How tough finding 4-way connection?

Finding a match first starts with a good profile and some public pics of both of you. Doesnt have to be face pics if that is your concern but have updated pics for initial viewing is important.
Realistic expectations is next. We like to consider ourselves as a good looking couple but that is our opinion and that might not be shared by others. Get comfortable with that.
Lastly its hard enough to connect with another person let alone three others. Thats reality. The women here in sls set the rules so if she doesnt connect with the other guy then youre done. Respect that. This has happened to us many times because honestly no one shoukd take one for the team.
Final thought is you need to get out to events and network. There is much more to a person than a pic. Personality and chemistry go a long way. No get out there. lol

Duck, you have an uphill battle with a straight wife. The majority of couples will pass on you all simply for that reason. The key when meeting with a couple is to not try and push or try too hard. If there isn't a natural connection then there isn't one. You all just have to get out and meet people and not rely on the internet which will mostly just frustrate you.

We've had fairly good success over the years. If you have common interests/hobbies/occupations outside the lifestyle it makes things easier. With some of our friends we don't have much in common besides good conversation & great sex. ;-)

Personally, if we match with a couple enough to get to actually meeting, it's very rare for us not to find it easy to develop a 4-way connection. I get the impression we are the exception though.

We actually had one new couple tell us we spoiled them. They told us we made it seem way easier to develop a 4-way connection than what they experienced after meeting us.

Probably over-simplified, but we find that people want others that they can see themselves doing things with in and out of the bedroom, even if you never do anything outside of the bedroom with them. We have so many varied and fun interests, it's hard NOT to find some common ground with people we meet.

What’s your thoughts? What’s your experience?

How much work does it take to find a good matching couple?