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I've been in two long-term (5 to 10 years) poly relationships that worked very well. One ended when she met someone else, and the other because we moved. We are still good friends with both, and we all remember those times fondly.
Poly is short for polyamory. It is about multiple *romantic* relationships, not just sex, and not just several sexual relationships.
I'm interested in the Affiliate program. We're publishing some books that we'd be interested in selling here as well. How does one learn about the program, and sign up to participate? I can't find any Help topics or links that work from th…
We were polyamorous from the start of our relationship, and extended that into swinging about 7 years later.
When we had a poly relationship, we each had our own separate relationships with different people. That's the norm for most poly relationships. IMO, it's very difficult to find someone who will love you both and want sex with you both for…
Polyamory and swinging are totally different mindsets, with a very small overlap. We've done both. Our poly relationships lasted 7 to 10 years. Our swinging relationships ranged from one time to multiple encounters over a few years - but w…
For many years, my wife had a boyfriend she'd see occasionally, and sometimes we'd have a threesome; for awhile, she had two. I also had a girlfriend I'd see regularly, and sometimes we'd have a threesome with my wife.
Same or separate is fine, but my wife doesn't like the distraction of same room if the other couple is okay with separate rooms - as long as the rooms are adjoining/accessible to either of us.
I'd say that this is very possible. My wife and I both met long lasting (like 10 years) FWB on this site. They started as typical SLS dates or meet and greets and evolved from there. My FWB was a single woman, and hers was the guy from a c…
Sounds great to me as I'm poly, but preferably we wouldn't all live together all the time.
Why single? Why not married swingers where they can play separately? We do, and have on occasion - and never flaked on anyone.
We have both done this when we've been very comfortable with the person (and of course fully trust each other). If you have reservations, then don't agree. Perhaps you will eventually be fine with it, but it's okay if you never are.