Can You Be Addicted to Sex?

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now, let's heat things up. Hello everybody, this is Donna Lynn and welcome to my Hot Wife Podcast. Of course, as always, I'm with my wonderful husband, Vince. And of course. Oh, you are wonderful. So this is try number three for a show today. Yeah, we weren't, we're striking out pretty much. Actually, it'd be four. This is our fourth attempt at a show today. Really? One, Angelina was supposed to be here. Oh, true. And I was anxious to talk to her about she's now discovered she isn't having anal intercourse, but she enjoys having things stuck in her ass. Okay. Okay. Oh, right. So that was going to be the one potential show. Yes. Absolutely. Then we had the second potential show was the toy I bought for you, but I left part of it someplace. So we're going to wait and do that later this week. Is that anal toy I bought you? Right, right. So we put that on hold. Okay, here's a question. Why would you open the toy up at work? Don't mind the smell. That's what I thought. Okay. No, I opened it up because I had time on my hand when Amazon dropped it off. So I charged it for you. Oh, that's what it was. You charged it for me. Okay. See if I'd be nice to you anymore. It looks like a pretty nice toy. I think it's going to be fun. It should be. It's a vibrating, rotating anal plug. Yeah, the only thing I think it's missing is a... An ass? No, blinking lights. You don't get to see a blinking light. That's not the point. Okay, I'll buy you a blinking anal plug. I already have one. It's too small. Well, then what are you bitching about? It's too small. What part of that phrase is not like, you know, it's like, oh, I have anal plugs, but they're all too small. They're too small. If I get excited and I bear it down, I'm just going to go pop it right out. Tell yourself that. Okay. I do. We're like, bloop. Okay. What are you trying to say, mister? You said it. I'm just going, Okay, so that was three? That was three. Then the fourth one is here. A minute ago, we had a little memory card error so that we had to stop and start this over again. I know. We had so many things we were going to do, and it just kind of... It's one of those days, man. It didn't work out that way. Cold weather, the overcast. It's dreary. It's pretty dreary. Not a great day here in PA. That's why we're inside and doing some fun stuff. Did I miss something? Oh, we did some videos. Because I carried firewood up. You were editing. I cooked. I did, you know. Yeah, you did all the yucky stuff. But we got a chance to. Okay, yucky stuff, fun stuff, not the same. I would have been very happy bringing the what up. Very happy. You're a better editor than I am, anyway. What's it? You are. You edit the little videos we did today. You know, you're a lot more creative. You appear in them better than I do. Not so much. Not so much. Your boobs are better than mine. Again, not so much. My hairy cleavage. Your hairy cleavage. It's not that hairy. No, it's not. Neither is my head anymore. Anyway, it's another story. It migrates other places, I think. My back, maybe. Your ears, your nose. It's like, great. This is far from sexy. Far from sexy. But Wayne actually want us to pose a question note. Oh, we're going to answer Wayne's? Well, we're not going to answer it. We're going to have customers. Wow, I'm ready for work tomorrow. Yeah, you sure are. I want the listeners to send in. Wayne experiences when he goes to the gym and works out, that after he gets done working out, he is like super, super horny. He'd like to know, do other people experience that? Now, I did some homework. Okay. And it is a thing that when you get done working out, you know, for men, your testosterone is pumping and everything else, that it's a very common effect. But how many other people affect that? So info at Hot Wife Podcast. You wouldn't know anything about that, would you? No. Because going to the gym kills my sex drive. Kills my willingness to live. In all the years that I worked out, when I was done working out, It's a means to an end. So it's not the workout itself that's eternal with all the hormones being released and all those kind of things. But it's more like the change in my body, which makes me feel more secure and more confident in myself, which in turn makes me feel more desirable. Okay. Let's get on to the topic. Oh, the topic? So again, answer that question at info at hotwifepodcast.com. So anyway, go ahead. And we have discussed this, but there's a lot more to it. Or do you think that either one of us, you and I, could be addicted to sex? No. Okay, let's define addicted. Well, that's a good point. When you're addicted to anything, you know, sex, food, drugs, whatever, it usually has an impact on your everyday life. That means it's going to affect your work, your relationships, with your spouse is going to affect your, so many, whatever is in your life, but your family life, your work life, all those kind of things. If it impacts that in a negative way, that's a good sign that it's an addiction because it's not just you're overzealous with something. It's not like you're enjoying something a little too much. It's when it really impacts your life and other aspects negatively. You know, I mean, if you do drugs and you don't go to work, so you get fired, so you lose your house. I mean, it's all those. Those kind of things. And people that are, we knew somebody who was addicted to sex. I think quite a few people actually. Sure. Yeah. And you can see like in their life is like everything is. Based around sex. Based around the sex and how they can get more sex and who they're going to have sex with and you know. And you know. The one that always comes to mind for me was balloon boy. Balloon boy. That's a story in itself. We've been told this a few times. He would get out of work. You know, he was a traveling salesperson. Right. kind of a thing and he would, you know, try to set up three to four playdates a day if he could. I can't speak to the level of success he had. Yeah, I can't either, but. You know, yeah, he would, if he could get it, he would, like, cancel his sales appointments for the day and stuff like that. I mean, his life was based around that. I know. We saw how he was interacting with his wife, who was lovely, she was sexy, and it was kind of like, oh, you know. Oh, that's the wife, whatever. That is a notch in my bedpost. I don't get to have one for every time I fuck her. Right. So yeah, he kind of like pushed her to the side kind of and would just go out on his play dates. And he even tried to like push her toward you like, oh, Vince, why don't you fuck my wife? Or I guess it's one of those kind of things like, well, I want to have my fun. Well, our relationship with them was a working partnership. Right. So her and I, And you. Right. I'm not putting you out of it. We're based on trying to get the business up and running. Right, right. You know, we realize, hey, if we get this going and making money, we're going to fuck each other. Right, exactly. Yeah. But that's all he wanted to do. It's like, whoa, whoa, let's get things, you know, rolling first. Then we can have some fun. But, you know, like speaking for myself, which is all I can do, not very well. I mean, don't get me wrong. I love the feeling of an orgasm. Oh, sure. But, you know, I also have a foot in reality. There's things I have to do. I have to make money. I have to work. I have to, you know, the same as, hey, I love the taste of bourbon and smoking cigars. I can't do that 24-7. No. 22-6 I can't. Okay. No. No, right. I've... And then again, you get wiped out. Yeah. You know, how many orgasms can you have in a day and still function? That's a... Yeah, I don't know. I know if I have a bunch of them, though, I am exhausted. It's like a marathon. I can't function. I can't go to a regular job. So I guess, you know, if you have that addiction, maybe a content creator might be the ideal job for you. I don't know. If you have that kind of level of stamina, commitment, however you want to look at it, and you just put a camera, And if you can do that all day long, God bless you. Well, let me ask you this. I don't know. I haven't had that kind of energy. I'm going to adjust my mic. Hold on. Okay. I had to mute myself in case it squeaked or made noise. So with that concept, okay, content creator, having sex all day, at what point, if you have this addiction, okay, I'm asking this to a female. No, obviously. Okay. Okay. At what point are you expecting something you might not be able to get from men? Like... Oh, you mean I'm masturbating all day? Oh, okay. Well, masturbating is a whole different thing. But at what point does masturbation nonstop get boring? Oh, it does. It does. To you? Oh, yeah. Yeah, you get desensitized to it over time. And also, in masturbation, you generally have to have some... Not that the feeling doesn't feel good, but you have to have some mental stimulation. And at some point, whatever it is you're fantasizing about will dissipate. All of a sudden, that's not doing it. Now I've got to find something else. Right. No, that makes sense. The same is, okay, if you're a female content creator and you have a stable of male content creators is with you. Right. Okay. So if you have this addiction, you want to get fucked all day long. Right. At what point does that get boring? Or at what point do you, when do you need the next step? You know, it's sort of like a gateway drug kind of thing. It is, exactly. Addiction is an addiction is an addiction apparently. A dick in is a dick in. Well, the thing is, it gets to the point that you're desensitized to this level of orgasm or sensation and you need the next and the next. And I guess that's when people start going to crazy things like, you know, auto-asphyxiation and all kinds of, you know, I don't know what else they would do to themselves to get that other high. But I saw they want auto-asphyxiation to get to the next high or, I don't know, bringing in other people. I don't know. I have a hard time thinking being choked. It doesn't do anything for me. Not even a little bit. But, I mean, if you have an addiction, just like anyone who, As a drug addiction, you're going to the next level and the next level, and that's where the problem is. I don't have that need to get the next crazy orgasm. I'm really happy where my orgasms are. They're nice and wonderful and healthy. They don't drive my life. It's not an unhealthy drive that all I can think about is having sex and orgasms. I still want to live in the real world. and have the fun too. Work hard, play hard. Mostly work hard, but you know, and play once in a while in there. That's where the reality. It doesn't have to be every day. No, it could be every day. It just doesn't have to be all day. Right, right. Try and drop hints. Yeah. Okay. No, you're right. You're right. It doesn't have to be all day. But yeah, I mean. I just think people in the real world just know that they have other things in their lives that they have to do before they get to play. And people with the addiction just... Well, it's a responsibility. It is a responsibility. And you have to be able to balance your life and your play life, too. So... Okay. And where do you... How do you think people should try to balance that in a relationship? I mean, okay, like for us, as an example, you know, we both have jobs. We both have responsibilities when we come home. Yes, we do. You know, we've got to feed the dogs and everything, you know, cook and clean and ba. You know, and when you're done that, you should be servicing me. I know. I should be, but sometimes I'm just too damn tired. You don't cook, so that's... No, I do other stuff. I'm not saying you don't do anything. Yeah, I do other stuff. You did, but I didn't. I do other stuff. Yes, you do. Very much. Pain in my ass. But you do cook good. Why should, I mean, you're just so much better than I would be. But, you know, if you tell me, hey, throw this in the oven for 25 minutes, I can definitely do that. But don't ask me to come up with anything. Don't ask you to turn the oven on. No, we don't. It's in the oven. We don't use the oven. We don't use the oven. I know. Well, air fryer. It's an air fryer. That's what we use. We don't know. Yeah. But I don't enjoy it. It's tedious. Yeah, no. It's okay. Are we talking about sex now? No, cooking. Oh, okay. I thought it was a sex thing with me. No. I find that tedious and painful. Tedious. Unsatisfying. It's a shame because I really do enjoy eating. We're back to eating. I was still talking about sex. Well, I was still on the tedious part. So was I. Painting my ass. Okay, well here's a new topic. Okay, a new topic. So we don't get a critique from somebody like, you changed topics. Okay. New topic. Okay. All right. Have you ever been the person, now again, how many years you danced and everything else, so that kind of takes away the question from that. Okay. Have you ever been a person that you like to wear like sexy underwear or something under your normal street clothes and it makes you feel sexy? A lot of my... Well, I mean, don't get me wrong, you wear thongs. All the time. I mean, some are a little bit like less lacy, but I have a lot of lacy ones that I wear all the time. Does that help you feel sexy? Yeah. Does it? That's why you threaten me with wearing the granny panties. I get all up in arms. I get pissed off. Yeah, you do. I hate that. I'm going to get you drunk and I'm going to put you in granny panties. No, you're not. You are not doing that. Okay, I'll do it to you when you're sober. I don't care. Oh, no. No. That's just, mm. Now, so if you're in a locker room with women, hopefully they're women. Okay, yeah, okay. And you see other women wearing, like, putting on the sexy lingerie, is that, does that sit there and say, oh, that's kind of cool that, you know, they feel that way too? Every once in a while, I'll see someone wear something that's a little more like a thong or something like that, but usually it's not. It's pretty much. The granny panty stuff, huh? Yeah. And sometimes it'll be as daring as the bikini bottoms, like bikini type. But usually it's the... It's a shame. Women should feel sexy. Yeah, it just depends on the person. Some of them are just... I guess it also depends on time of the month. It could, depending on their age, sure. Sure. But yeah, sometimes you want a little more coverage, whatever. But it's whatever you're comfortable with. I haven't worn full bottom panties. if I can call them that. They're coming soon. What's that? Wait till you wake up tomorrow. Oh, shut up. I hate you. So I've always worn thongs. I've been wearing thongs since I was 19. Wow. Thongs and G-strings. It goes through all my underwear. So that's what? Nothing but thongs and G-strings. 42? It's been a few years. It's been a few years. Yeah. What's important to you? Sexy bottoms or a sexy bra or both? I like to have a match, but I don't today. I'm not wearing a bra today. Oh, okay. But I'm wearing lace. I'm wearing lace. Yeah, look at that. Yeah, these are comfy lacy ones. I guess they're comfy. Oh, yeah. They're a soft lace. They're comfortable, so I feel like I'm not wearing anything at all. Okay, well, that's an option. Yeah, so. I like, I guess I do like wearing sexy underwear. Okay. Just as a default for me. I just like it. Yeah, okay. You know, I have a couple that are kind of plain and maybe like cottony, you know, but most of them are ladies. Now they go down the mid-thigh? No, absolutely not. Above the belly button? No. Their pantaloons. Has the suspenders on them? They're like the old pantaloons that come down your knees with the... There you go. You wear the swimming? Yeah, with the lace on. You have that shower cap thing you're swimming with? Like one of the Clampets from Beverly Hillbillies. At a cement pond. At a cement pond. Sorry. That's an old, old reference, but yeah, that's not something I would wear. Sorry. Not even... Mm-mm. No. You can make fun all you want about the granny panties. I do. I do. How are you going to get a little too many drinks? I'm quitting drinking right now. I can't afford to have that to happen to me. Someone used to say, no more than two beers a night. Last night you were at three. Yeah, I did. It's been a long week. Tell me about it. Longer for you, I know. Sorry. No, don't be. But yeah, so there we go. I like wearing sexy lingerie. I think women should. I think that's great. I mean, just like bra and panties. I'm not going to be wearing like I mean, I know recently you don't, but did you ever time in your life you went commando? Oh yeah, when I was like 17. Oh, before the thong came out. Before the thong came out, yeah, I just said, I'm just not going to wear any underwear. Why would that be? I was just rebellious and lazy maybe, just like, I just don't feel like wearing it. Like, I've never quite understood why men go commando. I mean, I do understand Why Commandos Go Commando? Right. There is a reasoning for that. There's a reason for it, yeah. But like the average guy, I don't know. They feel too confident in their sexuality that, oh, my zipper drops. What? People look. I don't know. I don't know. Yeah, I think that'd be a little dangerous. I don't like the instability of things swinging around. Oh, yeah. You know, like boxers. I won't wear boxers, man. Your balls stick to your thigh in the summer. You can tell if a guy wears boxers because he's always adjusting himself. I know. It's like, son of a bitch, knock it off. Leave it alone. It'll grow. Well, they have like the shorts that Stosh was wearing last week. Those are really nice. I think he gets them. Boxer briefs. They sort of are, but they have. They were just different material. Yeah. A little silkier. Yeah. I think that would give you some support. And they look nice. No, my problem is. Okay. I have boxer briefs. I've tried to wear them. Right. concept. They don't. But my... Your junk's too big? Well, my balls are too big. And it pushes them down. Oh, yeah. And then I'm still doing the plumber's crack thing. And then it's just like then the... It just doesn't work, huh? The crotch in the boxer briefs go down. So now it pulls my pants. It's just not a pleasant thing. They're not comfortable for me. And again, I have no ass anymore to hold my pants or my underwear up. So I don't just pick my pants. I'm about to pick my underwear. up, too. It's just not a pleasant thing. Oh, the problems you have, honey. Those of us that are ass-challenged. This is an unknown charity. It should happen. Those of us. You certainly don't have a big booty. Ass-deprived. Ass-deprived. I understand. I should get a handicap plate that just has a guy with no ass. It's like, oh, yeah, he should bark up close. Yeah, he doesn't have an ass. That poor guy has no ass. He has no ass. It's just awful. Actually, you should park further away to walk again. You climb all these steps. I don't get it. When we go to a store, don't I park real far out? Yes, you do. So you should have an ass. I do. What happened? Well, I divorced her. Okay. I think it's all genetics. She has enough ass for five people. I don't know. Now she does. I wouldn't know. You've seen it. She's got back boobs. Oh, come on. She does. I'm not making it up. I'm not attacking the nasty bitch. This is his ex, so, you know. Yeah. On the Hot Husband podcast, you hear me talk about Donna. Oh, yeah. Okay. Let's just go with that. Don't forget to check out the All Meme podcast. Oh, no. Okay, you're going to go to that, are we? That really tickled your fancy. I'm going to do it. I'm going to do it. I'm going to do the All Meme podcast. Not meme. Mime. Mime. Yeah, that would be brilliant. All mime. All mime all the time. Yeah, I think it will go in. Anyway, so again, thank everyone. We are actually, this Thursday, we are going to be recording some shows for the upcoming week. We have one of our One of our listeners, he's going to call in through a Zoom call, and he's going to be teasing you on the Zoom call, and you'll be teasing him. Again, you know that it's going to fall through because you're talking about it. That's all right. And then we have people from Denmark. Is it Denmark? Yep, it's Denmark. Really? Yep. They're going to be calling in a Zoom call, and they have a new swinger platform that we'll be talking to them about and everything. So yeah, they're going to share with us about the new platform. So it's just going live now. We have our profile on there already. Oh, wow. I had no idea. Yeah, so we're going to record that Thursday. So that'll be like Monday and Thursday shows of next week. Fingers crossed. If they go down. I can't say what order they'll be in because We didn't record them yet. We shall see. But, yeah. And so we'll record Wednesday for Thursday of this week's show, your new anal plug. Yep, yep. That doesn't have a blinking light. I was kind of, I saw it, I just assumed it had one, then I looked at it, I was like. It vibrates and rotates. It's got a ring on the bottom with like little rubber things sticking up to tickle your asshole. I just wanted a blinking light. I want laser beams on my butt plug. Jesus Christ. Sorry, I just assumed it had blinking lights. Hey Vince, I have this blonde with big tits and a tight pussy and she can't get enough sex. When's it be with you? Does she have an IQ of 300? No, I don't want to be with her. Yeah, you would never say that. Well, that's my point. That's the whole point. You would never say that. Is she breathing? Okay, she's good. She's good. Okay. So info at hotwifepodcast.com. Please email us your comments, your questions, your concepts. Love hearing from everybody. We thank everyone for listening. Info, I'm sorry, 50shadesofpleasure.com. Check that out. This week there'll be some new updates and stuff. We did record this show. We're going to try, this will be posted on 50 Shades and on our website also. And we're going to try to start recording the podcast. Depending what goes on in the podcast, depends on what platform it'll be on. Okay. That works. Yeah. So anyway, I want to thank everyone for listening. Oh, okay. What I'm doing at hotwifedonnalyn.com. We were having fun doing some little promo videos today for the upcoming holiday. and stuff. So we're having kind of fun with that. And we'll see what happens with them. They should be cool to go. But I'm still, you know, posting the meat and potatoes type of stuff, too. So. At hotwifedonlawin.com. That's me. So, hey, stay horny, everyone. Great. Have a good night, everyone.