Its what has happened to swinging. Most people are to fat to enjoy sex. The meida has pounded fun sex or sex for fun is evil and that has taken root. The taking or any kind of risk no matter how small is now scary to most people as the TV has become their sudo risks.
The meida has made being a individualist a bad thing in America.
Sometimes people don't want to meet outside of a club, party or meet & greet environment with new people. You're new, give it some time. We've met couples in all settings but usually prefer to meet new couples in a vanilla setting for drinks. Then if there is interest all around move it to one of our places if we're nearby or get a room or arrange a playdate soon after. Vanilla settings are less noisy & distracting & you can sense compatibility better in our experience.
We thought we wanted to take the route of meeting couples outside of club where we can have drinks and get to know each other then have a very nice hotel to play. We talk to several couples and everyone want to meet until it’s time to actually meet. It always fizzles out. I don’t know if people want to have internet relationships, if they are picture collectors, the thought Is what gets them off or if we are doing something wrong. Any advice on profile, how to get through this etc... is appreciated. Or, do we just need to hit the clubs?
