In this episode of The Swinging Single Podcast, AC Maxwell dives into the compelling reasons why couples and singles enter the swinging lifestyle. From sexual exploration, reigniting passion, and acting out fantasies, to addressing libido differences, discover the varied motivations behind this alternative relationship choice. Singles will also learn why swinging can be a path to self-discovery and intimate connections. Plus, AC shares essential success tips—like brutal honesty, clear boundaries, and mutual consent—to help you thrive in the lifestyle. And remember, gents, don’t forget to shave your cock and balls before your next adventure!Whether you’re curious or ready to jump in, this episode provides insight to help you approach swinging with confidence and respect.#SwingingSinglePodcast #SwingingLifestyle #Hotwife #OpenRelationships #SexualExploration #CouplesWhoPlay #SingleInSwinging #CommunicationInRelationships #ConsentIsKey #RelationshipGoals #SexPositive #AdultLifestyle #Hothusband #LibidoBalance #HonestyInRelationships
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Welcome to the Swing a Single Podcast with your sexy host, AC Maxwell. For over 20 years, I've been navigating the swinging lifestyles as a single male, experiencing all the excitement, challenges, and everything in between. This podcast is my honest and unfiltered take on that journey.
A fresh set of eyes, diving deep into real stories, lessons learned, and practical advice for anyone exploring or curious about the lifestyle whether you're new a seasoned vet single or partner join me as i share my experiences bust myths and help you swing your best in this accelerating world so let's get real keep it keep it respectful, and keep swinging single. The Swinging Single podcast with host AC Maxwell is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only.
The opinions, views, and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host, AC Maxwell, and any featured guests or contributors and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates sponsors advertisers or partners any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract engagement or formal advice The content of the podcast is protected by copyright and other intellectual property laws.
You can't be from the world outside Thought you were protecting your bride But now the table's turned around And you're the one who's tightly bound Karma came and bit you hard Do you feel it now, heartbeat? Now your man hides mine to keep Hard to pull the straw off the key Your shame makes the fire in me When A.C. Maxwell, ready to get it on. We're going to talk about why people are in this lifestyle. But first, go to swingingsinglepodcasts at gmail.com. All right. If you can do that, that'd be great. Show some love to your fellow single swingers out there, real swinging single.
And if you have any questions, concerns, go to concerns go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com let's talk so hey there welcome back to the swinging single podcast i'm your host ac maxwell you know that today we're tackling a big important question uh that so many people ask why do couples and singles get into the swinging lifestyle I heard the view a couple days ago or this week or something was having a hissy fit about the lifestyle what is it that draws so many many to exploring this alternative approach to relationships intimacy and connection all right and as always if you're joining the scene or thinking about it here's today's simple but practical reminder gentlemen shave your cock and balls before stepping into any swinging event or an encounter trust me it makes a difference so tell me email me at swinging single podcast at gmail.com tell me why you and your wife or you as a single person got into the swingers lifestyle is it because you're just a fucking whore and you just love sex and you want to fucking more or is it about something else maybe you just want to see a connection there you want to develop something more and all that stuff who knows whatever your reason is no judgment here you know this ain't the other podcast where they judge people and all this stuff when they say they're non-judgy and all that stuff but anyways let's just jump right into this so swinging is often misunderstood by folks outside the lifestyle so it helps to unpack the real reasons why couples and singles dive in all right in general there are a handful of major motivations now it could be for whatever like for me i'm just a whore i just love sex and i just wanted more and more of it and i like the kink i like people watching me fuck i like joining other couples and fucking you know split roasting a woman doing double vaginal doing double uh doing anal stuff like that i love all that stuff so you know what the swinging lifestyle is right up my alley because you got more people who are willing to explore their sexuality whereas if you meet a vanilla girl you might not be eating ass you might not be doing all that other stuff uh that a a swinger girl a lady would do so you know every all of us have our own reasons why now it's not you to judge those people And say oh that's wrong reason Or that's the right reason Alright The right reason is whatever reasons you are into it Alright Hopefully you're not doing it For really horrible reasons Like you cheated on your husband You cheated on your wife Alright You don't want to be doing that, all right?
But we don't judge here at the Swinging Single Podcast. We just hope that you do the right thing. Also, make sure you get tested for STDs. I heard a story on someone where a lot of STDs are being spread. But anyways, make sure you check your STDs and make sure you check everything and get checked. All right. Number one reason why people might join the lifestyle. If you want to tell me, swing a single podcast at gmail.com. Or you can just, you know, if you're listening to live, just put it in the chat and see where we're at. All right. That'd be great.
You know, because I would love to hear from anybody or whoever is out there listening in La La Land. Alrighty, so number one, sexual exploration and variety, you know. Like I was saying last week, if you keep going to McDonald's, you get the Big Mac all the time. A Whopper might sound pretty tempting to eat after a couple years.
So, you know the spice of life one of the biggest draws is the opportunity to explore new sexual experiences and partners in a safe consensual environment that's so much true for many people trying new things with different partners opens doors to deeper sexual satisfaction and keeps things exciting it lets the woman be her it lets the man be him just think about it when i first started bisexual males were very rare in the lifestyle or very closeted in the lifestyles you didn't see a lot of them because of the fact that they were very and still discriminated against now in this lifestyle but now you see more and more bisexual males in the lifestyle which is great because they are being able to be themselves they are keeping it exciting for their relationship and all that also what about variety new sensations and sometimes discovering new desires you never even knew you had now how fun it is when you get that first new girl pussy or that first new cock all right so you know you see a lot of stuff like that and you get that and you're happy it's a it's what a jolt and all that stuff so you're cool about it and everything that variety that newness that new car smell think about it's like a car when you buy a car for that first couple months the car smells great it's riding great all this same thing with the pussy same thing with the cock new cock smell new pussy smell couples often enjoy sharing those new experiences together living out fantasies side by side yes a lot of couples do there are also dynamics out there that couples have where they do play alone uh with other people they go on dates or whatever it's whatever your dynamic is so if you're with your wife right now you're with your husband right now just turn to him and say what is our dynamic what are you comfortable with sharing are you a couple going out with another guy and fucking and coming home to you or are you more comfortable with you two going out finding the couple anotherapping, do all that stuff with?
That's where you have to have that communication and talk and all that stuff. Now, what about us for our singles? Like I said, I'm a man whore. I admit it. So swinging is an amazing way to explore sexual options, meet like-minded people, and discover what truly turns you on. I love being nude. Nudiness and swingers. All right? They go in and they love nudity too. All right? So I find them more appealing to be with. What else? They're more willing to be open sexually.
The options are more and all that stuff so you know it's just one of those things where i'm more attracted to the swingers lifestyle than it would be the vanilla lifestyle all right so that's one way as a single guy why i'm attracted to the lifestyle for women i don't know maybe it's something else that you have out there that you want to do i don't know but like i said it's all your thing all right it's not anything I'll see you next time. Maybe it's something else that you have out there that you want to do. I don't know. But like I said, it's all your thing. All right.
It's not anything else that you would have to decide to do right now. You don't have to decide right now what it is. But you're going to have to figure it out. So, but remember singles, before you get in the heat of the moment, and you guys too, gentlemen, shave your cock and balls. It helps with confidence and shows respect to your partners and all your partners. Now, another reason why a couple or a single, well, I guess a single too, strengthening partnerships. Swigging isn't just about sex with others. Nope, I often complain about it. It used to be all about sex, but now it's not.
It's about connection. It's about exploring yourself. So believe it or not, it can actually strengthen the core of a relationship. Alright? We can say that. I'll say that with 100% confidence. But also, remember this. It can also destroy the core of the relationship. Alright?
That's why I said you gotta be able to communicate you got to stay in touch with your dynamics and what your dynamics are in your lifestyle why because it requires intense layers of communication all right if you can't communicate with your wife you can't communicate with your husband then i should i would just say don't do it keep it a fantasy you got to have to have a lot of layer. You got to have a lot of trust. Do you trust your partner that you're allowing him to fuck other women, that he's not going to go off by himself and fuck other women behind your back and vice versa?
Gentlemen, are you okay with your wife being back blown out by another dude? And is she going to fuck around now because she thinks she has permission To go fuck anything that moves That's up to you What you have to decide Do you have that trust And let's see Another one Honesty Can you be honest with your husband Can you be honest with your wife We have all those couples That have no penis The one penis policy Where the husband is the one Doing all the fucking with the wife Does she want to have sex with other men Let's get started.
All those couples that have no one penis policy where the husband is the one doing all the fucking with the wife. Does she want to have sex with other men? Is she telling it being honest? Same thing with the men. Men let the wives play with whoever they want to play with. But are the men happy with that arrangement? Do they want their wives to be more selective and not do that? I don't know.
That you have to do you gotta be honest do you want to do all this stuff all right so you know you gotta figure it out all right couples who swing together often report increased intimacy openness and a deeper understanding of each other's desires i kind of i would agree with that because you know you don't really i mean you don't really talk to someone you don't really know someone until you really get open and talk to them this way you are talking to your wife seeing what she likes and what she doesn't like all right same thing you see your husband what he likes what he doesn't like.
Your communication opens up. Hell, your husband saw you get your fucking back blown out by five guys last night. Your wife watched you fucking blow the back out of five girls last night at the club. How can you not be honest with each other anymore? It pretty much opens the floodgate.
But you'd be surprised how many couples still have that problem of communication in the lifestyle it allows people opening up about their fantasy all right fantasies now remember this people sometimes the fantasy is better than the reality don't get your fantasy built up so much in your head that when it does come down and does happen that it's a disappointment because your fantasy wasn't as great in the real world than it wasn't when it was in your head don't do that don't be a victim of that all right your first time is probably gonna go crazy he's gonna go shitty if your first threesome your first couple swap it's probably not gonna go that well remember your first time when you had to go crazy.
It's going to go shitty. If your first threesome, your first couple swap, it's probably not going to go that well. Remember your first time when you got sex and you got laid? It's probably going to go about that. Maybe, maybe not. Depends on how you think and how you act. The boundaries. What boundaries are you going to have? Are you going to use condoms? Are you going to be only playing with people that get tested? Are you only going to play with older couples, younger couples? Stuff like that? Are you only going to play with black men, white men, Hispanic men?
Are you only going to play with women? What are your boundaries? Anal? Come on your face, come in your mouth, come in your pussy. All that stuff has to be talked about. What are your boundaries? It allows you to open up to your boundaries. And feelings leads to connections on a different level your connection to your wife now may be elevated to a whole different level than what a vanilla couple would be i don't have no scientific guarantees or scientific facts to back that up but i'm just saying maybe one might say that monogamy alone can always always teach. All right?
So, what else do we have? What about that? You go to McDonald's every day, you eat the Big Mac, and finally, you get a taste of the Whopper. Something reuniting. You lost that spark. It reunites in you. Sometimes, just after years of a committed relationship, the initial spark fades. And that is so true. There isn't, I don't want to hear a couple say, oh, our spark has never faded. Bullshit. It always does. Especially if you have kids. Now, if you don't have never had kids, maybe your spark didn't go down too much. But when you have kids, that spark does die out. Because you know what?
Your sex life takes a backseat to the kids and all that, and the family obligations, kids, careers, because we got a lot of high class lawyers, high lawyers, doctors, politicians are in the lifestyle, all right, so that daily stress can put a damper up on the bedroom no fucking here this is where swinging comes in for many couples by stepping outside their usual routine and they're noticing new partners experience they reunite excitement and that passion they once had for each other that's why when you take a girl out and she fucks another guy the best sex is when i fuck her after he's done and i reclaim that pussy for me the reclaiming is more passionate more dirty more filthy than it is just when we're at home by ourselves it's safe this is the safe way to bring freshness back while maintaining the emotional bond of a committed relationship and whether you're married or just dating just don't forget you want to be at your best for those monumous moments those nights out so again gentlemen shave your cock and balls before letting before getting down to business all right don't be stupid.
Another reason why I come back to this video is that I don't want to be stupid. I don't want to be stupid. I don before getting down to business. All right. Don't be stupid. Another reason why couples might get in swinging, swinging, acting out fantasies. Many people enter swinging because it's a rare opportunity to act out fantasies that may not fit within traditional monogamous relationships.
So you have a couple they're really not swinging swingers they're not really that much interested in the swinging lifestyle but you know what they want to have a threesome with another girl what better way to try and do that than the swinger lifestyle maybe they want to do a threesome with another man what better way to get that done fantasy relived lived out by the swingers lifestyle there's a lot of things that can be done you could do it for a month that's it you could do it for a week that's it or you could do it just for that night and never do it again swinging allows couples to act out those fantasies also singles it allows you to act out those fantasies maybe you're a single female you always want to be with another couple maybe you want to be in a relationship with another couple well there you go here you go swinging is one hell of a way to do that be it threesomes watching your partner with someone else or trying those new kinks like bdsm swinging offers an outlet for these fantasies with consent and clear boundaries.
And remember, you got to be able to communicate those boundaries. So many times I've seen those boundaries cross and couples get into arguments and fights and nothing brings the mood down than a couple fighting. So this openness encourages growth, satisfaction, and often a ton of fun. Now I never really had one fantasy I always do have is the two girls, two women. I Thank you.
satisfaction and often a ton of fun now i never really had one fantasy i always did do that do have is the two girls two women i never had that in all my 28 years of swinging because of the fact that whenever it was me and two girls there was other people in the room like with their orgies and all that stuff so i never had two women by myself for whatever amount of time of night or whatever and I would like to have it but is it my main goal when I'm with a partner nope my main goal is to make sure she's happy she's getting what she needs and she's having a great time because I want her to return I want her to stay in the lifestyle and enjoy the lifestyle some of you guys need to learn that let your wife be the slut that she was born to be don't let her die out because you're jealous you got small dick energy alright another reason why couples might start swinging or you know singles might swing addressing libido differences let's be real sometimes couples have mismatched libidos think about this are boys in their sexual prime?
It says when they're 18 and older. When are women? When they're late 30s, early 40s? Kind of fucked up. That's got a way of fucking with us. One partner may desire sex more frequently or crave different types of experiences. All right?
Swinging gives a healthy alternative to suppress desires or cause tensions, alright, partners can fulfill different needs while preserving love, respect and connection within the primary relationship, now email me if this is you guys, if this is one of you as a couple out there swinging single podcast at gmail.com i think there's a lot of couples like that where they are you know they have just different libidos and all that stuff and they just can't control you know their desires and they their desires are now swinging and it works out perfectly for them then there are the ones that no matter how different their libido is no matter what their desires their libidos cannot stop Thank you.
it works out perfectly for them then there are the ones that no matter how different their libido is no matter what their desires their libidos cannot stop the divorce that's going to come and all that stuff so now you ask yourself well swinging is for couples only really so ask yourself why do singles get into swinging? Now, there are two types of singles. There are swinging singles and there are single singles. Now, swinging singles are into the lifestyle. They live the lifestyle. They enjoy the kinks. They enjoy the connections they have with couples. They enjoy all of that.
Then there are singles. Those single people are just in it for the sex. They are looking for their next pussy or cock in between relationships a lot of the times. And that's where a lot of the problems with single male comes in because they're not really swingers. They're just guys looking for a piece of ass in between a girlfriend or they're married and their wife don't fuck them anymore and they can't communicate with their wife about sex. And the same thing was more and more women are being like this. More and more women.
My past two partners found out they're married and they have husbands and their husbands don't know they're fucking doing this. So it's one of those things. I have one. She don't even fuck her husband anymore. They haven't had sex since October of 2025.
Supposedly they're getting divorced this summer, I don't know, you know what I'm saying, I just don't know, but more and more women are being, going that route where their husbands don't have no clue, and they're not really swingers, it's a way for them to get ass, now, there's the, with me I love the kink I love the threesomes, the orgies, all that stuff there are women out there that love the kink the orgies and all that stuff just like me and if you're one of those women send me an email at swingassinglepodcast.gmail.com since swinging often gets framed as a couple's lifestyle, many wonder, why would a single person choose this path?
For singles, swinging can be about, one, self-exploration, figuring out what they like sexually without the pressures or expectations of traditional dating. Think about it, you're a woman.
What do we all in the lifestyle the lifestyle love a bisexual woman in the lifestyle maybe you want to play with that bisexuality a little bit go right ahead same thing with the men maybe you're bisexual you're bicarious also go play with your bisexuality another great place to do that is just swing your lifestyle come on in and join be respectful and shave your cock and balls another reason why singles might begin into swinging is community and connection meeting others who are open-minded and sex positive like i said that's probably my main one reason why i stay in the lifestyle because i meet like-minded people now granted i'm not hanging out with them outside the swing club or anything like that.
I choose to do that because I want to keep my professional life and my swingers life very distant from each other. But I love making those people. I love seeing them when I see them again at the club and all that. You have a conversation, things like that. And, you know, you have a good time. Because you never know who you're going to meet. Maybe you meet your next boss. Maybe you need a job, and one of the people there hire, you know, business owners, HR people, stuff like that, and they get you a job. Also, another reason why I think singles get into it, intimate encounters. It's safe.
If you go to the club, you're going to be pretty much protected if you're a female. You don't have to worry about any problems that you might have. Just watch your drink, which you all should be doing because you never know what kind of creeps are out there. It's also a consensual environment for sexual experience without strings attached.
You go home, you don't have to worry about kicking them out of your house there's no walk of shame only the walk of shame to your car in the parking lot singles may find the lifestyle resonates with them because it values honesty and directness over games you know all you hear on tiktok all these girls complaining about guys. Guys don't make any effort, stuff like that. And I'm slowly seeing that creep into the couples area of the lifestyle and a lot of the single guys in the lifestyle. Let's just knock that out. Guys, start dressing nice. Start smelling nice. Shave your cock and balls.
Clean your asshole and shit like that, please. You know, do it for the ladies and the Lunds you love, all right? Make an encounter smoother and more respectful, all right? That's another good one. And always, gents, make sure you shave your cock and balls before you jump into any singles event or meetup. It's an easy way to improve your experience and make a great impression. Maybe that's what they need.
to have singles single nights where couples are not allowed but singles are allowed it probably will be a sausage fest yeah but you got to establish it somehow you got to start it some way there's always a first so why not uh will it be a big hit i don't know like i said, it'll be a ton of guys, very few women. But I always said, every club should limit the number of single men they allow. You know, basically 10 for the night. But I don't know. I don't run it, so I don't know. Critical success factors in swinging. No lifestyles without challenges.
And swinging demands some key practices to work well. You got to brutally be honest. Transpiracy is non-negotiable. You have to be upfront about your feelings, desires, and boundaries. Pretending everything is perfect when it's not only leads to confusion and hurt. So you see a hot guy you want to fuck, ladies? Tell hubby, get that man for me, or you go get that man for yourself. Gentlemen, you see that hot couple you want to fuck? You know, your wife is being a Debbie Downer? You got to let her know. Brighten up sunshine, because we're here to party and have a great time.
You got to set clear boundaries. Every person and couple sets their own limits and expectations. Define what's okay and what's off limits and respect those lines at all times. If you're a new newbie here, remember, swinging will be there next week. You don't have to do everything at once. You go to the club, guess what? You don't have to do everything in that club at that one night. You can come back next week. You can come back next month. You can even come back next year. We will be here waiting for you with open arms, open legs, and hard cocks. Well, some of us will have hard cocks.
Some of you guys will, you know, are limp dick bitches, but okay. Mutual consent. Consent isn't just a checkbox. It's ongoing, enthusiastic, and freely given. Everyone involved must feel comfortable and willing at every stage. Once that word knows comes out, you better stop, dudes. Just stop, all right? Communication.
It's the glue that keeps everything together all right talk before during and after any experiences debrief your feelings and check in with your partner regularly this is a great conversation to have when you're going home from a night at the club you know it's fresh in your mind it's fresh everywhere that's why i always recommend don't drink so much because you got to be having that honest conversation and if you do drink a lot at the club do it the next morning over breakfast and eggs or toast and eggs whatever go on breakfast see what how you, what you liked about it, what you didn't like about it, and all that stuff, because you know what, you're going to have a lot of issues, all right, there's going to be a lot of issues that come up, it's not just going to be, well, it's going to be free and easy, I know a lot of people probably tell you that it's going to be free and all that stuff.
It's going to be easy and all that stuff. But you know what? It's not. Swinging is not easy. All right? It's tough. All right? Anyways.
So, that's just some of my talk about why couples and singles will get into this type of lifestyle the single part listen everybody you can sit there say to your blue-in-the-face couples that singles are not part of the lifestyle unfortunately we are part of lifestyle and we're here to stay single men are not going nowhere single women are not going anywhere so you might as well just get used to it you know and enjoy us use us for what we are use us as our toys that we're made to be all right so back to reddit Thank you.
to it you know and enjoy us use us for what we are use us as our toys that we're made to be all right so back to reddit a couple talked about their first lifestyle party and what a night it was so hi everyone we wanted to start by saying thank you so many of you gave us advice encouragement even message asking us to share how it went we didn't get home until after 5 a.m and spent all day saturday in cover oh they're out there friday but we finally had time to sit down and reflect on everything friday was our very first lifestyle event and it was a lot of course exciting overwhelming eye-opening and honestly pretty amazing we met so many people some incredibly kind and just okay, and a few who gave us a vibe that wasn't for us.
But that's the part of the learning scene. Good job. We stayed for over five hours, explored both the common areas and the couple's only area, and had plenty of conversations. A few people approached us respectfully and appreciated how polite most interactions were. We don't play with anyone else. We're just with each other. And that felt right for our first time. Very good. These respected. Let's see if they respected their boundaries and decided not to play with anybody else. There were definitely moments that surprised us. We saw things we had only ever seen online. Welcome to the club.
And it was a shock at at first but also fascinating to witness how open and uninhibited the environment can be it definitely got our adrenaline going and helped us loosen up with each other nearly turning the corner and bam there was a woman giving a blowjob to a bbc right in the hallway we so shocked. From that point on, we saw it. Multiple people fucking. Overall excitement. Just amazing. It's like going on a porn site and watching multiple porn scenes at the same time. One couple in the jacuzzi was having a great time with four to five single men pleasuring them.
The men were taking turns on that woman, which we definitely didn't expect.
It was so hot and got us started playing with each other we also had one moment that crossed that boundary here we go while while we're in the common area a few single men hovered a bit too closely one person overstepped in a way that made my wife uncomfortable we started playing with each other and then a few men approached and asked if they could join i asked my wife she said okay see they didn't stay with their boundary they should have stayed they said they were not going to play with anybody they weren't going to do anything other than to themselves and that here they are they're changing and that's why i said newbies do not do this stick to the program the swinging club will be week, okay?
You don't have to do anything. Dip your toes. All right. She was giving me a blowjob while on her knees. And one man was caressing her boobs while the other was squeezing her ass. It was all fun until one guy decided to pull her panties off. She was wearing a short dress. That startled my wife.
She immediately around and said no we gave we gave we never gave permission for that we shut things down immediately and that was the right call for us after that we moved to the couple's only area and spent the rest of the night there which felt much more comfortable and respectful all right Now, the only problem I have with that is that you're letting the guy grope your thing, your titties, you're not a guy who's groping your ass, and do, should a guy, this guy should have asked to remove your panties and all that, okay, did you hear him ask, because you don't know, because I'm going to tell you, sometimes when you're in the heat of the moment you don't hear anybody so hopefully the guy did ask and they just didn't hear him and the guy wasn't just an asshole so you know you got to do that sometimes like i said you got to be able to handle if you're going to a club that allows single guys in you're going to have to do be able to handle single guys and not let them fuck your mood all right i would love to know what club this is and i don't think they ever say what club it is but you know but like i said you got to be able to handle single men now did you do the right move you didn't leave that's good you went to the singles you went to the couple's only area where you wouldn't have to be bothered so that was great you did a great job doing that you've where you fucked up you the problem was where you fucked up because you're not innocent in this couple you fucked up when you said you were only going to play with each other then you're allowing single men to come play with you because you got all horned up and you started thinking with your clit and not your big head lady all right so you're not going to get a pass from me that you, you know, you did a little mess up.
So, you know, I digress. Even with that hiccup, the overall experience was positive. We learned a lot about what we're comfortable with, what we're not, and how important it is to speak up the moment something doesn't feel right. Of course, you always should speak up when it doesn't feel right. A huge shout out to the seasoned couple, K and J, who talked with us early in the night. They spotted right away that we were new. Yeah, those are sharks. You better be watch out for them because, you know, they will do shit.
And they spent almost an hour giving us advice, answering questions, helping us relax.
They never pressured us or hinted at playing, just generally to help that conversation alone made the night easier we ended the night and reconnecting with another with each other went home and had amazing time together saturday was all about resting laughing about the wild moments and processing everything overall it was a great experience we know what to expect what to look out for and what kind of energy we want to bring into future events and yes we'll definitely be doing it again exploring more places thank you again all right good that's great all right let's see we completely avoid we completely avoid single guys 90 of them ruin it for the one percent that are good yeah that was the biggest surprise for us too just how many single guys were around most of them were harmless just a little awkward okay like i said if you don't like single guys don't fucking go to a club that has single guys that's pretty much it all right hot wife being a hot wife among longtime friends my husband and i love love and i love everything related to fitness and i recently started as a hot wife but we're both worried about going doing it in places where people have known us for a long time like the gym we've been going for years are you gonna be fucking people at the gym okay that's i don't understand we really don't want to make anyone uncomfortable or make a big deal about it should we limit ourselves and avoid people talking behind our backs maybe doing hot wife stuff in specific places yes just do hot wife stuff at the club lifestyle event takeovers when you go out of town stuff like that i don't think you should if you're worried about it you shouldn't be going to the bar the gym and trying to pick up the trainers or other muscle-bound dummies that you probably like and try to fuck them because guess what everyone's gonna find out everyone's gonna know Thank you.
gym and try to pick up the trainers or other muscle-bound dummies that you probably like and try to fuck them because guess what everyone's gonna find out everyone's gonna know because you what you think those guys are not gonna talk bullshit people fucking talk people run their mouths now about everyone they're fucking so i would my best advice was stick to the swinger clubs stick to the lifestyle clubs lifestyle resorts all that stuff all right next one married bulls federal relatives as a married man i am often questioned on whether my wife is aware of my activities i always tell couples she's happy to text hop on a call or facetime why is it so unfathomable for a couple to believe my wife is aware of my activities and confident in our relationship?
See, here's the problem. Because other guys ruin it for everybody else. And it's happening to women now where women are lying about their marital status. My friends and their lifestyle, two of them I know, are married. Husbands don't know they're playing around. They don't know anything that's going on. And that's what happens a lot with guys. Guys will go to a club because their wives haven't put out for four years, so they want to get laid, they go to a club. Or they start swinging because of that. Or for whatever reason. Wife can't have sex anymore. Maybe she's sick.
Maybe it's impossible for her to have sex anymore.
Just like when a guy gets ED, ed he can't have sex anymore he offers his wife to bulls the fuck because she has sexual desires and so on and so on so couples are very reary of single guys and you know they have it really is the father of single guys the way they have been acted over the years because they think that the lifestyle is about them getting their pussy and going on and doing whatever they want to do where it's actually not the way it's supposed to be now is it about sex yeah sure it's about sex but remember this you know you got to be able to enjoy the lifestyle take the good with the bad so as a married bull you just have to find couples who don't care if you're married or not all the guys who fuck my my partners my girls or whatever at the club i don't know if they're married or not that's between them and their wife all right some people say because we don't want cheaters yes i know they can just be easy lie about being single i just also want you to verify that you're a healthy marriage and not not stepping into drama central and that's another thing couples don't want to have drama i don't know how the trauma is going to come back to you but you know couples don't want drama no one really wants drama do drama, text me, swingsinglepodcasts at gmail.com.
All right? Let's see what, uh, do. Let's see. All right, let's see what we said. More hot wife advice. Ooh, this is a long one, so this is going to be the last one. All right, I'll try to keep it short. Too late. My wife and I have seriously discussed this for the last year. After a year of talking, fantasizing, role-playing, I believe we are ready. We are looking for some specific advice on a handful of important issues. Please be forgiving as we are newbies and not familiar with the terminology. One, age. We are older. I'm 50 and my wife is 56.
Without ignorance, we both are very are very attractive in great shape and no one believes our age when we tell them we both routinely get hit on when we're out and about separately or on our daily routines my true my wife is a true bombshell how will this be received my wife and i will be particularly particular about a third but age is not a factor i guess we're both just worried that our age might be a problem your thoughts yeah some people will have an issue with your age but if you are very good looking like you say good looks will you know turn people into oh okay we don't care about your age anymore so you know tell your people your age if they don't want to be around you because you're 50, 56, fuck them.
Go, you know, find someone else. Go come here. Come see A.C. Maxwell. I'll probably fucking bang your 56-year-old wife for you, you know. I'm not. Age is just age. It's nothing else to me, all right? Pussy's pussy, all right? Two, STDs, STIs. We are both healthy and willing to provide that to any prospective. First, we would obviously require the same in return. How does this work? Well, you ask for their test. You see their test. Don't make sure it's not fucking, you know, doctored at all or anything like that. You can do that. Ask kindly. Ask the way you would want to be asked.
Are there programs where you can get regular tests provide the results yes you can go to your local county health place and get stuff taken care of you can go to talent testing services which i go to and get that done you get all the basic stuff done and all that uh so you know you have that how do you know the results you are reviewing belong to that person great question do one where they have a bar code and stuff like that where you can scan it and there ain't no way you can uh what's it doctorate three field i guess it's a website it seems like this app appears to be the most used for this i don't know i have read that about the app and reviewed it we would love to hear from others who use it about lessons learned i use it i don't get anything out of it a lot of just bullshit talk not a great best way to go find out the swingers go to a swinger event go, go to a swinger club, go to a swinger resort.
Four, communication. Apparently, Telegram is the method that a lot migrate to after initial contact. We are not familiar with Telegram at all. I've read that you can maintain a level of protection and immunity just like field. I guess we're looking to crash course in Telegram as well.
Yeah, just go online, um do you go on youtube look up telegram and all that stuff and they'll tell you how to use it five club and public places there is a private club near us that has been established for a while this house is by invite only after you go through a vetting process probably sounds like a great fucking time go to it we have submitted an application for event on may 15th all the reviews seem consistent with the published rules there is no pressure everyone accepting a non-judgmental it appears the perfect venue to dip our toes in yes the only they only accept certain amount of couples and singles on a very limited schedule nights assuming we are said that we expect?
Well, you can expect whatever the vibe is that you make it. You can expect to have a good time if you're open, talkative, and willing to talk to people. You're going to have a great time. All right? Nothing bad is going to happen.
Now, remember this new newbie you and the rest of you swinging will be there next week, next month and all that discuss your boundaries with your wife discuss your boundaries with your husband what you want to do and what you don't want to do and stick with that do not stray from that because like I said, there will be other times for you to swing if you're as hot as you say you are you're gonna have a lot of pretty a lot of people who want to partake with you in the swinging lifestyle okay now that being said be smart strap it on and shave your cock and balls all right Whether you're single, exploring your sexuality, or a couple rekindling passion, swinging offers a beautiful way to connect and grow.
It takes work. And if you're not willing to work, it ain't going to work. It takes trust, and it takes respect to truly thrive in this wonderful lifestyle. And here's a last reminder for the day. Gentlemen, and anyone else playing in this lifestyle, shave your cock and balls to keep things fresh, confident, and pleasurable for you and your partners. Thanks for tuning in to this episode of the Swing a Single podcast. I'm AC Maxwell, reminding you to keep it honest, keep it consensual, and above all, keep it sexy. Until next time, stay open-minded and safe out there, fellow swingers.
smooth the way that you look in your eye We'll be right back. Time, the minute's quickly passing by, I want to slip away into the night, but I don't need you to wake up by your side, shifts in the night. I want to be the devil on my shoulder I want to be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover Baby, I'm a holly to your joker I want to be the devil on my shoulder I want to be the angel when it's over You'll get lucky like a four-leaf clover Baby, I'm a holly to your joker Closer to the groove Will you put me in a sense?
