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Mayhem - I honestly believe that SMs don't realize how many of them there really are. It's local people, people traveling, and even people cheating! There are so many men on this site but they probably have SMs blocked so they wouldn't eve…
On the topic of "no reply is rude", we used to reply to every single male that messaged us. That ended when we continued to find that many don't like hearing no. We had posted a hot date for a Thursday night a little while back looking for…
These still going on these days? Irish yes they do, we have one coming up on the 26th of this month. I wouldn't classify it as "playing with anyone" but there's a pool party, then a club party, and then the top floor of the hotel is the pa…
Mayhem that was me, it's several comments down from here. So far the people we've been with in the LS have not said that, but our female half has said she wishes our other partners were bigger.
Cut only for our lady
Ymichael that's our approach, but I will say it's not in our profile as a "requirement". We don't want to deter people from talking to us thinking they're not good enough or big enough. An average penis size will do her just fine so we're…
Mayhem - there absolutely is and bigger is not always better that's correct. But when it's a good size and it's used right that's the ticket. Unfortunately for her if it's small it's just not going to hit some of the spots for her that sen…
BV you mention good experiences and it's interesting because we've been with couples where the male wasn't well endowed. Those experiences were not as good as the ones with those that are for her. It's not that we've cut that off or wouldn…
Just to clarify the wife likes them big, not huge. Yes, there's a difference. She's not looking for horse cocks or beer cans that's for sure!
Mayhem - I can see that, and it makes sense. We haven't heard it yet, but I guess the longer you're around the more you'll see and hear. It just so happens our female half loves big ones!
BV you sure have a way with words, that's for sure. While I tend to agree with you, especially the so called BIG DICK SM group, there's a couple other angles to consider. First, and it's been discussed on these forums heavily, what if the…
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Black Vulcan as I said, it may be wrong but that's how I read it. I wasn't referring to some kind of applause, but in the MFM dynamic the couple usually wants to get lost in each other and it came across as that not sitting well with you.…
Black Vulcan, while I understand your point of view as a SM, if I were a SM I'd probably feel the same way, your response is exactly why we won't welcome a SM to join us, at least not now. This is why we've chosen only to have the male hal…
because happily married men are far more likely to be emotionally well tended, which makes them far better partners, even if you don't factor in their experience as being part of a lifestyle couple. Molly, this is exactly how we feel and i…
The best single guys we have met have either been into it for years and/or formerly part of a lifestyle couple at some point. 2Much our exact experience so far in the LS and we've only been in for a year and a half now.
DB if they block SM there isn't much left as they have couples blocked as well. It would seem as though the only reason they're here is for SMs but have been disappointed.
YMichael I have no idea why they are so bad. For us the sheer volume of messages was overwhelming by itself. Then sorting through, trying to message back and forth only to find out they were cheating on their wives, it was time consuming a…
We ended up giving up on the SM front because the experience was so bad. Ultimately we have found it easier to find couples that play separately and have had several great experiences with that model. Our go to is couples, but it's nice to…
It's a yes for us! I love making her or our partner squirt!
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MandC agreed 100%! Kissing gets the juices flowing and elevates that sexual desire we are here for. It's a huge turn on for us because of the anticipation leading up to it and when you connect it pushes you over the edge from wondering to…
RonKathy thankfully we haven't run into that issue yet. But it would be a hell no especially from our girl half. She's kind of a tounge whore! Lol
Harry Potter
No kissing is an absolute deal breaker for us. I we can't kiss you we don't want to fuck you.
I'm always shaved downstairs, but I'd never shave my beard for anyone.
Also thanks for the compliment, they are nice and pierced!
Tiggrcat we had it open to SM for a few months and go way more stuff like Just said than nice guys. Then you wake up to 30+ messages and 50% of them are just hi or hey. I'm sure there are nice ones out there, but we opted to just find coup…
Just... Oh how we loved getting those kinds of messages. "I expect your response AND interest" Quite full of ourselves aren't we! Another reason we decided to keep SM blocked.
I would never want our profile to be accessed by a type of profile we have no interest in. I'm much more comfortable how it is today where you block SM then I would be if they could see us and just not message us.
Tiggrcat we hear that a lot.. Lol One it's mainly men operating the accounts so even though it's a women's forum you've got men responding.
"I'm guessing the hot red head's name is not Karen then.... otherwise that wouldn't be that weird." Her name is not Karen.. Lol. We wondered if it was a ploy for us to think he knew someone that looked like her to spur our curiosity
We got this one time By any chance are you Karen, not a Karen, actually Karen ??
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Harley that's exactly how our Mrs is, she wants to know what's coming! When there's no Pic of it in the private album it makes us think they're hiding something. She's been let down too many times when we went to play and it wasn't a good…
Mayhem, yes should have been "In" I'm more talking about when they say they're going to a club or event. Typically when someone is looking for a group or party that's stated
Beach that's crazy that people would say they don't want people that look like you in certain groups. Honestly if that's how they think I'd imagine you wouldn't want to be in that group anyway, and neither would we! The Ken and Barbie thin…
The old data and profile pictures are such an issue on this site. I love when you can see the phone the pictures and it's like a 15 year old phone. Another favorite is "New to this and finding our way" profile created in 2012 ??
Irish I was going to say the same thing. For couples like us that don't play separately it doesn't work. Hence the entire reason for the take on for the team agreement
How we look at "taking one for the team" is that if I'm really into the woman and she's not into the guy or vice versa then that couple is out. We would never have sex with a couple if both of us weren't into both of them. To answer the OP…
Physical attraction goes a long way, it opens the door, but so does a good personality. If the man is charming and can flirt then it changes the whole dynamic for us. She's definitely ready to play with a less attractive charmer than a sup…
@fifty won't play with a married woman either. There's hardly any women on here anyway, but there's a lot of men. But for us it goes both ways.
Pcbguy I don't think it's any difference than a preference. It's a classification or category that we choose to steer clear of. Also as Ron said, people can do some crazy shit when they find out information like this. I don't need a crazed…
Great list Fraun and thanks everyone for your input! We aren't interested in getting caught up in someone else's transgressions. We also have had the bad karma conversation and that's not something we want to chance.
We had our first MFM experience with the male half of a couple we play with, and it was awesome! Since then, we've opened up our profile to single males in hopes of finding a quality male to join us. We've been bombarded with messages, whi…
You're trying to find a needle in a hay stack. We are young and (we like to think) sexy and we can't even get a response from single women. Also take into account you appear to live no where near a major metropolitan area. The closest dece…
@Travelers thank you! Appreciate the compliment. We are pretty much only looking for other couples. We like the security of those in long term relationships like ourselves, and agree with all your points about being able to accomplish thos…
We considered SM at one point and opened our profile to them. We were bombarded with messages with little to no substance. Guys begging us to open our pictures, them saying Hi, that's it, every single day. Open SLS and we'd have like 30-50…
