More couples with Bi men

@hiway, we get the same thing.

Of all our encounters, 90% of them are bi couples or bi singles. Sure, we can play straight as well, but the fun is when we hook up with bi couples or bi singles.
Many of the messages I get are males claiming bi, but when I offer to meet them before inviting them into our 3some, they balk. Or they claim they're only bi in a 3some. What????

We get a lot of contacts from the bi pretenders also. All they want is time with my wife. They will say anything to try and get that.

I am versatile bi and can be in a MM encounter alone or with her just watching or joining in. I can be MMF or MFM, however while seeking a BiWM, we get responses by guys listing as straight and delete. If a guy is not truly bi, we are not interested when looking for a bi guy to join in or play. We don't need a helping hand to guide me in or lube me up. True bi guys are able to play with another guy without needing a woman around or involved, our opinion. If you just want to play with my wife but claim you are bi, don't bother contacting us. If you are really bi, it does not mean it will be a guy fest either. Honesty is best.

gomer - "A bi man won’t freak out if you take hold of his cock to guide it into her pussy, or spread lube on his cock to help her take the extra cock if she doesn’t have as much natural lube because of age."

Not all straight guys would either, so long as the focus was on satisying the woman, but I do get it being more of a no brainer if the guy is Bi. I do also know that some wives get turned on by seeing their guy play with other guys, so that would pretty much disqualify me. Even if I did allow it, there'd be no point when it's so blatently obvious that someone just wasn't aroused by that kind of play. Just a case of you like what you like.

@Gomer. You describe a handful of activities here (pun intended) involving m/m contact. Interested in hearing if you, and others, think all those activities are “bi”?

Bi does not have to mean you are going to be romantically attached to a man, or have to be turned on looking at a man. It just gives freedom when sharing your wife to not worry about who gets touched. A bi man won’t freak out if you take hold of his cock to guide it into her pussy, or spread lube on his cock to help her take the extra cock if she doesn’t have as much natural lube because of age. If she asks a bi guy to help her suck cock, not a big deal. My wife is turned on by me touching the other man’s cock. Bi adds extra pleasure channels to the time spent pleasing all involved.

hiway - "...much more enjoyable when the guy is bi. It opens many more freedoms!"

Just how many freedoms depends a lot on the guy. For example, I personally would be OK with doing a DP, DVP, or even a guy licking a girls clit while I fuck her. I definitely enjoy being 1 of X guys focused on pleasing a woman. There are guys that wouldn't be comfortable with any of that.

Not being Bi, I have no idea if getting your cock sucked by a guy is somehow more erotic (taboo?) than getting it sucked by a girl. I have seen Bi couples both work on a single guy and they looked like all were having fun. There's a big difference in being repulsed by seeing a guy do oral on another guy versus it just not doing anything for him.

While I'm not sure if I see more couples with Bi guys, I do see more acceptance of bi guy play in general.

We both list as bi....and if we encounter couples or singles that have preferences, we can play as either.....but much more
enjoyable when the guy is bi. It opens many more freedoms!

I agree Onelyph, I’m not gonna lie. I list as bi because I am. I’m sure a lot of people skip over our profile because of that. And that’s fine, but I can tell you a lot and I mean ALOT of guys married and non married listed as straight will contact wanting to meet in private.

We found that as listed bi even bi curious can be a deal breaker but we won’t change and just being honest

Have gotten way more contacts and enjoyable play after changing our profile to both interested in bi play. Lots of straight males listed that want biay with and without their wife.

Hello sexy people, my wife is bi selective, I post as straight. Whenever we have sex in a group setting I look at men's cocks and wonder how they would taste. I have not posted as bi-selective as I am afraid of turning off potential couples. What is everyone's opinion and how did it go for you? Wheat is your advice.?

My wife (now ex wife) started swinging in 2002. I had no bi desire at all.
In 2005 she said she wanted me to with a guy while she watched.
We went to house party and she had discussed to the host couple her fantasy of me with another guy.
He came into the room where my wife was, and without asking, just starting sucking me, it felt to good to say STOP.
To this date I have never cum so hard and so much.
She said to me one night "I want to see you suck a dick" I jokingly said "I will only suck a dick if s/he is Trans.
Much to my surprise, three months we went to a Colts football game and got a hotel room. unbeknownst to me, she had set up us with a transgender porn/escort. I lived up to my word. After that, I liked the bi side.
We went 5 years though, before I would post I was bi, I have been shunned, blocked, but at the same time had people who never showed interest before, message me.
I list myself as bi, but I call myself "swinger bi" which means, I don't meet MM only. MMF only, or I hosted a GB bi party once at a hotel, where there were 10 bi men and 4 ladies.

So much easier when the extra male is bi so there isn’t worry about incidental touching and the sex flows easier.

Onelyph,

I agree. I think your stuck on an island.

We just want to be honest with everyone but it didn’t help us finding new friends. It’s just the location we think, there’s so much of great people back on the mainland that we would have loved to meet.

Interest in us easily doubled when I started posting as bi. Most wives love seeing a couple guys swallowing each other just as most guys enjoy watching F/F foreplay. Wife encourages me to hook up with bi couples and single guys, which many cases turn into 3somes for us...

I recently posted my wife as bi which she is. I have considered posting myself as bi curious, which I am if we can meet the right couple. We enjoy same bed and interaction with a nice sexy couple. Since we started swinging we have " come out of our shell," and have had a desire to explore. So it looks here if we use the word bi we will get more inquiries? PM us and help us out here, we welcome your advice.

Good to see it becoming the more in thing to do! Hotter when the women tell us what turns them on........

We have been hosting couples with bi males parties for 20+ years and it is very nice to see more and more couples with bimales on their profiles

Yes Highway, we agree, it seems that the stigma has significantly diminished recently. Of course it could also be that everyone is Covid horny.

Posting as bi now, we get double the inquiries we used to. Some ladies enjoy seeing two guys blowing each other as a turn-on, not to mention the guys enjoying themselves as well. We're very selective who fits our desirability....We've had our most memorable hook ups with hot, bi men .

Saw a definite increase in messages and emails when we changed my status to bi. Much of the interest came from cpls where the husb is listed as straight.
No regrets in status change.

I agree that I have seen more contacts or interest in sharing that the male side of the couple are curious or interested. Even though they post straight, in the private conversations they share their interests. It's cool, if it happens great if not there are two beautiful women to play with!