I agree with most of what you said. However I will say that I don't take a lot of pictures of myself and as a single it's not always easy to get photos of me, especially candids.
I suspect if I went through my phone now there are at most 3 pictures of me. And as much as I try my cat cannot figure out how to operate my camera app.
@MNJFLA this lifestyle is not what it used to be people do not keep up with their photos or their profile some have stopped meeting people online and just meeting people at swingers events.
@Balloffun hopefully you got up in the wrong side of the bed the day you answered these people. How dare you!
Quit bitching about photos.
Blah, blah, blah - stop it
Totally agree.. we see those with no effort in the profile photos, the wording, etc are lazy elsewhere in a real meet (boring) and in bed !
So as we tell many your profile and photos are your swinging resume.. and sorry you did not make our cut! Not playing games as so many here do!
We can go out to our local dance venue and pick up people weekly!
Totally agree with you.
We typically have 10-100 photos available to be viewed. Face, bikini/bathing suit, nude and action. This site is about initial physical attraction, so we try to post upfront pics that let any viewers tell if they are interested. Yet, in return, we get messages from so many others that have none, few or blurred/covered pics that make it impossible to tell if we are interested.
She is a Hotwife/Unicorn so she gets a lot of messages from single guys (we encourage them) showing few pics or pics with them surrounded by dirty laundry, messy rooms, background of toilet seats and tidy whities around their ankles. We politely respond that this is their "resume" and sloppy pics 1) dont attract her and 2) indicates a lack of effort - which doesnt attract her either.
When guys ask why the site isn't working for them, the first thing we discuss is quality of their pics.
