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Polyamory Always Ends Up Badly

I've been in two long-term (5 to 10 years) poly relationships that worked very well. One ended when she met someone else, and the other because we moved. We are still good friends with both, and we all remember those times fondly.

What is the difference?

Poly is short for polyamory. It is about multiple *romantic* relationships, not just sex, and not just several sexual relationships.

Is affiliate program active?

I'm interested in the Affiliate program. We're publishing some books that we'd be interested in selling here as well. How does one learn about the program, and sign up to participate? I can't find any Help topics or links that work from th…

Polyamory Couples

When we had a poly relationship, we each had our own separate relationships with different people. That's the norm for most poly relationships. IMO, it's very difficult to find someone who will love you both and want sex with you both for…

Polyamory Couples

Polyamory and swinging are totally different mindsets, with a very small overlap. We've done both. Our poly relationships lasted 7 to 10 years. Our swinging relationships ranged from one time to multiple encounters over a few years - but w…

Wives that have boyfriends

For many years, my wife had a boyfriend she'd see occasionally, and sometimes we'd have a threesome; for awhile, she had two. I also had a girlfriend I'd see regularly, and sometimes we'd have a threesome with my wife.

Friends with benefits

I'd say that this is very possible. My wife and I both met long lasting (like 10 years) FWB on this site. They started as typical SLS dates or meet and greets and evolved from there. My FWB was a single woman, and hers was the guy from a c…

Any real guys in here?

Why single? Why not married swingers where they can play separately? We do, and have on occasion - and never flaked on anyone.

wife want's to spend night alone with lover

We have both done this when we've been very comfortable with the person (and of course fully trust each other). If you have reservations, then don't agree. Perhaps you will eventually be fine with it, but it's okay if you never are.