Destination Swinging

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up. hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast of, I'm here with my ever-loving and wonderful husband, Vince.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: I try to make that a little more alluring every time.
Speaker3: You're getting closer to me believing you.
Speaker1: Almost, okay.
Speaker3: Almost, almost. It's almost there.
Speaker2: Almost.
Speaker3: I'm not 100% sold on it.
Speaker1: No, not yet.
Speaker2: Okay.
Speaker1: Give it a couple more years. I'm sure you'll be right there, right on board.
Speaker3: A few more bourbons, I might believe it.
Speaker1: Of course, of course.
Speaker3: So we have some exciting news. Thank you. couple more years, I'm sure you'll be right there, right on board. A few more bourbons, I might believe it. Of course, of course. So we have some exciting news. Oh, we do? Well, we have news and we have exciting news. Okay. We're recording this on Monday, so this is going out on Thursday. Okay. And Thursday you get your shoulder fixed. Oh, Halloween. I know, that's how I'm spending my home. She's in a severe severe pain so everybody know she is muscling through this she is not a happy or sexy feeling camper yeah she is a trooper well we we were going to have the uh surgery originally on our 21st wedding anniversary but it got pushed forward so does that mean we can celebrate it oh Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Absolutely. Yeah, you'll be all zocked out. I like doing weird things on our anniversaries and things like that, and having my shoulder replaced on our wedding anniversary. How does that help me? It doesn't, but it is comical, you know, and romantic in every way, of course. Oh, Dairy Dream, yeah. Dairy Dream. So I just want my life back. It'll be soon. Yeah. Soon enough I can lift my arms again and move. Boogie down. That's exactly what I do. That's the first thing I'm going to do. And then the other news is we actually were reached out to by a couple who is local, and they are going to come on the show Sunday. We're going to record some Monday show. Hopefully, you'll be able to join us.
Speaker1: Hopefully, we'll see what shape I'm in.
Speaker3: If not, it'll be...
Speaker1: I might be very drugged. I don't know.
Speaker3: Oh, you know. It might be more fun. I might be a whole lot. I don't know.
Speaker1: It might be more fun.
Speaker2: I might be a whole lot more fun that way. Maybe. Yeah, they were a bit apprehensive, though, when you were talking to them.
Speaker3: I thought it was kind of on-off. We've had a lot of people we've talked to that come on the show, and they're excited, and then they're like, oh, I'm nervous, oh, I'm nervous. So it's okay.
Speaker1: But we're going to, you know, I might get to meet them tomorrow if I stop by where I work, and I get to meet them face to face, but no, they are a lovely couple, and I think they're going to be a lot of fun, it's going to be entertaining, and so, you know, while you're on the mend, you know, maybe I'll con them to come in and I can rehash some of our old topics, get their opinion on it too. That's what I always find were interesting. You and I talk about a lot of things all the time. It all mean nothing. Exactly. And sometimes I feel like it's nice to have some fresh viewpoints on certain things that we may not have thought about or from different point of views. You know maybe we are full of shit and we just you know i know exactly because it's just you and i going over things and what works for us and what we think is just oh this is just normal other people are like what i don't think so like this couple explained um they've had more success with couples than singles i don't think that they the single thing, which there's nothing wrong with that. Yeah, no. There's another topic I talked about doing tonight about odd man out kind of thing. So we've had more luck with singles because in the couples, I don't push every woman's buttons. I'm sure I don't push every man's buttons either. More so than, there's not one man I could think of that was straight that would say no to you. Okay, that's straight. Well, that could be, I see that, I could see that. Okay, but we've seen me get shot down by wives. That's fine. Then they find out later that I have a special skill. I wish I could talk like William Neeson. I have a certain set of skills. Yeah, from taking. Yeah, absolutely. But anyway, so we invite people to reach out to us, info at hotwifepodcast.com. I'd love to hear from you, questions, comments, statements, topics, anything you want to talk about. You can find us if you'rewifepodcast.com i'd love to hear from you questions comments statements topics anything you want to talk about you can find us if you're on sos yeah swing lifestyle by the way the podcast is on their radio on thursdays um the uh if you uh want to find us on there we are photocouple f-o-t-o-c-p-l. You can find our profile. Yeah, if you reach out to us, we can open up the pictures. Don't worry, you will not see any photos of my pee-pee. I will not damage you that way. There's probably hundreds of pictures of me. Hundreds and hundreds. But I'd have to befriend you to open up the galleries and let you look at them. So if you're looking to join a swinger site, Swinger Lifestyle is the one we recommend. Yeah, it seems like it's more in the up and up. It seems like there's a lot more real profiles, not so many of those fakes. Yeah, you don't have as many. There are still some. I'm sure there are fakes. We've run into some, what do we used to call ghost people ghost us oh yeah well we have the the ghosting I think might be different they could have a real profile but yeah they're they get I don't maybe there are maybe it is a fake profile I don't know and you can have a free profile uh you limited uh pictures and emails and stuff so So, you. So we recommend, if you're serious about being in the lifestyle, get the lifetime membership. It's like $200, and then you're done. Well, we've been on it for 20 years. Oh, yeah, I think it has. I hate to tell you, gas is not $0.50 a gallon anymore, honey. Oh, it's not? No. Damn, what the hell? You can't ride your Brontosaurus to work either. No, not anymore. So anyway, reach out to us, info at Hot Wife Podcast. I'll hear from you. So today's topic is kind of interesting. Yeah. I think so. Yeah. I don't know anybody that's actually doing that no but it's a it's more of a um it's a word you know i guess it would almost be like that movie with robert redford and uh demi moore and uh morty harrelson that uh indecent proposal oh It's the concept of tonight's topic. I don't know how to exactly put it into words. Not succinctly, anyway. If you were thinking about getting into swinging, okay, and you're worried about the neighbors or bumping into somebody, you went to a hotel and they saw you walk in with another couple or a single man right um or whatever would you consider going to a destination location i.e vegas uh miami uh new orleans uh whatever it's going someplace else that you flew so you didn't know anybody but you went on to something like sls you found the person or people that agreed to meet you and potentially play to do something new to try swinging yeah that would be interesting you don't worry if it doesn't work out you're're not going to be embarrassed. You're going to bump into a supermarket or whatever. Right, exactly. That seems to be a common fear of people in the lifestyle. They don't want to be outed in any way. They don't want really normal people in their everyday life to know about their dirty little secret, I guess. I mean, I get it. I think that's part of the question I had for doing it that way. It's just like, okay, we could just say, hey, I'm going to use Vegas. I'm just going to come down heavy on Vegas. What happens in Vegas stays in Vegas. It's like, hey, that was a wild time. We can go out there and just don't have to worry about bumping into this person or people ever again necessarily again you might say hey we're okay we're outside of philly and we'll say we started talking to a couple from florida and they said hey we're going to vegas it's like hey that's great we'll meet you in vegas you know so it adds the eroticism yeah it really does you know and also someplace you can just kind of maybe get your freak on and then you don't have to worry about like that anybody in your immediate you know circle of friends knowing about it i guess you have you have that to worry about and then like you say you don't have to worry about like maybe bumping into them at the supermarket or whatever maybe being awkward or you know or and the other aspect that i had come up with was that if you're worried like you want to try but you're you have a fear in the back of your head that your significant other might fall in love or crave this person more than they crave you. And it's going to happen because it's hopefully an erotic situation. And there's going to be fantasies about that if it goes well. If it goes well, sure. If it goes well. But you know, you sit there and go, well, hey, we met them or him or her in vegas as an example right and you know i know let's say a woman is worried that her husband's going to fall in love okay so the wife of a couple you know my husband had a great time i think she's prettier than i am and you know he he has to wear a condom with me but you know he got to go barebackback or fuck her in the ass or whatever. You know, so it's like, oh, he's going to want to be with her. But it's just like, you know. But the distance makes it a lot more. Yeah, it keeps it, I think it gives it that fantasy. It gives it that fantasy and makes it so it's not so easy to achieve on a regular basis. So it can't be like, oh, they're in the town next, you know, the next town over. We can just hook up whenever we want or whatever. And, you know, then it becomes a whole big, you know, you become more deceitful. It could get, you know, it could get, then you're not swinging. You're cheating at that point if you go behind your spouse's back. So that gets it. Yeah, I know.
Speaker3: Oh, really?
Speaker1: When did that law change right okay so yeah maybe having that distance between you know your normal life and your erotic life might be a way to keep the two worlds separate oh there's a distance between my erotic life and my normal life yeah i know my erotic life is in vegas and my life is here and i don't have airfare and that's that's where that ends actually that could be very very uh that could be very appealing to people because it well first of all you're in a nicer well if it is warmer it's vegas it might the whole eroticism of not being in your home might have a lot more of a fantasy. So that might be kind of a destination rendezvous might be just more erotic all the way around.
Speaker3: It's one way of making swinging even a little more special.
Speaker1: Yeah, that's true.
Speaker3: I mean, my ex-wife, she would not go into an adult bookstore because what if someone recognizes me in there?
Speaker1: Yeah, exactly.
Speaker3: Like, what happens if there's somebody I work with?
Speaker1: So let's go to Vegas to go visit an adult bookstore. Is that what you guys had to do?
Speaker3: Damn there. No, but it's, you know, if instead of, you know, if you go to a hotel and, you know, you don't have so much to worry about, your mother-in-law stops over.
Speaker2: If you're playing at your own house. Right, exactly.
Speaker3: An unexpected guest. Yeah, the mother-in-law walks in and her daughter is honking on Bobo
Speaker1: with somebody else and her son-in-law is getting his Bobbo honked by some other woman or maybe some other mixture of combinations there. I'm not judging. I'm just saying. Well, hopefully the mother-in-law just doesn't pop in. Oh, no. My fucking mom, when she lived in this area, you had no fucking idea when she was coming. No. She never popped in on us. Well, yeah. Oh, that's why we had 36 steps up to the front door. She couldn't get to the front door. I don't ever think she was in the house. That's the moat. The moat. It is a moat. No, but I'm saying like when I lived on my own, there were times that she kept saying, oh, give me a key. Fuck, no. No. How about How about no? No, if I had a friend stop by, the fucking door got locked. Oh, absolutely.
Speaker2: Yeah.
Speaker1: No. Mom, no. Love you, Mom, but no. You've damaged me enough, Mom. You're not going to kill my fucking sex life. No, actually, I can see that. So if you take the whole play situation situation someplace someplace else yeah you don't have that to worry about you know kids coming home expectantly you have kids in college you don't have to sit there and go oh my god we gotta get home for the babysitter oh yeah it's like okay i dropped them off at mom's for a weekend we're in fucking vegas yep you know exactly and we can go have a nice dinner afterwards we can play around and if they're still the weekend, maybe we could do round two. Yeah, do round two or whatever. Or get back online and, hey, we're in Vegas. What couples are you? You know what? And even Swing Lights Off does have those notifications. Hey, we're going to be in such and such if you want to get together and that actually makes a lot
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Speaker1: And see, this kind of even ties into, like we had talked about hot dates not too long ago and going away for the weekend. Exactly, yeah. So, you know, that again could make for an erotic getaway. If, you know, like, who am I going to pick? I'll pick the one gentleman that helps us with the deck. Yes, I figure that's who you're referring to. I could say his name. There's like one or two marks in the world. I know. He's the second one. He's mark two in our world. He's someone I would trust. And if it was one of those things, and I think you would probably agree to it, that if he said, hey, I wanted to take Donna to Vegas for the weekend. Yeah, we'd both be comfortable with that, sure. Yeah. And it'd be erotic. And he'd still be a complete gentleman and also fun. Yeah. Yeah, it was the best of both worlds. But, yeah, the more I think about taking the playtime to a location, actually i i see a lot of benefits of that you know it's like you just of course i'm i would my biggest fear traveling with anything erotic is like they start to open up your bag for whatever reason they see all the crazy toys i'd have to bring with me you don't put that in your overhead stuff you put that in a check-in because you're not there physically, you know. Right, exactly. with me you don't put that in your overhead stuff you put that in a check-in because you're not there physically you know right exactly with it you know when you go through you know security and with your carry-on they x-ray it now for you they'll see the fucking jackhammer fucking three car batteries for it and yeah the way they might line up might look like a gun or a weapon or a grenade. Surface-to-air missile. Surface-to-air missile. Yeah, that could be a little embarrassing. So the nice thing is with the spunk lube is that, are they still like telling you can only take, what, four ounces of shampoo and conditioner, all those kind of liquids? I guess. I don't know. I don't have to fly much. Yeah, but the spunk lube has those cute little packets, which are really handy. Well, there's sample packets. There's sample packets. I mean, that would be great. Something like that would be really awesome. Yeah, that's the only thing that might be interesting. You don't have to take it in your carry-on. Right. Check it in. Just check it in, yeah. Why invite more hassle, right? I understand people. I don't want to get into the airport discussion. But no, I think the getaway kind of play sessions can be a lot of fun. Yeah, I can really see the advantage. Like you said, you don't have to worry about, it's almost like the old saying, you never shit where you eat. You just don't play in your own backyard. I personally don't have a problem with it, but I understand why people are very sensitive about that because they just don't want that getting back to their real life. And they want to keep those two worlds separate, and that's actually a very good way to keep them absolutely separate, as separate as you can. I mean, there are still jobs, and I don't understand it, that have morality clauses. Okay, well, who defines morality? Well, you know, when I was a prostitute, you know, a long time ago, they had, I designed a morality clause. Nurses? Yeah, teachers. Nurses, teachers, and some other people. It's like, okay, I get morality at work. I get morality. Absolutely. You know, but they're people too. They're allowed to have a life. I don't get where, oh, you know, we've talked to a few teachers over the years. And they were like, oh, yeah, we've got to make sure my face isn't in the pictures in our profile and everything else, and I get it because for teachers, I get it, because
Speaker3: somehow that gets out, and then they cycle it around, cycle around, and all of a sudden it's like, look, Mrs. Jones, look at her. She has a, you know, a horsetail butt plug in. Look at that, you know. Oh, that's admirable. That, you know, and then itail butt plug in. Look at that, you know.
Speaker1: Oh, that's admirable. That, you know, and then it's amongst kids. I get it. Yeah. But nurses, nurses are truly some of the biggest sluts I've ever met. God bless them. Well, wait, you were married. Thus my point. Okay. But what I'm saying is, do you care If your nurse is a swinger Or whatever I mean and again I understand the photo end of things for teachers You don't want that shit getting out Being circulated amongst The kids and everything Yes I fully condone that Yeah I understand that But you know But, you know, like, you know, a nurse? Does it matter?
Speaker2: It's like, really?
Speaker1: Do I care that my surgeon might get his freak on on the weekends when he's done with my surgery?
Speaker2: No.
Speaker3: I want him to be relaxed.
Speaker1: Yeah, there you go. That's really good.
Speaker3: I don't need a guy doing open heart surgery on me that's really stressed.
Speaker1: You know? I don't need him, like, all beside him fucking something like what the fuck son of a bitch i need an orgasm these fucking arteries are in my fucking way i can pull these out he's got a couple you don't need all these fucking things god i gotta get laid yeah yeah you don't yeah i don't care what people do in their spare time i really don't As long as they're not doing it while they're at work. It doesn't affect children. Yeah, and it doesn't affect children, and you're not doing it while you're at work. Who cares? Well, then you can't be a porn star. No. Porn star with a morality clause. I'm just thinking that. You can't be a prostitute with a morality clause I'm sorry Prostitute's not a legal job Not in this state Only in Parts of Vegas Reno, not Vegas Oh, I'm sorry, you're right It's not Vegas, it's Reno, absolutely So That was actually a fun show We did some time back Why isn't prostitution legal? I was just thinking that That was kind of interesting Go listen to that one It's probably season one or two I don't even know We're just a couple months away From season four I think we've talked about everything There's to talk about No, there's always more things to talk about. Things change. People's, you know, sexual appetites change. We're going to start revisiting some of these shows. One, to videotape them with your arms better. And two, I think some of the topics we can have more fun with. You know, our opinions might have changed or something on them. Oh, yeah. Some of our old shows, we'll redo them. I agree. Our experiences have changed. We've had more experiences since we first started doing the shows, and we've certainly had more input from other people. Yes, you have. And different things. Thank you very much. Yeah, exactly. I've had a lot of input. Not lately, but yeah. No, not lately. Not too much lately. That's okay. I'll be back on track track and i'll be fine then watch out man the gates of hell no holes barred no no holes barred is right that's terrible hey i need someone to email us at info at hot wife podcast i see people posting women posting like i'm a four hole girl where the fuck is that fourth hole is that like you have a small dick so you could fuck her belly button i don't know what the fourth hole is she taking it in the ear what okay never mind yeah i i don't i don't see that either i unless you create a hole somewhere i i don't know maybe she has two bungholes i don't know Maybe she's offering up her boyfriend or husband's ass
Speaker3: Who knows
Speaker1: I don't know. Maybe she has two bungholes. I don't know. Maybe she's offering up her boyfriend or husband's ass. Who knows? I don't know. I don't even know. Or her girlfriend's mouth or whatever. Whatever. She's offering up her girlfriend. You would think she'd say, I have six holes. You would think. I don't know. I do not know where they come up with this. I don't know. I think you just make it sound like, oh, my God. It makes you want to reach what it could be i think it's like i spent more money trying to find out you just can't find that fourth hole i keep looking no matter how much i subscribe to these girls only fans page so yeah i don't know all right i think that was enough i think so yeah so let us know what you think about going to a destination swing meet Yeah, I think, again, just to wrap it up, I do see a lot of benefits to it, just keeping your personal life and the swing life separate. It adds more eroticism to it. It adds a level of fantasy to it, and it makes it more special because you're not going to be running out to that destination every weekend. So I do see a lot of benefits that can really make it special and fun and also keeps the play in the play area and keeps your home life in the home area. So that separation, seven degrees of separation, might be kind of nice.
Speaker3: All right. Have a great weekend, everyone. Trick or treat. Play safe, everyone. seven degrees of separation could really might be kind of nice might be kind of nice all right have a great weekend
Speaker2: everyone
Speaker3: trick or treat
Speaker1: play safe everyone bye bye