GGMM yes, already I ran into a Husband getting angry with me for talking to another couple. I hadn’t met with either of them at that point. I just cut ties, I figured it was a bad sign. Most recently I’ve offended someone because I didn’t want to camp and fish with them. Unfortunately they interpreted as me looking down on them and were very ugly about it. I guess I need to make what I’m looking for more specific on my profile.
I think this is another example of unnecessary labels being applied.
Poly can be part of the kink community, but not all kinks are poly, nor are all polys kinks.
Some poly relationships are closed, others open.
And lets not even get into the concept of fluid bonded.
Wander over to the PolyMatchMaker site for a primer on poly. I used to be an active member, but don't go over there much anymore...
April, I don't know if this will help, but I've dated a fair number of couples without in any way curtailing my swinging activities. I've occasionally run into situations where people felt a sense of ownership over me, but that's easy to stop before it does more than raise its ugly little head.
OP - that's you, LiberatorGuy - there are poly and kinky people who feel at home in the swinging community. We're just a smaller subset. Plus, everyone is likely all talked out in the actual processing that successful poly requires. If you don't already attend a poly munch, where you can discuss to your heart's content, check the poly offerings in Meetup.
Can you explain is the difference please. I thought poly situations mainly were committed to one another. For example Husband/wife/SF. But if the Husband and the wife then swing, are you sayin the SF is expected not to inorder to be a poly relationship? If so I think that is very unfair (especially since I’m a single female).
I'm without adult supervision,so everything I say may or may not be complete and total BS,proceed with caution.
Yes you can find poly in the swinger community still,but imo,it's been stolen by the kink community,slowly but surely,bit by bit,under the cover of darkness,when nobody was looking.
It wasn't even really that hard,barely even a struggle to say the least,didn't even justify using our favorite restraints or ropes for the kidnapping.
It was just sitting in the corner of the community, used and abused by all the couples over the years, who only wanted a way to land a unicorn,without fully understanding the wants and needs of poly.
She had rules,the swingers broke them,now she belongs to us,and we ain't giving her back,for any amount of bubblegum or gummy bears,so don't waste your time.
But because we are such close neighbors,and our paths cross often when we hitch up the buggy and go into town,we will allow visitation on occasion,just during visiting hours,and no overnights.
I will even leave the curtain pulled back just a crack if you just wanna stop bye and take a peek to see how she is doing.
You have my word,we are taking good care of her,stop over at a kink website or event to say hi and see for yourself
Why are there not more options available to identify as polyamorous.
What recommendations can you share to help improve polyamorous discussion and understanding. I would love feedback.
Cheers
