uh sure if you have something like that uh i'll reach out we an ad.

Okay. And I'm going to put it in the magazine for free and send you a link. And then, uh, again, we'll help put this product out there. We'd love that. That'd be great. Um, my wife takes care of our marketing and we, we have, we just, we have several full page ads we've done. So thanks for the opportunity. Yeah, that's great. I'll email you so you can get going.

Um, I'll email you with that information and you can send it to me and we'll get this all connected um can't thank you enough for coming on the show doctor yes thank you so much that was really interesting that was fun and again if people have any questions uh they can reach dr elliot at elliot at my firm tech.com or you can email us at hot wife podcast at gmail.com and we will get the message to him. And definitely, you know, something to check out, man. I mean, I was skeptical at first, like, oh, I don't need this. But now I'm kind of like, I think I need this. I think you need this, babe.

I do too, especially if you're diabetic. It's good for you. You need it for your health. Sure, gets me more sex i'll oh hell yeah i'll find a way to wear four so if i had big toes i'd put them on there but so anyway you're silly all right well thank you again doctor we really appreciate it so much okay and you have a great day and uh we'll be talking after the show okay very good Thanks. Have a great night. Bye. All right, we're going to wrap this show up. Okay. Very good. Thanks. Have a great night. Bye. So, all right. We're going to wrap this show up. Cool. That was a lot of fun. Thanks.

All right. Bye-bye.