🔥 New Episode Alert! 🔥This week on The Swinging Single Podcast, AC Maxwell breaks down the emotional ride for couples exploring the Hotwife Swinging lifestyles. From managing jealousy (yes, we all feel it) to navigating insecurities when fantasy meets reality, and keeping your primary relationship rock solid through honest communication — we cover it all.Gentlemen, want to make a great impression? Don’t forget to shave your cock and balls before your next play session!Tap the link in bio to listen now. 🎧#SwingingLifestyle #HotwifeLife #CouplesWhoPlay #JealousyManagement #Compersion #OpenRelationships #CommunicationMatters #TrustAndHonesty #AdultLifestyle #ShaveYourCockAndBallsTwitter/X posts:1/4 Why do jealousy insecurity pop up even in the hottest Hotwife or Swinging couples? We dive deep on The Swinging Single Podcast with AC Maxwell today. Spoiler: it’s not “if” but how you manage it that counts.2/4 Want your primary relationship to survive thrive while exploring outside? Radical honesty, clear boundaries constant check-ins are your secret weapons.3/4 Single advice for the guys heading into the lifestyle: shave your cock and balls — confidence booster and much appreciated!4/4 Listen to the full episode for tips on navigating the emotional rollercoaster of swinging ➡️ [episode link]#SwingingSinglePodcast #HotwifeLifestyle #Compersion #Jealousy #CommunicationLinkedIn Post:Exploring non-traditional relationship dynamics such as the Hotwife or Swinging lifestyle can offer exciting growth opportunities for couples — but it also demands emotional intelligence and strong communication.On this latest episode of The Swinging Single Podcast, host AC Maxwell discusses how to manage jealousy and insecurity, maintain trust, and nurture the primary relationship amid exploration.If you’re curious about building stronger emotional foundations in consensual non-monogamy, give it a listen.Also—fun tip for the guys: shave your cock and balls before attending any club or encounter. Self-care and respect go hand-in-hand.#RelationshipAdvice #EmotionalIntelligence #NonMonogamy #Trust #Communication #SwingingLifestyleTikTok/Instagram Reels Script ideas:Clip 1:"When jealousy hits in the Hotwife lifestyle, it’s not about ‘if’—it’s how you handle it. For couples stepping into swinging, talk openly and honestly. That’s key."Clip 2:"Guys—before you hit the clubs or play sessions, here’s a confidence tip from me: shave your cock and balls. Trust me, you’ll feel better and your partners will notice."Clip 3:"Want to keep your primary relationship strong while exploring? Make communication and boundaries your foundation."Add hashtags and a short clip teaser from the podcast for extra engagement.
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eyes diving deep into real stories lessons learned and practical advice for anyone exploring or curious about the lifestyle whether you're new seasoned single or even partnered join me as i share my experiences bust the myths and help you swing your best in the exhilarating world so let's get real keep it respectful and keep swinging single the swinging single podcast with host A.C is intended for entertainment and educational purposes only the opinions views and content expressed or shared on the podcast are solely those of the host ac maxwell and any featured guests or contributors and do not necessarily represent those of the podcast's affiliates sponsors sponsors, advertisers, or partners.
Any information provided is given with the understanding that it does not constitute a contract, engagement, or formal advice. The content of the podcast is protected by copyright and other intellectual property laws. A hot wife in cocoa'd out for dinner tonight She wears a key on her naveless shine and so bright She loves how it makes them nervous and ashamed He has my heart, but this is our night again Their friends arrive and one else with a grin I'll see you next time.
Their friends arrived and one asked with a grin What's that key for let the truth begin The husband blushed his face burning red Wondering who else will have his wife in their bed Sorry baby I just couldn't lie They know you're my club And I'm podcast friends.
I'm your host ac maxwell and today we are diving deep into the emotional and recreational dynamics of couples exploring a hot wife lifestyle as well as those navigating the broader swinging scene but before you do all that before we get into all that why don't you go to swinging single podcast.com go check out all things ac also if you have any questions you want me topics you want me to cover or anything like that as a view from the single guys world go to swinging single podcast at gmail.com i got all that wonderful stuff there and you can email me and we can talk about it and all that great stuff so we're going to talk a little more about why you know couples get into the hot wife lifestyle and we're going to go over to reddit and talk about you know what happens when our three son goes bad it's creating cracks then we're going to have some newbies let's talk about some tune some newbies about what they're going to happen and all that stuff and what happens after their first hot wife encounter and all that wonderful stuff, all that and more on the swinging single podcast.
All right. I hope you had a wonderful week. I'm sure I'm going to have a wonderful weekend. I'm going out to Austin, going to party up there, start swinging my dick there and everything. So, you know, it is what it is. So let's see what we got. I'll see you next time. Have a wonderful weekend. I'm going out to Austin, going to party up there. Start swinging my dick there and everything. So, you know, it is what it is. So, let's see what we got. Alrighty.
all right just let me me let me do this i gotta have him trying to do some technical difficulties here trying to see uh all the stuff that's going on and all that great stuff but we'll see so just bear with me in a minute because i'm going to get it all All right. So... I'll let you try. The. All right. So. Oh, yeah. She's singing really good. Let's turn it up. You watch me go, you watch me shine But you'll never stretch me like he does, babe, that's why I'm your good high wife, but I'm his perfect ride You'll get all I give, but he still gets your wife Thank you.
I'm your good heart, love is his favorite sin He fills me up till I can't take it in You'll watch me glow, you'll watch me shine But you'll never stretch me like this, babe, that's why I'm your good heart, but I'm his perfect right We'll be right back.
all right let's get back to i'm sorry about that little thing i had to go do something so you know don't want to be rude to my fans but anyways so if you're a couple curious about stepping into this world or maybe already swinging and feeling the waves of emotions that come with it this episode is for you baby all right we're going to talk honestly about jealousy insecurity trust and how to maintain that strong primary bond between both you and the person you're exploring with, because that's what's most important.
If you can't communicate with your partner, you can't be honest with your partner. Oh, boy, you're going to be in very trouble. It's going to break your relationship. And also remember, folks, before you get adventurous, do yourself and everyone around you else a favor. Shave your cock and balls, gentlemen.
It's just a small feeling that makes a big impact on confidence and respect so all right it's all right let's get into it so we got to understanding we got to understand the hot wife and the swinging lifestyles first we got to have a quick distinction between them two because so many people get them confused and all that stuff. And with that, the hot wife lifestyle typically involves a committed heterosexual couple where the wife enjoys, you know, intimate or sexual encounters with other people.
often with the husband enthusiastic consent and involvement as what we call a stag or a supportive partner now i have been seeing things where it talked about not calling guys stag but they're called uh what the hell were they being called they were being called hot husband stuff like that so i don't know but you call it whatever you want to call it how to husband whatever but swinging on the other hand often involves both partners engaging with other couples or singles did you hear that people i said or singles yes singles are part of the swingers lifestyle i don't know how many times couples will sit there say oh swingers can't be a swinger a couple singles can't be swingers and such and such i'm like bullshit swingers can be anybody can be a couples it could be singles male and female we all have a purpose and a place in the lifestyle so these lifestyles overlap but can come with different emotional expectations and dynamics dynamics Whether you're hot wifing or you're swinging, what stays consistent is the importance of emotional awareness and open communication.
You've got to be able to talk to your partner about your wants, your needs, your boundaries, and what you're looking for.
Because if you can can't who are you gonna be able to talk to what happens in those times where things get a little rough and you know like life things get rough so moving from if to how jealousy is something that comes up again and again in conversations about swinging about the hot life lifestyle but here's the thing it's not about if you get jealous it's about how you deal with it because i'm going to tell you right now you're going to get jealous you might say oh i'm not the jealous person i'm not a jealous type of guy i'm not a jealous type of woman yes you are going to get jealous because like my old coach, high school coach used to say, there's always someone bigger, faster, stronger than you.
So you go to the swinger club. Guess what, ladies? There's going to be a bunch of women out there with bigger tits than you, bigger ass than you, better looking than you. Gentlemen, guess what's going to happen? You sit there and think, oh, well, I can lay the pipe down. I got the nicest cock around. No one can stop me.
guess what there going to happen you sit there and think oh well i got i can lay the pipe down i got the nicest cock around no one can stop me guess what there's going to be some guy with a 12 incher when you come to the plate with a six incher all right you're going to be taking this half six inch subway sub that guy's going to have a whole foot long and you're going to get jealous because your wife's going to make noise that she has never made before, that she never made with you. So you're going to get jealous. Now, how you deal with it is the main thing.
Many couples aspire to experience comparison, that beautiful feeling of joy from seeing your partner happy and fulfilled with someone else. But involuntary jealousy is just as real, and it's okay to admit it. You're a human being, all right?
the best looking guy no i'm not the best looking guy you think i'm the hungest guy no i'm not the hungest guy i have my faults i have my shortcomings so to speak but i don't let that get in the way for me playing and having fun and having a good time with people all right it's that simple you cannot let stuff get to you you are a human being we're all going to get jealous and it's okay so move on with yourself here are some tips maybe to manage that jealousy now remember these are tips for me to you these tips might not help you these tips might help you it all the time but i'm just putting them out there.
These are just for entertainment purposes. Name the feelings as they come. Don't push away or pretend they don't exist. Speak about them honestly with your partner. If you don't speak honestly with your partner, who are you going to speak honestly with? Like I said, you've got to be able to own your feelings. Don't push them away.
Don't bury them down in your stomach pit and never let them come out because they will come out and they will fucking uh explode and you don't want to be exploding at the club because you're one you're gonna look bad two you're just the club might decide never to ban you or i mean to ban you from the club ever again so you're gonna be kind of screwed but you gotta be able to talk about your feelings all right another one another tip you can help the stage off the jealousy or help overcome it explore the root of your jealousy is it about insecurity you know the guy has a 12 inch cock you got a four inch wiener all righter, all right, he's got a monster, you got a little, you know, you got a little Teletubby or whatever, you're insecure about that, maybe you're insecure about your weight, maybe you're going bald, maybe you're insecure about your baldness, and you got some hot-looking fucking stud wanting to fuck your wife, all right, how about fear of loss, maybe you're worried about your wife leaving you.
Does that happen in the link swinger lifestyle? You sure bet your ass it does. It happens a lot more than you think. All right? Maybe you have low self-esteem in the first place. All right? You got to figure out you are a good person. You do things for people. You're a good person. We can't all be great people all the time, all right? So we got to do stuff that, you know, will build up our self-esteem. Start hitting the gym. Lose a couple pounds. Start dressing nicer, men. Shave your cock and balls. Do things like that. Facing these honestly can help you address them directly.
Maybe, just maybe you need to see therapy. Maybe you got to go talk to someone, a professional in the lifestyle. There are, if you just Google, just Google a psychologist who specializes in swinging. There are a few of them. And guess what? It doesn't matter where they're at in the country because it's all Zoom anyway so you can just zoom and have your little conference and all that another way you could do help your jealousy reframe your mindset toward a comparison by reminding yourself that your partner's pleasure doesn't diminish your worth or your place in her heart. Her heart, his heart.
They should be very happy with you because you are allowing them to have this pleasure without having to sneak around behind your back or her back. Do you know how many people cheat in this country? A lot of people cheat.
This is the most honest setup I can think of swinging it's very honest you don't have couples going around cheating on each other now do you still have couples in the swinger lifestyle that maybe not might tell the truth where they were on a thursday night after work sure you got those people where they'll you know they'll tell they'll lie and they'll'll be with people that their partner doesn't know about, all right? But that's very few and far in between, all right? There are a lot of couples that are vanilla that cheat on their spouses and all that. And it causes a lot of problems.
But you are there, you are allowing your partner in front of you with your full acknowledgement to be having fun to explore his or her sexuality bisexuality maybe your girl wants to get into bisexuality maybe she wants to explore that maybe your husband is bisexual and wants to explore his bisexuality why not do it together why not have that fun all right as long as you can be the communication open you set your boundaries you stick by those golden rules you'll be okay if you don't you won't be okay and that leads me to the setting the boundaries together that feel safe and respectful for both of you find out what you want do you want to kiss do you want to wear condoms do you don't want to wear condoms do you want to only do oral do you only want to play with women do you only want to play with men do you only want to swap with couples stuff like that what are your boundaries are you okay with ass lapping hair pulling choking biting leaving marks things like that all that stuff has to be talked about now you might think that's boring but i'm going to tell you it's going to save your marriage it's going to save your relationship because if you're too insecure you're too jealous it's going to drive your relationship crazy because you might drive her bonkers and vice versa she might drive you bonkers with her constant comparison of other girls oh you really like that girl with the big ass and the big tits didn't you and all that so you know you got to be very careful and just remember managing jealousy takes practice and patience like i tell everyone on every podcast swinging will be there next week swinging will be there next month swinging will next year.
It's not going anywhere. You don't have to do everything right now. You can take some time and get to know yourselves as swingers and explore. You don't have to do every single damn fantasy you ever had on a Saturday night and the first week in the May. The Swinger Club will be open. Now, if you live far away from the club, you live out in the middle of nowhere, okay, maybe then you can make it a section where you can do some things, but you don't have to do everything because the club will still be there. So give yourself grace.
You'll probably experience a mix of comparison and jealousy sometimes, even within the same encounter. All right? Jealousy is very ugly and very bad.
So, you you know you got to do what you got to do people and you know hopefully it won't end your relationship so for hot husbands stags or anyone experiencing the early days of swinging or hot wifing not a hot husband thing i don't know what the hell that's about i hear people talk about it it's where your husband is it's like the reverse hot wifing thing whatever it is okay i'm just putting it out there look it up google it so insecurities can flare when reality doesn't match the fantasy now to all you newbies to some of you new people, to your veterans, swinging never goes the way you planned it to go.
Sometimes it's god-awful, and sometimes it's fucking hot.
In my 28 years of swinging, I had better experiences than I had worse experiences, there have been some bad, there has been a lot more good, think of you swinging your first time, you're going to have a threesome, or you're going to swap with a couple, it's going to be like you're a fucking virgin again, it may not last that long, and it may not be that great, now, is that the rule, no, there are exceptions, there are outliers where,liers where you know you go out you meet another couple you have a foursome you swap you have a great night and it's the greatest thing ever but most of the time it's you swap you fuck and it's just like your first time doing anything first time having sex it's done and over with real quick and you don't know what to do that's why if you're a newbie try to hang out or go with the experienced couple that knows what they're doing trust me they know who you are veterans of the swinging lifestyle can smell you like a shark can smell blood and water they can smell you miles away all right and there's a lot of sharks in the swingers lifestyle I'll see you from swinging try it a couple times because you got to get your foot you got to understand what you like you might not like your ass slap you might not like this you might not like that you might like this you might like that that way as you get more experience in the lifestyle you can tailor tailor all those things, all those fantasies.
And I always say, sometimes a fantasy should always remain just that, a fantasy. Because I tell you, gentlemen, you might want your girl to be with another woman. You might want your man, your girl to be with a bunch of men, other couples.
You might want more pussy but sometimes when you let Pandora out of her box, Pandora don't want to go back in her box, what happens if she enjoys the lifestyle more than you, what do you do now then gentlemen, ladies same thing, you want to please your husband so you decide to invite one of your girlfriends over to have a threesome, you have a threesome and now that girlfriend won't leave your husband alone like i said sometimes reality is the fantasy is not as good as the reality of it the reality of it is that it can go wrong or it can go fucking great i don't know you may imagine watching your wife with another man with excitement but the feelings when it actually happens can be more intense or unexpected you might feel anxious you might feel left out or unsure of your place in the moment and that's why i say you need you need to go with people that know what they're doing find someone who's a veteran who has some experience in a lifestyle and that can stop some of this problems there if they're really good at it because sometimes some couples are just out for themselves they don't give a shit or some people are out for themselves they don't give a shit all right and you're watching your wife get pounded and you feel like well what about me where's my where's my pussy or something what do i get out of this no and No,ed and you feel like, well, what about me?
Where's my pussy or something? What do I get out of this? Nope. And those are very legitimate concerns. So here's some tips for navigating that insecurity. Communicate beforehand. Talk to your wife. Talk to your husband about fears and expectations candidly. You've got to be able to talk to your partner.
If you can't tell your partner you want to get ran by big eight-inch cocks, you want to do a reverse game-bang with all women, stuff like that, how are you going to be open and honest about everything else you know another now those are two very extreme examples but i'm just saying you got to be able to and all that so you know it is what it is all right so communicate some more and communicate more. On that ride home from that club, talk. Communicate. Tell me what you liked, what you didn't like. Talk about the club. Stay present.
Focus on your partner and your connection in the moment rather than sprawling into different what-if scenarios. Don't worry about next weekend.
Don't worry't worry about the past live in the now because that's where we live in live in the now that shit is going to come up anyways so just live in now all right another thing i always i always think this is very important when you're done debrief afterward check in with your partner to process what happened what worked and what you like to adjust next time and hopefully there will be a next time i don't know it just depends on how you react gentlemen be cool be open be loving don't be cold don't be crass don't be any other Don't be crass. Don't be any other. Don't be a jerk.
Ladies, same thing for you. Be open. Be wonderful. Make the man a fucking sandwich when you get home. Don't be an asshole. Don't be a bitch. All right? You ain't going to help no one. Own your own feelings. Insecurity isn't failure. All right. We're all insecure. I'm insecure. You listening are insecure. Everyone's insecure. It doesn't matter. It's feedback signaling areas of growth, healing, a reassurance. Like when I first started, I would never, ever allow another man to fuck my partner. Okay. There you go. The Good girl, good girl. All right.
I would never allow another man fuck fuck my partner okay there you go the good girl good girl all right i would never allow another man fuck my partner but now that's how i look i want my girl to be happy if she's happy fucking every woman in the club so be it if she's the happy fucking every guy in the club even better every fuck every couple in the club hell go right at it because I love watching her be happy. I want her to be happy. And if that's what...
fuck every couple in the club hell go right at it because i love watching her be happy i want her to be happy and if that's what it takes it's what it takes but i learned my insecurity i grew from it that i'm a great person and you know i bring a lot to the table what do you bring to the table and again confidence i have it you should have it too it matters so gents the number one non-negotiable tip before any play night shave your cock and balls feel ready to be seen and own your space all right maintaining the primary bound communication and trust your primary relationship is your foundation everything else builds on it exploring outside intimacy can enrich your connection or strain it depending on how you handle it boy does that that rings true to keep the bond strong between you, your wife, your husband, practice radical honesty.
This is going to be tough for some people because not everyone can be very honest with each other. Radically, share everything. Share every one of your emotions, what you felt and how it made you feel. The doubts you have about the lifestyle Do you have any doubts about the lifestyle? I don't know Desires What are your desires?
You want to have a BBC gangbang Let the man know You want to have a threesome With two women And your wife watch you let her know don't shy away from telling your desires and what are your needs while you're getting your back shot your back blown out by a guy you want him to hold your hand you want you want him to kiss him or he want you want you or she wants you to put his your cock in her mouth and vice versa. Maybe he wants you to sit on his face while he gets rolled like a cowboy in a threesome. All those things. And even if it makes you feel uncomfortable, you've got to say it.
You have to say it. Because if you don't, who will? Ladies, men cannot read your mind. Gentlemen, women can't read your mind either. So say it. Don't spray it. Create check-in moments. Regularly talk about where you are emotionally and how you're feeling about the lifestyle and what you can do for each other so emotionally got it check how you're feeling about the lifestyle. And what you can do for each other. So, emotionally, got it, check. How you're feeling about the lifestyle, good or bad, check. And what you can do for each other. I'm your protector. You're my ride and die.
You're my protector. I protect you. Stuff like that. You want to prioritize your connection. Now, I recommend don't be the swingers that go every Friday, Saturday night to the club. Have date nights with just you two. Go to the club once or twice a month. Be affectionate. Touch.
And the intimacy without others involved help nurture your core bond if you're only fucking at the club there's something wrong i hate to say it but if you're only having sex when you go to the swingers club or a hotel takeover or anything like that there might be something wrong with your relationship respect agreed upon the boundaries this is one of the biggest thing that's always broken for couples A lot of couples break this rule A broken boundary can shatter trust quickly So honor the rules you set together Now, good news is newbies Your rules today won't be your rules in 5 years or 10 years or in 20 years rules evolve boundaries change sometimes you want to push those boundaries sometimes you want to rein in those boundaries but they do evolve i know how many couples have the no kissing rule when they first start oh we're not gonna kiss we're not gonna do any of that but then a couple months in she's got your tongue down your throat it happens guys and that does and that and it's a good thing i think it's a good thing because it shows that you are evolving as human beings and as a couple that you're able to talk about your boundaries and change those boundaries boundaries can change at any time boundaries are not permanent so if you're a gentleman you want your wife to be with other men but she says no but she's into the ideal swinging take it because guess what she might change her mind three months from now hell it might be five ten years from now but boundaries do change swinging and the hot wife lifestyles are all about adding to your love and not replacing it and let me see what this says i got a text i like my ass slapped hair pull biting marks chokes yes i had an irrational fear of jealousy but was able to see it as based on comparison and irrational i appreciate the content but not sure i'm cool with using your vulnerable convos and fears on the podcast even okay all right ease into it don't worry about it young lady you don't have to be involved in it yet, all right?
So, you know, don't worry about it. We'll talk about it tomorrow on the Swing and Single Podcast with your host, A.C. Maxwell. All right, so hopefully, you know, your boundaries and all that stuff and all that, it will eventually happen. All right. So let's look at Reddit. Let's talk about Reddit because there's some big things on here. Let's see. Oh, because I think something happened. We got a couple of things that need to be talked about. All right. so maybe this is one of those things where the boundaries got you know fucked up a little Thank you.
A couple were long-term, other short-term fun. After everyone, we feel a stronger connection. This recent threesome situation, however, was different. We are left in pieces, and I feel so unloved and hurt. Basically, we're hooking up with this one girl. Ooh, I like that. Daddy likes. She decided to invite her friend over as a surprise foursome. Awesome. Jesus Christ, this is one lucky son of a bitch, I tell you that right now. Now, let's go.
that daddy likes she decided to invite her friend over as a surprise foursome awesome jesus christ this is one lucky son of a bitch i tell you that right now we kindly said no but we all hung out that night and the friend was all over my boyfriend uh-oh that fourth was all over a boyfriend i told him it's hot but when i asked my boyfriend to go to bed with me and our third he said he'll be there in a bit turns out he made out with our third friends leaving me and our third alone in the bedroom oh the drama this is like a porno she tries to take his dick out but he says no he can't which i do appreciate oh what a classy guy one boundary discussed in the beginning was that we are a package deal and only have intimacy together with ladies all right great stick to those boundaries so i was very hurt and threw a fit at him i flicked him off and left the apartment to get some fresh air okay we argue for hours and hours all the next day he says he didn't think i would care much because it's just making out this dude does not know women that i'm making a big deal of it of course she is it is a big deal to her because it was a boundary kissing is whipping your dick out and fucking that girl this is why this guy is fucked up anyways we get past it and plan a threesome with her what okay okay the lady's fucked up too the whole day he is all over her and complimenting her which already sets me off see this is where he fucks up he needs to make sure what does ac always tell you guys if you're having a threesome make sure you are paying the same amount of attention as you are the third because hubby or the wife might get jealous then in the bed he continues primarily complimenting her and focuses 70 of his attention on her oh boy he says that he's she's so hot he can't keep himself and that's it because she's new and different broke my heart and i asked if he has feelings for her he said he is but that's the whole point of threesomes to find someone he's really excited about no they have sex i asked if he would date her and he said if she was single i just feel kind of insecure at the encounter and it's affecting our relationship i feel so sexually insecure now especially since he keeps talking about how she was the prettiest pussy and the sexiest voice moans in bed even more so than mine all right how do i move forward in this relationship I'm so hurt and feel involved okay how do you move forward you move out of the fucking apartment you dump the son of a bitch that's how you move forward he is not into you like you think he is he is having his cake and eating it too listen men how fucking stupid are you would tell you when your wife asks you do i look fat in these jeans what do you say oh yeah baby you look like you gained fucking 10 pounds uh and all that yeah baby that's fine cool whatever no that's not good, that is stupid, you lie, you don't tell your girlfriend that the girl you had a threesome with has a prettier pussy, has better bedmoans than you, that shows me he does not care about this woman, and he will end up leaving her for someone else, and he's probably gonna leave her for this girl, if he can that's how fucking stupid why she fucked up too she's not innocent he's he's 100 he's 90 the problem she's another 10 because she should have after that night where he was making out with her he shouldn't she should have squashed and said we're never seeing that chick again you don't fuck around that girl ever or i'm out so i think this relationship is done unfortunately because he seems to be very selfish they are a young couple 30 and 25 so he's enjoying life because he's having threesomes with all these women that his girlfriend gets from that he could probably never pull a threesome in his life because he's you know he's a guy and he's young and he's probably just don't have no personality.
But he's using her to get what he wants. And lady, if you're listening to the Swing a Single Podcast, which I hope you are, he ain't no good man for you. He should have never paid more attention to her than you. Now, it's not like they were new.
This is the first threesome they ever had i could give a i could give a cat a pass on that one because you know it's fucking new and all that stuff so i can give a guy a pass but they've been doing it for a long time he's been doing it for a couple years having threesome with just women so i don't know so lady pack your bags give them your keys and move on with your fucking life all right let's see one more maybe two more new to swinging help hi i really appreciate some advice from people with experience in the lifestyle that's ac 28 years going on 28 29 actually i'm fairly new to this and i'm open to it but i'm still figuring out my own comfort level and what i'm actually into all right that's what it's all about to experiment i'm seeing someone who is more experienced all right no problem all right it ain't gonna hurt and it's starting to cause tension between us he says he wants me to experience it more but at the same time he gets frustrated when i'm not attracted to certain people and says my standards are too high well if your standards are too high your standards are too high so what maybe swingers better get better looking i don't know from my side i feel like i'm open but i also don't think i should have to lower my standards or force attraction just to fit into the lifestyle nope you do not have to you can do whatever you want you're the female you run this you tell your man you look him dead in the face if it wasn't for my pussy you would be paying 150 to 200 to get in this fucking place you get in cheaper i give you more access to pussy i will fuck who i want to fuck when i want to fuck him that's what you gotta do look him dead in the eye because if he really cares about you which he doesn't sound to me doesn doesn't sound like the AC, it doesn't sound like it really matters to him.
It's starting to create pressure and affect the relationship because I feel like I'm being told I'm not open enough when I'm actually just being honest about what I like. I agree. You are being very honest. You are being what every single male needs in the lifestyle. Someone open to see. Go and check out the lifestyle. So she asked, has anyone experienced this kind of dynamic? Yes. I have done it to women before in my past because I was very insecure. Not knowing how to be a gentleman, stuff like that. And those relationships don't work out.
now i have learned to and realize swinging is going to be there in a month in a year whatever it's going to be there for all the time so it doesn't really matter okay so i don't have to pressure someone to do something she don't want to do she don't want to do it she don't want to do it my job now is to make sure she has the greatest time of her life, it blows the panties right off her, and she has the greatest experiences. That's what my job is as a guy, as the partner, the boyfriend, the husband, all that stuff. Is this something that can be worked through? Yes, it can be worked through.
You just got to sit them down and tell them the truth. You got to be open communication. Say, this is what I want. I'm not lowering my standards.
If you don't like it, then I don't fuck people because you know why he probably doesn't like it because if he if you don't fuck someone he don't get someone to fuck so i'm thinking that's why he is upset with you that you should lower your standards because he wants to fuck people but you don't want to fuck them and you're a package deal so and does it usually mean you're not aligned in expectations yeah you're not in line because you're not communicating well enough with each other all right you got to Communicate, and does it usually mean you're not aligned in expectations?
Yeah, you're not aligned because you're not communicating well enough with each other, all right? You've got to communicate, and communicate some more. That's all you've got to do, all right? So, you want my honest opinion, lady? He doesn't really care about you. You're his coupon to get him more access to pussy.
You are not cooperating on your end, he's pissed off move on find another guy that will bring you into the lifestyle teach you the ways and be a good man got it all right so my final thoughts on all this is exploring hot wiping or swinging means navigating a complex mix of excitement desire jealousy and love It's a path that demands bravery and honest hard work. I mean heart. You will face insecurities. You will feel jealous sometimes. And that's okay as long as you lean into communication, trust, and mutual respect.
And no matter where you are in your journey, don't forget the small but mighty tip I always say. Shave your cock and balls, gentlemen. Before stepping into your next play session, you'll feel cleaner, more confident, and your partners will appreciate the effort. Thanks for sharing this time with me on the Swing and Single podcast. I'm AC Maxwell, reminding you to keep it real keep it open and most importantly keep it consensual catch you next time We'll be right back.
The way that you're looking, yeah, I knew Started off with one but not a few Your lips, they taste like whiskey and vermouth Time, the minute's quickly passing by Wanna slip away into the night But I don't need to wake up by your side We'll be right back. I want to slip away into the night, but I don't need to wake up by your side, chips in the night. I want to be the girl on my shoulder, I want to be the angel when it's over. You'll get lucky like a fool in your throat, baby I'm a Harley to your Joker. We'll be right back.
