There's no fucking way you are this clueless about how to address non-consensual gropes. You let men do it??? Are you saying you don't ever have to fend off men doing it??? You asked this specifically to get attention over nonsense.
This is such a bullshit question, you needed post after post to try to defend the bullshit.
" Or, “bi curious.” It’s always funny to me to look at a guy’s profile and he’s listed as “bi curious” and in the forum he’s talking about how he’s a bottom and has been sucking dick for a decade. Same thing over on Bisexual Playground.
Like, dude. What is it going to take to make you click over from “curious” to “bi.” "
I attribute that to profile laziness. Similar to the ones that say "new to this", but have been around for over 10 years.
I don't believe for a moment that actually bisexual women are bypassing consent.
Anyway - this is a Women fora. I'll duck out.
I dont think anyone's said they aren't there, and I have had bi men come on to me.
But we've never been to any party or other event - except those at Pulse (before you know what happened) - where open bi-ness among men was obvious. We know they happen and have seen some advertised as such.
“ When we first went…”
Basically the same talk we got. I said “fuck it” and we’ve always advertised “as we are” not what the community is allegedly looking for.
My mailbox is still jumping.
“ You can say bi men are not at these parties, but the men with a mouth full of my cum will say different, or mumble different.”
Funly, they’re just “heteroflexible!” LOL
Or, “bi curious.” It’s always funny to me to look at a guy’s profile and he’s listed as “bi curious” and in the forum he’s talking about how he’s a bottom and has been sucking dick for a decade. Same thing over on Bisexual Playground.
Like, dude. What is it going to take to make you click over from “curious” to “bi.”
every party we go to, and I mean every party. there are bi men. Some out and some not. I am out at parties. I list as bi, I talk about being bi. The men find me. You can say bi men are not at these parties, but the men with a mouth full of my cum will say different, or mumble different.
When we first went to our very first lifestyle event, they had a "new couples" seminar where they explained some things. One of them was, and I quote:
"Female bisexuality is common and encouraged. Male bisexuality is....not. I'm saying it's not there or that you won't encounter it, but it's mostly something that goes on behind closed doors."
While that was 16 years ago, I think it's still true.
"For some reason, some women at clubs think that every other woman there is Bi."
Maybe because the Lifestyle has a problem with women being pressured into sex with other women. When my wife and I first got involved in swinging, I filled out our profile: I'm bi, and she's straight. We had a club owner tell us that we'd better switch those, or people wouldn't want us to come to the club, because (his words) "women in swinging are all bi, and the men are all super straight."
Glad to see i,m not alone in this....
Some women watch too much porn as well and think what they see is real. Every woman is bi and wants them.
GGMM ... so correct!!!!
"For some reason, some women at clubs think that every other woman there is Bi."
I'm bi. Still don't want to be groped and the sex of the groper is not relevant. Everyone needs to ask consent. I mean, if I was straight would that make it okay for a man to grope me? Of course not. (And, yes, I have been nonconsensually grabbed by women and then shamed them for doing so. Because that's some bullshit.)
Was going to say, yeah I have seen women grab and grope other women at clubs without asking. For some reason, some women at clubs think that every other woman there is Bi.
We have a friend who went to one of our area clubs with a female friend brand new to everything. This was at a pool party. Some female comes over and is talking to them outside the pool then she grabs his female friends boobs. His friend flipped out because she isn't Bi and when our friend said something to the woman about consent and asking, she says "Oh only you guys have to ask, we dont have to ask" ... Really WTF!!! .... so some women out there cause issues also.
Exactly Travelers... but makes our time on SLS that much better.. more people should use the block feature.
Now on another note : Happy Thanksgiving to all, enjoy family and friends as tomorrow is not promised to anyone !
"Esperenza......"
And the nutcase Esperanza will block another profile in 3, 2, 1, BOOM. Between the people they have blocked for calling them out or the people who blocked them for the crazy drivel, I suspect nearly 90% of the regular forum posters cannot even see their posts these days - LOL.
Esperenza......appearantly you don,t go to clubs, or your bi and don,t realize bad behavior because you think it's someone flirting w you.........you just have no clue.
Bad behavior will continue to occur as long as there are still people who deny that it occurs, or worse, think that it’s ok. I’ve been groped and kissed by women without my consent at clubs and events. It does happen, and it really needs to stop.
Without consent? Again - I do not believe you.
They do at the clubs......
I don't know how to be clearer - I do not believe for a moment that women are groping you without consent.
Esperna......every club we go to....I look younger then my age...lol.....its not the declining that's a problem....its the uninvited groping that a problem....
Asking the OP, once again --
What clubs are you going to where a 65 year old married straight woman is inundated with bi women?
You simply decline like you would any other invitation you're not interested in. Their disappointment is not your problem
