More couples with Bi men

Straight, bicurious, bisexual, pansexual, etc.
Wish we could just identify as sexual and not worry about labels. Whatever you’re listed as, it comes down to what consenting adults enjoy and who cares what you call it.

I enjoy giving oral in either situation . But I see many list as str8 and play both . I just figure if they are open to it they will ask . It's not a side to choose , I enjoy both maybe they do too ;) can't control what makes you happy.

We are one of those we are both fully bi but list him as straight. Some don’t understand he will play straight and I want to play with woman.

BIO not for you at all.. we have been swingers well over 30 years.. we see more people on SLS flat out lie on profiles about what they do, who they are, and what they want.. dont like surprises anytime!

if some list as straight and you play with them straight, what's the problem? They have respected your bounderies. If they list as straight and reach out to a bi couples and say they want to play bi and all are attracted and play, no problem.

It is no one elses business what anyone else does consensually behind closed doors.

RONKATHY "How about this .. be honest who you are , what you do sexually, including profiles. Those that are not honest and what they enjoy , who they have sex with, and live a lie are the problem."

Can you please be more precise about "the problem" that you speak of?
I'm all for honesty -- as we personally put it right out there, but how about personal responsibility?

How about this .. be honest who you are , what you do sexually, including profiles. Those that are not honest and what they enjoy , who they have sex with, and live a lie are the problem.

Just be honest folks.. its your journey!

Let's all deal with facts. This is not directed at anyone here in particular but, for anyone saying there is a lot of closeted bisexual guys out there having unprotected sex does a disservice, makes a big assumption, helps to propel a myth, and must be put in the context of lifestyle people and the general population at large. Please read on:

The National Institutes of Health reports that their studies show approximately 25% of bisexual men have unprotected sex vs. 46% of women. And the majority of bisexual men are reported to not engage in anal sex or unprotected anal intercourse. The STI prevalence of bisexual men is no higher than the general population of heterosexuals in the USA.

In addition, M. Reuel Friedman, Ph.D., MPH from the University of Pittsburgh’s Graduate School of Public Health and Pitt’s Center for LGBT Research reports: "The total number (not the percentage) with HIV in each population of bisexual and heterosexual men is roughly equal, Friedman says that women who have sex with men are about as likely to encounter a heterosexual HIV-positive man as they are to encounter a bisexual HIV-positive man. Friedman notes that decades of unchallenged assumptions about the behavior of bisexual people — especially bisexual men of color — has created a complicated, multilayered closet that makes being honest about one’s HIV status or sexual orientation difficult. Friedman states, “The context in which bisexual men are discussed in mainstream media has been confined largely to HIV bridging since the advent of the epidemic, so there’s 30 years of this undercurrent that bisexual men are responsible for HIV in women, without other competing social narratives. In my opinion, that meme is very damaging to bisexual men because we have no scientific support for that statement.”

Dr. Herukhuti, a Brooklyn-based cultural studies scholar, sexologist, and educator states, "The way to combat intertwining stigmas is through education and honesty. I think it is important to the process of addressing prejudice against bisexual men and debunking myths, like the bisexual bridge HIV myth, that people learn about more bisexual men — their stories, lives, and experiences.”

"So if being on prep makes others feel safer in there play time then they shouldn't feel like its wrong cause there protecting themselves. And there's plenty of woman on it as well"

I agree. I wish more people, and especially closeted gay/bi guys, would use PrEP.

There's a lot of people out there having unprotected sex, STD's and other things aren't just for the bi and gay community. So if being on prep makes others feel safer in there play time then they shouldn't feel like its wrong cause there protecting themselves. And there's plenty of woman on it as well

"I'm not sure how this doesn't apply to women that enjoy having anal sex with men though, so it's likely most of what you see is personal bias."

There are a lot of closeted bi guys out there having unsafe sex because taking PrEP or screening partners would make it harder for them to sneak around on their wives.

bioptic - "And an answer that doesn't come from personal bias but rather from factuality."

The only issue I see attached to bi men anymore is that some feel between anal sex and being viewed as more promiscuos, there is an increased risk of STDs and HIV specifically from sex with bi men.

I'm not sure how this doesn't apply to women that enjoy having anal sex with men though, so it's likely most of what you see is personal bias.

Biotic we all would get along great

Bioptic....I would love to meet you and your husband!!!

I personally love bisexual males and what they can potentially bring to a threesome. I get extremely turned on by the thought of sharing my husband with another attractive, sexy guy. I don't see the problem that many seem to have with bisexual males. In this day and age there certainly shouldn't be any stigma attached to bisexual males because it is an outdated and misguided notion. I've never been given a fact based answer as to why bisexuality is almost required with us woman -- but it's taboo with our men? And an answer that doesn't come from personal bias but rather from factuality.

Nothing hotter then bi play wether its between to or more guy or us ladies

More guys enjoy MMF's than they admit! Love sensuous couples that both share my cock.......

Luv3wayfun, that's so true! Especially on new profiles. The "straight" guys are always looking at the bi profiles but my favorites are the ones that say " no bi males please " and they reach out anyway.

I’m continually amazed by how many single males listed as straight and couples where the guy is listed as straight keep showing up in the “who’s viewed me” section.
One of the couples listed as him being straight out in California that I played with sure didn’t look that way when he was sucking on me. The only issue I had with them was the time we got together they were in an RV, they were both around 5’ 6” tall, my 6’ 2” was rather cramped in the small bed area they had. I was also having an issue with one of my medications causing my legs to start cramping up which fortunately has been resolved.
At least we did get to play together and there was no judgement on what body part was in which mouth.

Ionsawmill that's great to hear that everyone was so accepting

“ We have always been open about being bi in the lifestyle. More recently we have been open in our daily lives. we Don't flaunt it, but we don't hide it.”

Me too. Bi Visibility Day was September 23rd, and I came out to a lot of my family and friends with a post on Facebook. Everyone was very supportive. A lot of my friends already knew. Some had figured it out on their own.

Calizona, that is amazing. Glad to hear it.

We have always been open about being bi in the lifestyle. More recently we have been open in our daily lives. we Don't flaunt it, but we don't hide it.

Honestly this is definitely one reason this site has been so awesome for us! The forum and people here have been so nice and way more accepting of us being openly bi and curious about playing with the same sex especially for the male half. It hasn’t changed his open sexualness as he’s always been very open about it but being here has allowed him to feel more welcomed to others who are okay and open minded to it as well or enjoy it too!!

Ready..... have you taken any of them up on their offers yet?