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Friends with benefits

Monroe, WA, Us

i am willing to give it the old college try? send me a birdie and i can connect with u and we can go from there... friends are best in the begining..room to grow I understsand about the bounderies and respect myself and always respect others.

Reno, NV, Us

I'd say that this is very possible. My wife and I both met long lasting (like 10 years) FWB on this site. They started as typical SLS dates or meet and greets and evolved from there. My FWB was a single woman, and hers was the guy from a couple. Alas, that ended when we moved away. In your case, you can look for single males or married men who can play alone as well as socialize.

Not sure if this belongs here but doesn't seem to fit anywhere else either. We're looking for a friend with benefits for my wife. The only benefit to me is seeing my wife enjoy a longer-term lover. She doesn't fit into the swinger category because she has to feel a connection with someone before she has sex with them. For her it's about quality not quantity.

We want a guy we could both hang out with, have discussions, go hiking, whatever. A man who will seduce her mind while respecting our marriage and my role in it. A man that can seduce her mind while respecting me will most certainly get her body. We aren't looking for three-way love. Just genuine friendship.

Are we chasing a unicorn that's having a pipe dream in Wonderland?

Probably. But a couple can dream can't they?