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Perhaps they own another swinger site, and thy're trying to destroy this user base so that you don't have to honor the lifetime memberships? That is honestly the only logical explanation I have.

Agree with all these posts. And you force people to use IM, but we have to click "send" after every message, instead of just clicking "enter." How is it possible for a technologically challenged site like this to somehow get even more challenged after a major overhaul? Do you own another site, and you're trying to destroy this user base so that you don't have to honor the lifetime memberships? That is honestly the only logical explanation I have.

Gettysburg, PA

All we see is a blank screen with the circle that says loading in the middle.

At least for a little while we don't have to see the infamous "hey".

Fort Myers, FL, Us

Get rid of it and bring back the mailbox

tbrmskssVeteran
San Diego, CA, Us

I generally agree with the dissatisfaction expressed here.

However, this message is about the glitches in the IM.

1) All profiles without pictures show the couples avatar.

2) The red button with the numbers doesn't seem to update when you read a message.

Milton, FL, Us

This change was NEVER for the membership. It is for Management. Less services to maintain.
Nobody has said they like the change. Not one person.

New Orleans, LA, Us

@hotwife

You are 100% correct, SLS management simply doesn't care.

~Scamp

lcmimRegular
Milwaukee, WI, Us

888eatme888 ,

I am just trying to figure out how to contact PAID members now. Many of us hate IM.
The folks that I p[posted in such a baroque fashion are among those who do not even check IM's at all.

I am fairly certain that attempting to force people into a communication format that they do not like is a sound long term plan.
I am trying to do a little brainstorming.

Charles Town, WV, Us

lol I see a rebellion building.

~Allen

lcmimRegular
Milwaukee, WI, Us

RonKathy , Check your IM one last time.Please

Never could get IM to work. So now I can't get any mail ?

lcmimRegular
Milwaukee, WI, Us

Hotwife2play ,Please Check your IM. Mike

Butler, PA, Us

With over 8000 views and tons of comments in opposition to the change, it is clear that IT has made a big and very unpopular decision. The sad part is that they just don’t seem to care!

lcmimRegular
Milwaukee, WI, Us

ez_rider contact me

Mike

lcmimRegular
Milwaukee, WI, Us

ez_rider contact me

Mike

lcmimRegular
Milwaukee, WI, Us

Except for email that is LCMIM53208 on the predominant G rated mail system.

lcmimRegular
Milwaukee, WI, Us

We use this login universally. LCMIM

cacpl_26Regular
Santa Clarita, CA, Us

They took email away. It's only IM and video chat now.

CandBmnRegular
Badger, MN, Us

I would suggest adding 'Communication Preferences' that could be set, because we would really like to be able to DISable IM and Video chat.

If we had a CHOICE to receive IM, Video Chat, or Emails, then the site would work for everyone.

New Orleans, LA, Us

Agreed, missing the old mail service. People don't want to IM all the time. Sending a quality e-mail was the proper way of making a good impression when introducing yourself to new people. Sadly that option has disappeared :(

Cape Coral, FL, Us

I come from Old School I'm not in my early forties can you explain where us old people can understand?? 4k monitor??? Lol??

Fairfield, CT, Us

Seriously -- FULLY agree!

Terribly bad idea.

Part of our screening process is what people write in an email, how they write it, sincerity and thoughtfulness.

That all goes out the window with the IM plus the scaling is broken and the bottom gets cut off on a 4K monitor when the scaling is set to 200 percent. Not to mention you have to click the send icon, not just enter.

Cape Coral, FL, Us

As paying members or lifetime member- We should be able to choose.. plain and simple!