Do the Clothes make you sexy?

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Hi, this is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife podcast, where we discuss all the good, the bad, and the really erotic of the swinger lifestyle. Hello, everybody. This is Donna Lynn, and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast and of course I'm here once again with my wonderful husband Vince Oh jeez See now I can see you so I can add the flourishes as I introduce you He's looking at you rolling his eyes So I can see a bullshit. Couldn't you hear the eye roll? Couldn't you hear his eyes roll? Which is all right. I cleaned up the studio a little bit. Moved some stuff out of here.

Adjusted her so I don't look around my computer monitor to see her now. I can actually just look directly at her. Yep. Which is frightening. There's somebody with a loud motorcycle going down the road. Of course.

They know we're doing the podcast so of course they have to do that yeah you know whatever so uh yeah so today is a little different weather wise not that anybody cares but uh today is actually this is going to go up tomorrow this is thursday it's cold and overcast here in pennsylvania and yesterday was officially the first day of summer it was the summer solstice and now it feels like the first day of fucking fall it's cold folks it is cold for for june almost july it's quite quite cold so you know swimming today no swimming this week i mean it's 63 right now it says wow that's cold for for summer fuck no it's cold it's overcast and damp yeah it's not you know it's almost too cold to have you blow me oh it's not that cold yet but it's almost almost so i mean you still have time to do that okay i'm glad i have like long pants on my sneakers yeah see it's my mouth is the only thing that matters so there you go yeah and your hands a little bit my hands i'm warming them up I'm sitting on have, like, long pants on.

I don't know what you're wearing. Yeah, see, it's my mouth. It's the only thing that matters. So there you go. And your hands a little bit. My hands. I'm warming them up. I'm sitting on them as we speak. That would only help me. That one cold. A little cold. Touching me cold is not going to help me one bit. It goes up into your cabin. I mean, I'm going to be phrasing it. It's not going to help you one bit. Yeah, that's it, you. Yeah, it's not going to help me one bit. So what do we agree on topic?

Oh, clothing and how people identify and how they actually make the person in certain circumstances. Yeah, kind of like do the outfits add or is it just something that you feel you have to do? I mean, like lingerie. Mm-hmm. Okay, we'll start with that. I understand it's a visual. I think all that stuff, the old adage, clothes make the man, actually, is true. I always, when I wear something like... We'll investigate that more as we go through this. Yeah. Let's go ahead. But I think when I put something sexy on lingerie, I feel sexier if I'm just wearing... No, you don't. Yes, I do.

You should do. Look at this. I got fat here. Oh, well, that... Oh, my God. This bunch is here. Oh, my God. This gets around the fat here. Oh, my God. No. But I feel sexy outside of all my fatness. That's what the fatness is. I feel sexy in my fatness.

If I'm just wearing like what I'm wearing now it's like you know leggings and sneakers and a t-shirt it's you know it's not not the same the leggings look nice but it's not like wearing something sexy really sexy well again this is kind of what i think the topic is about, is the aspect that does the outfit help the eroticism or the sexiness of it? I mean, does it help the other person more than it helps the person wearing, or vice versa, or both? I think both. Does it? I don't know. I think so. I mean, there's outfits I like to see. Like, I love the fishnet body stocking.

Or not even the fishnet. I like that sheer. We have a black stocking style. I think it's very sexy. I don't look good in body stockings because I'm so short. I put something like that on, I look like, I don't know. That does not look good on me. I'm too short. Okay, so, again, so, it's, the visual for that, in that case, would be for me, not for you. Well, you still think I look good in a body stocking? I look good out of it, in it, whatever. I'm not, I'm not a fan. Okay. Not a fan. It makes me look too... It should make me look longer and leaner, but it doesn't.

So the outfit, it makes you feel more sexy when you wear an outfit? Oh, sure. If it's something that's flattering, absolutely. Do you know how many times you've worn lingerie for me in 20 years? Probably never. Probably once. I had certain types of lingerie. No, no, wearing lingerie in in videos a lot almost every time well it's something to wear what are you trying to say oh it's what you want to deduct from that my dear note to self any women that want to share pictures of themselves in lingerie and send them to vince at hot wife podcast at gmail.com i will appreciate it it.

I will reciprocate with some very nice comments. I thought you were going to send back your own pictures. No. I'm not sending any pictures of me. No one needs to see that. Well, here's one. It's always coming. We don't have like those windows or mirrors that frost up automatically, but somehow I get naked in front of them, they do. It's like, wow, when do we have that installed? We don't. Why do it frost up? I don't know. Every time I get naked, the lights go out in the bathroom. It's like, wait, I just... Just need to take a shower. There's nothing going on here. The sun sets.

It doesn't want me to do that. The moon screams. Oh, God. Stop making such an issue. It's not. So. Jesus. Yeah. So. But, yeah. No. I guess it helps you feel. When the part. Okay. So now a guy wearing like one of those speedo things like you had mentioned one time about the elephant trunk once. Does that make you feel sexy or ridiculous?

I mean, I'd be proud if I had something I could fill the trunk with i think that was just more for like fun there is um it was a guy's g-string song and of course it's very common i'm sure it was an elephant and your dick goes yeah i've seen pictures yeah but i. Somehow, personally, I mean, even if I could fill it, I don't think I would wear that. It would be something to laugh at. That's not really what I'm looking for. When I'm trying to be sexy, I say I watch a woman laughing at me. I think it would just be fun. I think it would just be fun. It would have a comedic edge.

Maybe not sexy, but definitely comedic. You're still missing the point. I know, but you could feel it. I don't know. Okay. I'm just trying to relate the outfit to being sexy here in this case. Well, maybe it's not necessarily sexy. Maybe they're not going for sex. Maybe they're going more for just something that's fun. Jovial? Jovial, yeah.

It's a little better than laughing than laughing yeah a little light-hearted you know okay i'm sure women i'm i can't think of any off the top of my head oh yeah yeah any of those things with the tops that women have where the the bust is like a nose or something they have like bras or like frosty the snowman but the snowman is a woman's nipples i think women can pull that off better than yeah but it has to be women yeah women can wear jovial clothes like undergarments better than men i think in your opinion that's all in your opinion yeah no i know i mean there's gonna be some guy who's guy or some girl out there that wants to get her boyfriend or husband something that they could enjoy together and something like that.

That's what she's for, to enjoy that together. But maybe they want to, or they have like the G-string for the man that looks like a tux, has a little tie, and, you know, it's just fun. It's lighthearted.

I like I guess yeah I don't have a problem with it it's you know some guys can pull it off you know some should keep it on some can keep it on yeah but it's fine whatever you want to wear it's fine I don't care it makes you feel good it's your own bedroom wherever you're going obviously there's more and more people that like men wearing women's clothes I don't want to comment on that that's just not right Thank you. Get your own bedroom. Yeah, or wherever you're going. Obviously, there's more and more people that like men wearing women's clothes. I don't want to comment on that.

That's just not right. Yeah, let's just keep it light and sexy. Okay, so the other one that really, I think, inspired this topic was I'm going to pick on, and I have no grievance with Harley Davidson riders, okay? Just for me to say that up front, okay? I have never ridden a motorcycle, and I will never ride a motorcycle due to my back injuries. But why is it that I'm going to equate a lot of the BDSM world to be like Harley riders? They all have to wear this outfit.

You know, a Harley rider has to have the harley t-shirts has to have the harley davidson belt possibly the boots and hats and you know every t-shirt they own i mean i knew a guy who had harley underwear harley socks harley jeans harley truck it was just like you know i think when he shit the turd had a harley logo on the side i'm not sure but and and i mean to have that kind of money to squander is great but i sit there like in the bdsm world and again i'm not in that you likely dabble but why especially especially the men i guess i'll pick one why and even women why do you have to have the standard issue for a male dom is a leather vest and leather chaps.

I think it's because people that feel like they want to belong to a group, there is a quote uniform, and that is an air quote that is assigned them. Well, here, this is the one I saw when I was in college. All these young, young... My professor came out and loved their traps. No. He took me in the back room. I was an older student, but I saw all the younger students in the age group of 20 all came in wearing leggings, wearing Uggs, wearing a certain sweater, wearing their hair a certain way. Oh, but they wouldn't be individuals. No, they weren't.

By design or by coincidence, they all were wearing the same uniform. And you find that in society wherever you go. You look at a group of, you know, what artists, you know, or, you know, people that hang out in cigar shops, how many people, if you look at the clothing styles, it's all very uniform. It's almost as if somebody came in and said, this is the uniform for this group. And either subconsciously or by design, they conform to that uniform. Look, when I go to the gym, there's people wearing the bike shorts. They're taking spin classes, bike shorts, maybe, you know, capris.

But it's all a uniform whether you you know you think oh i'm an i'm i'm self-expressing no you're really not you just fit yourself into a uniform whether you know it or not i'm not saying the self-expressing part i'm just talking like you know but people think you are being expressive i don you know, like a guy who is a dom, okay? Why do they have to, seems like they have to, come in, like I said, they might be shirtless with a leather vest, or we saw two guys wearing fishnet shirts the other day. The leather chaps or leather pants, leather Speedos. Whatever. Oh, come on. It was fun.

And then... Versus, how about a guy that came in, let's say he's wearing work boots, clean work boots. Right. You know, jeans and let's say a flannel type shirt. And he might have the shirt unbuttoned for the sexual aspect of it. Or maybe he has the sleeves cut off because he's got some arms. You know what I mean? Why can't that be a dom? It can be. Why not? I'm just saying. I've ever seen the same guys. Yeah. I don't mean the same individuals. Yeah, seeing the same attire. It's like... It's cookie cutter. Okay, yeah. It's the same as Harley riders, okay?

You take, go grab, tell 100 Harley riders to show up. They're all going to show up generally in jeans. Jeans. They're all going to show up. Wearing heavy boots. I understand jeans. I don't have a problem with the jeans part. And wearing heavy boots. Also, they're all going to have a Harley Davidson shirt of some sort. Or a vest or a jacket. Well, they should be wearing boots. If they're riding hard, they should be wearing boots. I said heavy boots. I didn't say works. Well, I'm just saying boots. Yeah, boots of some sort. Absolutely. It makes sense.

But if they wear a belt, they guarantee it's a Harley belt of some sort. But it's like every T-shirt they own has to be a Harley T-shirt. I don't think it's every one, but I think you're exaggerating. But there might be one or two. Okay, I'd say 98 out of 100. I'm trying to think if you have any T-shirts that express a certain type of bourbon. None. No, I can't think of any. No. No, I have a whole bunch of T-shirts from where I used to work. That show a certain gun range, okay, and you have, you do have a very nice Hawaiian shirt with nothing but all kinds of guns on it, but it doesn't.

I have two of those, actually. They're very festive. So I think, I think people. Maybe we piss off people who are anti-gun. Oh, well. I think people like to wear things that people are impassioned about, maybe. If they're passionate about Harley Davidson, they're going to wear something that expresses their, whatever that they have a passion about. I guess it's also a way of maybe linking yourself to other people that have same likes. Yeah, and it's an easy way to identify because you're wearing the same uniform.

It is a you can't tell me it's not a uniform because it is it is sure you know yeah i just you know i mean it's like at halloween with that one halloween party went two years ago oh my goodness like out of 100 women 60 of them come dressed as you know school girls school girls yeah i know i saw that too i was like what what is it memo how the 60 50 of them shouldn't have been um that's a whole other thing but but whatever um but i think people don't put effort into trying to be individuals I I mean, okay Halloween I'm going to be a sexy something sexy for Halloween effort into trying to be uh individuals i i mean okay halloween i'm gonna be a sexy something sexy for halloween oh school girl what were you last year uh school girl what were you before uh school girl maybe they think they are being creative and expressive but they're just so fit into that that groove that they just they just fall back i guess yeah well it won't be Thank you.

creative and expressive but they're just so fit into that that groove that they just they just fall back i guess well it won't be just school girl there's a school girl there's a topic it's we're just talking and it's and open up for discussion and hopefully inspire people to maybe think a little bit you know on their own i'm not saying i'm not saying by any means that i'm right even though i usually oh god you're so God, you're so full of shit. I mean, no, I love you, dear. Wow. No, it's just something, an observation we made when we started going to the BDSM parties.

You were like, why are they all wearing this? Well, I never had exposure to BDSM before because I'm not really into it. No, I mean, I've seen it on TV. You know, again, hell, shit, back in the day with uh um married with children they went to england and uh and marcy and uh and jefferson went to a bdsm uh club and again they all have the fucking uh village people fucking leather hat you know like the fucking gestapo hat you know the fucking uh leather shit across their, the men, the leather pants and chaps and whatever. And it's just like, it's like, okay, I'm going to get into BDSM.

Well, here's your standard issue. Here's your standard issue uniform. Yeah. Yeah, I didn't wear anything like that when I went to the BDSM party. I went with, I the BASM party, I went with an animal print dress. I was a zebra print with a zebra print thong. I was like, oh, this is something more animal. Anybody who, hopefully I'm not offending, I'm just making a general observation, just like a question. It's like, okay, does wearing that clothes make you feel more dominant, more, uh, sadistic, more in control? I, you know, I don't know. Or subservient or submissive. I don't know.

I mean, again, if you look at the other end, yeah, if you look at the women who come dressed in, you know, they all have the collars. They all have, I mean, and I understand the collars mean things. Okay. But just the, does that help you get into that character since that's not something you are 24-7? And the same with lingerie. Does that help you get into, let's just use the terminology, a sluttier mode?

that make you feel sexier dirtier naughtier deal the above because you're wearing something you know like you hear the stories of women who enjoy wearing lingerie underneath their clothes like to work you know they might be wearing a teddy or they might be wearing uh you know something sheer but you can't see it under the clothes but they feel sexy they feel naughty wearing that yeah i i do think clothes can make you uh feel certain ways that's why they always come the adage clothes make the man because you wear something and somehow that i guess seeing yourself in that particular outfit might spark some emotional connection to it one way or the other you know if I wear something slutty I might feel more slutty if I wear something that's more demure and you know uptight more matronly I might act a certain way wearing it I'm sure if I wore something you know I don't know more matronly I probably would act more matronly or what I wore to corporate America where it was a little more subdued, no cleavage showing, not much anyway, every once in a while, sorry.

But yeah, I do think clothes certainly contribute to your emotional response to that situation. And then seeing other people that have similar attire you feel a connection to them so you're you know if you're wearing something slutty and everybody else is dressed slutty you're like yeah okay nailed it i'm in the right place and you walk in all of a sudden it's like well everybody brings out their bibles and you're like oh and you look down at your slutty dress Oh, I got my wrong calendar day. This was a Bible study, not the BDSM party. Oh, it's under B too, damn it. Not again, damn it.

That's next Thursday. Son of a bitch. God damn it. Oh, well, I'm here. Oh, well, I'm here. Well, it was under B. Aren't we reading tonight Sodom and Gomorrah? I thought I'd come dressed for the part. I don't know. Yeah. There's some really cool, I think the BDSM attire I think is cool to look at. I was tempted to buy a couple of those chain bra things with the leather, but not in black. I'm so sick of black.

I think that's my, my thing is everything's black pink sometimes light pink sometimes a darker pink it's like how about like purple or fuchsia or something different I'm just so tired of black but black says you have to say it three times yeah it's like it's like now something like is Beetlejuice going to appear yeah maybe, maybe. No, when I was going through the, oh, my Amazon wish list. Aflac. Where's black? Where's black? Yeah, it's just everything's in black. I'm like, I have a whole wardrobe full of black clothing. I'm so tired of it. I just, it's not. But it's slimming.

Okay, that's the only benefit. Is it? Is it? Yeah, it is. It is. Thank you. Thank not. But it's slimming. Okay. That's the only benefit. It's not. Is it? Is it? Yeah, it is. In a dark room. Well, yeah, because you blend into the, if I stand against our backdrop, I'll blend right in. That's my blackest. It's not, it's not great for photography. It's not, it has a lot of downfalls, but I wanted something, something else. So I was looking for like different colors and I just couldn't come up with anything. So. Yeah. Yeah.

I guess you don't see a lot of leather wear because I go looking for it either. Come in different colors. It's usually, if it does, it's like light pink. Don't get leather. I guess. That's all I have. I found like light pink.

And I'm like, well, I don't know if I like light know if i like light light pink because i think it's dirty that would make almost sense to me i would see like the subs clothing being a different color instead of black leather also right to signify the being the submissive oh yeah i don't know about pink but maybe a different different color again if, if you're trying to feel feminine and feel potentially of the submissive side, I can see pink would be the one. Yeah, as a female, sure. You could look at pink in any way. I mean, pink has been proven to actually calm people down.

Oh, that's true. You know, so, you know, they were painting prison cells for a while pink because they found the prisoners were less likely to be angry. Hmm. I would think it, well, this is off the thing. I would think sage would be a better color effect, green. I didn't do the study. I'm just telling you what I read. Yeah, pink. I don't know. So you're looking at the gay prisoners. Oh, I'm feeling kind of sagey today. I want more. This pink is done to death. Jesus Christ. It just clashes. Makes me want to kill some more. Pink would be me. Who do I have to kill to get a different color myself?

See? Let's say that. Jesus Christ. God. I'm going gonna kill the guy paying this room pink uh yeah i i think all the clothing especially certain styles definitely contributes to how you feel and there's some pretty interesting outfits we saw during the last party too and i I thought were pretty cool. So what does a man wear that is the most arousing to you? It's real simple. See, guys? You. Besides that, besides that. I still think guys in a nice pair of regular jeans and work boots and just a T-shirt. Working in the yard. Working my yard. Getting stuff done with the house.

Or a flannel shirt that's kind of like open. That's really hot when he's, like, you know, helping refinish the one deck. I'd be getting wet from that for sure. Cut my yard. I was like, I'm going to wait for him to finish.

Then I'm going to fuck the shit out of gonna fuck the shit out of my pool bitch skim my pool that's easy that's an easy job gonna you gotta rebuild the deck then i'll be wet yeah i like i like the work boots and the jeans it has to be a certain body type but yeah i work 600 pounds no that's my type for sure i want to have to lift up the belly give me a workout get some scaffolding hold that belly up so as you can see the penis if it rains it she doesn't get wet so no but yeah i'm like all the leather stuff um it's it can be fun but i i don't find it erotic necessarily i think i think black jeans is more erotic than the leather leather pants actually like black jeans black jeans i like the style of jeans most guys look good in a pair of good jeans and just like the black denim i think look way sexier than like not an acid wash i used to love acid wash don't.

Oh my God. Yeah. Back in the eighties. Come on. I think the eighties could have left. Oh really? I liked the acid wash. I thought that was so cool. Cause I already looked like they were, you know, worn out just a little bit. I think they spilled bleach all over them. Well, that's what I used to do. I used to take bleach. You still do it. By accident at all my shirts. It's like bleach splotches all over them. It's like, oops. Got a little bit crazy. I don't know. For me, I enjoy lingerie sometimes.

I mean, I think there's, like I said, to me, when the sexiest things a woman can wear is like when they wear a suit jacket with like nothing under it.

I that's really sexy too you know and you have a little bit of cleavage there and stuff like that and they have their hair done nice i mean i think that's a rock that's sexy i think it's because it's that the juxtaposition of being oh you're going to work and you're in this usually you see a professional clothing that you shouldn't be wearing see that's what clothing already tells you you already have that visual in mind oh she's going to work that clothing tells me she works she has a professional position but underneath she's a dirty little slut so that juxtaposition is really kind of exciting and erotic because she's a nice outfit it is but there's there's underlying things in there that that tweak your erotic because she's a naughty.

I hadn't really thought about it that way. There is. I just thought it was a nice outfit. It is, but there's underlying things in there that tweak your erotic, you know. So what's it mean if she's wearing a body stocking? Well, it depends. She might be wearing that. Oh, she pulled her pantyhose up real far. No. She might wear that underneath. She took her pair of pantyhose and pulled it up to her fucking shoulders. I've seen people wear them underneath a skirt and a, and a, like a, like a blouse. Yeah. And they wear the body stocking underneath, so the stockings go all the way up.

But you don't see that it's underneath of a blouse or a blazer or whatever. I've even seen where they've worn it, like with a suit jacket I'm talking about. But it goes, you know, have the body stocking on and they have a suit jacket and skirt or whatever. Yeah, it does. It's very sexy. See, there I think the body stocking is sexy. Me just wearing a body stocking, not so much. I'm just too short. I'm just too short. Okay. Maybe if I grow another six inches, it might work. Get the rack out. I'm going to go upstairs and get that inversion table. I'm going to hang on it. Put some weights on you.

Around your neck to stretch out. But, yeah, no, I found it interesting how, again, I don't know if the BDSM clothes, especially for the doms, does that make them feel more dominant? Does that make them feel more in control? I'm not quite clear. I think it could help. I would just reflect. I mean, does it? I don't know. I've never, for me, I am not super clothes drivendriven. No, you're really not. I'm trying to think like jeans, T-shirt, sneakers. Yeah, that pretty much sums it up. Yeah.

It's like I don't know why you have any other clothes in your closet except for special occasions because – Well, I have shorts for summer. I have shorts for summer. So it's like jeans or cargo shorts or cargo pants because they're useful. I find it really interesting when people see me dressed up, they're like, holy shit, look at you. Yeah, it's like night and day. It's definitely not your first thing you want to do. No, I kind of like to be who I am. I'm not like, I could never be an actor because I have a hard time pretending to be somebody else.

I mean, that's one of the things like with the show. I mean, we are on air the same as you are off air. I'm not going to. Pretty much. There's virtually nothing I won't say on air that I don't say. Yeah, some things you shouldn't say, but yet you do. I do, yeah. But yet you do. But that's me. Like, where were we? We had a friend over. I must have been a playmate, and the three of us were just talking, and I'm like, you know what?

All we have to do is move out the damn microphones, and we would be doing a podcast right now, because you were talking about something, you know, either we had just played.

But how many people that have heard the podcast have visited, and they're like, God damn, being on the podcast it's exactly the same of course you said that a thousand times but so getting back to clothing yes you are who you are but i do think clothes can definitely no i think people who like i said i could never be an actor because i have a hard time pretending to be someone something i'm not right But people who can, I think maybe the clothing help them get into that mindset, that role. Sure. Easier. Yeah. It's a, that's the word I'm looking for. When you assume like a different persona.

Schizophrenic. Yeah. That's where I live.

No, maybe that's what I'm looking for is different persona you know when you can actually step into this other personality this other thing and maybe that helps you know put on the Superman cape or whatever all of a sudden now you think you're Superman yeah I do think it does do that and i do think these people have to step out of themselves a little bit and when they go into the bdsm world whether they know it uh whether aware it do uh whether aware that they're actually doing it or if it just happens spontaneously by putting on the collar by putting on the certain outfits by putting on the heavy you know maybe know, maybe the women are putting on thigh-high boots.

They start taking on those characteristics that help them get into that role. That makes sense. I mean, when I put on the corset that's real tight, I certainly feel different than I do if I'm wearing, you know, sweatpants and a T-shirt, you know. Hey, real quick, you have to plug Spunk Loom. Oh, of course we do. You've got to plug where your sites are, too. So, again, we've talked about it before. I'm sure you heard the last show. Spunk Lube. Last show, we didn't mention it. We didn't realize it until after we already recorded it. That was our 100th episode. Yeah, that was weird.

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The only one for the podcast is hotwifepodcasts at gmail.com. One of us will, only Donna or myself will answer it. That's how many people involved in this massive organization. Massive. So massive. So, yeah. Again, send your pictures. If you have lingerie and you feel sexy in them, send them to Vince. And you're female. Oops. If it's a male, you can send it, but address the subject line to Donna's eyes only. Please. I don't care. I'm happy to look. I'm just happy to look. I don't need to see penis. I really don't. I don't care. I think it's fun. It's all good. I hope you do think it's fun.

I do think it's fun. I do. I think it's fun. So, but yeah, no, last episode, which was Wednesdays, Thank you. I don't care. I think it's fun. It's all good. I hope you do think it's fun. I do think it's fun. I do. I think it's fun. So, but yeah, no, last episode, which was Wednesday's episode, which is the 21st. Is that when we did this bunk lube thing with their toys? That was our 100th show. That was a lot of fun. Yeah, I didn't hate it. No, no. I mean. The gentleman that you had played with earlier, who was sitting here watching, I don't think he hated life.

No, I'm sure he would have liked it better if he could have gotten involved, but. Yeah, I couldn't invite him to play with, what's her face? Angelina. Without him signing a medical sign-off waiver. Waivered. We cannot be responsible for any injuries you may have occurred. I can't assume that she would do anything. Exactly. You never do that. That's just rude. Come on, you're good. He was fine just sitting here watching and taking it on. He enjoyed that. He didn't hate life. No, no. You get to see two beautiful women playing with themselves in Spunk Club. Oh, he had pins earlier anyway.

Yeah, so yeah he did so but um yeah i want to thank everyone to uh that helped us get to 100 episodes that's amazing that we have that much to talk about we don't okay we don't we're just faking the whole thing i guess it's our therapy so but um much yeah so again, I want to thank everyone for that. Again, if you go to our website, which is hotwavepodcast.com, you can find some things. We've joined the affiliate program with Amazon. You can buy them there.

They're the same price that they would be on amazon but because you bought them through our website um we get a couple pennies that's all i'm saying it doesn't cost you anymore you could find the same thing on amazon without going through our site and the price will be exactly the same oh that's kind of um so but um i don't know what everybody know about that. All right. So back to the clothing thing. When you, when you say clothing, I keep reflecting back to one t-shirt that is part of that affiliate site that says, ouch is not a safe word. I, I crack up every time I see that one. I saw that.

I had to interject some of my humor. Oh yeah. And there's like, yeah, that's, I would say that. Ouch is not a safe word.

It's not sexy, but it's funny ouch is not a safe word yeah another t-shirt i have up on there right now is um it's like i tried to be good but then i got bored so i like the ouch one that is funny yeah but the ouch one is a little not so family friendly yeah exactly yeah you wear that one to a family gathering or what's that mean that that's when you sit there and go i tried to be good but i got bored that's kind of you can take that however you want yeah that's a little bit more pg but the other one's definitely good to wear for people that are into the you know swinger lifestyle or bbsm or dabble or you know what those fetishes.

That would be, they would like that. It would be fun. Okay, so here's a twist on the clothing topic, okay? Just thought of this one. Oh, boy. So I think I know where you stand on it, but I'm just going to ask anyway. So have you ever, like when you were working in corporate America, would you, I don't think you did, you did so i'm gonna say would you have ever considered going to work and let's say a dress a skirt whatever the proper term is without underwear on just to kind of feel naughty um no yeah i know because yeah no no there was I wore.

Well, I know it was one that kept the place fucking freezing. Yeah, it was. You'd have to wear like a winter coat in there, even in the summertime. But even dresses I wore that were just a little bit, something a little bit too sexy. And I was constantly like pulling them up because, you know, even I wore a shirt one time and it was a little bit, a little bit low cut. And one guy said, oh, sporting some cleavage today, huh, Don?

And I was like, oh was very very self-conscious about what i was putting out there and what i wasn't because it was just my clothing made me so aware of the environment I was in. The environment dictated what I wore. I had to be very professional. Yeah, I get it. And you want to be sexy, but it's like, oh, I can't do it. I've got to button up that top button just a little bit more. A little bit of cleavage is fine. When it got to be too much, it's like, uh-uh, I can't do that. Are there dresses I put on? I'm like, oh, that's way too short. Can't wear that. We even made fun. My manager came in.

She was wearing stripper heels, stripper heels. I mean, it had, you know, a six inch heel. They were, they were flesh toned. So they weren't, you know, obnoxious, but they had a, you know, a platform on the bottom. They were stripper heels.

And we were, we were bustin' on her because she was wearing stripper heels she never wore them again but it's the same thing it's like you're wearing stripper heels i mean come on it's like are you gonna be dancing down at the the stripper club down the street later on something we don't know about but it's the same it's the same kind of thing clothing certain translates other things like she probably bought and thought oh aren't these nice she didn't think stripper so many things no she would never think stripper no she would never think stripper I don't care if she bought it at the fucking stripper outlet she was like oh that means a strip mall a strip mall there's so many things she said i'm like oh what are you doing oh it was just too funny though but um yeah no so i mean like there's you i've heard stories of women like yeah i like to go to work sometimes without underwear on and a short skirt you know just that makes them feel sexy even though no one might notice right or hopefully no one sees or whatever.

Maybe they do. Maybe they are trying to flirt with somebody. You know what? The fantasy sounds wonderful. The reality is that you get written up for sexual harassment, it's going to get ugly. Can they? Okay. Can you really get in trouble? Let's say you wore a skirt. Okay.

I'm not saying a micro mini skirt or whatever the fuck i'm saying like knee length skirt right okay that's legal that's legal sure but didn't wear underwear and you are um walking in the courtyard at work and the wind blows and shows everything why should you be why should you get in trouble for that i mean i don't I don't know if you would. I don't know. I'd be afraid of leaving wet spots. Snail trails are a different story. Yeah, it's like, hmm. And that's the other aspect, okay, that I was aware of. You're going to sit there and go, well, you know, we all get a little, things happen.

Yeah, things happen. Bodily fluids do flow. So it's like, you know what, let's just keep that tucked up in there. I don't. You know, it's like for me, you know, underwear and stuff. I mean, you know, underwear is like a fart filter. You want to make sure in case you can't trust a fart. That happens as you get older. You should never trust a fart. Never trust a fart. Trust your friends before you trust a fart. Oh, yeah. Or, I mean, again, you make for a man. You're peeing, and every once in a while, a couple of drops come out afterwards. What's the underwear catch? Not my pants.

I don't need to walk out with a couple of fucking drop spots in front of my pants. Exactly. Yeah, you don't need that. Yeah. I get really uncomfortable when i think about doing anything sexy in the corporate of corporate world because i was so careful because i was a stripper and i was i tried to be so careful not letting my ass come in there and they still they found out i mean yeah i got and i was you know i got busted on from time to time you know they from my my manager, you know, and not bad. I mean, I wasn't insulted.

I just didn't think they had a sense of humor, but I really tried to keep that under wraps. Oh, sure. Not that I was ashamed of it or anything like that. I just didn't think it was appropriate to bring that into that environment. Well, it wasn't a major topic. No, no. But every now and then there'll be like...

You know, it isn't like when I go and tell a funny story how it always starts with well i was drinking yeah yeah you know your stories don't start well back when i was stripping well the only one i could think of it was kind of funny they they're talking about bringing all the um because all of our internet all the wires and stuff they want to put them into a pole and these poles would like come up through our desks and the one guy's like oh donna so i guess you'd be swinging around that pole and i was like hmm oh boy he got in trouble i did and i just have to go oh that's a good idea actually that might be kind of fun but he got in trouble response should have been i don't know do you have enough ones i'm staying out i just don't know it's done now you can't reproduce it so I would never, I was just like, hmm, just, believe me, I just.

No, it's done now. You can't reproduce it, so. I would never. I was just like, hmm, just keep my mouth shut. Yep. So, yeah, that's, yeah, keep those clothes nice and professional. Keep the dirty stuff at home. Yeah, but you still wore pants and stuff that were pretty goddamn tight. Yeah, but that's not, that was lightly sexy.

That sexy that wasn't like you know out there in your face sexy there's wishing what's left to imagination is far sexier sure and if that were true i'll be wearing a burke or something like that yeah then then you could be whatever i wanted you to be yeah underneath there you'd be wearing whatever you want yeah all right so i kind of covered i think what i was just something to think about is you know do clothing make you does clothing make you sexier i think it adds to it sure absolutely there's no right or wrong answer it's just uh It was a conversation to be had of of like okay do you need to have this outfit to feel a certain way well i don't think need is the adjective or whatever adverb whatever whatever part of english language that is it's not really need it's it's is that what you want you can feel that way but maybe by wearing that outfit you know that we'll go back to the dom with the the chaps and the fucking you know leather vest and the gestapo hat i think does he need that to feel more dominant than if he went in there in jeans and a fucking dress shirt you know why can't you be like the italian father you know wear a fucking v-neck undershirt Thank you.

If you went in there in jeans and a fucking dress shirt. I don't know. Why can't you be like the Italian father? You know, wear a fucking V-neck undershirt with fucking, you know, ketchup and mustard stains all over it. No, see, that's right now. And then fucking, you know, Sanzibel pants, you know. Most of the Italian dads I know, they're pretty goddamn a dominante. A dominante. That's true. I'm going to beat you ass. I'm not going to tell you, you better fucking listen. I'm not going to take it no more. Come over here, you're sucking my dick. People, it's easy.

Well, maybe, well, maybe for them, that uniform, the v-neck t-shirt with the food stains all over, was their uniform for being dominant. Where's my stained t-shirt, damn it? That's your dominant Natalia Dad. And sloppy. You son of a bitch. You'll come here. I'm going to smack you ass. What is the one comedian? How does he refer to his penis? Pidishio? I don't know. I doniccio. But, you know, I mean, you know, how do you want to dress to be dominant? I guess. How do you want to dress to be slutty? Do you want to, you know, does it have to be garter belts? No, it doesn't.

I'm just saying everybody's different. Everybody, no. You know, I think there's something very sexy. Also, just about like a nice silk robe. Mm-hmm. On a woman. I've got to clarify that, huh? I'm sending you pictures of me in a silky robe. My pee-pee sticking out through the bottom. Well, here's another thing.

Here's another thing just just an offshoot of the clothing do certain fabrics are certain fabrics like the black leather no no no like that's the leather but if you ever feel something that's like satin or silk there's is that more erotic or more sexual how many guys like wearing women's underwear that are silky or whatever? It feels good against my skin. Don't they have men's underwear that's a little more silky? I'm sure they do. I just go cotton or whatever the deal is. It's a fart filter for me. I mean, certain fabrics I find much more sexy. I slide down in my seat already.

If I was wearing something sil silky i'd be fucking sliding under my desk every two fucking days it's like the sheets we put on their bed they're a little more satiny they're not is this why these the youth walk around with their pants around their ass because the pants are sliding off their silky underwear that's probably what it is i'm just glad the underwear didn't slip off their ass and then we'll be seeing it more than we want to see. It's like going back to their sheets. It's like we're laying on them and we're like sliding all over the fucking place.

That's like Velcro patches on there so they don't slide on the bed. It's like the entire blankets like slide off the bed because nothing stays not satin, they're satin-esque sheets. And they're fine for the summertime, but man, they're just, you're just sliding all over the place with them. My ex-wife and I had silk sheets, I guess, or whatever it was. Silk or satin. I don't know. They were like super, I mean, they were even slipperier than the ones we have. Oh my God. It was like fucking sleeping on a fucking plastic sheet covered in WD-40. Yeah, I don't understand that.

You had to fart to get back up to the top of the bed. Yeah. A little propulsion. Yeah, yeah, a little propulsion there. Oh, my God. Yeah, I don't understand it for sheets. I do. There are certain, if you have, if you ever felt a real silk shirt, I mean, like 100% silk or silk, it's almost sticky. Oh, really? Yeah, the silk is almost, you always think silk is like, you know, smooth. I have, I had a silk when I was like, man, this is like really sticky. And I started reading the tag and it was like 100% silk. It was a, it was a woven silk.

So that might have something to do with it, but it was, it was a cool shirt. I mean, it clung to me as it was really sexy, but, man, it was just a little weird sticky. It was like the weirdest fabric I ever felt because it was silk. Interesting, but, you know, I mean, I don't think I'd want a whole outfit made of it because it was just – the shirt was fine. I mean, it was sexy, just a plain shirt. But sometimes the plain things are the sexiest. It doesn't have to be, like, in your face with sexuality. It's a form-fitting T-shirt with a low coat. So is that what the latex outfits are about?

People like to feel that tightness against their skin? Do you mean the latex as in the fabric latex? Or do you mean the paint? No, no, the fabric, if you want to call it a fabric. But, yeah. You mean spandex, not latex. No, I'm talking they wear the fucking latex. Like the fucking, looks like a rubber suit and shit, yeah. I don't know, I never. I mean, there's a couple women I've discovered on Instagram that that's all they wear, different. They have more fucking latex outfits than, you know. I mean, you have to baby powder yourself or something.

Oh up yeah or they get it's like getting a diving suit off does that sound i don't know i don't i get to see a lot of problems you have to pee or take a shit real quick i yeah i do too this is you know you have to really pre-plan your day i would i would probably buy one garment and that just to see how it feels because even that that red dress I wore for the last BVM. I think we need to do that. I think we do, too. Because the last one I got, it wasn't, it wasn't, it was a, it was vinyl. It was a vinyl dress. You're going to get taller than theirs, I think.

If we get you too tight, you gain three, four inches. I would have to look into that because just to see what that's all about. Okay, well, I think that's one of our goals. That's definitely, I'm going to go on my Amazon wish list. Your new Hitachi should be here soon. Yeah, well, we can try that again too. I thought my pulsing rabbit was like pretty strong until I used Angelina's like her Hitachi. And she didn't even add, well, we had our own medium, and then when I put up to, like, high, it was pretty good. Like I said, that woman, Alicia Pleasures, that used to do her show years ago.

Yeah, I remember, Alicia, sure. The only way she could squirt was either with my tongue or the Hitachi. Wow. Now, did you get the corded Hitachi for me or the rechargeable? Yeah, corded. Okay, that's fine, because there's receptacles around here. Oh, yeah, there's one right next to me. Woo-hoo! I'll be good. Yeah. We can run an extension cord, you know, right from the nuclear plant to here for you. Thanks. That's what I need. We'll have to get you a new dental plant so we don't shake your back teeth loose.

You know, I might just put my night guard in or mouth guard at a time so I don't damage my dental work. Oh, the problems with having an orgasm. I was afraid if I got you the rechargeable when you'd be taking it to work, you know, and you'd do your evening little gig there, you'd be driving there. You're driving. No. I really masturbate a couple of times driving. It was, yeah, you don't want to do that. There's never been a time when I've been driving and I even thought of masturbating. I just got done working at the one nudie bar, and I was really fired up. Okay, well, I understand that.

Yeah, I i was for me i mean i've had thoughts of like when i've been driving with females and having them blow me but never thought once about i guess because i think yeah you can just hold something there technically you you need to get here involved yeah i'd be afraid bumping the steering wheel and i'd be like, you know, swerving down the road. What's going on with this car, man? It's like weaving in and out. Sarah, you been drinking? Nope. Nope. Just masturbating. Yeah. Safety first. If you get caught masturbating in a school zone, now you're fucking. They take all the fun out of things.

I didn't think masturbating in a school zone was fun no no no it should be something innocent you're not looking at the kids you're just driving through let's hope we're not putting those two things together I hope not alright let's wrap this up we're going off the deep end now we're going real far extremes alright so thank you everyone for listening again um and don't forget sunday night is our live show um at nine o'clock eastern time that's new york time um you'll be able to call in you can only hear the show live to my knowledge if you go to um our website which is hotwaypodcast.com and uh you can the phone number will be there.

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