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Wedding Ring Poll

in Women Talk ·

If somebody decides on "B" or "C," we're not going to be interested. In the spirit of "it isn't cheating, if he watches," if the ring is a problem, there is shit going on behind the curtain that we want no part of... including the associat…

Messege History

in Website ·

If the developers have done their job properly, the resolution shouldn't matter. Another likely developer error is in not accounting for screen magnification. Not every user can read mice type at 100%.

Kinky?

in Getting Started ·

I think the best answer is that he/she/they are trying to tell you "something," but don't feel comfortable blurting it out for everyone to hear. Generally, my personal first thought would be "kinky" is something more rare or taboo than BDS…

Message flags

in Website ·

Another issue is with profiles that more than one person checks. A once-read profile should not automatically mark itself read. That should be left to the last reader.

Bulk Mail Attendees

in Website ·

One wonders if this feature is going to be deprecated. There is this new "My Wall" tab at SLS Home. That might be what you want, but since it seems to not be documented, how would one know? Anybody understand this new "feature?" I asked ab…

What if ??

in Website ·

Agreed, and well put. I'm really not looking for (or actually desiring) any new features until the current website is functioning properly. However, I do think I have a valid point and it really appears that people are listening to us, eve…

What if ??

in Website ·

I would love to give profiles the ability to filter out what they consider to be deal-breakers. IOW, those folks that are only interested in certain features of a person can select what they don't want to see. This is the way it would work…

Messaging

in Website ·

I'm not sure how to report this, but "the bird" just does what it wants to do. If it isn't there you might have messages, if it is there, you might not have messages. The message count doesn't relate to how many messages are there. Example…

Messaging

in Website ·

What I find particularly inexplicable is that these corrections, updates, improvements, whatever, are actually being done to the production website. Best practices scream that any changes that may affect the uptime and accuracy of a websit…

Messaging

in Website ·

Now, the message window is sticking open, after sending a message [and maybe without].

Swinger symbology

in Finding Playmates ·

Well, we're toying with the idea of putting up some flamingoes, a couple of large white rocks, a pineapple door knocker installed upside down, a gnome garden, a hot tub and fire pit in the garden, and some pampas grass at the driveway, jus…

Where are the older swingers

in Senior Swingers ·

Show me a place where they *are* represented! Every group, forum, meet & greet, and swinger venue we attend are skewed to the much younger generation. For a generation that practically patented Free Love, we have just crawled into the wood…