Why no responce

I agree, all good points. I believe these thing's happen to everyone.

Well for us, reading profiles and sometimes just the way the profile is written it takes a couple time. There are a few no a lot where we like the way the pic is taken. Then there are some we want to meet but it is just not the correct time in life

Well for us, reading profiles and sometimes just the way the profile is written it takes a couple time. There are a few no a lot where we like the way the pic is taken. Then there are some we want to meet but it is just not the correct time in life

Our top (notes) we use often are...Bi male, No match, No male pics, No pics at all, COVIDiots, No thx, Tall, Smokers. This way we don't waste anyone's time.

Yes it's just for you and it's on their profile page. Saves a lot of time.

I haven't tried notes.
Is it just a note to yourself, no one else sees it?

Explorer - I also make use of the Notes. It is a nice feature of SLS.

I send an ice breaker and if they don't respond I put it in the notes. I haven't blocked anyone. Life happens and while I have never stood anyone up or ghosted anyone it does happen to me a lot. The notes keep me from wasting time, mine and theirs. And if I'm lucky enough to get a response I always reply.

After the 3rd time we block em. We get enough views & messages besides the ghosting.

I also suspect that there's a regional thing going. When I lived in Texas, I got quite a lot of response, even if it was "no thanks". Lots of friendly folks who liked to communicate. Plus, there wasn't as much ghosting after one or two messages.

But here in California? It's a virtual wasteland. For some reason, people here are inexplicably incapable of recognizing how fucking awesome I am. shifty eyes

So I just shrug and move on, with no hard feelings. Everyone's entitled to their own desires, and if they don't include me, well, I can't help it if they're wrong. :)

We have the full schedule thing impact us a lot, but if someone were to write to us, I would let them know that there was interest (if there was) but we're just weeks out from being able to meet.

I DO try to be cognizant of that and not continually look at someone's profile though when I know our dance card is full for a while. We're also not big picture people, meaning we're OK with just seeing g-rated pics to see if there's interest in meeting and no need to keep looking at their profile/pics once we've determined that.

Maybe they don't feel like a good match, but really enjoy the OP's photos?

That's not a fake. That's just someone who isn't interested in contacting you right now. Happens all the time, and it's really not worth getting upset over. If it bothers you, then block them. If not, then don't try to force it by contacting them again, let them make the next approach.

There's a small chance that they actually have some interest, but aren't looking to make contact at this time. Perhaps they're on a short break from playtime, or they have a full schedule in vanilla life, and they don't want to make contact until they can be sure that they have time available to do meets. Personally, I don't block people for that because I want to leave the door open, just in case. Not everyone is comfortable with that and that's okay, do what feels right for your situation.

Happens all the time, it doesn't bother us. If it's a single guy doing it over and over we might block them.

I look at a couple profiles occasionally when I see them where the wife is exactly my type and I know damn well my wife isn't interested in the husband. Could be something like that or maybe you mention something in your profile they have no interest in but think y'all are sexy and just wanna perv the pics

Just block them

Every so often you come across a profile who constantly view your profile. So in return you view there's. There is interest so you send a message. To your surprise there is no answer.
A few days pass and once again they view your profile.
Is this another definition of a fake?