Welcome back to the Swinging Single Podcast with your favorite guide through the swinging lifestyle, AC Maxwell! On today's episode, we take a plunge into the digital side of swinging as AC dives into Facebook postings about the lifestyle.Get ready as AC reads and responds to various Facebook posts, ranging from curious inquiries to experienced reflections, all centered around swinging. He will break down misconceptions, offer insights, and provide thoughtful advice to both the posters and listeners on how to approach conversation and community etiquette online.Tune in whether you're a seasoned swinger or just someone curious about the community norms and discussions that unfold on social media platforms. It's going to be an enlightening session full of practical tips for navigating the sometimes tricky waters of social media discussions about lifestyle choices. Stay connected and enhance your swinging savvy with AC Maxwell on this episode of Swinging Single Podcast!
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Welcome, all you perverts. It's the Swinging Single Podcast. I'm your host, A.C. Maxwell. I'm the single male with the most assist in the Swinging Lifestyle, and I'm here to talk about a lot of good things. Today's episode is going to be about Facebook and Facebook posts in the Swinging Lifestyle.
Yes, I'm a member of some groups, and I saved their posts, so I want them today you know because you know it's good to hear from all these other people that are having some experiences and i'll give my insight my forward one on what these people are talking about and what my um you know perception of it is so with that sit back relax get your bottle of lube have your woman sit on your face have her suck your cock cock, eat her pussy, shave those cock and balls, gentlemen. And you're listening to the Swing a Single Podcast with host A.C. Maxwell. The Swing a Single Podcast with host A.C.
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So today we're going to talk about facebook posting as i go through my life and going through my uh swinging lifestyle together i try to help other people uh as much as i can because you know what some people just don't need to be swingers you know it's one of those things where hey man you want to swing well you better be be prepared uh for the ramifications that you did the pandora's box once you open that pandora's box you cannot close it i'm going to tell you that right now so like i said today's episode we're going to talk about we're going to read some of these facebook posts i got from my facebook groups that i am all about swinging and i'm going to give you my insight of what is going on and what advice i would give them so with that make sure you got that bottle of lube have that girl you know stroke that fucking big cock of yours finger that juicy pussy make that girl wet and we'll get ready with the swinging single podcast with your host ac maxwell so this first one comes from a facebook group i'm member and i won't tell anybody what it is but i'm just going to read it so it's from an anonymous member and i and i notice a lot of people are getting pissed off that more and more people are post posting anonymously well you know there's a reason why because you know what people jump on people because you know people are just assholes you know they don't like what they it's like being a democrat you don't like what someone says you automatically go to calling them names and shit call them racist or whatever the fucking pervert whatever you want to do same thing swinging you know people will fucking cut you down you know you say one thing they'll twist it and make you feel like you're a piece of shit but this one comes on august in august 6th so this says this is kind of a long but needing help my husband and i have been together for a really long time for years it's it was controlling behavior he was jealous over people looking at me or even wearing stuff that showed too much red flag a couple years ago he kind of stopped that and wanted to bring other people in the bedroom i'm probably guessing i don't know who i've always been insecure about myself from past issues but however he brought a guy and girls in before in threesomes well there were still trust issues going on to where he made me question things i stopped doing stuff with others and it seems like he seemed like he all the time wants to now every time we have sex he plays out scenarios and sometimes i feed them into feed into them while having sex he's always wanting to send pictures to people and i'm just uncomfortable with myself i don't know if i can i i I have trust issues.
How do I overcome them and make him happy? Well, the problem is you're probably never going to get over these trust issues. Now, and this is a lot of couples. A lot of couples have this issue where the guy is very jealous. Now, I'm very surprised that he brought another man into the bedroom with his wife.
Because I thought maybe, because from what I mean, if I i stopped there and i stopped right there i go wow this dude is probably definitely searching for women uh to play with him and his wife because that's what he wants he wants to have those girls there and all that and you know so he's got those girls he's got his cake and he's eating it too but i was surprised when he says they brought guys and girls in before in threesome so i was like really shocked so i'm like good for the guy okay maybe he's getting over this jealousy shit and all that so the pandora's box has been open he's gotten what he's wanted the girl is not getting what she wants because she doesn't want to do it and you can see it in her writing or hear it in her writing that she doesn't want to do this she has trust issues it's going to take a very long time to get over they need to stop doing this she needs to stop feeding into the dude's um mental you know the state of yeah we're gonna fuck we're gonna have threesomes and all that and feeding into scenarios when they're fucking having sex because this is just gonna feed into it more and more and it's gonna cause more and more rifts and all that now can the relationship be safe sure of course you're just going to have to do a lot of work it's going to take a lot of work and if you want to put in that work honey you can save this marriage but if you don't want to put in the work this marriage is over pretty much because the fact that you open that pandora's box he wants it all the time now and he he's not going to be able to go back i always tell people you know what everyone thinks they could stop swinging just like that cold turkey i and i disagree with that i go it is harder for someone because you know sex addiction maybe i have a sex addiction maybe that's what it is why i love swinging more but more and more because i can fulfill that addiction and a lot of these people might have you might this her husband might have a sex addiction where he needs to have the threesomes and all that now you might be able to make it where he just wants to have that fantasy of you fucking other men and women where he's okay all you got to do is just talk about it when you're fucking him you know there's the one movie what was it side sideways sidewalk with paul giamatti and his buddy went to napa valley or in the napa of california they were doing the wine country shit and he ends up hooking up with a wife uh the his buddy and he gets caught by the husband and all that comes home and starts and later on they had to go back get his wallet and he's in there the guy's fucking his wife talking about the dude how he was fucking her and all that so he might like that he might just like that so you might get lucky where he's fine totally cool with just you fucking talking about it while he's fucking you and all that and i think you can live with that couldn't you uh but making him happy you gotta make only way you're gonna make him happy is if you make yourself happy and make yourself honest and say hey i don't want to swing anymore i don't want to fuck other men i don't want to fuck other women i just want to fuck you and if or you can say hey i would love to fuck other men and other women and that's fine but i want to do it on my my own terms in my way and he's gonna have to live with it now he might be upset for a while but later on when he grows up and matures a little bit he's gonna understand you know what i'm happy she's happy i'm fucking happy too because i always say the women run this lifestyle the men don't the men are just there for the ride and sooner or later women will discover that and more and more women will be happier and i think women especially more single women are getting into the lifestyle where they are like i'm fucking who i want to fuck when i want to fuck them no man's going to tell me either other way and that's great i applaud those women good job ladies i applaud you all right anyways so it's gonna be hard to overcome this you're gonna make him happy i would just say you know sit back take a pause there's nothing uh let's see what other people have need to do so here's one he needs to know how you feel and if you're not comfortable let him know and have an honest discussion we are brand new and haven't experienced anything yet but i have learned from being in this group you have to move the slowest face all right and let's see a few more comments i gotta go you should stop doing any lifestyle activities and fix your relationship first i agree with this guy swinging is going to exasperate any problems you already have yes it's going to blow it up you're're gonna have 20 times the problems if you keep swinging uh let's see trust in each other is the cardinal rule this doesn't work if you can't have that personally the reclamation of each other is just the best part of the whole experience yeah he likes he probably loves watching you fuck other people then reclaiming the pussy reclaiming the pussy is bomb.
It is the shit. I love that shit because you know what? That pussy's going home with me. It ain't going home with that dude. It ain't going home with that couple. That pussy's going home with me, and I'm going to fuck the shit out of that pussy when we get home. Let's see. You do what makes you comfortable. You don't have to do anything, and this is you don't want to, no matter what. Now, remember, I'm leading fucking Facebook profiles, so people don't always write the best stuff or the most accurate stuff, okay, guys? So don't get there and say I can't read. I'm just reading forward forward.
Oh, here's one. This guy says, this guy is definitely abusing you. He's created these confidence issues for you, and now he's trying to bully you into being subjected to them by sending pictures you're uncomfortable with and then toying with the trust you've lost by dangling the all-we-need-is-other-people-to-fix-you carrot-out-there. Yeah, sending the picture is a no-no. I don't like how guys will send. I will have guys send me pictures. I would just ask, hey, can I see a picture of your wife?
I don't want't want a nude i don't care i just want to see a picture of your wife see her body is she a big girl small girl whatever see what i'm working with and they'll send me fucking these weird ass nudes or fucking her spreading her pussy open stuff like that i don't need to see that i don't care about that i want to see what she looks like i want to see what i'm going to be working with how do i'm going to maneuver you know if she's a big girl there's certain positions we can and cannot do uh things like that small girl you know she might be too thick for her pussy she might have a tight pussy so what you know what are you going to do her anus you know things like that so we just got to be very careful i just want you know a face picture i don't need anything i just need a body picture i don't need a nude and him sending out pictures now i wonder are these pictures of her fucking other people or things like that?
And hopefully he has permission of the other person. Now, if he does not have the permission, listen, you cannot send pictures, pornographic, which they are, pornographic pictures, without consent from one, the wife and also the participants. So if you are sending pictures out of you getting fucked by some other dude and the dude then say you can use those pictures, he can go after you or a couple can go after you for whatever things that are out there. Let's see. You support a spouse happiness when you are generally happy as well.
Finding someone who can freely confess your genuine desires as well as boundaries with and actually wants to hear and honor them is what provides mutual fulfillment. Trust, trust stems from respect and respect from hearing and adhering to what you and the other one matters to you. There's no respect in this relationship.
He doesn't respect her sending pictures out of her fucking, you know, hopefully now, hopefully he's blocking out faces where there's, you can't't see faces hopefully he's not sending them to people and you can see her fucking blowing people face she knows what to look at because that shit gets out and you know what not everyone is going is happy with you know sending pictures of your wife and blowing some dudes and all that eating other girls pussies and shit like that it might be uncomfortable for her at work and all that so you know you just want to be very careful all right you don't this is about making him happy that equates to taking one from the team only in a much worse way you two should never have gotten into the lifestyle i hate to say this babe but you are with a narcissist narcissist no shit please seek counseling first yourself and absolutely do not put yourself in a place to allow him to manipulate you into participating in a lifestyle this isn't the place for either of you your relationship needs to be the priority if you all are going to try to fix it if you can't be fixed you need to learn how to be happy with yourself she's going to have to learn to be happy by herself because that's what it's going to head to she's gonna be by herself and i'm sad but it's gonna be true uh she's gonna be having problems with that and all that so you know uh it is what it is hopefully she can fix it i don't think she can but who knows so this one guy well I don't I don't really all right so this guy kind of a I think it's a bad advice enjoy the experience and don't be worried about your insecurities none of us are perfect and we are looking at naked people no matter the body type especially you let us play I don't fucking agree with that.
You can't be insecure in this lifestyle, guys. You have to be very fully secure because you just don't want to do anything that's going to be wrong, and this is what's going to happen with this person. It's just wrong what they're doing, and this guy is just wrong, all right? So that is one. Let's go for another one.
On Augustust 2nd another anonymous member posted on this just an honest question because my wife and i have discussed this we're reasonably new newbies they should have listened to my last podcast but are on tons of pages learning making friends etc but some folks are just too much oh i wonder where this is going is anybody actually turned off by people that make the lifestyle their whole identity and let's talk about i didn't understand it i see a lot of people on some of our local pages who are so self-absorbed that it's just constant pictures of themselves or photoshoops are constantly needing attention not saying these people aren't totally cool in person but we both end up just blocking some of these people because it gets to a point of irritating we met some super cool people off the pages between just hanging out or meeting at the club but some of these people it's like it's all they have to offer anybody else well anonymous i totally agree with you some of these people on these lifestyle websites are just too fucking much they have four billion pictures posted they're posting every five fucking minutes a picture of her topless and all that now i love looking at naked women i'll look at naked women all day but crying out loud it's the same naked woman it's the same picture she's doing the same stuff now what i get i irritated that it's always the woman we're working at the woman i feel sorry for the ladies that like actual like cock who are not just doing this to make the husband happy that want to look at men and all that because guess what you look at these profiles there's 100 pictures of her fucking other dudes are doing shit and naked posing her sexy lingerie then you have one picture of the husband that's it okay well aren't you a couple shouldn't there be just as many shouldn't be equal 50 50 all right and then it's all photos they have photo shoots at their photo shoots at their photo shoots it's like the swinging podcast that they're out there it's all about them they put out fucking content mercilessly on people every day new shit new photo shoots and all that they go and they it doesn't seem like they have a life it seems like their whole life is a lifestyle they make money off the lifestyle they they live the lifestyle 24 7 everybody in their circle that knows them knows they're in the lifestyle that they're into it and it just gets to be too much all right now like i like the post like the anonymous member said they probably are great people but you know what it gets a little too much leave something to the imagination all right it's like the only fans girls like i love only fans i'll support only fan girls i'll i'll pay five bucks a month 10 bucks a month to subscribe to someone and see their content but when it's the same shit over and over and over like i have ones they fuck i only do the ones where i could think i could fuck the girl well i look on it and every video is her fucking a black guy i'm like well i'm not black so okay are they gonna fuck any white guys are they fucking hispanic what about asian dudes and every video after video after video is her fucking black guy so i'm like why the fuck am i gonna spend waste my time and money on this fucking woman and this couple and because i never have a shot with her that's just my weird thinking when i look at a only fans i want the ability like hey maybe if i met this person in real life that i'm gonna be able to watch him i could fuck this girl well if she only fucks certain type of people i know it's not gonna happen so i don't pay for it so but it's the same shit how many different times can you fuck a black guy or you can fuck this guy or hispanic guy or white guy do some variety Thank you.
it so but it's the same shit how many different times can you fuck a black guy or you can fuck this guy or hispanic guy or white guy do some variety fucking a porn theater fuck outdoors fuck somewhere do this do that do something different just don't have a we met another bbc number three at the hotel room and okay great same fucking thing same concept okay how about you mean how about you do a bar pickup you fuck a bbc in the middle of a crowded bar do something like that and so it's always the same stuff with these couples same things and it's and then like i said this poster i agree with them i get it's just too much it's like tone it down the back tone it down a little okay we know you are seeking attention because you got to remember this younger generation are attention sinking whores they need that validation from everybody else and they're going to go get it through pictures videos and all that they're not going to stop they're always going to be the same way and there's always going to be couples like that now not now they might be like i said they might be good people they might you talk to them they're fucking down to earth they're happy but jesus okay we don't need to know every single thing that's going on in your life and all that so you know it's just one of those things we just gotta be we just gotta be conscious of what we are putting out there uh so let's see what some people say so this person writes i think a lot of the time they're just trying to get publicity.
Of course they want to get likes. They want that likes because likes turn to be friends, friends turning people, and maybe they'll pay five bucks a month to fucking watch or fuck a bunch of people on her OnlyFans page. And it makes money. If the page doesn't look like legit normal person's page, then I don't even give it a second look. Okay. All right, good.
It's definitely a definitely a huge huge turnoff and i do the same as far as blocking or muting for me this is just something we enjoy and do the constant posted news or non-type non-stop sex talk gets old for me some may be okay with it but it's perfectly fine for them i just can't and that's great she can't do it she doesn't want to talk about it all right so. So let's see. Here's one that goes both back and forth. Yes and no. I mean a lot. I mean, let people do them and you do you. You don't have to meet up with any of these people if posting and getting attention makes them happy.
Let them. It's not hurting anyone. Okay. Yeah. She's this girl's completely like, like I said, it is. Oh, it is just what, in my opinion, I just get bored with it.
I just Like, okay, how many times am I going to have to look at this girl's completely light like i said it is oh it it's just what in my opinion i just get bored with it i just get okay how many times am i gonna have to look at this girl's pussy it's the same pussy it looks the same it's pink brown whatever i don't need to keep fucking it's the same thing over and over okay great no let's see something how about you doing a dress let's see what you look like with clothes on i won't recognize you with clothes on because you never post anything you're always butt ass naked but step but this girl this this poster is right she don't let people be and let them do what they do you know and like here this one guy these are called attention horrors yes i said that earlier they are attention horrors people like this all right one lady writes i want to see what she says i think this might be something i love attention a lot of attention and it's one of the things i'm able to get out of being part of the lifestyle okay and yeah because you're a beautiful woman big fucking tits so you're gonna get a lot of attention i want to be around people who make me feel sexy make me feel desired this is one of the biggest turns on for me all right so it's one of a good turn on for her that she's around people who give her attention so she wants attention she wants attention from certain people though that's where i kind of laugh it off and go okay whatever because we already know she wants the hottest looking people in the club to give her attention if it's ugly people no i'm also an exhibitionist both in and out of the bedroom so putting everyone on display is part of me we have participated in so many different aspects of the lifestyle over our entire relationship all of our family and friends know jesus christ why do they need to know you know i don't know we don't hide it so it's our it's our actual lifestyle and not just an occasional thing we do to spice things up in the bedroom okay so all right it's their actual lifestyle guys we seek out connections with other open-minded people in the lifestyle community keep fetish rope our vacations all around our center around the lifestyle so they're a whole they're all in jesus that's a lot i'm highly sexual woman who absolutely owns every every ounce of it i post on my page exact what i want what i'm feeling what i'm going through and do it staying authentic to myself most of it is very sexual in nature because it is who i am is who i am all capitalized are shared right on my regular profile i absolutely know i am a lot at times too much for some people and it's okay but the circle of people who i surround myself with they have come to love and appreciate my raw honest open book stance i take not only on social media but in real life now i guarantee that she said hey i'm gonna stop swinging i'm not gonna do it anymore all those people that love and know her will suddenly fall off the face of the earth because we know people are fucking selfish assholes not everyone is for everyone those who you vibe with, match energy with, and relate to is imperative for true connections.
Okay, yeah, you're right. She's completely 100% right. But when you're at a club, guess what?
There's a hundred other people at that club where they don't need to fucking hear you hooting and howling and being a woo girl and showing your titties and acting like a fool because you lived a lifestyle 100 you're you're real you're a real og i wonder if it's more of a turnoff to you that you are being overwhelmed by lifestyle profiles that are constantly pushing content to drive traffic to their page sites that could be it too um and i wonder if this girl has a page shot i personally don't have an issue with that either but if it's connect its content isn't geared towards me i just scroll past it or when i get a friend request on here i peek at the page and it seems like advertising i usually won't accept but i'm not that way with vanilla profiles too but i'm that way with vanillas i don't want to have my feed full of tupperware party invites or being asked to share links to post belly cream cream yada yada got it all right and she loves attention let's see what she says genuine is awesome love it girl you never too much we always love your energy all right we can't wait to see you in a you and mold lonely in a few weeks missed you see you in florida all right i'm gonna go to this girl's profile yeah she looks oh let me see i mean i'm probably guessing uh i i actually gave a request and she hasn't done anything so i'm guessing she has a only fans page too so it's kind of hypocritical but okay whatever so she writes a whole she wrote a lot in this response and you know great for her she's a lot of people she's always out there she's showing her titties off to everybody acting like a woo, she wrote a lot in this response.
And, you know, great for her. She's a lot of people. She's always out there. She's showing her titties off to everybody, acting like a woo girl. She lives the lifestyle 24-7. But you got to understand, she doesn't understand that she's a turnoff to a lot of people because of the way her personality is, man. People go to these places just to relax and get away from their fucking day. Their jobs suck. Their fucking life sucks.
They're drowning in drowning in bills debt and they just want to relax and they got your fucking ass running around act like a fucking fucking someone who needs the attention because you're an attention whore you never got it when you're probably growing up now you want to get it now because all these guys will fucking tell you how beautiful you are and all that shit all right take in consideration everybody else honey all right let's see what else people say yeah let's go on let's move on to something else this one got a little too heated i can't stand it all right here's another one another nine is august second i've been in the lifestyle for over a decade now and i'm not sure if i'm the only one who feels like this but does anyone else feel it's more of a click group thing now back when you could just walk up to someone talk it up and make new friends now i feel like most people won't get to know you if you don't know someone from the group or don't know uh don't know someone in general also i know some couples won't message and they post they only respond to messages on only fans my thing is why do i why do should i have make an OnlyFans account just to get to know you?
It's become an advertisement for the OnlyFans. Is it just me, or has the lifestyle changed and become more closed-minded? The lifestyle has become very closed-minded. All right, let's break this down, because I like this guy. Whoever wrote this did a great job.
It is a click click it is a click now when i first started it was all about fucking yeah you're gonna fuck my wife go fuck her you want to fuck this girl go fuck her now it's about clicks who you know and who you don't know and you see it at the clubs you see where people are just sitting around watching each other talking to each other no one's fucking i take my partner to go fuck at the club i'm not fucking there to hang out and talk to you i don't give a shit about your life or your kids or whatever your job or your career i just want to you know you want to fuck my girl please fuck her let me watch let me participate but jesus christ i don't care about any of that stuff i just want to watch you watch that fucking so a lot of it is more of a click and it has gone like that more and more because social media and hollywood and porn movies have destroyed their swinging lifestyle they made it what it was wasn't whenever you watch a porno of a movie and they do something a swinging scene you never see true what true swinging is you don't see that it's mostly just couple swapping or whatever you see mom and dad bods at the club but when you watch these pornos and movies it's fucking the hottest looking people at all these events it's like okay then people think well dude wow we go to these parties there be nothing but hot looking people and they go there and they find out there's fucking 50 year olds 60 year olds 40 year olds fucking guys look like they haven't seen their cock since the reagan administration are there women who fucking have fucking foompas you know they they don't see their vaginas because their fucking fat rolls are all hanging all over it's just normal everyday people you know women with stretch marks and stuff like that raring tear on their body same thing with guys fucking look like they just got out the oil rig and just went straight to the club and you see that and people are fucking hesitant to talk to anybody they don't actually want to get to know, they always said they want a connection but they lie to us, they lie to people, they lie to themselves it's not about, want to look at someone they and within the first five seconds a woman knows she's gonna fuck you like having your member dating before internet what did the woman say yeah within the first minute first five seconds i know if i'm gonna fuck you or not and so she knows so if she's not attracted to you she ain't gonna want to get to know you she ain't gonna give you the time of day to even get to know you maybe if she talked to you for five minutes maybe she'll fucking be get a little wet she'll start fucking feeling things but it's not gonna happen if she don't like you she ain't gonna fucking she don't like the way you look or anything like that you're done you're not gonna get in there so you can't actually talk your way into getting pussy you know most of the times some guys can do it because you know they're attractive and all that so they're all women's type anyways so yeah this guy's right it is more of a group thing you know you could just walk up to someone talk to them for a while and guess what you can end up in the back now it's like okay do i fit that profile do i fit her type and stuff like that it's hard and you got to really pay attention to these couples and all that because they give off fucking resting bitch bitch face um vibes and all that and it's just tough and now like i said earlier in my other podcast only fans has invaded the swinging lifestyle because people fucking use it they're not swingers they're not really swingers they're just people using swinging to advance and advertise their only fans shit uh they only fuck other only fans content creators and shit like that now if they say like the guy said you have to message them on only fans i don't even fucking worry about it because guess what they're just looking for you to get money off of you they're not interested in getting to know you or anything like that uh and all that uh it's just like when i went to hot wife night at colette's back in september and 2023 and one of the beautiful the beautiful sexy holly hot wife was having a party hot wife party there you know all the guys were going over there to fuck her trying to fuck her and her friends which fuck would have been a fucking fantastic night for me if i could have fucked all of them but all the all the guys there were trained on her well if she would have if any of those guys would follow her were following her on twitter and her friends they were looking for other content creators to fuck they weren't looking for regular joes like me the fuck i didn't have a only fans page so i'm not gonna fuck with me so i knew that so i didn't bother with uh holly hot wife and i love how the hot wife man i want Thank you.
looking for regular joes like me the fuck i didn't have a only fans page so i'm not gonna fuck with me so i knew that so i didn't bother with uh holly hot wife and i love how they hot wife man i want i subscribe to her page i love her fucking work i love her attitude and all that and god i would love to fuck her but she wasn't gonna fuck anybody because of the fact that you know she was looking for content creators to fuck and i got the fuck of four or five women that night because all the guys were occupied with her the other hot wives were sitting around looking for dick to fuck you know my dick was there so i did it so yeah only fans has taken over and made it worse and it is what it is a lot of podcasters i don't charge for nothing a lot of podcasters charge for a lot of stuff on their only fans they do the podcast they advertise for their only fans shit and those subs to do their uh lifestyle podcast and shit i don't i don't really care damn i don't know what the hell's going on but anyways so uh these guys right i understand it it's and it's frustrating because i'm a true swinger i just enjoy the lifestyle uh let's see i'm not sure if it's closed-minded i think people may be cautious and there's a lot of sex workers using lifestyle sites and pages to advertise yeah i disagree i think it's closed-minded i think people don't want to get to know people like they say they do i think people will look at someone and go okay i will talk to them no i will not talk to them and they do it they don't actually do do this i don't know because i wasn't around pre-covid but i know that i have much more social anxiety than i ever did going in to covid and being isolated for so long i love to meet new people i'm just not good at breaking the ice it is hard like i said it's hard because guess what they have decided already are they gonna fuck you or not and we know that because you know what i was dating in the 90s when there was no internet i couldn't fucking you know you had to actually talk and you knew women would tell you go up you ask them hey you know when do you know you're gonna sleep with someone oh in the first fucking five minutes they know or some shit like that so you know it's one of those things where okay you know it is what it is uh let's see the first event i was ever invited to was very clicky and this is a woman is she good looking she's a decent like oh she is decent looking woman okay and i never ended up going because the group that chatted turned into certain people talking about what they're going to do and what they want i didn't feel like it was organic or natural you know what some of the best nights have been nights where it just all just happened nothing ever planned out and stuff like that you know i don't know so here's one here's one who actually is a creator so as a creator i do in my info list i am one of them so i don't miss the opportunity to record when allowed however we will also meet with people that don't that that won't record as well so don't let me let the i'm a content creator turn you off unless the point blank you tell me That's what they, okay, that's good.
She's a very good-looking, beautiful woman. So, beautiful woman. So, Ms. Bryant, if you ever want to record with me, I will wear a mask and I am tested and I'm good. All right, so let's see. My wife and I have been in the lifestyle for six years now and I will have to say I agree with you. The first time we met a group, they were very warm and welcoming. It was great.
it was when it first when i first started it was fucking awesome it's phenomenal now it's just it's more of a fucking job interview with everybody now and like i said i don't know it feels more like it's dating now so let's see what this person wrote the last one as a general population i don't agree with this when you look at only fans and the people work in the system groups of or influence status yes many sex workers are using the lifestyle parties as an easy way to meet others to connect and through to all the swingers are different breed of them i totally like this woman i don't agree with her i think she's it's not she's not accurate she's not right a lot of people only fans has invaded go do do secrets in Kissimmee it's fucking filled with people who OnlyFans have taken pictures on the pool and I always thought there was supposed to be no cell phones there because you know what I don't want people posting my pictures because you know you don't know what people are putting those on all right no I don't mess around with those people okay we've been in the lifestyle for eight years and yes it can be clicky we have been and we have been a fortunate couple that has been able to move through them and make friends and that i think some of them has some people comfort and all that we are both shy her more than me but we learn to understand that not everyone you hang out with will always be there you will you so you have to step out of your comfort level and take a chance yes you got to take a chance and all that but you know if you don't get that chance that ever it's going to be tough all right so you know it's one of those things where you know it's very clicky and people that just want denied as not clicky is just one of those people i just i will never understand but you know it is all the good stuff all right uh let's see uh let's see anything else that we Thank you.
i just i will never understand but you know it is all the good stuff all right uh let's see let's see anything else that we could do uh let's see what time is it about 36 minutes in okay one more and we'll get out of here all right i was originally going to make one of these anonymous posts but this this page is supposed to be a safe space without further ado. My wife and I are a stag, vixen, hot wife couple. I am not a cuck. I don't get off on humiliation or any of that.
And as my wife would tell me, tell the people she plays with, I please her very well and we have a great relationship and personal sex life. Usually when it comes to lifestyle things, I have an attitude of not caring what people think. Good. But recently I have been the subject of attack by people calling me a cuck. Etc. How do you deal with that? Well, I tell those people to fuck off. Because you know why?
Because it doesn't matter what they think they're jealous because guess what you're fucking that girl they want to fuck your wife you probably didn't let them or they're not going to be able to fuck your wife so they want to throw names at you so you don't even have to worry about that sir you just go on and do your stag mixing relationship you watch her fuck all the dudes you want to fuck and have a great time let them call you a cook because you know what usually it's deflecting they're really the cucks so you know it's only deflecting when you say Yes.
and have a great time let them call you cook because you know what usually it's deflecting they're really the cucks so you know it's really deflecting when you say someone's an asshole you're probably the asshole and all that for me cuck cuckold or cuckolding can be a fine can be fine when used among us people in the lifestyle but when used by vanilla people is extremely derogatory all right it shouldn't be like that it should be more derogatory when people are in the lifestyle because in the lifestyle you should know what a cuck fucking is vanilla people in the vanilla world they don't understand they don't understand the fucking terminology they don't understand anything they're just dumb they're just they're arrogant they don't know what's going on so i wouldn't like once if someone called me like some guy from vanilla the vanilla world called me a cuck i go okay whatever it ain't no big deal but if you call me you're in the lifestyle and you call me a cuck then it's gonna become a it's a big fucking deal because you know what a cuck is you know that i just like watching my girl have fun and enjoying herself and if that means she has to she's fucking a guy with a fucking 10 inch cock that's fine with me but i don't i don't agree with that i don't think it's derogatory when a vanilla use it i think it's more derogatory when someone in the lifestyle uses it mentally it's already difficult at times to wrap my head around being into it this because it's abnormal in general oh shit you know what actually it's not abnormal a lot of people have a lot of men have this fantasy of another man taking their wife i consider myself a manly person and vanilla people have trouble wrapping their head around wanting your significant other to play fuck vanilla people like i said you are the ones that live your life only you two can decide what is and isn't don't let me or anyone else decide your relationship ladies and wives does what you do think of your husbands or husbands or hot wives men okay ladies and wives does what do you think of your husbands or husbands of hot wives?
Men and husbands, how do you deal with the backlash of your dynamic? Let me look at these pictures. Let's see. Actually, am I a friend? Let's view the profile. Let's look at the pictures. Now, from my picture, she's a beautiful, she is a bigger girl.
She is a nice, thick nice thick girl blonde hair looks like she's got blue eyes one hell of a smile so she is fucking beautiful i will fuck her uh i'll definitely like to be i'll do some hot wifing for her uh let's see what people say me personally i don't care what people think of me and my wife's lifestyle choice i do explain the difference between a cuck and a stag and if the backlash me for it well fuck them we know what we are And I'll see you next time.
don't care what people think of me and my wife's lifestyle choice i do explain the difference between a cuck and a stag and if the backlash me for it well fuck them we know what we are and we have never been happier if they are random people who cares if it's vanilla friends explain the difference and if they don't move on that's it that's great advice just move on all right cock holding and stag basically are two different dynamics if someone was calling me or my husband a cuck and we aren't i would just educate them that's a good thing educate them but sometimes it's not even worth fucking educating these people fuck it who cares it's none of their business uh it's totally normal within the lifestyle you're right and the reaction to the vanilla world is because they don't know what any of it means i know they want people in vanilla world are sometimes jealous of people in the swinging lifestyle because they can do what they cannot do i guarantee if you take your vanilla friends and say hey would you allow would you have a threesome with your wife if it's another girl?
Most guys will say, hell yeah, I'll do it. I'll fucking always want to have my wife fuck another girl. We'll fuck another girl. All right? I'll just use the girls because it's usually easy. It's always out of the mouth. Every man's fancy. Well, what's the difference between you and your wife fucking other people? It's the same goddamn thing. So you're going to call them out on it?
because you know it's just biological with them they want to see that they're just hypocrites they just they can't do it so they have to make fun of you they are reflecting reflecting what they feel about themselves onto you so you don't have to be worried what the vanilla world thinks of you And like said 99 of the world i mean 90 of the world thinks we what we do is disgusting you know but you don't have to worry about because you don't have to live the 99 the 90 of the world doesn't have to live in your household they don't have to go home to your wife they don't have to go home to your husband you don't have to go to your family they don't have to deal with your health issues your money problems shit like that they don't have to deal with that so you know what fuck them so it's one of those things where just say fuck it man let's see from a woman it's totally normal within the lifestyle you're right and the reaction to the vanilla world is because they don't know what any of it means they are they want to be derogatory and uneducated uneducated so educate them tell them that cuck requires consent from both parties and we don't kink shame but that's not personally what blows your socks off you just got a sexy wife that does it for you and wink at them make it awkward they didn't care if they did all right i see any more women sending their i want to find some women okay.
Okay, here we go. Vanillas will use everything out of their norm as derogatory. They hear the word and use it incorrectly to try to shame others. Also, most I know believe men should have multiple partners, but women should only have one. People are cruel.
Personally, I think it takes very strong and secure people to make emm work unless some has said they were a cuck or into it i wouldn't think anything about it honestly yeah so you know that girl's right most of most of the people are like ignorant even in the lifestyle they're ignorant they talk about it and they say oh it's okay for us to fuck other women but when i want to bring it when the woman wants to bring another man fuck that so no way we're bringing on them so you know a lot of people believe men should have multiple partners but the women should have one i don't agree with that women should have as many partners as their man allows them and let them have fun so with that we're gonna get on out of here those are some of the facebook postings you know it's been over 40 minutes i hope you enjoyed the show talk about facebook if you have any questions concerns call me email me at swinging single podcast at gmail.com you know i hope you have a wonderful day wonderful weekend gentlemen shave your and balls.
Have a great time and keep on swinging. And I'll see you on the other side. Time, the name is quickly passing by Wanna slip away into the night But I don't need to wake up by your side Ships in the night I wanna be the girl on your shoulder I wanna be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a 40th floor We'll be right back. I want to be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover Baby, I'm a holly to your joker I want to be the forever on your shoulder I want to be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover Baby, I'm a holly to your joker
