Pet Peeves

Windermere, FL, Us

Well here's something that doesn't happen very often. Couple's profile writes to us, has loads of pics of him. Just two of her in the private pics, and both tell me very little. I can confirm she has a right boob, a right hand, and a lower jaw.

RonKathyVeteran
Woodstock, GA, Us

Wow that says a lot about ones marriage step.. would not touch her until she grew it back..

Maybe rewrite your profile and mention short hair on woman is a NO NO...just wow!

Pass the popcorn !

Jjtexas11Regular
Henderson, NV, Us

Interesting. I suppose if you go bald or have something go on that affects your appearance turn about would be fair play and it’s all good if she doesn’t touch you until things are back to how they were when she met you.

I can see that you might have to spend $75,000 a year on a hairstylist like Trump at some point to maintain the facade and twirl those remaining hairs around your head.

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

In all my photos I got dressed in 30 min. or less....Mary Jo....

Lumberton, NJ, Us

I too feel that a short haircut (boy's cut) is not for every woman, just as a shaved head is not for every man. We've all seen many different hair styles, cuts, etc on both men and women and thought to ourselves... "well that's not a good look for them". But to each their own, if it makes you happy god bless ya.

Well except HFT he needs to keep his head in that bucket he's so fond of.

Santa Barbara, CA, Us

If you are going to demand that someone needs a dictionary, you might not want to use words incorrectly.

A woman's haircut is not in the dictionary as a definition of feminine.

But keep trying.

It's ok to have a preference.

I prefer women who have hair at least to their shoulders. Why? TO ME, few women have the facial structure that I find attractive to pull off the pixie haircut. That is my opinion, that is not factual. Some people like blue cars, some like red, some like black. There is no right color car, just like there is no right haircut to please everyone. Ultimately, there is only one and that is the one that the woman who has that haircut, likes.

8inchcableVeteran
Milwaukee, WI, Us

As for the comment knocking women with short hair, it came from a woman-hating dickhead.

Most of the room has seen who and what he is.

Jjtexas11Regular
Henderson, NV, Us

I tend to grow my hair out and then cut it all off. I’m always surprised when someone makes a remark about my gender identity or sexuality. Changing my hair doesn’t change me.

My mother had short hair and she gave me pixie cuts as a child to handle my wild hair.

As a teen, a grew my hair out and took an hour and a half per day styling it. If I had put that into my studies, I would have had a scholarship to go anywhere.

I have mixed feelings about long hair. When my hair is long and blonde and styled, at least when I was younger, I would turn heads. For me, it feels like a burden. My hair is shoulder length now and takes 45 minutes to blow dry smooth. If I don’t blow dry thoroughly and in small sections, my hair is a frizzy fluff ball.

The things we do to look attractive to men is time consuming. Exercise, makeup, preparing fresh veggies, shaving, and styling hair can easily take more than 3 hours per day. When I wear heels, I am exhausted and in pain at the end of the day.

Short hair and comfy shoes let me be about twice as productive. Think about how you might be out at a disadvantaged by being hobbled by these expectations to be “feminine.”

So many men expect women to meet feminine expectations (Not to mention the second shift at home) and then contribute equally financially. This seems to require twice the effort.

My femininity has nothing to do with my hair. I am female. The rest is just the bow on the package. Go ahead and throw away the gifts without the big double bows. Leave them for someone willing to take a minute to open the gift.

TallMark45Veteran
Tempe, AZ, Us

Why so many women don't care how they dress or maintain a feminine, sexy look after 30....Mary Jo

thn1045Regular
Bensalem, PA, Us

@rabbit aww, you do care and I appreciate that. Your "bless my heart" response is dripping with karen-esque essence and I've got nothing but love for you.

My peeve, my preference. Have a great day!

thn1045Regular
Bensalem, PA, Us

Look at you 8inch, trying to change the subject to racism. #Blexit #Lexit

Check out those groups for a new perspective.

8inchcableVeteran
Milwaukee, WI, Us

Thn,

Can you relate to the Proud Bois and The Boogaloos?

You don't feel the Jews will replace you, do you?

How do you feel about the Confederate flag on clothing, bumper stickers and rallies?

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

My wife had something weird happen quite a while back. She thought she had alopecia. Went to a dermatologist and they tried 6 rounds of cortisone injections in her scalp. By the last appointment she had given up and cut her hair off and we already had a couple of wigs for her. Can't blame her, because it was about 20 injections across her scalp each time.

Short story was that the doc said it was rare, but could actually be a yeast infection. She had to take a pill once a week with grapefruit juice. By the second week, her hair was noticeably growing back and by the end of the treatment, it came back thicker than it ever had in her life. At this point she already had short hair and we both found that it looked better on her. She got (and still continues to get) lots of compliments on her hair.

While I am of course very happy for her, the wigs made her look so different that the thought I could be fucking a different girl every night of the week without cheating had cetainly entered my mind. Conversations like, "No hun, I had the blonde last night. I'm in the mood for the redhead tonight" came to mind. She does use the wigs occasionally at Halloween.

hotluvrsVeteran
Jeffersonville, IN, Us

Woohoo, found another profile to block!

New Orleans, LA, Us

That7,

In this age of The COVID, could you please stop giving the single guys ideas like that?

BT

...now, where’s that Sinead O’ Connor wig?..

that7girlRegular
Clyde, NC, Us

Apparently women are supposed to attire as though all they do is pose for pictures. Being comfortable, meanwhile, has everything in the world to do with being sexy. You could buy a sex doll and dress them and put on a wig of your choosing.

Carlisle, PA, Us

This thread demonstrates that everyone's biggest peeve is that others have peeves.

Under cuts and short hair on a woman though..... yeah.

New Orleans, LA, Us

Aw sweetie, I thought I made it clear that, as a woman, I didn’t care about what you think. You’re just another annoying gnat that thinks it’s ok to body shame.... bless your heart.

I used the correct word. I don’t expect you to accept it. Misogynists, like racists, rarely think they are one.

~rabbit~

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

It's interesting how people can get "peeved" over the way someone else looks. I mean, why should we care?

That said, when guys with size 30 waists were wearing size 38 pants so they could let them hang halfway down their butt, I'd always think about how stupid it looked.

As guys get older, this kind of stuff can be even more annoying. Google "IMS men". Just something to watch for, I guess ;-)

New Orleans, LA, Us

8inch- I don’t like that one at all. Sure, geographically, that would be beneficial to my “cause“, but I’m hung up on the historical connotation.

BT

NOLA - a happy dot of blue in a sea of red

thn1045Regular
Bensalem, PA, Us

@rabbit - we need to get you a dictionary. If you're going to name call, come up with a correct one.
A misogynist is someone who dislikes women. Females who look like men, aren't "women," they're failing in trying to physically identify as men.

I like women who try to identify as feminine. It's that simple. And real men can't be cyber-bullied into accepting the politically-correct bullshit of the day. Enjoy all those dude-looking, polyester pants wearing types you like. One or two with a pretty face doesn't offset the 99% we all know when we see them and they do a discredit to the term femininity.

mayhem8Veteran
Auburn, NH, Us

It's one thing to have a preference for a certain hair length. It's another to be "peeved" by it. I used to be one that liked long hair on a girl, but some actually look as good or better with short hair. My wife is one. Halle Berry is an example of someone that really rocks a short hair style. Then again, she could probably look sexy wearing a potato sack ;-)

8inchcableVeteran
Milwaukee, WI, Us

You mean the Mason-Dotard Line.

tbrmskssVeteran
San Diego, CA, Us

You could use the Mason-Dixon line...