Cum too quickly

Tallmark - "I would be way too popular in jail the way i dress."

...and how would that be bad? ;-)

I limit to myself one drink, (beer) if out, I would be way too popular in jail the way i dress..

Old resurrected thread, but for me, one word....alcohol. I've been experimenting lately and found that I cum earlier than I prefer if I don't drink at all. Too much and I have a hard time cumming at all.

The sweet spot is like 2 - 3 weakish drinks (Captain's/Diet) and I'll easily last 30 mins or more. My alcohol tolerance is kind of high so it's nothing for me to drink a half dozen or more over the course of an evening. It's one of the reasons we avoid cash bar type parties, because the Mrs can also keep pace with me if she's in a drinking mood. It's a guaranteed $100 bar tab unless the drinks are super cheap, which they usually aren't. Pisses me off because the markup is like 10x the cost. Ridiculous.

If there is no coffee/tea at a party and I have to drive, I'll switch to straight diet Coke about an hour or 2 before we have to leave.

I was having the same problem. Finishing too soon. I got a script for Sertraline (generic zoloft) from Roman. It really is working well. It takes about 3 or 4 weeks to see the results though. I would definitely recommend it.

You cum too soon, and then you go after you've refreshed, then you last longer, isn't that the best.

IMO, 8inchcable has the best healthy, long term natural solution. I practiced edging when I was younger. It works as a jacking off exercise to build up resistance. But, I found that it can cause some not so happy endings for myself during intercourse if I missed the "one time too many" moment. At this point I would lose some of my erection if not all of it. If I did ejaculate, at all, it was not as good as desired. I then started to look into Tantra. This too can work. The issue I struggle with is the time and effort it took to achieve the level of control I was looking for. Don't get me wrong, I love me some good sex, and Tantra can deliver, but I got other stuffs to do. Career, kid, house... Let's just say it gave new meaning to lifestyle that I didn't have the capacity for. It did however, give me enough take away and awareness of myself to realize that just simply being healthy and in control of my entire body improved my abilities to an un-measurable amount.

If you are looking for a sexy time exercise, start paying some ultra focused attention to your breathing. Control every breath from beginning to end. Steady, deep, unlabored breaths will help you have some more control in the moment. This is not just a sex exercise BTW. I found that the success it gave me was enough to practice it normal day to day activities.

I just picked up something called "mate" only been a few days so haven't had any effects yet. At 35.00 per month I'll give it a couple months to see if it help prolong.

Changing your diet, more cardio, cutting down on the booze and cigarettes play a factor.

And, believe it or not, proper amount of sleep and water help you get and maintain erections.

As someone had written earlier my recharging system isn't what it was either.

My answer is to fuck more. I fuck twice a day and have to really concentrate to cum.
I can last for hours.

Has anyone else tried the Tong Balm that was mentioned?

Tong balm from adam and eve, went from a one minute man to some times not able to cum, used too much. Does not numb , you still feel everything but you sometimes have to work for the orgasm. Wore the wife out a few times when using this stuff

Exploring,

See your doctor about trying viagra or cialis. Many guys have mentioned that they take longer to cum when uses those drugs.

I kind of have the opposite issue. I take much longer time to cum once I reached age 50. But, once I cum it takes me hours to reload. So, most of the time I don't let myself cum at parties until I know I'm ready to leave. But, I do make sure I make the ladies cum....hehe!

Im 37 and have this issue along with having trouble reloading

I don't typically have any issue cumming too early. I can usually go for hours. But, what I do have issues with.... is I have a very long to come back after cumming. That's probably why I got good at going a long time. If I want the experience to continue, I have to hold off and not cum. Because the second I cum, girls and sex becomes "icky". And it takes a good hour or more for me to get back into it. I'm trying to train myself to recover quickly. Stay in the moment. Especially at an orgy or something.... stay on the bed or in the room. Touch and play, even if I'm not into it and learn to get into it.

I'm working on it!

I either cum too quick or can't cum at all. I miss that time when you could just release when you felt the moment was right.

I really didn't mean to piggy back on your post Allen it just happened that you were quicker to post than I was.

I guess I was edging my submit finger a bit.

Thanks, I wasn’t sure if he was smart enough to get my drift.

~Allen

"what is edging"?

Cut and pasted for you:

In a sexual context edging is kind of like playing chicken with an orgasm. It refers to a sexual activity when you bring yourself or a partner right up to the point of orgasm but then pull back on the stimulation just before release, and then repeat the process.

Backing off when you get “that” feeling. It can help with needing to relearn tolerances.

~Allen

What is edging?

Wish I had that problem......

I know it feeeeeeels soooo gooooood to release, but try edging.

~Allen

Does any other guys in thier 50s have this problem. My wife used to like to jerk me off in the shower. Now I come way too soon. Any fix for this?