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Donna is Bi and isn't shy about it. We discuss the differences between having sex with a man and a woman. She shares the aspects of each she likes. We compare the both and see if she leans more one way or the other.Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/hot-wife-podcast-and-the-swinger-lifestyle--5343522/support. Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
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The commentary of this program is the sole opinion of its host or guest and does not reflect that of the opinion of the Hot Wife Podcast's owners, agents, or representatives. This podcast is not meant to be taken as professional advice. Hi, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast, where we discuss all the good, the bad, and the really erotic of the swinger lifestyle. Hello, everybody, and this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. I know, he's making fun of me.
Stop making fun of of me yes i'm here with vince and he is making faces when i say my yep well do you want to want to make it the hot husband podcast by all means you couldn't deal with the fame that i would get from the hot husband podcast yeah let's just put it would just be you know joe rogan would be like can i come on your show it's like no joe you're a nothing show you know and okay by all means i think you should do it adam calhoun oh vince oh no man this is the top podcast no we can't do it this is the hot husband yeah dude it's you know the fame that i would get not to mention all the women that want to be with you.
And that's different hell. Well, that actually makes sense since you are the hot husband after all. Thank you for not breaking my bubble, okay? Let me live in my fucking fantasy world and enjoy all that is my imagination. Swallow, bitch.
fantasy world and enjoy all that is my you know imagination swallow bitch i was trying to take a drink strategically but that didn't work you saw me take a drink you're like oh i'm gonna make it just happened to be perfect timing i didn't notice you're drinking but i just happened to work out so there you go hey we got the audio today yes from uh jay uh-huh of her giving a blow job to her friend yes that was very hot yes it was all that moaning and groaning i'll tell you i only wish i i texted her back i said coach put me in put me in so i'm like i was trying to um like in my mind there's a lot of scenarios going on so i kind of wish there was a there's a lot of ooh and aah which i thought was great but i wish it was just a little bit more verbal like oh your dick's so big or how you know how it fills her mouth just like just you're just used to what you say with me oh yeah that's exactly what i say with you sure um of course dear again all right i'm not i'm not fantasy world i'm not giving you a quarter next time that's it you're doing it for free next time oh yeah i'm doing it for free all right free every fucking night you pay but yeah i thought it was very very hot very hot yeah very hot and i told her now she has to deliver a video a pov video I mean, friend doesn't want his face in it of course a pov is perfect pov that way we get the visual and the audio oh that'll be hot especially like uh what i think hot of a pov is which really is hot is like a nice like large facial well depends on how she wants it does she want it on her face or in her mouth.
That's up to her. Ooh,'s also anywhere i'm like they wanted to see it if it's in your mouth it's kind of like how big a cum load he's got yeah yeah you need to kind of like you know it's it's hard to like sure instinctively i want to swallow so i kind of you know ruins it so if they come on my face not in my mouth then you can really see it i can like mess it around with a, you know, ruins it. So if they come on my face, not in my mouth, then you can really see it. I can like mess it around with a, you know, through the cock and like rub it all over my face. No, it's fine. Oh, come on.
You think it's hot. Especially if you're the one. Not the one receiving it. No, of course not. I'm a giver, sure. And I'm a giving person.
You are a giving giving person never let it be said that you're not a giving person you want to come load i am giving you one i also could come load all my tits i think that looks pretty hot too what'd you do with it when i'm done i don't care yeah i think it's fun to like take again take uh take the head of the guy's dick or and like well before you get too far into that let's talk about tonight's topic oh yes okay so i came up with a topic today of like okay i am not bisexual and i'm happy about that and you are yes so you've got to experience um both sex with men and sex with women sometimes at the same time sometimes if i'm lucky enough if it goes right sure We'll be right back.
experience um both sex with men and sex with women sometimes at the same time sometimes if i'm lucky enough if it goes right sure um so i want you to describe to people i know men have this curiosity okay maybe some women do who aren't bisexual oh they're bi-curious you mean no they just like it might be in, it might be in their head, but they don't ever, like, talk about it. Like, how many women might want to be with another woman but don't want to verbalize it? Isn't that kind of being bi-curious? No. Sure it is. No, bi-curious means they're willing to try it, I think.
If it has to start as something else. Okay, they're bi-curious. Get over it. Well, you're thinking about, like, ooh, that might be something I'm into. That's, like, step one. Yeah, you're thinking about it. It's in your head. You're formalizing it. This is why my show's going to be so much better. How would your show be so much better than Mr. Smarty Pants? Because you won't be on it. Oh, burn! I might need an ice cube for that one.
Not enough ice for one baby not enough ice we're going right to the burn center you need a skin grass i think so you're such an asshole i love you but you're an asshole you, that's because it's packed around a perfect ass. I mean. Wow. Okay. Of course. Oh, I don't care anymore. I haven't done that the last few shows. I know. Thank God. I've been behaving. As well you should. Get a new one. I have to find something new to aggravate her. That one's not aggravating you. No, it doesn't aggravate me anymore. You need a new one.
have to find something new to aggravate you that one's not aggravating no it doesn't aggravate me anymore you need a new one so anyway i want to have this discussion um and so this will be your show because i don't have a lot to talk about with half of the topic no not the women part the men part oh um of so describe i guess you're going to describe i guess the best way to to handle this is you're going to describe I'll see you next time. Oh. So I guess you're going to describe, I guess the best way to handle this is you're going to describe like what you enjoy about being with a man. Mm-hmm.
Then you're going to talk about what you enjoy being with a woman. Mm-hmm. And then we'll do a comparison. Okay. And then you may or may not be able to sit there and actually i mean i think i know the answer but i say which one you prefer well not yet not yet don't tell the joke don't tell the punchline before you tell the joke i the only reason is i have a lot more experience with men than with women i understand that but still i mean i wish i you had a lot of experience with women when you were younger. Not as much as men, obviously. No, not as much as men. I would love to have a...
Warm woman, warm women. A girl. A steady girlfriend? Yeah, kind of like a steady girlfriend. Somebody we can have a little threesome with. It would be kind of fun. Yeah, I think it would be fun. The trick is it's getting her to want to have a threesome with me.
I mean, she would want to because I'm the hot husband Right, you're the hot husband Go and stick that chest out I am You can't suck it Come on, suck it in That's what I told you Yeah, okay Okay, so we'll start with the most obvious one your your most common one sex with farm animals i mean farm animals with men well i really like the sheep bad until you had one of those long-haired cattle you just haven't lived um no okay so um tell us like what is like what part of having sex with Mattel is like the things that, okay, so here's how you're going to do it. Are you going to ask these questions?
Yeah, I'm trying to get so I can get the most descriptive answers out of you because sometimes you just like to go, you know, I like the hard cocks. It's like, I'm looking for more than that. Okay. Yeah, what do you like about what? Oh, the white pussy. Okay, so we can't really compare the two because neither one has the same thing. Okay. So if you were going to lay in bed and you had your eyes closed and you were going to masturbate and you were thinking about a generic guy, a faceless man. Okay.
What, what are the aspects of his body and what the two of you will do together are your favorite, your stimuli, your arousals, your whatever. Okay. And let's take the one out that it, okay. The one part that's going to be arousing to you is it's not my husband. Of course. With that off the table. Okay. Well, um, I find very erotic.
I like, I like the, the power of a man of a man especially um it doesn't look good on video but i like having a man laying on me from time to time and having that weight but not not too much with the jenny not not too much weight i i like um like when i was with um steven i liked his he had a nice firm chest he had like you know his abs were very tight that's very stimulating you run your hands over it that kind of man boobs don't keep you warm you don't have man boobs okay but that i found that very interesting and the musculature of a of a man i find very exciting that way being um uh controlled to a certain degree to a certain degree i don't want to be you know man so you're saying you like to be more subservient to a man sometimes yeah for the most part okay sometimes yeah and in my mind what really gets me going in my little fantasies when I go into the it's usually my little dirty couch dance fantasy I love straddling a guy's thick cock and like in my mind um what really i i find very erotic is uh that skin to skin like my wet pussy just rubbing up against the whole ship like uh like if he was wearing like sweatpants whatever he just rolls him down his cock just pops out so it's like laying flat against his abdomen and i can like straddle my dick touch my abdomen shut off it does so it kind of hangs down low enough yeah okay and i can just like ride it that way and i that that wetness up and down the shaft and i can feel like as my pussy glides up that shaft just when i get when i get to the head of his cock, I can feel that little, that little ripple, that little Corona of the, of the cock and have my pussy, you know, just glide over that.
I find that very, very exciting. Shut up, you asshole.
I'm trying to be seductive here and you're being a douchebag so stop it but yeah i i in my mind too i like the thought and the visual of riding that cock seeing that cock spread my pussy lips wide slide slowly inside me all the way down to the root like the the hard thrust more one of the more erotic things in the same genre you're talking about right pardon me is i've seen where guys like you're laying on your back and guys will just sit there and rub their dick over your of your yeah i do and i love when they have enough restraint i guess yeah okay or willpower or maybe, i don't know what's a better word um is um when they tease you enough like that and then you get to the point you watch your hips gyre you're trying to almost like get him to put his dick in your pussy and then finally you beg him please fuck me that that is you know like the one we did some years ago i remember that guy in front of a fireplace on an ottoman and he he probably at least for five minutes just fucking rubbed the head of his dick up and down i came that way okay i came that night that way yeah and and what really really if um not all guys generally had a lot of pre-cum but if you're using pre-cum and they're rubbing it you know up and down your clit if you don't have pre-cum I'll see you next time.
all guys generally had a lot of pre-cum but if you're using pre-cum and they're rubbing it you know up and down your clit if you don't have pre-cum may i suggest spunk lube it does the same thing yeah i mean seriously it's it's that that lubrication i don't care how you get it spit um pre-cum and not cum it's water soluble right or spunk lube yeah yeah and you can buy it at spunk lube.com and if you go to spunk lube.com and you place an order which you should oh yeah make sure in the discount code area in the back you type in hot life and you will get your own spunk lube well you'll get it you also get a 10 discount on your complete order and they just came out with a new product that is organic avocado and organic coconut oil.
See, I want to try that. Yeah, it's supposed to be here any day now. Anyway, back to your story. Well, it's the same thing. You need that lubricant and spunk glue would be perfect for that.
If you have somebody natural it looks natural it feels like cum that i mean that would make me cum like really fast just rubbing his dick up and down on my clit and i could feel my clit start to get like swollen and i can actually feel my pussy lips like start to like you know swell and open up you know like a little flower type of a thing and it's like oh my god but visually and the sensation of having a cock like sliding inside of me i find very erotic very erotic i'm gonna agree yeah i'm sure it's like the cock sliding in you is very erotic yes not not a cock sliding in me no i'm not erotic that's called prison but that's you know not just my pussy i mean even in my ass Thank you.
Not a cock sliding in me. No, I know. Not erotic. That's called prison. But that's, you know, not just my pussy. I mean, even in my ass, the same thing. You know, I find that. Now, that's a whole different story. Jesus Christ. I knew we were going to go there. Stop it. Why did I even say that? But, yeah. and he... Oh, Stephen. Stephen. That's a big dick. I'm surprised his dick even fit in my ass. He's a nice guy. Don't call him a big dick. I said that. I didn't say he. I said that. You could be referring to him as a that. He can identify as that. That might be one of his adjectives. Okay.
Whatever. Whatever, you know. Okay. But, yeah, I find that very, very erotic. Guys, when it comes to kissing, I find I like, I have a preference for facial hair. I like facial hair.
I think it feels good to good to kiss yeah as long as it's not too too spiny you know sometimes sometimes like when you just when you just shave your mustache it kind of gets are you trimming it now stop it you kiss somebody's kind of like you know pokes you a little bit but i find that very right i love i love kissing guys with facial hair it's not necessary but i mean i think it tastes good and it's sterile that's true yeah well but then you know how are you with facial hair do you like kissing guys with facial hair it doesn't bother me as much as kissing women with facial hair i really don't like kissing kissing women with facial hair.
Especially when their beard is thicker than mine. Thicker than yours? Yeah, that's a problem. But yeah, I like facial hair. I'm not a huge fan of a lot of body hair. I know you can't, you know, guys, I know you can't help that. It is what it is. But like chest hair, I'm fine with. if like you're like borderline sasquatch it's kind of like oh no it's like being fucked by sasquatch those poor guys you know the guys with their like super hairy super hairy backs is well back i don't shave it that's just gotta be brutal okay let's say sexy yeah yeah um i'm sure there's things you can do for that.
Yeah, have to keep shaving it then there's a stubble you imagine sleeping on stubble no thanks well yeah okay get back to the sexy part well that's why i shave every single night i i don't like i like smooze all the time me too i'm just just that kind of person so so anyway back to the this big hairy guy on top i just lost it wow that made you come yeah oh yeah well well i i like a little bit of body hair you know i'm fine with that and i chest hair chest hair yeah i have i have like a a gradient i can you know like his cock shaved oh yeah see like you can be a hairy guy but as long as that's all down there at all nice and shaved i'm fine that's fine just don't be making that all hairy i don't like that okay we already talked about that i don't i don't want to be sucking on a freaking poodle you know just that's just me though folks everybody has their own thing so yeah but um yeah riding that cock i find very very erotic okay so i'm probably actually a little more i'm like if you were to put me in a percentage as to straight and by probably a little more straight than i am by probably like 60 40 something like that or b than i yeah more b than i but more b than i no i'm more s than b straight than bi i only because i have a lot more experience with men than i have with with women sure women are definitely fun yeah but women are a whole different um aspect there's a lot softer there's a lot we'll get to that we'll get to that it.
I'm just, we're just going over the part you like about having sex with men. Yeah. I like, I do like the penis and the penis is definitely fun. Uh, although if he can eat a mean pussy, that's even better. That's, that's the best of both worlds, you know? Well, that's a, that's kind of a, a thing that would go for both. Oh yeah, absolutely. Okay.
So that's, that's not a a uh thing that would go for both oh yeah absolutely okay so that's that's not a deal breaker because you want them both to be able to do that sure okay but so that's a plus if they both could do it so that's kind of a neutral yeah it is kind of a neutral it's kind of neutral it's kind of about yeah you know unlike the facial hair like oh i like my guys with it i don't like my women with it. No. So there's two different things there. Two totally different things there. Yeah, but they both got to be a bitty pussy.
You know, and you can't say, I want a woman to plant her cock deep in my snatch. Yeah, and you know what? I don't even think a strap-on would be the same. Well, we're going to talk about that. Okay, so I don't want to jump to the gun here. So you're leading the show. No, it's your show. It's the hot wife show. Obviously, no, it's the hot husband show. No, I told you it'd be hot. We'd have more ratings. I don't know.
a gun here so you're leading the show no it's your show it's the hot wine show obviously no it's the hot husband show no i told you we'd have more ratings of course yeah because i wouldn't be on it okay i get it you said it i'm disagreeing so yeah um yeah i do like being i do like that power thing man. I do. I do like being a little more subservient. I like them to control me to some degree. To some degree. Okay. You know, not too much because then I get really, then I don't want to be manhandled. You don't want to be forced. Right. I think there's an edge there for you.
There's definitely an edge. You enjoy being, this might sound weird, controlled but not forced yeah exactly yeah yeah and and so i know somebody and i knew well i'm saying what's yeah like there's some guys i've seen i'm like i say fuck my face and anybody else i'll use an example someone that you're comfortable with um He was here the other day, helped me work on the back walk. Oh, yeah. Oh, my God, yeah. Okay. He's a great guy. You're very comfortable with him. You've been on a few hot dates with him. You've shot with him a few times. A bunch of times, yeah. And stuff like that.
So, you know, and he's not overbearing or anything else, but he does take a little sight control at times. Oh, yes. That's fine. And so I'm saying, so that's enjoyable. Oh, yeah. That's great. He's awesome. Yeah, so that's fine. That's what I'm saying. We know each other. So that's enjoyable. Oh, yeah, that's great. He's awesome. Yeah, so that's the, we'll use him as the standard. Sure. Okay, okay, not, you know, he's not a huge penis. He's in good shape. He's in good shape. He's got a very nice cock. He's the average supposedly what the average man is. Maybe slightly more if that. Yeah, yeah.
Something like that. But he's probably about average. I'd put him, and that's not a derogatory thing. No, no. He's very, he fits into all the holes very comfortably. And if you go to hotwifedonnalyn.com, you can see videos that will prove it. Especially the one where I get the most massive anal cream pie was from him. It is huge. Yeah, Jesus Christ. That was amazing. If Dunkin' Donuts stuffed their donuts with that much cream, Jesus Christ. Oh, yeah, you'd have like a puddle. You could only put four donuts in a dozen. Fill up the box. Yeah, really.
He did fill up my asshole wasn't your box oh well it's my anal box okay so so you like the aspect of the man with slightly more masculine more more forceful not forceful but definitely slight more dominance yeah a little more dominant a little more more control. Do you think there's something to come to play with the pheromone aspect of a man? Ah, yeah, I would imagine. I mean, do some of the smells and the sweat, I think men tend to sweat more? Yeah. The only thing that is a turnoff, we talked about this before, is too much cologne. Yeah, we did. Don't do too much cologne.
I'd rather have somebody. Well, we're saying that's the odd out. That's the odd one. But yeah, just a little bit of sweat. It doesn't have any cologne, but it just has deodorant. Yep, yep. And, you know, there's a masculine sweat going on. I like that. A lot of friction going on. Oh, yeah. I like that a lot. Okay. Yeah, I don't mind guys sweating on me. That's fine. Okay. And the more dominant kisser? Yeah, I like that a lot. Okay. Yeah, I don't mind guys sweating on me. That's fine. Okay. And the more dominant kisser? Yeah, I do like that.
I mean, men tend to be a more dominant kisser from my experience. I mean, from what I'm told. From your experience. I didn't say that. I didn't say that. Uh-huh. Yeah. I think we have interference, something coming in from another, I don't know.
Another on well here's a flip side too but sometimes i like to flip the roles and i like to become more dominant if i know the the man i'm with is maybe more submissive no no just less experience let's say somebody i've been with who's like first of all 20 years younger than me never had anal never been with a lot of women never never did all these things and i can show him and i also think due to your age and you know um your age and for your age how attractive and sexy you are i think some younger men especially get intimidated oh i don't know why i think so i think they do you think so?
well there's also the intimidation factor that you have this incredibly handsome husband I was going there I was just thinking incredibly handsome husband watching as this younger inexperienced man how can I compare that's what he's thinking how can I compare with Oh, yeah, that's what he's thinking. How can I compare with her husband? I am just nothing in comparison in his shadow. Well, it's true, but. Get over here and fuck my wife, for God's sake. What are you laughing at? I'm not laughing. I'm not laughing at you. I'm laughing with you. I wasn't laughing. Oh, sorry about that.
I thought you were. Sure, okay.
don't buy that for a fucking second anyway um so yeah i mean but yeah some of the guys get you know so the the less dominant so i guess the word i don't want to say less masculine because they're not less masculine but they're less dominant or maybe just because they're in this situation where they are maybe a bit intimidated because they may not have the experience sure so i take that into account so that's actually kind of exciting too to show them new things and you know um i was with that that one younger guy he was like i don't like 20 something yeah I know sorry it was you realize you've been fucking more younger guys than you than you have older guys than you oh yeah absolutely you've actually reached that age now where 98% of the guys you play with now are younger than you oh absolutely I'm very aware of that I'm okay with that I'm not saying it's a bad thing no it's actually a really cool thing Thank you.
younger than you oh absolutely i'm very aware of that i'm okay with that no i'm not saying it's a bad thing no it's actually a really cool thing but i was with this one younger guy and um it he um i i i slid him out of my pussy and into my ass and his eyes open wide he goes oh my god oh my god it's so tight i'm gonna come i'm gonna come it was it was so fucking hot because he never well the one never did that before the one guy who you played with who was a webcam fan yes you know the first time you played with him uh-huh it almost like when you went to put him in your ass like he's like oh no no we don't no we don't it's like yeah he was like no we'll do this another time i'm like no no no we're gonna do this there may not be another time there may not be another time he was like, no, we'll do this another time.
I was like, no, we're going to do this. There may not be another time. There may not be another time. He was here from out of state. Right. So he traveled a long distance. He happened to be in the area on business. Yeah, but he still traveled a long time. It wasn't like he traveled. Steven came here for the wild weekend. Yeah, I know. Oh, dear.
But this gentleman was here on business and happened to be a fan prior right and uh we arranged and webcams together so but okay so kind of covered what you like about having sex with men oh pretty much we're gonna revisit this we're gonna do to do a comparison, okay? So now let's get back into your experience with women. What about having sex with women do you like? Now, again, for those who might be listening, why does it say make love? Making love and having sex are two different things. Two different things.
There's no emotions tied into the stuff we do i mean when don and i are in the bedroom it's just sex it's just sex there is no emotion not even a little it's kind of hate it she's like if you do that podcast a hot fucking husband show you son of a bitch you'll ruin my show you make me sit in on your fucking boring-ass show. I got better things I do. I have to be cleaning my toenails. I sit there on your show. But anyway. Thank you. I digress. I feel so special now. That's a new word for me, digress. Digress, yeah.
Well, the sex we have is all angry sex anyway it's all angry sex we thought for years that oral sex was just walking by each other in the house going fuck you fuck you too yeah see we had oral sex anyway so um i'm gonna take notes now okay so tell me what do you enjoy or have you enjoyed when you are having sex with another woman? It's a whole different. So tell me, what do you enjoy or have you enjoyed when you are having sex with another woman? It's a whole different, for me, a whole different mindset. Well, you're comparing apples and oranges. Exactly. And that's what I'm saying.
It's softer. That's the purpose of the show is tell people what's the difference. I mean, for a woman who is bi-curious. Right.
Or a man who is like want to hear this okay well women are definitely like they're softer so the kisses are more softer sometimes um kissing is different yeah it's a little more tender it's a little more i would almost say from what i've witnessed and i've seen more lesbian sex than most men should be allowed i'm not talking i'm not talking watching porn i'm talking shooting porn right bouncing bachelor parties i mean more lesbian sex in front of me than you know live right and so anyway but it seems like i almost want to say from and you can correct me if i'm wrong and you will you'll correct me if i'm right i'm absolutely is what i do when women are actually having sex it is probably closer to love making than men like a man or a woman there's a lot more emotion it seems like yeah a lot it's a lot more tender in general in general now i've been with some women that have been um uh just uh just real quick seeing know who i'm talking about.
I did a threesome with her boyfriend or a boy that – a guy she gave me – it was a birthday present. And I went over there as a threesome. Yeah. And she was hungry. I've never been kissed by this – it was like kissing her. I mean, her kisses were hungry. Oh, she's aggressive. Very aggressive, yeah. So that's totally different, yeah. Yeah basically, yeah, her tongue. Yeah. Yeah. Took all my balls from the inside. Yeah, pretty much. That was pretty, actually pretty amazing. I mean, she. Yeah, she could suck dick too. Oh, she could eat pussy too. She was really, really. Okay, back up.
But she's different. I mean, usually that's a little more tender. It's a little more softer.
there's a lot more caressing and fondling uh there's a lot of kisses on the and not that men don't do this but there's a lot more kisses like on the nape of your neck on your breasts on your nipples not that men don't do that but women tend to spend more time with your breasts your nipples and you know kissing your belly and rubbing it and caressing your thighs up and down not all men women do women do but some but some i mean it's not that men don't is what i'm saying but women tend to do it more they'll be like you know rubbing your butt and you know caressing your thighs you know i think right off the bat i'll say this i probably saved it for a comparison comparison later.
One of the differences is men want to fuck. Women want to give what they want. Yeah, that might be a good way to put it.
I think if you're going into a girl-girl situation and weren't sure what to do, if you kind of mimicked what the other girl is doing to you i think you'll please her because she's giving you what what she wants oh yeah exactly exactly you know so and i did i remember talking to one bisexual woman and this is totally wrong she's like well you know all women know what other women want which is absolutely untrue untrue all women are different you know what what you know what one woman might really like uh another woman might really be turned off by i mean let's just say if uh our buddy uh angelina was by and she's not but i mean she wants to be smacked around she wants to bite she's she's very aggressive i mean And she's, I wouldn't want that.
Well, one woman might like fisting. Sure. You don't want to be fisted so you know i i want and if you're going to finger me i want it done you know slowly and again here going back a little bit and that's the problem when you hear some women bitch about men like oh he didn't do this or didn't do it's like again we're complete opposites what we want what you want are two different different things and either some guys are in tune to it or some guys are completely oblivious to it so you you aren't going to get we're going to get stuff you don't want potentially from some people. Exactly.
You know, like some guys just forego foreplay. Yeah. They just want to put their dick in. Right. There's people, and there's women I know that aren't big into oral. Right. They just want to get fucked. Right. Right. But everybody's different. And so I'm saying is, so your, your pregame has to involve like, okay, what can I do? What are the things when we go do this that you have to do in a better way than I'm wording it? But, you know, it's like. Would he come with a list? A checklist. A checklist, okay. Here's the menu. Here's the menu. Pick what you would like. Pick what you would like.
It's almost like a Chinese menu. One of them, column A, two from column B type of thing. And no MSG. That's a good thing there. It's all natural. You don't want any artificial flavors. I was hoping not. No flavor enhancements. But, yeah, I mean, this is a conversation before you're with somebody.
really need to have in some form i don't know how you make it sexy well yeah well you know sometimes that's what that that sexting is kind of good before you meet somebody like before we have a plane make come over hey baby i want to do this and that's you know okay we'll get back to that part let's get back to the whole aspect of the when you're with one what do you like because we're going to do the comparison. The comparison. Hopefully we'll get back to that part. Let's get back to the whole aspect of the, when you're with a woman, what do you like? Because we're going to do the comparison.
The comparison. Hopefully, we'll get back to that. Hopefully. That whole sensuality, I just find very erotic. You know, when I was with Autumn, I found that probably very, very erotic. Sure. You know, we did the. I can't argue that. Oh, yeah, that was. as wet as her pussy got oh my god stringing juices oh dear lord that was crazy oh my god and you know and just like sliding my fingers in there was just it just slid in it was like so slippery wet and you know slower oh sliding my fingers into her pussy. Oh, my God. Her pussy was so slippery. Almost there. Keep going.
It's like you could tell her whole everything was all swollen. I mean, that's like when you're down there and you're munching on that, licking that thing, it's like, oh, my God. And I've done that. That was very erotic. That was a very good experience. I know I did not do nearly as good as you. I needed to do my lesson. It doesn't matter how good a job you did. It's just how great it is. It is great. It was really great. But she was very sweet. Very sweet. And the thing is, she is a little more dominant than I am. She knows what she wants.
Oh, she's definitely in a girl-girl situation situation the alpha oh i put it that way i wouldn't i don't want to say dom she's not a dom but she's definitely the alpha she's definitely more yeah she's more the aggressor she's more the aggressor which is fine i mean i'm good with that yeah no i don't shit yeah you know i don't i've only been with what maybe 20 women my whole life. That's like 19 more than me. 30 women. Yeah, right. 30, 30 women. I don't know. But compared to the amount of men that I've been with, it's like. Well, you've far surpassed the amount of men I've been with.
I know I have. Have I? Yes, you have. Yes, you have.
However many you've been with,'m a hundred thousand less than that really wow i am i'll catch up though i'm a slut i am definitely a slut well that's what i love about you oh you're so sweet yeah you know i can't find you a birthday card it says to my favorite oh that'd be so funny if you could buy something like that maybe in an adult bookstore maybe anyway so back to the women aspect of things so okay so the you know the one thing i see with women when they're together that you don't get necessarily with men and a woman a man and a woman is the eye contact really yeah i you know again i've videotaped or videoed enough sex between everything that's interesting generally women have more sensual eye contact i you know being that i'm yeah i i did not know that yeah i guess you being on the outside looking in, you would see something like that.
That's interesting. Whether it's kissing or say you're licking your nipples. I mean, they like looking at it. There's a certain sensual, a very animalistic. Look, we're men. We're looking at what we're doing because we're afraid of fumbling it.
Don don't fuck up and get the wrong hole unless you're laying in a certain position when you're giving oral to a woman you can't see her face anyway that's true you know most of the time i just see you know stomach and boobs yeah yeah and um but um and even i think during the sex process we keep looking down at the pussy to make sure her dick's still in there. It's like, yeah, fuck yeah. You know? God, I hope it's not popping up. There's times, obviously you're kissing or something, God, you're fucking. Yeah.
But I think with women in general, it's the kind of thing there's like, there's a lot more, uh, play going on where there's kissing and fingering and touching and stuff like that going on. Right. So, but the eye contact is so much more intense. That's interesting. I, I didn't really think about that. I didn't really think about that. Oh, that's interesting. I have to go back and look at those videos of, uh, sure. Autumn and myself.
We even have one, a little bit with uh not too much of you and jennifer ray oh yeah that one wasn't so much not so much yeah but um yeah no it's uh i found that to be one of the things i've noticed a lot about the uh girl girl play right right you know a lot more touching and stuff you know and um caressing right uh kissing sucking all over the body yeah there's a lot more attention to uh more tactile more more yeah like you said kissing and caressing i mean like so every part every your body. Yeah, before we get into the comparison stuff, so here's a question.
Do you think women who are experiencing a bi situation are more likely to be women who don't necessarily crave penetration? Like I said, there's some people. Okay, and I'll put her name out there, Mickey. Mickey thrives on penetration. She wants penetration. She's openly admitted numerous times that she enjoys oral, but that's not her thing. She really wants to be penetrated. Right, right. I'm sure there are some. I can, I have, well, you're more, I have better, stronger orgasms through oral than I do through penetration. Although the workup from oral, it's like, take me out of the equation.
What? Why? Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. I like your oral skills. I know you do. But I'm saying is if you took my oral skills out of the equation, and I'm not saying I'm the end all be all but I am no I'm not but the thing is even if they have good oral skills it takes me up to a certain level then after that I'm like okay I can come like that but I might even enjoy it more if there is penetration sure I've always found oral orgasms far stronger than penetration orgasms or masturbation Thank you. Sure. Oh, I've always found oral orgasms far stronger than penetration orgasms or masturbation.
How do you know about penetration? When I fuck a woman? Okay, that kind of... Yeah, when I... No, not getting penetrated. Receiving. No, no. Oh, I thought I had you there. No, no. I'd have nothing to, like, slip up on. I'm sorry, you know? No. It's like saying, you know, it's like, oh, you've been to Nome, Alaska. No, I've never been to Alaska. But you just said, no, I didn't because I've never been to Alaska. I've never been to Alaska. But yeah, okay. Difference between getting at my ass and going to Alaska is I want to go to Alaska.
Okay, that's good to know yeah um but um not for what we talked about but no the orgasm strengths again different topic possibly um you know receiving oral orgasm is far superior to me than when i'm penetrating a woman oh there you go or you had to put it or even masturbation right okay it's just not that those orgasms aren't good but they're not the one i get through oral i think because there's more body parts in play and you're you know and everything else everything else where you could just kind of sit there, lay there and enjoy.
And again, as we talked about in prior podcast, it's your mental game. Yep. And just a quick sidebar. We know guys that can't come from oral at all. Sure. Oh, it's different for everyone. You know, it's like, wow. We know guys who can't come during intercourse. They have to jerk off. Yeah, we do know people like that. Which we've talked about, how do you come? So we've done that topic. We have done that topic, but I just think it's like, wow, that is interesting. It is very interesting. But yeah, I mean, I like having the oral orgasm. If a woman can give me an orgasm, that's phenomenal. Sure.
The orgasms are probably a little different than what I get from a man but you know they're just different there's a lot more sensuality there's a lot more caressing and build up and i would love to make a t-shirt that says this you know there is no such thing as a bad orgasm yeah just some are better than others yeah um that's true I'll take it any way I can get it sure but better than others yeah um that's true yeah i'll take it any way i can get it sure but um so uh yeah so okay so let's compare the two now okay okay so we've just compared the orgasms sure the orgasms orgasms.
I think with the man in general, everything's a little firmer, a little more aggressive, a little more. What's the word I'm looking for? Just a little more dominant. Dominant. Yes. Not always, but in general, my experience in general just seems to be a little more dominant, a little more aggressive, a little more hands on.
And women just seems to be a little more dominant a little more aggressive a little more hands-on and women just tend to be a little more sensual a little more tender a little slower a little more just a little more grace to it it's it's more definitely more sensual definitely more sensual the man female the female okay yeah i agree yeah men's is more i think men's if i could put a term to be more animalistic like a lot of i mean men not not that they can't be sensual and all that but when it comes down to the whole once they get their dick inside they it becomes much more animalistic which is fine i find that very erotic sure and there's nothing wrong with that but with women the whole thing tends to be more sensual in general now i don't i've never used to strap on i've never been or i haven't had a strap on used at me in a long long time yeah back when you did bachelor parties yeah but that was a different mindset.
It wasn't like you were enjoying it, it was performing. It was performing. It's still fun, don't get me wrong, but it wasn't like, I couldn't just lay back and really enjoy it. So, yeah, I don't think a strap-on would do it for me. It would just be brush burns. Okay. You know, maybe that dreamy slut.
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I think a lot of them would be depends on the mood in general. I think you would ask a lot of questions.
Who to a man a woman depends on the mood i like doing both okay who would you rather do you a man a woman i i think i'd rather have a woman do me unless it's you with that tongue with that fucking strong tongue thank you if she has a strong tongue like yours it'll be a run for your money here's 20 hours back okay all right um hmm you know what i'm i'm pretty much split almost down the middle it's there definitely depends on my mood you know the i would just love to do a threesome with another woman and a man that'd be that'd be so much fun okay that would be great be great for him because he'd have two women suck at his cock oh yeah i'm sure he'd hate in life no no not two beautiful women fucking suck at me kind of like i don't know okay so okay here's a uh a scenario okay you got to go away for an erotic weekend not romantic but erotic oh erotic weekend with either man or a woman oh i think it'd be fun to go away with a woman okay why oh well you know you mess around in the hotel room and then you get you know dressed real sexy and you go down to the bar and you you pick up a guy and take him upstairs i figured you were gonna go to go there.
Yeah, that's cool. That would be kind of fun. That's a erotic as shit. That would be kind of fun. It's like, you know, you get dressed all sexy and it's, you know, pick somebody up and take him upstairs and ravish him. Sure. That was kind of the answer I expected you to. That's what you expected. Well, I'm glad I didn't disappoint.
No, that's all right's all right okay again take me out of the equation we get a stronger orgasm from man or a woman depends on or depends on the situation um probably a man only because when i get to that point where i want penetration and i don't want a toy to penetrate me because it's there is a difference and i i want a cock in me and i want a cream pie i'll go with the man it just because he can deliver that okay that's no wrong answer yeah no wrong answer at all i'm just asking a question I mean, yeah I find that very erotic Not a problem Let's see, what was one of the other comparisons Okay, women has to be shaved too, right?
Oh, absolutely Everybody's smooth Everybody's smooth Okay Trying to take anything else there That would be a comparison I can't think of anything I mean Thank you.
trying to take anything else there that would be a comparison as i can't think of anything i mean all right so you enjoy both obviously i do enjoy both and you tend to lean slightly more towards men slightly because you went to penetration yeah eventually yeah not a deal do you think a woman with the right toy could satisfy you with penetration or the fact that you want that hot cream pie um if there's a deal breaker um if there was a toy out there that could mimic and we mimic a a cream pie that might be cool but like the the toys i have up there the the bulb it's like that you know that i would okay it's not the same let me ask you this would let's pretend there was a toy that was able to deliver a warmed up spunk lube load yep that would be yep that you would get that sensation sure would that be as satisfying as feeling a man on you, delivering that load, feeling him twitch and everything else?
Oh, no, no. Okay, so that's what I'm saying is it wouldn't be as satisfying as actually having a human, a man, with his erect penis inside of you.'s something very erotic when another human has an appendage, i.e. penis, cock, big, thick, throbbing cock, buried inside of you. That person cannot be. I'll take your word for it. That person cannot be any closer to you than he is. No, you're one at that point. Yes. That is something very, very, I find very erotic. Your two pieces of a jigsaw puzzle snap together at that point, sure. He's got an Audi and I've got an innie.
So it's, yeah, I find that very, very. He's got an Audi and he's got it in you. Yep. And we can feel him, we can feel him, like his cock, like pumping. I trust you.
And you can feel that hot goo inside you oh it's oh i do crave that i find that very erotic yeah no i get you i like watching it yeah but i mean i can see that that's what i'm saying it's the same as yeah when i've been you know fucking women and stuff like that that you know when they come right or even when i get to come right you get like you're grabbing their hips oh yeah you're like really like trying to get it in even deeper for whatever reason it's like it's already gonna go so deep doesn't matter how far i go yeah but still but it's that yeah there is that moment there of electricity at that point yeah it.
It kind of happens. It's really erotic that I would think you would miss in a girl-girl thing. Yeah. Yeah. Not that it wouldn't be great. It wouldn't be wonderful. No, I'm not saying, no, I'm not taking anything away from it. I'm just saying is, I think there's that certain, and maybe that's where women make up for it with the eye contact and a little more sensuality in the whole experience. It all happens, but for a man and a woman, it happens at that moment of orgasm for the most part. Sure. Where with women, there tends to be a more constant flow of that energy. Right, right.
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