Show Description:Welcome to another exhilarating episode of the "Swinging Single Podcast," where your daring host, AC Maxwell, takes you on a deep dive into the titillating world of swinging, love, and sexuality. Today, we're tackling a topic that's as old as time but as fresh and relevant as ever - age gaps in the swinger lifestyle.Is age really just a number when it comes to swinging? How do age dynamics play out in the swinger community? Are there unspoken rules or preferences? From thrilling personal anecdotes to professional insights, this episode promises to enlighten, entertain, and maybe even educate on the complexities and joys of age gap relationships within the swinger lifestyle.Tune in and join the conversation as we take a closer, more intimate look at age, desire, and connection. Whether you're a swinging veteran or simply swinger-curious, this episode is sure to offer something for everyone.
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hey there beautiful souls you're listening to the swinging single podcast and i'm your host ac maxwell here to sprinkle a little magic and a lot of spice into your day whether you're a seasoned swinger or just curious about the lifestyle i'm thrilled to have you on this journey with me so today we're diving into the topic that has intriguing as it is complex the age gap gap in swinger lifestyle. Yes, you heard that right. Age, my friends, is but a number. But when it comes to swinging, that number can play a big part in the dynamics of the experience.
We're talking perceptions, challenges, and oh, the delightful benefits that come with age diverse connections. So grab your favorite drink, get company and let's unravel the mysteries of age gap swinging together it's time to let our prejudices open our minds and welcome the lush diversity that makes the lifestyle so wonderfully unique remember here at the swinging single podcast are a welcome the judgment is shown the door we're about celebrating love in its boundless, respecting our differences and learning from each other's experiences. So without further ado, let's swing at today's topic.
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we're going to talk about the age gap so make sure you go to doobie energy hook me up get some energy drinks for that club when you're down to your last bar of energy take it get some more up get your dick nice rock hard ladies and gentlemen and all that so today we're going to talk about the age gap that's in swinging and the reason why i want to talk about this because i've been seeing more and more younger people in my time as a swinger in the 20 plus years that they have been coming more and more uh dominant in the lifestyle which is good because we need new fresh faces we can't have the same same old same old because if that happens then it just doesn't become what we need all right so let's get into the good old age gap debate that we're gonna have all right so hopefully everyone's having a wonderful day and i hope you enjoy the show so have your wife sit on your face get on we get ready to talk dirty stuff you know and all that great stuff so let's look at it so the swinger lifestyle is a really great because it brings it brings people together of all ages so I was going to swing nation like you know I love going to swing nation swing nation has a lot of good uh material that if you want to really get into the swinging lifestyle i recommend fully to go in there and check it out because it's very good but in this arco they we're going to look going to look at how people of different ages enjoy swinging and what age group adds to the mix younger people bring the rocks of energy and desire to learn while older people bring experience and confidence now with that being said there are older people who are in their 50s who are starting to swing and have no experience whatsoever so really it's really hard for me to say age brings experience because you know i see a lot of 40 50 year olds brand new to the lifestyle and all that so it's just some of those difficult things that you're going to have to you know discuss with your partners and all that so i don't know but you know it is what it is so and we can hopefully help out people here on the swinging single lifestyle podcast so so when these different ages come together all right and then let me tell you it's all ages coming together when you go to a club in houston vegas florida whatever you're gonna have ages all all ages anywhere from 20s to all the way to 60s 70s it makes the experience better in so in so many different ways.
It's not just about the physical stuff, but it's about learning from each other, appreciating our experiences, our differences, and finding what we all have in common and enjoy the freedom of swinging. With all these different ages, swinging turns into an exciting journey that's not only varied, but also really rewarding. And it's super fun way to break down the walls between different generations. You see a lot of times in the swingers lifestyle that couples, a 30 year old couple, they're only looking for other couples that are in their same age bracket. So it kind of gets difficult.
You know, if you were looking for someone in the same age bracket, especially as you you're young it might be a little difficult for you to find what you're looking for is it impossible no it's not impossible because like i said we get more and more younger people into this lifestyle which i always say is good but there are some drawbacks to that sometimes when you have a younger crowd and all that you don't have what you would expect to always have all right so does age matter differently in the swinging lifestyle age plays a unique role in the swinger lifestyle but it's not what you might expect the swinger community is very diverse you got people from all backgrounds all religions and all different races they're all in this lifestyle you'll have people from their 20s all the way up to their 70s i was 21 when i first started when i first started for the first 10 years first 15 years i usually was the youngest person in the club you know and all that so it's kind of weird when you're always the youngest person but it's also good because you know those ladies love those young little cats there although a lot of people are between the ages of 35 and 50 i would say most people are in between 35 and 50 some people think swinging is only for older folks maybe because of the movies or things they've read online now this is changing because you know the internet and all that stuff is bringing in younger people with social media and all that people talking about swinging porno and movies glorifying the swinging lifestyle making it out to be what it's really not sometimes movies don't do a great uh deal of justice for these uh things we have a younger group coming in and all that which is good because we need them to replace us old people because we can't swing forever we ain't gonna live forever okay two guarantees in life death and taxes so what they're seeing online may not be what reality is though that's the problem that we have to stop i think if we can fight that problem head on and get it done and taken care of swingers of all ages are going to get along because you know sometimes swingers don't get along you know but really anyone's old enough and can be part of it i have to disagree with the article that said that i do believe you have to be oh i would say 25 or older i know a club in las vegas i think it's the red rooster no one over 25 no one under 25 can come in i think the reasoning was because the immaturity that people under 25 do have and shit you know i can tell you something people in the 40s have immaturity too so it's not just an age thing sometimes with the maturity but i think people 21 and over if you have you can only have to be able to drink once you're able to drink i think you can be involved in it are there people under the age of 21 in it yes there are people in high school that are fucking kids are doing threesomes and orgies and shit now so it's kind of but that's creepy as shit we don't want them we'll take you when you're 21 and older don't we don't need you now so with lots of different generations joining in you got all kinds you got gen z the millennials you got gen x and you got the boomers all doing swinging and if you don't believe me just go to florida you'll have you'll see grandma and grandpa's fucking in the hot tub and shit like that which is good because i'm like fuck i hope i'm like that age and still horny enough to want to fuck everything around I'm sorry.
swinging and if you don't believe me just go to florida you'll have you'll see grandma grandpa's fucking in the hot tub and shit like that which is good because i'm like fuck i hope i'm like that age and still horny enough to want to fuck everything around more and more young people especially those in their 20s and 30s are getting into swinging like i said we all can contribute that to social media there isn't no change in the mind frame of our brains are evolving it's not none of that stuff what is, it's really that people see it on social media.
People finally go, hey, actually do this shit. Because when I first started swinging, I thought this stuff was only in pornos and things on Jerry Springer. I didn't actually think this was actually what people really do on a Friday, Saturday night. I thought, well, maybe they just do it, you know, whenever and however. But, you know, it is something that you have to really think about and all that. So social media has changed that for the young. So young people see it now. They know it's real. They know they can experience. Now, do they have an opener mind in past generations?
I'm going to have to disagree with that.
I don't think they're more open open-minded i just think there's more opportunity for them to find out about it i think at this shit during the 60s and 70s if those people knew about swinger clubs key clubs or whatever they used to call them back then i think they'll be more open and more wanting to have sex and all that be swinging as a younger group but you don't find that when i first started you had to go through the porn shop and go and get a swinger magazine there's no internet at the time so you can't just google stuff now you could just google stuff so i think the opportunity is more out there for the younger people and that's why they're swinging more as younger people than they my generation gen uh gen x and the boomers were and all that because you really had to find the spots because you know they never they don't advertise this shit so there's even special events for just younger swingers making it easier for them to start exploring casual non-monogamy yes there are events like young swingers weekend stuff like that i think uh swing nation has that that podcast and you got the pineapple express podcast they're young or she's young so they're doing all this stuff for the younger people to get them involved in it which is good hopefully you don't discriminate against people of age because you know i think hedonism has a young person's weekend too or week or whatever it is but i hope they don't discriminate because what's going to happen is guess what happens to all you 20 30 so if any 20 and 30 year olds are listening right now i'm going to tell you this little secret you're going to get old you're going to be 40 you're going to be 50 you're going to be 60 and when you're that age guess what those 20 year olds that you are now all right do you want them to discriminate against you so hopefully you're not discriminating against anyone because of their age do it because of their looks and all that stuff but don't just do it because of their age and all that because you can't help it how a person is i can't help it when i was born so hopefully these young groups are not saying well if you're too old you can't be a part of us because guess what you're going to be old and karma comes back and bites you in the ass trust me i know karma's biting, but me and the ass a lot.
So it might surprise some, but a good number of swingers are actually under the age of 30. Uh, true. Yes. And yes. And no, a lot of swingers are mostly over the age of 30. Well, but we got to look at what, what do we call swing? Is it someone that practices goes off and fucks one person at a time each day? Yeah, of course.
It's going to be under there because more people are more open to having sex now outside of marriage where when i was growing up it was like oh if you're a hoe you're a hoe you didn't want that as a woman now that's a whole badge of honor apparently and they don't care anymore so there's no this oh well we're gonna stop and i'm gonna make sure i don't do anything like that or anything so i don't know let me see what else we got all right so however being younger can bring its own challenges and swinging it can sometimes be easier for long-term couples to build a deep trust and clear communication that's key for swinging and that's one thing i always recommend to younger couples always make sure your relationship Thank you.
swinging. It can sometimes be easier for long-term couples to build a deep trust and clear communication that's key for swinging. And that's one thing I always recommend to younger couples. Always make sure your relationship is solid, that you have that communication. Swinging is not going to fix anything. Swinging will destroy everything. It won't fix anything.
So if you're trying to fix your marriage or anything like that, you're trying to fix any relationship and you want to start swinging, you're going to fucking, your relationship is done and over with so enjoy the multiple sex partners as you can because ultimately going to destroy your relationship also the cost of going to swinging events or clubs can be a big deal for those watching their budgets as we're younger and as we know now from social media that a lot of young people are not making ends meet. They can't afford anything or whatnot. In my last podcast, we talked about the cost.
It's going to cost you $100 a night to go to a swingers club, mostly, especially if you're in Houston, Texas. It costs over $100 to go as a couple, more as a single guy, less as a single female.
There are some cheap clubs out there, so you're going to have to make sure if you're on a budget and you can't afford these $100 nights and you're going every now and then you're going every now and you have to make sure if you're on a budget and you can't afford these hundred dollar nights and you're going every night or every weekend it caught it adds up one weekend one day a weekend that's 400 bucks a month for four weekends so it does add up that's 1200 bucks a year going to resort go to heduism desires temptations that's going to cost you three two to five thousand dollars because you got to fly there you got to pay for the fucking resort and they charge you out an arm and a leg because you know they're a specialty you that's where you can go and fuck and have a good time and all that stuff so you know it's just one of those things where it's just fucking it's very expensive for people and all that so i don't know i don't know guys i don't know anymore all right anyways so but it's important not to let money stop you all right make sure but be smart with the money don't be paying your swing club fees and not pay your rent pay your fucking rent first if you have anything else over go to the club or you know what find other young swingers Thank you.
don't be paying your swing club fees and not pay your rent pay your fucking rent first and if you have anything else over go to the club or you know what find other young swingers or fly on the swingers online and meet them up at a bar or something where it's real cheap so making a budget for swinging activities can help cost uh help keep cost in check while still having fun in the lifestyle always have a budget this is what we're going to spend this is how much we're going to spend and that's it like i said if you're on a very tight budget please make sure just don't go to the club just do your due diligence online and meet couples outside of the club because it's going to be easier for you you're going to spend less money and stuff like that especially if you have kids because guess what now you got to get a babysitter and not everyone's lucky enough to have grandma grandpa near on call 24 7 where they can take your children for free and all that so it does suck so you got to really make sure you're smart about it all right the swing community is all about including everyone offering lots of ways to get involved and connect no matter your budget or age with a little financial planning and taking advantage of community resources younger swingers can dive into and make great connections in the lifestyle and that's so true like i said you got to be very careful you got to be very open-minded as a youngster you got to be like all right what do people offer it's like when you're dating someone what do they bring to the table do they have a good job do they have motivation are they ambitious stuff like that and as a couple as a young swingers you got to think okay what can we get from these people is there any good friendship because guess what you never know because the person that you're swinging with might be an owner of a of a company might want to hire you because they know you they know what you're about so you can make connections that way so just because they're old do not disqualify them and same thing older couples older couples do this uh i can't i can't have sex with you i remember when i was young when i was in my 20s i would get turned down because they had kids their age my age and i'm thinking now more day more and more these days like this is where now couples are becoming more open to swinging with 20 year olds where it's none of this well i got you know let me turn it down voyeur is that good let me know if it's good voyeur for you and all that so anyways I'll turn it off all the way anyways so anyways now you are trying to that was a rejection I would hate because I can't I can't help my age and they were like no i can't help you because you got i got kids your age and stuff like that so i was like all right no problem you know that so but to me i wanted to dismiss anybody because of their age i look at it what do they bring to the day are they good people are they gonna be a good lay and all that stuff and that's what you look for a lot of couples you know they're looking for stuff like that you know but nowadays i still see more and more people are very open-minded to the possibility now of being with younger couples and younger people whereas before it really wasn't like that it was kind of well you're on your own and all that so i don't know but anyways let's see where we're at so if you so getting meaning swinger couples your own age now this is going to be where if you definitely do not want any older couples or you don't want any younger couples it goes both ways if you and your partner are new to the new to the swingers world and worried about age differences don't worry because the community is filled with people from all ages and all walks of life i told you you're gonna have you're gonna meet everything and anything you're gonna meet all religions and all that all races all ages there are swinger events cruising resorts that bring together lots of different ages including older couples who are looking to spice things up uh now they have more time and privacy now this is why we probably have a lot more why swinging caters more to or actually has more older people.
It's because, you know, what are you doing when you're 20? You have a family. So your 20s and 30s are really dedicated to raising your kids and having a good family. Your 40s start, your kids are in high school, whatnot. They're going off to college, and there you are.
You're sitting there looking at each other and going, now what do we do look at things to do swinging and all that stuff would be good and all that so you start saying okay let's try this i have a couple i have a friends that they swing i swing with them once in a while and that's how exactly they got started kids all went out to college or empty nesters like now what the fuck we do oh well we like sex so let's start trying to swing and all that so it can happen and all that uh and all that so you know it is what it is all right so you know you'll find people so at swinger clubs and parties you'll see people of all ages but many are between 30 and 50 there are 20 year olds that in there, few and far in between, you know, there's not a lot of them.
More older folks are joining the fund too, so it's older people. More mature people are joining the fund, so you'll likely find others around your age to connect. You're going to find, trust me, if you're 30s and you only want 30s, you will find a 30-year-old couple. Now, I cannot promise you that they're going to be what you want. Like I said about taking one for team guess what you can take one You might have to take one for the team or whatnot And all that so you know you do what you got to do all right voyeur.
I'm working on it The music should stop I'm on delay, so it's gonna be delayed a little bit. All right. Thank you. Just hold on patiently So feeling nervous about reaching out to others of course you're going to be nervous it's very nerve-wracking you're sending pictures and you're exchanging your deep dark fantasies of being have two cocks in your pussy or you're want to fuck some guy's wife and stuff like that so it's very nervous when you're going to start open just be yourself when you're doing it yourself. Swingered events are all about being open and honest.
And everyone wants to be welcome. When I go, I'm, like I said, and I've said a thousand times on here, I'm who I am. I would rather be hated for who I am and be loved for who I'm not. And I just, I'm honest with them. I just want to come out, fuck your wife, make her feel good, make her come a bunch of times and send her back off to you.
I'm not to marry your wife state your wife or anything like that i'm not going to sit there and lie about how great your wife is how great a couple is and all that because you know what sometimes i don't even know these couples names i can't remember them so it's one of those things where you just got to be open and be yourself because people are going to love you no matter what people are going to hate you no matter what if you're a really hot couple there are going to be couples that hate you just because you're hot uh things like that you could be a real ugly couple guess what you're going to be hated because you're ugly there are very there's a lot of dickheads in there there's no difference in the lifestyle than the real world vanilla world you got judgment everywhere and people will judge you on the things you do we say we don't but we do you know but we don't judge you on your sexual activities that's the one thing we don't do you want to take it up the ass you're a guy you want to fuck your bisexual good for you have fun I support you I will always support you and having fun being bisexual male and all that great bisexual female same thing I'll support you I support you and I will clap and cheer you on couples if you're straight you don't want to fuck anything you just want to swap parties fucking get game banged by a bunch of dudes great we'll support you but we're not going to sit there and kink shame you and shouldn't say that we will judge you based on other other things because we're human beings we judge what we look you know when you walk into a club you dress like a slob people are going to think you're a slob you dress nice people are are gonna think you're important things like that and that's why i always tell people that's why i wear suits to the club because you know what i'm trying to give off the vibe that i'm important that i keep myself clean and all that stuff which i do so if you're friendly and real you'll meet other couples who share your interests and want to explore just like you friendly and real that's the point being friendly.
I had on my Sweet Kids Facebook group, people were talking about protocol. What's the protocol for a single guy to talk to a couple? I go, there is no protocol. Just walk up to say, hey, hi, I'm AC. How you doing? That's it.
And based on what that couple says to you, I decide if I'm going to stay and talk to them a little longer or just one of those uh hey how you doing nice to meet you we'll see you around type of things because you get some people that are very talkative that want to talk to you want to get to know you then you have the people who don't want anything to do because you're single male i'm a single guy and they don't want nothing to do with me and they say piss off and all that which is fine because that's what they can do it's okay it's on all that so you know you just got to remember all the things be yourself be real if you're young just be real you're old you're mature be real just be yourself younger adults in their 20s are also joining the swinging lifestyle as they become more independent both personally and financially they're becoming more interested in trying non-monogamy like i said i do believe that's because of social media now if i do believe take let's take out the internet there's no internet i do believe it will still be a lot more mature people there'll be less 20s and early 30 year olds in the swinging lifestyle because they really don't know where to go you know like i said when i had to go you had to go to a porn shop there was no just google it now google was even born then and right now they don't have to go to a porn shop just google swingers and boom there it is so it's you know it's kind of good for them it's good for the younger people um does it suck that i go through all that go to a creepy bookstore yeah but you know what i'm glad for the younger people because they can get into it because this lifestyle is great you know like everything else in the world it has some ups and downs but it has a lot of good things to do uh with it and all that it could really make your life your relationship with your woman or your man very good and it can also destroy it too but you know hopefully that's not going to be the case so swinging has become pretty popular with the younger couples looking to add some excitement to the relationships and all that so you know this is one of those things handling big age differences in swinging all right if you're in florida you know what this is all about because you know you get a lot of more mature people down in florida older and all that so you know you get all that so who knows anyways so when you're swinging and there's a big age difference it can be a little tricky i love the big age difference because you know what the older woman can fuck better i i just it's just my thing where you know older women 40s and 50s and 60s can just pound it out a lot better even though the swinging world is open and likes having people of all ages sometimes when the age gap is too wide it can make things awkward instead of fun and again like when i was you know when i go to paradise lake caliente and all that you'll get like a 60 year old 70 year old couple and you know they're just watching you fucking pound go to pound town in a conversation or in the fuck rooms and all that and it's just kind of it kind of get weird a little bit but you know after 30 seconds it doesn't because you know they're they're enjoying the same as you did, because I also remember I'm going to be at that age one day and I'm hope I'm open to it still.
And I hope I'm still doing it. But, you know, it can be creepy for some other people because some people are not as open minded as I am. They, you know, they struggle with people, you know, they struggle having people watch.
Sometimes people don't watch you can believe how many swingers do not like to be watched and is that a contradiction yeah maybe but i just think it's funny that you know some of these people don't want to be watched at all so when you got an older couple who looks like their grandma grandpa it could be a little funny at times and things like that does happen have i played with some of them oh yeah i'm gonna tell you right now yes i'm going to there's no problem i have no problem if grandma wants to fuck i'm gonna provide the fuck for her and give her a good time uh like i said my fantasy has always been with someone in the 70s and all that and i got that done in vegas where i got to play with the 70s now was it a little difficult little weird because you know you can't really go hard and all that and all that but you know it was a great fantasy and i'll and i'm doing it again if i ever get the opportunity so older swingers might not approach uh younger couples ones because they're afraid of seeming weird or out of place yes i i can't agree with that because you know you kind of feel creepy and all that i remember when i was younger you know you weren't the creepy dude when you go up to the girls at the club now i'm the creepy dude that when i go to the girls at the club anywhere if i go to a bar regular club swinger club now i'm that creepy dude now because i'm the older gentleman and all that but when i didn't move the floor i'm going to tell you one thing the younger girls were more into the older men i didn't notice that when i was in when I did move to Florida, I'm going to tell you one thing.
The younger girls were more into the older men. I did notice that when I was playing around in Florida and all that, that these girls really did enjoy the older gentlemen. So I didn't have a bad time. So younger swinger couples sometimes get turned down by older people who say things like, I could be your parent. I had that a million times when I was younger. And I always want to say, well, I'm not your parent. You're not my mom and dad. We're all here for the same thing. So let's fuck.
Getting turned down like this can make a younger swingers feel less confident and excited about being part of the community. You know, I haven't really seen, sorry, in the later years, in my past years, I've seen couples getting turned down because of their age. Maybe they get turned down because of their age now. I don't know. It can happen, I guess. You know, I can't, I'm not privy to every single conversation that's happened in a club, but sometimes it does happen, I guess.
And it kind of it does suck because just like I said, you can't really that's not your problem that you can't help when you're born. But people do will say and I have seen it like I had it personally done to me that I could be your parent or whatnot. So it's like, OK, whatever, man.
Well sex if you want to have sex let's go but i'm not into this you know bullshit reasons why so the best way to deal with the age gap is to talk openly about what's what is okay for everyone some people prefer to swing with others to close their age you'll see it online reddit uh sdc things like that they're looking for couples in there you know they have to say like 10 to 15 years age difference that's it anything other they want you see a lot of couples are looking for 40 and under 35 and under guys something like that some people like i said they want to be with their age like younger couples who might want to swing with people more than 10 years older than they are so if you're 25 35 is your max you don't want to do it knowing these things can start the start can help avoid any awkwardness and make sure everyone else feels comfortable and respected so if you know right offhand that you are not going to swing with anybody a certain age you got to let people know that now not offending anybody this is where it gets tricky because you're gonna ladies what's the one thing you never ask a lady how old she is so you're looking at this woman and her husband you're talking to him you two are talking to him and she looks like she's maybe 50 plus and you don't want to swing with anybody under over 40 how do you bring that up say and all that so you got to really be smart and quick-witted when you do things like this and say hey we're not doing anything with anybody tonight or something like that or uh just make up some bullshit excuse and all that because it is going to be awkward and all that because people do are very offended when you talk about their age all right that's probably one of the one things that will piss off a couple in the lifestyle is like when you talk about their age because like i said you can't help your age and all that but it's kind of funny when that does come up so as a trick maybe you don't talk to people who are older but then you sound like an asshole because you're not talking to people like if i come if i me and my partner come up to you and start talking and we're too over you and you don't talk back sometimes it's something you have to read into a lot of couples can't read into what's going on so you know it's just one of those things where it's gonna happen and all that so hopefully it doesn't happen but remember age difference don't have to stop you from swinging lots of couples have a great time with people who are different age i do like i've been scoring a lot with 20 year old women recently i'm having a great time swimming with them the most important things is to talk openly make sure everyone agrees and respects each other this way you can work out any issues or worries about different ages and you know what you might say what this is like petty shit i go yeah it's to you it's petty but to a lot of people they don't want to swing with people in certain age groups or age brackets or whatnot and it's fine if they don't want to do it that's fine do what you got to do baby you know it's your swinging it's your sex life so make sure make making sure you're swinging is safe and fun in a swinger lifestyle feeling safe and comfortable is super important whether you're just curious looking to spice up your relationships or you're already familiar to the scene here's what you can do to make sure everyone has a good time so here's some some tips that the article put.
Talk things through. Having a good talk is crucial. Couples should share what they're okay with. What excites them? What worries them? Being open helps ensure that everyone understands each other and feels respected. Make sure you talk about condoms. If you're swinging with a younger couple, this is what you have to worry about. You know, you got a vasectomy. You know, I'm all taking, my baby makers are done. But if you're swinging as a younger couple, you can have the possibility if she's not on birth control and you don't use condoms, we don't know who the father could be, things like that.
And you know what? It does happen.
It it will does and you'll be surprised how much the younger couples get pregnant when they're swinging and they don't you know who's the father and all that you don't want that situation at all coming up there's a couple i know in florida she's pregnant but they do only fans and they play with single males they don't use condoms at all they do cream pie so you know question is who's going to be the father and what color the baby's going to be because you don't know we don't know if they said they took time off to get pregnant or she got pregnant with someone else and you know there's a fetish out there where guys do want to fucking get their wife pregnant by someone else.
I had that happen, too. So, you know, it's just one of those weird things. So you've got to talk about that. What protection are you going to use? You know, what are you comfortable with? Girl, girl, guy, girl, guy, stuff like that. You've got to talk about everything. Talk everything through. What's going to happen?
So if we go in the back of the room, what's going to happen uh you two we we need to know we don't feel comfortable just going in there not knowing all right yes means yes in swinging everything should be an excited yes from all people involved you know take one for the team we all do it you will all do it don't sit there say you fucking don't do it because you do do it all right take one for the team if she's not happy she don't want to do it she shouldn't do it Thank you.
do it don't sit there say you fucking don't do it because you do do it all right take one for the team if she's not happy she don't want to do it she shouldn't do it like i said it has to be excited yes everyone has to be hell yeah let's go fuck from everybody involved all four it's important to check in and make sure that everyone is happy with what's going on from simple hug to anything more you know if you're swapping partners make sure your partner's having a good time too don't have your partner you're pound going to pound town on this guy's wife and your wife's trying to suck this guy off to get him hard because he can't get hard you know it's not fun for her it's not going to be fun for her trust me when she can't get a heart when the dude can't get a heart on and you're over there fucking the shit out of the man's wife it ain't fun for her she might say it's okay but trust me it's not health matters taking care of your sexual health is a big deal like i said the only thing any swingers owes another swinger is their health status everything else name address phone number that shit you don't owe them anything so get checked regularly for stds stis whatever you want to call them be honest about your health and potential partners and always use protection like condoms and dental dams um you can do that but i don't i never use a dental dam condoms yes dental dams no all right so make sure you get tested and then it's okay you know make sure you're tested go a couple times uh go a couple times and all that and you'll see all right let me see if this works okay anyways privacy is key all right keeping everything private not everyone needs to know what you're doing all right please don't Tell everybody what you are doing because it can affect you in the long run all right let's see so keep the details of your swinging adventures private now you can tell people about your ventures but just like don't tell the people who you're with or anything like that respecting everyone's privacy and not sharing stories without their okay is important for trust and safety you know like i never tell anyone's name i just say miss m miss b who the fuck is in miss m miss b stuff like that and if your name is miss m miss b then fucking i'm sorry but that's all right yeah that's your problem not mine because you know don't name yourself that, so just keep everything on the down low.
You don't have to tell everybody who it was and all that stuff. Now, do swingers tell other swingers? Yes, they do. Let's not lie. Other swingers will talk about single men, single women, and all the other couples. Are they good or bad? Are they assholes and all that? So let's not act like we're all nice and all that. So try to keep the privacy talk. Keep the information to a minimum. You don't have to tell everything secret, like he has a wart on his ass or a birthmark on his nut sack or anything like that. Just, you know, just be smart about it.
And couples, don't put your first names on your profiles either. Stupid. All right. Always have a plan B. Before going to an event or a meetup, talk to a friend about safety check-in and how you might leave if you start feeling uncomfortable. Like, have safe words. It's about making sure that you have a way out of any situation that doesn't feel right. I know one couple, she goes to the bathroom. That means a no and all that. If she stays, yes. So, you know, you have key things.
Now, you have to practice this because I always have the, I do the same thing with my partners and I fucking forget and she forgets the words and all that and all that. So, you know, you've always got to plan it. So you really got to be in tune. Now, if you're in a relationship for 10, 15, 20 years, you might know your partner real well where you don't even need this. You can just read her body language. But yeah, it's one of those things where you just got to have a plan and have an exit strategy to get out of it and all that. So try the swinger lifestyle today.
Explore connections and excitement. No matter where you're in an adult journey, just getting curious about non-monogamy, wanting to spice up your best years or season to end swinging, your swinger community is ready to welcome you. It's a place where you can explore your desires, forge meaningful relationships, and find new levels of joy and intimacy in your relationships.
Being open and curious can help you understand more about what you want and who you are, all in a space that prioritizes safety good communication and respect this culture promotes empathy understanding and welcomes everyone looking to explore to join this fun and open community you can sign up to any website you got swing lifestyle.com you got sdc.com you got quiver you got cassidy uh what's another one you got some clubs now have like pendulum they have their own website now some clubs in las vegas have their own website now so all you got to do is go and do that fill out the profile do not use your first names or last names or anything like that in your profiles you used to come up something just go to ai look up good swinging names for couples and stuff like that and you should be able to uh find something that's good and awesome on there all right so don't do any of that so make sure you put a safety think of safety first then you can go from there but go to those websites check them out go to a club go google if you're in your town if you're in dallas vegas la new york chicago you know wherever you're at look up the nearest club near you now some of you like in wyoming montana those areas in the midwest you might not have a club that's close to you so you might have to take a weekend adventure to go one of these clubs but guess what you will have the time of your life trust me all right All right.
So that's some of the age gaps. Let's talk. Just recap. Make sure you go over it. Age gaps. You're going to have everyone from 20 to 70s in this lifestyle. All right. So if decide on what you want, do you want to party with 70 year olds, 50 year olds, 20 year olds? If you don't, that's fine. You just got to be up front and say, hey, we're not into this and all that. We only want to party with people within our own age bracket and our own generation, stuff like that. And you'll be fine. Trust me. It'll hurt the feelings of the person.
I'm going to tell you it does hurt my feelings when I was in the 20s and people would say, I'm old enough to be your parent or grandparents.
And they're like, oh, because I really wanted to fuck ac loves to fuck all right so it's going to be okay guys you'll be all right just remember respect everybody and you'll be respected back all right anyways let's go move on next couple minutes before i get on out of here so friday night was a good night had everything taken out they don't have anything no problems to do uh and all that so i didn't have anything really to do friday night so i figured fuck i'm gonna go out to the clubs around here it's hot wife night at colette's in houston i think every other weekend they have hot wife night right so i went to this and i'm thinking we had to hurt we had the hurricane came in destroyed the fucking power grid we didn't have no power a lot of people didn't have power till fucking today and tomorrow actually which is Monday and it was crazy right so I go well fuck it you know be a lot of it's gonna be a lot of people going to these swinger clubs because you know they got nothing else to do businesses are down things like that so i went out decided to do a show then i'm going to go to colette's because colette's is right over by my studio so i was like shit killed two birds with one stone right so i get all dressed up get all my suit on everything i'm ready to go shave my cock and balls and i'm ready to go guys and boom I get there totally pitch dark no power at all but there was some power in some of the other businesses that were in the strip mall had power so I was like fuck so I'm not gonna be able to go there talking to a friend of mine she you know she works at one of the clubs here I'm not gonna tell you who a club but she was telling me yeah the club's closed too so i go to down the road on 1960 you go to tng tng was closed too i'm like shit man this is gonna suck ass because you know i really thought that it's gonna be a good day then you find out tpc hempstead and tpc south are all closed they got no power or whatnot then i decided you know what i'm going to go to tpc north because guess what tpc north has power it's open and great it looks like it's gonna be a great time and i go like there'll probably be a lot of people there well when i get there i pull up into the pull up in the parking lot it's in the strip mall i'm like holy shit i mean there must have been there were people standing outside in line i'm like oh my mother mo i'm like no way there's no way because tpc has the five single guy rule like they only allow five guys on friday nights and i'm like shit there's no way because i got there like at 10 30 10 45 i didn't get there like a usual night now if i'm going like to tpc on a friday night i know to get there at nine o'clock so i can be one of those five but you know i really didn't plan on going there so i didn't really worry about getting there like colette's they let any guy in so i don't have to get there at nine o'clock even though i do so i go there nothing nothing i'm like shit i'm not gonna be able to get in there's so many fucking people there so i said all right you know where am i gonna go because you know i'm horny wanting to get all fun have some fun and all that so i go and decide to go to smoochies now if you don't know what smoochies is smoochies is in downtown houston it's a porn theater it's a porn shop it has a porn theater upstairs so i'm like i'll go there it's friday night then i'll single guys in and see what's there see if there's any action and i go there and there's a couple there's quite a few cars it wasn't packed or anything like that it's about 11 o'clock i get there no one's there it's all guys guys are sitting there laying sleeping on the goddamn couches like fucking hobos and stuff like that i'm like why would you i don't know i was like i don't know why you would do that anyways so i'm there i'll give it an hour i'll give it to midnight and see what happens well i get there 11 15 11, one couple comes in.
Beautiful Hispanic couple came in. She's got a dress on, so she's down to fuck. I always can tell. Usually, if you're at a porn theater and a girl comes in with jeans on, that means her pussy might be closed for action. If she comes on with a skirt, that means pussy's open for cock and whatever.
and whatever so this couple comes in no problem they go and they go into one of the rooms they sit into one of the rooms and they lock the door but they got the uh what's it called the window there you see and people are looking we're looking like fucking perverts that we are we're looking so he cracks the door open and i'm thinking okay what's he looking for is he looking for another a certain type of guy a couple so a guy standing in the doorway being respectful not walking in there like a lot of guys would and then he slams the door on his face okay good okay maybe that guy is not what he's looking for so no problem no problem at all all right let me stand up here so he after a while he cracks the door open again so i'm over there standing there got my dick out jacking it off you know trying to get nice and hard you know trying to get make showing what the goods ac has and all that and then he slams the door on me too so i'm like okay fuck it you don't want me either no problem that's it's all right everything's gonna be fine there ain't gonna be any problems so i'm sitting there another couple comes in uh they sit down black couple comes in they sit down they're talking about anything but sex they're talking about life philosophies and shit like that all night so we're kind of we're kind of making fun of this couple because it's kind of weird that you would come to smoochies and talk about life but anyways they come in another couple comes in two more couples come in so we got one two three four i think we had five couples at one time there actually yeah we did have five couples so the two couples come in they sit down in the big room the other couples they're walking around checking out they go off and play in the little first room in the beginning the first room in the uh in the uh when you walk in upstairs they're playing there and all that and i think she was going to take some dick but i guess something happened and they got scared off but anyways another couple young couple comes in and they go right in with the other couple that's in the in the uh room so they brunk tape this couple was a pair they brunk tape they taped up the window so no one could see in and they go all the fuck town they fuck for about 30 minutes to 45 minutes and all that once they're done the younger couple with the big girl they take off they go home the young their couple stays and do whatever they do i don't i don't remember what they did because other couples were there and that's really good looking couple they were drunk as shit both of them were drunk as shit she was drunk as shit and all that but every other couple wasn't doing anything other than the hispanic couple in white white lady oh i mean a white dress she had on And she was you know playing with her husband and some guy was playing with her asshole and her pussy he tried to stick his dick in her but i think because he didn't have a condom on they freaked out and they took off that's what i think happened i think if she he would have put a damn condom on like a smart person because i don't know why he would put a condom on not put a condom on when or're fucking someone at a you know at a uh club but hey whatever what would i know anyways so this drunk couple comes up and she was down to fuck i think she wanted it or he wanted her to fuck everybody and she was just too drunk to do anything so they go into the room they bring in one dude i guess he ate her pussy out and all that so he's eating her pussy out we're all thinking it's good to go we're gonna have some fun finally they go leave they go back they go to another room and she's laying down she's playing with her pussy he's playing with her titty and we're all thinking well this is now it's going to start because the room's open we're all standing there and all that well what happens she ends up getting up and they just end up leaving so there's only one couple there and finally the one couple she was nice enough to not let us play with her but she was nice enough to let us watch her jack herself off and so she's you know jacking off and all that playing with her pussy and all of us are just jacking off trying to make sure we come and all that well she only did it for a while and didn't really last too long and nothing happened didn't bust a nut or anything so my friday night ended up with a lot of blue balls and all that so it kind of sucked that friday night as i was really hoping that would be a good friday night because you know everything was open had a sitter didn't have to worry about anything and all that great stuff and damn all of a sudden now it's no fun time for ac so you know what you've got to be very like i said if you're going to be a single male in this lifestyle you got to be very very uh whatchamacallit you got to be very patient you can't just be okay i need to get this now do it now get it now because it's not going to happen unfortunately so that was my friday night saturday night didn't do anything uh and all that all the clubs were open i still all the clubs in houston should be working um and all that so hopefully that happens i don't know but anyways everyone's everything's back to normal hopefully everybody's got their power and all that and ac's back to having fun so i did go to uh a gangbang party at imperial palace uh saturday so i did get my nut there and all that so it was it was all right but you know it is what it is so anyways everybody it's time for me to head on out it's been over 50 wonderful minutes with you and all that if you go to joystick guess what you can see me at joystick you see me nude and all that and then maybe I'll just jack off for you guys over on joystick if the price is right the price is not oh well we don't get to see any cum shot because you know I got a big load saved up for everybody anyways so with that make sure you shave your cock and balls gentlemen and enjoy your night keep on swinging hopefully you got your power back on hopefully everything's going good with your families and all and i hope to see you on the flip side so shave your cock and balls gentlemen and keep on swinging We'll be right back.
