Anticipation and Excitement in Adult Relationships

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Speaker1: Welcome to the Hot Wife Podcast, where we dive into discussions about relationships, intimacy, and everything in between. Before we begin, we want to make it clear that the views expressed on this podcast are solely those of the host and guests, and should be taken as opinions, not professional or medical advice. Additionally, we remind all listeners that this podcast is intended for adults over the age of 18. Unauthorized rebroadcast of this show is strictly prohibited without the written permission of the owners of Hot Wife Podcast. Now, let's heat things up. Hello everybody, this is Donna Lynn and welcome to my Hot Wife podcast. Does this sound really loud to you? I don't know. Okay. Your headphones are up. That's why. Oh, that's why. I'm like, whoa. How's that? Oh, that's better. Okay. I can't hear what you hear. You have to tell me ahead of time. Well, it sounded okay earlier, but then when I started speaking, I was like, whoa, that's a little bit much. Anyway, I'm also here with my wonderful husband, Vince. Hello. Oh, that doesn't sound very energetic. Hello. Oh, that's more like it. You should be getting kind of excited. I'm getting about what's going to happen this weekend. I've got a little pep in my step. I'm excited about it. It's not in the same way. I mean, again, I'm behind the camera. Right. And you're in front of the camera. Yes. And with this weekend, you have some fun to be had. Some fun to be had, yes. When we said you had, this is about another couple, and you said you had spoken to them. I was like, oh, that sounds like fun. Well, we met them for drinks one night. That was months and months ago. Yeah, before summer, actually. Yeah. I was going to say it's like five months ago. May. Of course, it felt like spring went into like beginning of June and then June we had rain nonstop. I thought it was May we had rain nonstop. Yeah, it was awful. This is another couple that basically for years they've been doing just cam shows. Yeah. And also they're like, we should try doing that. video. And she's a wild thing. Yeah. Oh, my God. Yeah, she's... We had some very spirited... And they're also in the lifestyle. Yes, we had some spirited conversation that night. Quietly in the corner. Quietly in the corner. But yeah, she's... I think she'll be... I think they'll both be a lot of fun. There's some definite differences between the two. Oh, yeah, I'm... I mean, her tits are at the size of you. Yeah. Not yours, but you. Yeah, I know. I'm like... She's got tattoos all over. I have like one. And she's into rough sex. She's into, I don't think there's a whole lot she's not into. I think you're right. I was just thinking like, oh my God, it's going to be a wild ride. We'll see. Yeah, we've had, you know, the thing is that the more I get built up about certain things, then I just get let down if it doesn't happen. So I'm trying not to get like, Giddy about it. Yeah, I get that. You know, because we had, that happens all the time. It seems like the people that talk the biggest game, like, yeah, we're going to shoot this, and we're going to do that, and I'm all in, and I've got this plan, and I, you know, they come with all these ideas, and I really like that. I think it's fun, but then, then it's like, oh, we really don't want to do this now. I'm like, what? Well, we had one couple that wanted to spend more time out smoking pot than they did shooting. I don't get it. It's like, come on, let's have some fun. I can't smoke pot all day. I can't. I won't. I can't. I just. Well, again, don't sit there and, you know, if I'm talking to someone about potentially going into business with them, essentially, you know. Oh, for sure. You know, we should carry on business. Mm-hmm. You know, the fact that the business is fun. It's fun. Hello. I mean, if you have to spend all that time getting stoned all the time, then... It can't be fun for you. I mean, I get having a couple drinks. I do. I have a, you know, a drink or two. And I might do my tinctures, which is, you know, you do once. Yeah, but I'm not going out every two minutes doing my tinctures. You do one and you're good for like five or six hours. Well, you are. Not everybody. Oh, no. Well, I'm just saying that's you. I know, but I could never. Everybody has different tolerance, you know. I must have a strong tolerance. Because a pot today isn't like what it was when I was smoking pot in the 70s. I mean, the homegrown was like, I mean, it was beat. It was not, not anything like. Everything evolves. Hopefully. I guess. Hopefully in a good way. Yeah. Well, now there's probably a bigger audience for the whole pot world now than there was back in the seventies. You have people like my buddy. Okay. He's to look at him. He's not the pot smoker, but with his anxieties and stuff like that, he got into it and he's like, I kind of enjoy that. There you go. I just like the taste of alcohol, too. Well, the tinctures don't have a taste, but it's just a really nice feeling, especially if you're in a group of people. It just makes things, rounds out the corners a little bit. Kind of like a drink or two would do. It loosens you up a little bit. Yeah, I get it. I'm just saying I like the flavor of alcohol too much that I don't find. I mean, again, I don't like to smell a pot. Right, see, I do. And again, technically, I am a Second Amendment person, and if I, you know, I could lose my weapon, so. Yeah, stay away. You don't enjoy it, so why do it? Exactly. I got alcohol. Well, here's the thing. Everybody says, you know, oh, you know, smoke a pot makes you so horny. Do you think that, you know, I mean, you don't smoke pot, so you really can't compare, but do you think that, like, certain kinds of alcohol or alcohol or pot, or do you think one will make somebody more horny than something else? I can only speak to alcohol. Well, is there like whiskey might be different than beer? But everyone's different. Oh, yeah. But I mean, in your opinion, have you noticed that? Yeah, I drink, I get horny. I mean, that's been my history. I mean, yeah, the more I drink, the more frisky and horny. Yeah, you're more playful. You know, just what's down. Yeah, your inhibitions, it definitely does that. That too. Yeah. The thing, pot does basically the same thing for me. I don't think it makes me any more horny, but it certainly like just makes you just a little more mellow and, you know, in that aspect. So it makes sex kind of fun. So it makes you more horny? Yeah, I could. Is it because you're more relaxed or do you think it drives up your libido? I think it's because I'm more relaxed. And I think that probably drives up your libido because I know you pretty well a little bit. A little bit. You tend to hold on to a lot of stress. I do. Internalize a lot about so many things. Thank you, Dr. Vince. Spent countless hours with you. Yeah, you're right. I got tired of counting them. But yeah, you're right. And again, if all of a sudden it again, I'll compare it to like taking like Tylenol PM when we go to bed. One, it eases up my back pain. Sure. Two, it helps shut my mind down. So I'm not thinking about this or that. It doesn't always work. And that's kind of what alcohol does. I don't have to get drunk. Right. Just enough to take the edge off. Like you said, rounds of corners. Rounds of corners. And all of a sudden it's like, okay, I don't, I'm not thinking about work or this or that, whatever, you know. I can sit there and just close my eyes and go to sleep. Or enjoy sex. It shuts your mind. Because a lot of times I just feel like my mind always has so much stuff coming on. I have to kind of like shut that down so I can just enjoy the moment. Enjoy being aroused and enjoy that, you know, what my body's going through at that moment and feeling the excitement level go up. And like for you, I've noticed. Feel my pussy get wet. I don't know. When we went to the house party, If you were, you probably were doing tinctures or something at the time. I don't know. With my shoulders the last year, I bet you. Well, it's been over years since I've been to the parties. But what I'm saying is when you get around a crowd, as an example, I think you're so caught up in all the conversations and everything else that, again, that gives you that departure from what's in your head. So you're able to separate yourself a little bit from your stress. Yeah. I like just the baggage from the day. No, that's, that actually makes sense because you start, you know, you're interacting with other people and then there's, you know, there's excitement and yeah. So would tinctures help facilitate that or escalate that? Probably. Probably. Alcohol does it too. You know, we, we have the old rum and Coke scenario. Yes, we do. Don't we? I'm not playing with anyone. I'm, I'm just here to help out. Yeah, there's a lot of rum and Cokes in there. Oh, that was actually, that was not meant to happen. Believe me, but I was doing rum and Cokes. As many times as it happened. As many times as it happened. I swear it wasn't supposed to happen. Well, he was just so hot. That big black cock fell in my mouth. Well, that was later. I just have to be in front of his crotch on my knees. I said I was here to help. I was fluffing. Weaving said, I'm not shooting or playing with anyone. That's the exact quote. I think that was. I turn my back. I've got to set my camera up. I turn around. You're sitting there just, you know, a guy's dick in your mouth. Yeah, it's true. I don't know what happened. You wouldn't have proved that his name fit what he was sporting. Oh, the big Max. Yeah. It's true. Is it big or is it Max? Well, it's both. It's both. Yes. It definitely is a max. Yeah. Then I guess the other guy, his nickname, you wanted to make sure it matched and it didn't. No. Sometimes it doesn't match, but it was definitely a very exciting event. You know, I didn't, it wasn't meant, I wasn't meant to be shooting. I wasn't meant to do anything. I wasn't going to, but Hey, I don't know what changed. I just decided, Hey, this stick looks really good. It's really fun. I think it needs to be sucked. I'm the girl to do it. That dick doesn't look so bad either. I can't defend myself. I don't know what happened. I have no answers. Okay, rum and cokes. There you go. We're back. For you, I can't speak for everyone. That was an aphrodisiac. Rum and cokes is an aphrodisiac for you. By the way, we're... Oh, I think we do have spiced rum. We just don't have coke. Oh, I will go. Go out and buy some. Whatever you want to do. If it works, go for it. Yeah. But it's always been a little joke that rum and Cokes are an aphrodisiac. Oh, but so is Smirnoff Ice. Well, but you haven't drank them since. No, that's not true. You wound up with me and you just don't drink them now. Well, those summer drinks, the new ones. The sugar-free ones. Yep, yep. So, hmm. I think there's some alcohol that is definitely an aphrodisiac. But you're still not going after me. Oh, shut up. I do so go. you. Just not in the same way. No. Go do the dishes. Go move that. Go bring up some firewood. I'm convinced. That's not even true. I don't beat my husband much. I didn't say you beat me. I don't force you to do things you don't want to do. No, you don't force me. You just repeat it repetitively for hours on end until it gets done. Sometimes you have to do that. I'm sorry. The show's not going the way I wanted it to go. Back to the aphrodisiacs. I mean, actually, we wanted to talk more about this couple. So it's exciting. We really think, you know, like we've mentioned, we've had other people and couples that we, there's another couple, a different one, that they came here and they spent more time smoking pot too. Yeah, I see a definite trend here. Do you? Yeah, I do. It's like, I get it. I want to get high. If you don't want to have sex, you should smoke pot. Hey, can we come over and smoke pot? And we'll say, no, we're busy having sex. You can do that at home. I don't get it. Yeah. This has happened twice. That is so weird. So weird. I'm just hoping the third time's not a charm. Yeah. Well, I don't know how to, I hope it works out. We don't know until Sunday. Yeah. We don't know. We don't know. But my conversations and our conversation with them, I think these two are far more business oriented. Actually, there was a third couple that we tried with multiple times. Oh. This isn't a third. This will be a fourth. We're okay. We have been definitely reaching out. I mean, that would be so much fun. So much fun to do. You're going to get to have some girl-girl time? Yeah. Some girl-girl-guy time? Yeah. Some girl-guy time? All the above. It could be a lot of fun, especially with their energy. I mean, I just love couples that have a lot of energy. They seem pretty. Well, they enjoy sex. Obviously. And they enjoy making money. And to marry them. So, we'll see what happens. It could be so much fun. Yeah, so they're going to be here, and with any luck, we'll shoot a ton of videos. I can't wait. Like I said, I got a little pep in my step. I'm trying to be like, oh, let's clean this. Let's get this ready. Yeah, well, I've already started charging the cameras off, cleaning the memory cards off. Oh. And hopefully. Hopefully. If it goes downright, when we get done all the shooting, we're going to drag them in here and get them to record a podcast with us. And you guys can relive. So Mondays, God willing, Monday's podcast, you'll get to meet these people. You'll hear them. You'll get to meet them. You'll be kind of introduced. And you're going to hear about the fun that we had and the fun they hoped to have. Or you're going to hear us talk about how it just didn't work out. Am I that hard to get along with? Is it me? Is it me? I'm starting to think it's me. I don't know. I'm not having sex with him. Oh, ouch. It is me, isn't it? I don't know. It could be my personality. I don't know. My personality has pushed away plenty of people. Well, not with me, though. I mean, oh, stop. I didn't say that. You just nodded at me. Ooh, I'm getting it tonight, mister. Promises. Yeah. What am I getting? Nothing. What am I getting for Christmas? Nothing. But no, it should be, you know, like I said, my conversation with the husband, you know, they're all fired up. Like, what scenarios? Like, there's no scenarios. There's just have sex and we videotape it. Right. Over and over again. Different combinations, but there's no, it's not like, okay, you're going to be the plumber. You know, but the cool thing is that I like when I'm either with a somebody who has like different experiences than me or wants more experiences. That's the cool thing, especially I'm just thinking about the one young man. He never did 69. He never did anal, you know, all these kind of things. And it's just cool. I don't, I don't know their experience level. I'm sure it's pretty in depth. I think they'll bring a lot of fun. They go to swingers clubs and they, um, go various places and but most of what they have done I mean I'm going to say 95% has all been or even more maybe 99% has all been cam shows right and you know not that cam shows aren't so popular but you know the cam market just like the video market is just so overwhelmed right you know you're You're one fish in the ocean. You know, so, and hopefully, besides having fun, you know, people get to see a little different variation of, you know, of you and these people and just some different dynamics. I mean, you've had a lot of people wanting to see you do some girl-girl stuff as well as you want to see yourself do some girl-girl stuff. I know, I know. So you've got to hone up on your pussy-eating skills. Oh, yeah, I think I know. I'm not wearing a red-headed way to shave my beard to do a stand-in for you. Damn. I mean, I'm willing to just show you on her over and over again. Oh, that'll work. But I'm not going to stand in for you in the video. Oh, too bad for her. She'll miss that. I like to think if I ate a pussy, she might, like, you and my husband go play and shoot. with this. Go over his lines. That would be fun. Hey, we don't know what's going to happen. We don't know. That'll be on Monday's podcast. If it happens, it'll be on Monday's podcast. Okay. Keep your fingers crossed. If it doesn't happen, you'll know about it on Monday's podcast. All right. Want to wrap this up, babe? No. No, I'm going to keep it? Yeah. What? Something. So, yeah, it's going to be, you know, I'd like to hear between now and Saturday. Right. Now on Sunday, I'm sorry, when you hear the show, you have things you think you'd like to see Donna do with another woman or another couple. Email us, info at hotwifepodcast.com. I see where you're going with this. Oh, yeah. So, you know, it's going to be interesting. And the thing is, it's supposed to be a nice day. Oh, shit, yeah. And we have the pool and the deck and the veranda. And one of their fetishes? What's that? Sex outside. Really? Yeah. Now, I didn't get a chance to talk to them. Have they done that? When they get a chance to, they like fucking outside. He told me, he says, that's the place I like to fuck the most. Yeah. I have to agree with that. Yeah. I get that. Oh, that's going to be fun. Because a lot of people get kind of, when you're doing things outside, it can't, there's some logistics involved. because your knees are going to be on, you know, hard concrete or whatever. So you have to think about these. We put down pillows and cushions so you can just kind of just have fun without, you know, really hurting yourself. So, oh, that'll be fun. Yeah, it'll be. You know, down at the pool, out here on the deck outside the studio. Oh, that's going to be fun too. Up in the veranda. Another place, yeah. We might need to dig out the trapeze bar for her. Oh, yes. You can't use it because of your shoulder. No, my shoulder. But she might be able to use it. Yeah, that would look really hot, too. I love that. Yeah. I love that reverse cowgirl. Obviously, you're doing it. I'd be like, oh, I wouldn't do that so bad. Well, you could go sit on his face. I could. Mm-hmm. Now, wait a minute. Sit on his face and kiss her and lick her boobs. Oh, that would be so hot. You could be licking her boobs or kissing her. Yes. Oh, my God. That'd be great. You know, because her boobs are so big. Ooh. Now you got me thinking. You're just, oh. Or while she's riding him, you could go tickle his balls. Oh. That's true. You know, while she's riding him, I can come from behind and kind of get both of them. Because we've done that before. If she's on top of- If she does reverse cowgirl, you could- Oh, I can definitely do both. But even if she's the other way, I could just come from behind and get more ass. It'd be hotter with her being reverse cowgirl. I think so, too. Oh, my God. Yeah, you look from the shaft of his dick. all the way up and then where she's got her like pussy like tightly wrapped around his cock as it comes you know when it comes like all the way up but the head of the dick hasn't popped out yet you're just riding the whole thing that i get my face in there run my tongue up and down that shit especially she's taking him anally you get the whole shot at the pussy oh for sure yeah oh oh there's so many things maybe you could tease her with a vibrator or something like that too so she could almost be getting dp while you're you're fucking with a vibrator She's getting anal from him and you're licking her tooth. I was choked. I was like, oh my God, I gotta charge my goddamn toys. She might want to use her own toys. But I want to use them on me. Oh, well then there's that. But yeah. That's not off the table. No, absolutely not. Oh my God. Holy crap. Yeah. That just. Well, you could be, well, maybe not with your arm right now. So you can almost be 69ing with him. Okay, I'm 69ing with him. And she could be like licking your asshole. Oh. Oh, that could work. There's so many combinations there. Oh, my God. Yeah. Mm-hmm. You know what I was thinking? Where you could be bent over doggy over the end of the massage table eating her pussy while he's fucking you from behind. Oh, I just got shivers. Stop that. A little train action there. Yeah, a little. Wow, that would be super fun. Oh, my God. Wouldn't look bad on video either. No. Oh, no. You're terrible. I'm not going to be able to sleep tonight. Yes, you will. I know you too well. You know me too well. You're half asleep already. That's not true. This is very stimulating. I just, you know, it's like foreplay. You get a chance to think about what ifs, what ifs. And sometimes it's kind of nuts because, you know, you don't know. There's too much anticipation. And that can be very erotic. But if you're You just have to let things happen, too. But it is fun to play all these scenarios in my head. I almost think that's almost how we need it to be. It's like, okay, here's where we're going to shoot. Right. Have fun. I agree. Here's who's in, okay? First video is, you know, and pick who's going to be in it. I'm sure the first few is going to be, you know, what I would suggest is you shoot the first scene or two with him, you know, collectively, then give him a couple to rest. I don't know what you mean. Well, whatever. I mean, he's going to be tired. It's going to be a warm day. Oh, yeah. Okay. And, you know, then you two shoot some stuff. Right, right. You know, and then we can add him back in and then, you know, so. Oh, fun. Yeah. If it's not fun, why do it? I agree. I agree. No reason to do it. Half the reason why you're doing it is because it's fun. Sure. That's how we got into shooting porn. We talked about that the other week. Oh, yeah. A million times. It's like, hey, I like to shoot, you know, this stuff. I'm a photographer, videographer. And you like to have sex. Not that I don't like to have sex. But when we were doing it, I was shooting you with Playmates. And it's just like, well, why don't we post it and, you know, take our fun and make a couple bucks, too. That's been one of our fetishes. I don't, even when long. Making money? No, no. And that is a fetish, of course. No, long before we even thought about putting it up on any site, you videotaped the first guy I ever played with. Outside of a relationship. Yeah, outside. Knowingly. Yeah, exactly. You know what I mean. And when we started swinging, like the first person I played with, we got that hotel room. Yeah, I remember. I know exactly what you're talking about. Quiet Mike. Quiet Mike. Oh, now everyone knows who he is. Oh, I know. He's the opposite of the loud mic. It's not that one. There was a loud Steve. I don't know about a loud mic. Sure, there is a loud mic. We never met him. But I'm just saying, like, just that visual, I can still see it in my head, you know, because the quality wasn't all that great. It almost looked like it was very muted, very, you know, black and white-ish. That was a video camera we had that recorded to a small DVD. Oh, God. Yes, I remember. Which back then was not even 720. That was 480. You think? Yeah. That's why it's so terrible. Grainy and... Well, it was a hotel room. It didn't have great lighting. Yeah, it didn't. But there's, you know... The points are crossed. It was erotic. Oh. I still have the videos. Oh, I know, I know. One of these mini hard drives. Well, there was a scene like where I was blowing him in that shower and like my hair is all messed up from sucking his dick. Oh, he's banning it from behind doggy in the jacuzzi and you have all the mirrors. That's what it is. I remember my hair being all messy. Yes, he was doing me doggy. And my hair is like... No, the erotic part was after that when you got in bed and he was laying there. Well, hang on. The real erotic part was too, before that, he'd always use a condom. Right. So you guys had just gotten out of the jacuzzi and he was wearing a condom there and everybody had taken it off. And then you went over and lay on the edge of the bed and he was just rubbing the, you know, go ahead, you tell. I watched it, you lived it. Yeah, he just started rubbing his dick over my pussy, around my clit and everything else. And I remember I was trying to wiggle my body so he would get his dick in. For only five minutes, he's just rubbing it up and down. I thought I didn't think it was that long. I wanted that dick in. I think it was like five minutes or close to it. And then all of a sudden, you're like... I'm trying to wiggle his dick inside. You didn't want to tell him you wanted to be fucked again. You just kind of wiggled it. I'm just kind of trying to wiggle his dick inside of me. I think he got the idea. I think so, because he put his dick in. Yeah, there he goes. You guys then fucked for another 15 minutes without a condom. Without a condom, so that was really erotic. It's like that other guy we shot in front of the fireplace in his house. You were on his ottoman. Oh, yeah. We were back, and he was just sitting there doing the same thing, rubbing it up and down. I don't even think, we didn't even have of intercourse. He just rubbed his dick on me. No, he fucked you. I just remember him. Not only did he fuck you there, then we went down into his rec room downstairs. Oh, that was the time. I thought it was another time after that. Sorry. Maybe it was. I don't remember. Yeah, I remember one time being in front of his fireplace. Maybe that was the only time. I don't know. I think the other one we went downstairs. I do remember being fucked downstairs. We shot video, video, real video. We were up in the bedroom doing the birthday party. Yeah, yeah, birthday party. And then you were down surfing the internet. Yes, yes. You wanted to show him your website and he fucked you on his kitchen table. I don't think so. Yeah, we fucked all over his house, didn't we? I forgot all about that. He hated every minute of it. I know, I know. That was terrible. He's a good guy. Yeah, I haven't seen him in a long time. That was definitely fun. Yeah. But getting back to in front of the fireplace, Really erotic, because even if there wasn't intercourse after that, the fact that he just kept... There was intercourse during it. No, I didn't think so. I'll find that video. I don't think so. You begged him, I need you to fuck me, and he put his dick in you. Huh. No, I didn't think... Yeah, no, you fucked him right then and there, because he was teasing you. Right, right. And then you're like, I need you to put your dick in me, and then he fucked you, yeah. Huh. I got to find that video. I don't remember that. Again, it's that same. The cool part of it, besides being erotic with your watching you wiggle and moan and stuff like that, was that you were all backlit from the fireplace. That would be cool. I'll have to dig through my hard drives and find it for you. Yeah, because I don't remember. I guess. I don't know. Wouldn't lie to you. No, you wouldn't. I don't remember every shoot, but some of them. more erotic. That was pretty erotic. Yeah. So. All right. Well, we'll see what Sunday has to yield. And hopefully it goes well and they'll come on the podcast and then maybe eventually they'll be more regular on the podcast because we're shooting with them more. That would be so cool. Maybe we can even talk to them if they're interested in getting their own podcast on our network. Oh, that would be very cool. All right. Okay. Well. Yeah. Who knows? I might not have to do anything on the podcast anymore. You might just be able to sit here and talk with her and, you know, do whatever. That sounds good to me. Let's see. I'll get you. All right, everyone. Don't forget to check out 50 Shades of Pleasure magazine. The new one will be coming out September 1st or so. And don't forget to see who and what Donna is doing. At hotwifedonlin.com. Yeah. So, yeah. Again, thank you, everyone. Our numbers are climbing. So people who saw we had left are coming back, thankfully. Appreciate that. We didn't know we needed a hiatus. We just thought we were done. But we're kind of reinvigorated and looking at it in a different light. So it's having fun with it and hopefully, you know, inspire you all to have some fun. So stay horny. Keep your fingers crossed, everybody, for Sunday.