Almost done with this.

Newtotrydvcguy34Couple288 - "Pictures and wording were up. Membership Is expiring as I deleted most of it"

What does this mean? Since it was expiring, you put effort into deleting things from your profile?

Many come here thinking it's going to open the flood gates to the LS by putting up a profile. If all of the effort was online only and not trying to seek out parties or create/respond to Hot Dates, then it's very likely people will be disappointed.

Of all the groups (Couples, SMs, SFs), SMs will definitely have more hoops to jump through to have success here. The online-only game has a slim chance of success. Even couples can have a hard go of it.

BTW - It took us a good 6 months to a year to get any traction in the LS, but we quickly learned that relying on only online interactions was likely to end in frustration and failure, and that is as a couple. You've been here 3 months, and you're a SF, so not sure what you were expecting.

Pictures and wording were up. Membership
Is expiring as I deleted most of it

No photos and a single sentence per profile section shows a distinct lack of effort. Couples and single ladies have better prospects

Old thread but I am in same boat. Letting this expire

I prefer the term FOSTA Gotterdammerung. Because it makes me sound all smartified and cultured.

No, not the kind of culture you get at the free clinic....

Oh, I rue the day of the Fosta La Vista...

I hear ya... ;^D

re:Tramp

Agreed, and realized what you said before I even hit Submit on that post. It definitely was a VERY rare thing and the specifics of why it happened in this case are easy to understand.

The couple did eventually find volunteers, but not everyone can or wants to play in a public room and of course there are others that have no interest in participating in a GB. May not ever see that happen again and was just surprised I got to witness it at all.

@Mayhem: Fair enough, but....

There is a huge difference between getting a gang bang together and a hot woman simply trying to find a guy who'll fuck her. I can easily see a gal having some problems getting the former to happen at a crowded LS club, but not the latter.

There are plenty of guys who have no interest at all in participating in a gang bang, I am one of those.

I'm not saying this senario is impossible to ever occur, but I'm saying that I've never witnessed it. I'll also say that for ever one event like this that ever happens, I'll show you a thousand (or more) where it didn't.

Intoit, we enjoy going there but it is a bit of a haul for us (over an hour and a half) . Lots of fun though and it’s great to tailgate in the field used for parking. Starting to think it would make a great meet and greet.!

re: Have any of you ever been at a lifestyle club where a hot chick was going around and asking all the guys to fuck and they just said no?

Since you asked, as strange as it sounds, Yes, I have actually witnessed this.

A VERY hot girl wanted to be gang banged in the public room at a large house party we go to and her male half was trying to recruit guys that wouldn't. However, the issue was simply that some of the guys selected did not feel comfortable doing this in the public room and would have gladly done it in a more private setting. The couple with the GB girl enjoyed being watched, so the public room was their preference.

FWIW - I was not asked because I would have been all over that...lol

Wife and I team rope ,never went to cowtown a little to far and a lot of top ropers compete there it's a Pcra sanctioned event

Speaking of Cowtown, here in South Jersey there is a weekly rodeo that goes down by the name of Cowtown. It’s one of the oldest weekly rodeos in the country. The are around the rodeo is pretty well very rural and if you didn’t know you were in New Jersey and within 15 Miles of the Delaware Memorial Bridges you would swear you were in Texas some place.

I guess this would be a fun fact.

Oh, no, true. I see the name "Andrew" and my eyes glaze over, so I missed that part. I was responding to what looked like an extension of yesterday's post.

Carry on. ;-)

Fair enough, but my position doesn't change.

Bottom line, if it ain't happening, it ain't because she wants some dick but the single males are just being too picky...as Andrew would have us believe.

Not in this life, sowwy.

You're probably right, Tramp, but I've been the woman who didn't let something go all the way and it wasn't because of resistance to the general idea. So, no drama, just...only into some things that night and not others.

"I still had a big time LOL at the posts from single men being all picky over such an obviously hot woman who wants some dick."

This is where the problem is to begin with. The "hot chick" doesn't "want some dick" any more than Andrew does. If she did, then she would have gotten "some dick" any time she pleased.

If Andrew had been sober enough to actually read any of the OP's dialogue here he would have noticed that, among other clues, that the OP's hot chick was at a club where things went well...but not "all the way." Why didn't they go all the way? Simple, because the hot chick didn't want them to.

Have any of you ever been at a lifestyle club where a hot chick was going around and asking all the guys to fuck and they just said no?

Drop the damn mike...

“You either won't, or can't keep a woman around, so shut up.”

Says the guy who is so miserable in his marriage he creates profiles with other women in order to get admitted to clubs and events.

~S~

I didn't see the profile before it was updated, but it doesn't matter.

I still had a big time LOL at the posts from single men being all picky over such an obviously hot woman who wants some dick. Really, muhfukkahs? Get a fucking girlfriend and rejoin the lifestyle as real swingers. You either won't, or can't keep a woman around, so shut up.

Best. Answer. Ever.

Southswing, I really like the changes to your profile and think it will make a big difference in who you attract. Nice job.

"Aren't you the guy who hates pet names?

Hypocrite."

Oh, all right, you can add that to the list.

Smile and assume the position.

Definitely an improvement. Thank you for taking the advice and applying it, that is quite rare here.

Perhaps now that your profile is clearer about what you seek you should post a Hot Date and see what kind of response you get.

Good luck finding the right guy. I would be shocked if you don’t, she is quite sexy!

~S~

You are in "Cowtown" I promise you are not going to run off any of the locals with a pic of a "scarey" gun. You limit yourself more with the Smooth Shaved comment. (If you are talking about facial hair, it's not clear).

"If she responds to..."

Aren't you the guy who hates pet names?

Hypocrite.

Profile was updated, let’s see what happens. Thanks for the input