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ladies and gentlemen thank you so much for joining us in this episode of living the sweet life to my right is my beautiful sexy co-host and wife the lovely trist and this is my wonderful sexy chocolate husband luck yes it gets better and better hearing you say my name baby I love it so ladies and gentlemen thank you so much for joining us in this special episode of living the sweet life this is episode 15 man I can't believe we made it this far baby we're gonna keep on trucking though yes episode 15 yes this is our last episode of 2019 I can't believe we made it this far we're gonna keep on going though right baby that's right so uh in this episode ladies and gentlemen we are going to be reviewing um a local lifestyle club called the private affair or you may know it as tpa um we tried it out for the first time we're also going to close out the episode with uh some of our expectations for the beautiful upcoming new year of 2020 and you know go over some of our highlights from 2019 some of the stuff that we were excited about trying and some of our major accomplishments and um you know, just some things that put a smile on our face for this year.
But before we get into all of that stuff, I want to make sure I knock out the housekeeping real quick. Is that cool with you, baby? Absolutely. All right. So here we go. Here's the spiel. So, ladies and gentlemen, feel free to contact us via email at thesweetlifepodcast at gmail.com. You can follow us on Instagram at the sweet life podcast and follow us on Twitter at sweet life pod.
Also, if you want to contact us on Facebook, feel free to follow us or friend us or whatever the case, um, at Trist lock sweet life, sweet life is all one word. Um, and then we also have like a little friendly, um, living the sweet life page. If you want to go ahead and click like to that, that'd be cool too. And for all of our lovely, lovely sweet talkers who couldn't join us in the sweet live tonight, be sure to check us out.
Uh, check out our podcast at, uh, living the sweet, on iTunes, Stitcher, Spotify, Google Play, and iHeartRadio. That's right. Got it. Yeah, man. Got that, Ty. I think we nailed that, y'all. I think I got good. Right towards the end of the year, I got good with the housekeeping, baby. Is that it? I think so. Oh, yeah. That's right. You got to remind our friends, baby, and all our sweet talkers to make sure that you guys subscribe and write us a little review. Write us and review us.
You know, I got to say, folks, I appreciate everybody who's hitting us up on IG. We love all the DMs. We love all the comments. We love all the emails that we're receiving. That's fantastic.
We'd also really love it and appreciate it if you guys just took a second jumped on over to that itunes and drop that review and the rating man that'd be awesome we really appreciate that especially going into 2020 man we're trying to we're trying to do some big things we're trying to come out booming so yes we are we're trying to grow our sweet talkers that's right and as y'all know man this is a audience driven show we are nothing without you so you know let us know how you're feeling about things and we can um you know give y'all what y'all want yeah all right so yeah man like i said we got a pretty jam-packed episode today it's gonna get a little a little wild we're to take you on a little bit of a roller coaster emotional highs and lows a little spicy without further ado baby you know i gotta ask you how you feeling or how we feeling how we feeling how we feel i think tonight is gonna be how we feeling right tonight it is gonna be a how we feeling man because i think we're feeling kind of similar we've we've been uh jumping around on the twitterverse uh ladies and gentlemen so we got a little bit of a story to tell we're going to take up our how you feeling time and give you guys a little story um about some stuff that kind of shook us up a little bit right so like i said we're going to take you on a little emotional roller coaster so here we go hang.
Hang on tight. Maybe about a week ago, maybe a week or two ago, I was trolling around, jumping around on Twitter, you know, just checking out the scene or whatever. And we saw that our friends on By the By podcast had actually had an unfortunate incident at their local lifestyle club, which is called Our Secret Spot.
That's right.'s right our secret spot they had a I guess it's a local gentleman come through a local podcaster a vanilla quote-unquote podcaster come through to check out their scene and he wanted to do I guess what he was calling research on swingers so yeah he did that he came through checked checked out their their club on a uh what was it called a pendulum night pendulum night right so on the pendulum night from what i've heard and understand of their podcast i might be wrong but i think this is a night where pretty much anything goes there they allow a lot of bisexual play uh male female male a male whatever the case it's pretty much their world i think it's um a lot of bdsm that's happening in this place you know it's pretty much you know everybody is is free to do their thing right so uh imagine your your reaction if this is your first time uh going to any kind of lifestyle party and you're seeing everything from a to z you know what i'm saying exactly on the on the spectrum so i'm sorry real quick uh and so this guy um he came he went to the club i guess his intentions were good don't know can't quite tell but i know when he came back he uh he put it put it out on his podcast and he gave them a blistering review it was pretty terrible um and he actually painted the lifestyle in a very uh negative light very negative light negative light right right so we're not going to name the podcast or the gentleman on our on this episode.
But if you want to know and you want to check out and, you know, listen to it on your own, feel free to hit us up and we'll send you over, send you over his info or whatever. So you can check it out and, you know, let us know your thoughts.
But we kind of wanted to talk about that stuff because it kind of bothered us but honey go ahead so basically guys um the reason why we want to talk about it is to basically to bring some education to this gentleman about the lifestyle um because this is why when someone that's let's say a vanilla listens to his episode for the first time it has no idea um what swingers are or just has a curiosity for example if they listen to his podcast it would scare anyone off like i i mean it was it was just horrible the way that he painted um the lifestyle speed and granted he went on a night where pretty much um wasn't their regular um night from our understanding again we've never been to this club so i can't really speak on exactly what's their norm or not because it's not even here in our area but um yeah so from our understanding it was on a special night where they also allow single males into the club so single males um coming into the club was i think he said he paid like 150 dollars um for to go on pendulum light pendulum night as we uh just said right so i'm just going to paint a picture just so did you guys kind of get what he was seeing um so he came in he said that you know um very attractive lady you know check the men standard or any of a lifestyle club right someone checks you in um and then they give you kind of like a tour or the spill of what's going on or what you can or can't do.
Right. The ground rules. Right. The ground rules. Right. So he was a single male and they let him know that, you know, the ins and outs of that.
So the first thing he says, um, not the first thing, but one of the things that he said was kind of like, he wanted to do, um, his his research so that he could have and this is where we want to make sure that we bring this up is that he wanted to have the owners of this club come on to his podcast so that um they could speak to like swingers and and what that is with a um what was it life um a sexpert uh like a counselor or something like that, like a relationship counselor.
That's what it was with a relationship counselor. So he wanted to come in and see what their establishment was and then have him on show. That was his basis for coming. Right. So he comes in and he gives a review that he doesn't understand. first, one of the things that I noticed that they send him around and go to the rooms. He comes to a BDSM room. Right. First, he made a snarky comment that he didn't even know what that was and never even heard of it in his life. I mean, Google. Right.
You can Google that.
The other thing is, is that he made a comment about and they had a huge wooden x that is actually called a saint andrew's cross it's not called a wooden x let's just get that stuff cleared up um and then he also made comments about whoops and chains and things like that so some folks like that like it's no problem with being a little bit kinky every now and then like being whoops and chains and being voyeurs and and having people watch you do that hey that is your thing right right yeah so we're not going to spend like uh a ton of time just kind of like firing this guy up even though we could we could we definitely could and we and initially that was our thought we wanted to you know on this guy, man, because, you know, he was perpetuating a whole lot of negative stereotypes about swingers and the way the lifestyle looks.
And ultimately, you know, it's his opinion versus our opinion. Right.
But it was just some pretty reckless comments that he was making so and i just still want to paint that picture sure so and then the next room he comes to is basically like a massage room now i actually thought this is pretty cool so at this particular club they have a massage room that actually sounds pretty dope to me where um you lie face down right and then there's two holes in the table so there's one hole obviously for your face and then there's another hole for your uh the goodies and I'll see you next time.
face down right and then there's two holes in the table so there's one hole obviously for your face and then there's another hole for your uh the goodies man your goodies your pendulum whatever you want to call it i don't know but you know the goods and then there's a mirror underneath that so that you can see the person that's giving you pleasure i thought that was like awesome that's like that part i was like yeah that's pretty dope i'm in yeah like hands up let's go right like i i really thought that that was a good um like basically um review that he got that i can actually imagine how that looked so kudos to that part right um so i mean i was like yeah i want to be a part of that room hey um and then here we go so we get into just more of the episode and just listening to it and um at this point he assumes that everyone in at a lifestyle club have sex with each other right and that was one of my highlight notes also um one of the the more irresponsible things that he was um you know pumping out to his listeners was that uh it that there didn't seem like there was any consent involved it was pretty much just a free for all and in one of our earlier episodes we we tried to hit on the stereotypes that uh swingers have to um try to distinguish uh not distinguish extinguish i'm sorry um every time we we present ourselves is that it's not a free-for-all you know what i'm saying for some people sure you can go into an orgy room or whatever um but there are still levels of consent that um most people abide by all the time you see what I'm saying?
Like, at least you're asking, can you kiss someone? You're asking, can you touch someone? I mean, I remember when we first started, right? When we first started, I wouldn't even approach the woman without her significant other being around. Yeah, without the gentleman's consent.
So there are many, many layers of consent consent so that that's one of the things I definitely wanted to refute about what he what he was believing but please I mean I don't mean to cut you off but and just another note guys we have a lot of notes but we're going to try to absolutely and then the next thing is that all couples aren't having sex with every person that they meet he assumed that in this episode that every person just because they're a couple they're having sex with whoever approaches them and it doesn't matter if your mates attracted to attracted to the person or not like if they want to do it then oh we're having sex with them and there are different play styles everyone's not even having sex with each other some people like to watch some people like to be watched some people just like soft play like there's so many levels to this but he went on this like rampage that oh my god like i met this couple and everybody has sex with you know just whoever they meet and it was so gross i mean he just used just negative language calling people weird and he called them strange weird and they were strange and it was just it was it was bizarre to me for you to say that but then he says no judgment i'm not judging them though you're totally judging them from like the jump and then he says but they never judged me and they made me feel so comfortable then why are you judging them for what what they do?
So we have a sweet talker that chimed in. He said that we think the CNN special about swingers was pretty good. I agree. I agree. It was very good. It was very high level. They didn't really go deep into the woods, but it was very good. I think, what's her name? Lisa Ling? Yes.
It it was very cool and very kind of cute uh how innocent she was when it came to the world of swinging yeah you know how kind of nervous she was but you can tell that there was kind of a little bit of excitement in her too yes especially when she went to that group room yeah there were no cameras in there yeah she wasn't ready for that no she wasn't ready i know she went home at that night and thought about it. But this is definitely a different story. This is definitely something different.
I mean, this guy was just going in, just kind of, you know, just went on a little bit of a rampage. But, I mean, the thing about it is, guys, is that he thought he was, he felt in his heart that he was being a nice guy. Yes, he did. He really did. He really believed that he was being nonjudgmental. But as soon, because it's a podcast with two guys. And as soon as his counterpart made like a joke, he was quick to recoil and defend. No, no, that's not me, man. That wasn't me. Right. Shit.
You know, one of those type of things you never catch me and then i mean okay look if you go into a party you're not gonna be attracted to everyone everyone right you just not and that's okay but the way that this guy painted the picture which again was the dangerous part okay so i or harmful part one second was that um you know how he would say that he walked in and there was nobody attractive to me you know that's just come on dude we all know that that's subjective you know what i'm saying but go ahead honey so it wasn't even that he said there was no one attractive he said and i quote some of the words that he used that they were pale fat dirty drug dealing creepy looking people were the words that he used about the swingers at the club yeah that was what he called them right right another sweet talker says it showed a good mix of levels within the ls i think they were talking about the cnn thing i agree and then another comment is everyone is the hero of their own story.
Absolutely. And that's how that guy was. He was definitely the hero in his story. Yeah. Yeah. And then he also just. Go to. I'm sorry, but I really want you to hit on the coming in the door thing, the requirements when you come in the door. What did he say about that? Remember? Oh, that's what I'm about to actually talk about.
I'm about to get into that'm about to get into that so okay so any i'm going to tell you what he said and then i'm going to rebuttal exactly like it doesn't make any sense so he said that coming into the club any swingers club that he would expect folks to get a sex offender check that you should be um check to see if you are a sex offender or a rapist. You should also have HIV STD checks before you even allow to come into a swinger club. So because you're having sex.
So what you're saying is, my friend, is that you don't go to a bar and meet someone and hook up like ever like that never happens at any other club that no one just goes to the bar and hook up you don't know what they have if they're a sex offender if they're rapists or any of those things but he said that that's what should be done for a swingers club before they allow you to enter or to be a part of the club that all of those things needs to be checked that's absolutely ridiculous and it's ridiculous like what he's saying is ridiculous so you're saying that absolutely that you go to any other bar and that's not a requirement but it should be a requirement at a swingers club because you're assuming everybody's having sex right right i mean just i mean it's just completely absurd again guys i you know this this is it was just completely reckless on this this uh crazy person's behalf oh and there we go haters gonna hate uh sweet talker says a hater is going to hate you got them right you got that right but it's just that i think for him it's more so you don't understand or if you don't understand don't understand, then that's fine.
Just say you don't understand. And that's not your cup of tea. But don't say that I'm not judging. And these people are weird and call them creepy. And then back off and say, but I'm not judging them. No, stick to one side. Right, right. Don't throw the stone and then say, oh, my bad.
You know, I didn't't do that on purpose because that's basically what he did the like almost half of their episode and then he um at one point he was about to leave and he had to get um what his key back or something he had to turn in to get back so he goes in and at that point he's able to view the uh the BDSM room and they had action going on there. And he said that it was just the most like it made him uncomfortable, uncomfortable thing to ever watch someone getting pleasure in that way.
And my response to him will be, my friend, do you watch porn? Right. Do you watch porn?
Because to me, right right but i mean okay all right all right here we go a little bit of devil's advocate here all right maybe somebody doesn't watch that kind of porn maybe he watches like you know uh that skinamax version of porn where it's just straight you know uh male female banging sex and that's it right but if you you know dig a little deeper on that go down that rabbit hole of the porn hub and you can find some some crazy shit right but and that would you know if you see that for the first time it might shock you and you see it in especially you see it live it might shock you but right i don't know i just i hesitate um you know, to to criticize somebody for their opinion.
But it's like, you know, just the blanket statements that the guy was using, you know, is the harmful part, you know. Yes.
And again, you know, reiterating the fact that this person was kind of perpetuating the same old stereotypes that you hear, especially in regards to to jealousy you know he literally was saying how you know how how could how could a man watch his woman have his sex because then you're gonna come back home having these questions about is he bigger than me or was he better than me and then the woman has the same questions about her are her tits better than mine you know and i'm sure that that happens but that's not something that happens like frequently or all the time because what this person doesn't know is that there are so many levels of communication that you have to bypass in order to have these experiences right and i mean sure you got some people that jump into the deep end right and they make these mistakes and they have these awkward conversations but for the i can't even say the majority because I don't know the percentages but for a lot of the swingers that we know let's just say that the swingers that we know communication is imperative right and you know you are able to you know put put aside all of these these crazy notions of jealousy and all of that, all those problems before they become too big.
But this person just wouldn't know that because he's not asking the right questions. He's not. He's not asking questions, period. He's not. No. Or at least not to the right people. Not to the right people. And the people that he did ask the questions to, he kind of asked them questions and then made fun of them, which was just really lowbrow, man. It was terrible. One of our sweet talkers says that he sounds like a person who's going through some deep insecurities.
and then made fun of him which was just really lowbrow man it was terrible and one of our sweet talkers says that he sounds like a person who's going through some deep insecurities bingo you know that's kind of what i think too yeah but he you know he i i just it was i listened to the episode more than one time just to make sure that i also wasn't just giving you know, a bias opinion about what he's saying but just try to understand where he's coming from right and i tried and i still came out with some of the same type of solutions yeah we gotta i'm sorry go ahead no i just came back with the same thing that you are just someone who is totally has no idea what you're talking about bingo but But then at the end of his show, after he trashes this club or it says that it was like the lowest.
Lowest point of Sydney. The lowest point of Sydney as far as the club itself and how it looked. He says, I still I'm I want them to come on the show. Crazy. Are you insane? No one would ever do.
If these owners come on your show, they're insane yeah they're not going to come on your show after you trash their club trash their club you trash their quote-unquote their people you know what i'm saying their customers they're loyal loyal customers uh and why would they unless they're just going in there just to with a relationship just to fire you up but i wouldn't even waste the time actually we've given you too much time actually yes and then you say that there's no attractive people like there was no attractive people you lumped everybody in together and that's not the case tons of beautiful people again beauty is subjective beauty is subjective whatever you know if he wasn't attracted to anybody in there fine that's cool that's okay sometimes we might walk into a situation that we're not attracted to anyone that's okay but that could be at any club that's that's my point you can do that anywhere man right so the stuff that he was saying could happen at any place not just at a lifestyle place yeah man like i don't have to get an hiv you know test done just to go to the club to the damn club on a Saturday night and hang out.
That doesn't need to happen. Right, because I'm about to hook up with some random. With some random junk, like you say, baby. That was a good try, baby. Good job. I'm sorry. I don't use that word. That's his word. I'm sorry. Okay, so Sweet Talker says.
Yeah, we got some activity in got some activity um so some people are just closed-minded absolutely he's definitely one of those people um another sweet talker people like to tend to judge more often than make themselves feel superior yep exactly that's it that's the vibe that's yes that's exactly the vibe that i got another sweet talker says very true as there are levels to everything absolutely and we got another sweet talker that says he's kind of like the writers that review hedo they go on a free vacation and then bash the place lame that's so lame they are so lame but thank you guys for the comments for the comments we're loving the activity for this uh final episode of 2019 yes and just one more side note that kind of just goes into this and we're going to wrap this up is that i was watching real housewives last night um or one of the reunion shows of real housewives and it's so funny because they're kind of are talking about uh lifestyle but they don't even realize it right so on this particular episode one one of the young well she's not a young lady one of the ladies and i wasn't throwing shade she's just not a young lady but i'll throw the shade for you one of they old asses one of the ladies on the show was throwing shade at one of the other um young lady younger ladies on the show because her and her husband they have threesomes or foursomes or whatever they want to have but they have them they live in that good right they live in that life and she says that you need to pick a lane like you should not have other people in your relationship that's cheating and we all know that's not cheating if that's what the rules of your marriage.
Your relationship are, right. In your marriage. Your relationship, period. Like, if that's a marriage or if you're a boyfriend, girlfriend, whatever your relationship is, if those are your rules, go for it, man. Right.
And the reason why I'm bringing that up is because it's comments like this where the Real Housewives, they have a huge right everybody can see this like reunion show and this this gentleman also i mean he's not as big as real housewives but if someone finds your podcast and they take this theory that this shouldn't be this way like you you know you're an embodiment whatever you want to call it like you're you know damnation or whatever to the culture and all this stuff that that shouldn't happen then this is why you have so many ls people that are in the quote-unquote closet right or that are afraid to say that they are ls or swingers or whatever term you want to use because of people like this that have these type of platforms and you basically put out that poison that everyone is just having sex with people or it shouldn't be this way.
That's not how I was raised. Like, who says it has to be one or the other? Listen to you. I love how fired up you are about this, man. You're very passionate about it. I mean, I'm just saying. I love it. Just let live and let people just be. Yeah, man. I want to have sex with who I want to be. Be who you are. If you want to have sex with 10 dudes, I ain't going to judge you, girl. That's what's up. You know? Yeah, man. I love it, man. Get your life. You're absolutely right.
And I appreciate your passion for it. And I'm sure we got a lot of LS folks out here who are hearing, you know, you get up on your soapbox and put your cape on, baby. They're going to really appreciate that.
And of course, you know, if people say, contradicting yourself or you hide your face or you don't you know you're not out in the open look we've told you guys in what episode one or two whichever point it was we have kids that that is our main only concern is our younger kids that we have absolutely we're going to show certain things i don't have conversations with my kids about i had sex last night with my husband i don't need them to know about this part of my life it's very simple for us it's very simple man so anyways all right so let's switch out of that now that we're yeah oh good job no yeah you you did great i really appreciate that man so whoo that how we feeling, ladies and gentlemen, on that note.
Baby, you ready to get into tonight's episode? Let's do it. Let's go. That was the longest How You Feeling We've done. It was. That's all right. That's how we do it.
That's how we're wrapping up 2019 wrapping up uh 2019 so ladies and gentlemen like i said tonight we are going to be talking about uh our wonderful review of the private affair we had an opportunity to go out there um a few weeks ago maybe about a month ago hang out with some friends it turned into uh it went from you know just us and a couple of hot friends of ours um you know they they got a magical way of um you know what is sprinkling yeah sprinkle some extra spice in the air you know uh to bring in some some wonderful company so the party got a little bit bigger uh let's just say it was what two guys and four beautiful women i don't think you complained i like those odds it was good odds i like those odds i like those odds so yeah um so you know let's go ahead and get into some sexy shit man let's get let's get that stuff behind us and keep on rolling so um yeah go ahead honey you want to talk about again guys we want to talk about how we turned our sour lemons into sweet lemonade.
That's right. That's right. The party did start off a little rocky, but. It did. It started off a little rocky. So, normally, guys, you'll hear a lot of podcasters or just a lot of lifestyle people just talk about, oh, you know, a place was awesome. We did this. We did that. And it was great.
But you don't hear so much about like when it's not that great like if something actually goes wrong and we actually debated about talking about this um or not if we were going to actually give a review or not we did about this particular spot um because we just wasn't sure so um after reaching out to one of our other fellow podcasters and just talking about like, hey, you know, like, what do you think? We just spin off of this idea. Should we do it or not?
And then we talked about it again and we decided we're going to do it. A, because we wouldn't be doing our sweet talkers any justice.
We said in our first couple of episodes that the reason why we're doing the podcast is to share our our um experiences and to give advice we're not experts but to hey this is our journey and this is what happened and that comes with sometimes things aren't always great that's right sometimes you gotta take the good with the bad man and um you know we decided to go ahead do it without, you know, we're not going to shit on this place because it wasn't 100% crap. You know what I'm saying?
It really wasn't. But, you know, we just saw some areas that kind of drew some concern more than anything that made us feel a little uncomfortable. And we feel like it might make some newbies feel uncomfortable as well. Yeah. And we consider ourselves seasoned vets. Right. So we kind of just went with the flow of it just to see like, okay, let's see what's going to happen. And we knew that we were going to talk about it at some point, like on the show. Exactly.
So with that said, so we went to TPA, the private affairs, way up in, you know, God knows where, Maryland, man. It's just kind of like tucked away in the woods uh we went out there on like a rainy night um our hotel was actually about a half hour away yes um seemed like a good idea at the time i think it i think it was i think ultimately it was a good idea um you know because it was a better hotel and a better hotel than you could find there i don't't think you wanted to stay at that club.
No, nah. So you just, you know, suck it up and go to a hotel a little, a little further away. Anyway. So you, we, we drove out there and it was kind of rainy, dark and all that, you know, all the good stuff, all the typical shit. It's just dark. But it's like backwards and we're winding, winding roads.
And, you know, it's pretty terrifying actually trying to find the place you know find the place in the dark and you're going down a dark bumpy road and you're like okay is this really it and uh if yeah pretty much like if you're scared out of your boots when you're parking the car yeah that that's the place that means you found it yes so it's like a little warehouse kind of kind of situation somebody says yep yep exactly so um you know you found it when when you kind of uh when you're terrified so anyway you kind of go downstairs into the little main lobby which i gotta say was secret entrance it was it seemed like a secret entrance but ultimately you know what was your first impression when you walked in the door unimpressed i was unimpressed yeah yeah it was kind of dated let me just say it was a little dated you know and i had a chance to go to the bathroom before we actually finished like uh with the registration part so i was like oh okay yeah you know and we have been trying to go to this spot for like years it just never really worked out on our schedule the timing never worked out but we finally got to make it happen but um like i said we walked through the door it was kind of unimpressive anyway um the people it was kind of frantic because we got there what about 10 45 ish so close to 11 they were telling us that you know at 11 o'clock they closed the doors and they locked the doors and tell nobody to come in this was our first time hearing that anywhere yes and they told us that oh that's standard at every club that you can't leave out and come back in like go to your car and take something and then come back we were were like, no, that's false.
But I'm going to let you go with that. That's false. I'm going to let you go with it, though. Yeah, you're right. That was pretty wild. I mean, you know, it got a little bumpy with the whole registration process. I think everybody was a little tired. I'm going to go ahead and make excuses for him because, I don't know, it wasn't the most hospitable situation.
It was maybe one person that was kind of hospitable but i think he had reason to be and i'll get to that in a little bit son of a bitch anyway right so okay um once we arrive and we check in at the front desk and our friends arrive and everybody checks in um they give us the tour mandatory tour it seemed like right because no one asked us really if we've ever been to a lifestyle club before key question have you ever been to a lifestyle club or how long have you been in a lifestyle like none of those questions even were no like happened i think i think all they cared about was if this was our first time at their club but we could have bypassed a lot of the stuff that they were right asking or telling us yeah pretty much man just show me where the bathrooms are right you know show me show me where the rooms are where the bathroom is and where the bar is and we the rest of the shit will work itself out you know what i'm saying so we go on this lame tour and i mean long long tour of every single room and they have a bunch that's a plus right they have a ton of rooms what did you think of the rooms i just you know so i'm a room fanatic i like the rooms at places i like that's one of the first things for me that i look at and that i judge honestly that because i enjoy the themes at room at the clubs and figure out like oh what kind of cool things that they did i was kind of unimpressed i mean they had the little batman room the batman room was nice um one of the other rooms that i kind of wanted to utilize the glory hole was the glory hole room yeah of course that was pretty cool man i don't know why i just got some kind of kinky fetish with that shit i don't know ever since he went to florida y'all shit maybe before i don't know well you know you got you you stirred the pot baby yes got the juices all flowing you know Um, but yeah i definitely want to try that room out but that's if we ever go again so um once we checked out all the rooms we saw they got pool tables they actually have one cool idea it was very cool idea was a place where you can take your pictures oh yeah it's like a room yeah it's like a little curtain doll area um with a little couch you can take your selfies you know take your little naughty pictures whatever you comfortable with and it's curtained off like i said so nobody can see in or out you're not getting any other passers-by it's pretty dope i like that idea that was cool yeah it's a pretty novel idea for a lifestyle club so thumbs up for that and they have like a little hot tub uh we'll get to that later also and they had two stripper poles two stripper poles you didn't even get on them i did you wasn't there oh bullshit why am i just finding this out i told you that already you're telling me on live i told you that the same night when we was drinking all right maybe i was drunk yeah damn i missed out and you missed you was like but i was in the bathroom i was like you missed it sorry all right well anyway yeah two stripper poles god damn it and of course they got the bar and all the the dance floor and um did i see was there like a big group room i think there was like a big group room wasn't it um yeah yeah because yeah so that was the one that you can sit in and be voyeurs in it was like a big bed and then people they had like chairs or something in there yeah that you can like sit in and watch yeah it's pretty cool yeah it's pretty cool so the way i know i think that's right it was a window peek in there so the way our night went was you know we walked in did the whole registration thing got a little comfortable put our uh stuff away got our drinks you know and then started like dancing and chit-chatting did the selfie room everything you know took some hot pictures that maybe you guys will see um in the next couple days or so um and then what did we do honey we once we ditched the guy from that long ass tour once we ditched him and and did our thing we uh went to the hot tub right no we had a group huddle oh good job good job we did so right we did the circle of consent right circle of consent is what we're calling it circle of consent so all six of us kind of just we huddled up in and we what we thought was a quiet corner right uh to talk to each other and just find out where everybody's play situation was right absolutely we wanted to find out what are you good with what are you comfortable with before everybody starts getting blasted right before we start getting drunk and we go up in a room and hands start moving around and oh my god don't touch me there right so yes nobody wants that nobody wants that oh oh god no no nope nope so we had the circle of consent everybody kind of just stand around consent you're grown up we're gonna have a grown-up conversation and find out where everybody is you good cool right but a little bit more detail right like what are you good good with and everybody was comfortable going all the way full swab whatever it was all all hands on deck like everybody's in on the same page and now go right right go team now go go team but then so we we're trying to like hammer out the details in our circle of consent and this guy keeps coming up and keeps trying to interrupt us while we're talking god the tour guy the same tour guy he's like you gotta come over here you gotta come around because they have this thing called pop your cherry newbies so i'm sitting there like we're like one second dude like we're trying to finish like we're trying to hammer out sex like i need you to just pause for a second right so then we could just figure this out and sign it on the line and then we'll be right with you i promise exactly so we um we finished the conversation and literally i think they like think they waited for us to finish that conversation.
So let me make sure we're clear. This is the problem with this club. This is a cultural issue, it seems like, with this club, right?
I'm not sure if any other Sweet Talkers have experienced this, but when it's your first time your first time there oh by the way one of our sweet talkers has a picture in that joint uh that they have uh hanging up of her wonderful self yes so beautiful it was nice it was kind of shocking but anyway uh so again this is the issue that we have with this place right so they take all of the newbies. You don't have to do this, right?
You don't have to participate, but it's such a high pressure situation. They're like, come on. Absolutely. And you have no idea exactly what's happening. They will not tell you. They won't tell you exactly what's happening, but they're like, come on.
And they put these armbands on you so that everybody knows you're a newbie yeah so they tell you you're going to get your cherry pop you're going to get your cherry pop um uh yeah you're going to get your cherry pop right so they line every all of the uh the newbies up on the stage everybody's kind of were we sitting i think we were sitting right and i think the the veterans of the club they kind of come over with um actual cherries with a tray of you know little individual like little shot cups of cherries and they feed you a cherry with with their mouth yes so we went on ahead and just said okay cool we volunteer let's see what this is about right yeah we definitely want to see what it was let's just go ahead and just you know participate yeah because two of the people that we were with they were also newbies but they didn't participate at all they put their foot down they had to yeah they stuck their foot in the ground and was like no we're not doing it but like i said the issue is, the issue is that it was such a high-pressure situation.
You know, I get it. Like, you don't have to do it if you don't want to. But it's just the pressure that makes people feel uncomfortable, and especially if you're a newbie. If you're a newbie. You don't want that. You do not want to feel like you have to do anything because that sets the standard that you probably had to overcome to walk in the door, period.
Right, situation that people are just gonna jump on you jump on you and people gonna make you do this thing anyway so what they're doing is uh they sit you down on the stage and they bring these cherries and they feed you the cherry with their mouth and there you go there's your boy your tour guide so my tour guide so mr extra ho ho nice man he was like oh so the whole time i was up there nothing was happening i was just sitting there like just smiling and and just laughing and enjoying the scene of him like two other females i thought it was hilarious right i mean not hilarious like funny but like you know get your life right you know go ahead you have your fun so i'm relaxing And then my little tour guide yeah guy host guy he takes his shirt he takes his shot i was like here we go he said he's being old or nice and stuff and he takes a shot he comes over and he's like okay i'm gonna put the cherry bop i was like yeah so he did that and then i said yeah i mean it was i'm like you i'm not kissing you in that way let's be real he did he did kiss you he tried no because i know because i cringed and i literally but i didn't kiss him okay all right there was no tongue okay honey whatever the case i saw the guy kiss you and i cringed because it made me.
It made me uncomfortable that I knew that we didn't go through the levels. Like he didn't pass the levels to get there, to get to kissing my wife. You know what I'm saying? And I know what it takes for somebody to, you know, for you to feel comfortable enough to kiss someone.
You know, whether we're like partying or drinking and you kiss somebody on a dance floor that's by your choice yeah but this guy it just he shot his shot he shot his shot i was like oh thank you but no yeah so so that was the issue and this is what we mean by the consent it was like i said it was kind of a rocky start with this place it was kind of a little shaky there you know we did the whole little thing and we was like oh i'm gonna tell you know i'm gonna take this in my memory banks and i'm gonna uh you know i'm gonna spread the word because you know maybe this is something they should do away with you know and it sounds like you know according to our sweet talkers that have been that this is new and they should undo it like this should not be a thing that you should do like granted if we're saying as vets like we can understand okay yeah all right i gave you a kiss whatever right but a newbie that's not going to be the case like it's just not going to happen that way i'm sure they're going to be afraid yeah you're going to scare a lot of people off from that one you you definitely are i think there's a potential to scare a lot of people make a lot of people uncomfortable and then they're just going to use your club for whatever just to fucking leave if they want you know what i'm saying yeah and you don't want that and you don't want that you want your club to be like somewhere that people can rely on and can go and have a good time and that feels safe you know like they to be pressured into any type of like situation again we're both grown and we consented to doing the actual participate in the event without knowing what it was now will we do that again no no because we know exactly what's going to happen and again at that time we were doing because we know i'm like okay we're going to be trying to get material for the show cool let's see what this is about absolutely i don't mind you know giving this dude a little bit of peck but you're not getting no time because i don't really like you but okay otherwise um we that was the part that we really think that the club should do without yeah we got a sweet talker that says uh that is almost like a predator yeah definitely yeah yeah we don't like that at all yeah no it was pretty gross it was and i've actually only had that happen i think twice once when we went to a party in north carolina when a guy just walked up to me remember that big guy um when we were at a halloween party and he just walked up to me and kissed me like out of nowhere yeah and then now so like two times but it's all good you know hey yeah we're we're learning so let's get to the good shit yes so that's our review on no yeah that was the pa no that's not the review on tpa well yeah on the club itself okay fair yes yeah yes that was our review on tpa um and yeah so we think they should take that away so then what happened after that we uh we sauntered over to the hot tub area right yes we decided to go ahead and all right let's take a dip let's get this thing moving right here and we didn't shook off the cobwebs let's let's some skin.
Yes. There was a group of six of us. It was six of us. So we made our own party. That's right. Goddamn, we brought the party with us, man. We sure did. And people were trying to infiltrate. They were. Oh, no, no. We had the blockers on. With the stiff arm. Is that what they call it in football? Like stiff arm. Like, no. There's already a lot of us. Six of us. And that's not to say that we were cliquish. It's just to say that, you know, we knew what we were here for.
You know, it was just we had something in mind and we wanted to, you know, fully execute. So, yeah, so we hit the hot tub. It was another couple in there kind of chilling. It was not necessarily a hot tub.
It was kind of like a warm bath with a few of your friends it was yeah but we didn't last that long in there we ended up leaving no so we left by there and then we all decide to go into a room you okay you rushing me along here i'm sorry i see what you're doing i mean the hot tub was very uneventful it was but you know we can describe the scene as far as like the bodies bodies was getting naked and we saw what everybody was working with. It was kind of nice, in my opinion.
But we're going to go ahead. Go ahead, honey. Go the way you want to go. Yes, so we all decided to go back to a room, not a group room, just a room with the six of us in the room. It was big enough to accommodate.
It was big enough to accommodate bodies on on top of bodies um so yes we all decided to go back to the room and things got kind of uh got a little hot and heavy hot and heavy so i don't even know where who started what i have no idea actually who started what where it started let's take just one second to describe whose penis came out first no idea probably mine i don't know usually maybe i might be a culprit it may be him because he gets the party started describe some of the wonderful attendees of said room so all of the women were hot all of the women were hot um all women were hot wonderful beautiful bite-sized queen um who is small but packs a big bite um has a wonderful wonderful body um just unblemished and beautiful curvy little hips so i have something to say about her i was describing i'm sorry but so that was the first time in in any situation that we've ever been in, whether it had been orgy or just another couple, that I had another female who was aggressive.
Oh, yeah. Usually you're pushing people around. I mean, other than my friend, Mrs. Bourne. But that was different. But, yes, she was like very like.
But she's's the smallest one and she's shorter than me yeah she will take you down she will she will get what she wants so hot so hot and then who else we had we had another um taller slimmer um he likes to tall yeah uh smoky complexion just another beautiful long-haired queen i mean we were just two lucky guys man to be in this room and then we had another woman who was a little um she was curvy and uh we had actually partied with her before we kind of hung out with her not necessarily party with her um yeah just curvy beautiful everybody had every kind of piece of equipment that you were you probably want to know yeah just beautiful beautiful women she had very nice boobs the gentleman uh was another dark complected guy another very very nicely built very nicely built um yeah it it was a uh it was a it was a great variety of people it was a wonderful smorgasbord of bodies i i'm i'm sensing that like this orgy thing has been like our anthem somehow it's like i don't know honestly i don't know how these have been happening lately but it just kind of been happening yeah it's been happening and i ain't complaining so i don't think so but it's like we're hoars i don't know how it's like finally i don't know it was like 20 2019 just became all the way turk about orgy so yeah let's let's talk about the scene real quick.
We're not going to go too far, but we're going to give y'all a little something, a little naughty for 2019 while we wrap this thing up. So, yeah, man, where did we start? Like, how did things get jumping? You don't even know how you got naked. You just know you were naked. I just was like, get naked.
Yeah, I know I went down uh miss bite size for a little while um and that was a wonderful uh few minutes because you know you know i'm trying to be fancy these days i'm trying to use that all the the stuff i learned in the uh the damn workshops he's like i learned this hold on i got tricks lay down let me let me try this thing out in this way yeah let me try this thing out and then i know i went down on um the taller slimmer lady also and where were you where were you when this was going on you don't know i was kind of all over so so i've heard you were a floater huh i heard that i was a floater i had my i was like you know my hands was like all over the place i heard like uh what is that game twister yes yes this is what i heard i heard that i was a kind of a surprise to people of how i was able to work that out so what was the what do you think uh people say it was like the most surprising thing about your activity in that room because we actually heard comments about you my activity yeah um that again that i'm very hard to read and people didn't know what to expect right it would be in the room but when you got in the room what happened it was like yeah uh-huh you was partying you was getting your thing on and that's what i try to tell people.
I mean, I just what about people feeling good? You know, I want everyone to like feel good. So I'm kind of a pleaser. And I like to be pleased. Yes, you do. I do like to be pleased. I'm not all the way a giver, but I like to be pleased as well. But yeah, I've apparently have I have I have a good touch. Let's say that you do.
And like you um in the last episode that i'm your go-to and that's what you do like if if you need something and you're you're jumping around and you know the other penis was occupied you was like hey i want my penis come in come over here give me some i mean somewhere in that melee uh you and i had sex also and then we made sure to call out you know when people needed new condoms condom switch and then i think i had sex with those cops the taller woman and then i had sex with the um the other woman but i didn't have sex with the little bite-sized queen oh darn she escaped me we were just bouncing around all over the room and she and I just we didn't connect we didn't have an opportunity to connect but she is so wonderful and beautiful and I'm so fortunate to say that they are our friends and we're looking forward to hanging out with them in 2020 so yes who knows what might happen then huh yes who knows who they may bring no we love them we do super super cool people man it was cool like that it was it was they they bought the party they definitely bought the party if this whole clip thing don't work out don't y'all worry we got this situation we got it together don't worry about it everybody's gonna have a good night everybody's gonna have fun man but again again in this particular situation this particular situation um i found that i did not come i didn't come because again it's like one of them times where you're like don't come you better not come don't come no you're not going to be that guy don't be that guy right don't be that guy and you stay so focused on that um that you just you don't come forget to come like the whole time i mean yeah next thing you know everybody was tired needed water break and then it was like okay the club is kind of whack all right let's get out of here you know and then you know we we tried we wanted to kind of get back in the swing of things when we got back to the hotel but again it was 30 minutes away and then people were getting sleepy and it was just like ah yes opportunity missed it was missed I mean and for me too I was I was also telling Locke the same thing that for me it's hard to for me to come in an orgy I don't think I've ever caved yet because it's hard like it's hard to for me to come in an orgy i don't think i've ever caved yet because it's hard like it's so much literally going on it's like overstimulation that you're trying you're like all over the place like with everything you're getting you know feels on and everybody's feeling everything but to release it's hard for me like i haven't done it yet and i've tried to like you know woosah breathe relax but i can't i'm so excited like it takes a lot of focus for you you know i do know that that you do take a lot of focus and concentration and you like to really be uh immersed in like the the in the moment and you have a lot of feelings happening and then um and then boom that's when your explosion happens yeah um so i can i can see how you know when the dj calls switch it'll you up and take you out of your zone i'm like dang i was almost there yeah so one of our sweet talkers says that when it comes to swinger clubs, do you need to bring a clinic note or is it not just – or you're not just into using condoms.
Right. You don't need no notes, right? Damn it. Exactly. You need to say, here, this is – I'm free. This is the last time that I had my checkup or whatever. No, I don't think that's needed, but that's funny. Somebody says, you're like a kid in a candy store when it's happening. Yes, yes, it's absolutely. It's just a lot going on. So much going on. It's so exciting. Yeah. And then whenever Sweet Talker says that, damn, I got to party with y'all sometime. Maybe. We'll keep you posted.
Maybe, maybe.
We'll let you know where we're going to be so and some one more we got one that just popped in sounds like being at a buffet i don't want to get too full one person so so to speak right and then next thing you know they're kicking you out and they're closing the spot and you ain't even full yet that's me that's my problem it's so true like it's like a buffet you're like trying to taste everything that's going on all that shit on your plate right and then before you know it it's like right oh i forgot they all out of coconut shrimp that's funny i'm sorry Ha time so all right folks hey we're gonna take a quick pause and we're gonna get into uh everything that was awesome about 2019 and a little bit of our expectations for 2020.
sound good yes all right all right ladies and gentlemen thank you so much hey uh here we go man uh 2019 was a pretty big year for us baby yes we started a podcast yeah hell yeah we did hell yeah we didn't again gotta thank you guys we gotta thank our sweet talkers man we've grown this thing just a little bit and you know every person everybody that comes in and and drops in a little comment it helps us tremendously man you guys you know again this is a audience driven podcast that was the dream right to have something that we can talk to y'all live straight up and record it and maybe help somebody out man and we can do it together you guys help us out we're in it together we're in it together man so we go down we're taking y'all with us yeah but no man we love it we we really love you guys and we really appreciate what you've done for us in uh 2019 man so yeah what else did we do man um uh so we just got back in our into the swing of things yes we did yes we did with a bang with a bang it was a it was a great year man um you know it started off a little slow but of course you know things like that happen we had we just had a baby man but you know as she got a little older and a little bit more independent um we were able to rely on other people to watch her and give us a little bit more free time to connect with each other and i think that was the biggest thing for us this year yes just being able to reconnect yes and get back onto the same page of where each other's uh you know where we are yeah things like that where our desires are and the things that make us happy and the things that turn us on and just you know the things that make us smile man and being patient yeah we're trying to be patient with each other yeah um to get back to, you know, the things that make us smile, man.
And being patient. Yeah, we definitely learned that. Trying to be patient with each other. Yeah, yeah. To get back to where, you know, where I'm comfortable, where you're comfortable, and go from there. Yeah, man. The family situation changed a little bit. Oh, shit, a lot of bit. A lot of bit. Not a little bit, a lot of bit. Yeah, but that was. We're still figuring it out, but we're figuring it out.
but we're figuring it out yeah man yeah it's it's all about progress and i think that for this year we took some steps forward man yes we did uh and like you said when it comes to like the lifestyle stuff and like our uh yeah with the lifestyle stuff we were able to like uh kick it into another gear somewhere where we haven't been before we're kind of pushing our boundaries just a little bit uh and i feel like we're having fun i feel like we're having fun and we're doing some some cool stuff and this is and again this kind of goes back to almost earlier in this episode it's like also i forgot to mention that boundaries you know like we're choosing to push our boundaries it's not something that all couples do no um you know, some people stay within their one, you know, like we're choosing to push our boundaries.
It's not something that all couples do. No. You know, some people stay within their one, you know, whatever those boundaries are, and they never move past that. And that's perfectly fine. Just, you know, for us, we chose to push our boundaries a little bit more because we knew that we had other desires. So that's where we decided to go.
That that's right it's all up to you as an individual man or not as individual you know as a couple you know to talk about things that make you guys happy and the things that you want to try and explore and you know you always have fun with it and if you're comfortable with staying where you are but that's but it's fun then stay there that's. There's no reason why you need to push your boundaries or to go anywhere else. Absolutely right, honey, man. Let's see. What else do we got going on?
We went back to Desire this year, which was awesome. What else? Yeah. We met new friends. We may have more friends.
We already had friends, but now we have more friends um because i think prior to 2019 you know we kind of we were doing the whole lifestyle thing not necessarily in the wrong way there is no wrong way we were just we broke out of our comfort zone you know we were very comfortable um being in that one gear being in one gear being kind of super extremely discreetreet but we kind of broke out a little bit we kind of you know became butterflies a little bit in this one we did we went from a caterpillar to a butterfly that's right that's right so uh yeah so we're looking forward to fluttering these wings around next year hopefully we catch up with y'all sharing the wealth that's right that's right just kidding i'm not just kidding yeah man all right so what we're looking forward to in 2020 because we as we record this this is what december 29th we only got a couple days left by the time we post it it'll be the 31st so we'll be uh creeping up on new year's hopefully yes yeah you guys will listen to us yes and and that'll be it for 2019 for us yeah man so what are you what are you looking forward to 2020 what we got 2020 i'm looking forward to going to we're actually going to hito on a day pass in february so we're we're actually going to jamaica for a wedding look at us heathens you're going for a wedding and you're still talking about i'm going to hito don't talk about us because what about the people that's going to get married there so where did we meet them we met them at hito but yeah we met them at hito yes but they're not getting married at hito but yeah we met them there so it's just kind of like oh we gotta go we're down the street that's right that's right we can't miss that opportunity so yeah we're gonna go to hito get naked for a little bit catch a you know good tan maybe get a new uh i know they got massages going on there now so we definitely want to check those oh yeah somebody told us about that yeah i told us about oh there we go sorry i knew i heard about it but yes so looking forward to that then we have some other like family things coming up but otherwise other than the family stuff we have naughty now listen guys 2020 we're trying to tell y'all naughty 2020 we're taking the sweet life to another level at least we're gonna try to we're gonna we're gonna give it our best man naughty is going to be uh somewhat of a coming out party.
We're planning on some big things down there. We want to do some merch. We want to make sure we get some merchandise stuff out there. We want to. Not really like merch, but. Go ahead. You can stand back. But, yes. Okay. We're going to get some stuff out there, and we're going to do a panel or two. We want to get up on. We would like to. Yeah, we want to get up on a panel. We want to talk to some folks. We want to answer some questions live.
We haven't decided if we're going to wear our masks or not, but I don't think we are. You know, we're just going to go out there and we're just going to have a good time, y'all. We're going to do the parade. We're going to participate in all the theme nights. Trish has already started shopping. I did. Yeah. God damn it.
I think the hardest part about Naughty is trying to figure out what names and stuff we're gonna it's like ridiculous but yeah we have to figure all of the logistics out with that because if we do if we're able to do like a panel of course we're going to be lock and trust right yeah absolutely so we just have to be careful about like what we're doing um we'll worry about that when it's time so we have it's like a little bit of logistics to figure out with that and the mass and all of that um but i'm excited about the costumes right and the theme night and the people and the people i just want to meet it or in other podcasters that are going to be there too so it's going to be great people it's going to be an epic time we're looking forward to it if you guys can make it down there make it down man what is it uh late june july it's july okay it's in july it's like um almost like the second week of july so if you guys can make it definitely you know get down there and and come um this is our first year going we wanted to go for so many years and we just didn't, it didn't work out.
But this year we purposely made sure that we planned it so that we can go to Naughty in New Orleans and we are super, super excited. Hopefully we could get this panel worked out and get to meet and greet some of the other podcasters. I'm really excited about this. Yeah, it's going to be dope. What else we got going on?
Next thing we have is we want to grow the show we want to grow the show in 2020 we want more sweet talkers we want more um followers on our ig you know and dm us let us know your thoughts if you want certain things to talk about or if you you know just have questions please let us know your thoughts and and don't forget to review us guys in 2020 review us yeah that's right that's right review us we um we plan on doing some interviews we want to take the show to another level we want to get some uh maybe we want to do some skype interviews uh we want to try to get some more people in the suite so we can do some more uh you know group discussions yes um i think that'll be fun and we also may um well we are not may potentially we'll do some shows with other podcasters yeah yeah we got some stuff in the works man we'll keep y'all posted stay tuned on our um on our social media stuff you'll see um but yeah man we got a lot we got a lot uh in the works we're really looking forward to like just busting out and having some fun.
Of course, doing the same old stuff is, you know, meeting up with you guys every two weeks and going to different parties and talking about parties. And don't worry, guys, we're going to get back to the educational stuff, too. You know, we want to make sure we we're covering all our bases here. We're going to get back to Trish's toy chest. Yes. We're going to take a little break after this, of course, to get into 2020.
But when we get back, we're going to make sure we're going to spend some of this time playing with some toys. We are. And we're going to show those things off again. Absolutely. Yeah, it's going to be good. So look out for Trish's toy chest. and of course we we also have our other friends that are planning their trip to Hedo for Play Society. And the dates for that is June the 20th through the 26th in 2020. And, again, that's Play Society. And they are going to Hedo. Great group of people.
That's going to be awesome. They, like we said before, they throw great, great parties. And if you're going, you know, you got to turn up. You got to make sure your costume's straight. I'm telling you. And all of that. But they'll definitely make sure that you're having a good time. They are the life of the party. Again, that's Play Society. Yeah, they are the life of the party, man. They bring the party with them. Y'all going to have a good, good time if you hit them up.
Hey, if you want to contact them, just reach out to us and we'll get you their info i'll make sure i put it in the show notes also their email um and yeah man so we're we're really looking forward to 2020 and beyond hey um uh i guess that's it hey i think we got we got one more says did he thought of ever having having swinging orgies on a new beach has ever crossed your minds before oh that is some sexy shit i don't know man but the sand the sand will get in your butt but you gotta you gotta no no no let's make it perfect let's let's do on the on the beach on the bed oh on the beach okay see if it's my fantasy that's where i'm at i'm on the what is it the cabana bed give me push two of them bitches together go ahead push them together throw a bunch of bodies on there and um i think that would be hot man i think that would be some sexy if it's a cabana bed then yes yeah i'm down for that then it would you know if it was like the fly the fire torch is going and you know set it up with the stars and all that now we talking yes so then i'm good and you can hear the ocean crashing yes man i'm in there with a whole bunch of sexy body bodies going on yeah okay see speaking of that uh we're gonna also try to squeeze in a desire trip next year yes we're gonna try to work we're gonna figure it out we gotta figure it out because we're going to be going to washington yep going to washington state and to vancouver we're going to try to check out some clubs while we're out there exactly yeah we're gonna try to get a little tour in man do some do some clubs we're gonna try to get up with some podcasters out there yes we're gonna try and do our thing this year y'all man yes just hang tight hang in there with us and uh we're gonna have some fun yes all right babe thank you guys so much for coming yeah to being a part of our journey for 2019 and we look forward to you coming up you know coming with us in 2020 2020 friends yeah man hey we love you guys listen uh wherever you are for new year's uh be safe have a great time um happy holidays all that good stuff happy new year guys party party safe that's you know use condoms and then tell us about it and then tell us about it send me a dm all right baby happy new year boo happy new year all right y'all talk to y'all next year bye guys again we'd like to thank you for living a sweet life with us be sure to subscribe rate and review us on itunes spotify google play or wherever you listen to podcasts feel free to email us any questions comments or 90 thoughts at the sweet life podcast at gmail.com that is the sweet life t-h-e-s-u-i-t-e-l-i-f-e podcast at gmail.com you can also follow us on instagram at the sweet life podcast and on twitter at sweet life pod so do you have anything else to say to our lovely guests until next time keep living the sweet life bye Bye.
