“ I was considering firing up the wood stove. That thing gets it up to the 90's if we want.”
I would highly recommend a dress rehearsal or should I say undressed rehearsal. You may be surprised how cold it is without cloths on.
You don’t want everyone freezing and waiting for the heat to kick in.
“ Maybe you misunderstood my reply. I was questioning how the lack of connection would be different just because we're all naked.”
Simple answer is, it should be a factor or concern.
Part of being a nudist/naturalist is you’re free. There is no judgement. It’s a second nature to be without cloths on. I’m sure this couple is not concerned about being naked and there not being a connection.
As far as comments on body parts etc.? Do you normally tell someone you’re meeting with that they have nice breasts or a nice penis? You don’t have to tell them that. A nice complement is I love your figure.
Just have a good time. If there is a connection you will know it. If there isn’t, you will know it and not have to act any differently than you normally would just because you’re sans clothes.
Maybe you misunderstood my reply. I was questioning how the lack of connection would be different just because we're all naked.
I was considering firing up the wood stove. That thing gets it up to the 90's if we want.
Just because you’re nice = just because you’re nude
Personally I think you’re way over thinking this. First off. They’re and you’re adults. If there is no connection? Then there is no connection. Just because you’re nice doesn't mean there has to be a connection. Just have towels out for them to sit on. Your furniture will thank you. Turn the heat up very high. And start a fire in the fireplace. You don’t want to be cold. Then let the evening progress however it progresses. It’s a meet and greet, you just happen to be nude.
With a place to change, we can just give them privacy in the living room and they can do whatever with clothing (drape over furniture, hang in closet, put in bag, etc.).
What if there's no connection?.... that hasn't happened for us when hosting but obviously it will. When out it's usually just a "we're not feeling it" or "we have to get going" and it's typically been mutual so it's not a big deal. Would nudity change that somehow?
As for the odd/awkward comment, I know we wouldn't make mention of anything body/part-wise unless it was a compliment. Is there something specific you had in mind as examples?
Thanks!!
First, it is your home and you have to be comfortable with what goes on. Try and have a place for them to "change" and just have the towels available in that room or have some on the furniture to start with. Keeping up with your towel is normal etiquette and they shouldn't have an issue with it. The trick to this is how will you guide things if there is no interest in playing? I would be concerned that they may be hoping that being nude will increase their odds. One rude or awkward comment can make things more uncomfortable than they normally would be fully clothed. Aside from that, it sounds like a great time and just make the rules to suit you all.
Was talking to another couple about this earlier today. They shared their experience on the subject but I wanted to throw it out there to see what everyone else has experienced.
Recently we've connected with a new couple and the dialogue has been going well. We're setting up a date night for some time this month at our home. Now we've been hosting for a couple years now and absolutely love it! However, these people are nudists/naturists. So we suggested a nude first date. They loved the idea so we're doing it.
Ordinarily we make every effort to be good hosts. This includes excellent food/drink that caters to any allergies/diets, fresh towels/robes/slippers, bowl of sealed hygiene supplies in the bathroom, sparkling conversation and no pressure whatsoever toward sex. Things go wherever they go. We always want our guests/friends to feel as comfortable as possible. But when it comes to etiquette, what has your experience been of interweaving/combining nudism with the LS on a first date? Still hand out towels for sitting at the door? Still cover erections? Compliment or ignore breasts/butt/genitals?
We are super excited for the experience because we normally make such a fuss about what we're wearing. We joked with the other couple that it'll be refreshing to step out of the shower and be all ready for our date!! In keeping with tradition, we want everyone to feel comfortable and are curious to know your experience/advice on the subject.
Thanks!!
