"Can Intimacy Go Beyond Traditional Stimulation?"

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Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now let's heat things up.

hello everybody this is donna lynn and welcome to my hot wife podcast I'm also here with my ever-loving husband, Vince. Ever-loving. Maybe something different to introduce you besides wonderful. I'm not sure what an ever is, but sure, I'll love it, sure. I'm sure you would. What's with the sunglasses? Try to be cool. Nobody can appreciate that but me. Okay, because you know I can't be cool. I didn't say that. You didn't have to, I did. Oh, man. Starting already. Yeah. Good Lord. Hey, I got a quick favor to ask people. Okay. If you belong to, let me get closer to my mic here. Hold on.

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If you belong to SLS, SwingerLifestyle.com, which we've talked about and reviewed it, and we're proudly on there for 20 20 years or 20 plus years whatever um they have something in their section uh for uh swinger radio or sos radio whatever where they're looking you know for people to submit podcasts and stuff like that so i actually um submitted that i would like our show to be on sosLS so if you are on SLS if you're a member email them and tell them they should have Hot Wife Podcast as part of SLS Radio yeah I think they should I mean we've been on that site forever and we always make reference to it we're talking about swinger stuff yeah we always talk about swinger stuff and all the other you know things all swing related or sex related so sure i mean it's being a no-brainer you know i think it doesn't make us any money but it'll get us in front of more people so yeah i mean yeah we always talk about and we're not professionals we're not doctors we're not talking about you know well boy it's not the truth we don't pretend the bedroom no no but you know as far as what swingers have you know go through what their experiences are we can definitely speak to that so and we're also going to try something different tonight the first show with this we've recorded uh our own commercials for donna stuff for spunk lube and for 50 shades of pleasure so beforehand i'm going to give you our email at info at hotwifepodcast.com um so if you haven't reached out to us about a lot of things please do um and um you know we'd love to hear from oh pardon me well what the heck was that it's uh dinner going down and bourbon coming up or vice versa, whatever.

But so, yeah, feel free to email us. Let us know. A quick note, our good friend Stephen, the original number one podcast fan, got a text message from him today. I reached out to him a few weeks ago, and I know his job is a dangerous one and everything else.

and my biggest fear since I haven't heard from him today i reached out to a few weeks ago and i know he his job is a dangerous one and everything else and my biggest fear since i haven't heard from him in months was true he um got severely hurt at work and he sounds like he spent over a month in the hospital he's just coming out today good lord um yeah he works with high voltage high voltage electric stuff. He's out there, like those big tower things. In the middle of nowhere. But anyway, I'm not going to get into it. Yeah, that's a dangerous job.

But he got severely hurt, so keep Stephen in your thoughts and prayers as we do. Yeah, for sure. Hopefully he gets a little better and we can get him on the show again. We hear from Wayne all the time. Yes. Not bitching, Wayne, just saying. All day long sometimes. Yeah, Wayne's keeping us with jokes. Weird pictures of things. Make him spit up his yogurt yesterday, apparently. Some of the pictures you're sending me, we could make a whole podcast about that. Well, we could do a whole Wayne podcast. Just got another letter from Jay emailed. I think, did I fill it to you? Yeah, you did.

Okay, make sure you reply to her. I did. I did do that. Sorry, I always just have, I just, you know. All right, you just hit reply. And I reply all, and my mom gets it, and, you know, it's, what is this guy? Well, your mom's in heaven, so. Yeah, when she gets my email, it's something extra special. So I really don't.

No's really special but anyway so please uh keep steven uh in your thoughts and prayers um we miss them and pray for them so anyway um so okay so we'll play one of the first commercials i haven't i've only heard the first two i have not heard mine yet i'm afraid to play yours last. Oh, okay, good. Say the best. Oh, no. So, just for record, these are AI-generated text. Not mine. And, no, it generated your text. Oh, the text it did, but not my voice. I read it. And then you put it into an AI voice. So, you know, I'm going to play these commercials real quick at the sponsors.

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It's no worse than it is on their podcast oh god please why am i doing this that's what everybody asks i'm sure they do so anyway that's our attempt at uh some commercials instead of us just winging it babbling so yeah so anyway um okay so tonight's topic uh this is kind of a weird one. Can something beyond typical stimulation make you cum? I mean, as in intercourse or something that's not of the ordinary stimulation. Would that be a way to? Yeah. Is there a way that you think you could have an orgasm without someone giving you oral sex?

Basically,inal or penis stimuli so in other words if you're a woman no one licking your pussy you're fucking you is there something and if you're a man without someone without you fucking somebody or someone sucking your cock but then what does that include jerking off as well or yeah well you have to take the cock out of the of the equation. Take the cock out of the equation. Not the balls, but the cock. And take the vagina out of the equation. Oh, I see. Okay. All right. So something totally. So without either of those parts being stimulated, is there something that someone could do?

To make you achieve orgasm? Or even yourself. Is there something you could do without touching your vagina and have an orgasm? Or do you know anybody that you could do something to? Well, you dated that one girl, but this is pretty close because you could rub her on top of her pants and make her cum. Why didn't you just play with her nipples and she would cum? See, that's exactly what that is. Yeah. Oh, okay. You know, that's exactly, you know, play with her nipples or. And again, if you have, if you're part of this crowd that you know something, we'd love to hear from you.

Info at hotwifepodcast.com. But go ahead. Yeah, no, like, yeah, she could. Yeah, that's the first one I thought of. Like, I could get really close if somebody is sucking my toes and playing with my feet. I could get real, real close. But have you engaged the mental aspect? Could you? It would not be as fulfilling as traditional stimuli. It would be either A, intercourse, or B, having you lick my pussy or somebody lick my pussy. Just having my feet licked. I could probably achieve some level of excitement, but I don't think I could go over the edge. Okay. I don't think I could.

I have one I think you could do. Oh, yeah? I think I've almost seen you do it. What's that? Doing the BDSM stuff, whipping your feet. Oh, yeah, my feet got fly. See, that's still feet stimulation. Yeah, but you're not sucking toes. Right, yes. Oh, my God, yes. That did. That did.

But again, was it solely that, or was it the other things being done to you that kind of, like the blindfold on and the i think all the other stuff it's all the other stuff added to it i mean you have that uh a lot of stimuli building on itself until you reach that crescendo you know and and when he started flogging my feet that just took me right over the edge and that was that that primal orgasm i always talk about with related to that as opposed to a more sensual orgasm i know we talked about that before it's like two different kind of orgasms for me there's probably many more but those two are the big and that one's so primal just having my feet just you could just beat the shit out of my feet like flogging them because it felt so damn good in a weird sort of way it was like i had no idea it was a surprise to me i didn't i mean i always liked having my feet stimulated in some form or fashion i just didn't know that flogging was going to take me to that that level that's when i was like i think as close as i could get to hitting the zone that everybody in BDSM kind of talks about that was think as close as i could get to hitting the zone that everybody in bdsm kind of talks about that was probably as close as i have ever gotten in that situation because yeah there's just an influx of so much stimuli and stimuli being taken away which even added more stimuli to it you know once my vision was taken away i was like oh my god it seemed like all the sensation just felt even more so that was yeah that was that was probably one of the most um well it's like weird orgasms i've ever had one or two senses are taken away from you yeah other ones heightened yeah they really do seem to be heightened so that was really good um hmm but anything else it's like okay here's one what's that again i said no vaginal right just anal you could oh yeah but i i thought that might be off the table well i put it back on yeah so here's one how about if they just put their dick between your butt cheeks and just oh yeah that would close.

Would that stimulation maybe make you be able to cum? That'd be real close, yeah, yeah. I had a little dirty thought there. Back in my couch dancing days, there were guys who would come in their sweatpants and they knew exactly what they were doing. They knew exactly. They would wear sweatpants with nothing on underneath, and I could grab their dick with my butt cheeks and just jerk them off. So you knew what you were doing, too. Yeah, I guess I did. Don't blame just them. Yeah, I was a dirty girl. But I never touched them with my hands. That was okay.

That was all within the limit, and it looked innocent enough. You found a loophole loophole i found a loophole and they were trying to put it in your loophole so that was actually even more erotic than actual sex because there was that fabric between you and that's that's you're so close but you're not there and it's it is taboo in a way sure but also by the The fact that there's no skin contact down there at all. At the time, you had a boyfriend that you didn't cheat on or whatever. Maybe you did, I don't know. Yeah. But again, that was as close to cheating. Yeah.

I mean, he would have considered a cheating. He probably would have considered. But he knew you were doing bachelor parties. I don't know. But whatever. It was okay for me to be with women. Whatever. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter anymore. But, you know, I mean, that was, you know, kind of a dirty little fun there. How about kissing? Do you think you could achieve orgasm just through erotic kissing? Hmm. Not on your vagina. Oh, not on my vagina? No French kissing the vagina. It would be close, but no, there'd have to be something else to take me to the next level.

I mean, even if it's just dry humping, you know, oh, that was a, coming back to the couch dance room, that was a running joke, just sitting on guys like, you know, and like grinding on them, not even doing anything else, but just grinding on them. Girls would come out of there like, oh my God, I come to work and I have so many fucking orgasms. You know, that kind of thing. But that's still, that's still, you know, clitoral stimulation. So, but there's no hands involved. You're just grinding on them. We can make an exception. I can. Of course there is. More loopholes?

Well, you know, again, if, if it's not direct being, if there's clothes on, we'll say I don't even know if I can even feel that. Yeah, no, I mean, it's like, as much hair she had, you don't think she would. Oh my god, yeah, that's right It was like fucking, you know Larry Shemp was down there Larry from the Three Stooges I knew exactly I knew where you were going The pool on her lap No, that thing Driving down to the shore from here It's an hour andhalf ride, she'd have 10, 15 orgasms easy. Oh, yeah, an hour-and-a-half? Oh, God, yeah. You might have to give her time to breathe a little bit.

Well, that was it. It's like, come on, come on, I have to. Yeah, she would have a big one and then give her 10 minutes and then start up again. Again, then I might mix it up. I might just play with her tits on top of her shirt and bra. And again, just gently massaging her nipple area. She would fucking gyrate and stuff like that. The interesting thing is she never masturbated, in front of me at least. Didn't need to, but whatever. Yeah, well, there's not a need to. It's always nice to know what, it gives you a chance to find out what you like. She liked what I did, apparently.

Well, yeah, I mean, there's no a need to it's always nice to know what it gives you a chance to find out what you like as yourself liked what i did apparently apparently well yeah i mean there's no i can tell that of course but i mean if you don't masturbate you don't you have less of a i want to say you don't know what you like but i have less of a chance because it gives you self you know self-exploration you know but there's nothing wrong nothing wrong with adding to the arousal. I guess that's the word I want to say. So, like, a guy's fucking you. Right. And you play with your quit.

It's feeling good him fucking you. You just. Oh, yeah. Just, like, fucking, you know, kick the nitro button. Oh, yeah. You know, why not? Absolutely.

It's like, I'm only getting a certain through for me vaginal insertion that vaginal stimulation there's there's a part missing i need clitoral i can i can do clitoral without vaginal but i can't do vaginal without clitoral necessarily okay i need i need that clitoral stimulation clitoral stimulation by itself i can i can come you know hands down that's not not even a problem here but but some people have more uh vaginal type orgasms and some people have clitoral orgasms and some people have some mix or anal even with anal though anal always felt better when there was some clitoral stimulation going I i would think someone's going to jam something in my ass and that's not gonna happen if there was extra stimulation that could only help oh yeah make things a little easier to happen you know well oh absolutely absolutely shut up especially if you're not quite used to it yet you you know.

And when you do it for a while, then the clitoral stimulation isn't as necessary. In fact, sometimes it's, you know, you just want to concentrate on the anal stimulation. But in the early days, you're still being stretched out and it's a little uncomfortable, you know. Getting that vaginal giddy up in there really helps with the whole anal thing, I think. I think it's 5, 4, 3, 6, 5, 2, 1, B, C. I miss him. Shut up. That was two years together in a cell. Oh, God, stop it. We had yard time, but we just stayed in the cell. Oh, love lost. Just lust. Okay.

nothing like prison lust nothing like it but no but uh yeah that's that's how it is for me anyway but uh so was anal still part of it yeah we threw anal in it because that didn't count the vagina the vagina doesn't have as you know it's not as the vagina, the vagina has the internal stimulation, the external stimulation, even around it. So does the anus butthole. Yeah. Okay. We're off the table now. Okay, it's off the table. Because you know what I was thinking? I was thinking this probably doesn't even relate. I used to love getting those power jets, you know, the shower.

Oh yeah oh dear god i can make myself come so much we have no water pressure here's not even worth it that's why we had a 75 000 water bottle yeah that's i kept saying goddamn water pressure needs needs stronger the water company came out and put a water tower in our backyard just for you it's just not strong enough god damn it's just not strong enough that's like but at our old house it was it was a different setup i had all the public water first it was public water and then i had the shower thing with all those different settings oh i had so much fun with that what's the highest one i can get i need a a low, medium, and don't need a man.

Oh, my God. Yeah, that was great. I had to clean his pussy around. So you say. Yeah, but this house doesn't have the water pressure. It's kind of like, blub. So, well, but, all right. It's a disappointment. Okay, so if you're giving pleasure to someone, is there anything you can do to them without touching yourself that would maybe make you come? Oh, I'm doing to them. Ooh. Wow. No, probably not.

I'm just off the top of my head saying no, only because my mind is focused on on them and if I need to bring myself into it, I need extra stimulation because the brain doesn't have enough blood to do both. You know what I'm saying? I'm concentrating on what I'm doing, but I also want to give myself pleasure and I get distracted, so it will be hard for me to come that way, I think. Because I'm thinking about what I'm doing, and I'm not thinking about anything else necessarily. Okay. I don't know. What about you? No, I mean, like, my nipples aren't sensitive in a good way. No, neither are mine.

I wish mine were. Everybody's like, oh. I mean, I can twist them and stuff, and it feels okay. But I can't. It won't make me calm. Yeah. I mean, I think the only thing closest that I could probably take a long time, but I probably could in time. What are we talking? Hours? Weeks? Months?

I don don't know i'm open for experimentation is like and you know i i love my balls licked right oh good just just licking your balls yeah not not putting your mouth on my cock just licking my balls it feels very good it's not as good as on the shaft and the head but you know but again given the right scenario with the mental game and maybe some dirty talk or you know Venus But, again, given the right scenario with the mental game and maybe some dirty talk or, you know. Venus lines up with Mars. I thought you were talking about my anus. My anus don't line up with nothing. Uranus.

My anus is shut down. I don't think he could come that way. I think you'd be very relaxed. It's like a massage. Yeah, but I think the mental game would have to be there for me. Oh, absolutely. You would need something, the dirty talk. Yeah, maybe another woman sitting on my face. See, well, that's cheating then. No, it's not. How is that not cheating? Your stimulation is still on her vagina. I thought we were taking vaginas off the table. I thought you were a vagina. I don't have a vagina. My dick's small enough to be considered a vagina. Oh, stop it.

But no, if, you know, as, okay, you're asking me to make me cum without touching my penis. Right. Okay? If maybe I had one woman licking my balls and another woman sitting on my face. Maybe. Yeah. I'm open for experimentation. I'm just saying. Even if it fails, it's a success, right? Well, you know what? Any good experiment you have to conduct several times. Well, you have to do a blind experiment and then you do one. I don't care if she can see or not. It's probably better for a woman if she doesn't see me. You're going to bring in a deaf girl. I don't care. I don't care.

My requirement says they had to be born a girl and are still a girl. Oh, dear God. Help me, please. Okay. Okay. All right. I can see that. Any color. Weight might not be a problem. Depends. Unless you're sitting on your face and it might be. Then there's restrictions. There's a limit there. There's a weight limit there. Yeah, I've got to be able to hear the radio. But, you know, I mean, you know, I mean, you've seen I've been with every shape and size and color. Yeah, pretty much, yeah. I'm thinking, yeah. So that's not my problem. Yeah, you might be able to get off that way. You just might.

Yeah. Maybe. We could do a scientific, you know, experiment with this one and document it i i think no one wants to see that if you're gonna document take notes don't keep the video okay don't throw me in a video camera no no one wants to see that i'd be a horror movie i have a whole new book oh i've just had something on the top of my head then i just like kind of out. We were talking about the licking of the balls. Oh, a sensual, like if a woman licking your balls, it was kind of like a massage. What about a massage, like a full body massage? Could you come that way? No.

I mean, it would feel really good. Not a therapeutic massage like you get that are very painful. I'm talking a sensual massage. I've never had a sensual massage. Okay, then. So there are four, I guess. But it's like having your balls lit. But if a girl's giving me a sensual massage, if she has strong enough hands, I'm going to be like, can you really get in there? Yeah, see, you're going to switch around. I want to feel pain. That'll make me calm. I don't want to, but that's what I need to. I need to feel pain. Oh, okay. Also, there is a little sadomasochism. No, no. It's not a pleasure thing.

But for me, the pleasure comes from me. But it feels good after. It's not sexual pleasure I get from a deep tissue massage, as you know. Oh, yeah, I know. I'm busting your balls. Don't bust them, lick them. Oh, sorry. I don't like my balls smacked. It's not a good thing. Not a good thing. I mean, they're as big as a punching bag, but don't do that. That hurts. That will definitely make sure I don't cum. Oh, yeah. Some of these guys like their balls pulled. Oh, my God. We've talked about that before. Oh, wow. I'm not saying it's wrong. I'm just questioning. The ones I don't understand.

My balls are pretty sensitive. They really are. And, you know, so it doesn't take a hard smack or whatever to cause me pain. That's why licking them is so. That's what I like. That's what you like. Yeah, that's it. Remember that the one playmate we were with, he had one ball that was numb. You had a playmate, yes. I had a playmate. Sorry, you were videotaping.

And I had that vibrator, and I put a vibrator on the nut that was that actually hurts he could not get enough of it I think my ex did that to me oh I never did that to you I think my ex did it to me once put her vibrator on my nuts it fucking hurt I might tease you with it for like a second and I was like I know it's not your thing. I know it would hurt, so that wouldn't be good. You know, something we haven't done that might help me, too, is, again, I haven't been tied up and blindfolded. I don't, I didn't know if you would even enjoy something like that. You what? Yeah, I mean.

You have opportunities. We go to a freaking BDSM party. No no no no not in a bdsm world fuck no i'm talking like you and me kind of a thing oh i want i i have trust issues sure oh i'm not gonna argue that you got so many issues on i don't even know where to begin trust is like you know the only alphabetical list that's down there by t so there's so many others chapter 6,002 but um no i i no i couldn't that's why i don't perform well in front of groups or in groups Thank you. After 6,000, too. No, I couldn't. That's why I don't perform well in front of groups or in groups.

Yeah, you're a one-on-one type of person. Yeah. I'm not an exhibitionist. Yeah, I'm definitely. I'm a voyeur, not an exhibitionist. Yeah, that's why I'm like, oh, I know what you're talking about. This is great, just being in front of all these people. This is fun. You've got a great body. It's not so great. Come on. Okay a 64 year old body well in some parts yeah there you go what it's a lot of hard miles that's a hard lot of hard road. You know I love you. Oh my God. I feel the love. I feel it. It's so warm and embracing. Now that you wet yourself again. Your depends are full. Thanks.

I feel so special. So anyway, yeah, it'd be interesting if people have something, you know, everybody has different levels of sensitivity or arousal. I think it'd be fun to hear from listeners. Again, info at hotwifepodcast.com. You know, is this something you could do? So I have to tie you up and blindfold you? Oh, do you think I trust you blindfolded? It's like, are you crazy? First of all, you can't tie tight enough, so I can get out. I can use zip ties. Yeah, and for the blindfolds, you're going to use a Ziploc bag around my neck. Oh, aren't they related? You hope. Anyway, so anyway.

I don't know. Yeah, I'd love to hear, you know, send us. If there's a way you think or you experience, that'd be even better. Yeah. If there's a way you experience having orgasm without direct contact on your penis or vagina. Hmm. That's interesting. I'd like to see what that. Well, it's new explorations in sexuality. I mean, it might be something. If we hear from you, we'll share it. We'll share your name.

But we'll share it with people that maybe they can try it so think of it as a uh community help that's what it is definitely help yeah okay so interesting all right all right sounds good so i should get the rope and uh tie you up and blindfold you and tie you to the back of the car let's go for a ride yeah i think we'll be fun You want to go drag racing? You're too much. All right. Ty, is it the back of the car? Ty, is it the back of the car? Let's go for a ride. Yeah, I think it'll be fun. Want to go drag racing? You're too much. All right. All right, everybody.

Word she never says to me sexually. Oh, God. Anyway, I want to thank everyone for listening. And again, reach out to SLS, man. Tell them they need to put our podcast on their swinger radio. Yeah, I would love to hear that. Oh, wait. Have a nice night, everybody. Tell them they need to put our podcast on their swinger radio. Yeah, I would love to hear that. Oh, wait, have a nice night, everybody.