See what you define as classy and what I define as classy are two separate things. Classy to me is someone who is rich, well dressed, educated, has nice things like cars and a nice house, likes fine wines and fine dining.
To you classy is getting dressed up and going to a local steakhouse.
Whew! I was scared there for a moment since I live in a small east Texas town.
95% rednecks on here? I guess we have been lucky bc we've met a lot of professional and classy people.
Looks like you’re planning to ride this into the ground like Slim Pickens in Dr. Strangelove.
Bless your heart.
BT
About 95% of the people on here are redneck
A red neck is a person that is unprofessional. They don’t know how to dress for the occasion. They are normally cheap. They live in a lower ended neighborhood and usually rent cause they can’t afford a house. Normally ride motorcycles and like to go four wheeling.
Have you ever heard Jeff Foxworthys jokes?
Curious... how do you define who is a redneck?
If you live in NC or SC and you want to meet people go to Myrtle Beach or Gatlinburg. The rednecks love it there.
@8, he would fuck that up too. I'm sure of it.
@8incable
I don't think he would be very successful as a cuck due to the whole topping from the bottom issue.
Overeducated is right. If I was to write a message as I was having a conversation it would be short and I would wait for a response back. For example: Good evening, my name is Johnny nice to meet you. You both look great this evening. Now I would expect the couple to say something. That approach doesn’t work.
You really should promote yourself as a Single Cuckold.
That's the exent of your capabilities in this here lifestyle.
Go buy a gold cockcage and lock for your dick, and exploit your niche and abundance of wealth.
Erotic Amazon - the south is not like it was when you were here. No city or place is like it was 20 some years ago. If you don’t believe my BBC theory there are a few on here that reply like Holly Blue that has met with the famous 10inchgentlemen (look him up). Which proves my point.
8inch - get that beanie off your head. It’s spring time for crying out loud. See you are successful cause you are African American and have an 8 incher. That’s My point.
Phoebert - since I only have days left I opened all blocks. It’s a free for all now. Bring it on!
CK Jordan - see all these people tell me to do certain things and they all backfire. The message I shared I actually got pieces of it off Reddit since the guy had success with it. See I tried the conversation message and that got me no where so I have tried alternatives and still got me nowhere. Couples will message and then they fall off the face of the earth.
HolyBlue - I have no idea what you are talking about.
Eroticamazon - I am sorry your message doesn’t make any sense. My message is not even remotely close to the ones you shared. I don’t even mention anything close to what you shared. Not sure where you were going with it other than sharing the messages you get from single males.
The OP is a Dickhead! Simple and plain.
Couldn't get laid in a whorehouse in Tijuana or the Phillipines if he had money hanging out of his pockets.
The Lifestyle ain't for every swinging dick or open vagina.... OH2 is the prime example and proof thereof.
CKJordan - you only think this thread went off the rails because you didn't see the multitude of previous posts by OH2NY2NC - this is actually fairly tame for a thread he's involved in. He has an extensive deleted history in the SLS forums and a reputation that few can forget. He's blocked some and many have blocked him so he doesn't get as many responses as he used to.
@OH
I am glad you know everything and have it solved.
I am curious though . . . have you ever felt you have been wrong in your life? That is a rhetorical question. I think I know the answer.
But considering I am a little bored, let's break things down into reality for you. First off, don't tell me the south bullshit. I am from the south. We have been in the lifestyle for over 25 years and 18 of them have been in CA. So we are very well versed and experienced on this subject matter.
Let's start with very simple math:
There are 100 couples.
How many of the couples are interested in a SF? How many of the couples are interested in a SM? While this is not scientific, you could probably expect at 75% would be interested in a SF. Yes, it's true, it is not 100% Now, how many couples are interested in a SM? The answer is probably about 10 and honestly, that may be a reach.
Now let's look at the makeup of swing sites. If there are 100 couples, how many SM profiles are there? Probably 50. If there are 100 couples, how many SF profiles are there? Probably 3.
So now go back to what people are looking for. You have 85 couples coming after the 3 SF's. You have 10 couples who are interested in SMs. Now out of those 10, how many PURSUE it. Being interested is much different than pursuing. That number maybe 2 or 3. In our time in the lifestyle, we have met TWO couples, out of over a thousand, that all they do is go after SMs.
So when you show up, you are already in a very crowded field. Those that pursue have a plethora of choices. They, in essence, are at McDonalds and get to choose from the menu items! So how you present yourself is how you get your foot in the door.
I am not exaggerating, there are probably well over 100 messages in the 'new mailbox' from the last 3 months that are from SMs. How many have we responded to? Maybe 5. Why? Here are some of the opening messages (and yes, most of these are 2+ hours away.)
Hi there. Are you guys into sensual massages?
Hi there, just saw your profile. What an exotic couple !! Would enjoy meeting you guys. I've been a Bull for many years and many relationships. Nothing better than pleasing the beautiful wife with hubby's permission. Get back to me.
What a good looking tasty ass she has would love to tounge fuck her asshole
How’s your night
Hello how you guys doing I’m a single male looking for some fun I’m not a fake profile picture hasn’t been uploaded due to pending from site
hello there
Hi, If I am in Santa Barbara can I cum by with a bottle of wine and fun with you guys? I am fit, with a wild imagination, stamina + and not bad on the eyes. Built for fun and know how to please and please again and again in many wa
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Again, no response from us. They suck at messaging. Probably 90% of the time the couple you are messaging, the MALE is the one seeing it and screening it. What are you doing to make him feel comfortable to go to his wife and say, "Hey, this guy may be a fit for us?"
This is why I said, you would NEVER use that message as an opening line to start a conversation with a woman or couple at a club.
They are there to have sex, but they are not compelled to have sex with YOU.
Holy hell this discussion went off the rails quickly. Like I said before a great attitude and confidence in yourself as a person goes a long way. Not going to say it's the only thing, but it's a start. Concentrate on what things you are able to change.
"OH, not sure why you are stuck on..."
Oh, that part's easy: because it gives him a convenient excuse for his lack of success. If it's because he's not Black, then it couldn't possibly be that he's pretty much a complete killer of any lady boner ever.
OH, not sure why you are stuck on your bbc fetish. The black or IR parties you reference are great for ladies who don't do ff play because they focus on mf play. With that being said they are no different than parties that focus on other interests, preferences, or kinks. Would a lady who is a QOS have any interest in any white single male? Probably not, but she makes up a very small percentage of women out there. To your point: single white, hispanic, and asian men do also go to IR parties and they do play at them. They understand their odds of playing are lower with most of the ladies and couples there. However, the ones who carry themselves well play.
And like I have said numerous times before show me one single males profile on here that is successful and what he sends to a couple as a message. Feel free to send to my inbox. I am not buying it. The guys here are the BBC gentlemen. And I can’t compete with that.
Eroticamazon - to be honest what do I have to offer than any of these other single men out here? Absolutely nothing. I am not built, I don’t have abs of steel, etc. I used your joke recommendation and that failed. Almost got one person. He said my wife like a man with a sense of humor. Crickets and I am still hearing crickets.
This is all a big joke at the end of the day. I have tried it all and nothing works.
